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| 2 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreWell if the other ones are in ur profile maybe take them out and replace with other pictures where it looks like ur enjoying urself. Women want to think they are going to have fun if they meet you. But like I said, maybe one or two of the women I matched with in a year was cute when I was on the apps. What’s worked for me is having a friend who is around the same attractiveness level as me and going up to women in real life in bars, just saying normal shit like “hey I just wanted to come over an… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreAre these the pics in ur profile? Not bad looking but you look kind of angry, the one pic of you smiling looks much better | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 09:10 PM |
| 3 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreThere is a level of looks where you can be an autist and still get laid. But if you are Normal looking then there is a lot you can do to improve, speaking from personal experience as the dude who is not good enough looking to get laid without effort, but is handsome enough to pull cute girls if the vibe is right | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 5 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreNah she right, real life I can pull way hotter girls in real life then on a dating app. You can't vibe out txting like you can irl | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]“Hey, I just wanted to come over and say hi” and then introduce urself | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Have you had a serious relationship start from clubbing?I met the girl I’ve been seeing for a couple months on the crowded dance floor of a bar. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Are Clubs the wrong place to learn seduction and social skills?Yeah, on the dance floor can be tough, especially if you can’t dance. Usually my go to move with my buddy pre approach is sometimes to literally pretend we’re having fun, like I’ll legit say to him like just smile dude and pretend like we’re having a blast. Like even if your just talking you are seemingly having the most fun conversation of all time. doing so, you might notice girls looking over every so often and those are the one you approach. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Are Clubs the wrong place to learn seduction and social skills?Sorry to break it to you, but 90% of those “lesbians” just want you to leave. What do you do in the club? I find that dropping all that “game” and just saying normal shit like “hey, I just wanted to come over and say hi”works for me. Maybe you need to work out more or something? For reference I clean up into like an 8, maybe a 7 if I’m not your type. You should learn to read the situation before hand, for example. The 4 girls all laughing with each other are going to be a lot harder to approach … | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Help?Do you find her attractive at all? You don’t have to “date” her. Just hang out relax and see where things go. If you don’t find her unattractive then you should do it because it would be a good experience for you. I think you might be making excuses because you are nervous about meeting with her. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 7 | How do you learn to ‘pull’/make attractive facial gestures/faces as a Male?i always hit blue steel from zoolander | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.honestly, all I did was go up to them in the bar and say "hey, I just wanted to come over and say hi" the 2nd one the music was so loud that we could barely have a conversation, so i just asked for her number and the next day texted her "hey I had a great time last night not hearing eachother at all" lol | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 5 | How do you go from first date to relationship?You wait for the girl to bring it up and then you tell her you don’t want to put a label on it | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | I KNOW I CAN DO IT, I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO START...literally just say hello, and introduce yourself | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | What is the best seduction and relationship advice you have ever received?dont put the pussy on a pedestal I think the most helpful, and the biggest mistake I was making in my late teens/early 20s. It's kind of the same advice as "just be yourself" but phrased in a more helpful way, because although "just be yourself" is the right message, its terrible advice because it is meaningless to implement. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedLoool I’m just messing with you because your comment screamed that you cared way too much | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedYeah fish don’t talk, but when woman talk I don’t listen, so really what’s the difference? | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Professionally successful, but romantically ineptUr not ugly at all, better looking then average. Idk what it’s like having aspergers but try not to make it ur identity. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the most Canadian sentence ever?Sorry | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching with a maskmove out then. He's an adult, time to stop taking orders from daddy. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Starting from scratch and need your help!try to fix that, greatly effects your mood. It's like the gas you put in your engine, but for your body. You dont have to be nutty super vegan diet guy, but just clean it up a lil. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Starting from scratch and need your help!sounds like it might be a diet issue bro. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching with a maskDude you’re 24, take off the mask | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Anxiety and feeling overwhelmed on where/how to startStop jerking off so much, for real | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 16 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedlmao, save that kind of shaming for some simp who cares | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 12 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedYou being an actual women doesn’t give you credibility, as they say you don’t ask a fish about how to catch a fish, you ask the fisherman | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Single men/women: how often do you go out and why?The wind isn’t guna “blow your way“ unless your super hot, you gotta make it happen, and all it takes is going over and saying hi. To answer ur question 1-2 times to go out to a bar w friends, almost exclusively on weekends. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How much do you think your own circle is important in gameYou really need one friend who is willing to go to a bar w you. I meet all the girls I see pretty much when I’m out with the same one friend. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.I'm not talking about me, I literally have a date today and tomorrow with 2 different chicks. I'm just saying its a douche move to do that to a freind. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.Just my 2 cents, if you know your best friend is having a hard time with women and is bitter about it, don’t make him listen to how your problem is ur getting too much pussy. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 2 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?I wouldn’t just hit her with a come over booty call for the 2nd date, unless that’s the vibe she’s giving you, you can offer to cook her a meal if u know how. Always go for the kiss on the first date tho, unless the date bombs hard. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?How to make it happen? Or how to deal with a time constraint? I’ll usually wait till #2 atleast if I actually like the girl unless she is giving huge fk me vibes | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?Cut out the Netflix? If she came back to your place after the first date it isn’t because she wants to watch the office. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I got bored chasing girlsWhat? I’m not that’s the point of what I wrote. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Daygame conversation starters?Idk, not to toot my own horn but I’m pretty quick on my feet with words, so usually I don’t have a direct plan. Just the opener. What I find helps is if she is with a friend make sure you introduce urself to the friend as well and talk to her a little bit too. I find that if you sense the conversation is getting stale then you ask for her number and leave, rather then making the goal to ask for her number, the conversation flows naturally and at the end u ask for the number. Getting the number a… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Daygame conversation starters?I don’t do day approaches, just in bars usually, but I almost always start with the same line which is something like “hey, I just wanted to come over and say hi” the “I think you’re cute” part is implied | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | I got bored chasing girlsDon’t text her if you got nothing to say, that’s what has helped me recently. If I’m texted her it’s usually because I want to make plans to meet up, not pretend to care about how her day is going | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 33 | I [27M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show me interest … how to avoid gold diggers?also, you shouldnt be mad that woman want you more now that you have a good job and have been lifting at the gym. That's just how woman are, its like being mad that men want skinny women with fat asses and titties, its just human nature. Be aware of it and don't be taken for a ride by some broad, but its just the way things are - no need to be mad about it | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:27 PM |
| 81 | I [27M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show me interest … how to avoid gold diggers?just dont dish out that $$ like its candy and see if they stick around anyway | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 21 | 25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated.I usually just look her in the eyes with intent, and if she gives me the same look back then you go in for a kiss, dont feel the need to fill every void in the conversation with random filler talk, in those pauses you give her that look, if she gives it back then put ur hands on her waist and lower back and kiss her. This obviosuly assumes youve been talking to this girl for a while or are on a date, dont do this to random girls lmao. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 11:26 PM |
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