vruum-master Archive

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8	The private Facebook groups secretly destroying men's lives... If a person is that unsafe,a judge would decide to lock them up. That app is infringing personal privacy, it's actually illegal,but is grey territory for now since Facebook did worse,so this is not treated as it should(Facebook team ban).	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 10:38 PM
1	Exclusive: Women still don't get the top jobs or pay even in industries they dominate Invariably a child will need you and you will have a choice between career and family. Even dads with wifes with enough time to look after children need to find some flexibility in their schedule to supplement. The guys doing break troughs sweat their butt at like 12h/day 6 days per week. They deserve every penny if they have a very good performance. IMHO the sacrifice is not worth it,but you can't just equal people's pay if they have different personal abilities, worked hours and experience. It…	/r/AntiFeminists	19/03/23 11:24 PM
2	Shes going to vegas all of the sudden. He should book a nice massage session at an all inclusive hotel just for himself. It's his right too to enjoy a "treat" since they get divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/22 12:28 AM
2	I can't shake the feeling that my marriage is entirely conditional All those comentors here ,under this reply don't get your point or actively try to avoid it. They have their rose glasses on. I get it, you feel like this relationship was built by you,on your back and is rightly so,most women don't bother putting in effort and this should be a rule:either she is intrested and puts in effort or her ass can say goodbye. It's like the cases where the patient survives and everybody thanks God,forgetting who pulled the hardship. Also don't make compromises on your i…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/22 12:24 AM
1	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame Why would i be on the receiving end? Most dangerous men are the ones that look like angels,conventional masculine ones may seem threatening, but they are not looking actibely for violence,some even are more complacent then women. Men have a higher nuisance tolerance then women in certain areas. Also masculinity also means to control your impulses and emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 08:07 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Nothing wrong with that. It's quite a healthy behaviour to sort yourself out before trying for another relationship. Much better than going on a sex spree. Then again,i can't judge what is best for someone else,but an unconstrained sex spree is not a mentaly healthy thing to vent out frustration with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 08:04 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? A dude's comitment and sex life will never revolve around a stranger woman. She has to put down something of equal value as 'colateral ' and women nowadays assume that they can date multiple guys in parallel and those men have to be ok with it while men can't do the same otherwise they are 'disqualified' for personal reasons,same reasons men can disqualify said women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 08:00 PM
1	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame It serves a purpose now too,i think. Society is a jungle so who say's is useless. Agressivness gives an edge to some animals in nature too. Also men,humans are more than muscles. Unlike in the jungle you have a lot of 'muscles' to use:status,brain,body image,genes,personality,etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:57 PM
3	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Your last line sums it up. Virginity is not frowned upon tho.It's just that it's an understandable (credible) reason to delay sex for a woman,the 180 moral change less so. Men want security in relationships, but a locked door will not help you either,so it's better to have a partner that is mindful of her sexual encounters and has moral values that bring her to have sex with select partners that she will give her all to please and attempt to go for a LTR,opposite of what a priscous woman would d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:54 PM
1	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame Yes,but those traits exist for an evolutionary reason probably. You should reign them in ,but combating them without understanding the cause is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:37 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Having sex on the side while 'waiting' is an option,but so is just trying with the other woman and having fun. Also you are true about guys puting it from our PoV. In the end if i'm not going to date you for long and i still don't know you well,should i care ? What is in it for me? Love?...we don't know each other Sex?.....we are discussing this Frienship? I can understand the women's PoV as well,but without an incentive why should the guys bite the bullet when there are alternatives? From a wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:27 PM
0	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame Are you sure? Also the country with manly men wins. If you were bordering Russia with feminine men or only women you'd be conquered in 2h tops. It's a competition,best wins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:18 PM
