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Every girl nowadays is "into girls". As the others say: Suggest threesomes.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:33 PM
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Sure, If you're top 10% rules don't apply to you anyway and all bets are off, because as you said Top 10% dudes can land a one-way arrangement. A two-way open arrangement is bad no matter who you are. Top 10% dudes have no reason to compromise. 100% agreed. Thing is, OP isn't so it's not an option for him - I just laid out why it's a bad idea. EVEN if she would agree to a one-way OLTR he would need to be at the top of his game constantly, which, again, is unsustainable for him. If you need to as…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:35 PM
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Listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:06 PM
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Other dudes get the pussy and you're stuck with the problems. A LTR like this devalues the value of your commitment. In the modern dating game YOU and YOUR COMMITMENT are the prize - she's the gatekeeper of sex, you're the gatekeeper of commitment. In a OLTR you give this away for "free". There's a natural imbalance between males and females when it comes to sex - she can have sex whenever she pleases even when she's at her worst, but you as a dude have to put in effort to get pussy - this alone…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:01 PM
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​ Maybe I should've just left it at the breakup? Yes. Essentially she hit the wall, realized you're high-value and - after realizing her "conditions" failed because you broke up with her - tried to re-negotiate the terms (which obviously worked on you). This is not a good situation to be in. I would end it immediately - she's post-wall, there's more stuff to handle (OLTRs are almost NEVER worth the hassle unless you're in the top 10% of males (hint: you're not, otherwise you wouldn't post here))…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:52 PM
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> I mostly keep silence, My frame is unshakeable You don't have the slightest clue what you are talking about. If your frame would be "unshakeable", you wouldn't be in this situation, let alone in this LTR. End this LTR and walk away. Also stop pretending.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:41 AM
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Needs more detail. There could be tons of reasons, nobody can tell you with this little information. Maybe you smell, maybe you act like a little bitch/needy/submissive, maybe you are small/weak. Maybe it's them and their dog just died, etc. If it's MOST of them though it's very likely you're the problem.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:52 AM
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everyone already pointed out the errors you made. HARD NEXT her dude. don’t try any fucking mindgames like the alpha you aren’t. tell her you’re moving on and throw her out. if that’s not an option YOU move out. next time don’t cohabitate - you won’t be in this mess and you can just walk away.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:39 PM
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Dude stop being jealous and overthinking it. She literally turned him down AND you've confirmed it by snooping. You got your fix, now stop it and don't acknowledge him further. If she wants to suck his dick again she'll do it and there's nothing you can do about it. But if you continue talking about it she definitely will. You can't make her avoid situations like this. Keep your eyes open for red flags, focus on yourself and don't stress about it. Should it come to her being unfaithful, next her…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 04:01 PM
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A few things: If this happened early in your LTR (honeymoon phase), either your SMV is not high enough, you haven't vetted her properly or both. Regardless you can't change other people. If you don't like her flirting/eyefucking others because it makes you angry don't be in a LTR, simple as that. This is why RP does not recommend (exclusive) LTRs: She's your only pussy-supply and she has YOU by the balls - even her only flirting with others affects you emotionally, because you have oneitis and y…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:48 AM
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It's good you're improving yourself, keep it up. idk why any of this makes me a soyboy because of this: will she eventually give up and start reaching out more often? If you'd have abundance mentality and believe that you are the prize, you would not give a single fuck about if she reaches out or not. You have oneitis dude. Work on yourself more (e.g. find a mission and pursue it instead of her) to get out of it.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:15 PM
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She's already used to you being billy beta. she's trying to see if you're just throwing a hissy fit (which you probably are), because she knows how you usually behave and women are generally pretty good at subconciously sniffing out exactly what you're trying to do. All your petty yomi layer 7 mindgames won't to shit unless YOU START IMPROVING YOURSELF. Your thoughts are fully revolving around her, stop that shit. Even if you win your "frame battles" (hint: they won't do shit in the long run), y…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:00 PM
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because a lot of athletes are blue pilled.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:23 PM
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jesus, at least watch californication or something.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:20 PM
