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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Divorce destination for men		vvrider	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/22 08:30 PM

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1	my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herself From experience of every divorced fellow here. Do not go into any kind of dating, for at least a year after the divorce. Otherwise, as other mates tell - > there is a massive chance you gonna fill old gap with a new girl. And end up in same situation again, without learning the lesson	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/23 06:51 PM
6	How much time do you play video games each week? Exactly. They isolate us from all pleasure and turn marriage in us entertaining their inner child And when there is nothing to suck off, they leave. Saying, we were not paying attention to them	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/23 10:26 PM
1	my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herself That was stupid to be honest. I don't know what you tried to achieve by that, it already had 0 potential. Police, even with evidence will not really do anything about such a report. It's a cyber crime. So, that how it has to be reported But again, only if there is something changing a "divorce" conditions or allegating you in something Otherwise, there will be nothing done and you will not be able to use it Be prepared, collect information, video record what you have found. But, don't be crazy o…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/23 10:13 PM
1	my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herself It is a repeatable patter. They will do everything possible and impossible. The easiest , is to fake post and all other things on social media to build a "story" If they are bringing something really bad there, you can try to fill a report to your local police about impersonation and faking your public profile. It might get nasty, but if she is making up something really game changing, it might worth of try. They can check her phones, posts, emails to verify the IP from which she did that. Not e…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/23 05:45 PM
3	my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herself Best advice ever And hide your old posts, as they will try to find every wrong 10 years old word in there. And present to court :) They are getting completely crazy, you wouldn't ever believe what they could do. They will lie every time possible, as nobody will re-check it (judges or court couse for sure). Unless, it is about something big	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/23 05:42 PM
1	Ex is driving me to bankruptcy Alimony, splitting the house. It has been already 1.5 years since she left the house and all this started. I've already been paying her pre-divorce support. Would be fucked up to continue paying it further. Lefts nothing for me for normal live Having a good salary, I am hardly paying the bills I have. To be honest, living close to 0 and even bit in debt the last 1.5 years I mean, people with kids and long marriage have a lot lot more problems. So, I am extremely lucky not getting to the kinds st…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/22 08:42 PM
1	Ex is driving me to bankruptcy Emotions switch the focus. Basically, instead of focusing solely on "financial" and efficient path we start describing lawyers alll the issues. So, it makes harder to present the bare & critical minimum As well, those emotions before the court are oftenly depicted somewhere in the emails between lawyers and sometimes the wrong or unlucky "phrase" is being used for attaching you and proving something I am still waiting for my court session as well. Don't know what gonna happen, as after read so m…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/22 02:41 PM
1	Ex is driving me to bankruptcy My ex does the same.She made approximately 14 false accusations in course of half a year, including fake verbal police report that my mother hit her. They apparently do it for many reasons : - drag the court poceedings & be able to "argumentise" - extra delays by your "faulty" actions - it puts her in attach mode and you in defence mode. Defence mode is a lot more expensive & you have always to proove stuff . And they don't have to - to cause a lot of emotions; People are really easy to manipula…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/22 11:18 AM
2	Need help with coping You know, it is quite fair that she atleast told you For me, she was saying that she wants to be with me but lived with another guy for half a year So , I lived in delusion. As well she never acknowledged the cheating But, it must be so tough It gets better mate, after a year there is bit of relief. It will make you much stronger and way..way..way better THis will give you a chance to find "that" girl And not to stick for life with person that doesnt' want you!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/22 04:16 PM
2	About to get divorced... What weird advice. If nonworking woman, with kids, plans to leave you -> she already has a plan B and thought it through Just move on. be ready to fight for assets as they get crazy when things become about money. The Court system is not loyal to fellow man	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/22 06:36 PM
1	How did you finance your legal fees? I am close to nothing due to lawyer costs, and a few months went into a negative balance 1. I try to pay the bills every month 2. When it is not enough, I take from credit card and then pay back as much as I can next month 3. Try to borrow from friends/family 4. Don't be emotional. It costs a dime. Keep it all in emails and try to plan the communication, to know how much it will cost 5. My friend, agreed on fixed costs when the situation was kind of stable and predictable. He said it saved him a…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/22 07:35 PM
3	What end goal do most woman see with false accusations Few things : - make you look bad & not reliable in court - make you defend yourself. In that case, she is already 1 step ahead. Unfortunately, the situation works really bad for guys. You will have to prove that whatever nonsense she is telling is wrong. - it will take your attention, time, and finances to fight with her over those situations - to put you in the corner Talk to the lawyer and cover your *ss as soon as you can Those women in dispair, start doing and telling such things that you ca…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/22 07:27 PM
1	Keeping the house at all costs? Unfortunately, there is no clear way out Prioritize yourself, the faster you gonna be a stable dad without financial burden -> faster they get that great dad back the nostalgia of that house will really make it worst As well, she gonna start blackmailing you with this house and its maintenance later...some weird situation later on She will tell you that you are the owner and you have to pay for any emergency repair and etc Unfortunately, there is no clear way out Prioritize yourself, the faster …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/22 07:23 PM
1	Selling the house. Sell the house asap. Your wife gonna be fine & will survive... The kids also will get over it, way quicker if you start being stable again Right now you are under pressure, kids are not benefiting out of this The faster you start living again, the faster the kids will as well move to a new reality Just do it	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/22 07:37 PM
2	If you were alone in a marriage for years and finally found out she was having multiple affairs, did it make it quicker and much easier to move on with your life? Doesn't really matter. As, what I've observed the one "alone" in relationship and "being cheated on", is typically the person who really values and cares about the relationship It will be hard, as you loose the most at the end But, after it is finished you will get the most out of it and you will grow and become another man. If you learn the mistakes It is easier in sense, that "she made the decision". Cause, all we were waiting for her to do something wrong. So, main point is not to wait and to…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/22 07:33 PM
1	Divorce destination for men Nice! Thats a long read, i don't find how others are not lost in that amount of info	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/22 09:39 PM