| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | Disturbing level 100! | RED FLAG 🚨 | vsgupte007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:09 AM |
| 17 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion. | LESSON LEARNED | vsgupte007 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Disturbing level 100!Heh, I live there and that wouldn't have been far from the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Disturbing level 100!Japan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:09 AM |
| 23 | Disturbing level 100!Yeah exactly. I mean I would dump him over that alone if it were me. It sounds like she knows this too but she's trying to talk herself into moving just because her brother's there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 9 | MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE.Yeah I'm just seriously done with men for now. Gonna spend more time with my girl friends (or guys that are already my friends). People in India say girls should get married by 25 but then don't give two shits if the marriage turns out to be abusive. There are literally so many problems here it would take me a whole day to make a list and I would still find something I haven't mentioned later. -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:18 AM |
| 33 | it be that way on OLD stay strong sistersOh yeah just today morning I was talking to a match on Messenger (I've clearly mentioned everywhere in my profile that I'm only on the app for making friends) and he was like "I feel like I would lose all my credibility as a straight nerdy guy if I didn't hit on you." And before this he was literally just sending memes to me and being flirty (I had explicitly told him too that I didn't like what he was saying to me). Me: ?!?!?! I blocked him after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:04 AM |
| 28 | MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE.In India a politician was recently sentenced to life in jail for raping a minor (2017 Unnao rape case) and I heard some men actually tried to search for it on PornHub (it was trending). I mean... Yikes. Not to mention that the politician being jailed isn't a common occurrence here to begin with, if you read about India's political scene right now, it'll give you shivers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦Because they are HVW (high value women). FTFY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦Wow talk about putting the onus on the survivors lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.Lol who knows? I mean I have lists too but that's just for the books I've read and movies I've watched and side project ideas besides lab work, not for basic stuff like that (although if you're planning stuff it helps to write things down). And quite frankly if you need a list for basic things like eating and sleeping you're not ready to be in a relationship XD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.It was! I let go of the final string. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 04:26 PM |
| -1 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.I dunno anything about that to be honest. He's not ethically poly by any stretch of the imagination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.I know, right?! I mean, we both came from similar backgrounds in terms of both our childhoods being really bad, but I didn't become an exploitative entitled bitch. I wondered for a long time what the difference between me and him was that made us react to similar situations so differently, but I don't think I have enough information so I won't comment on that. Still curious though. I'm not saying I'm the best person on earth or something (still working on my judgemental perfectionistic tendencie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.The document is this list he made for different projects he wanted to work on (philosophy/ math and stuff). He's 24, in the math department at UMD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.I don't have nail polish in my hostel room haha gotta get some from home next time I go! I love doing my nails ~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Last message to my abusive "ex" before deleting him off literally all social media and blocking him to oblivion.oh yeah I forgot to mention he used 'being poly' (he's not poly. One of my guy friends is ethically polyamorous and he's nothing like this shitbag) as an excuse to not commit to anyone, which is the icing on top. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | FDS already working!Yeah but like I don't think we'd want to be with someone who just moves on to the next Tinder match, to be honest :/ what's the point in keeping people like that around? Also therapy is good for learning boundary setting and undoing gaslighting (by men or society etc). I got into therapy after dumping an abusive NVM, and it helped a lot. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:35 AM |
| 26 | “Bob-the Builder” Never Wins 🚧 🔨 👷♀️My ex did something similar except he usually sexually assaults and emotionally abuses whoever he's involved with (6 women including me so far, 2 of whom he's actually dated). And also cheats on his girlfriend(s). I know what university campus he's at and the department he's working in but I really don't know how to stop him from abusing any other woman -- he's not a citizen of the country he's at now, while I am, so if I pressed charges in future when I move back, there's a chance something cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:40 AM |
| 2 | This really does sum up dating apps. New trend: #deletetheapps2020I installed OkCupid on my phone's second space for this exact reason. Out of the hundreds of guys I've swiped on, I only talk to one on a regular basis (we're friends). Dating (or even just having nice conversations) in a sexist country is tough. Not to mention the fact that all the messages I get are some variant of HI WYD HELLO BEUTIFL. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on IG. 🤦🏻♀️ Shit like this is not funny or quirky. This is desperation at its finest. STOP CHASING LVM / MEN THAT DONT WANT YOU. Stop chasing men. Period.Okay can someone please tell me how to get dark mode on Instagram thank you Also, I hate that pic, it feels so bad whenever I see posts like it ;-; (not to mention those guys that haha react on them) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:10 PM |
| 10 | Block and delete LVM 🗑Good to know I'm not the only one blocking these guys. I used to think something was wrong with me for not liking these sorts of things because they're so common. But then I just realized LVMs are common. So that felt rather redeeming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | And in all its variations.Is that fug a John Green reference, by any chance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Hey, talk about a red flag paradeEwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Where is the lie? 🤔Yeah, especially if these posts don't name anyone it's sort of weird when LVMs think a post is specifically about them XD It's actually sort of fun to watch, I'm not kidding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Higher standardsOh yeah that happened to me. Was in an emotionally and sexually abusive situationship. He couldn't handle it when I called him out on his despicable behaviour (fake apologized expecting me to give him free passes like I was before), but by that time we were in different countries so I just blocked him everywhere after sending my last rage message to him. I told all of our friends and they don't talk to him anymore because, you know, who wants to be friends with an abusive insecure incel sack of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 5 | Been seeing a man who I’m still feeling out if he lives up to being a HVM. Tonight will be our third date and he wants to stop by his parents house for a party! I’m so nervous!High Value Man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:46 AM |
| 7 | Do not stay with a man who talks about his ex or his pastMe too! I'm saving this comment so I don't forget. OP, thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Lurkers, here is the secret amoral and toxic strategyIkr. Whenever I see a '3-6 dates' on the guy's profile I just swipe left. I don't want to put myself in that position. I've found literally just ONE guy out of the ~100 I've swiped on until today that actually respects women and isn't afraid to say he supports the feminist movement. I was in an emotionally (and sexually, but thankfully we never had sex so I still have flashbacks but they aren't really bad) abusive almost-relationship before I broke it off and blocked the ex to prevent him from g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 08:44 AM |
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