voidvoices Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	Why divorce rates initiate by woman are so high, even on lesbian marriages?	Question For Women	voidvoices	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 09:24 PM
7	Why alot women use sex in long term relationships like “weapon”?		voidvoices	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here say People who think they are above studies and statistics are simple delusional and entitled. Unfortunately is impossible to have any conversation with anyone who denys reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 02:15 AM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Like i expect, dead silence. One day i will find someone who will tell me good experience of hooking up. Men and women who defend hooking up just have lack of self control over their desires. Is that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:44 AM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only So are you saying that your own opinion has more value than study realized with thousands of womens over the decades? I am the one with low IQ. Ok. Happiness of men and women are on all time low. Before women was more happy than men, today they are less happy than men, based on study. They are wasting money with those type of things. Lets hire you, so you can determine the society situation by your own. Thats what is called being delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:30 AM
5	If women wanted marriage and commitment only If i tell you i am the president of the united states, this will be the reality? Ofc not. This will even change anything? Blows my mind you guys thinking statistics has less value than your own opinion. The entitlement is insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 01:21 AM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only You think my opinion or your opinion matters more than group of professional studying bigger pool of people and gathering statistics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:34 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only We are having conversation, every time someone told me having hook ups is experience i ask them what good experience they got from hooking up, coincidentally no one give me a response of good experience. Since i asked you that, i will repeat. Whats good experience did you get hooking up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:33 PM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only What someone tells you dont have anything to do with reality. I rather stick on statistics than what someone says. I can tell you i am super strong, but in reality i cannot lift that much weight, no matter how good i am to say that statement. I think we all can agree society is getting more sick by the years, especially mentally and in the west. Statistics dont lie, like humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:31 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only If women or guy hook up 1x and hook up 35x, what type of “experience” they will have, if not more mental traumas and lack of attachment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:29 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Advocating for having family and being religious is the new hippie/punk of the society we live in. Get to the point that i saw people making fun of others being loyal (“but everyone cheats”). Its quite disgusting to be honest, at least is easier to see who you should avoid, if someone cheat your partner, you cant do anything with them, because they will cheat in every aspect of life. What i men with that? I mean one huge factor of all this we face now is the narrative, if not, the biggest one,	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:27 PM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only This is being west problem. Bunch of other countries are doing fine. Its almost like all this is on purpose and mostly of people are too blind to see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:22 PM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Instead of listening to each individual, we should look into statistics. Theres studies showing the less happy group of people are older women, especially singles. I think it only show statistically when they get older, because the attention spam they get from men on daily basis drop to the levels of young guys, so they become invisible, just like younger men, but the difference is because they tasted before how it is, in another hand, those young invisible men never tasted and still has long li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:15 PM
8	Dating is easier for women and it's men's fault Casual sex show lack of self control, simple like that. OG feminism would be ashamed of womens today saying promiscuity equals women power, kind of the opposite to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 10:03 PM
2	Dating is easier for women and it's men's fault Womens are complaining more and more of men not approaching them and not paying for drinks. Also, passport bros are on all time high. I think sometimes the consequences comes slow, but they come, all of this are signs of change. All my personal friends dont pay for dates or drinks anymore, looking like 10 years ago, was the opposite.. I think with the advance of AI, almost all those lonely and insecure men who simp for women or simply refuse to have standards will go straight to AI girls (cheape…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 10:01 PM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life Bunch of mens traveling overseas to marry someone and start family reinforcing your statement that alot of them just want family. Still with that, women still think regular joes are like the 5% on top, only wanting to pump and dump. Theres research showing 50% of womens admitting they go out on date just to eat, looks like percentage of men also want short interaction to fill their desires too. Both are wrong, but i dont see men creating posts and complaining about women going out just to eat (l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:58 PM
