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I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I posted a breakup survival guide a little while back. It’s on my profile if you’re interested. Keep in mind that it will get easier and better with each day that goes by. Sending you online hugs. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:35 PM
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Agreed. What I liked about this post was the fact that she’s done and looking to move on from this dirtbag. I’ve been seeing so many god awful posts this week and it’s refreshing to see someone who’s made it out of the fog. This is a reminder that it’s never too late for a new beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:05 PM
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Felt this in my bones. And like always, the dusties are P I S S E D 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:01 PM
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She’s been a passenger on the gaslight express for so long, it’s going to take some kind of divine intervention to get her away from this guy. No joke. Everyone, and I mean everyone is begging her to wake up. She’s having none of it. I honestly can’t tell which is worse, her OP, or her responses in the comments. This woman is in DEEP. I’m talking brainwashed, mouth full of koolaid, in another dimension, deep. Light a candle and say a prayer, because she’s in God’s hands now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:47 PM
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Omg the irony here plays out like a scene in an early 2000’s sitcom, doesn’t it? Unfortunately, that was the only funny part about this post. Because the husband and MIL are atrocious. On the bright side, she’s getting plenty of support in the comments. Hubby and mommy dearest are getting flamed. Warmed my heart to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:30 PM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:59 PM
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That’s a great point. I agree, lvm treat the gym like their personal playground. You can spot them from a mile away. They’re aggressive and obnoxious. The outfits are even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:51 PM
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This is vile. And look, he made a little illustration next to the (only) A+ he gave her on “Support”. How romantic. That’s probably a life-size rendition too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:36 PM
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Donald Trump, anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:16 PM
203

Yeah totally. If you ask me, the roids are probably having a field day on his cognitive abilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:52 PM
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Ha! This made my day. Teamwork makes the dream work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:04 PM
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Right! To be honest, I usually don’t like to be approached at the gym at all. It can get pretty awkward if you have to see someone again after rejecting them. But for the most part, the guys will be respectful about it. It’s the arrogant / persistent ones that get under my skin. No means no. It’s a simple concept that too many dudes just don’t seem to comprehend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:02 PM
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This! ⬆️⬆️ I say it all the time. The men who complain the most about gold diggers, are the ones who can’t afford them. They’ll support ANY trope as long as it shames women, and simultaneously paints them as the victims. Bunch.Of.Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:14 PM
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Ever since I learned about the “5 love languages,” something about it just never sat right with me. This explains so much. I think the whole concept is pretty dumb. Personally, I like... all of them?? Picking one or two out of the list, and then identifying with them as your “preferential”treatment in relationships, is strange to me. My wants and needs will always fluctuate during the course of a relationship. Someone correct me if I’m just misunderstanding the notion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:02 PM
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She’s going for that “humble brag” but all it takes is some life experience, to notice the insecurity. Sis, him choosing to date you after a series of relationships with white women, doesn’t mean you’re better. And it doesn’t mean he’ll swear off blondes for the rest of his life now. He wasn’t lost in a raging sea of white women, until your beacon of exoticism guided him to safety. Most people are not exclusively attracted to one race or demographic. Beautiful women are born all around the world…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:05 PM
127

