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4	If expecting a woman to cook/clean because she’s a woman is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man because he’s the man be misandry? Personally i don't have much of a problem with the whole traditional gender roles thing - If I'm honest, I actually quite like them! Where it doesn't work is in the disconnect between "I'm going to be fully liberated and empowered, and don't you dare object - but you'd damn well better still uphold your end of the bargain!". Also a woman is expected to act ladylike Just gonna say it, there's not much "ladylike" behavior in the traditional sense (rather than "it is whatever I happen to define it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 10:35 AM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay https://youtu.be/9OHm6FsgJM8?t=35	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:52 PM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay It's also so much more than "a security thing for us women" - TBH the perception of it as such is half the problem. For me personally, first and foremost - It's a religious sacrament. sure-sure, there are some who view it otherwise / would still bounce regardless - Although i will say that the majority of divorce cases are initiated by women - Who've usually decided they think they deserve better for whatever reason, presenting themselves as the one slighted. As well as the deadbeats, there's an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:45 PM
1	Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day. The standard "pay to turn off ads" is an easy option. You could also have "pay to unlock sending contact details" you run messages / images / links throgh an ai scanner and have it just unmatch you if it detects you trying to cheat the system I'm sure there'll still be ways and means around it, but it'd create a sense of jeopardy Finally if this is the app trying to fix the signal to noise ratio problem - you could probably make a gimmick out of being "the one where you only pay if you actually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 03:03 AM
2	CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonistic .... Only in a Godless clown-world could you attempt to spin waiting until marriage as hedonistic. Then again, while for my sins I'm not a virgin - I'm entirely religious enough to genuinely regret it in retrospect & now be firmly committed to that particular bandwagon. Still, not everyone's religious so while my gut reaction is "Oh, it entirely is a moral issue - Don't like it? ...Take it up with God" - I'll try and sidestep that side of things. For a start, i dispute your initial premise of "b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 05:21 PM
8	If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex. Seriously, I don’t understand why people, especially guys, have to make sex this grandiose thing. You just want the dopamine high from your genitals getting stimulated. That has nothing to do with love, intimacy, or affection. .... No, it's about the sense of connection that goes along with it - sure-sure it feels nice and all, but actually getting off is arguably the least important part of the whole thing (TBH I'm perfectly content not to at all provided they do) For me, sex and intimacy reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 08:23 PM
15	Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members? IMO FDS is essentially a direct counterpoint to the somewhat angry and vitriolic "name calling" parts of TRP They've pretty much got a tit-for-tat on all the major "player" talking points with plenty of fun to be had calling men scrotes, objectifying & adopting a mercenary attitude towards what they can get out of men etc etc By contrast, as far as i can tell from my position as an outsider looking in - RPW would appear to represent a good-faith attempt to respond to the modern dating realities …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:29 PM
1	Nice guys are not mean or creeps, they are men who interact with women platonically in the hopes women will make the first move Honestly, this seems about the size of it. For my sins, I'm nice guy who ends up unthinkingly running the Reverse-Nice-Guy™️ gimmick. (i.e - I'm a cantankerous shit who'll do so with bad grace while bitching loudly about the inconvenience.... but will nevertheless go well out of my way to try and be nice to someone, just for the sake of it.... No ulterior motive or strings attached!) TBH it becomes tiresome when women automatically assume i'm just trying to get into their pants - I'm incapable o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 01:35 PM
4	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women I mean, in broad sweeping generalizations, sure - I guess? What's the grand revelation behind it though? Turns out family oriented guys really aren't all that interested in party-girl, reformed or otherwise - "scientists discover sky is blue, tune in for more at 11". While I think you'd have to be out of your goddamn mind to marry one - I've actually got nothing against bona-fide sluts. Ya know, the real ones who don't wanna get married anyway and are just looking to cram as many big-O's into li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 03:36 PM
