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Doesn’t your experience suggest the FEMINISTS won’t care about you, not that WOMEN won’t care about you?
/r/MensRights29/03/26 07:12 PM
1

Do red pill women understand deductive reasoning? if you agree with the premise The premises all leave out character/honesty/kindness/being a good person entirely. Most women understand deductive reasoning just fine and simply start with different premises, such as: being a better person can make a person more attractive -> being better looking, making more money, and aquiring status are not the only ways to become more attractive because improving your character can also make you more attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:17 PM
2

This is not at all unique to women. Your example does not even suggest that this is part of the world view of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:06 PM
0

The Brock Turner references are tasteless and dismissive of the victim here which is cruel, but I don’t think this sarcasm is misandry.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 08:00 PM
1

There has also been bipartisan attempts to include women https://virginiamercury.com/2021/12/03/women-would-sign-up-for-the-military-draft-under-defense-bill-in-congress/
/r/MensRights10/02/26 06:47 PM
23

A rapist is already extremely morally bankrupt, thus unlikely to spend much of it on the child
/r/MensRights22/01/26 02:46 PM
1

No, I don’t think it’s reasonable or healthy for anyone to only consider dating people they meet online. Seems pretty dystopian to totally write off in person interactions for this. To be clear I’m not suggesting hitting on a colleague or someone working while you are the customer or clubs or bars. Rather being social overall and asking out someone you meet by chance or thru loose connections. If you were looking for alternative ways to meet potential partners, I’d suggest social clubs and event…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:24 PM
1

In what I have seen irl, which is largely quite different than what you described having seen but I can only speak on what I’ve seen, it’s not the mere showing of emotion but rather the way. Saying xyz made me feel hurt/confused/angry is very different than yelling, punching things, making threats, expressing hate/resentment/scorn or even lashing out with insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:13 PM
3

What area of the world are you in/ why is there no way to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:06 AM
1

I don’t think these are common things for women to call that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:30 PM
2

Yes, as do good men who want equal relationships and equal responsibilities. Both are rare. interviewing of random people It is not random. It is clickbait.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 06:30 PM
1

Another option is to fight for full custody. It would be an uphill battle with the odds stacked against you, but worth trying given the alternatives
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:30 PM
1

Do you think more people will use it for that than for nefarious purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:08 PM
1

Are you suggesting not using an app would make more women victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:53 AM
3

In this case not just for looking. It was the combination of him following her around in preceding days.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 04:39 AM
1

Both, and that doesn’t make benevolent sexism good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:35 AM
5

women are shallow and selfish If, for the sake of argument, this were broadly true, wouldn’t that mean paying would make a bigger differential not a smaller difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:33 AM
9

My date having such an app would demonstrate red flags: Phone attachment - I don’t want to increase the extent phone time is part of my life Presumptiveness - assuming that during the first date I have already decided what sex acts, if any, I wish to participate in Possible nefarious intentions - sounds like my date wants proof, potentially for the purpose of getting away with sexually abusing me at a future time. If I want to say no, I don’t want to need to go on an app to withdraw consent. Ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:28 AM
8

Nowhere in the post did OP suggest acting like a predator was ok or discuss anybody acting like a predator… what a stretch
/r/MensRights18/02/25 10:55 PM
16

all I hear is women complaining about men. What the hell did I do? They are probably not complaining about you specifically, like your post is complaining about women, but not a specific woman.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 07:07 PM
1

Rightists have thought/voted that for a long time, they’ve just extremified/the more extreme have gotten more vocal. For example, their support of men-only draft and support of the Duluth model.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 04:04 PM
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Ukraine is run by sexists, and the sexism is ingrained into law there. This should be a wake up call for those of us who live in countries with similarly sexist laws/draft systems to advocate for change.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 04:46 PM
3

Online yes, never been called that in person (at least not to my face)
/r/MensRights12/02/25 09:44 AM
1

This. Or even just be neutral on labor, like don’t get the President involved in stopping railroad strikes
/r/MensRights11/02/25 04:38 PM
3

They should focus more on policy than on identity politics
/r/MensRights11/02/25 04:37 PM
1

Democrats have introduced bills to make the draft gender neutral. Its primarily the GOP that’s voting to keep it male only
/r/MensRights11/02/25 04:36 PM
1

This has been proposed by democrats multiple times… it’s mostly republicans voting to keep the draft male only
/r/MensRights11/02/25 04:29 PM
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Everybody has some amount of privilege. To claim there is none just reeks of dishonesty. There is plenty of privilege disparity that we can point in the inequality of privileges without being dishonest. Claiming false absolutes is counter productive.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 07:36 PM
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It’s often manipulation by the individual in the friend zone - pretending to care as a friend and allowing the “friendzoner” to believe they are good friends, but then not continuing the friendship once it becomes clear they are not ever going to be wanted romantically or sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:46 AM
1

To be fair, so does pretty much every human
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:21 PM
1

The philosophy of men going their own way does not involve acting like women don’t exist
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:20 PM
1

Is a hatred towards 50% of people based on gender with no account for their character right and justified? Misogyny is wrong, just like misandry
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:16 PM
1

Nobody said that is the fault of women
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:13 PM
1

While not a threat but a reality, boys are not protected from genital mutilation in the U.S.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:10 PM
3

Men having bodily autonomy is not accurate - boys should have protections from genital mutilation too
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:08 PM
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As a woman: I do not need two hours to prepare to go out. I have an IUD and can also go my whole career without getting pregnant. I suppose you could call men not having to spend money to do this a privilege. I CHOOSE to where a bra. While some male privileges do exist, what you’ve listed don’t really make sense
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:06 PM
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Have you tried making your resume gender neutral?
/r/MensRights20/01/25 07:22 PM
0

Some female privileges (in U.S.): More likely to be awarded more custody Shorter sentences for equal crimes More socially acceptable to cry Cheaper health insurance Cheaper car insurance More likely to receive child support Not subject to the draft More resources available for escaping domestic violence Preference given to “women owned” businesses for government contracts and grants There are laws in place to protect girls from genital mutilation Eligible for more scholarships More likely to be …
/r/MensRights20/01/25 07:17 PM
1

Not if both parents are fit and the child wants to be with both of them but the custody is 90-10.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:54 PM
1

That maybe be true, but it pretty convenient to categorize it as “joint” custody instead of “equal”.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:53 PM
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I generally respond that since the people who set up the worst of the sexist laws, such as selective service in USA, are mostly dead, their gender is irrelevant and we should all be a team fighting for equality.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:11 PM
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Somebody who is not a rapist. In this case, either the boy or his parents if they want it. If not, adoption or even foster care would probably be healthier for the child than living with a rapist, let alone a child rapist.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 01:14 AM
3

So are these men
/r/MensRights17/01/25 01:01 AM
3

Quit starting misinformation, most of the five college students were men
/r/MensRights17/01/25 12:59 AM
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I believe it’s food for thought and suggests more research on that would be worth while, but one study contradicting many simply proves science is imperfect, not that all the other studies are inherently wrong
/r/MensRights17/01/25 12:56 AM
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Good to see the cops noticed the inconsistencies in her story, for once it seems due diligence was actually done. Now she is facing 7 charges for it as she should. What do you mean by right to a preponderance of evidence? I’ve never heard of that being a thing in America. I hope she is found guilty and he uses that as a preponderance of evidence in civil court to successfully sue her for damages, such as a month of lost wages, more if it caused him to lose his job or apartment, therapy costs, em…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:59 PM
1

Neither link brings me to those stats, or any stats. Where are they from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:54 PM
1

We also allow men to initiate a divorce because they just feel like it or “aren’t happy”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:49 PM
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It does apply in both cases. Perhaps there is less discussion about women not being owed sex because less women act entitled to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:54 PM
1

Because if they ever wind up in an abusive relationship, no fault allows them to leave even if they can’t prove it. Because if my husband no longer loves me, I’d want him to leave rather than be unhappy for the rest of our life. Because incentivizing false accusations is a bad idea. Because if a spouse cheats or betrays their partner on a similar level, the betrayed should be able to leave, even if they can’t prove it in a court of law. Because litigation is expensive and time consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:34 AM
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I have never heard a woman, or anyone, express that most men (or most people or most women) are below average. That statement is illogical by the definition of average, so if some women have this perception, I suppose they are a rather dumb and/or sexist minority who think that. As for the perception that most men are physically unattractive, I’d say this is a pretty accurate perception for anybody in America (or similarly fat countries) who does not find obesity physically attractive. The avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:37 PM
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This article’s equation of her free choice to the experiences those under control of a pimp is sick for minimizing the experiences of sex trafficking victims. I really dislike the infantilization of women in this article as well.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 06:19 AM
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There is nothing wrong with wearing a dress, but there is a lot wrong with the sexist world we live in. Society judges and ridicules men who wear traditionally women’s clothes a lot more than it does women who dress in tomboy clothes.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 10:40 PM
20

You think all married couples with children have red pill beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:57 PM
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Depends on the belief. It’s unlikely I’d be besties with someone who believes all of these things, but friendly coworkers/gym buddies/acquaintances, sure. Let’s say a male friend told me he believes in hypergamy. I’d inquire if he believed this to be the case for all/nearly all women, and if so I’d point out that the only 3 friends I have who are married, married someone who makes less than them, and hope that he would see nuance. If he was open to considering that there are many women who don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:56 PM
3

Tendency to try to fix the unfixable Lack of self advocacy (less likely to negotiate salary or ask for a raise) Neuroticism Stress crying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:42 AM
8

And even fewer countries have full legal protection for men, between drafts and rape being defined as something that only happens to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:08 AM
6

A lot of men put their wife as 51% owner to secure these contracts even tho she is only like 5% involved in the day to day of the business.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:34 PM
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It’s only a red flag if he isn’t willing to make an effort to be your peace. I try to be my man’s peace, and expect him to be my peace. To us this means being each other’s safe space to show vulnerability, discuss our struggles, feel safe to cry and know it will be met with hugs and love and support, not ridicule or shame. We give eachother peace, in a world full of judgement, stress, fear, peer pressure, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:18 PM
2

It wouldn’t really make women less picky, it would make more men meet more women’s standards for a life partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:51 PM
-1

It’s pretty rare anyone goes to jail for an ATTEMPTED, as in FAILED to execute crime for that long. There are plenty of actual examples of female privilege and inequality in the criminal justice system, no need to willy nilly call everything female privilege like some feminists do with the phrase male privilege.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:44 PM
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Big step that the UK took this false accusation seriously! It’s rare anyone goes to jail for attempted framing, let alone for 4 years.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:40 PM
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Anybody can
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:35 PM
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A very very small minority of women said this. I have never heard anybody say that irl. Would you like to be judged on the basis of a few shitty men the way you are generalizing women?
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:33 PM
2

There is no ALWAYS voting for one genders interests and against each others. Plenty of policies and candidates impact people on the basis of many issues other than gender. The lying and exaggeration in your comment does not further this cause.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:31 PM
2

This sub is also about more important things than getting laid dude
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:27 PM
0

Not being allowed to vote on the basis of gender is minor??
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:25 PM
1

There is not “the real people being objectified”. Everyone is objectified and, and negating what another group experiences does not further this movement.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:24 PM
1

She did not care about continuing the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:20 AM
0

Do women who advocate for men’s rights deserve to have you opposing their rights because of the behavior of other women?
/r/MensRights24/10/24 07:36 PM
3

Because two wrongs don’t make a right.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 07:32 PM
1

No, because the risk vs reward is different. Say a man and woman (strangers) are equally sexually attracted to eachother and they contemplate going home to fuck. They both have very small chances of getting falsely accused (more likely to happen to man) and of getting assaulted or worse (more likely to happen to woman). The woman has a significantly higher risk of being slut shamed. They both have a moderate risk of STDs (slightly higher risk for the woman). As for reward, the man has significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:30 PM
2

Only delusional if that fatty with poor social skill think they will get someone thin and attractive. If they understand they probably won’t, that’s not a delusion that a choice to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:32 AM
2

what most men see What most people see with their own eyes is delusional, so most of the men on here are delusional (like the women) by nature of being human. No sociopathic dishonesty needed. YOU are dishonest or deluded if YOU believe all the guys on here claiming to be 7s are actually above average. Standards by nature cannot be delusional anyway. If I set my standard i will only date 10s, that wouldn’t mean I’m deluded it would just mean I’ll be single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:26 AM
1

I would feel extremely icky if I were to do such a thing, so I would not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:15 AM
1

Depends if the wife knows it’s an fwb relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:14 AM
2

Well yes to the first question - every sex act that I do I only do with people I find hot. No to the second - those who I would “happily agree to lewder sex acts” with are those that I trust. Assuming the bar of finding eachother attractive enough to fuck is already cross, getting kinky depends on trust. Such as I trust them not to hurt me or discuss the acts beyond the privacy of the bedroom or call me a slut behind my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:10 PM
0

Or important that shit from China like America does already anyway
/r/MensRights02/09/24 05:04 PM
1

Agree that threads like this are quite silly. But OP claimed to be asking seriously so I answered seriously, that segregating entire countries by gender is a stupid idea
/r/MensRights02/09/24 05:03 PM
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I am genuinely uninterested in forming a new country. America is the best country in the world. Why assume I’d want to make a new one from scratch? I do believe that men and women are equal. I can believe that without wanting to segregate men and women into entirely different countries!
/r/MensRights02/09/24 05:01 PM
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Is it the same women? Or are you holding random women accountable for the acts of other random women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:59 PM
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Most women don’t NEED men (as in they can survive). That’s very different than not WANTing men, especially if their husbands/brothers/boyfriends/fathers/sons would not be welcome in the new country Not to mention the start up cost of buying enough land for a country and getting the world to recognize it. It’s not that people aren’t allowed to attempt to make a new country based on a stupid idea, it’s that most women do not want to live in a women only world.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 02:38 PM
3

Do you see the young Muslim women as those things too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:16 PM
2

Yes, within first trimester, or indefinitely in situations that he can prove she concealed the pregnancy past that deadline.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 02:39 AM
4

No. I do not think denying bodily autonomy to any gender will help any gender’s rights
/r/MensRights31/07/24 02:43 AM
1

It’s all about the way it’s verbalized. Turn off ways generally include starting with a discussion of “freaking shit” before establishing mutual desire, catcalling, or inappropriate settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:10 AM
1

Why are people on this sub obsessed with generalizations? I don’t care about a potential partner’s total wealth but I do care that he lives within his means
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:09 PM
4

It’s not usually a projection, it’s usually a way of letting someone down easy, unrelated to the “nice guy” (the one who fakes being nice to get laid). It’s kinder to say you seem like a nice guy but I don’t feel a romantic connection than to say you find someone unattractive. OP is conflating the “nice guy” with actual nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:13 PM
1

Legally it depends what state you are in. In many only physical abuse is a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:53 PM
1

Obviously they are capable of splitting after, but telling them first sets the right expectations for your date to not be expecting free dinner from you
/r/MensRights19/07/24 11:43 AM
2

To be fair he was a minor and she is an adult who provided alcohol to a minor so even that isn’t really fair to put on him
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:44 PM
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You did nothing wrong! As the adult that provided alcohol to a minor (a felony in some states) and as the one presumably in the more coherent state of mind, she is the one with the questionable ethics in this situation. Again, she may have committed a felony that night and this situation is not your fault and does not make you a bad person at all.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:43 PM
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There are actually quite a few, such as: https://nypost.com/2024/07/17/us-news/funeral-details-announced-for-trump-victim-corey-comperatore/ https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cv2grvznd4jo.amp People do care and he is widely being called a hero There would be more if it had been a female firefighter tho due to media bias
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:53 PM
0

We can and should
/r/MensRights18/07/24 11:48 AM
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if I see a woman drowning… I will walk on by feminists have shown You’re gonna ignore a whole gender if any of them are in need because of what a political group (that includes people of the other gender!) has shown 🤔
/r/MensRights18/07/24 12:36 AM
3

Perhaps they are committed to the idea that humans are not prizes 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:42 PM
3

The dude she cheated with was married too, the point is they both deserve equal criticism, not that she doesn’t deserve criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:55 PM
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I have never said this nor heard anyone say this 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:51 PM
1

Andrew, because he sounds chill and won’t make me jealous and will get along with my friends. All the options are taller than me and beyond that I don’t care about height. Based on the descriptions he will most likely be the best in bed (decent sized peen and not a dick so he will probably put effort into my pleasure). I’m not very social either so I see us having nice chill evenings cuddling together, maybe playing some games together. My main concern is him being a gamer, but since he’s gonna …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:32 PM
1

Do you have any examples of these posts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:22 PM
1

Men should not base their self worth on women is correct for different reasons… nobody should base their self worth the opinions of others. To be the best version of yourself, base your self worth on your level of effort/progress toward your goals, reflecting on if you’ve made a genuine best effort at whatever they may be, not on outside opinions and especially not on the opinions of a set of people determined by gender
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:32 AM
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Yeah 3 is petty, unless she doesn’t ever return the favor
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:36 PM
-1

Personally, because I want someone about as goal driven as me.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:30 PM
1

Perhaps many of them mean they only support men’s rights because of the men in their lives because they wouldn’t have understood or even known about the issues if it weren’t for the men in their lives, not that they would stop caring about said issues if the men in their lives spontaneously combust tomorrow
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:56 AM
-1

Should we worry about the women that were widowed by freak accidents?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:52 AM
0

It goes both ways. There’s also men online blaming only women. Both equally silly
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:46 AM
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Nah, I know plenty of people who are very confident without the ability to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:22 PM
1

Yeah, maybe they “blindly followed their wives leads” but it’s also quite possible there is more to the story than you are aware of and they have very good reason to distance from that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:28 PM
1

Do you hate spineless and weak women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:16 PM
2

I wouldn’t call it “so many guys”. Rather the internet shows the loud/extreme/controversial. I’ve never heard a guy express hate towards single moms IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:14 PM
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Nobody where I live is demanding the right to “shit on men” … we are free to “shit on men” and shit on women and shit on whatever we want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:34 PM
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To be fair “good guy” implies not cheating on her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:30 PM
0

Are you against free speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:48 AM
9

Not sure where you are but where I live we have free speech… everyone has the right to complain about pretty much anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:44 AM
3

Why would you date such a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:29 AM
2

Having needs does not equal being entitled to a relationship. Women are always not entitled to a relationship either. Men are allowed to have needs too. Moving on from a partner who does not meet your needs is different than being entitled to someone who does… not a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:27 AM
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People do separate them tho. We just aren’t as a whole very good at it, especially when it comes to first impressions which are more based on looks. Similarly certain races are associated with crime and the stereotype of the group influences our perception of individuals, but we can still see people as individuals. Especially after we spend more time with someone. When people see an individual tall man act like a a shitty person, they will associate him with his negative traits, even if his heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:01 PM
0

Sounds like she was in love with dude 1 and in lust with dude 2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:45 PM
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Nope, that’s just a physical preference, hence separated from character. You just made the point of why people separate looks and who you are. They are separate things that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:17 PM
3