They’ll convince themselves that she’ll still want him if he’s built like a pencil, as long a he’s tall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:24 PM
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Men know it’s degrading, in fact that’s part of the appeal. They also envy the women who get rich from selling their pictures, while simultaneously enjoying their content and feeding the demand. But you know, men are the logical sex. (Madonna-whore complex sound familiar?) Most men are cowards. They couldn’t handle the societal scrutiny from being a sex worker. (The same scrutiny they apply to women). They’re “not gay” so it wouldn’t be possible for them. (Sure you’re not, Rick). There’s a reaso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:11 PM
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“How many women can say they’re THIS real?” 🤪🤡 Well I must be a figment of my own imagination then. Do these girls even hear themselves sometimes? Help him raise his affair baby, you love him right? Don’t be fake! FUCK OUTTA HERE 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:30 PM
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“But society gives women more privileges then men!” “Sexism and the patriarchy aren’t real. Those concepts were made up by the feminists!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:27 PM
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THIS RIGHT HERE is the way to handle misogyny, and the systemic devaluation of women and girls. Wanna see how quickly men will get their shit together? Breed an entire generation of women who refuse to put up with any more bullshit. The trash will inevitably take itself out, by natural selection. ✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:37 PM
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Such a QUEEN ✨👑 She’ll always be missed 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:37 PM
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Here are types of men who complain about gold diggers: The ones who cannot afford them. The ones who knowingly seek them out, while simultaneously victimizing themselves to the rest of the world, when things inevitably go south. Bonus points when either of those archetypes exist within an insecure, middle aged, man who prefers women in their late teens - early 20’s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:25 PM
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The teacher who took it upon themselves to alter the girls’ pictures is a woman. The internalized misogyny is glaringly obvious. Topped off with a sprinkle of jealousy and a dash of insecurity, there you have it. I hope the parents raised hell on the school’s admin. Let’s see if she still feels bold enough to do it again next year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:41 PM
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Yup, entitlement at it’s finest. I’ve heard so many horror stories about seeking and other sugaring sites. It’s crawling with a bunch of old, broke, and horny losers, looking to exchange their personal sob stories for free nudes. It’s appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:23 PM
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The hard truth is that at it’s core, gold-digging is a mutually beneficial exchange. Ironically men, specifically the ones who don’t have a lot of money, don’t like this fact. In a traditional SB / SD relationship, you see an older, usually unattractive man, with money. And a much younger beautiful woman, with less money. The man provides the woman with material things in exchange for her company. Both parties are “benefiting” from this arrangement in their own ways. But more often than not, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:04 PM
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Everyone in the comments, including other Muslim women are telling her to head for the hills. He’ll flip the moment they’re married, and she becomes “his property”. I hope she keeps reaching for the light and leaves this monster before it’s too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:19 PM
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Yikes, the men get worse starting from right to left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:15 PM
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Ha! What a joke. Good call making him your ex. Can’t even be bothered to put some effort into his deception. Smh 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:11 AM
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Absolutely. I didn’t even get into the ethics of it all. It’s scary how many people can lie about something so personal, like it’s nothing. And yeah she was deep in the sunk cost fallacy for a while there. Also, the trauma bonding in response to the abuse. I’ve been in that headspace before too. Not fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:06 AM
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I’m not vegan and I think you’re right. One of my friends is vegan and recently got out of a nasty relationship. The dude was horrific, I won’t even get into it. Basically everything started to unfold when she found out that he would eat meat while out with his friends, and in general when she wasn’t around. Several people warned her about what a huge red flag that was, myself included. On the other hand, she thought they could work through it, and it would “get better” for them. Unfortunately, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:30 PM
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Yeah, he definitely wants to bang the friend. If he hasn’t already. Splitting living expenses 50/50 with a pseudo-husband, who makes 4X her salary. She’s getting had, big time. She better wake up soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:25 AM
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She really thinks she’s doing something with the “ would you rather them have an affair with a coworker or see a provider “, argument. Like for every relationship, it’s one or the other. Um... how about NO. 🙂 He can either choose to be faithful or he can choose to be single. Up to him. So please spare us the gaslighting, and misogynistic, bar-is-in-hell nonsense. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:38 PM
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Losers always wanna threaten us with a good time. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:02 PM
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Engaged for 5 years and he’s milking the old “ball & chain” trope online, a few months before the wedding. How romantic! 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:56 AM
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Let’s see... I can cross both the “Sensitive” guy, AND the Narcissistic gym bro off the list! It feels really good to be single y’all. Lord, please deliver us from these clowns. Amen. 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:40 PM
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Yes, because we all know that a proper lady must NEVER leave the house during her menstrual cycle. In fact, it’s best if she wraps herself very tightly in several layers of heavy blankets and maxi pads. Like a period burrito. She should NOT move around until her cycle is over, lest she inconvenience the rest of humanity with her bleeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:30 PM
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Oh I agree completely. The entire post and his other responses gave off major “I’m a controlling abuser” energy. It’s amazing how far losers like him will go, in order to justify their ridiculous behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:20 PM
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A quick look at the abysmal depths of male ignorance toward the female anatomy: I read a post where a man was looking for assistance in settling a recent dispute between him and his wife. She wanted to enroll in a gym membership, he was completely against it. He stated that his opposition was mainly due to “financial issues”. Logically, some of the responses were suggesting that they look into smaller, less expensive gyms. Pointing out that a few may offer memberships for as low as $10 a month. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:26 AM
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Girls are also scrutinized for the same behaviors that boys are usually praised for. They don’t just get a pass, oftentimes they flat-out get rewarded. We grow up on tough love, while the boys are coddled. This kind socialization has encouraged the rampant sense of entitlement, and lack of empathy that we see in most men today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:27 PM
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If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that there’s nothing a woman can do to make a man stay. He’ll stay as long as he chooses to. She needs to wisen up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:45 PM
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We live longer lives without them too. They die sooner without us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:42 PM
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Oh girl, I hope you didn’t drop what you were doing to go help him. If he had your son in the car while he was stranded, for sure, I get it. But your baby boy was already safe inside his school. And you say your ex is a narcissist? You’re a much better person than I am. I’ll leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:24 PM
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Projection at it’s finest. According to this, a lady that’s home minding her own damn business, is “single & lonely”. So the guy who’s lurking around, drawing up battle plans for his late-night DMs, is... what exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:53 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve certainly noticed a shift in mental health awareness within the past couple of years. It’s great to see an upward trajectory. However, it’s true that a lot of therapists aren’t well trained in recognizing narcissistic behavior. Which is why couple’s counseling is never recommended with an abusive partner. It’s also important to take the time to do some research on a potential therapist or counselor. Ask them the right questions up front, etc. The more we know, the better we do. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah it’s all part of a systematic societal issue. The whole: “men are visual, women are caregivers” nonsense, plays a role in this mindset. The “ideal” woman must always look good, and have a nurturing disposition. Thankfully with each passing generation, more women are coming out of the fog. Patriarcal and misogynistic ideology are what created the toxic notions about women that we see today. They’re made to exclusively serve men. Thanks, I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:11 PM
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Yes, education is key. And by that I mean, education among the general population. Making mental health awareness a mainstream topic, to the point that it becomes common knowledge. Individual self love and healthy self-esteem practices are invaluable, no arguments there. But the only way to create and maintain them, is by understanding their significance in life and relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:54 PM
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Sex Ed and relationship curriculums are practically nonexistent here in the US. Most of us will thrust ourselves into the dating pool, with our hands bound to our feet. So logically, many of us will fall prey to abusive and predatory behavior. I think it’s incredibly important that we normalize teaching our students about mental health (self esteem, boundaries, etc). It should be part of the regular curriculum, just like anatomy or biology. I majored in psychology and was assigned very little ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:10 PM
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Exactly. It’s proof that most men suffer from entitlement. They’re brought up to feel like they deserve it all. Women on the other hand... we’re taught to “humble” ourselves. To lower our expectations. Fuck that noise. Worst guy I ever got involved with, was the ugly guy from high school. He marketed himself as an “intelectual” and “not like other guys”. He knew how to treat women. In reality, he was a complete monster, both inside and out. He finally left me alone after they served him with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:43 PM
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“Why are you always trying to pick a fight?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:51 PM
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ALL OF THIS Emphasis on number 3. By putting in the right work, anyone can recover from the trauma that results from dating losers like this guy. But time spent being anxious and miserable in a relationship, cannot be reconciled. Treat your time like the valuable commodity that it is. And become besties with your intuition. It’s never wrong. I hope this poor girl does the same, because those alarm bells are ringing loud AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:42 PM
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Yeah! Nothing more than a prop. Safety decor, if you will. It almost looked like he would’ve considered letting the guy in, had she not decided to assert herself. After all, he just wanted a quick hello...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:44 AM
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I love to see it. Fuck that “now’s not a good time” shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:11 PM
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The silver lining with this one? She actually came to her senses. I see way to many posts like this where the victim is so far down the gaslight hole, they don’t even know what year it is anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:57 AM
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Facts. I’ve witnessed far too many so called, men explode into rages that would be fit for toddler, after being told “the truth”. It’s funny, oftentimes they use that excuse after they’ve been caught in a repeated lie. “No, I couldn’t have been upfront about my nonstop cheating, when you confronted me about it. You bring it up all the time! You’re obsessed! How could I tell you the truth when you’re soooo insecure???”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:20 PM