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What are you talking about? Who cares what they do, if they're not DTF within whatever timeframe/number of dates you deem acceptable you next the shit out of them. This is not some Sun Tzu shit where you try to guess what the other one is guessing what you could guess. Are you a man or not?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:21 AM
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Don't equate "different types of women" with "low tier women". You sound like you just want to be told what you want to hear. You are spinning your own hamster by telling yourself (and us) that it was much better to not fuck the 50+ women you could allegedly fuck because you're so attractive and successful. Stop hamstering, you're in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:20 PM
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You do you, follow your own moral compass. If you want to be a monk in the Tibetan mountains and never think of pussy ever again nobody will stop you. But this is a community about SEXUAL STRATEGY, so what do you expect? I like to have my dick sucked by attractive women regularly and RP plus experience helps me achieve that without making stupid mistakes in the long run.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:13 PM
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He is not talking about you
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:09 PM
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Read the sidebar. Use the search, there's literally a million threads about this. This is basic RP. Keep them spinning until they break. Depending on your morals either 1) lawful good: tell them upfront that you don't want a relationship (success rate depends on your SMV) or 2) true neutral: keep it ambivalent and avoid framing it as relationships (aka "lets see where this goes") until they give you "the talk" or 3) chaotic evil: pretend to LTR them while you fuck other girls. up to you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:05 PM
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I'm not. Aside from not gaining anything from it, you're pouring gasoline on the fires of hypergamy by inflating their perceived SMV. Just look at all the "we used to make fun of this guy and then she gobbled his cock pls explain" posts. Not acknowledging = zero fucks.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:49 PM
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worst advice ever. don't even acknowledge other guys in front of her.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:22 PM
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and raise your SMV
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:32 PM
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Me and Hannah have been seeing each other a couple of weeks and relatively early on I told her very explicitly that I don't want to share her with other men. While she's seeing me she only see's me. I failed to mention my own "exclusivity" and lack there of. ​ PS: I've read through Rollo's "The Talk". You clearly didn't properly read it or understood it then, because YOU LITERALLY FORCED THE TALK YOURSELF. Here, let me quote it for you: The Talk is literally the defining of a relationship Ultima…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 03:08 PM
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As you've described it you're literally between the anger/depression phase of RP. Those feelings are good, it means you're making progress, pretty much everyone who swallowed the pill and isn't emotionless did go through your phase. What /u/Kobinks said, but don't just break up because AWALT and that she won't hold your hand when you're on the deathbed in 60 years. Keep working on yourself and your mission, have a few more plates/LTRs and the anger/doubt/sadness will go away. If you're really wo…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:46 AM
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Sure, but it would help to know why you're anxious. In your age I watched tons of porn, which for example was the reason for my anxious- and flacciness. Whatever it is, first do 1, 2 and 3. Seriously, otherwise it's just like walking on crutches. If you just start using them I'd advise to get a feeling for them. Definitely use them to experience what they can do, but start slow. How much mg/pill? 25/50/100? 100 is way too much for me for example, I literally get nose-bleed like master roshi. Aft…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:19 AM
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People can change, but they likely won't. And you sure as hell can't make them change, at least not long-term. You're doing it right. Read this: Rolo Tomassi - Boundaries The only person who’s behavior you can control is your own, but that behavior can have a significant impact on the behaviors of others. As stated, overtly communicated boundaries are pretty much ineffective and in turn will give your LTR a free guide on how to effectively lie to you. Instead observe and vet carefully. Show your…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:24 PM
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A few things you can do: Stop fucking thinking about this shit and go with the flow. If you have a flaccid dick, who cares, tomorrow is a another day. You literally just fucked for 5 hours. Quit porn/excessive masturbation to have higher t-levels/be more horny. Eat well, get quality sleep, keep alcohol/drugs to a minimum Viagra/sidenafil/cialis. Many people here will tell you that this is "putting on a performance" but because sex it at least 50% in your head, it can really help ease your mind s…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:15 AM
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Most dudes here lack even the slightest bit of imagination and drive to do things ON THEIR OWN. Before you invite a girl to "join you", make sure you get into the habit of scouting for events/locations/restaurants/experiences/whatever yourself, things YOU like and check some of that shit out. No one here can tell you what you like - how will you be able to lead when you can't even figure shit out for yourself? Once you're not a boring fuck anymore who only leaves his wanking-den once in a full m…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:29 PM
