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| 31 | Anyone else become disillusioned with their male friends?Yes!!! My ex would sit there and agree with me if I ever went on any kind of feminist rants but then he would treat me like I was his house slave at home. He would say shit on the internet like "Women are people and you should treat them with respect", but then in private he would tell me that I'm ugly and that no man would ever want me except for him. 🙄 When "hobby lobby" said they didn't want to pay for their employees birth control on their medical benefits, my ex acted like he was all mad ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 21 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonA male police officer called me Weak and pathetic and accused me of making up my mental disorders. He said I was just a bored housewife trying to get attention. I contacted the police several times on my soon be ex-husband for domestic abuse and the police officer made fun of me and said that I deserved it. He kept asking me if I was on drugs and the same cop kidnapped me and threw me in a psych ward. He was dispatched to my house three separate times and ridiculed me. I have pictures and videos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 21 | she must be on FDS👍👏 Good for you for being independent! My parents pressured me into marrying an ugly wife beating asshole. I told some of my family that he was mean to me and they kept pressuring me to stay with him, my mom literally told me "Keep your mouth shut don't piss him off, he's the one who pays the bills". I delayed/derailed my wedding for an entire year because I kept telling people I didn't want to get married. I made every excuse possible to try to put off the wedding date. I didn't even want to se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”It's those wasted years that pisses me off the most! Wasted my late 20's- 30's on an asshole I wasn't very attracted to in the first place. I could have went to college and gotten a degree and a career instead of arguing with his ass. It pisses me off that I was arguing with him over stuff like my basic human rights 😑 I'm almost 40 now, he stole my entire 30s from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”Ugh, sorry you went through that! 🤗❤️ Sounds like a sociopath, people like him suck the life and energy right out of you. He sounds tiring. I wish grown "men" knew how unattractive it makes them look when they pout and throw tantrums like a toddler. It's like vagina repellant. I would also like to live on a an isolated Beach some place after putting up with LVMs! 🙌 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 278 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”I did that for most of my failed relationship and gave women the same advice, told them to be open and honest with their man-baby and that they had to put forth more effort to communicate with the men. I was brainwashed into believing that guys are just clueless and we have to basically be their therapist and guidance counselor, yet we are supposed to accept that they weren't capable of supporting us emotionally or psychologically in the same way.... Cuz... "Me big caveman, me no understand woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 02:01 PM |
| 91 | Today I had to ask what is wrong with some of these men?Who's old fucking ass is even doing obscene phone calls in this day and age? What is it, 1985? Did they dial the hotline on a rotary phone? 👴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:53 AM |
| 87 | It's really sad because pickmes are saying that he's such a catch in the comments and congratulating her. 🤦♀️That was probably cute when he was a little boy and made those trash rings for his mom. Not cute anymore, now it's just like "Hey can you throw this piece of trash away for me? I've bent into a circle for you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:22 AM |
| 38 | It's really sad because pickmes are saying that he's such a catch in the comments and congratulating her. 🤦♀️He didn't even get her a "Ring Pop" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:18 AM |
| 60 | It's peak PUA season. Be on alert at all times!I'm ugly as shit and I still get creeps bothering me 😅 I'm sure it's worse for more traditionally attractive and feminine women, but they still treat you like a piece of meat when you're ugly too. I get a lot of unsolicited comments and criticisms from men trying to tell me things I could do to be more attractive to them. That I should wear different clothes and shit that's more appealing to THEM. That's another thing they can't seem to get through their heads, we do not dress for them 😋 I don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 79 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...I'm in Oklahoma, this ban has pissed me off so much that I've sworn off fertile males. I'm separated so I'm not dating now anyway, but I'm not going to be having sex with any guys after I'm divorced while laws like that exist in the United States. The states are united and if one state has anti women laws than it affects all of us. I also own a gun and if anybody tries to rape me now I have the right to use it to defend myself 🤘😛 No one's getting me pregnant. I decided I didn't want to have kids… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 45 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.It is a fact that Caucasian men have more rates of psychopathy and sociopathy. I think you're playing it safe by blocking them out! The more white guys you give a chance to the more chance you have of being stuck with a sociopath or psychopath. I'm currently separated from a sociopath, it can take YEARS to escape them. I am mostly Caucasian and I have promised myself I will never be in a serious relationship with a white dude again. Every instance of physical and sexual abuse I suffered from a p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 12 | What’s your best FDS quote?It's so gross that they've normalized having shit smears in their underpants. Then they want their wives to do the laundry because the manbabies don't want to clean their own doodie underwear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 11 | What’s your best FDS quote?Omg love that too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Is she high maintenance tho?She isn't a selfish or high maintenance, he's cheap and doesn't care about her achievements. But that doesn't mean cards gifts and flowers are always a good thing either. My soon to be ex-husband beat me and raped me several times and he would try to use flowers as an apology gift. He expected me to take pictures of them and post them online and brag about how great my husband was but of course wouldn't let me tell the part about him beating me first and that's why i got the flowers in the first… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:35 AM |