A good reason people separate it is because the ones that you are stuck with don’t show anything about who you are. Whereas being overweight or not brushing your teeth generally shows lack of discipline. IMO your character is more important, so the things that reflect on your character do say say who you are. The ones that you are stuck with do not say who you are so it makes sense to separate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:30 PM
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If the goal is a relationship involving genuine deep care that would last if(when) your looks decline, being duped by some guy who just wants anyone and doesn’t care about the connection, a man dating you for your looks is not success
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:42 AM
7

To an extent. Weight/fitness/health reflects on to who you are but how pretty your face is (yes being a healthy weight helps it’s appearance but I’m talking beyond that) or how curvy you are is what you are stuck with (with the exception of the wealthy).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:41 AM
2

In the US they do. The Department of justice found that the majority of rapes are prison rapes. Most studies aren’t surveying prisoners so they aren’t counted.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 09:15 PM
1

That did not answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:45 AM
6

Most of the men swiping right on her are not actually will to commit to her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:47 AM
6

Same, was also doing yard work at that age, and not just for my parents but neighbors too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:46 AM
1

why do you think dating is easy? I don’t. Good relationships take work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:40 AM
0

Do you honestly believe “every woman in existence” looks down on men who would use sex robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:38 AM
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I do not want a sex robot and I make fun of women that want a sex robot the same amount as I make fun of men who want a sex robot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:37 AM
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What percent of prime working age men are forecast to be single and childless then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:33 AM
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I am for the option and their existence, but against signing one myself. If I don’t trust a boyfriend enough to share everything of mine with him, I won’t marry him. I also don’t want to marry a man who doesn’t trust me the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:31 PM
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What’s that got to do with calling men soft? Telling men they can’t be soft pushes harmful gender stereotypes. Do you think the idea that men shouldn’t be soft isn’t harmful to mental health? Why can’t you hold friends accountable? I certainly want my friends to call me on my bs, nobody is perfect and good friends help you be a better person
/r/MensRights08/07/24 12:35 PM
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To be fair that should fall under physical health related issues
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:00 AM
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Comments like this are part of the problem
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:38 AM
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What do you mean by “we are not made equal “?
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:35 AM
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Ideas for helping anonymously: Donating to men’s shelters and suicide prevention organizations if you are able to give financially is a good way to help privately. Or even volunteering with such organizations, DV shelters generally are kept pretty private for safety reasons. Sending letters/emails to politicians (using a burner email) Anonymous instagram account to call out sexism I also wish I had more ideas for helping anonymously Publicly, I think starting with the least controversial points …
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:30 AM
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Needs, not in order: Integrity Fit, particularly stronger than me Likes outdoor activities Kind Strongly believes in equality Hard working Desire for a life long marriage and willing to put in the work to build and maintain a healthy, supportive relationship Goal driven, and supportive of my goals Prefers to have sex at least 3-4 times per week Tolerant of periods of long distance (I travel a lot for work) Frugal / lives within his (and eventually our) means At least 5’5” Likes cuddling Wants (n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:37 AM
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So if your partner is deployed overseas and you both do not have sex for that time bc you have agreed to only have sex with eachother, are you non monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:52 PM
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I’m saying my opinion is that being in a random hookup situation is not a good justification for lying about your salary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:57 PM
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I donate to private organizations working on male mental health and dv resources for men. I make sure to be there for my friends. The answer is stronger community and supporting our neighbors, not expanding the powers of the government. I also go out of my way to call out the hypocrisy whenever I hear of unequal funding or anybody opposing a men’s shelter (sadly they get a lot of oppositions from sexist/ignorant/hateful people)
/r/MensRights07/07/24 04:46 PM
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With strict restrictions, yes Yes No. Adult decisions, such as taking the risk of having sex, come with adult responsibility. If the baby is an accident, both participants bare responsibility. They both consented to taking the informed risk of potentially becoming parents. Obviously this only apppies to consensual sex and baby trapping (such as one person lying about their bc) is also an exception bc in that case it was not an informed risk, the extent of the risk was not consensual. No. Almost …
/r/MensRights07/07/24 04:26 PM
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Why would men not having orgasms result in a society of single moms??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:59 PM
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Why don’t you want equality?
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:58 PM
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Nah, it’s that 99.9% of us believe in equality under the law
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:47 PM
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And not conscripting anyone would also be equality
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:38 PM
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My main one would be the focus on dating is excessive imo, when I consider issues such as conscription, gender discrimination in admissions and scholarship funding, gendered auto insurance prices, bias in the courts, lack of homeless shelters that accept men, mental health, suicide prevention, etc far more important
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:37 PM
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Still survive, like op was saying it could without women orgasming. How is that related to single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:32 PM
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With modern technology, men could also never orgasm again and the species could still
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:04 AM
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Why do you think segregating by social class is a good idea?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:30 PM
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An individual man not lying gives him the self respect of getting to go to sleep with integrity individually. And the sort of person who value integrity generally prefers to surround themselves with others who share that quality. This for men with integrity, the incentive is to have a good friend group of likeminded men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:36 PM
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Class as in economic class? Or like grade 5 class grade 6 class etc?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:26 PM
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This! Both taking the high road and winning at life
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:25 PM
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Noooo! Remember “seperate but equal” and the Plessy vs Ferguson case? It would not be equal, taking segregation that far is not the answer
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:24 PM
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the thought of being surrounded by feminists deters me You would still be around people “indoctrinated into feminist ideology“ at an all male program
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:23 PM
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The majority of politicians don’t give a shit about the majority of issues average Americans have
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:17 PM
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feminists solve women’s issues, men can solve men’s issues False comparison. Feminists are comparable to MRAs and women are comparable to men. Comparing a political group to a gender is nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:15 PM
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In YOUR examples that’s the only difference. But one can have sex with a friend without being in an LTR. In an LTR you plan where to live, careers, etc with consideration of how it affects your life partner. Virgins in LTRs plan lives together too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:22 PM
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That’s my point… you plan your life around an LTR and NOT around your friends… sex is not the only difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:57 PM
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Nope, definitely not obligated. It would generally be a super weird thing to ask a stranger and in most contexts also odd to bring up a stranger, so like there’s no good reason to lie. One could simply say they don’t discuss finances with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:56 PM
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IF it comes up I’m honest about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:30 PM
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I suppose I’d have better luck out there if you weren’t out there encouraging people to lie 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:23 PM
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your continued existence harms them Who do you mean by “them” ?
/r/MensRights05/07/24 05:19 PM
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Nah, another big difference is commitment and planning yalls lives around each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:17 PM
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just lie in that case I’d like to think a lot of men have more integrity than that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:15 PM
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My ideal at this time in my life is one person I feel comfortable with and trust to have many many hookups with, no condom involved. It can be more than one time but no dating, staying an ongoing hookup not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:13 PM
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I have orgasmed from PIV with every man I have been in a serious relationship with and would not commit to someone I couldn’t share that experience with. I think I cum from PIV more easily than “average”, so I don’t foresee it being a deal breaker I actually encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:29 AM
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Yes, everybody’s beliefs are based on their personal circumstances I’ve never seen a woman’s relationship status change her entertainment of combative feminism. People who are combative generally only change if they do significant self work such as reflecting on how they harmed someone they care about or going to therapy. Rarely the right relationship does inspire someone to actually become a better person, but usually the motivation to do the self work lasting character change takes has to come…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:17 AM
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If there were an opt-out standard paternity test, do you think that would result in “the MASS abuse of men, around the world, that are doomed to slavery for a child that is not his, on the whims of a cheating slut”?
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:24 PM
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Freedom. Expanding the powers of the federal government to include mandatory dna collection would be a terrible precedent
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:01 PM
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Women literally can’t reply to Q4M bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:34 AM
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Paternity fraud should be prosecuted like insurance fraud is
/r/MensRights04/07/24 02:56 AM
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I quit attempting to use outfits to protect me from this sort of thing years ago when it was about 10°F outside and I was running in two pairs of sweats over fleece leggings and a big thick hoodie and an ear warmer head wrap … basically as modest as one could practically get for physical activity and was cat called and followed by are car that creepily paced me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:41 AM
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They don’t answer honestly when asked and instead say “I prefer weak … Sooooo you just wrote a bunch of bs, thanks troll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:56 AM
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Have you really ever heard a woman say she prefers weak men?? 🧐🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:42 AM
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What exactly are you noping? You don’t think women ever get selected/rejected based on looks??
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:27 AM
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Not “all men” would agree with it. It’s stupid to imply that all of any gender would agree on any particular issue. I think plenty of men would rather not live in any more of a dystopian society than we already do! And plenty would rather not further their expand government power!
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:25 AM
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And there is a huge shortage of men in these fields. As long as there are STEM scholarships for women specifically, there should be psychology scholarships for men specifically.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:12 AM
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Yes! Pretty privilege applies to both men and women. Those with less attractive biological traits on people of both sexes make lower salary than their more attractive counterparts.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 12:11 AM
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There is nothing wrong with or immoral about “dating” multiple people at once as long as you aren’t pretending to any of them that yall are exclusive. Now I suppose that in theory you can have the same mindset and show no need for a woman while also not playing the field with 2-3 other women. But I would say many of us have strong urges for sex and also relationships so not dating at all while you know you want these things is hard I suppose that in theory playing the field with 2-3 and not dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:05 AM
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What you describe in France is a great example of government overreach doing more harm than good, as is common with the expansion of the federal government. In the U.S. things keep getting worse as the power of the federal government slowly expands and our freedoms erode and being less and less free becomes the new normal. I will keep advocating against the expansion of government power, including advocating against any sort of mandatory genetic testing at birth or any stage of life.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 11:58 PM
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There is privacy to the an extent one chooses. Posting your life on tik tok is entirely optional. As is carrying around a phone. Do you think we should just give up on privacy all together?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:43 PM
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The key word there is choose! Making it a standard test is extremely different than making it mandatory at birth Unrelated mandatory medical tests at birth would set a terrible precedent for the overreaching of government, another reason I could never get on board with mando DNA testing at birth
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:42 PM
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Yep, would be extremely different than mandatory DNA testing, and I have agreed with other users on this thread that an OPTION is great
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:39 PM
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No. The privacy issue is the reason behind the very real dilemma. I don’t trust the powers that be to not misuse the DNA. It follows that giving my child’s DNA to the powers that be would be setting my child up for genetic discrimination in the future. Before I further continue either, will you answer my question? How did I shift the goal post? My position is unchanged
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:37 PM
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I understand one can test for paternity without sequencing DNA, however OP specifically asked if DNA testing should be mandatory at birth. It should not be. No testing should be mandatory at birth as people should be free to give birth in the privacy of their own homes if they so choose. Not saying that would be a smart thing to do but we should be free to do it!
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:33 PM
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If a guy is average in America, he IS quite overweight, and thus should expect to date mostly people who are also quite overweight. Perhaps your perception of what is average is very skewed or you live somewhere else but the advice on here is mostly geared towards Americans and country with similarly overweight populations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:30 PM
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Exactly. Let’s to move toward a Gattica state
/r/MensRights03/07/24 04:03 PM
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I don’t, but strongly believe we SHOULD, and want to minimize the further erosion of our privacy!
/r/MensRights03/07/24 04:00 PM
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Denying people jobs etc on the basis of disorders or negative predispositions in their dna
/r/MensRights03/07/24 04:00 PM
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I don’t know why you think advocating against a mandate is advocating for cuckery
/r/MensRights03/07/24 03:59 PM
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Right, you are advocating for the government to force dna paternity tests at birth, taking away the choice of keeping one’s dna private. I am advocating for freedom. I’d have no problem paternity testing my potential kids privately with one I by myself. What I’m against is a mandate.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 03:57 PM
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Why do you feel you should get to make that choice for him, instead of him having the agency to choose which risk to take?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 01:04 PM
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Correct, TRP is culture and dating focused whereas MRA includes legal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:20 PM
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You trust the government to enforce the privacy? I certainly don’t, hence the concern about the infringement on the right to be free of discrimination. If genetic information got added as a protected class federally forbidding discrimination on the basis of genetics that would be a start but I still believe there is and will continue to be discrimination, just like there is illegal discrimination on the basis of sex, race, etc.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 12:18 PM
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Basically that the government (and big pharma and potential employers) ought not to be invading the genetic privacy of anybody, and especially not of children without parental consent. If DNA parental testing was mandatory , this would also infringe upon every parent’s right to privacy. And indirectly the privacy rights of every man as anybody could claim a random man was a father, thus subjecting him to DNA collection. To me I consider it a part of the right to privacy, some rights conflict eac…
/r/MensRights03/07/24 11:57 AM
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That shows me more comments arguing that sex is not a need lol. Some argue men need more confidence. Some argue men need to stop seeking validation from women. Some argue men need social acceptance. Can you link to even 3 that claim sex is a need? Out of the 500+ comments? Or are you just making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:53 AM
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How is optional DNA testing available a form of forced ignorance? Like if every father had the option to personally perform a private at home blood test on his child, as supposed to everyone being entered into a mandatory database?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:45 AM
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Genetic discrimination!!
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:37 AM
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How would objecting based on concerns about genetic discrimination show hypocrisy?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:36 AM
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What about the heartbreak of finding out he was turned down for a cool opportunity because of genetic discrimination based on a DNA test you advocated for him to have to get?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:35 AM
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This! Much different than mandatory and same benefit for fathers
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:32 AM
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Do you consider a child’s right to know their parentage more important than a child’s right to be free from genetic discrimination?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:28 AM
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Absolutely not. I do not want to be part of a world full of genetic discrimination such as in Gattica.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:26 AM
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I scrolled pretty far down the comments in the linked post and don’t see any comments claiming sex is a NEED?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:23 AM
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unusually high Compared to what?
/r/MensRights02/07/24 11:45 PM
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it just requires one to be an adult It requires TWO to be adultS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:47 AM
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Because it is nearly impossible (in most of the U.S. and such places that sex work is illegal and/or unregulated) to ascertain that said sex worker is doing sex work consensually and not being coerced by their “boss”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:44 PM
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Or perhaps what people want changes over time, logically being different at 34 than 24
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:52 PM
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I’d imagine “the system” refers to both government and privately funded social resources as well as the relevant pressures from society. It is gendered as it is much harder for a male victim to find safe housing and support resources. That’s not to say it’s not hard for female victims. More shelters and mental health resources should be created for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:45 PM
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So are you saying that drunk women can consent? Yes, just like drunk men. The validity of consent is not gender dependent. Thus drunk women having sex shouldn't be classified rape? Usually no, sometimes yes. Both men and women can be sooooo drunk (ie passed out or at least unable to stand up enough to walk/crawl or say intelligible words) that they couldn’t consent. In such a case it should be classified as rape. Also are accepting the fact that if a woman regrets having sex while being drunk th…
/r/MensRights26/06/24 05:20 PM
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Yeah, he can. Anybody CAN claim anything, but two wrongs still don’t make a right
/r/MensRights26/06/24 02:32 PM
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I’d add a third reason which I believe is genuine although more rare: they genuinely like each other and just happen to have an age gap but it’s not about the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:30 PM
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The women calling them creeps are for the most part not the ones dating them. Women are billions of individuals who do not all have the same opinion on age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:27 PM
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maybe women should take greater steps into finding a man who actually like them Maybe nobody should be a dishonest POS pretending to like somebody just to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:51 AM
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Only being friends with one sex Talking more than they know instead of knowing more than they talk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:46 AM
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Sound of their voice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:21 AM
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Your post claims RP is not about shaming women. Are you now claiming it’s about shaming women who deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:18 AM
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Nope, red pill does both. Some elements of red pill seek to understand women and some elements of red pill shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:11 AM
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Nope. The opposite - I lose respect for a man who does not perform oral sex from me with the caveat of IF he enjoys blow jobs from me. If a man doesn’t want oral in either direction I respect that. I don’t respect a person who expects to receive but not give something in a relationship, whether said thing be sexual or not. I similarly lose respect for a person who expects me to be a good listener but doesn’t make an effort to be a good listener for me or a person who expects me to engage with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:09 AM
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Actually, plenty of them are settling for “typical “ companionships. There are lots of childfree married couples There are also plenty of men who are good partners who do not want children so what exactly is in it for the men Love, exclusivity, building a life with somebody, being a team, companionship into old age If a man desires commitment, that is generally a two way street regardless of children do you just want childfree monogamy at any cost Obviously no. I want childfree monogamy with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:27 PM
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There of plenty of women not thinking or pretending to think they are 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:11 PM
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People shame other people for their preferences because people are selfish assholes sometimes. Not so different from men shaming women for having standards. It’s not just women feeling a need to shame men. It’s a people in general often hate on each others success, such as due to being jealous of the relationships others succeed at building. Personal I don’t do this nor do I think shaming others would help me achieve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:57 AM
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How does Josh Hawley’s position on something tell us about feminism?
/r/MensRights20/06/24 11:18 PM
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I think that a woman (or man) staying home and contributing to the relationship by handling cooking/cleaning/childcare while the man (or woman) brings in the money CAN be healthy as long as neither was pressured into the roll. While dynamic of a stay at home spouse CAN be abusive, it is not inherently so. I never said anybody being a parasite is healthy, don’t put words in my mouth please.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 08:26 PM
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It really depends on the context. Like is that what they both wanted and mutually decided was best for the family or did one of them feel pressured into their roll?
/r/MensRights20/06/24 04:08 PM
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I’m sorry you don’t get to see any examples of healthy romantic relationships :(
/r/MensRights20/06/24 03:08 AM
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This situation can be avoided by telling the waiter when you order that you will be paying separately. This is more considerate to the waiter staff anyway as it is less hassle for them if they make separate tickets from the start rather than have to go back and split it up at the end.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 03:07 AM
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The benevolent part means well intentioned in the context I think. Still sexist and still wrong.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 05:53 PM
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To each their own… but I won’t date somebody extremely religious or who won’t fuck me until we’re married!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:47 PM
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Somebody of either gender whose hatefulness towards those of the opposite gender prevents them from successfully interacting with them. Or somebody dripping with racism to such an extent that nobody wants to be associated with them. Or somebody hating the world with such a shit attitude that they are too unpleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:30 PM
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Red flag reasons: Because you are hateful Because you are waiting for marriage (this does not mean you are a bad person at all. It’s just a red flag for an incompatibility as I am not interested in waiting for marriage) Because you are extremely religious (this one alsodoes not mean you are a bad person at all. It’s just a red flag for an incompatibility as I am not interested in building a life with somebody very religious) Trauma that you are avoiding indefinitely Non red flag reasons: You are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:22 AM
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I love his attitude. The way he is humble and at the same time promoting the fact that men are perfectly capable of parenting.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 12:33 AM
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It’s sounds like a teenager who is genuinely (NOT rightfully, just genuinely) confused/scared is being misled by a bunch of idiots on the internet. But to call her a slutty girl because of that? Seems quite harsh a judgement to me every single man is obsessed with them and would blow up their lives for the chance to get close to their overweight, heavily make-up arrogant, repulsive selves Damn bro speak for yourself, most men are not actually the sex obsessed unable to think with their brain dum…
/r/MensRights19/06/24 12:27 AM
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Clearly not what she said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:02 AM
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Because marriage, like many things in life, is what you make it, and I intend to make mine a great one in all facets, marriage is a terrible thing for women This is quite the broad generalization women who get married lose job opportunities, lose years of their life expectantcy This is a statistical average, but with the right partner the opposite of these statements can be true can potentially lose years of working experience Do you mean due to kids? If so this is not unique to being married ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:59 AM
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Fault is hard to prove. Say a woman wrongs you but you have no proof, is being unable to divorce in such a situation worth doing away with no fault divorce? Plus what about the cases in which both partners genuinely tried but are not comparing wish to divorce amicably? She the be forced to make up a story of one of them doing something crazy? And imagine the cost of litigating most divorce. Would be exhausting and expensive, and in many cases unnecessarily so.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 11:53 PM
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This would be far better than abandoning no fault divorce. Much more fair
/r/MensRights14/06/24 12:30 AM
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If you are in an abusive relationship, but have no proof, would you like no fault divorce to exist? If your partner cheats on you but you cannot prove it, would you like no fault divorce to exist?
/r/MensRights14/06/24 12:30 AM
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I’m confused, how does this lead to the conclusion that feminine belongs to feminism?
/r/MensRights13/06/24 12:33 AM
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“Masculine” isn’t really an identity either. I’d rather see us push for accepting people as they are, especially in changing how society is more critical of “feminine” men than of “masculine“ women. Why do you think feminine belongs to feminism? Do you think non feminist women are not feminine? How can a trait belong to a political group?
/r/MensRights12/06/24 11:51 PM
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Men’s rights is about so much more than masculinity. It’s about EQUALITY. Masculinity is not just for men and femininity is not just for women. It is okay to have “feminine” qualities as a man. We should encourage society to be more accepting of this. Let’s not perpetuate harmful stereotypes or gender rolls here.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 10:28 PM
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Very disheartening comments 😢
/r/MensRights11/06/24 04:38 AM
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Or have the audacity to wear a dress like Harry Styles
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:26 PM
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The law does not require hiring women who can’t do the job. It just requires giving women an equal chance at it. The company sounds fucked up.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:53 PM
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Who is “they”?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:50 PM
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Why aren't women required to engage in selective service too? Most recently because despite a female vet proposing a bill to change it, old men keep voting against the change. Is this sexual equality for women only when it suits them? Only when it suits *congress. Does this mean that the life of a man is worth less than of a woman? Congress is full of selfish assholes and this has nothing to do with anyone’s actual value Why should men pay the ultimate prize but not women? It’s wrong we shouldn’…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:49 PM
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Relationships build on leverage is not new. Such as your example of a guy that would like to find a woman who will cook him dinner every day (and in exchange, he will provide the majority of the money), which was more common in the previous century. At least as long as marriage has existed as a legal contract in the west, there have been many marriages based on this sort of trade/business arrangement.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 11:54 AM
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Freedom, equality, etc is all relative. While it is sad to see these values being eroded in the U.S., I truly believe it is still the freest country in the world and probably between 10th and 15th for equality. Other reasons include: GI bill benefits, pension, pride, stability, learn valuable skills, opportunity to do something unusual such as jump out of helicopters, desire to rescue people, escape poverty or other home issues
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:05 PM
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Perhaps it’s got to do with increase in how many posts are repeats of articles already posted, venting, broad generalizations, or discussions of dating issues when I’d imagine a lot of the people initially on here were more concerned with actual legal issues and advocacy and discussing policy change ideas
/r/MensRights01/06/24 12:53 PM
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No… who is claiming that??
/r/MensRights31/05/24 11:14 AM
2