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Go to sleep and don't stress it. Who cares if you didn't get your dick wet tonight - this shouldn't affect you this much emotionally. If it's like you said, you're just warming up. Lesson learned, move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:20 PM
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Depends on the context and what you want from the person you're interacting with. Are you strangers/coworkers/family? Do you want to fuck/be friends/acquaintances?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:07 PM
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By not focusing on girls, let alone one girl. A king does not chase the queen, he chases the fucking crown. You are deep in oneitis territory. Go into monk mode (and ideally cut all ties with her - by the looks of it you won't be able to handle her (read: demote and plate her) anyway right now) and work on YOURSELF. Find 1) a mission and 2) a hobby (lifting does not count, it's just maintenance). Both require conscious effort on your part to be successful in. If you put in the effort you can loo…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:20 PM
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Try lots of different sports or activities, things that sound fun to you. It does not really matter what specifically, just do it. The point is that if you like something (anything, be it rock climbing, playing an instrument, drawing, swimming, painting tabletop figurines, etc.) you'll have a much easier time talking to people and you will make friends in no time while doing it. It will obviously be easier to connect to people with an activity that's social and outgoing (i.e. something outside y…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:06 PM
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You acted correctly. Never mate-guard, it projects jealousy. You didn't deny your emotions but controlled them. As for her wondering, it's exactly what you want - you're unfazed by it because you know your value - you are the prize. ​ She wanted me to comment something in the lines of ''I know she's hot, she's mine'' to show that she was my LTR. Of course she wants that, it inflates her ego. Don't validate her in situations like this.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:16 AM
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You're not her top option, even if this dude is "lower SMV". Also you fucked up, TWICE. NEVER show your jealousy, don't talk about other dudes; by accusing her you indirectly inflated his SMV above yours in her eyes (you also utterly failed her shit test by acknowledging him) which probably even spiked her desire to fuck him and you even followed up a second time - she's probably sucking his balls dry right now. As the others said: Demote her (I'd dump her personally, you won't have the balls to…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:01 PM
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true, good reality check
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:37 PM
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I know all that, I'm trying to optimize my older-plate-game.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:35 PM
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that’s exactly it. thanks for laying it out so clearly.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:12 AM
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in-person connection is good (no drama), sex is at near limits (most time is spent fucking), they are initiating but it’s mostly attempts at „gf/ltr stuff“, like hanging out with them and friends etc, which i’ve all shot down so far, as i want to keep them strictly at plate-status.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 10:05 PM
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no, i’m asking for experience in said observed behavior to optimize bitch management and prolong plate spinning. true question, i’ll keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 09:59 PM
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oof. you hit the nail on the head. thanks for putting it in this way - it is very clear now. I've got a lot to work on for sure, but at least the path is getting visible.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:09 PM
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will do! thanks
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:14 AM
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good points, thanks. I really like the point of communicating "I'm considering an ltr with the right woman". well I guess I just never talk about it upfront because it never really comes up until "the talk". Also "hi how are you, I'm not looking for an ltr" kills some attraction at least. I think the possibility for an ltr is really what keeps a lot of girls going for dick. game and fuck 25 woman, you will gain many levels on it
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:10 AM
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going to the uni/work and lifting stuff does not equate to having skills, it’s the BARE MINIMUM of the RP life - you’ve barely scratched the surface. Do something that challenges you creatively (drawing, music, etc), physically (climbing, team sports) and mentally (reading, coding) - notice the lack of religion. Come back in a few years and ask again about “self-actualization”.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:53 PM
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As others have said stop talking to them like they're special. Talk to them like you would to men. If you don't know how to do that read "How to Win Friends and Influence People".
