It really is two sides to the same coin! Women tend to be paid less iirc and women tend to get passed over for promotions. But when it comes to single parents its men that get fucked. We can't get the help women get. We get looked at like we are the bad guy most of the time when all we want is what is best for our kids. Your daughter is smart. I am sorry for what you are going through.
A lot of this has been brought about by the feminist movement that men all men are assholes and that if they cry rape they will be believed it is total horse shit