How does speculating on who is the problem in relationships further men’s rights?
/r/MensRights31/05/24 12:57 AM
5

You don’t think it would increase false accusations?
/r/MensRights31/05/24 12:53 AM
35

A male only draft is comparable to a female only draft. Both deeply sexist and deplorable and unrelated to a womb registry
/r/MensRights31/05/24 12:52 AM
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Women aren’t just slaves to hormones. If she goes thru with a gender based abortion she is guilty of eugenics.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:28 PM
2

Out of curiosity are men allowed to sell sex there or just women?
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:18 PM
1

Protest, smuggle him to safety, fight alongside him, protect him as a parent should. The more people fighting on your kid’s side, the more likely his survival
/r/MensRights30/05/24 10:06 AM
3

No draft or gender neutral draft
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:24 AM
1

Who are you to say what women want?
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:23 AM
2

1) equality in criminal justice system - prosecution and sentencing should not be gendered. A woman who hits a man should face the same consequences as a man who hits a woman. Equal resources should be put into saving boys from kidnap/rape/SA/abuse/murder as saving girls. 2) equal resources for mental health, dv, and homelessness. Especially in publicly funded shelters/clinics, discrimination should not be allowed 3) gender rolls - society should not be so much harsher on “feminine” men than on …
/r/MensRights30/05/24 02:14 AM
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Disagree. While there is a lack of positive role models, is I could pick between willing into existence equal rights or equal roll models, I’d pick equal rights. As much as I’d like to see more healthy role models, equal treatment in the court of law, in the draft, of SA victims, in domestic violence resources, mental health, and in auto insurance to name just a few examples is far more important to me.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 01:15 AM
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Most women are not saying washing dishes is worse than a bullet in the head. Rather most people privileged enough to worry about gender issues are not at war and dishes are a far more likely “threat” day to day than the draft. Do you even have one example of a woman saying washing dishes is worse than a being shot??
/r/MensRights27/05/24 08:44 PM
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Is that the fault of the women that left or the government that did not allow the men to leave too? I would argue abandoning your 16 year old is horrible however leaving a 60 year old who knowingly chose for decades to live in a country in which he could be drafted is on him.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 08:37 PM
0

No, I don’t wish to paint myself as a victim. Rather I think serving based on gender is stupid. Like paying reparations based on race, to someone you don’t know based on the crimes of an ancestor you never had any control over. Turning men to what exactly? I’ve worked with explosives as a federal tech, have you risked getting blown up? What am I unappreciative of?
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:26 PM
1

Nah, plenty of women care about character too. If you are a shitty enough person, all the looks money and status in the world won’t cancel that out for a woman who wants a healthy, loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:21 PM
0

Are you suggesting that because some feminists are whiny or vengeful, women in general get blown up??
/r/MensRights22/05/24 12:28 AM
1

While I disagree with it, to be fair this thread is anti feminist not anti woman
/r/MensRights22/05/24 12:25 AM
14

Everyone is seen as a commodity.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 02:48 AM
-51

How about join up WITH the men? It doesn’t have to be one or the other
/r/MensRights14/05/24 02:45 AM
2

Dating apps don’t estimate anybody’s value. The people using them do
/r/MensRights08/05/24 04:08 PM
1

You used a tik tok as your example to argue that “the least a male could do is pick up the bill” Are you suggesting calling women females is a problem but calling men males is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:04 PM
1

A grown adult should not be expected to pay for another adult’s poor financial decisions, especially those of a stranger. Frankly someone spending that much on makeup would be a deal breaker for me. Why do you think most women are like one wackadoo on tik tok? If a male wears makeup on a date with a female who doesn’t wear makeup on the date, should the female pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:24 AM
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I do too, I was more curious if OP used to hold doors for everyone and is now sexist in door holding only for men or if he used to be sexist in only door holding for women and now doesn’t door hold for any strangers. Determining whether to hold the door for someone based on their gender is super weird imo.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 05:13 AM
21

It’s also pissing me off that the article refers to him (the little boy) as “it”.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:59 AM
1

Are you suggesting that a portion of non feminist men will begin to fight feminists?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:14 AM
9

A lot of them are pressure sensors, as in they detect the object by hitting it. Holding an elevator door open with your arm is quite a common thing. You really think we’re stupid enough to believe all elevators are inspected that well anyway?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:07 AM
6

Do you hold doors for unknown men?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:03 AM
1

What would this war be against?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:00 AM
12

she play a lot of games There’s your answer
/r/MensRights06/05/24 07:37 PM
9

Those women aren’t fucking around by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:41 PM
33

No. People don’t usually discuss virginity at work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:59 PM
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Good thing in a free country you don’t need anyone to let you be yourself right?…right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:38 PM
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This. Not to say don’t value your partner/friends/family but you need to put yourself first, both for your own sake as you are worthy of taking care of yourself first and also bc you can’t show up as well for others if you are pouring from an empty pot
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:14 PM
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Every adult will face hard uncomfortable conversations at times. If you can’t accept that, you’re not an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:01 PM
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They do take work. But the good ones take work at communicating and having the hard conversations, not at trying to be someone you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:12 PM
2

I wouldn’t care. I’d rather not stumble upon anyone alone out in the forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:32 PM
1

Right, that would totally help with inflation and the struggles or being a single income household etc
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:44 PM
2

Is it? I’m constantly seeing posts on here about how women refuse to “date down”
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:41 PM
1

Your sentences literally contradict each other
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:37 PM
2

It would be a good start not enough. Society need to change too. Sexism is in culture too not just the law. How would gender neutral law help with the inflation or cost of healthcare? Or keep foreign investors from pushing up the cost of living for middle class families?
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:35 PM
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Ah extremely misleading title
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:47 AM
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Normalize and encourage SAHDs Normalize and encourage SAHMs Normalize the woman making more Unnormalize (shame) lying and cheating Decrease inflation Improve the public school system. Sooo many things to change about it but for starters perhaps teach that more fulfillment is likely to be found in a loving stable relationship than in being a furry Ban foreigners buying up single family homes Also get wall street out of the single family home market Make giving birth and health care in general les…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:15 AM
1

Are you suggesting to not take women seriously or to not take women who choose the bear seriously?
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:02 AM
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As a woman, I expect men (individual humans) to take me seriously as an individual human instead of getting all worked up irl about a stupid meme. I plan to judge others on the content of their character, not their gender, and expect others to do the same. If someone can’t see me as an individual human and would prefer to judge me based on my gender and some shit they heard on the internet, I’d prefer to not keep that person in my life. Ridiculing, bullying, and belittling is not the path forwar…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:01 AM
3

Right, boys are animals that can’t control their impulses and this would cause them to only think about sex /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:55 AM
3

Because she is dating an individual man she sees as a human being, vs a broad generalization in the damn bear meme
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:35 PM
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Not sure why you feel that femininity is better. This idea you’ve got of women being better is misandry and very unhealthy, both for you and those around you. I suggest therapy to help you move past these toxic thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:31 PM
0

It is. So is the amount of posts about it
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:17 PM
48

Both amounts are insane for a date and I would be off put by the financial irresponsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:15 PM
-17

Taking boys seriously when they are abused would result in feminists taking over?? Please tell me I’m misunderstanding you
/r/MensRights04/05/24 05:47 PM
11

Correct. And assuming she wasn’t creating it in the classroom or promoting it to children etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:25 PM
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Legal in the U.S. For example CNN has one that allowed them to fire Chris Cuomo for defending Andrew Cuomo https://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/business-negotiations/preparing-for-the-worst-in-business-negotiations-nb/?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:24 PM
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Depends on their contract. If they agreed upon taking the job not to post adult content, then they should face the consequences for breaking their word. If there was no “morality clause” or any other prior agreement to what the teacher will do online outside of work, then no it is not reasonable or fair to discipline it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:09 PM
-1

To clarify, are you saying OP is right that men don’t defend pedophiles??
/r/MensRights04/05/24 05:02 PM
47

It’s incredibly sad how the abuse of boys is not taken seriously enough even in 2024
/r/MensRights04/05/24 04:45 PM
11

Volodymyr Zelenskyy signing sexism into law yet again
/r/MensRights04/05/24 04:43 PM
-16

How does Ukraine prove anything about men in all the western countries?
/r/MensRights04/05/24 04:41 PM
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Never is quite the exaggeration. And provably false. Some feminists really do believe in equality.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 12:20 PM
4

Like it happens less where burkas are mandatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:03 AM
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I do not believe there is a rise of female pedophiles, rather a rise in female pedophiles being called out and getting media attention. The have always been female perpetrators of sexual crimes. It is progress that these crimes are being acknowledged more. Next step is getting them punished equally.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 03:00 AM
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“Women are wonderful“ is a fucked up phenomena in modern society. I’m glad you escaped the bs. Don’t let anyone trick you into “seeing your mother’s point of view”. It is not your fault. Don’t listen to anyone who suggests it is. I know that men don’t do this Bullshit. Both men and women do atrocious things such as defend pedophiles. Let’s not pretend men don’t.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 02:55 AM
5

Society is still sexist
/r/MensRights04/05/24 12:23 AM
0

I’m so sick of hearing about the damn bear meme
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:53 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:49 AM
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If you didn’t know anything of his character would you consider him your ally? Why should anybody assume a stranger to be their ally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:51 PM
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I’m saying I wouldn’t respect any human who hasn’t demonstrated good character. Why would I respect anybody just for the things you listed? A woman who met the same standards you listed wouldn’t inherently have my respect either. Lifestyle doesn’t show character. Thus I won’t respect anybody based solely off life style if they are not a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:50 PM
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That’s false and we both know it. Plus my respect for this hypothetical dude would depend on his hypothetical actual character not appearance of character
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:19 PM
1

Depends on what both individuals agreed to / signed up for. If they both committed to monogamy and she held up her end of any other commitments she made going in, believed it was true love etc and he was faking the whole time I’d feel sympathy. If she was a gold digger not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:14 PM
2

Unimportant. I dislike gender rolls and labeling things as masculine or feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:13 PM
1

Plenty of young people value relationships/get married. This is very individual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:12 PM
1

Everybody settles to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:11 PM
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Having character Integrity can be asked of humans, such as men Is he kind in general? Does he treat his parents well? Is he a thief? Does he try his best to be a good person overall? What you listed tells us nothing of his values
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:10 PM
1

Also because undesirable men aren’t actually less likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:07 PM
1

Entertainment / boredom Ego boost from getting likes Wanting to get laid Looking for a relationship Advertising only fans type contents Pre arranging dates in a place they will travel too Buying/selling drugs Promoting clubs Finding people with dogs to socialize your dog with Social anxiety / preferring online communication before in person interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 PM
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Your statement was no more logical than hers. Either of you should be willing to sacrifice yourself for the family. Of course she was visiblly upset after being called a bad parent, accused of drinking too much, called out on her victim mentality. Anybody would be upset by this conversation. You turned it into a personal attack. Would you not be upset by a friend throwing all these negative things at you for the sake of winning a hypothetical argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:52 PM
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People generally befriend people who are similar to themselves. There is a strong correlation between fitness related hobbies, gym going, putting effort into personal health, and putting effort into appearance, with attractiveness. People also tend to get less shallow with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:48 PM
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Quietly working their asses off, not making wack tik toks. Many of the type of feminist you describe are identifying as Egalitarian instead now the feminism has become associated with the princess treatment, “girlbossing” in toxic ways, quotas/reverse discrimination, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:39 PM
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Why/how? Is it a government handout?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 05:21 AM
1

Idgaf about restrooms. At work if I gotta go really bad and women’s full but men’s is available, I use it. Also if my hands are very greasy I use the men’s because it has soap that is significantly better for cutting thru grease. Similarly if the men’s is full and women’s open (much more common as my coworkers are 90% male but there are equal amounts of men’s and women’s toilets) my male coworkers use the women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:54 AM
1

Having a strong dislike of a specific person is due to their individual character flaws is different than disliking an individual because they happen to be part of a privileged group
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:13 PM
1

Interesting. I have a lot of empathy for people, no matter how privileged in other ways, who have to face heartbreaking situations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:24 AM
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They’re related in the sense that is judging/excluding individuals on the basis of a group and the actions of others in said group that the individual cannot control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:23 AM
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If a woman chooses monogamy, by that standard she will only date way way way less than 1% of the male population… leaving alot of men disaffected. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:11 PM
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Would you consider it ok to do the same based on race if you believed most individuals of one race to be just wanting attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:07 PM
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Very topic dependent, but money doesn’t solve everything. For example losing a child to cancer, I would empathize with anyone. However if it’s a topic money could solve, such as access to good education, if the rich person is just griping and not moving their kid to a better school whereas the poor person cannot afford to move the kid, I would only empathize with the poor parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:04 PM
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No, I’m asking if you empathize with women on non gender specific issues the same as you might empathize with men on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:52 PM
1

Why cut potential friends out of one’s life based on gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:49 PM
1

Do you empathize with women who struggle in school or with health issues or the death of a loved one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:07 PM
1

Do you empathize with women who struggle in school or with health issues or the death of a loved one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:07 PM
0

You can’t empathize with women who struggle in school or with health issues or the death of a loved one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:06 PM
1

Do you believe there are significantly more lazy women than lazy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:02 PM
1

I’m not sure it is downplayed. In comparison aren’t the draft, bias in the courts, and more fluid gender rolls far more important examples of female privilege? Where do you think make up use would rank appropriately as a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:25 PM
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I have no empathy for women who do this bullshit either. Just didn’t bring it up bc the question was about empathy for people of the opposite sex. Taking credit for the work of others because you are the same gender/race/hair color/age /family name/have 6 toes is super lame regardless imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:14 PM
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Im not arguing against that fact that there are more men in those fields. Im saying I do not empathize with men who do not do those jobs complaining about it. If it was made by men who actually do the hard jobs I might empathize but I have no empathy for a keyboard warrior in a cushy office taking credit for the work of other men bc he has the same chromosomes as them. I think everyone is an individual and dislike broad generalizations as a whole, not this y the ones about the hard jobs. Such as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:10 PM
1

How is emotionally checking out cheating if she isn’t emotionally checking in with someone else? That’s like calling not have sex cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:53 AM
2

Lack of purpose. I think this is the biggest contributor to apathy in society as a whole (women too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:52 AM
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I empathize with men on many issues, tho not all the ones I see complained about on here. Examples I empathize with: Bias in the courts Expectation to be confident/make the first move - I’ve tried before and to shy to even initiate flirting. Can’t imagine having to almost always be the initiator to get anywhere The draft more restrictive gender roll expectations (such as it’s ok or even cool for me to be tomboyish, dress in men’s clothes, and work in the trades whereas a man who wants to wear a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:51 AM
1

Are they not a well known and widely used tactic for women to get quick action on getting the man kicked out when they are not married?
/r/MensRights17/04/24 10:43 PM
1

Are you less likely to get falsely accused if not married?
/r/MensRights17/04/24 02:21 AM
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Where is this good chunk of women claiming they won’t settle for a man who makes less than 6 figures? I have yet to meet one irl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:08 PM
5

Nuclear meltdowns would be eminent
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:33 PM
1

Who is we?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:52 PM
7

In what ways do men sacrifice health and sanity that women do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:25 PM
6

IF there is a huge number of trolls on here, what leads to the conclusion that they are actually the sex they claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:21 PM
2