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:26 PM
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yes, but that’s not the main reason. it’s very hard to build rapport while sitting next to each other staring at a screen for two hours while occasionally saying “yeah lol”.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:21 PM
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You had your chance, you missed it. Move on. (Also don't invite girls you haven't fucked to movie "dates")
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:31 AM
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Remember guys, mental illness wave is coming. what is meant by this "mental illness wave"?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:53 PM
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that’s the spirit - don’t show weakness now! you need to establish dominance in this anonymous internet-forum to show us all that you really are more jacked than the other dude. now kill him!
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:09 PM
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I feel sorry for you. Experimenting and experiencing everything sex has to offer is a big part of it. You’re obsessed with being DA ALPHA dude
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:01 AM
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“do you like sex” cringefest. no dude, she hates getting fucked. what answer were you expecting? you guys really need to learn to shut the fuck up from time to time. you don’t have to say everything little thing you think about out loud.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:55 PM
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I don't know. How could I? The important part is that it should not matter to you. Look, you've been her fuckboy, you both had fun. But now she's subconsciously realizing that she's approaching the wall, FAST. She NEEDS to settle very soon - and whatever it is, she thinks this dude is the best provider for her. Do you want to be her provider while she loses attraction to you and then at some point decides to fuck another dude with a "strong connection" behind your back? Do yourself a favor and c…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:32 PM
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Disregard all the "baggage" for a second and imagine you'd still be living the "happy future" with her you've so vividly described for all of us to enjoy. What do you think would happen going forward? She CHEATED on her bf of 5+ years - why do you even consider her LTR material? What makes you assume she won't cheat on you? Why do you think you're special? NEWS FLASH - even if this would've worked out (it wouldn't) you'd be mister beta bux who'd be cheated upon in a few months/years, guaranteed.…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:57 PM
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Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ctyh7/why_trp_always_tells_you_to_lift_weights/
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:48 PM
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That's fucking bullshit dude. Stop hamstering. If ONLY MEN were on the planet it would still be survival of the fittest, you'd still have health benefits from lifting, it'd still boost your confidence/self-esteem, you'd still receive more respect, it'd still clear your mind after/before a stressful day. If you're only lifting because of women you've clearly not internalized TRP. Go read this shit and come back: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ctyh7/why_trp_always_tells_you_to_lift_…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:47 PM
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Depending on if she's a Plate/FWB/LTR, I'd soft next her for varying amounts of time.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:25 AM
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So pre-rp I was the type of person who opened his heart and told LTRs almost everything, because I believed it „it fosters a deep emotional connection“. It made me feel good, but for the relationship nothing good ever came from it - you’ll naturally lose frame and she will think less of you, even if its subconscious, which ultimately always resulted in shorter relationships AND less quality time spent with this person. So no, I wouldn’t bring up any details, particularly no nasty ones. Especiall…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:33 PM
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Thanks for the write-up OP. I was literally just starting to make a list about "Why I should lift" to remind myself of the benefits. You just saved me some time :)
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 10:49 AM
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Yeah, I cringed reading this. Alpha as fuck. (OP: it's not. this move screams insecurity on your part.)
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:55 PM
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Great write-up, thanks. How do you distinguish a hard vs a soft next?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:11 PM
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Because I don't give a fuck about what others might have asked. To be honest I searched for the wrong words, my bad. I disagree because for some reason you imply that EVERYONE is trying to stay in contact with bebe gurl.. whereas that's not even the point I was making? I'm talking about not giving a single fuck about what she does. If you block her you do - you just make sure you're never exposed to it again. It's like walking down the candy aisle and not acting on impulse versus never walking d…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:23 PM
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No, but I also don't remove every single trace of cigarettes from my life and never look at cigarettes again just because I quit. Cigarettes will exist no matter what I do - I just accept that I don't smoke anymore and be fine with it.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:51 AM
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I get that, but it seems that this is a misguided advice then. Shouldn't the advice be "stop caring about what she does and control your emotions by not reacting to that". I feel like when you're able to not be fazed by anything she does (after a breakup) you truly mastered yourself - but to get to this point you need to be exposed to it.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:39 AM
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Thank you very much for this response! This is so spot-on it hurts and exactly what I'm doing wrong.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:36 PM
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