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Unbelievable, right? The delusion is strong with that one. Edit: He was dragged in the comments, thank God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:56 PM
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Yup, can’t win either way. They can ALL miss me with that bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:38 PM
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“AITA for not driving a girl home, just because she was scared” Enjoy 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:36 PM
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Who wants to laugh? I read a post where a guy was looking for advice regarding a date that he’d previously been on. According to him, the date went really well. He described being very interested in the young lady, and that she was receptive throughout the evening. Sounds great, right? What could’ve gone wrong? Well he adds in one small detail. At the end of their date, she asks him for a ride home. She didn’t have a car and she was afraid to walk home during such a late hour. She admitted that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:54 PM
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We need sex as human adults. It’s science! It’s not science, you’re a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:44 PM
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Dish soap is terrible for the skin. I bet he feels like sandpaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:30 PM
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How do I start being less jealous over the idea? You don’t. You get out now, before you shrivel up and become a shell of your former self. I really want this to work and I don’t want to lose him. He’s already on his way out. Bid him farewell and lock the door. The streets can have him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:48 AM
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Gynecologists aren’t the only ones, ladies. There’s another doctor who’s wrapped up in a class action lawsuit for almost the same thing. He was the primary physician at a fertility clinic. The creep fathered over 50 (known) children by fertilizing his patients’ embryos with his own sperm. Anyone who’s looking into IVF or fertility treatments, please vet your doctors! Way too many doctors out there with a God complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:01 PM
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Yup. Just two young, consenting, adults who want to have sex. The horror! Also, just wanted to point out that there’s no need to feel uncomfortable to talk about your religion. I hope my comment didn’t offend you. I know not everyone who practices Christianity shares these beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:41 PM
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Just another example of how toxic ideologies run rampant among religious indoctrination. Sweetheart, you may be “married in the eyes of God”. But in the eyes of the law, you are very much still single. I’m taken aback by the mental gymnastics she managed to fit into a tik tok. All in the hopes to find relief from the shame. Which has undoubtedly been forced upon her, by her family for having sex. (Or living in sin, as she calls it). This is why teen marriages are so common in the Christian churc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:23 PM
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I’m so tired of that “single moms are to blame for the bad behavior of grown men”, bullshit ass argument! News flash, most women are not signing up to become single mothers. Why not point a finger at the deadbeat men who abandon their families and parenting duties? Oh right, because that would require taking accountability. And men like him hate taking accountability for their behavior, almost as much as they hate women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:51 PM
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What. a. LOSER. This sent me 🤣🤣 Also, what is a petulant fucking mute?? When’s the last time you’ve witnessed petulant behavior from a mute? Instead of focusing so hard on making a fool out of himself, he should take the time to google the definition of an oxymoron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:42 PM
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Omg the Weinstein thing. Not even surprised. Also, he writes: “If you hadn’t said those words I want to break up on that Tuesday, and then I made the decision to agree with you, I probably would have stayed.” Sorry what? He chose to “agree” with her breaking up with him?? Enough said. The guy’s a total creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:49 PM
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Some will purposely keep their loser friends around to make themselves look better by comparison. Man or woman, a high value person has no interest in hanging around shady and predatory individuals. This includes childhood friends and family members. Always pay close attention to their “homeboys”, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:21 PM
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Yes I completely agree, there are several manipulative undertones in his message. He’s comparing her unwillingness to engage in a sexual conversation, to him having to “walk on eggshells”. In reality, walking on eggshells is often a behavior that manifests in someone who compromises their boundaries. OP stated her boundary, and he attempted to guilt her out of her position. Her views are unhealthy, she’s a prude. He just wants to be open. He’s a great guy! Just another scrote grasping at straws,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:28 PM
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I stand by what I said. I still think you’re missing the point. Like I said before, she isn’t obligated to give any amount of money. We’re on the same page there. However, the fact that she was asking the public to send money, is what brought the criticism. Which I think is very understandable given the circumstances. You’ve honed in on the claim that people shouldn’t be telling Kylie how to spend her money. But scrolling through this thread, I don’t see anyone doing that. From what I’ve read, p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:52 PM
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I don’t think that’s really the point. Rich or poor, nobody is obligated to do anything. But the fact that she posted a link to a go fund me on her page, and donated 5k (which is less than $5 for someone like her), is a terrible look. The smart thing for her to have done, is pay for the surgery. She charges around 90-100k for brand posts on IG. She walked right into the criticism she’s getting for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:14 PM
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Gross. The girls should just maintain that they already have a date. Or “My parents are too strict, they won’t let me go to prom with any boys! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:27 PM
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I’m so sorry, how stressful. At 17, couldn’t she be allowed to choose where she wants to live? She may still be a minor but she’s definitely old enough for her preferences to be taken into consideration. Your ex husband and his wife sound awful and it seems like they’re two peas in a pod. She damn near admitted to you that she’s raising a sexual predator in the making. Keep those messages, they’ll probably be useful in the future. Do whatever needs to be done, to protect your daughter. Also, may…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:06 PM
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Yup, beat me to it. I could almost feel the devil’s advocate on my shoulder as I read this. And sure enough...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:41 PM
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Eww yes! Made a reaction video about his own video. He even praised himself and plugged his book. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:31 PM
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Who else notices that now he’s cautioning his fans against putting him on a pedestal?? He’s trying to shift blame onto the audience for being upset with him, knowing damn well that his actions are the reason for their disappointment. The “I never said I was perfect. You gotta put GOD first, not me, Derrick Jaxn”, narrative. And what’s with him looking all put together, while his wife looks like she’s about to go to bed? His whole video is a mess. Gaslighting and manipulation off the charts. 🚨🚨🚨 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:52 AM
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The money is cleaner than most of them, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:15 PM
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Sexual👏🏼”release”👏🏼is NOT👏🏼a necessity👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:24 PM
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Beautiful response 💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:14 PM
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That’s a great solution! As long as it’s out of your line of sight, it can’t trigger you. I’m sure that you’ll feel like a different person, the next time you have to look at his stuff. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:34 PM
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Sorry to hear that. You’re fresh out of your relationship, so that’s a perfectly normal mindset to have right now. Neurologically, the symptoms of heartbreak are very similar to a drug withdrawal. It’s a very significant loss. But I can assure you that it will get better. You’re going to have to fight through the urge to unblock. It’s for your own sanity and well-being babe. You don’t want to trigger yourself by maintaining access to your ex. Once you get through the first couple of weeks, you’l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:19 PM
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Yes it’s very hard at first but it gets much easier as time goes on. The first 2 weeks are usually hell, but after a month, you’ll start to feel the relief. Hang tight, love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:31 PM
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I can’t with this. So having children means that he can’t ever be held accountable for any wrong doing? Sir, you cost yourself your own job for choosing to cross a serious line. Blame yourself for the repercussions of your actions. Think about your family, the next time you get the urge to creep on a patient. He’s acting like a teen who got fired from their job at the Olive Garden, for taking too long to bring Karen her iced tea. Not the same thing, my dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:54 PM
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Absolutely! No holding on to old t-shirts and memorabilia. In order for NC to be effective, all reminders of the relationship must go. It’s a disengagement on every level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:34 AM
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Aww sorry to hear that you’re having trouble, but it sounds like you’re doing great already. I don’t think it’s silly at all, in fact it’s totally normal. Usually when you find yourself getting upset, it’s good to acknowledge it. Carefully observe your thoughts during these moments. Ask yourself why you’re feeling that way. Are you triggered by something? Do you have any unresolved issues regarding the relationship? Getting to the root of your discomfort, is the first step in addressing it. Talk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:27 AM
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Sorry but Jubilee is the worst. They use this guy for other videos too. There’s one where they discuss feminism and he’s in it. It’s a train wreck. They sat two other scrotes with him, and they had a discussion about feminism with 3 young women. It was clear from the start that the girls were unprepared. It was very frustrating to watch. The guys held the typical Reddit Devil’s Advocate mentality. Had Jubilee used women who were better educated on the subject, those guys would’ve gotten their as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:42 PM
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I’m glad someone said it. I’ve seen him posted on here before. I don’t like him or his videos. He’s for sure the type of therapist who will side with the abusive partner during a couple’s session. Avoid💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:10 PM
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Yes! I got into FDS during the fall too. I’m a completely different person than I was a year ago. Looking back, I’ve found more than 1 silver lining to the quarantine. Not to diminish the struggles that came about for many people, as a result of the pandemic. But at the very least, it’s provided me with an opportunity to rediscover myself. I’ve also learned a lot through FDS and all of the wonderful ladies in here. This place has truly become a safe-haven for me, and I’m so grateful to have foun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:53 PM
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This is a really cute idea and those hair pins are everything. Realistically, a knife is actually one of the worst self defense weapons to carry. Unless you’re highly trained and skilled with knives in combat, it’s more likely to be used against you in some form. A taser and a collapsible baton are much better options for self defense. You want to avoid having to get up close to a threat. The baton gives you extra reach and they’re very effective. With a taser, you don’t have the reach (unless i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:55 PM
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Oh my GOD... could this be the same guy?? https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m4kssm/saw_this_on_twitter_horrifying/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:20 PM
253