The ones who post that on the internet probably wouldn’t. We don’t need any more creepy family vloggers. But I do care about the many women that are in that situation who got duped by myths society tells about the 20s and quietly going thru it themselves doing the best they can to navigate a fucked up world like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:20 PM
1

Why let what the majority do determine when you will consider doing something with an individual?
/r/MensRights06/04/24 09:48 PM
5

What portion of women not being promiscuous would it take for you to consider it “women being non-promiscuous”?
/r/MensRights06/04/24 07:28 PM
1

Age 40 is only halfway to the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:20 PM
2

I prefer men who don’t talk about politics much. I prefer men who DO than who TALK
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:12 AM
17

What about kindness, support, companionship, affection, building a life together, honesty, loyalty, stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:04 AM
2

Having female faces in the movement is important for credibility. Just like how hiring a female divorce lawyer helps a man a the hearing and men helped women get the right to vote. Appearances matter. Not saying they should but they do. You sound sexist and condescending af.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 02:08 AM
2

What is a feminist-lite?
/r/MensRights04/04/24 02:05 AM
2

There are shitty people in all walks of life. This is why it’s super important to research charities before donating and do our best to not support narcissists who will take money only to bully their staff and undermine the cause. Even with thorough research we sometimes won’t find out until too late but this is not unique to MRA. I’d like to think that most MRAs mean well.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 02:03 AM
0

Perhaps other autistic guys care more about other people’s feelings than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:03 PM
2

Nope. Providing stability is more valuable than being about to leave at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:02 PM
1

They are systemic in the sense of the economic system (ie women’s outfits make more of a difference at work than men’s)but not so much the legal system to my knowledge. Socially the “norm” is for women to put a lot more effort into going out such as makeup and cute outfits. This is enforced by both men and women - the women dressing up/following the norm continue it being the norm and then men hitting on attractive women/complimenting/having arm candy etc are giving positive reinforcement too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:44 PM
1

Youre conflating separate issues. The hate men get online is unrelated to lesbians getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:39 PM
8

What movements are you referring to? I haven’t heard of this
/r/MensRights01/04/24 03:12 PM
2

Yes that was rediculous. At least most of the comments pointed out that that was a super silly thing to complain about so I don’t think the majority of feminists are worked up about purse holders.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 12:14 AM
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It is NOT logical to take out “frustration at the insane level of delusion, unrealistic standards and inflated egos of modern women” on an individual woman just because she rejected an advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:12 AM
0

I’m 6’5 and quite handsome Possibly arrogant too? If you go around calling yourself handsome that could be way more of a turn off than not being NT Being a scumabag is way more of a dealbreaker once noticed. It’s just easier to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:19 PM
1

Personally I think the bar is low because the average American is pretty fat. So just by being a healthy weight you can be well above average looking. Combine that with the average American is pretty selfish so just doing your best to be kind in general will give you a better personality than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 05:56 PM
1

Why not ask if they believe men should be eligible for conscription? And I men should be allowed to vote etc
/r/MensRights25/03/24 11:34 PM
10

No, being an abuser and using your kids to manipulate is what’s pathetic
/r/MensRights20/03/24 08:26 PM
1

I’m a woman and believe we should build more men’s shelters. I don’t get how the statement “women feel that men should not have men’s shelters” is true. And I believe it even less as no examples are provided. The replies are instead sexistly conflating “women” and “feminists”. And we should quit making or supporting sexist and provably false statements. What don’t you get?
/r/MensRights20/03/24 06:53 PM
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Because shitty selfish folks come in all genders, races, etc. NIMBYS opposed the men’s shelter in NYC. Rich folk don’t want “the poors” nearby, male or female. There are lots of shitty men in the world too you know. Not just shitty women. There are lots of male feminists. You say she was threatened by her former feminist colleagues. I’d imagine some were female and some were male. But again I ask, any examples of WOMEN specifically threatening her more or being more opposed than men?
/r/MensRights20/03/24 06:46 PM
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I don’t see anything in there about it being women specifically opposing him? His suicide note blamed the government not recognizing dv against men. Do you have any examples of it being women specifically opposing this sort of thing?? Maybe you mean misguided feminists? The men’s shelter someone tried to open in NYC recently had as many men against it as women. But I’m open to hearing examples to the contrary so I could learn. I like Erin Pizzey. But I’ve never heard it was women specifically se…
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:12 PM
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will always Most always statements, such as this one, are provably false Women also feel that men should not have men’s shelters Do you have any examples of this?
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:18 PM
2

True once you get as bad as either of them it’s hard to quantify
/r/MensRights19/03/24 02:55 AM
2

For me, companionship, trust, love, support, romance. Especially supporting each others goals mutually and being each others biggest cheerleader. As for why I prefer it be monogamous, because I get jealous and want my guy all to myself and when I’m in love I don’t want a different guy anyway. I’d rather get attached and get my heart broke than never fall in love. If my current relationship fails, I’ll take a few years to heal and be open to the possibility again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:48 PM
2

Yeah as women who have been in exclusively female relationships can be bi. However by definition a straight man cannot seduce a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:03 PM
2

I’d rank them in order of kindness, intelligence, confidence. I require at least a bit of all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:00 PM
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Yes. It is okay to divorce because your needs are not being met. But he should only give that ultimatum if he actually plans to leave over it. Using divorce as a threat is extremely toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:53 PM
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Equally bad
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:31 PM
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I need to do more research on this before fully recommending it but consider starting a chapter of something like the man kind project
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:29 PM
1

Where?
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:26 PM
1

Disgusting statement by Jessica. Also not even factual even only by legal definition as there are places that (finally and rightly) do legally define a woman forcing a man to penetrate as rape.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:24 PM
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Yeah if he say has a character flaw that makes him not “boyfriend material “ but is otherwise enjoyable to be around and have sex with I’ve seen multiple women do this multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:14 PM
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Yeah that’d be fine with me as long as he has another passions after the half marathon is over like a full marathon or some entirely different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:12 PM
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I would if he did some sort of passion, but not if he just “chilled” all day every day. For example if he trained for a sport (not necessarily to go pro but at a high level due to personal fulfillment), volunteered a lot for a cause he cared about, cared for a sick relative (tho this is basically a job), or pursued an art such as painting that didn’t quite generate income but he put a lot of time into due to it being his passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:13 PM
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I think more people would put the effort to read this if you separate it into logical paragraphs. Yes the domestic violence laws are very outdated and we should advocate to improve them. I wish I had more ideas on how.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 07:26 PM
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Yes of course. You can also be a misogynist without being an MRA or right wing. Some people are just hateful in general and will hate men and feminists and politics and their parents and anybody who shows an ounce of happiness.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 07:11 PM
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In Nevada and Amsterdam
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:06 PM
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People are horrible and selfish. What do you expect? I expect most people to try to be good most of the time. Everybody makes mistakes. Most people don’t steal my money to cheat on me. Most people don’t shoot me. I expect that neither of these things will happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:05 PM
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Not true. It’s common for a woman to continue having sex with a man she does not foresee and LTR with to fill her sexual needs while looking for the right LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:01 PM
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Infanticide of female babies is the only reason for the skewed ratio I could think of. But I imagine that more than cancels out by men dying at war, so ratio wise by early 20s age I’d imagine it skews the other way on a global scale with more women than men.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:46 PM
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You never know. Any woman or man MIGHT cheat you can only control yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:22 PM
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No. Nobody knows the real number of pedophiles, male or female.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 12:33 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:27 AM
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I do not care if there is an age gap in healthy dating between consenting adults. A lot of age gap relationships are unhealthy, but that is not inherently because of the age gap. A lot of equal age relationships are unhealthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:24 AM
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then I’ll get cheated on This ignores the character of the woman you would be in the relationship with. Many women have integrity and would not cheat no matter who approached them. It’s not inherent that a “better” or “more alpha” man approaching her means you’d be cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:19 AM
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Nobody can accurately assess their shortcomings. Human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:27 PM
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Being a traditional man would probably make more of a difference in attracting a traditional woman than any specific car would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:07 PM
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Used truck from the 90s or early 2000s. $10k range. It would be extra attractive if you learn to maintain it yourself, as a traditional woman would likely enjoy having a man who can help with her vehicle and other handy tasks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:05 PM
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Your dating coach sounds like an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:58 PM
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most women are overweight So are most men… Most women, and in fact most PEOPLE, do not have PhDs, so maybe just don’t worry about what women with PhDs are doing I would hate to deal with a woman who comes home from work I think this is your biggest obstacle. The “average” woman does work. I’d see someone who doesn’t work as a huge bright red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:57 PM
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I really question why a $200k car counts as a dating expense? If the goal was to date someone who loves you for who you are and build a life and family together, I’m not seeing how an outrageously expensive vehicle would help accomplish that The “average” guy is succeeding by being fit and kind, driving a $5k old truck/car, dating an “average” woman who is happy to cook at home or eat $50 dinner out with him. $200k car, $300 dinner, $50 coffee date (where do you find coffee that cost $25 each?!)…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:52 PM
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Why even bother debunking an over 10 years old clearly logically flawed article? I regret the brain cells I spent reading it
/r/MensRights17/03/24 01:41 PM
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Modern women have a laundry list of requirements that men need to meet in order to be desirable to them, like being 6 feet tall, making 6 figures, being x years older, being fit and athletic, being 8/10+ attractive This is just… not true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:41 AM
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Because society has a fucked up idea that discrimination is okay against some groups but not others
/r/MensRights08/03/24 03:05 PM
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I do not want an arranged marriage. I want to choose my own fate, take my own risks, and face my own consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:48 PM
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I’m not suggesting murder. I’m suggesting abortion is mercy when a doctor gives a professional medical opinion that it is unlikely your baby will live long and likely be in pain for its entire life.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:56 AM
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Nope, less likely to have a good quality of life, if they even survive to adulthood. In some of these cases abortion would be the merciful option. Bringing a child unlikely to survive more than a few days of pain into the world because it is innocence seems cruel to me. So the innocent are unworthy of mercy somehow?
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:45 AM
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Are the women in the military free riders on public safety/defense? Are the men getting obese on McDonalds and TV while collecting food stamps not free riders? What useless generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:29 AM
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Are you against abortion?
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:19 AM
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why should … incest Incest greatly increases the odd of birth defects, genetic disorders, and miscarriages
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:17 AM
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If women can abort their children last-minute, men should be allowed to waive their parental rights/obligations as well. Are you against financial abortion in cases wear fetal abortion is not allowed?
/r/MensRights06/03/24 04:16 AM
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*women with a “normal” lifestyle have so many options A woman who is career military or anything with a similar amount of travel has far less options than the equivalent man. There are far more women willing to follow a man around the world and/or wait for him long distance while he chases his dreams than there are men willing to support a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:04 AM
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This! I’d see putting a political affiliation in your bio as a red flag regardless of what side it might be
/r/MensRights06/03/24 03:53 AM
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Because you are implying that at 17 you couldn’t be forced? I’m saying there are lots of ways to force a 17 year old into a procedure against his will. That’s not right but that’s the world we live in. Happens far more often than it should. At 17 your parents still have A LOT of power over you. It’s fucked up to suggest it was “up to him”. If the 17 year old says he was forced, why doubt that??
/r/MensRights06/03/24 01:15 AM
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Why tf do you think I support that?
/r/MensRights06/03/24 01:01 AM
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A 17 year old is at the mercy of his parents. There are all sorts of ways a parent can coerce a minor, such as refusing to sign permission for college applications, for participating in high schools sports, or for working legally.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 12:19 AM
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Because I took history. And because I searched it up to double check… https://www.studentsofhistory.com/ideologies-flip-Democratic-Republican-parties You got a reason you think that didn’t happen????
/r/MensRights06/03/24 12:08 AM
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False. Why do you think that?
/r/MensRights05/03/24 02:17 PM
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It was introduced by liberals (republicans at the time) and blocked by conservatives (democrats at the time). The parties eventually flipped ideologies.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:23 AM
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but they hold them accountable Quite the opposite, they infantilize women such as by keeping them out of the draft
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:20 AM
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Please stop spreading the myth that men can’t be both strong (in this context meaning able to protect and fight) and emotionally supportive.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:14 AM
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The women who actually want equality are ok with marrying a man who makes less than them
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:12 AM
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Huh? Nobody is claiming it’s illegal in the U.S.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:09 AM
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Why?
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:06 AM
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Because values, life goals, and location matter at least as much. I have guy friends I find attractive, value as friends, enjoys their personalities, but would not date due to incompatible life goals, differing values, or careers attached to far away locations. Having a great personality is so important. So are values, lifestyle, looks, hobbies, goals, location, and more. Any one of these won’t make me fall for someone. And bad or incompatible enough any of these is a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:49 AM
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That is not the only form of discrimination
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:43 AM
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Even African American women?!
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:31 AM
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These are two separate questions Not sure why someone would defend a person they know to be guilty As for the assumption of innocence of women more than of men, I imagine it’s usually gender bias
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:30 AM
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This. There is a “scourge” of sexual abuse perpetrated by teachers and school staff
/r/MensRights27/02/24 07:21 PM
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If they are honest their “outward actions, words and choices” would be who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:42 PM
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Some have agency. But a lot of porn is not consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:40 PM
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The porn stars bosses are exploiting both the sex workers and the consumers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:46 AM
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Both men and women generally have to be good people at minimum in order to be loved for who they actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:48 PM
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That’s not logical. Why do you suggest not “allowing” 18 year old OF when we “allow” 18 year olds to date much older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:34 PM
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I’d rather be divorced than breaking the trust of my marriage. I could see coming to an understanding, with boundaries, where opening the marriage in some limited circumstances could be better than divorce. But not at the expense of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:32 PM
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Your title is about feminism, but many of your suggestions are about boycotting women, not feminists/misandrists. Is that your intent or mistyping? Never watch any content with a female host, if there are alternatives with male hosts for it. Never help your female co-workers unless they get permission from your manager requesting your help. Disinherit your female offspring if they subscribe to such views stop listening to female journalists.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 03:31 PM
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many gay men will openly reject women Isn’t this the definition of gay? Like straight men will reject men?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:09 AM
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Most people who argue “always” about a gender are not interested in being accurate, thus my response would be to disengage from the conversation
/r/MensRights19/02/24 10:49 PM
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Do feminists really believe they are inferior to men and have less rights and that life is unfair for them and that world is against them? No, most feminists do not believe they are inferior to men, in fact some are men. Most people, feminist or not, know that life is unfair. Some believe the world is against them. Are they delusional to believe all the things I mentioned in the title? Well they generally don’t believe all those. Do they lost touch with what reality is and they really see world …
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:04 AM
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Lift consistently, eat protein, shower daily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:56 AM
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This is the first I’ve heard of the small chin. While I agree body shaming of men is overlooked compared to body shaming of women, I don’t think this is a great example of it. So while I don’t care about the small chin thing in particular, I do care about the issue of the body shaming of men and it being more socially acceptable than it should be.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 03:53 AM
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Crazy how multiple comments on this post say Tate in them
/r/MensRights15/02/24 03:46 AM
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If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws. Are a large portion of females against no fault divorce laws?? Females get outraged when asked for paternity tests. That’s amazing! Females want to keep men in the dark about who the real biological father of their children are. Wouldn’t you be hurt if your SO suggested you were cheating? Why do you refer to men and females instead of men and women or males and females? According to them we n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:40 AM
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What’s this got to do with twitter?
/r/MensRights13/02/24 06:30 PM
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Bruh and dude are modern terms, not counter to evolutionary biology. derided women for finding it unappealing Men are not being derided for what they find unappealing, rather for the rants like this they post on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:28 PM
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Please put a comma between prostitution and rape. Currently reads as if they accidentally made rape legal when it involves prostitution
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:17 AM
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Not at all. Lots of man demonstrate masculinity without committing horrible crimes This is an unanswerable question without mind reading tech because the sort of person with so little character that they rape is not the sort of person that can be trusted to answer questions honestly
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:15 AM
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Because of the men taking advantage of their position of power (American citizenship and wealth). Most women don’t have an issue with all overseas romance, rather they (myself included) take issue with the exploitive nature of power imbalance that this type of relationship has become associated with, not overseas aspect itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:25 PM
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Idk why some who expect a gift don’t, but I gift my man something thoughtful every Valentine’s Day, both because I want to show him I love him and because I like when he does something thoughtful for the day and don’t believe in asking more than I’m willing to give in a relationship. If the day is only about giving one directionally in your relationship, I’d seriously reconsider that relationship
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:59 PM
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By this logic we should not exclude the women who do work in these jobs and we should also exclude the men with cushy jobs
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:15 PM
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Oh duh sorry I didn’t notice you were OP
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:24 PM
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Do you have a link or name of the video to search?
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:23 PM
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Horrifying. What country is this in?
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:21 PM
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Agree that mental illness has become the new autism 2.0 which is harmful to those who are actually struggling with mental illness. Why do you lump this into the same sentence as young people complaining about loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:27 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:25 PM
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I’ve been seeing a lot of insta reels lately honoring men working oil rigs, trucking, etc keeping society fed and moving. I think this is changing. Also athletes are honored but that parts not new. Btw how is this humour?
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:11 PM
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TikTok is pretty one dimensional in general. It is ok to not want to be the provider.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:09 PM
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and caring only about women’s issues I feel like this is fine as long as it’s not anti men’s issues. Like it’s also ok for MRAs to advocate only for men’s issues
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:05 PM
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Fuck no I would not vote for a program that discriminates on both age and gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:58 PM
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To me it’s her saying the gestures are meaningless without the rest of the elements of a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:51 PM
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I hold my boyfriend’s hand and do thoughtful gestures for him as well. I don’t expect him to consider that enough either. We both expect empathy, support, true listening, intimacy, kindness, comradery, friendship, sincere effort, quality time, and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:45 PM
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Are feminists actually smarter than men? Seeing as many men are feminists, no this doesn’t make sense Modern women believe that they're smarter just because they're women when in reality that's what the media wants them to believe. Take commercials for example. Men act stupider than women there, but they all just do what's in the script. Don't get me wrong! I'm not saying that women are stupid or something. What I am saying is that you can't be smarter than someone just because you're of opposit…
/r/MensRights10/02/24 08:55 PM
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The rise in STDs could be more a rise in normalization of testing and thus more diagnosis and less going undiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:40 PM
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She did. That doesn’t mean most women would. If one man did that would that make it right to never hire a man again?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:23 PM
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It’s both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:22 PM
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Redditors are unhealthily focused on perceived “value” of humans
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:31 AM
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A man who had never hired a woman before hired a woman who was a terrible employee. Instead of just firing her , he also vowed to never hire a woman again. This was over a decade ago and to this day he has tossed out every application with a female name on it without even giving a chance. He controls the hiring for the main employer in that industry in the county. So no women get a chance because of the behavior of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:28 AM
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She may have meant that as a compliment. Like if she grew up being told “men are creepy” and you took her by surprise, making assuming you were gay easier than having to question her world view
/r/MensRights10/02/24 05:55 AM
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The “fuccbois” etc are not high value either. It takes both the looks and the character/personality to be “high value”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:23 PM
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Because the quality of life of someone with HIV is higher, and and HIV doesn’t decrease your life expectancy by 18 years, unlike heroin addiction.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:12 PM
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Women have fetishes too and most people aren’t claiming otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:06 PM
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You don’t mention his character. Is he honest, reliable, brave, thoughtful, family oriented, hard working, strong, or kind? If he is not at least a few of those qualities, he lacks character and he is not high value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:42 PM
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Perhaps your status is not as high to them as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:16 PM
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No. It is a good idea to prepare for the possibility of the worse, but actually expect it? The friends I’ve seen divorce have not gone this bad, for either gender. I think this is a worst case scenario. Hint: Anybody claiming something applies to “all” of a thing should be taken with a huge grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:14 PM
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If it’s getting his way that much he’s either more than just “a bit” socially awkward or he’s not as “high value” as you claim. My advice would be focus more on social skills and building connection than on “value”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:10 PM
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As are many of the lower ranking dealers
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:07 PM
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Many of the “dealers” are forced into it just like the prostitutes, it’s only the top dealer running the other dealers who is equivalent to the pimp
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:06 PM
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I’d rather get HIV than a heroin addiction
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:05 PM
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The lowest tear drug dealers are also often threatened, beat, etc so I would say they are often forced to sell the drugs similarly to the prostitute being forced to sell their body. In both cases the pimp/top drug guy should be the criminal.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:04 PM
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It is a double standard. What this analogy fails to account for is the third person, the pimp or whoever is dealing to the dealers. In many cases, the consent of the prostitutes and of the lowest drug dealers in a network is questionable as they are often threatened.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:01 PM
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Being a consenting adult is what justifies a dating age gap. Not some broad notion of “maturity”. If a 20 year old chooses to date a 60 year old, fine. If a 13 year old “chooses” to date a 20 year old, that 20 year old is doing wrong, no matter how mature they may claim the 13 year old is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:52 PM
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Because the American Education Industrial Complex has done a great job of brainwashing people into thinking a 4 year degree is worth going into oodles of debt for
/r/MensRights04/02/24 04:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights04/02/24 01:56 PM
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After The Decline, masters degrees and dollar bills won’t mean shit. I’d rather have skills that will be of value in the barter system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:17 PM
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“Normal” ones, weird ones, smart ones, dumb ones, thin ones, fat ones, mommy issues, daddy issues, no issues, ones you’d never guess would be into it. The college women who were fucking men in their 30s and 40s probably weren’t advertising that fact due to fear of being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:43 PM
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Some probably would. Really depends on an individual’s values
/r/MensRights03/02/24 09:34 PM
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Stereotypically masculine men and stereotypically feminine women have it easier. Those who don’t fit their gendered expectations have it harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:29 PM
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Doing hard things builds resiliency. Life being too easy these days (desk jobs, ordering door dashing instead of interacting with the real world, etc) is making people less resilient. If this is the reason for the suicide rates, this would suggest men have it easier. But obviously there are more reasons as suicide is far too complicated for randos on Reddit to come up with all the reasons behind. I’d guess it is a combination of life being too easy and other contributing factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:27 PM
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Because while I don’t think socializing more would result in more babies, I’m open to hearing an argument for it / my mind could be changed / even if you don’t change my mind I’m curious on why someone old think this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:22 PM
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Why do you think getting us to socialize more would get us to have more children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:15 PM
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Younger people being less sexual is a huge problem nowadays. Slut shaming makes it worse. Agree or disagree? Disagree. You seem to be conflating how sexual a generation is with how many children they choose to have. What makes you think that somehow getting gen z to have more sex would result in us having more kids? Are you hoping we have an increase in unwanted pregnancy? birth rates lowering, "aging population" issues not sustainable, we will be in big trouble. We need means of production for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:13 PM
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I mean usually yeah. But one could also just be a late bloomer, whether by finally putting in the work to improve the personality or improve the looks or improve the mental barriers to intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:54 PM
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I would consider the need to exploit the power dynamic failure in itself. If we don’t genuinely both love eachother for who we are I don’t want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:51 PM
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Title IX is helpful to both men and women. Now in high school girls can wrestle and play football and boys can play field hockey and cheerleading. Now in college women can take automotive class and men can take home economics (pre Title IX many universities didn’t allow this). Recently Title IX is being used to shut down women-only STEM scholarships, women-only gym hours, and women-only leadership training on campuses. Perhaps that is what was meant by the statement you quoted?
/r/MensRights03/02/24 05:53 AM
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In the U.S. I consider the primary law related issues in no particular order to be: Rape victims should not be forced to pay child support. Boys raped at as young as 12 years old have been forced to pay child support. This goes a long with overall failure of the legal system to take male rape victims seriously enough. Custody should be default 50/50 unless one parent is shown to be abusive/engaged in extreme criminal activity/decides they do not want custody/etc. End sex discrimination engrained…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 01:29 AM
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No specific group is single handedly ruining modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:21 PM
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the gayer a man is the more he worships women and hates men The gay men I know irl are not hateful
/r/MensRights02/02/24 07:20 PM
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What porn industry standards do you refer to?
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:44 PM
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Horrifying
/r/MensRights01/02/24 11:20 PM
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Grifters come from all walks of life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:51 PM
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Lots of wrong has been committed. The sex trade includes terrible things like trafficking and Epstein island. Everybody, no matter their sex, who participates in forced sex trade should be getting arrested. Those who only participate in consenting adult sex trade wouldn’t have much to be held accountable for.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 04:12 AM
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What is oral circumcision?
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:06 AM
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The consent makes it quite different than the genital mutilation this post is about
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:02 AM
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I’d guess it refers to the super privileged fake blonde type who spends hundreds on their hair and is fragile because they see minor first world problems as big deals.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:01 AM
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Not a teacher but just want to say this is awesome and we need more teachers that will set a good example!
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:58 AM
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Women should be held accountable for their part in the sex trade since everybody who is part of the sex trade should. This has nothing to do with who makes up the majority of porn stars.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:54 AM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:49 AM
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They’re partly right in that a man would get less hate for the number of romantic relationships. But a man would also get much more criticism for some of the things that are washed under the rug about her.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 11:48 PM
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In what song is domestic abuse encouraged?
/r/MensRights31/01/24 11:46 PM
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Yes. Old Marriage was oppressive to both men and women. the best legal descriptor of what women became when married was their husband's ward Being a ward of somebody means that thing gets to make decisions for you. So I’d say it’s a form of oppression, similar to how being a ward of the state is. Some ways it was oppressive to women: 1) unable to hold property in her own name, any property or income was managed by the husband 2) her husband essentially became her legal guardian 3) unable to ente…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 11:14 PM
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Seeing as he did it himself at age 40, that sounds pretty consensual to me, thus quite different than doing it to a baby
/r/MensRights31/01/24 09:27 PM
1