2	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Well,men will still categorize you and judge you as is their right. Even women will do it,lol. You won't score any men for LTR if they don't deem you worthy of it : body count or other factors involved thus will matter for you. Sluts can be fun,but not exactly ok for LTR. As someone said they can be good women ,but very poor partners. It's also not about peepe or even feelings,but how much trust can be placed in you. I don't hate sluts,but no matter how sympathetic a woman is in my eyes,the fact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:07 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Each men has their line,but if you acted like a slut,you can't do a 180 and be a virgin. Basically don't f*** around and on one night stands,have sex in relationships and keep them under 5. You can have fun while dating ex:have sex with the guy you are seeing for 30days and went on 4 dates toghether,nothing wrong. Just don't change him the 34th day and start over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 07:01 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? The pressure is self imposed aka you want to have casual sex. Simply you do you and have sex how you like,society can't force you to drop your pants. Don't blame society pressure for your decisions. If being a slut is trending is pressure to perform then idk what to say. You have a choice in any case. In dating having sex past the 4th or 3rd date is not casual sex if you don't pull for dates any guy you meet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 06:29 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? It's old. In the past dad's had deah right over their kids,so...(around Roman times). Even in 50s if your wife birthed a bastrad she was toased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 06:23 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? It's more about how lax or tough her standards are or if she's consistent with them. It's a ok to have sex in relationships and date around within reason but if you fuck a new guy every Friday it's another matter....then you come and say "I've changed" and make an idiot wait 4 years for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 06:22 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Women and men's dating dynamic is different. A slutty man can still be a good husband ,but a slutty woman less likely. Very few women can practice the same level of comitment as a man that had the same body count as her. For women,sex is easy,you just need to get out there,for men you get it in exchange for something. Women also get hung up on sex partners and it's not often they settle sexualy for men they might not like. The settling sentiment comes from not beeing able to enjoy sex even if it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 06:07 PM
0	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? It's women that decide men with high body counts are still atractive. It's men that decide that women with high body counts are not relationship material per see. Hell,i've seen some women swoon after guys more after they bedded 2 of their friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:55 PM
4	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Not wrong to have standards,wrong to suddenly do a 180 just because you were done having fun and deny the same fun to the guy that is supposed to get the best of you. A relationship should be fun and entertaining for both parties. If a guy has to suffer to maybe get a try is not fun and the persuing game is just a chore. He's better hiting at another woman that is more open to sex and do casual dating then move up to serious teritory. Imagine his options:3rd date sex , regular sex after the 3rd …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:37 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? If she'd have been a virgin it would have been understandable. Otherwise it's just fickle decision,making you invest time into her that maybe some dude in the past didn't need to. It puts you in a worse deal than her previous suitors and it rezumes to what you can get from your partner in the end(at the beggining you have zero guarantees and still have zero gurantees in a relationship). It 's also dependant on how long you want him to persue you and how much effort he has to put in untill it's a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:26 PM
-2	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame It's implied that by default men remain with the mom,unless she crossed a boundary,which is often true. Unless that woman went trough artificial insemination or had planned to be a single mother,something went wrong and since she's the gatekeeper to sex and conceiving(you can't get a woman pregnant without her will unless you rape her) then it's her responsability in general. If you look at it from a male perspective,it'd be cheaper to just live with the mom and share expenses than pay alimony a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:20 PM
4	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame They are not to blame for everything,but they have a huge ass chunk of blame for a few key points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:16 PM
2	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame Women fight too,just in more bullshit ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:14 PM
-1	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame I'd say feminine men are just raised wrong as men. You can act feminine part time,but inside you must be tough as hell and actually be a man. I've never seen a society stay long without dependable men and women consider it a turn off outside of bedroom so,go figure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:13 PM