Typical narcissistic meltdown right there. “When he shows up unannounced to your doorstep, with a bouquet & handwritten apology, 3.5 months after the breakup. — And you reject him.“ This will be the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:57 PM
5

Exactly. They go looking for ammunition when they’re cornered in an argument. Or as soon as you hit a nerve to their ego. It’s never relevant to the conversation at hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:19 PM
85

Yup. I came across two of them last week, on another subreddit. Both of them tried to use my participation on FDS as a clap-back, thinking that they did something. One of them claimed to be an advocate for “logic”. They’re just pathetic little balls of anger, nothing more to see there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:33 PM
118

No wife and a miserable life. No doubt about it. He’s buckling under the weight of his own perceived shortcomings. That’s why he’s got the gaslight turned up to 100. Insecure dudes will always try to knock you down. They’re like vultures, they feast on the fallen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:24 PM
64

I love this tik tok. She nailed it 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:20 AM
178

Yeah this entire post is a mess. She mentions that she let one of her johns drive her home. No regard for her own safety whatsoever. I’ll pass on her “wisdom”, thanks. Not to advocate for prostitution, but something tells me that if you can’t afford your own ride as an escort, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:30 PM
174

How bone-chilling was his little disclaimer at the end? “As long as you don’t actually hurt her, it’s all in good fun!” 🤡 Let’s see how much fun he’ll have in prison, when a bigger dude decides to have some “psychological fun” with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:06 AM
60

Yes you’re right about that. Coming on too strong in the beginning, is a huge red flag. It’s the first weapon in a narcissist’s arsenal. I think you’ve got a pretty good handle on the situation. Trust your intuition and you’ll be fine. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:48 PM
184

Thou Shalt Not Get Caught Up, Commandment 1. Zero tolerance policy for inconsistent or “hot & cold” behavior. Especially during the early stages of dating. If you notice that someone isn’t matching your effort, it’s time to step back. Also, that age gap has me feeling a little suspicious, sis. He might not be the catch that you think he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:17 PM
815

Nice of him to show support. He’s right, plenty of guys will choose not to work on themselves. The homeless aren’t the only ones. For anyone who’s on the fence about their ex, he hasn’t changed, sis. He’s a barnacle, looking for a host. Don’t let it be you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:22 AM
57

Just another one, right out of a narcissist’s playbook. If he tries to plan a vacation after the first date, R.U.N. Don’t walk. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:55 AM
22

Please excuse me while I go scream into a void now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:51 PM
129

“You need to be rude to them, so they’ll stop”, “You were too mean! You can’t offend them, or they’ll get mad.” “You shouldn’t have been wearing that. Showed waaay too much skin. Boys will be boys, after all.” “Wearing a hijab and covered from head to toe you say? Well these men are losing it due to a lack of visual stimuli. Their natural manly urges just piled up. You understand”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:39 PM
35

Exactly. And it’s not coincidental that the ones who think like this, also tend to be aesthetically impaired, themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:03 PM
120

I can tell that whoever posted this, thinks they slam-dunked on The Guardian, with that highlighted statement. When will they learn? Physical👏🏼apperarance👏🏼doesn’t👏🏼matter👏🏼 The elderly are frequent targets for rape and abuse. It amazes me how they’ll repeat the same song and dance every time. And then continue to be impressed with themselves after saying it. (yOu’Re ToO uGLy tO bE rApEd — ha ha! GOT EM) Really just proves how simple-minded they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:34 PM
19