Everybody gets shamed for having preferences these days
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:33 PM
-4

Both the left and right are deeply flawed, especially the more extreme you get with either. Both parties fail at equality in different ways
/r/MensRights31/01/24 08:17 PM
3

Yes I meant the body modification part only has a place if it’s consensual
/r/MensRights31/01/24 08:15 PM
3

Is that commenter, whose comment is not ok either way, really disparaging him because of his penis or because he says men don’t care about female rape victims? From this we don’t know
/r/MensRights31/01/24 06:59 PM
35

Did you consent to that? A baby can’t
/r/MensRights31/01/24 06:56 PM
64

There is a place for CONSENSUAL religious ritual. A baby cannot consent.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 06:56 PM
1

I wonder if the women’s fights are less staged?
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:36 PM
2

Which is so sad for the women who genuinely love their sport or “masculine” hobby/career
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:35 PM
6

Let’s start advocating for the male models.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:33 PM
1

Please alert CPS if you haven’t already
/r/MensRights30/01/24 10:11 PM
1

Pretty sure alleged sexual abuse has been reported in most fields
/r/MensRights30/01/24 08:08 AM
1

One parent is better than zero
/r/MensRights29/01/24 01:38 AM
1

How many figures do you believe 100k is?
/r/MensRights29/01/24 01:38 AM
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You can have everything going for you as a PERSON and still struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:17 AM
4

Yes we need more men in HEAL, especially education so boys can grown up with positive male roles models.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:13 AM
1

All is an exaggeration. But most
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:09 AM
1

Should the descendants of slave owners be slave to the descendants of slaves until those reparations are paid too?
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:07 AM
1

That would be a great solution. We need more men as teachers too. And as school guidance counselors.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:04 AM
1

Because they are looking for a relationship and have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:46 PM
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You have a weird circle of guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:03 PM
4

What is a a femboy?
/r/MensRights28/01/24 09:44 PM
45

To be fair, if the unknown father is unaware he has a child that’s not his fault, he may have been a good parent had he known. This is on the woman.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 09:43 PM
5

Women are not taking over “almost all industries” in the west. On the plane you board you are mostly seeing flight attendants. By far most pilots are men. There are many other fields that also have under 20% women such as most of the skilled trades, firefighters, police, architects, engineers, computer science.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 08:41 PM
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Sad thing is he probably would have been a better parent to her
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:42 PM
2

Most complaints I’ve heard are about the male gaze in places they don’t feel it belongs, such as very sexualized advertisements or in serious movies, not in erotic material.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:11 PM
1

Because the word has changed meaning greatly. Involuntary celibate was a term and group created by a lonely woman for similarly lonely people and was initially a very sweet group where people supported each other. It was a self identifying term that just meant one hadn’t had much luck in romance. Now the word “incel” refers specifically to entitled men who blame women or society for their inability to find a sexual partner. By this definition a man who is involuntarily celibate isn’t necessarily…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 05:32 AM
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Reported!
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:06 PM
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FYI to those who don’t know, Gavin’s Law makes the “act of blackmailing someone using sexually explicit images or videos” a felony in South Carolina. I believe those on here advocating blackmail with sex tapes are attempting to trick men into ruining their lives by becoming felons.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:36 AM
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A great example is anti-scam-activist trying to convince men to commit felonies by falsely claiming that blackmail is not illegal in South Carolina. At first I thought he was just wrong but after I linked the law he continued posting “evidence” from before the law was enacted. I hope nobody actually bases major decisions on this users false claims.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:31 AM
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Are you trying to get a man to fuck up his life by tricking him into committing a felony 🤔 maybe you are the scam artist A lick of common sense could show you that video you linked is from before Gavin’s Law was passed
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:26 AM
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No. The majority of women will marry an average looking man who is not wealthy or famous.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:44 AM
0

People drunk drive. Something happening doesn’t make it legal.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 01:53 AM
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Posting a bunch of links about women committing blackmail doesn’t make it legal. Especially when you use examples from other countries lol. Gavins Law makes the “act of blackmailing someone using sexually explicit images or videos” a felony in South Carolina. Using such footage to demonstrate infidelity is common, but is threatening to send it to the ex’s family etc common? Wouldn’t that be a bad look for the one making threats even somewhere that was legal?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 12:40 AM
1

Anything new for you on what? Getting good applicable advice requires specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:52 PM
3

Two wrongs don’t make a right
/r/MensRights25/01/24 08:56 PM
1

Some men get prison for it, some men get away with it. Some women get prison for it, some women get away with it.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 08:55 PM
2

What did you mean by “the same thing” then??
/r/MensRights25/01/24 08:54 PM
2

Why do you went men to be able to be sued for banging married women? IMO that would be a step BACKWARDS for men’s rights. Btw that link doesn’t work?
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:30 PM
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Blackmail is illegal tho
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:24 PM
1

Many of the kind hearted, strong characters played by The Rock. To be clear I mean the characters not the actor. If we ignore the obvious steroid use and his lying about it, other than that I think he’s a decent example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:23 PM
2

Ah that makes sense 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:35 PM
3

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:28 PM
2

Take that up with OP, I’m replying to what OP claimed a lady said. I’m not claiming anyone said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:24 PM
3

Most people know by now that TikTok is ridiculous so I don’t think this will have much impact.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:28 AM
1

The “prettiness” may be interest related. The sort of girls that spend a lot of time on appearance sorting out from the sort of girls that spend a lot of time playing soccer etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:07 AM
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I am sex positive and anti cheating. I love sex and have a lot of it. I have sex with my boyfriend multiple times a day when we are together in person. When one of us is traveling for work I do with out / masturbate. I have never cheated nor do I think I ever will. So like one lady was like I trust my man to sleep in same hotel room with a women and other people should as well. I have shared a motel room with a man and not cheated. Was traveling for work in below zero temps and no other rooms av…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:01 AM
2

Reassurance . It make me feel good when my boyfriend tells me I’m the best he’s had. I’m not sure that’s actually true but it feels good because it is kind and I fully believe he means he really likes fucking me and that is a nice reassurance. I imagine men also like some reassurance sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:30 AM
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To be fair, the baby murdering is a form of mass death so that previous comment was not misconceived, just lacking detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:05 PM
5

The voting rights act was wayyy longer ago lol
/r/MensRights24/01/24 03:51 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with being a trades man/woman
/r/MensRights24/01/24 06:55 AM
0

Is the sort of woman that would sign away custody of y’all’s children really who you would want to partner with?
/r/MensRights24/01/24 06:54 AM
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Not a fellow man but thought this opinion might make you feel better… please remember you do not owe her a thing. She is the one who did wrong in this situation. She clearly lacks character. As a woman I would never press a man to be a father if he didn’t want to be. That’s not fair to the father or the child. If there is no way you could get custody to try to give the child a better life than she’ll give it, I would make it clear to her now that you will not be supporting financially in the hop…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:20 PM
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If you are “normal” height as a woman, as a man you will be short. Even with testosterone you will be relatively weak for a man and your bones will never grow as strong as a genetic man’s so competitive sports will be out the window. If you have any feminine interests but fully pass as a man, your interests will no longer be socially acceptable. Passing as a man you will face social pressure to be “masculine”. As a black man your odds of being falsely convicted of a crime will go up slightly.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:08 PM
2

Not everyone is that money focused. But too many are.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:01 PM
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Not just you. A huge portion of social media “advocates” for every cause are fake.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:16 PM
1

They are very hard to proove. The false accuser is also innocent until proven guilty, so convicting the false accuser would not just require the accused be found innocent, it would require proving beyond a reasonable doubt that the accused could not have done the crime. The only situation I can think of this being possible is if there was time stamped security video footage of the accused far away from where the alleged crime took place.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 07:33 AM
1

The criticize them quite a bit in the form of criticizing passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:32 AM
5

Most women don’t live a luxury life style, let alone get it from a wealthy man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:30 AM
4

Obviously they CAN. But not typically.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 06:24 AM
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claims he also helps tremendously seems to do My guess would be things are not as they seem You also don’t mention the man respecting his wife. If he doesn’t respect her this could be why She could have never really been attracted in the first place She could just get bored I suppose, but I wouldn’t go so far as to say women in general get bored with guys like that. The reason will be different in each specific situation There is no one singular cause of all the women that leave seemingly good p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:44 AM
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Neither, I’d raise them like I expect them to chase their dreams I’d advice to focus on trust and compatibility. I would tell them that at least one parent having a job that allows a parent to be home every night is better if they want to have a family. If I expected her to be average I would try to let her know it is ok to be average. I would also try to interest her in not being average. For example the average American is fat but I would try to interest her in a healthy lifestyle. I would try…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:36 AM
5

Chewing tobacco does not cause the kinds of cancer people typically die from buddy
/r/MensRights22/01/24 04:41 AM
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A woman who gets a heart attack is more likely to die of it than a man is. So there is a grain of truth to the claim but I’ve never seen proof that this is because of misogyny. There are many other plausible explanations. Women “have a worse prognosis during their hospital stay compared to men, and that this may be due to their older age, increased numbers of other conditions, and less use of stents (percutaneous coronary intervention; PCI) to open blocked arteries.” source) More men get heart a…
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:39 AM
1

Have you seen Gattica?
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:11 AM
2

That would be much better than mandatory!
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:06 AM
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While I totally agree this stuff is being done with our phones, I see the difference as smart phones are not mandatory. We have the freedom to choose to sacrifice the convenience of a smart phone for a less trackable flip phone (only tracks what towers it interacted with instead of logging everywhere exactly like an iPhone) and can leave our phones behind and use public computers in underfunded libraries that don’t have working cameras for Face ID to see us on. There are always ways around. We d…
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:02 AM
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To me an increase in genetic testing, especially in the form of any sort of law requiring every baby’s DNA be collected, would bring greater risk than reward. How about affordable or free at home paternity tests that could be performed at will without any record keeping or data storage. Something analog that you can easily destroy after seeing the results. That would create the same benefit without increasing the scope of the government near as much.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah trusting the gov to follow and enforce that is a great idea /s
/r/MensRights20/01/24 04:51 PM
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Perhaps they are viewing the world thru an “assume men are terrible until proven otherwise” view and their boyfriends and husbands are the only men they have gotten to know well enough to realize they are not terrible.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 03:27 PM
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DNA tests aren’t mandatory at birth If they do become mandatory, it will be for the gov to track you and big companies to genetically discriminate against you, not just to give you paternity confirmation.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 03:18 PM
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He’s full of shit. Tells me in a different thread the 80-90% is his own prediction of how many judges/law graduates (can’t tell which he means) will be women in the future. The inconsistency in where he claims the numbers come from is pissing me off. Especially considering he may have had an interesting point if he’d stuck with actual data.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:14 AM
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I don’t think most women do this. The women who do attract more negative attention which makes them more memorable than the good/accountable women. I don’t have many experiences with this because I try to avoid associating with people who refuse to take accountability. I sympathize with having to deal with family members like that as that is much harder to navigate. If most women in your life are blaming men for their own actions I suggest seriously reconsidering what kind of women you spend tim…
/r/MensRights20/01/24 08:22 AM
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That’s why I think alimony should be limited but not abolished all together.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 08:10 AM
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If one gives up a job to travel around with the other for their job or to move somewhere their dream is not possible for the others it absolutely does.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 08:00 AM
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I specifically did not look at it as a SAHM. Homemaker does not always mean there are children involved. I was picturing a situation where perhaps Erica sacrificed her dream so Judy could chase hers. Plus I think OP used lesbians specifically so we could consider it without gender rolls but if you gotta bring that back in, a male homemaker who follows his female partner in a move to chase her dreams also ought to get some amount of alimony for that sacrifice. Same if he sacrificed his career to …
/r/MensRights20/01/24 07:54 AM
1