–	Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of men Since women have “checklist” for partners bigger than men and are more selective based on pre qualifications, this didn’t make mostly of their relationships based on interest and not on “love”? I think the true love of mostly women are with their childrens. In the end, men are the romantic ones?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 07:13 PM
1	The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own gender Definitely theres huge difference on this aspect in both genders. Depending of the crime, guy will be punished in jail by other males. I never heard of same thing happening in female cells. Mostly of guys will not have problem calling their friends fat (when they get fattier) or loser (when they did something bad). Not for all, but for alot of them, this kinda of thing is what they want, genuine and honest friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 12:11 AM
2	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. I am the older of my brothers and i took care of almost all of them. I was basically 2nd dad in alot situations, so i kinda of experienced little bit how it is to have “kids”. In my opinion is the OPPOSITE of narcissistic (word highly overused in my opinion), it is putting other lives before your own, to have empathy that you was at same age and stage and you understand their frustrations and problems. Whats technically the opposite of narcissistic? Empathy, you literally took one of the most be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 12:06 AM
1	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? Nobody is forcing you to eat anything, since you agreed women are overwhelmed by wide array of options (all bad, based on what you said), we can both agree is just matter of time until they find good one (this is relative too, today alot woman think great partner is the one who have money and good looking, i barely see any woman talking about mens with moral, respect, kindness etc, its kinda of the opposite). If someone is giving to me, shit ton of foods with good looking containers, but all loo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 11:47 PM
4	Divorce is Contagious What do you expect from a society who thinks living with your parents being adult is lame and sleeping around is empowering? And this comes from someone who left parents house without any help at age 17… Since social media, woman happiness been on downfall. I think this relates too. Alot of relationships, the partner think the other part is the one who need to make they happy, so if the amount of woman unhappy increases, probably amount of unhappy woman putting the blame on their ex also increas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 11:24 PM
2	Why are women allowed to have needs but men are always not entitled to a relationship? OP is probably comparing him and his male friends with female friends. Theres huge difference in relationships and also just hook up between guy and girl, both at SAME AGE of 18 years old. Unfortunately, what are you facing (being invisible), woman will only understand by age. This is not red pill or anything like that. Statistics show that only thing under 18-25 males, are old single females, they became invisible, like mostly of young guys. You are probably virgin. Society is on all time high …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 11:13 PM
9	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? Thinking men had few matches, but good ones, instead of having chance of those being bad, like the ones who woman get, is being delusional. Idk if you have any idea, but regular joes are getting 0 matches. 66% of men between 20-25 are single, 33% of women are, yes, alot women are sharing mens and thinking all or mostly are trash. Lets go with your supermarket analogy, both are hungry (m and w), both are shopping, women have dozen of options and she can get all of those cereals, but she doesn’t l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 12:23 PM
9	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? Its extremely hard to debate with someone who denies reality. I will explain again direct and simple, if you want something and you had alot options (including good and bad), put you in better position than someone with nearly 0 options? Yes or no? One side is like going to shopping, overwhelmed by the amount of choices. Other side is like job interview, if you do or say something, can mess everything. this visual video maybe help you to understand. woman tried mens profile at tinder and admit i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 11:59 AM
8	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? I dont ignore your point, i just dont give answer that you like. I can use another analogy instead of food, lets say you are looking to buy your first car, you know some cars are better looking and cheaper, other cars are more expensive and “boring”, nobody pays attention etc. you will choose your car based on criterias that you had. Your point is basically “no matter how hard i try, or what i choose, the outcome is always same, men are trash”, which is not true, you had the privilege to choose …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 11:43 AM
8	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? No, i think thats you missing the point. You stated they have equal problems (I highly disagree, even if the scenarios are different, having EQUAL PROBLEMS, means they have same opportunities and outcomes, which is far from true). Are you listing problems women have AFTER they match. If she is reserved, have patience and minimum self respect, she will not be pumped and dumped, she will not be treated bad after start dating. Red flags for both sides are all available, if you choose your partner b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 11:24 AM