I feel for her, she’s not doing well. She’s sitting alone in a club dress, parked at a gas station, huffing from a can. The fact that a few guys failed to notice her, should be the least of her concerns. I hope she gets some help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:38 PM
32

I support the message here, but.. I think “Pick-Me” better describes the “Independent Women” category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:46 PM
18

Thank you bringing this up. I can’t sympathize with that mindset either. Some argue that it “cushions the blow” in regards to the affair, since there aren’t any “feelings” involved. But in my eyes, there are plenty of feelings that go along with cheating. Or do Intimacy and Desire, not count as feelings? In my opinion, the whole “It was just sex, it didn’t mean anything” speech, is a cop-out. It does mean something. It means, there’s been a major violation of trust in the relationship. It doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:32 PM
158

They learn about International Men’s Day, because of International Women’s Day. Not even surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:09 PM
61

Someone please hand Joel a glass of water. It looks like he’s about to overheat 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:56 PM
23

Yes! I used to think the same way. I wouldn’t necessarily look at it as keeping 1 foot out the door. For me, it’s just standard protection. But I understand what you’re saying. As long as the man is equally invested in the marriage and he treats you with dignity and respect, I’m all for it. If he decides to flip the script anywhere down the line, you’re covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:58 PM
79

So many men will “want” kids, but so long as wifey handles everything and they don’t have to lift a finger. Their main objective is to “continue the legacy” — Ha! (As if their lineage had ties to a royal monarchy) They use the children (and their spouses), as props to show the world, “Hey! Look at what a great guy I am!” They don’t feel the need to actually be a decent person, partner, or father, as long as they can keep up appearances with everyone else. He will see his household responsibiliti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:42 PM
88

Props to whoever edited this.👌🏼 He should drive that scooter to a mental health clinic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:16 PM
24

They’ll look for an opening whenever they can. I try not to even make eye-contact with them in public. Wearing masks hasn’t deterred them at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:57 PM
14

Yes, in addition to this. Every woman should carry mace or pepper spray at all times. It’s always best to avoid a physical confrontation, whenever possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:09 PM
85

Most of these so called “men”, are actually cowards. They’re afraid to stand up to another man, so they reserve the tough-guy act for women instead. Abusive men will always think twice about laying their hands on a woman, while out in public. They’re only interested in fighting battles when they have the advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:39 PM
164

Right? Wtf is he even trying to say? if women thought the benefits of feminism to men, men would agree and support your movement. “If you silly women made feminism fit to benefit men, you’d actually get some of the support that you’re always yammering about! “ 🤡 Do these guys even hear themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:26 PM
39

The song slaps. John Mayer’s music isn’t even close to this girl’s level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:47 PM
36

Being uncertain of your place in a partner’s life, is one of the most draining and self-depreciating positions to be in. It’s important for everyone, and young women especially, to be aware of this. Even if it’s not a long term thing. The second you start to feel confused, or things seem “awkward”, around the person you’re dating, take a step back. Never ask them if you’ve done something to upset them. Do not beg for their attention in any way, shape, or form. Just pull back, observe the respons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:33 PM
169

He is utterly repulsive. That sniff at the end?? 😳🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:27 PM
188

By “Everyone”, they mean men. It’ll be better for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:12 AM
53

Oh ffs 😒 Go to fucking therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:29 PM
165

Sorry, but I call bullshit. He wanted to level the playing field. She got to “experience” another man inside of her, so the universe kinda owed him one. Let’s not forget, there’s the added benefit of being able to blame the whole thing on her traumatic experience. I hope she slaps those crocodile tears right off his face, and leaves his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:42 PM
23

Always. The whole “don’t give your man a reason to cheat” thing, is gaslighting propaganda. Just another way to diffuse the responsibility for a man’s choices, onto the backs of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:52 PM
35

Like the ultimate trophy wife: Melania Trump... Well, Mr. Trump looks like a ham-colored trash bag, full of mashed potatoes. Listen sir, If you want a “trophy”, you better be a damn good PRIZE, yourself. Fuck this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:40 PM
156

I’m at a loss for words. These dudes will happily carve out a stuffed animal and fill it with a pocket pu$$y, over going to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:08 PM
152

They’ll have no problem ignoring and scoffing at the “ugly chicks” who are interested in dating them. And more often than not, those women are out of their leagues as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:45 PM
335

My gOoD LoOKiNg friends get the hottest women The lack of self-awareness is astonishing. It’s ok for him to be shallow. Poor guy... he’s short, ugly, AND broke! Clearly, he’s suffered enough. But how dare these women be attracted to good looking men? How dare they reject him? It’s all so horribly unfair!!! 🤧🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:22 PM
131

I witnessed my ex bf reduce himself into an explosive, foot stomping, veins-bulging, red in the face mess, after one of my little brother’s friends put his hand on my shoulder to pose for a picture. My ex was 29 at the time and a self proclaimed “Alpha Male”. My brother’s friend was a senior in high school and half his size. But yeah, women are the emotional ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:07 PM
109

They’re so busy spewing out their nonsense, that they fail to realize the massive contradictions in their statements. The majority of the stories that I see posted on this sub, do not feature a Jason Momoa lookalike with narcissistic personality disorder. Quite the opposite in fact. Anyone with half a brain knows that women are more prone to compromise in the looks department, when choosing a partner. These are the same guys that will shout “But men are visual!”, if you ask them why they chose t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:32 PM
224

So many misinformed women out there who think that marriage is the ultimate achievement. Sweetie, for you, the game has only just begun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:13 PM
73

Nice. What a smart boy he is. This is exactly why I’ll never stick around for another silent treatment ever again. No trying to explain how shitty it feels. No asking what happened. By the time they decide to reappear, I’m gone. 👻✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:49 PM
31

Both are awful and destructive. The former might be better detected as a red flag, for someone who hasn’t already been completely drained of their self-esteem. Unfortunately, most abusive partners employ both tactics to maximize results.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:42 PM
99

For someone soo smart, he sure seems to think with his dick a lot. Doesn’t he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:19 PM
230

The really slimy ones will: Apologize (because he wants you to stop talking) Flip the conversation into how sad he is, for disappointing you. So please, don’t bring this up anymore... His widdle heart can’t bear to upset you. 🥺 Insist that you guys “move on” from this. He can’t stand conflict and negativity. He’s a nice guy, after all. Suggest you give him a blow job, now that your “emotional crisis” is (finally!) over. Stay Woke ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:48 PM
74