3	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. Now this would be unconscionable, in my opinion, if only one side were utilizing strategic ambiguity. But normative dating roles that women defend really keep their strategic ambiguity alive. Given that, all's fair. I disagree. I won't argue that stringing people along with a lie of omission about whether you're looking for more might well be effective if you just want to get your dick wet. What women might think of it, and whether doing so hurts or helps your prospects with them is irrelevant .…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 08:26 PM
3	What is your opinion on men who will not marry women whose parents are divorced? While yes-yes stereotypes = bad - various flavors of "broken" women, and in particular "daddy issues" and "bad crazy" are a thing and.... TBH best just avoided like the plague if you don't want your life ruined - If that was their environment growing up, it's more likely to have rubbed off on them. It's a kinda shitty attitude, and especially so to outright announce that's why you're noping someone, but when playing Russian roulette - I can't say i blame guys who wanna try and avoid adding extra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 07:06 PM
1	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Eh, i'm not a virgin myself & i won't pretend my reaction at the time was anything less than "whoop, i am acceptably normal!" - That said, I'm also religious enough that it's something I've come to regret in retrospect. then you are up for a sexless engagement and a trip to a courthouse before you can expect her to drop her panties. .... Substitute "courthouse" for stood in church making a vow in front of God almighty but.... https://imgur.com/t/chad/72wDViD but for those of you who hate the ide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 06:57 AM
7	Do men in general envy women? Eh, i'll admit to engaging in the usual "grass is always greener" speculation, but TBH.... I actively enjoy being a man. I don't inherently think women are superior (or inferior for that matter) - merely different. On the one hand you've mentioned the ease of attaining sex and the prospect of "dating up". As a counterpoint - Women don't get to compete in the same way that men do - Sure it's not like they can't have careers etc etc but... It's not the same thing at stake. .... You generally can't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 05:26 PM
2	Womens body count Body count matters - To some more than others and like most things in life, there's a whole bunch of factors involved. If you're a player who finally ends up catching feelings sufficiently to get serious about someone.... You're less likely to care than someone in the hyper-religious "no-sex-before-marriage" crowd. You see a lot of women indignantly demanding to know what difference it makes "the past is in the past" etc etc. Sadly, our actions have consequences, and your past does matter... If …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 04:39 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? .... Allright. I'm a 350lb landwhale - I'm working on it, but right now TBH i find myself repulsive. Beyond that, i've got some issues i still I need to work through. Make no mistake, i am currently not an attractive guy - Asides from my very obvious failings of being a fat, broke, self-hating loser.... The fact i don't think i'm someone attractive means i shoot myself in the foot, even if they were interested. After all, "How can you ask anyone to love you if you're not even capable of loving y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 09:50 PM
10	When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner? To be honest, i don't think it's so much about wanting her to marry Bob sooner as it is a cautionary tale on the perils of allowing yourself to be someone's Bob in the first place 🤷‍♂️ The bitterness, the resentment, the constant criticism & henpecking.... Who needs that in their life? I'm hardly the most attractive guy in the world. I have no problem accepting that i might well end up being nobody's first choice. I would genuinely rather be forever-alone than end up being the guy someone "settl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 02:34 PM
18	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I find myself in a similar boat. The actual nuts and bolts of what they've said seems reasonably uncontentious. I mean... While I’d love to find someone to start a family with, I’d rather be FA than end up being the guy someone “settles for” – As far as I'm concerned, anything less than “HELL YES!!!” Is actually a no.... So from that POV i agree entirely. That said, the expectation of constant spark / excitement / better than all aspects of being single all the time forever seems misguided (at l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 03:05 PM
2	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? I have been seeing this claim alot and doing some brief Google searches basically indicate this is true. I'd wary of selection bias - Happy and content people generally arn't going to get up on an internet soapbox to pontificate about it; Whereas misery loves company. I'm not gonna dispute there might be a whole lot of people having bad experiences out there. That said, people who arn't in the same boat typically won't be googling up that sort of stuff to begin with, much less arguing the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 10:44 AM