53	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? We are both hungry and looking for food. One side it’s overwhelmed by the choices and cant decide what dish is better. The other side is equally hungry but dont get any food. He cant choose, he just eat what is provided. How both have equally hard problems? Theres some woman who create male dating apps and tried to match and date woman. They got reality check and admitted its way harder to even initiate simple conversation, so them can check the vibe of the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 08:15 AM
–	It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these days Some people do crazy amounts of gymnastics just to avoid admitting the opposite gender get easier at certain topics. Not sure if is just dishonest or mental problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 08:10 AM
0	I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was nice “You should be nice, but not too nice!” I swear, wtf? I NEVER seem any friend or any guy saying “i lost interest in that girl, because she was too nice”, but i already saw couple woman saying that. Make this makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 08:36 PM
–	Why do men push for 50/50 relationship when women find most men unattractive? Maybe because this is the truly mean of EQUALITY? You can ask for equality and cherry pick what you want to be equal and what you dont want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 10:54 AM
1	Women's attraction based on career and income is weird. Did you know how you treat jobs? You put things on list (how far from home, how much pays, how hard it is, etc). Women normally treat relationships like that, again, normally, not all. Theres phrase that says “women like what they hear, thats why alot men lies and men like what they see, thats why women uses makeup”. I personally think both ones (men liking women by looks and women liking men by what they say) show what kind of personality they had and normally they don’t catchy my attention eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 10:48 AM
1	Do you think most men don’t have a type ? Unfortunately men in general are not only very lonely and invisible, they also have lack of self control over sex, maybe related to the 2 first symptoms, maybe not. When you are starving you dont care much what is inside the sandwich. Theres studies showing 63% of men under 30 in 2023 are single without sex, when you compare to woman’s is almost half of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 07:16 AM
7	Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating. White woman already does this, especially in Africa. I think the womans OP are pointing are also angry because men are leaving to find wifes, but no man are traveling US to find wives, we all know why this not happen, even with possibilitiy of VISA etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 07:11 AM
2	The story 'She made me wait almost 4 years for sex but slept with him' is proof why blue pill nice guys who say they arent a misogynist, are the biggest misogynists Why this amount of rage? Someone hurt you like the guy you are mentioning get hurt? If yes, i hope you heal. Kinda of sadistic calling someone “simpage” and “weak ass” for liking their partner, devoting 4 years of his life and getting dumped for a chad who probably dont care more about his ex than 1 night stand. I feel bad for all of them, the guy and the girl being delusional. The only “winer” is the chad, but even him is not actually winning hooking up with random girls and damaging himself mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 09:37 AM
1	“try on hauls” are just ways for women to show pornographic videos to minors on youtube. This is the same as men flashing their dicks in front of kids. These women should be on sex offender lists and thrown in jail. I know society been increasing and also incentivizing sexuality, based on daily bases and friends comments. I never had social media and i try to decide to do one experiment. I created brand new instagram, 0 follows, 0 searches. After creating i did go to the “random” pics/videos, showed alot of food and woman almost naked, i know something like this would happen, but not without me looking. Maybe if i really force the algorithm following certain things, like animals, the algorithm MAYBE will st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 09:26 AM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? Theres something called Halo Effect, where attractive people get more advantages just for being attractive. Both genders benefit from this, but since men have more libido and are more likely to be lonely, i think women take more advantage of the Halo Effect. The guy under posted, actually men get more advantages, but the study should go deeper and analyze skills, worked hours etc of all participants and not only looks x position. I talked about other scenarios too, where theres no discussion tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 08:34 AM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? Im not even mentioning over the years alot companys are hiring more woman than men to reach quotes. I have friend who did internship into business tech and the company got 20 interns, 18 W and 2 M, thats crazy difference. Like i said, the list goes on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:32 PM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? You dont think certain woman can get a job instead of another less attractive woman or any guy if the boss is a simp or regular guy with intentions on her? Not talking about all woman, but attractive woman have more power to persuade than one attractive guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:22 PM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? This probably even extend to other areas too, not only partnership, but also employment preferences, being more protective in case of danger, court cases, the list goes on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:15 PM