Triangulation. Examples include: Actively engaging in or encouraging flirtatious behavior with other women. Especially in your presence. Habitually discussing and comparing you to other women that he finds attractive. (This includes celebrities, IG models, cartoon characters, etc.) Instigating a situation where he pits you up against, or creates conflict between you and another person. (Bonus points if the subject of said issue, is him) Liking/ commenting on “thirst traps”, and saving images of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:07 PM
19

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:15 PM
50

Yeah I don’t think it’s cute either. Something tells me that those “jokes” are more of a subliminal cry for help, than something to giggle at. I can’t say for sure wether the girls are simply too deep in denial, or if they feel uncomfortable expressing their frustrations more directly. Pretty sad either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:46 PM
34

Yes, I say this to my friends IRL all the time! The little things can tell you so much about a person. Don’t ignore the small things, they’re invaluable when it comes to gathering information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:03 PM
97

Straight facts. None of that “What’s the matter, can’t take a jOkE??” BS either. No sir, I can’t. If I wanted a clown, I’d go to a circus. ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:41 PM
250

I gave the ugly guy from high school a chance. He followed me around for years. I thought, “looks aren’t that important”. “Give him a chance, he’s so nice!” I ended up having to file for a restraining order 3 months after ending things. Not only was he self-loathing, lazy, and unattractive, but abusive as well. He began stalking me. Waited by my car one night, while I finished my shift. He angrily confronted me, spat at me, then called me whore and ran off. A person’s physical appearance has no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:55 PM
279

My partner and I perv on people together 🤪 We have a unique relationship! Really, WE DO. Honest! I swear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:32 PM
54

💀💀 I’ve been right there with you, girl. Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:48 PM
39

That’s exactly right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:42 PM
1144

CiArA dOn’T eVEn lOok THAT gOoD. Excuse me, scrote? Your envy is showing. This is the type of guy that will call you ugly after you ignore his texts, and then say that his little cousin sent them on his behalf, as a “prank” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:40 PM
136

I get such a boost to my self-esteem if a woman tells me that I’m pretty. It does nothing for me when a man says it. I’m heterosexual...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:18 PM
189

Ah yes, when the love-bombing comes to a screeching halt. No worries. All she has to do is endure some psychological abuse here, a dash of manipulation there, and he’ll soon start to put in effort once again! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:10 PM
18

Words are cheap. They require no effort to produce, and it’s almost impossible to prove their sincerity. The truth is displayed through actions, not words. It’s best to keep your eyes open, and abide by your intuition 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:38 AM
99

I caught that too! And I’m not buying the “8 inches” in length either. Nice try, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:19 PM
16

Fatality. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:04 PM
171

They hate “gold diggers” with a burning passion. But the old and saggy men who perpetuate them? They’re victims. They deserve to be loved by a beautiful woman. Well, the women deserve to be compensated. It’s a simple exchange, like any other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:07 PM
36

Cosmopolitan has been a cesspool for the longest 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:08 AM
6

Thanks for the recommendation! I’ll definitely check it out. I can totally see how that would be a thing, especially during the 1950’s. It’s just like the creeps who write these outlandish NSFW posts, while pretending women here on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:58 PM
9

This is horrifying, but it’s fake news. I’m seeing the same story posted on other websites as early as 2016. I also found no credible sourcing when I typed-in the details on google. As much as I can relish the thought of a depraved scrote getting his genitals torn off by a defensive dog, we need to be more discerning when it comes to the stories we find online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:29 PM
26

I have a serious male-larping suspicion, regarding some of these Women’s Health articles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:13 PM
157

I crunched the numbers, this woman is correct. ✔️ Fellas get your wallets out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:31 PM
26

These dudes really just can’t help themselves. Yikes..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:41 AM
8

Ouch, really sorry this happened to you. I always wonder when I hear stories about polyamorous relationships, what percentage of women are truly in it for themselves. Unfortunately, I think the large majority are pressured into it by their partners, and they give in due to low self esteem/ fear of being alone. The good news is that you don’t have to waste another second giving yourself to a guy that didn’t appreciate you. Stay strong 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:43 AM
24

Totally feel you on the dog thing, wow. So glad we made it out girl 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:50 PM
48

🙌🏽 It was such a minor indiscretion in the grand scheme of his shitty behavior toward me. But those little things really wear you down over time. Always pay attention to the little things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:40 PM
193

I cringed so hard when she jumped up and hugged him after the reveal. He just stood there with that ridiculous look on his face, too “shocked” to even embrace her. I had flashbacks to my last relationship. Where my ex would get home from work and I would greet him at door. I’d attempt to hug him in the same way. More often than not, he’d grab my wrists and set me aside, before I could even touch him. But that was “okay” because he was just tired. Never again. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:01 PM
314

A man who chooses to keep friends with any of the following characteristics, is an automatic 🚩for me. Disrespectful Misogynistic Envious Thief or scammer (Non-recovering) Alcoholic/ Drug abuser “Barely legal” Enthusiast Porn-sick Generally creepy/ Perverted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:01 AM
71

In other words.. Always trust your intuition ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:35 PM
2

That actually makes more sense. Maybe I have it backward 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:30 PM
2

What are you referring to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:16 PM
84

Half of these guys would punch their girls in the face for free too. The money would just be a bonus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:13 PM
9

I whole-heartedly believe that people should tip service workers appropriately. However, pretty audacious and unprofessional of him to message you about it. The fact that the number wasn’t for him... Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:06 PM
46

Sounds about right 🎯🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:09 PM
240

“But I trust you.” Well, don’t. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:26 PM
17

My ex in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:50 AM
9

Sorry to hear that. I’m glad that it was able to serve as a learning experience for you at the very least. I was exposed to a fair share of harsh lessons during my last relationship. I was 23 and very naive. He was 28. The age gap wasn’t too concerning, but he was super controlling and manipulative. FDS is a real life-saver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:29 AM
28

It’s very sad. Especially when these young girls enter into LTRs with older men. It’s such a trap for the girls because they have no life experience and they idolize their partners. It’s so predatory and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:09 PM
42

I truly sympathize with her and my heart goes out, but man the irony was wild. She was defending him and the relationship in the comments too. Pre update, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:35 PM
163