I thought Blue: equity Purple: equality Red: different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:11 AM
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That is a semi logical ASSUMPTION. Tho if we really want to get logical on this prediction, mine would be that it is not linear. It’s fine to put what you feel or guess if you state that it is your prediction. It is not ok to state it as fact with a source when that is not what the source said. Reading the original post I thought you were saying that was a stat from CJI Chandrachud.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 06:05 AM
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Ah. It is very misleading to state your guess as if it is a legit statistic and site somebody who never even made the same guess. There’s no need to make this stuff up when the actual 70% is significant. If you are gonna keep making it up it would be better to present it honestly as speculation than to attribute a fake statistic to a real man.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:06 AM
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I’ve searched, and I do not see any quotes of him claiming 80-90% of judges or people in line to be judges are women. Can you explain what you meant, I do not understand.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 04:43 AM
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It’s lame of the journalist to make this about gender. Gyms have rude men and rude women who leave things in the way of other men’s and women’s space. He was being inconsiderate of others, I doubt he did it because of her gender. She was also being inconsiderate of others by filming there.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:39 AM
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So frustrating. I try to find gyms that require (and actually enforce) wearing shirts. As in actual shirts not sports bras. Aside from skimpiness, sweaty bellies and backs don’t need to be touched to shared equipment.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:36 AM
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Do something hard every day. Don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay if you fail at said hard thing.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:33 AM
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In the case of Judy and Erica, if it was a long marriage Erica sacrificed a lot of career experience to homemake for Judy. So it would be logical for Judy to continue to support her financially for a while, such as 1-3 years. Instead of abolishing alimony all together, I believe it should be given a reasonable time limit such as 1 year of alimony per 10 years of marriage.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:16 AM
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Thanks. I hope the U.S. sticks with equality. I have hope for that since quotas on college admissions were overturned in the U.S. In the UK this doesn’t surprise me as much. That google brings up a bunch of studies but I’m not finding any laws on this.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 06:44 PM
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she touched me without consent You were sexually assaulted, not raped. She should have checked before hand if touching in your sleep (thus unable to give consent like the classic case of a woman being too drunk) was ok with you.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 06:36 PM
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Info please: Where is this statistic from? Like when did he say or write this? I’m assuming you meant “in line to be judges”? Please correct me if I’m wrong, perhaps “in law to judges” is a new phrase I’m unaware of. If true, I think it could go either way. Some of the women may be more sympathetic to men. Some of them may be more harsh on men and it’s hard to guess without any knowledge on what this particular group of women is like / what is being taught in law school in India lately.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 06:33 PM
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What laws are saying that?
/r/MensRights19/01/24 06:14 PM
3

Ride The News aka ROCA news
/r/MensRights15/01/24 06:11 PM
4

Yeah I do not follow how being near a fire station is bad… ridiculous reason
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:56 PM
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NYC PEOPLE oppose it. Classic NIMBYs, both male and female. Yes it’s true there are NYC women opposing it but if you read the comments there are NYC men opposing it too… what a weird title of this post
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:38 PM
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I read that not as the second story implying that but as the poster of the story implying that in the disingenuous summary of the story. The poster of that second story didn’t quite lie but strategically left out the existence of the biological children in such a way that made the summary read like the child support was only for another man’s baby
/r/MensRights05/01/24 04:35 AM
1

Yes. Both men and women are accepting far less these days as more and more people turn into couch potatoes. People aren’t just accepting less from their romantic partners. People are accepting less from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM
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It’s a skilled trade that involves a lot of travel. Unfortunately there are so few women in it that saying what it is would basically dox myself
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:30 AM
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Nah, it’s also an “option” for men. Being in something like the top 0.5% of men or top 5% of women is the privilege. Just having the “option” as woman is not the what makes it a privilege. Most women do not have the privilege of making bank getting naked on OF either. Making a living on it is not actually an option for most people.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:25 AM
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Don’t give up. You don’t have to be the provider. There are women out there who would love to be the breadwinner and marry a man who is good with kids. I sometimes have similar feelings but with the opposite gender rolls, worrying that I will never find a man who love me and wants to raise our children while I work in a stereotypically masculine trade that I am passionate about. You sound like the kind of man I am looking for in a partner. Your post gave me hope. I hope this comment can give you…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:57 AM
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Self image is not public image
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:39 AM
1

Not if you want a happy LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:36 AM
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I believe it is often a factor, but usually in combination with other issues such as lack of social skills. I do not think it fair or reasonable to claim that it is the only reason a man would be sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:51 PM
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Some women are hornier than some men. Doesn’t change that most men are hornier than most women. TikTok is full of stupid claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:41 PM
3

The quality of romantic relationships would decrease with lack of physical intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:08 PM
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You also don’t just be a terrible partner and have a healthy long lasting relationship. It takes work and being a fairly wholesome dude as well as luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:56 PM
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A lot of the same reasons women let their boyfriends push them around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:17 PM
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I have a promiscuous past but also feel that I pair bond well currently. I don’t want myself or other women to lie about their past and consider myself sex positive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:17 PM
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Only if it’s a good relationship. The wrong relationships can hold you back in life at least as much as the right relationships can lift you up in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:14 PM
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Folk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:13 PM
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However many dates it take for them to bring up being in exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:12 PM
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There are lots of lonely people in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:10 PM
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Recording random people and putting them on the internet to be ridiculed is NOT okay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:55 PM
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Being romantically forward and sexually forward are two different things. I like a man to be romantically forward fast ( such as a date that is clearly a date, being called beautiful, holding hands, forehead or cheek kisses) but sexually slow ( such as getting to know eachother before making out and taking physical intimacy farther).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:52 PM
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I’m not following how this relates to concealing ovulation????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:40 PM
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I’m looking for the complimentary person to share my life with and believe many people in real life are, we just aren’t the most vocal group on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:57 AM
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If the paternity test is standard practice, we are one step closer to living in a world of genetic discrimination such as in Gattica
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:52 AM
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Why do women expect equality in decision making but not equality in paying for things or completing house tasks? I want to be an equal in all these things. I see plenty of women saying that they want equality say in everything. They rather not take a submissive role in a relationship but those very same women still a man to do all of the hard tasks around the house and also help with the easy ones? I can’t speak for those women you claim to see plenty of, I personally surround myself with the ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:50 AM
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The opposite- I find initiative / knowing what he wants attractive in men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:06 AM
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Perhaps more men cheat on their wives than woman cheat on their husbands (causing more wives to initiate divorce to to theirs husbands not being loyal) Perhaps lesbians rush into relationships more quickly than gay men (resulting in more incompatible marriages) Perhaps women are less forgiving of infidelity than men (resulting in gay men forgiving each others cheating less than lesbians) Perhaps it’s all coincidence Perhaps it’s bad stats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:04 AM
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My parents always insisted my siblings and I (a mix of boys and girls) all take our hats off and wash our hands and faces for family dinner growing up. The hat habit has stuck with me and I expect the same of my man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:47 PM
1

Date the women that don’t care too much about politics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:57 PM
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I can see how it would be nice for both partners to be able to support both. It would be a sense of security knowing that one person having a career road bump isn’t the end of the family’s ability to comfortably survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:20 PM
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why does it impact a man's value if he can't support 2 people on his own? I don’t view a man as less valuable if he can’t support 2 people on his own
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:18 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:11 PM
1

I would feel a little insecure but would be willing to lick/stimulate him while he used the toy or help him use the toy or ask home to use the toy to make himself cum into my mouth if he’d like. I believe if we had a candid and kind conversation about it I would not feel inadequate, especially if he were to explain no vaginas make him cum as supposed to my vagina being the problem. I certainly wouldn’t call his sex toy a “strange thing”. I would seek to make the bedroom a comfortable and enjoyab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:45 AM
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What percentage of men attract you? I estimate around 1% of men in America. I was gonna say about 10% but thought deeper and realized it’s actually much lower. Using America since it seems most relevant to use where I live as I don’t have stats for the whole world. 14% of men in Americans are between 25-34. I mainly am attracted to men between 25-30, don’t have stats on that, so I’ll go with that being around 9% of men in America. I’m only attracted to men who are “in shape”. Since 40% of Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:33 AM
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I see it as a red flag if a man has zero female friends. It makes me wonder whether he views women as “worthy” of his friendship and if not that is both the sort of man I want to date. It also makes me wonder whether he has a history of behaving in ways that cause women not to want to be friends with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:06 AM
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A man who is more physically attractive than her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:04 AM
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Doesn’t take hat off for meals Excessive drinking/smoking/drug use Sedentary lifestyle Incompetent at basic adult tasks such as changing a tire or plunging a toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:03 AM
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In response to the question: no. I wouldn’t want future kids mentioned in the prenup unless it was to say we would default to 50/50 outside of extreme circumstances (such as one of us became a sex offender or other horrible crimes that ought to result in loss of custody). If he wanted to divorce me despite me not being at fault, I’d want him to be able to do so without losing the kids either. I don’t want to be married to be someone who is only staying to avoid losing the kids. I would like to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:02 AM
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Some probably do. I don’t personally but can only speak for myself.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 09:43 PM
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They are a very small sample of real life. They choose not to post as many reasonable answers because being reasonable doesn’t generate as much engagement/revenue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:36 PM
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Sex is “hard to get” for anybody who is overly “picky”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:11 AM
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I pay half because I don’t bother with makeup etc but the best argument I’ve heard for the man paying full is that men are not socially expected to spend near as much time and money on their appearance (think hair products, makeup, time to shave legs, choose outfit etc) and if the woman is getting fully done up she is spending around the same on the date as the man is by paying for both their meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:55 PM
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Truely concerning that professor is in a position of power to educate the next generation, ick
/r/MensRights23/08/23 07:51 PM
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Your parents are sexist. That’s really horrible of your family to support you less on the basis of sex. This is an example or your sisters experiencing female privilege. You still experience male privilege in other ways. For example, if you and your sisters work out equally you will get stronger despite their equal effort. The would get more flexible with equal stretching - a female privilege. Your voice being deeper gives you more natural command presence than a woman’s voice - a male privilege…
/r/MensRights03/08/23 03:46 PM
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No. Enough people still marry for love, companionship, and family stability. I want to get married and would not mind marrying a man who earns less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:38 PM
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No, it is not wrong to have preferences or know what you are attracted to It’s not right either. Who you feel attracted to is not a moral value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:01 PM
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Same is true of attractive vs unattractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:58 PM
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I do get aroused by the male body, but the arms/broad shoulders not abs. Ugly face with nice arms would be more attractive to me then handsome face with skinny arms or very out of shape
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:56 PM
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I hope OP is better than that. Fight tooth and nail for custody to give your child a better life being raised by someone with better character
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:39 PM
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I’ve never been attracted to the sort of people who care much about social climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:55 AM
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Or welding or running a dozer or building stuff etc anything skilled with his hands that he is good at and works hard at I find very attractive. Nah, lots of skilled blue collar jobs can make a nice middle class income.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:53 AM
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There’s more to life experience than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:13 PM
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Strength such as seeing him lift something heavy Work ethic Blue collar (I don’t find office people relatable) Good social skills that he uses to make shy folks such as me feel included in a group setting A crooked smile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:58 PM
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Yep so it is totally reasonable for a healthy person to find most Americans unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:46 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:25 PM
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Rural America
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:22 PM
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I would not reject him on the basis of him being red pilled. I would however not choose to date him on the basis of him promoting fast fashion, which tells me our values would not align for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:14 PM
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IMO the majority of gender rolls fall in the unfair category. How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't? A woman (not all women, but many) can dress up sexy, go to a bar or night club alone, and expect men to approach her. Let’s create a society where women feel safe approaching men and do so. This would involve getting rid of slut shaming. A woman can upload 2-3 pictures on a dating app and expect many men she matches with to message her, try…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:05 PM
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Yes. The majority of men where I live are unhealthily overweight (as in fat to the point it negatively impacts ability to do day to day activities) which I find unattractive. The majority of women here are also quite overweight so I imagine if I were a fit man here I would also find the majority of women here unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:46 PM
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are woman aware that they pick men for status and success? Why do many woman deny this. I imagine some of the women who deny this are in denial themselves/unconscious of the reasons they are attracted to their SO, some are lying to not appear shallow, and some are genuinely seeking other things in a relationship that they prioritize over status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:21 PM
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I would choose not to change my orientation. I am fine with the way I was born (straight). I am privileged to have the sexuality that it is currently easiest to navigate society with. I wouldn’t recommend any particular change to anyone as I feel that should or a personal decision and would not want anyone to feel pressured to change themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:20 PM
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An attractive poor man. I care more about responsible decision making, such as living within our means, than the actual amount of money. I agree that is bad advice and I do not prefer to date men for their money. I seek a man I am physically attracted to and have compatible personality, interests, and values with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:02 PM
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She sounds like an obnoxious Karen, I missed the part where anybody screamed patriarchy
/r/MensRights22/07/23 12:00 PM
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No, it’s too black and white. Building a loving relationship requires balancing both working on being your best self, (decent eating habits, physical activity, pursuing your dreams, time with friends, not getting so sucked into the search for love that the rest of your life goes downhill) and working on the relationship/dating (going on dates with potential partners, quality time to get to know them, working on communication, being friendly when you meet strangers etc). It can only happen if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:31 PM
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Depends on the chubby woman’s shape/how she carries the weight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:27 PM
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Those sort of question stem from insecurity. I think men are equally needy in the sense that they generally have an equal amount of need in order to feel fulfilled and happy in a relationship, however it is unfortunately less socially acceptable for men to express their feelings, so their needs are less likely to be voiced
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:25 PM
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Yeah somebody being so cruel about is a major major red flag!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:22 PM
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The kind of person that breaks up over their SO getting lost doesn’t sound like the sort of person I’d want to date anyway. Dodged a bullet. Let’s not extrapolate that to women as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:16 PM
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Bringing up the letters on a dating app is probably coming off as a red flag. It makes it sound like you are proud of getting them or something weird. Just say you are a substitute teacher - anybody who has a problem with that is not the sort of person I’d want to date.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 03:32 PM
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Yeah, I actually find the remakes kind of insulting… like are women not worth writing a new story about? And is something wrong with the original version? Original Spider-Man is awesome just as he is. It also seems insulting to men to imply there is something wrong with him being a man
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:00 AM
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What percent would you guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:50 AM
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My guess is 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:49 AM
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I have no idea. Just pointing out it’s not the only way for a man to get a relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:37 AM
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It is normal and natural to approach politely however you don’t have to approach in order to get a girlfriend. For example, I approached my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:31 AM
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I certainly hope the definition of a hate crime is never expanded to include words. You can lie about men and you can lie about women Hate speech is not a crime (in countries that have free speech). It sounded like op wanted words (such as wage gap talking point) to be criminalized.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:34 PM
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I’m also very concerned about the slow creep of the expanse of government power / the erosion of our protected rights
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:31 PM
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Being less lust driven doesn’t mean not caring about looks at all and the point of these groups it to realize who the “toxic player men” are too avoid them Women do consider looks Because the man lies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:11 AM
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Your previous comment claims men fighting for women’s rights was a mistake…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:29 AM
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Why is men having helped women gain rights at their expense bad? Should I, as a woman, not be willing to stand up for men just because doing so in today’s climate comes at my expense?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:32 PM
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It depends what definition of feminist you are using. There are versions of feminism that are incompatible with egalitarianism but it’s not inherently incompatible.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:29 PM
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How does feminists not wanting equality make women having rights bad?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:25 PM
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I see the post as accusing feminists of wanting female superiority. I do not see the word equity and do not believe it was about equity vs equality.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 01:33 PM
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I see how people could view affirmative action as superiority. I personally do not support it because I believe in equality. Terminating innocent until proven guilty in the criminal justice system would not be equity - it would be far worse. The world is not already equal and will never be perfect. The scales may swing a bit in each direction but we should still push for equality.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:40 AM
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Imagine thinking that women having rights is your demise 🤮
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:33 AM
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I agree! To me, being an egalitarian advocate involves being a feminist and MRA, and I don’t believe those two things are mutually exclusive. I also don’t even come close to agreeing with all the feminist rhetoric or all the MRA rhetoric. Free speech is important in this context and also something I believe in strongly in general.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:28 AM
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That doesn’t mean I would. I don’t think of feminists as “my group” because feminism is such a broad movement with a bunch of groups and ideas within and frankly there are many feminists whose views I disagree very strongly with or who I find very annoying. You probably wouldn’t like to be stereotyped based on the worst examples of MRAs any more than I would. I think most people don’t like to be stereotyped in general.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:17 AM
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Superiority is not the same as equity and I don’t see that as what that post was arguing I do agree that some feminists (including myself) want equality, some (I think most) want equity, some want superiority.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:30 PM
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That is a problem with a lot of feminist rhetoric but I don’t see anything about equity in that post?
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:03 PM
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What countries do you consider it okay to discuss here?
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:07 PM
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Many do
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:18 PM
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In part because of some MRAs making false claims that no feminists are fighting for equality. For example: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13ahyp1/feminists_are_lying_when_they_claim_to_believe/jj7ghck/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 In part because of some feminists making false claims that all MRAs are misogynistic. In part because many of each group live in an echo chamber to some extent. In part because of an unwillingness …
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:17 PM
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There are feminists there. Plus’s lots of feminists care about people outside of their own country. There are feminists fighting for equality. And that is only one example.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:06 PM
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The areas in which they don’t. For example, in Afghanistan men/boys are allowed to be educated beyond a primary level and women/girls are not.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:00 PM
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I do wish people posting stuff like this would include the location in the post because it’s very relevant context and sometimes seems intentionally left out. That said, what is “our society”? Do Indians not get to discuss their rights on Reddit?
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:54 PM
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Not all feminists are fighting for the same specific thing. Claiming that not any feminist could be for equality is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:48 PM
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why do you own sex toys Because he bought them for me. When a man and woman partner up it’s expected that they will bring pleasure and intimacy to one another’s lives from this point forward with no need for additional tools or people. Not everyone has this expectation - my guess is most people do not Your lives should complete one another and you should find pleasure with each other and each other only as the basis of your relationship from this day forward. If that’s what you want in a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:36 PM
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Perhaps more lesbians are having sex than gay men. This would kinda make sense as in general there is more social stigma against men being gay than against women being gay, which could pressure directly more men stay closeted and indirectly to not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:24 PM
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Wild. Glad to not be in the UK.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:16 PM
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Lying about stuff like this is a shitty thing to do. In the US, lying is not a crime (unless under oath, on certain documents etc), nor should it be. Saying hateful words is not a hate crime unless coupled with actual violence. Do you really want to live in a country where words themselves are prosecuted? I do not.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 08:36 PM
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In what countries could you be arrested for that?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 08:33 PM
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This sounds a lot like feminists blaming the poor behavior of women on patriarchy or internalized mysoginy
/r/MensRights04/05/23 05:00 AM
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How is marrying for practical reasons misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:44 AM
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Ah I guess they got embarrassed and deleted the account when they realized they were wrong. They were arguing aggressively that a girl accused Jack of raping her and saying I need to “go back to grade school” “idiots” etc and got a shocking amount of upvotes for lies that they wouldn’t give a source for. They were very aggressive about claiming there was a female false accuser using a bunch of caps lol
/r/MensRights02/05/23 12:39 PM
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Broad shoulders and strong arms, abs visible when he flexes but enough fat on him to be good for cuddling and a good pillow absolute god in bed amazing with his hands. Can build almost anything, knows how to fix things such as cars, likes to do DIY projects and helps me growing a big garden so we can live off the land Will never cheat, extremely loyal Does not pressure me to sacrifice my career to have kids - is either cool with not having kids or if he wants kids he is happy to be the primary c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:39 AM
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Why do you think a romantic life is not reachable for most men currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:42 AM
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And economic resources which are below love on the pyramid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:41 AM
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/u/thewindburner do you corroborate that no girl claimed Jack raped her?
/r/MensRights01/05/23 10:28 PM
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Where did you find that information? I don’t see it in the article and I see multiple other commenters stating what I said - that there wasn’t even a girl claiming he raped her, it was rumors made up. According to the article: “when the student who previously had been disciplined for bullying Jack was expelled for an unrelated violation of School rules, the School allowed him to return to Dickinson House largely unsupervised where students gathered, including some who said harsh words about Jack…
/r/MensRights01/05/23 10:26 PM
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It sounds like nobody even claimed he raped them. Bullies just made up rumors. They absolutely should be held accountable, beyond sued charged criminally.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:14 PM
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There was no girl pretending to be a victim. In fact the main bully was a boy
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:11 PM
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a lot of girls will say at the same time I know so many girls Some girls want different things than others … not all have the same desires. This “phenomena” is simply different people want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:00 PM
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That too 😭
/r/MensRights01/05/23 06:09 AM
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Maybe creating an AskMRAs could serve the equivalent purpose of AskFeminists
/r/MensRights30/04/23 07:59 PM
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For the US your list is a great start. I would add Equal scholarship funding (if a school provides women special scholarships for STEM and other male dominated majors it should put equal funding into scholarships for men in nursing and other female dominated fields) End the consideration of the gender of the owner of a company in who gets government contracts
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:36 PM
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I agree they are there for a reason. I believe they do more harm than good most of the time, especially when applied to judging others in a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:07 PM
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In your previous comment it was about the death penalty…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 04:33 PM
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I get that, and I’m saying he wouldn’t have got death penalty if he committed the crime in the same state as her let alone the other factors I mention. Not a good comparison when one of these crimes was in a place death penalty is not available.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 04:20 PM
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Exactly. Sad that true love is being painted as a bad thing. I would bankrupt myself to support someone I love in the hospital and I would expect the same of those who love me if I was the one in hospital.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 04:04 PM
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That mentality is holding you back. Everyone starts somewhere. There are people in their 70s, pregnant women, and obese people that do CrossFit. It is very unlikely you have the worst body and even if you did that is nothing to be ashamed of. Therapy could help you overcome this. Also consider other group exercise options if CrossFit is too intimidating, there are lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:44 PM
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OPs title is literally “death penalty vs gofundme” … I think he is talking about the death penalty
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:40 PM
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If he had a mental health diagnosis and people still supported her not him that point would make sense but these two cases have too many differences besides gender to claim it is because she is a woman and not because she had a mental health issue or because he had a history of DV
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:39 PM
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Why it’s not a good comparison: 1. She lived in, committed the crime in, and was charged in a state without the death penalty… that has nothing to do with gender. If he had lived in and strangled his son in Massachusetts his DA could not have sought death penalty either. 2. Jean Charles had assaulted his kid previously whereas her act was a one time thing… also not a gender thing. 3. She was already on meds and had a diagnosed mental health issue… if he had one and his defense didn’t bring it up…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:35 PM
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Join CrossFit if you like that style of exercise! Don’t go to the workouts with a mindset of finding a date. Approach the group workouts as practice interacting with new women. I’ve known quite a few people who became more confident after a few months of group exercise classes. I think it’s because they force you to both socialize and improve your body. You don’t have to be super outgoing for this to work just start by being polite whenever someone talks to you and slowly get more comfortable. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:57 PM
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I strongly disagree. We should not judge all women as weaker than men and exclude them from combat even tho the average woman is weaker than the average man. We should not judge all Muslims as terrorists even if someday all but 1 Muslim are. That 1 should still be judged by the content of their character not their religion. Everyone should be judged by the content of their character, which should be observed thru their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:45 PM
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Choosing not to date is valid regardless of the reason. These generalizations you make about men are not. Yes, some men due these things, but not most. Some women due these things too. A lot of men are not good people Yep. But most men are good. A lot of women are also not good people either. Most women are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:39 PM
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By definition murder is premeditated. It’s not just “loosing their temper “.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:15 PM
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As far as i know they didn’t look for one So he got a shitty defense attorney Would it be okay for a man to murder his children if they’re unwanted by him? Hell no. Just like it’s not okay for a woman to murder her children either.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:11 PM
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Not necessarily, some people are just horrible people.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:07 PM
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To charge her with murder? Of course! Both these people deserved to be charged with murder. I hope they both go to jail for life. Doesn’t mean the cases are the same. She was a resident of, committed the crime in, and was charged in a state that does not allow the death penalty. Not a great comparison. The DA for her case didn’t have an option to seek death penalty so OP suggesting the reason one case had it was due to their genders is very disingenuous.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:06 PM
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Really depends on the beholder. I would prefer to spend my life with a sexy poor man than an ugly wealthy man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:20 AM
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Yes. Both men and women lose some privileges and gain other privileges with gender equality. For example with gender equality: Men lose the privilege of being able to by default expect their partner to take on the majority of childcare duties. Men gain the privilege of not having to shoulder the financial burden themselves. Men gain the privilege of being free of pressure to suppress emotions to appear “manly”. Men lose the privilege of being taken more seriously in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:07 AM
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Mental illness is not the only difference in these cases. This was the only time Lindsay Clancy harmed her children. Jean Charles had assaulted his kid previously. It does make sense to treat repeat DV more harshly than a one time act, so that statement about feminists isn’t really fair. Is a MRA silent on this an MRA in favor of murdering children? I think not
/r/MensRights30/04/23 01:54 AM
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I’m glad they have both been charged with murder. The go fund me for Lindsay Clancy is super weird. Good that it is (allegedly) no longer going to her defense. Hopefully it can get her husband therapy or be donated to a good cause - it would be fucked up if it ends up going to allowing her a lavish life. It’s not a great comparison because, and please correct me if I’m wrong, Jean Charles did not have any mental illness to blame as far as I can find. He also had assaulted his kid previously wher…
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:33 PM
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That could be good for the environment in places with water issues since they can be used without flushing and use less water when they are flushed!
/r/MensRights28/04/23 10:44 PM
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What is your purpose of posting all these links?
/r/MensRights28/04/23 07:41 PM
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Why do you assume zero women were “made to penetrate” in the last 12 mo when there is a nonzero number of women “made to penetrate” in the lifetime category? Or do you just not count a woman being “made to penetrate” as rape despite counting all the men “made to penetrate” in the male rape victim calculation?
/r/MensRights28/04/23 07:40 PM
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And why the women table 3.1 has lifetime “made to penetrate” but not 12 mo. I imagine it means made to penetrate with a finger or something? Does it clarify anywhere what the men made to penetrate were made to penetrate with? This would make a difference as to weather that category should be counted as rape vs SA.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 07:29 PM
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It depends how important to you sex is in a relationship. To me it is very important so I prefer to test sexual compatibility first before getting more emotionally invested and then a breakup hurting if we turn out to have incompatible sexual desires. Sexual compatibility can be determined fairly quickly compared to other compatibilities so might as well start with it, then focus on other types of compatibility that are also necessary for an ltr but may take longer to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:58 PM
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Women are not nearly as unified as you seem to think
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:32 PM
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You are ignoring the strong desire many (maybe even most?) people have to not kill. Most people would not hesitate to kick and punch to protect themselves. When it comes down to pulling the trigger many would not, even in clear self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:53 PM
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Ah I have not heard that as a definition of frail or of fragile before Death isn’t the only thing worth protecting oneself from. Avoiding rape - strength would help protect from. Avoiding kidnapping - size would help protect from as an average man would be heavier to carry/drag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:09 PM
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Not sure on the details yet, but I intend it to be the same as I do to ensure my daughter will grow up to be a good woman and partner and someone who treats people right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:50 PM
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Staying alive longer is not the direct opposite of being frail. Being physically more resilient is not the same as being stronger. For example, pro body builders and power lifters are far stronger than average but do not live longer on average. Physical strength is still relevant to protection. Plus sex still impacts perceived strengths. For example, men are perceived as better leaders in part due to having a deeper voice. So if you consider soft skills into the strengths and weaknesses for succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:48 PM
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You must be in a privileged position to say that I would consider to be an important part of a adolescent's upbringing is something wasn't worth experiencing or it's something that doesn't matter and that you didn't miss out on. Many teenagers have bigger problems to worry about, making teen love not worth experiencing. Needs like physical safety, having enough food and shelter, etc need to be met first. I wouldn’t call it privileged to be more concerned by, for example, avoiding death or rape i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:03 PM
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It depends on the woman. I would be off put by a man wearing makeup because I don’t wear make up myself and tend to not have much in common with people who spend a lot of time on make up. This is in general and not a definitely not deal breaker. Just at a very surface level first impression wearing makeup implies spending a lot of time on one’s aesthetic which isn’t a thing I’m into. It also depends on the context. Somebody wearing makeup in an air conditioned office or at an indoor restaurant i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:01 PM
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Wack take
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:38 PM
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Having a woman advocate can be effective at changing minds of more women. Like when a man is being sexist against a woman, if a man calls him out he is more likely to listen to the man calling him than a woman calling him out because of his sexism. Similarly a sexist woman will be more likely to listen to a woman tell her she is wrong than to a man tell her she is wrong because of her sexism.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:00 PM
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I haven’t been alive long enough to really speak to dating culture in the past. Regardless of the time period, I think it depends who you surround yourself with. If you are seeing men acting like predators everywhere, something is wrong with the pool of men you are seeing. Even if a man is handsome, if someone chases me like a thirsty predator there is zero chance of me dating them. Most men I know do not behave that way, and have relative success in dating. Might be related.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:44 PM
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it is almost impossible for a man to think "look at that girl, she's so lucky that someone as cool as me is willing to even talk to her because her life and night will become instantly better when I go talk to her". How many guys can say this and truly believe it? Not many!!! But why? it is almost impossible for a woman to think "look at that boy, he's so lucky that someone as cool as me is willing to even talk to him because his life and night will become instantly better when I go talk to him"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:50 PM
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No. I prefer not to live in a dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:05 AM
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Nicki is one of the only mainstream female rappers who i respect that makes good music
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:35 AM
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The rest of the US should defend Hawaii/Alaskaand the territories (which should be allowed to become states if they want or else give up US protections) but not go to war on foreign soil. I would expect my man to fight to defend Hawaii etc if more volunteers were needed. If he fled a draft to defend America I would not respect that. I would respect fleeing a draft for a foreign war. I would expect this of all the able adults in my country bc it is what I would expect of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:55 PM
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The US shouldn’t have those treaties for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:14 AM
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If my country (USA) was being invaded I would want every able man to fight to defend it. I would want the same from every woman, myself included. If WW3 was happening elsewhere, which seems more likely to me, I would prefer the US not stick its nose where it doesn’t belong / stop acting as “policeman of the world” so by extension of that I suppose I wouldn’t want the men in my country to go fight a foreign war. Wouldn’t want the women to either. If the US was invaded, no, I would feel a sense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:59 AM
1