| 36 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usI lied about having a boyfriend when I was working as a cashier at a fast food place, a guy in the Drive-Thru wouldn't leave me alone and he was holding up the cars behind him. I kept telling him that I'm working, I'm not standing here for him to hit on, and that I'm not on the menu. I tried to say several things that didn't work so finally when I said I had a boyfriend he said he didn't care, I paused and then said "He's black, and he hates skinny white guys like you". Dude peeled out of that d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Understand the consequencesI don't blame you, you were just telling her she had options. Giving birth is an option, abortion is an option. Telling her she could choose to abort if she wanted is the same as giving her advice on keeping the baby in my opinion. I am mentally ill myself and it runs in the family, I have wished I wasn't born every now and then since I was 6 years old, still do on "bad days". Again, don't blame you at all for suggesting abortion. Some of us out there with toxic mentally ill family/parents would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 13 | Law Student Gives Birth During Bar Exam, Still Finishes TestThat's so terrible that she went through all that, so glad she is okay. Can't imagine the pain she powered through. Good for her and her baby but I feel bad that they were put through those conditions, it's inhumane. Hope they stay healthy, good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Finally Done Learning The Hard WayGood for you! You deserve someone who wants the best for you, not creeps who do everything they can to make things worse. It's great you have a partner who actually shows they care about you instead of just claiming they do to manipulate. Good luck to you and your relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Remember - if he wanted to he would! #justHVMthingsThank you very much ♥️ It was really depressing watching almost everyone else in the psych ward use the phone and have loved ones calling every day... And all 5 days that phone never rang for me. I had to take a taxi home, a couple hospital employees looked like they wanted to cry when I got in the cab and I didn't know why, took me hours to realize "oh, they felt bad for me, remember that thing called sympathy?" They felt bad that my spouse didn't bother to pick me up and knew I didn't have my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:42 AM |
| 6 | Who told old men young women want them?Maybe paranoid but I think 2 main thoughts about every man who has kids and seeks to have sex with a minor. 1.ALWAYS secretly wants to have sex with their own kids but are just trying to use someone else's child as a supplement for their molesting, cus for some reason they think it's less wrong when the victim isn't their biological child. 2. They are full on secretly molesting their own daughters and got away with it so they start branching out to other underage girls, someone else's daughters.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Who told old men young women want them?Right on the nose! Thanks to creeps like Woody Allen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:14 AM |
| 4 | I’m grateful for the pickme traits I was exposed to throughout my life.That's got to be the closest to feeling like you've been raped without the dude actually physically touching you during. What an evil creep, and here is how American society plays that behaviour off "boys will be boys" and of course society will blame your friend "she should have known better, serves her right, slut!". In a perfect world, her male friends should have gotten angry and banned together to take action against the creep for doing that to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"That's fucking rude! Sorry people treat you like that. I get really nasty/triggered when someone asks me if I'm taking my meds, especially if they say it with that smirk where you can tell they are mocking you but trying to act like they are concerned. Glad your therapist is helping you! You aren't alone, I've been on one medication or another since I was like 5 and both child and adult bullies have said similar snide things like "what's wrong with you, forget your meds? You didn't take your pil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"That's terrible, I'm sorry they treated you like that. Bunch of sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | I love how she remains unbotheredMy soon to be ex husband did this often, even stick his bottom lip out and sniffled like a sulking toddler that drags their feet into the only room people are in and clearly wants everyone to turn their heads and watch them pouting. Everyone look at me so I can guilt trip you! Look how sad I am, aren't you sorry yet?? Grown man in his 30s did this to me for years, I'm angry at myself for letting it slide and trying to ignore it. I'm looking forward to being single again :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:09 PM |
| 24 | Remember - if he wanted to he would! #justHVMthings:( My soon to be ex husband didn't even give me a ride home from the hospital last time I attempted suicide... I was in the hospital 5 days ans he didn't even call me. video games were more important I'm sure. Does this awesome man have a brother?? If so, he can give me a call when I'm single! LoL. Stories like this remind me how real men SHOW they love you. He swam against the ocean to save the 2 women he loves <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:42 AM |
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