Who else saw the AITA post that blew up a few days ago, where the OP went through a crazy situation like this? Quick summary: OP, a forever girlfriend of 5+ years was asking if she was in the wrong for “outing” her bf to his coworker, about their marital status. She wanted marriage at first. BF didn’t believe in it. It’s just a piece of paper, we don’t need to be married to have kids, blah blah. She ended up dropping the whole marriage thing altogether, claiming that it was no longer important t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:07 PM
15

Vasectomies are 100% reversible. So he can cool it with the whole “sterilized” trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:18 AM
11

Blessed indeed. 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:14 AM
164

Isn’t it the best when they just out themselves? The utter lack of self-awareness is astounding. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:08 PM
96

He’s got that dead-eye, narcissistic gaze. Yuck 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:37 PM
52

How much do you bet he’s the type to say that going to therapy is “stupid”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:31 PM
51

“Money makes me smile”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:20 PM
13

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:13 AM
381

They’ll tell her that she’d look much prettier if she smiles. 👹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:12 AM
375

These men should just date each other. Leave the rest of us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:06 PM
316

Good for you. Being alone offers an immediate improvement to your life, when your partner isn’t making you happy. Even if there are “good times” sprinkled in between. The sadness wears off rather quickly and soon you’ll feel liberated. What a great way to start off the new year! That dead weight can stay back in 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:06 PM
375

Oh snap. All you boys who like to cry and stomp their feet at a women’s only subreddit, better go hop in the shower!(Seriously, take a fucking shower) FDS is coming for your ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:02 PM
74

Who else gets annoyed by Carrie now, after rewatching?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:56 AM
63

I have stories for days. It was very odd. I was asked to drape the girl with a “bride sash”, after the “Yes”. What struck me, was that she brought it with her to the restaurant and it was handed to the staff before they sat down to eat. So I have to assume that she knew about the whole thing beforehand, and yet she still went along with it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:18 PM
29

Yeah, hard pass 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:34 AM
234

One of the cringiest moments during my time as a (former) hooters waitress, was having to participate in a marriage proposal. The groom made a huge announcement to the restaurant, got down on 1 knee, the whole 9.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:23 AM
30

She said it better than anyone I’ve listened to, thus far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:11 PM
33

Hollywood is full of emotionless, narcissistic people. Not saying everyone is, but a good majority. It’s especially dangerous because fame and status provide a blanket to disguise terrible behavior. I think it’s so important to maintain a realistic idea of the people we watch and admire. Remembering always that they’re human, just like the rest of us. They’re capable of wrong-doing, no matter how talented they may be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:05 PM
1

You realize that none of this has anything to do with my original comment, right? I’m on board with with what you’re saying, take a breather. My point in all of this was to critique a previous comment which stated that there was no difference between a man who masturbates using online porn, and a man who stands outside of an open window pleasuring himself to an unsuspecting couple. I don’t agree with that, they’re not the same thing. The latter is much worse than the former. I don’t understand w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:29 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean. OF creators post their own content. It happens to be a form of consensual online nudity, that’s not really up for debate. I don’t advocate or encourage it all, but that’s what it is. I’m also very aware of the fact that not all porn is consensual. I was specifically referring to OF. Edit: Why the downvotes? I’m not going against FDS principles with anything I’ve said. And I’m definitely not in favor of OF or any other form of sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:04 AM
36

They’ll feign ignorance and even blow up at times, to avoid being held accountable for their wrongdoings. Oftentimes they do understand, but they simply prefer to be manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:15 PM
21

Yeah they’re the worst. Them + Classically Abby 🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:59 PM
5

Yes thank you for saying this. I love this sub and the principles of FDS. But posts like these are reminiscent of something you’ll find on MGTOW. Criticism based on a biased assumption is not a good look for us, or anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:15 PM
41

She’s been gaslit to the point of delusion. I know she thinks that sermon she wrote is “woke”, too. I’m 100% convinced that these are the women who end up feeling miserable in their marriages later on. It’s sad and ironic at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:09 PM
26

Believe me, most of them know. They just don’t care. The other half are delusional and perceive your kindness (which is forced 90% of the time), as a green light to make their advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:59 PM
13

100% agreed. All I’m saying is that jerking off to an unsuspecting couple in front of an open window, is more depraved than looking at photos on a screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:27 PM
20

I see where you’re coming from and I agree that would be disgusting. But it’s not the same thing because the people that are being “peeped”, didn’t give consent. OF creators are aware that they’re being observed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:06 PM
23

Speaking from personal experience, it can seem like a fun job when you’re young and naive. I know for a fact that Hooters will hire girls with no serving experience whatsoever. All you need to get hired, are your looks. I had been working retail in my late teens, which was a nightmare tale for another time. I knew a friend from high school who worked there, and I wanted to make more money so I decided to give it a shot. I remember being sold false ideals when signing the paperwork before my firs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:37 PM
48

That’s the name of the restaurant. I worked at Hooters when I was 19 and I felt the same way about it. The line cooks and management were just as bad too. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:18 PM
58

Yeah, the argument that I tend to hear the most is “It’s not like he’ll ever meet with her in person”, regarding OF. It’s nonsense honestly. It’s like, Cool. You guys can ALL go do that waaay over there. ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:12 AM
95

It’s definitely a hard no for me. Wouldn’t date a man who subscribes to Only Fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:39 AM
125

IMO, it seems to be that way on Reddit, but not so much irl. I think there’s many people who put on a persona online. They’ll say things to sound “edgy”, or to farm for karma (positive/negative), etc. I also believe that a good majority of people don’t actually feel comfortable with it. Even most of the ones who say otherwise. Unfortunately, there are plenty of women who are gaslit, and manipulated into pushing aside their values or beliefs. They’ll advocate for certain things just to appease th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:28 AM
3

I’ve got another one here, ladies. There you go again, trying to pick a fight. Why do you love to argue so much? Translation: You’ve got a point, and I refuse to acknowledge it. I hate being wrong and I really hate that you’re trying to surface this. I’m also afraid of having to face any consequences for my bad behavior. As a result, I’m going to swiftly shoot you down, while simultaneously shame you into thinking that you’re the problem. Not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:08 PM
183

Whatever they’re insecure over, is what they’ll brag about the most. Overcompensation at it’s finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:37 AM
62

