volavi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	Take your time		volavi	/r/seduction	19/05/19 09:01 PM

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3	Field report Friday (pull) How much do you think your first sets failed because you weren't warmed up yet? Or do you have warm-up sets before?	/r/seduction	29/11/25 11:43 AM
19	Push or pull? If a woman wants you to chase her she will make herself available to you. She will be in close proximity. In this situation she has done the opposite: she has asked for space and created distance between you. The short answer is: move on. The likelihood that she wants to be chased after clearly stating she doesn't is zero.	/r/seduction	16/09/25 11:56 AM
20	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? Either because one of the two catches feelings and want more, or because one of the two finds someone that gives them both sex and emotional connection, and they lose interest.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 08:04 PM
18	3 Best Tinder Bios Nothing's say "I'm beta" more than writing "I'm dominant" in your bio	/r/seduction	02/05/25 09:43 AM
3	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? It's just that at this stage they don't know if they will want yet. They have an interest. But maybe the guy comes over and.. acts weird. Or smells bad. Or the vibe is horrible. So they want to see first, and then if everything is nice they will go from interest to arousal. So tell him? But tell him what? "I might want sex at some point, I have no idea". Saying that may change the way the guy behaves. He might take it for granted that there will be sex and may act even weirder, making moves when…	/r/seduction	28/04/25 06:23 AM
1	[deleted by user] Wouldn't you feel great to know that the girl you are into is getting wet just chatting with you? Embrace it, if she likes you she will like you even more.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 02:51 PM
1	What do you think of this? Of course it's a better scenario, but OP situation is where OP have been friend-zoned. Fucking her is no longer an option at that point, unless you are a rapist or completely delusional. What remains is abandoning or turning her into a pivot. If you have played your cards right, and that means reading the signs of disinterest and not escalating ad nauseum, her friends will know something along the lines of "slickshark seemed nice but I was more into [whoever] at the time". Girls don't obsess ove…	/r/seduction	03/11/19 08:06 PM
2	How do you separate a girl from her friend or sibling? By the book	/r/seduction	08/07/19 09:21 PM
7	Don't make this mistake like I did ... Oneitis! Move on, you will find your one. Even if it's the next one.	/r/seduction	29/06/19 10:40 AM
2	How did you get better at sex? 7 is absolutely right. Girls absolutely love when guys take control and move them around. Makes them feel very feminine. They hate when guys ask them "so huh what's your favorite position?". Just fuck them the way you want.	/r/seduction	15/06/19 11:47 PM
1	Turning things sexual So you know what's going on and you are anxious. Let's work an your anxiety. She is obviously into you, and she is now wondering why you haven't made a move. If you don't do it soon, she will conclude that you are not interested and she will move on. I know where you come from with anxiety, so take it easy. Make moves that you are comfortable with to start with: maybe just touch her shoulder or the back of her elbow when you talk to her, as if you were trying to get her attention. Facing away, a…	/r/seduction	09/06/19 05:56 PM
4	Take your time Let's distinguish attraction and connection. You can be attracted to someone without having any connection with them. For instance, a cute girl whom you have never talked with. And conversely, you can have great connection with someone without being attracted to them, for instance with your best friends. Most girls needs to feel both before they want to have anything with a guy. From what you say, it looks like you are very good at attracting girls — which is great, since the majority of guys ar…	/r/seduction	20/05/19 07:02 PM
5	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went Yeah absolutely. The question/answer is really just a pretext, so what you say isn't very important, and neither is what she answers. Body language and smiling is much more important. Everytime you ask her something, you offer a short window where both of you have an excuse to get closer, escalate, then release. Once you are confident she is into you, and she feels comfortable with you around, find an excuse to go away from the dancing floor. She may refuse. She will either flat out say no, and …	/r/seduction	05/05/19 03:33 PM
–	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went Ok detailed guide time. You can't really talk, so don't focus too much on that. Look at her, smile and say "hi!". Speak loud. If she isn't facing you, put your hand on her shoulder to get her attention. Now wait. Look at the body language. Is she turning to you, smiling and saying hi back? That's good. If she is not, then either she didn't notice you, or she isn't interested. Try again/move on. If she is interested, then wait a bit more, then ask her: "are those your friends?" while this time pu…	/r/seduction	05/05/19 03:07 PM
–	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went Replace grind with other local dance move when traveling. Grinding with a girl who wants to salsa dance will not get you very far ;) What's those two first? Really? I feel I have a lot more success when im with a few female friends, dancing around me, and joking with them, than when I'm by myself.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 02:44 PM
3	How to initiate physical touch when she's sitting across me? Thank you :)	/r/seduction	27/04/19 08:51 PM
–	How to initiate physical touch when she's sitting across me? You are focusing on the wrong part. Sitting in front, you are clearly not in a good position to touch her, so no rush. Also, the fact that she prefers this setting hints that maybe she needs a bit more time. So in that setting, first focus on the vibe. Create a pleasant vibe where she feels she can be herself. A fun vibe, without being a clown either. A few jokes is enough. Make her feel like she loves spending time with you, because of that fun/pleasant ambiance you create. Listen to her when s…	/r/seduction	27/04/19 03:16 PM