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| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InI feel pathetic even making this post, but I’m hoping I can get a healthy reality check. I employed FDS prior to getting into a relationship with my current boyfriend and it worked like a charm. However, now that we are nearing the one year mark I am noticing that he is not being as engaging over text and doesn’t make much of an effort to get back to me in a reasonable amount of time. I have responded by pulling back myself, but is there anything else I should be doing so he stops being complace… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020What/how do you keep up FDS rules/standards after you’re in a relationship? Especially when it’s relatively new (i.e less than a year). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Hi ladies, What is the FDS approach for compliments? Before becoming exclusive with the guy I was seeing, I gave almost no compliments and was very stingy with indicating just how attractive I found him even though he was very flattering towards me. However, now that we’ve established commitment, I’ve began giving him compliments here and there and letting him know how attractive he looks. Is this a bad idea? I’m sure I’m overthinking this, but would love to hear your thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020What is the FDS approach for texts after a date in a relationship? Since our very first date in May till now (one date per week) I have never texted him first afterwards (or ever in general). He has always sent a “it was nice seeing you” text after we had spent time together to which I also echo similar sentiments. He is also the one who initiates any conversation we have over text in between dates. I’m just wondering if I need to sometimes also be the initiator of these post date texts/texts in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Perfect! Seems like this is exactly how he feels :) I went out with an LVM for a few months who would complain that I never expressed interest in wanting to see him unless he asked. This turned me off immensely, just want to point out that guys like that DO exist and I want to avoid them at all costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you! You nailed what I was attempting to ask. I don’t want him to get complacent or take me or my time for granted just because we’re in a relationship now. I want to ensure he keeps up the same effort he was putting in before he got me. I’ve read many posts on here about a guy losing interest or reigning in effort because the girl made up the difference. I naturally let guys work very hard for me and my time, but I also want to be cognizant of the fact that perhaps sometimes I should also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi ladies, Have a quick question regarding dates. It’s my understanding that in the beginning, the man should always be the one reaching out to see me again and planning a date. The guy I’ve been seeing for about two months has always taken the initiative and I have let him. However, he asked me to be his girlfriend two weeks ago and is still the one initiating any time we spend together in person. I also never text first. Should I express interest in wanting to see him first or should I continu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I can’t be sure about anything just yet, but good idea! I was planning on making him wait at least a few more months before having sex regardless to really sus out his motives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I actually asked him about expectations and we both agreed we like the way things are for now. I suppose he just wants exclusivity so we don’t see other people. We have not had sex yet, and he has been very respectful about me wanting to wait. My gut says I like him. Thanks for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Hi ladies, In a bit of a situation here. The guy I’ve been seeing for about two months now (8 dates, once a week) expressed interest in wanting to move to the next step and said he would like me to be his girlfriend. I honestly wasn’t sure how to approach answering this because as much as I like him, I didn’t want to come off as desperate by immediately saying yes because I ideally would like time to process things. I told him I’d think about it and get back to him because I don’t like to rush d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020How to approach answering “if you’re free any time next week, let me know”? Typically the guy I’m seeing will express interest in wanting to see me and then ask me which day I’m free. Is this a good sign? How do I go about answering? I feel a little silly because I’m definitely overthinking this. I’ve been answering this question with a variation of: “Can only do Wednesday or Friday after 5pm”. And then let him plan it from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:14 AM |
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