Morality always matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:19 AM
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They both owe eachother honesty. The man should not pretend to intend to enter a relationship if that is not the case. The woman should not pretend to intend to have sex if that is not the case. It’s fine to change one’s mind, and when that happens it should be communicated honestly and as kindly as possible. Ghosting, standing up, or pretending a commitment is in the cards when it’s not are not honest or kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:27 AM
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That’s why I said a few lol, the list has many and a few say only for men
/r/MensRights18/02/23 11:04 AM
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Letting people follow their interests would be my ideal too. To me that would mean no scholarships or career advertising campaigns would be gendered. However as long as there is extra funding for women in mostly male fields there should also be extra funding for men in mostly female fields. To me it would also mean not “steering” kids toward certain paths. Like high school guidance counselors would need to not make gendered recommendations and everyone should be informed of all the options. I ag…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 09:40 PM
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Ugh this article is shamefully lacking in journalistic integrity for so many reasons. Even the title is rediculous. He isn’t dividing men and women. I don’t think he’s even devicive but if anything he is just dividing reasonable people from selfish people. Lots of women support Joey Swoll and what he is doing for gym culture. Sad that some people will probably believe articles like this without seeing for themselves.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 06:53 PM
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The campaigns for diversity in female dominated fields are lacking. Society is starting to care about this too, I think it just hasn’t really caught on big time yet. The women in STEM stuff didn’t happen over night either so it will probably take time. I hope it catches on and eventually becomes equal to the efforts to get women in STEM etc. And that eventually even farther in the future gendered scholarships/gendered career promotion programs will be a thing of the past. Nursing seems to be mak…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 06:36 PM
1

Not sure what country that comment was referring to but there are a few in the US https://nursejournal.org/resources/financial-aid/nursing-scholarships-for-men/
/r/MensRights17/02/23 05:05 PM
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No but it does mean you should work on yourself rather than continue to knowingly make other people uncomfortable. Like take a social skill class or something and then try making friends, maybe you would even make friends there!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:14 PM
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Mostly the men in these videos are not creepy. If anything is creepy in these videos it is the selfish influencer filming them without their consent. IMO creepy is either being threatening or not respecting people’s boundaries, such as filming people without their consent in situations they could reasonably expect not to be filmed. To avoid being creepy, don’t invade other people’s personal space, don’t film people at the gym, don’t ignore it when somebody tries to set a boundary with you, don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:07 AM
2

Neither. Intrinsic value is based on being a human being.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 06:06 PM
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No - tall women get tall privilege. Like tall men get tall privilege. Except for women a bit less privilege comes with being tall than for men bc it doesn’t make tall women seen as more attractive in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:02 AM
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Another explanation is that when the men earn more than there partner it is typically by a higher margin than when the women earn more. A third explanation is that single men are earning quite a bit more than their taken counterparts, bumping up the amount men earn overall. A fourth explanation is that these studies are sampling people from different countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:01 PM
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I think you mean income not wage. My boyfriend earns a higher hourly wage than me, however my yearly income is significantly higher because I work more overtime per year. I don’t think there is a catch because neither of us gets benefits. We have been living together for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:49 PM
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Extremely context dependent. When he paid for sex did he do his due diligence to ensure she was an adult selling sex of her own free will? If so then I would have no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:59 PM
1

Yah that makes sense
/r/MensRights12/02/23 06:45 PM
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I think it’s part WaW and part the influence of teachers unions. A male teacher would have been more called out for getting physical with a student. Teachers unions, especially since the pandemic, have increasingly been using their power in what I believe is “bad faith” such as to keep public schools closed/remote much longer than most private schools and to defend teachers who don’t deserve it. I think this has emboldened the bad teachers by preventing some from being held accountable for their…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 06:23 PM
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This is not toxic masculinity. Using strength to help those in need is healthy/good masculinity. Is anybody calling helping disaster victims toxic (besides OP sarcastically)?
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:04 PM
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It’s would be sexist to write off all women because of the behavior of some Changing one’s sexuality is impossible
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:40 PM
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Yes, there are definitely contexts where the man is abused. The man is taking a leap of faith moving to a foreign country looking for love. If a woman pretends to be in love with him and he marries her believing they are marrying for love but really she doesn’t care about him and just want access to his money that is pretty cruel of her. If she falls in love for real and he is pretending to love her back and she marries him believing they are marrying for love but really he just wants a wife he …
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:26 PM
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This! It really depends on the context
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:17 PM
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Does that make you a bit too? Lol
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:15 PM
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If they talk to me, yeah. I don’t look into people’s eyes randomly lol.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:51 AM
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On the rig
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:20 AM
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My point was that making absolutist false claims is counter productive to attaining equality… linking to feminist just doing the jobs wouldn’t mean they wanted to - some people go into those field bc they are low on options. That’s why I specifically picked the one of the feminist who had a degree and sought out the job on the rig
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:08 AM
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I do think some of them do yes, because men’s rights isn’t as well known as feminism and a lot of people have only seen little snippets and base their opinions on the little bits they see. If what they happen to see is the false claims that makes them less likely to consider the good points.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:01 AM
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I was not including those as things all feminists of those waves agree with because: 1/3 of attendees of the feminist meeting it was signed at chose to sign the declaration of sentiments, suggesting nearly 2/3 didn’t agree with it. Tender years doctrine I hadn’t realized was a feminist creation but I just did some research an you have changed my mind about first wave feminism. I had thought it was just about equal rights like the right to vote. Thanks for bringing that to my attention. As for se…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:48 PM
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I’m not offended, and I am focusing on the issue of men’s rights being taken seriously. I truely believe the statement I’m calling out it counter productive.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:03 PM
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Ask why they think those things, it can be an effective way to get people to realize for themselves they are wrong. Plus: Regardless of who does it to them, the abused still deserve resources and support and protection. Thats probably part of the cause, but it’s certainly also because of a fear of not being believed and all of the other reasons women don’t always report. Relating it to women who don’t report may help in this particular argument.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:59 PM
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Why do you believe that to be a core tenet of feminist ideology?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:48 PM
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I don’t think has to be anti-all-feminist. Just anti-third-and-fourth-wave-feminist.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:46 PM
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The comment I replied to never said doing what on said oil rig. It claimed no feminist ever would say they want to live on an oil rig or work down the mines. I’m simply pointing out that this kind of false statement pushes people away from the MRM. I want more people to it seriously, and I think not making broad, absolutist, false statements would help.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:37 PM
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I don’t see anything in this saying men can’t look women in the eyes
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:53 PM
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False. There are currently feminists working in mines, on oil rigs, and building houses and who want to do so! Absolutist claims like this drive feminists, and people in general, away from the MRM. Why do you think that no feminists want to work in mines, live on oil rigs, or build houses? Examples of feminists who chose to work in mines and live on oil rigs: A feminist paper advocating for quite a few things related to mining, including gender equality. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:22 PM
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Speak for yourself. There are a lot of men in this sub that do not hate feminists - in fact a lot of men are not hateful. Plus, spreading hate is counter productive. What law says men can’t look women in the eye like humans?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 07:09 PM
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Reflections on the Revolution in France by Edmund Burke A Vindication of the Rights of Man by Mary Wollstonecraft A Vindication of the Rights of Woman by Mary Wollstonecraft The Federalist Papers by Alexander Hamilton
/r/MensRights10/02/23 06:09 AM
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Oh haha
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:33 PM
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Your statement about a soggy house heavily implies with plumbing to get the water to taps, toilets, showers etc. Not “just a well”.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 07:03 PM
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How do you think the water gets from the well to your sink?
/r/MensRights09/02/23 02:02 PM
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I think it is because it is a toxic way of leaning into the women are victims stereotype.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 02:05 AM
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Sounds like we are using different definitions of the word institutionalized 🤔
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:00 PM
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60% of baby boys circumcised in the US, that’s institutionalized in my book
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:38 PM
2