2	4b movement isn’t so bad You think men does this things with woman because they are stronger? Doing bad things specifically is related to gender? I will add one information to my question. Did you know mostly of violence towards children are due by females? I think this statistic reinforces my statement, humans tend to harm and imposes force when they are stronger than the victim, regardless sex gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 09:18 AM
1	The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is... The people i like more to talk are older ones (man and woman), there it is the knowledge and real juice of life, not the little bullshit of younger people. Men: no value, them starting to have value above 29, rate of single men between 18-29 is 51%, insane. Woman: born with alot of value, decrease by years, woman with 65+ are 49% single. So men born alone and woman die alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 06:15 PM
0	Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations? Agree about woman taking more sun voluntarily, but are not more men taking sun involuntary without protection on works under the sun? Woman are more likely to have office job and those under the sun jobs are filled with mostly males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 08:17 AM
-1	Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations? Probably using 3 layers of chemicals on face EVERYDAY ages you more than that. Those makeups are not “natural”, they’re almost all heavy chemicals. Not sure about other guys, i heard couple saying the same, but, woman without make > with make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 08:13 AM
–	Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too high I made this post raising a question, why the disparity between single men and woman between 18-29? What they are doing? Why would anyone will refuse to have relationship or friendship with anyone bc of his job if its not job harming others and is actually fair job? I think this screams about the individual. Thats also the reason why people dont care about elders, on alot of societys view, they have no value, but when we analyze tribes and some places they are the ones more respectable. “Its not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 07:35 AM
–	Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too high Man leveling up will just put them on those percents of highly desired men (mostly by awful things like looks, status or money) and will not actually fix anything, just change seats. I am the only one who see 51% single mens between 18-29 compared to 32% of woman? What are the others womans are doing if they are not single and “balancing” the males on same age range? Either: dating older guys, much older to the point the are in another pool; sharing same guys (mostly likely); dating other girls?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 07:08 AM
1	Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship? For me its crazy that human beings (M, F, etc) have different views and goals on relationships. In the past, especially on bad times (wars, revolutions, plagues etc), both, M and W has same goals and also get stronger together, in today’s world sounds like both sides think the other one is the enemy, when in reality nobody pay attention for the corporations and government working together to squeeze us all. Sad, but i think the ones with higher probability to pass trough tough times and “survive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 10:58 AM
3	Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship? Its generally age choices. When woman had bunch of options (younger), they normally prefer to hook up and accumulate body counts, when reality hits hard, when they get older, thats when they generally look for settling down. Theres no coincidence we all know a woman who been with “bad guy” and says: “i can change him”, but not the other way around. All guys that i know will not settle for “bad girl” trying to change her. Its also crazy how M and F preferences are almost the opposite. Guy with hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 09:25 PM
1	Men who regularly do the dumping are high value. Replys just show the clear double standards between M and W on same scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 03:29 PM
3	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Jesus, OP and some people here are just showing you WHY is extremely important to have prenup if you are thinking to get into contract with chance of being broken by 50% of the times and 75% by the other part. Women looking for “provider”, “someone to pay” and all this maybe are not redflag for guy trying to have some fun, but are definitely red flags for guys looking for partner for life, family etc. Are you literally saying your partner should do more for you because of your feelings (unhappin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 02:34 AM
1	Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single. I dont agree much with your post. Its not just because those standards are unrealistic (idk about you, but 6 figures, 6 feet, 6 pack is unrealistic), for me is more because is huge turn off someone “liking” you because of those conditions, lets say i make 6 figures and i am fit with 6 pack, so i reach 2 of those standards, pass some years and i am not making 6 figures anymore or not have my 6 pack anymore, that lady who is with me, will probably ask for separation or divorce, getting inside the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:51 PM
1	Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single. The fact that men are going overseas to find partner but the opposite is not happening (men overseas coming to US to marry american women) doesn’t show that quality of woman in the east is better than the west? Theres statistics proving your point, that is easier for women to have sex than men, but also statistics show more than 50% of women will be single in couple of years. I think if we talk about generalities, we can agree is more “normal” to seen men settling for less than women settling fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:29 PM