2	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame It's better,as a man,to deal with it inside your male friend's circle. Women rarely are helpful or genuinely want to help from my experience. In a relationship, most women shop for 'the best' and shy away from the emotional support aspect as much as posible. I've seen a lot of couples where the female has a free pass for support while the man counts his tickets. My friends in relationships bring the heavy stuff to me and our group,the girlfriends are just dissmisive or if they try genuinely ofte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 05:08 PM
1	Disturbing feminist attempt to give Lorena Bobbit a redemption arc I mean it's the least they could do.	/r/MensRights	09/03/22 12:00 AM
6	Ukrainian border guards arresting draft-eligible men trying to flee and congratulating them with the international women's day "Staying to fight" means fighting on the frontline....not staying sheltered somewhere. If she can't defend from a rapist it means she can't defend from the enemy. That's war basically.....it's not for the faint of heart. In truth,at some point it's smarter to surrender.	/r/MensRights	08/03/22 11:57 PM
6	Ukrainian border guards arresting draft-eligible men trying to flee and congratulating them with the international women's day Would you like to be drafted in WW2 ? If not , then why would he? Add in the feminism bullshit men had to deal with and all the other social problems and we really don't have any incentive. So , unless women aren't drafted too, I don't see why men should be. We are not second class citizens they can order to die and shelter perfectly healthy females that enjoyed every privilege the society offered them in some cases ag the wxpense of men, it's the rules they set so they must uphold them.....equa…	/r/MensRights	08/03/22 11:55 PM
2	The 3 Most Common Reasons Why Women Cheat, According to Relationship Experts (study shows woman cheat as much as men) Or just date casual, why spend money on people that don't giveb 2 fucks about you.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 01:21 PM
4	Feminists try to emasculate men but Ukraine is showing them at their finest Not even in their country. I'd like to see the Olimpics they'd if US had to go to war and started drafting women too. Not a good thing , but you'd see all the hypocrisy in plain sight.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 01:18 PM
13	Feminists try to emasculate men but Ukraine is showing them at their finest Idk about you , but from what I saw all dead bodies are men(burnt alive in tanks,shot , etc.). Idk what women are doing , but they are clearly not fighting. Also I doubt women can or would put themselves in direct danger.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 01:15 PM
0	UK: Men can do anything women can, so why shouldn't I have an IVF baby on my own? The single 56-year-old law lecturer who spent £200,000 to fulfil his dream of fatherhood That happens when the state can tax for everything. Outside of health care, law and order, defense and infrastructure a state should not involve with anything else....otherwise they will suck up money from the working men and turn it into a benefit system for everyone minus the ones that paid.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 01:03 PM
13	UK: Men can do anything women can, so why shouldn't I have an IVF baby on my own? The single 56-year-old law lecturer who spent £200,000 to fulfil his dream of fatherhood This is just sad...	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 01:00 PM
12	Stood up for my male coworker to a coworker and a customer(her friend), the friend is now trying to get me fired or transferred stores. Just make sure you don't end up in trouble. He'll be even more hurt if you do. Sometimes you have to pick your battles.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:59 PM
4	"It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace" It's the way they just decide to do whatever for females and shit on males. Same kind of moral problem is responsible for the rest of the things going on. You combat the idea, the moral grounds. Getting days off without pay is possible anyway, so this is kind of useless or discriminatory if those are paid.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:55 PM
2	"It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace" Don't even try to understand the fucked up logic and idiocy, you can't find logic where it isn't.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:53 PM
5	"It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace" How are men paid unjustly when they get paid / work they do ? You say you don't want women to get paid for period days off, ok....we agree on this......so why do you still think we have an advantage ......or you want free paid days and don't know how to phrase it to sound good and put it behind periods ? I get that periods are not nice , but men in general come to work with problems much worse sometimes like severe toothache, fever and what not since they have to get work done. Also the workplac…	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:51 PM
0	"It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace" They can't really stop themselves from doing that , do they? Especially since it reeks of benefits.	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:45 PM
6	"It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace" Again the "different perspective" argument. Look, men just don't want to be treated as garbage and discriminated....this implies not giving women money for free because they are women.....known otherwise as " positive discrimination". Nobody told you to not take days off however you like, but getting paid as a women when a man would not , is discriminatory. By the same logic men should retire 10 years earlier since , you know.......we kind of drop dead way before women......so we don't get back …	/r/MensRights	05/03/22 12:44 PM