Do you only want to protect the male children from them ?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:40 PM
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Yours don’t either. Assuming 0.03% chance of being born with gender dysphoria, it should be: 0.0003x0.0003=0.00000009 which is 1 in 1,000,000,000 chance a parent and only child have it. Another way to look at it is 0.03% x 0.03% = 0.000009% which is a 1 in 1,000,000,000 chance a parent and only child have it. For parents with multiple children the odds that at least one child has it increases. But the math for that is more complicated and difficult to type.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:39 PM
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Oh I thought you meant in general mother should have priority. If a baby is still nursing it makes sense it be with the mother. Once done nursing I think it should be 50/50 or if they choose not to nurse.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:46 PM
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I don’t think it should depend on gender of the child. Especially if there are siblings, they should be kept in the same home as much as practical even if they are different genders. Default should be 50/50 unless either one parent chooses to have less custody or there is evidence of child abuse/neglect. Not sure what the transgender issues you bring up have to do with fathers getting priority in divorce.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:42 PM
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It may be one reason but it doesn’t make it right. Neither mother or father should be prioritized based on gender. Default should be 50/50 unless either one parent chooses to have less custody or there is evidence of child abuse/neglect.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:38 PM
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I imagine the number of people in LTRs who do not masturbate or cheat is very low, partly for this reason
/r/MensRights06/02/23 10:40 PM
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No amount of calling connecting with both men and women cuckolding is going to shame a normal woman into only interacting with women. If she was bi would you call her connections with women cuckolding too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 PM
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You have a problem with women connecting with other people? Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:03 PM
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Heres another reason: to connect with people involved in your hobby. I see lots of women with pages dedicated to a specific hobby that they make public to interact with other involved in that hobby. For example readers posting pictures of books they have read or of them in their cozy readying spots, runners posting pics of races and trails, artists posting picture of paintings and of themselves working on art.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:51 PM
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That statistic doesn’t mean their husbands are refusing to provide. The husbands income is often not enough to support the whole family. Mothers often choose to work because they want to have a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:36 PM
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Lots of people don’t start saving for retirement until way too late
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:49 PM
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Is he looking for a job? Is he a SAD allowing me time to work for money while he works in the home? Does he have savings? Does he mooch off of me? Are we in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:34 AM
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No gender owns the sex. It’s is a mutual thing between consenting adults. People of all genders face rejection. Do you mean how the physical act looks to a fly on the wall? I have never thought of sex as a power struggle. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:30 AM
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Tell her sons are equal to daughters because all human babies are created equal
/r/MensRights06/02/23 06:23 AM
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I have no interest in fighting for a nation that has sexism so ingrained in its law that it drafted nearly all the men with few exceptions while only giving women the option to leave.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 06:17 AM
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I don’t think an egalitarian would say misandry it THE problem. Misandry and misogyny are both problems.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 03:03 AM
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I don’t particularly care bout him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:02 PM
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Most women with outdoor physical labor jobs wear hardly any makeup if any at all on a daily basis, same with long distance hiking women. If you get involved in these things you’ll be more likely to come across a woman who doesn’t where makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:44 AM
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Reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:38 AM
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Would you be an upstanding platonic friend to said woman, or only boyfriend? Assuming she is also glad to be an upstanding friend to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:22 AM
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In my family, at the playground (met a girl there when we were kids and we are still close friends 20+ years later), at work, in clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:18 AM
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I seek to date people who I desire, desire me back, and have enough character that they treat me well regardless of who it hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:37 AM
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You actually can walk thru parks alone at night. Parents warn of the danger because that is their job as parents - to worry about and protect you. Yes there is risk. There is also risk in the day, and the day risk is probably not as much less than might risk as you think. A significant portion of males are dangerous like you say. So is a significant potion of females. But not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:59 PM
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Maybe a few of them would try. Most would not because most men are good. More would stand up for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:49 PM
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I consider myself a feminist. A few years ago I truely believed that MRAs were bad and would not have believed I would become one. I bring this up now to give you hope by showing that people change. Here is why my views changed: I believe the main reason is that I experiend men stand up for me at their own expense, which undid a lot of my beliefs about men. When I was 18 I moved away from home and went into a male dominated trade. I was the only woman on the team. We worked hard and very long ho…
/r/MensRights04/02/23 11:46 PM
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Lifelong true monogamy is pretty rare but possible! It takes a lot of work and unfortunately you can only control your side of it. Women who cheat lack character, so I think the key is choosing a partner who has very good character. Since you can’t 100% know anybody’s character beside your own, getting the potentially great relationship involves risk.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:52 PM
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One example that comes to mind would be fields that are currently very heavily skewed to mostly men or mostly women. If a woman wants to become an oil roughneck and wants to be good at the job, she could gain a lot more mentorship and skills learning from men compared to if she only engaged with women. Same for if a man wants to become a preschool teacher - he would be missing out on a ton of knowledge and experience he could have learned from had he engaged with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:04 PM
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She does not NEED men. Needing men is not the same as finding value in men and caring about men as human beings. With just one gender there are half as many potential friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:54 PM
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Companionship, love, friendship, twice as many people to potentially share ideas/hobbies/interests with than if you only interacted within one gender. You have selected statements that represent minority views from each gender, not a good representation of the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:44 PM
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A man has a moral right to exercise violence against a woman in self defense or war. There may be other situations as well that I’m not thinking for right now. Some examples that where it would be fully justified are: using violence against female enemy soldier who is invading your country, using violence in self defense such as if she is physically abusive in a relationship, and using violence against a woman who raped or attempted to rape you. Outside of war, I think the line should be drawn a…
/r/MensRights04/02/23 06:59 PM
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With the exception of bodybuilding gyms etc where filming to send a coach form check or posing practice is important, then rule should be no filming others without their consent and it should be on the filmed to ask permission from those around them or find an area where they aren’t in the way and aren’t getting anyone in the shot who doesn’t want to be.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 05:32 PM
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Along this line, it bugs me that some gyms that require a shirt let people work out in sports bras. Like a sports bra does not keep your sweat to yourself the way a shirt , even a tank or muscle t, does. Plus it’s a kinda sexist double standard.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 05:30 PM
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An ideal gym policy would be to ban people who get caught secretly filming. Sadly it can be hard to find gyms that actually enforce.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 05:27 PM
0

This bothers me too. I imagine society’s greater stigma against male victims has prevented men from coming forward as much in the me too movement. It is a shame the movement organizers haven’t done more (or anything at all) to make it inclusive to male victims. It’s sad that there is a need for #mentoo and they weren’t just welcomed more to being with.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 04:43 PM
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Fathers should also get the same protection for the 18 months then.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 04:32 PM
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A woman who doesn’t reply to you because of your gender is not the type of woman to be friends with. Focus your friendship energy on the people who reciprocate. If that happens to be mostly men that’s fine as long as you don’t write off all women as potential friend due to the behavior of some.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:24 PM
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If I see someone filming while I’m there I try to go at a different time the next time. Even tho it’s unlikely to get out in their video I find it annoying to be around. I prefer gyms that do not allow filming and actually enforce it.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 03:56 PM
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It is your current value which includes future value as a factor because your future value impacts your current value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:53 PM
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I guess that’s where we are approaching this idea from a different perspective. I think there are plenty of decent people for every decent person to be appreciated. Say each decent person has enough time and energy to truely appreciate 5 people at a time. Perhaps they have 3 close relationships tho because that is how many decent people they have gotten close to in their current environment. That leaves room for them to care about 2 more decent people once they get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:52 PM
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Neither, shame the gay guys who abuse their partners, cheat on their partners, etc Also shame the strait people who do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:46 PM
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They don’t NEED to be shamed but society is better when we shame asshole behavior, shame lying and manipulation for personal gain, shame bullying etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:45 PM
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I think there are things everyone can do to find the right people for them. Like if the work peers are assholes meet people thru hobbies, neighborhood functions, workout groups, clubs, etc. Plus if all the work peers are truely assholes one should probably look into changing jobs!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:43 PM
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We can’t all be appreciated by all our peers at the same time. You have to find the one you “click with” and who “get you”. This takes time and repeated interaction to really get to know eachother on a deeper level to find a few who really care about you. The ones who demonstrate with actions that they truely care are good to surround yourself with / invest more time and energy in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:30 PM
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Do the people you spend time with IRL value you “based on how many vaginas [you] can put [your] penis into”? If so that sounds very unhealthy and I suggest you make changes to your social life. It make take a bit of searching but there are people out there who will value you as a human being, your personality and ideas and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:56 AM
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No, he would be fine. You would be wasting your money by getting someone “not strong enough to get in this tissue right” Unless you didnt pay him but I hope you wouldnt stoop so low. Now I think I should reconsider that assumption because the only way he is the one hurt by the situation if you don’t pay, stealing the service provided. Sounds like I should’ve assumed even worse of you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:03 PM
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I hope you get a very weak man and while you are they see a jacked female masseuse and regret your sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:47 PM
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I would politely decline the gift
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:45 PM
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The problem is that you’re extrapolating tinder to represent reality as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:21 PM
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This is a pretty good idea, but I think it would still get backlash from vocal folks getting worked up about more genders. Perhaps name it Egalitarian Activists, at which point might as well be egalitarianism.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:16 PM
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This was what I was gonna say lol. It would take enough money to profoundly make extreme change in the world for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:20 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights03/02/23 04:09 AM
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There are less women relative to men on tinder now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:39 AM
2

For why what is so?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:13 AM
1

How is celebrating this counter to equality? I honestly do not understand because according to the article women are earning more than men in 22 places and men earning more in 214 places. This is closer to equality than women earning more in 0 places and men earning more in 236 places, which presumably used to be the case. To be celebrating this seems like celebrating a baby step toward equality. What is everyone else seeing that I’m not?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:11 AM
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I never said it was a problem that men out earn women in some cities. Yes, celebrating that women earn more in 22 places and men earn more in 214 places is closer to equality than women earning more in 0 places and men earning more in 236 places is what I am defending.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:03 AM
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It feels concerningly Orwellian
/r/MensRights02/02/23 10:09 PM
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It makes me consider. I’m trying to save up so that one day when I have kids I can afford to send them to private school (if at the time a private option is feasible and seems better than the local public school) or afford to take time off to teach them myself if need be. Ideally I want them to go to a school with almost as many male teachers as female so they can grow up with good male role models too. Edit: I just noticed you were asking what men think so disclaimer: this is a woman’s opinion
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:12 PM
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Stating that women are never jailed for the same crime is false. For example: Yasmine Walker
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:06 PM
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I think MRA is unfortunately rather misunderstood. People, especially feminists, seem to mistakenly assume it is somehow anti-women or that it is about oppressing women or against equality.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:44 PM
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One reason there are so many more examples of women’s poor gym behavior is there are more female wannabe fitness influencers. I say wannabe because the really successful ones aren’t stopping this low for views. I don’t think it says much about “the nature of women” as whole, just like a few men perpetuating sexual harassment doesn’t say much about “the nature of men”. Most people are good and I’m very glad to see Joey Swoll call out this toxic behavior. It reminds me that there are people callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:26 PM
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The opposite. Marriage is more of a necessity for working class folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 AM
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Sounds like statutory rape
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:04 PM
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Defending what? All I intended to defend was it seems okay to celebrate that women earning more in 22 places and men earning more in 214 places is closer to nobody out earning than women out earning in 0 places and men outearning everywhere. as it will never be exactly equal everywhere.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:18 PM
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Sounds like you didn’t read the article… according to it women outearn in 22 metropolitan areas and men outearn in 214 metropolitan areas.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:05 PM
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Getting out what you put in would be equality, not equity. Equality and equity are mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:59 PM
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Equality means equal opportunity, with the outcome determined by things like skills, physical ability, intelligence, effort, and a little luck. Equity means equal results. It is not an inherently socialist concept but is tied to a lot of socialist ideas because getting equal results involves either taking from Person A who achieved more by working harder to give to Person B who didn’t try very hard or rewarding both Person A and B equally to begin with despite different effort.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:56 PM
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I never said that it was a problem at all …
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:47 PM
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This seems like celebrating equality, some cities men outearn and in some women do. Several is not most. Considering how many cities there are in the US, “several” is a small fraction. Meaning in US cities most young men are out earning young women.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 03:43 PM
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Thank you for answering my question, I will research Northern European countries more. I am surprised by this answer because of the post on here about feminism being more radical in Scandinavia.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:50 PM
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I meant of more equal countries
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:31 PM
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Also what? The civil rights act prohibits discrimination based on sex, including discrimination against men
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:17 PM
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I meant of more equal countries
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:16 PM
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Could you provide some examples for me to learn about?
/r/MensRights01/02/23 04:43 AM
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USA. Far from perfect but can’t think of a more equal country
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:31 AM
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I think you are right in a lot of contexts, but it really does depend on the situation. For example, high school seems socially easier for girls. As does making friends as an adult in most office business settings. However in most trades men are more welcomed socially. For both men and women building social connections around your hobby will be more challenging if you are the only man or only woman in your area with that interest.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 07:49 PM
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Could it be two complaints from one bitter person? Just seems weird/dramatic/cruel that this got reported without talking to you. Perhaps you unknowingly snubbed someone and they are out for revenge. If so and you could prove the reports were made for the wrong reasons with bad intentions it could help you. Gathering enough evidence would be difficult tho.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:22 PM
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I think you are right that HR just wants to avoid liability. Unfortunately they rarely have the best interest of employees at heart. Like somebody said a lawyer and NDA would be a good idea.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:18 PM
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As a woman I am appalled that someone reported you for something so innocent without even talking to you about it first. I would definitely not consider this “sexual touching “. I don’t think it would even make me uncomfortable in the scenario you described, but if it did I would politely explain this to you at least once so you could avoid repeating, not go straight to reporting.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:16 PM
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Truely proving any statistic is nearly impossible as there is always margin for error and flaws in studies. That said I thought I could back it up to a reasonable extent for debate. The only death statistic I have found for OLD was that 100 murders per year used online dating to lure the victim but there was nothing about the gender. So I could have incorrectly assumed that from being brainwashed by the societal narrative about strangers I mentioned in the next sentence 🤣 While not an actual sta…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:04 PM
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Haha I think that is totally okay. If I saw my friends more often I think we would have more of this type of conversation. I travel a lot for work and don’t see them as often as I would like, another contributor to our conversations lately being more focused on catching up about bigger life things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:51 PM
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Literally what I said, the likelihood of a date with a stranger leading to death for anybody is very low. I think the stranger danger thing being so overblown, and particularly overblown in the warnings little girls and young women are bombarded with, contributes to less women using online dating.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 02:48 PM
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I have occasionally gotten that “crush at first sight” feeling as an adult, but the conversations I have with my friends now are generally more substantive so I don’t bring up this sort of thing as much as I would have in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:52 AM
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A woman meeting a stranger from the internet is statistically more likely to result in her dying than a man meeting a stranger from the internet is to result in him dying. While the likelihood of a tinder date ending in death for anybody is very low, girls being constantly warned about the dangers of strange men as they grow up probably makes them more risk averse as women.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 03:38 AM
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Thanks for sharing. What a ridiculous policy
/r/MensRights26/01/23 10:14 PM
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What work places have period leave? I’ve never heard of this
/r/MensRights26/01/23 10:00 PM
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And boys would say they need to take a big shit as an excuse for the same
/r/MensRights26/01/23 09:59 PM
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I feel like this would be wrong in either context, nobody should use there biological sex or their disability to get ahead or get out of meeting standards. Women should be called out if they, for example, fake bad period cramps to get off of being held accountable for their quality of work. However if they occasionally need a quick break to take advil for them that seems reasonable so long as they still complete there work well. People with autism (or any other challenge to their work success) s…
/r/MensRights26/01/23 09:56 PM
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What “weaponizing” are you referring to?
/r/MensRights26/01/23 12:14 PM
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Unless you are in a 2-party consent state, the audio can get you in trouble as well
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:51 AM
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I want stay at home dads to be normalized
/r/MensRights19/01/23 09:28 PM
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I think the opposite, those are the one’s spending more time on Reddit complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:46 AM
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I have been thinking the same thing. I am an average woman and my boyfriend is an average man. He is about 5’ 6” as am I. We are both fit but not in a model type of way. We both work in trades, some years I earn more some years he does depending mainly on overtime/who has a busier year. I am very happy in the relationship and believe he is too. We split bills mostly 50/50. During hard times one of us will pay a bit more to help the other. We don’t track it exactly but I think it works out about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:42 AM
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Sleeping around and cheating are not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:23 AM
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Men are also encouraged to “experiment before settling down”. Women are also nudged toward not cheating on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:22 AM
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I was confused because I thought you meant there is a government vaccine mandate, which there is not
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:06 AM
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What country are you talking about
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:43 PM
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This is a great point, I hadn’t thought of how it is taking potential resources away from treating/researching other cancers
/r/MensRights15/01/23 02:58 PM
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Only if the case is prosecuted. Most of the accusations probably just go into the abyss without evidence
/r/MensRights14/01/23 02:38 PM
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They wouldn’t try it unless there was a video or something like that
/r/MensRights14/01/23 02:35 PM
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Truely horrible of her
/r/MensRights14/01/23 02:29 PM
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Does believing in equality make me not a feminist? I think of myself as a feminist who believes men’s rights need to be advocated for as well to have equality
/r/MensRights13/01/23 07:02 PM
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A lot of this stuff depends where you are. In some places smoking is very acceptable or even encouraged. I think this also depends on what industry you work in and seems more acceptable in outdoor jobs, which makes sense because if you do it outdoors you aren’t really affecting non smokers who may be around you as much. Atheism also depends a lot on where you are. Some states still have it in their constitution that an atheist can not be elected to state offices. Isn’t the goal of the breast can…
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:32 PM
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Feminists believe men and women should be treated equally/fairly. Not identical. This is a false claim.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:23 PM
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Is it the online dating causing this or the men swiping right on 90% Also do said men actually consider dating everyone the swop right on?
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:58 PM
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To me, that seems cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:48 AM
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Not everyone thinks models are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:43 AM
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For example, if one partner is permanently paralyzed for the neck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:42 AM
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Everybody who makes over $12,000 in income is taxed federal income tax… even the US does this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:19 AM
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That’s what the child tax credit is they just don’t call it that. It’s not just a bachelor tax, but also a bachelorette one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:18 AM
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This! Toxic masculinity absolutely exists, as does toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:10 AM
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Huh?
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:08 AM
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Women do get shamed for height, it’s just tall shaming instead of short shaming
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:07 AM
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Was giving birth related services included? Not sure why 6 times spent on researching women, seems strange to me. Men generally take more risks than women, thus the lower life expectancy.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:01 AM
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I think this idea comes from a few niche industries where this is true and gets incorrectly extrapolated to the work world as a whole
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:45 AM
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Lol not to mention women generally have shorter legs so would take more steps to walk equal distance. Even if that was accounted for still a ridiculous measure
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:25 AM
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While I agree with this overall sentiment, I wouldn’t go so far as to the Tate types are the only ones providing a roadmap. For example, Jordan Peterson gives good advice for young men while remaining reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:34 AM
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2 min less is quite a bit faster!
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:55 AM
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