2	Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in life Having relationship or interest in someone based solely on looks says more about the person than we all think. If someone is with you because you are “hot”, they will drop in a blink when you get older or change your appearance. Personality rules looks and always will, unless you are trying to hook up for life instead of finding partner to share life. If men says “woman need to be this, do this or that”, he will be flagged as misogynistic and trying to dictate how women should live. Your post di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:09 AM
2	Non-promiscuous guys that want a non-promiscuous partner We should use this same logic for 666 woman preference? (6 figures, 6 pack, 6 feet) Would be nice to have good personality partner, with 6 figures, fit and tall, but i would be delusional if i think this its the “standard”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 08:39 AM
3	Non-promiscuous guys that want a non-promiscuous partner Bc he is probably regular joe, like mostly of men. Dating pool for regular joe is way different than average woman. If woman is below standard and want to hookup or date someone, she can literally find anywhere, if she goes to bar for example, she can even choose. Ofc for woman time is heavier than men, theres some actresses (still very good looking) who got older and complained not getting more attention from men. So i think is wise for a woman to find good partner instead of hooking up, but if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 08:36 AM
-2	What are your guys views on "entitlement" of sex in marriage? I think the big issue in alot of relationships is wifes using sex like weapon. Didn’t do what i want? No sex, etc. This happened couple of times in my past relationship and alot with friends. Every woman is different and some uses this on daily basis and others just sometimes. I think both are disgusting using basic needs (sex is love language for alot of people) for their own benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 06:29 PM
1	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. Mostly not only use make ups, they also use filters. Older they are, more they will try to hide with makeup or filters. Personally i like way more women without make up or very minimal. I bet for the long term this dont make good for your body too, since you are using unnatural thing’s directly at your face on daily bases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 05:39 PM
2	Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men? I heard alot women saying they prefer stay alone than settle with average. Welcome to 2023 in the west. Looks like the rest of the world is still normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:10 AM
2	Why alot women use sex in long term relationships like “weapon”? B. Who is saying emotions are irrational is you, i think we all have emotions, we are all humans, M and W ofc have emotions, the point is, if i hit something and my tire is flat, being angry and cursing my car will solve the problem? No, changing my tires or calling someone to change will solve the problem and you dont need to get angry to do both, actually being angry doing both will probably decline performance and success. Maybe bc i am “exception” but mostly of people dont have self control …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:57 AM
1	Why alot women use sex in long term relationships like “weapon”? A: I understand that and me and some mens feel the same, if we are mad at their partner we will reject sex or do just for the partner and don’t actually enjoy. Thats was not the point of my post, i make new questions; B: So you agreed women tend to be more emotional than rational in moments of stress? If yes, you think this is better approach for her, her partner and both as whole? C: You are generalizing, i never agrees with generalization. But big part of male society tends to not reject sex, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 02:40 AM
2	Why alot women use sex in long term relationships like “weapon”? I think i was not clear with my post, since alot of people didn’t understand some points, so i will rephrase some: 1 - why some women uses “cutting sex” as FIRST option when they deal with problem? Instead of talking or solving the problem in another way? Another thing i noticed, is being avoidant, so its not only cutting sex, is being avoided too; 2 - If woman does this before talking to guy, she is being manipulative? For some people, love sign is touching (sex etc), for others is caring etc. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 02:28 AM
-13	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. Who hurt you? Omg. I dont plan to have kids, but i dont think being present with your kid is “duty”, if i had one, i would enjoy being present with him. Like how i enjoy being present with my family, friends and pets that i had in the past. Maybe i am wrong and you are right. But i see alot “stay at home” moms, actually enjoying doing all that and being happier than the womens who shame them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 07:22 AM
–	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. “Yours is ours, mine is mine” Someone	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 07:16 AM
15	Western Women are the luckiest My friend did internship and he told me of 20 interns, 18 was woman. He told me his company (big one) have certain rules to contract X amount of woman and Y amount of immigrants. So basically immigrant woman is almost certainly to get the spot. Rate of 18/2 woman and men is crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 11:23 AM