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You don't LTR a girl who is actively fucking other guys on the side. I don't think she was. Before LTR-ing I tested her a few times telling her "how many guys have you been with?" and "how many other guys are you seeing right now?". I did it in a curious non-mateguarding manner. She always said that I was her 3rd N-count and that she was only seeing me. I believe she was honest. Your right course of action would've been not doing GF things with her if you think it's unfair for her to fuck other …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:38 PM
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I was. I've been doing girlfriend things with her (e.g. long time traveling, meeting each other's families/friends). I expected her to ask for committment but she never did. I brought it up because I felt it was unfair for me to treat her like a girlfriend while she was free to fuck someone on the side. Maybe this LTR was doomed from the start.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:14 PM
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What steps can I take to stop being this needy?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:59 AM
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Insightful post. Other than the famous levels of dread, what are some ways I can show my LTR that I can get women without it feeling forced or without cheating? I ift, have a good job, live on my own, keep texting to a minimum. When we go out we're always on our own and our activities rarely involve us interacting with other attractive women. Any idea?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:45 AM
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I don't get what the slip is. Can you explain?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:20 PM
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Ok, so she's not interested in exclusivity I would say that she's not interested in exclusivity with me. What I am asking is if there is some behavioral change I can make so that she gets interested. While I still look for other options, obviously. May sges just keeping you around until simething better comes along. I'm not doing much differently, I am trying to actively meet new - hopefully better - girls. Shes met your friends, went to your hometown, sleeps at your house etc. Youre way too inv…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:10 PM
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You came here because you didn't want to hear it but it's all over your post. True that I didn't want to hear it, but I always sensed it. The point of this post is: is there anything I can do to make her want exclusivity with me? (Apart from the usual self-improvement things I'm already doing - e.g. gym, career). If there's nothing I can do, I'll keep looking for a better option and keep hanging out with her, trying to fight my overinvestment.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:03 PM
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If you're referring to the arguments, it's been 2-3 in total, not per month. BTW, isn't courting a very beta thing to do?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:59 PM
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I can accept it, but it sucks. I like her and I wish she was more into me. I'll enjoy it while it lasts and try not to dwell on it.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:23 PM
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She's giving me the girlfriend experience as well, I do enjoy both the sex and the companionship. I know that she's probably fucking others, but we never agreed to be exclusive so I can't blame her for that. I just expected her to grow closer to me, but evidently she didn't and won't.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:22 PM
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Apart from fucking her well, I think I'm giving her a good girlfriend experience. We went on fun dates, out for dinner/lunch, stayed in and watched a movie, and so on. I also brought her along to some social events with my friends (e.g. house party), even though she never did that with me. I brought her on a trip to my hometown (stayed at my place for free, but paid for her flight/other things). Going on a trip soon, I did all the planning. Generally we split 50/50 on all expenses. I demand sex …
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:14 PM
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Fair enough. Is there any action I can take to prevent this? I guess that pushing for a LTR would be counterproductive.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:05 PM
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None regularly, had a few ONSs while dating this FWB and trying to get more plates (but recent dates haven't been going well). She is aware I am not exclusive and fucking other women. Anyhow, I do have feeling for this FWB and she's the hottest of the bunch.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:19 PM
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I wouldn't have minded trying an LTR with her, but TRP taught me that they should try to initiate it. She has shown some jealousy in the past (once found an earring from a ONS at my place), but never pushed for exclusivity or told me that she loves me. I always assumed that she should be the first one to make steps towards exclusivity. Can I improve this situation somehow?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:17 PM
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I have fucked other girls while seeing this one, but they've only been ONSs. I actually like this FWB as a person, she's pleasant to be around and we "click". Our last trip was enjoyable. Neither of us is "exclusive", but TRP seems to agree that a woman wants to be exclusive with a man she likes. She has never proposed it, acts like she desires me in person, yet has some red flags as described in the OP. Trying to understand why.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:15 PM
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What do you mean? From our relationship? Or from acting weirdly?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:12 PM
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It's not purely sex nor oneitis. I care about her and it would hurt to stop seeing her, but I acknowledge she's nothing special and that it's just my turn. I assume that these feelings are reciprocal. I mean, it would suck if one of my male friends who I care about wouldn't make an effort to spend time with me as well. Not the end of the world, but it's inhuman to not be bothered.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:11 PM
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I don't mind giving it a go, but this seems silly to me. TRP says that girls do not want to feel like sluts and that they need plausible deniability. Isn't this the exact opposite?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:16 PM
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I'm 24, girls ranging from 19-26. Your success rate seems very good - mind sharing your strategy/bio/pics? (feel free to PM if you don't want to post here)
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:38 PM
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I can send you my pics via DM if you're up for that - would help me understand if looks are an issue. I think I'm average
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:21 PM
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I'm in London
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:15 PM
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I need help defeating instant gratification. I am in a pretty comfortable spot in my life: Good software engineering job; Above-average programming/public speaking skills; Live alone in a major EU city; Finances are good; Lifting regularly. Apart from going to the gym, I have zero motivation to work on anything. I used to work on personal projects a lot in the past, but now I just want to watch videos and masturbate after work. No matter how I look at it, improving myself seems pointless: I don'…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 11:37 PM
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Fair enough. I'm overinvested. I will soft next, if she doesn't contact me when I'm back then that's it
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:45 PM
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Has she brought up The Talk recently? She hasn't, but I think she emotionally felt attached to me at one point. I had to travel for work at the beginning of this month, she asked me "how long are you staying there?" after sex, I jokingly told her "maybe forever if I like the place"... and she started tearing up. I asked her what was wrong and she said that even if I was joking that made her feel very sad. only in it for sex and is slowly losing attraction. I think she's losing attraction, but it…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:36 PM
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Why is sex so important for you? I'm successful in all areas of life except sex. I've grown up seeing my friends effortlessly get girls while I was a virgin until 22 (I'm 24 now). Despite having a great job, good friends, and living independently I feel I won't ever be happy unless I know I can have sex whenever I want and I know I am sexually desired. What is your nc? 7 - 5 ONSs, 1 LTR, and the girl of the post
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:24 PM
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I won't. Read the last block, and the first one if you want context. The middle is basically FR.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:21 PM
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