Gross. Yes, how wonderful of him to call the police himself. Too bad he decided to call after stabbing her in the chest. And what a shame... That when asked repeatedly by the operator if an ambulance needed to be dispatched, he’d respond by demanding that she “Shut Up”. Nevertheless, good for him! Gimme a break. YT comments are such a wasteland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:23 PM
111

You can tell that he’s abusive right off the bat, by the way he speaks to the 911 operator. What a scumbag. Absolutely repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:56 PM
23

Gross. That’s why he’s speaks to college undergrads. He’d get laughed off the stage by a mature audience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:21 PM
250

Damn you’re gonna do me like that? No, actually I’m not gonna do you at all. Good day, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:12 PM
9

I heard about it on the H3 podcast. They did a whole segment called Content Court on him. It was funny, but the whole thing just made my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:47 PM
24

It’s so bizarre. Also looks like a major scam. Look up the tickets too! I believe they start off at $600. To stay in the desert with no electricity or basic amenities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:55 PM
20

This. They’ll go right into the victim mentality. They’ll cry that it was self defense. “She tried to push me away while I was yelling an inch away from her face! I had to defend myself after that. Her black eye and broken ribs, are her fault”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:29 PM
63

Yes there are. It’s especially dangerous when they’re famous or influential. It’s all predatory and creepy. Jared Leto. Has obtained a massive following. Basically has a cult that he takes out to the desert. “Tickets” are pretty expensive and most of the attendees are young women. (Wonder why). Carl Lentz. Disgraced “Celebrity” Pastor. Used to hang around Justin Bieber. Was outed for repeatedly cheating on his wife and lying about the affairs. Anyone in the PUA community. 90% of male life coache…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:01 PM
25

For sure. I prefer to go alone because it’s my time to de-stress. I always have my headphones in and rarely do I stop to make conversation with anyone. For the most part, I don’t have any issues. But this guy is on another level. One of the managers is a woman and she has that “no fucks given” kinda vibe. I’ll make sure to notify her if he tries to talk to me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:50 PM
24

Yes girl, total nightmare fuel. 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:22 PM
35

That was my first verbal interaction with him. Oftentimes, I’ll just catch him making faces at me, or winking/ blowing air kisses from across the floor. Typical loser obnoxious behavior. I usually just ignore that sort of thing and go about my business. But if he approaches me again to start any type of conversation, I’m reporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:09 PM
18

Eww yes. Super proud of himself, I’ll bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:03 PM
80

Haha! After a blank stare, I asked him if it was customary for him to approach other kids during a workout. He responded by saying that he couldn’t help himself because he was “struck by my beauty”. 🤮 It’s never their fault, since we know men are completely helpless when it comes to their desires and emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:01 PM
249

There’s this leery creep at my gym whom I try to avoid whenever I can. Yesterday, he approached me in the middle of a rep and started asking some personal questions. (Eye-roll). He asked for my age and I told him (mid 20’s). He seemed dumbfounded, went on about how impossibly young I look. He also said that he thought I was 16/17 and he wanted to congratulate me on having such a great figure, for a teenager. This man appears to be well into his 40’s. Admittedly, I do appear younger than I am. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:48 PM
189

I could just see the smug look on his face after he sent the last message. Very smooth, creep. Very smooth. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:28 PM
128

I’m confused... Why waste all those big boy words on someone like her? Her being mentally inferior and whatnot. Love the insults & put-downs btw. Great touch. It really drives home how much he’s “changed” in the past few months. This man is obviously right, she’s blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:23 PM
27

It’s also a tactic employed by narcs and lvm used to pressure and/or “train” their partners to behave how they’d like. My exes were crazy, whores, ill-mannered, gold diggers, etc... I know you’d never treat me like they did. You’re nothing like them! Unfortunately, someone with low self esteem will be highly susceptible to this kind of manipulation. They usually find themselves bending over backwards, trying to prove how not like other girls, they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:58 AM
43

The other lipsticks won’t get jealous and call you a whore for choosing to try on different shades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:25 AM
166

I’m immediately suspicious of women who only have guy friends. Or the ones who describe themselves as “one of the guys”. The cool girl is just a pick-me in disguise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:10 PM
105

Agreed, having standards is an important part of self-care. However, it can frustrating to see many successful women choose relationships with low value men. That kind of behavior is very common in the rap/entertainment industry. It’s all out in the open, yet many women still flock toward these guys. Iggy found out about his infidelity during her pregnancy, and I doubt it was a one-time thing. Poor decision-making plays a big role in these situations, too. I think both Iggy and Cardi, need to ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:22 PM
229

Such a valid argument. But then they throw the good ol’ but men are visual, in your face. News flash, gentlemen. We’re ALL visual. I would love to know how the whole “valuing physical attraction makes a woman shallow”, thing got started. We’re entitled to have our kinks, just as much as they are. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:31 PM
25

Yes! Been there. Hated it. Never going back. My time would’ve been better spent trying to squeeze juice from a cinder block. Save that energy for yourself, or for the people who’ve earned it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:16 PM
38

Yes I love this! Emotions are feelings and they’re temporary. They should be validated. But validating one’s own emotions by inflicting pain on another, is very unhealthy. Avoid people that will justify their bad behavior in this manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:02 PM
158

No response, is a response. For many of us, it’s the best response. Let the undesirables sniff around elsewhere, ladies 💛✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:46 PM
5

This is exactly what it’s like. It’s such crazy-making behavior and it will consume your energy. Learning to recognize the manipulation is key. After that, disengage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:20 PM
209

I swear, there must be a book out there that these guys are learning from. Some of my faves: Why are you always trying to pick a fight?? So I guess I’m the bad guy, now. You’re exaggerating, as usual. I never said/ did that!! 🤬🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:46 AM
98

Saw this one yesterday. Do not invest in a guy with an overbearing mother! It’s a losing battle, unless you agree to be in a relationship with both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:49 PM
212

It’s like taking a shower after being covered in mud, then dressing yourself with the same filthy clothes. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:36 PM
71

“They scary af too” He’s nervous around dogs because they sense his douche energy from a mile away. They probably start barking erratically like they do in the horror movies, when there’s a demon nearby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:45 AM
70

But his way is better. Just text him so he can explain it to you, silly girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:30 AM
26

Exactly. Keep in mind that they will inevitably say the same thing about you to their new target! 🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:21 AM
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