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Wanted to say this. This group influencing date works only when the group wants to enable your success. If your group wants you to stay a single slave to them - do not introduce your date to the group
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 12:05 AM
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You are projecting your beliefs. Such assumptions without data are misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:39 PM
1

So you mean have been married or long term relationshipat least once by the time they're in 30s - right. It's not that majority of men in 30s are married or in long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:39 PM
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Data?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:08 AM
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Lot of times young ladies feel embarrassed to call themselves single. They could have met a guy one month ago and claim they are a couple. Whereas guys are filled with self pity and just say they're single because hey, everyone was laughing at them anyways 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:32 PM
36

You don't make friends by trying to make friends. True friendships occur without any intention towards it. Efforts are needed to maintain friendships, especially when one is going through hard times. True friendships are not contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:48 PM
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Because the women you're getting rejected by- are not your audience. And you ain't theirs. Once you grow your vibe, the low vibe ppl feel threatened. It's not you, it's them. Deep down they know that even if they say yes, you will not be able to stay with them for more than a few weeks because you like discipline (to whatever extent you are)
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:31 AM
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You are dealing with 'avoidant' Read attachment theory.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:23 AM
1

Not your fault. If you didn't understand - again - not your fault.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:44 AM
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I agree. The advice listed above will only get trashy girls
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:51 PM
1

Ask for help on something legitimate and then make small talk
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:04 AM
35

Why are women on dating apps seeking therapy?
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:05 AM
1

yes. Only problem is that sooner or later the woman will loose respect for you and the entitlement shows up, that's when I think men 'learn' to be more transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:07 PM
1

Therapy and gym
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:42 PM
1

Just say 'Aww' at her and smile amusingly as if you saw a clown and then start talking to other girls slightly indicating that you are making fun of her. Then see the impact !
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:50 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:07 AM
1

Listen carefully - this happens only when you are with someone whom you are trying hard to impress. Ask yourself why? A relation built on 'trying hard to impress' - will never have happy ending.
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:44 PM
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No
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:01 AM
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How women might simply do gestures to ensure you are not feeling hurt. This is not necessarily out of fear of retaliation. Women somehow pick when someone is uncomfortable or feeling distressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:51 PM
1

Wing works if a mixed gender. Sausage party is secretly looked down upon.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:24 PM
1

You don't genuinely like them, you are attracted to them. You like those whom you interact with. You are attracted to those whom you fantasize being ideal.
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:04 AM
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Thanks, that's all I can say. Means a lot..
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:11 PM
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Because subconsciously sometimes ppl avoid risk. An average guy will most likely respond and very soon become serious - which brings out intimacy issues in the one approaching. A model or already taken guy will most likely never get serious, but also most likely will respond positively to short bursts of attention seeking. So it gets the approacher what they desired. I have known women who initiated with average guys, and they are settled with kids now.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:18 PM
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No one is busy for things they really want.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:27 AM
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You are allowed to be a source of free validation and attention whenever she is free from her important things in life.
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:55 AM
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If one person wants to keep the other as backup or simply attention provider - that's cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:41 AM
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Maybe she wanted an escape, called her friend and manipulated you to leave. So that it can be blamed on you and you keep hanging for her. Either case, mental games are not worth it if you are looking for something serious. If you are looking for hookups then probably you should have flirted with both.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:36 PM
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Can someone explain what do you mean you want a friend? Doesn't it mean friendzone??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:18 AM
1

Guys are at receiving end, can't blame them. Most guys have low self esteem. even the fit and handsome guys are often lonely inside and very vulnerable..
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:50 AM
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Best wishes
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:48 AM
2

Damn ! Never thought about this perspective. Very enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:18 PM
4

This post made me emotional. I just wish men and women (and also those who are not categorized as two binaries) respect each other and appreciate each other. Sending good vibes to everyone who is reading this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:51 PM
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You may have avoidant attachment style. It has nothing to do with red or blue pill. Read about avoidant attachment style
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 08:48 PM
3

I was about to make same comment. Problem isn't the girl. Problem is OP getting bored
/r/seduction29/11/21 08:05 AM
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I am guy, here is what I think. Please forgive me for posting in a women's sub, but here I see a really gentle lady self sabotaging - so I have to speak up. Look, in all likelihood that guy already figured out that you are not so rich. Maybe he liked some of your feminine qualities which he is unable to find in his other social circle. Maybe your mom is well intended but she is filling you with doubt. Yes, one risk is that a successful guy really has no time for drama. So one thing you should be…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 06:02 PM
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This is 2021
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:37 AM
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Dude you are among top 1% 😎
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:27 AM
0

When you say lifting , you mean dumbbells or barbell?
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:37 AM
1

Helping others is Ok. What is not OK is to help expecting something in return. Help, charge money if they can afford (and reasonable money depending on situation) and forget about it. If you are helping in the hope of a relationship or whatever, that is simping. Helping someone is not simping.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:40 PM
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Damn, that's deep..
/r/MensRights22/07/21 03:31 PM
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This is a common mental condition. I have noticed this too and not just women,even men. Some people have an inflated view of themselves and they build fantasies in their minds about how others behaved. This is a serious mental health condition. I can only sympathize.
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:28 PM
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Let her talk, but you should lead by steering the conversation. By you being the one who steers, you avoid being a therapist (and hence being ghosted after 2-3 seemingly good interactions).
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:49 PM
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hmm but why would a beta adopt if there is a source of support? I understand the second part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 03:35 AM
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What! I am surprised that's legal !
/r/MensRights15/06/21 02:44 AM
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Sorry for my ignorance, but won't this Chad has to pay child support ? How do Chads get away with it? What's the law?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 02:42 AM
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Damn !! That's a term. That's so true
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:07 AM
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Anyone who dumped them was a LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 06:08 AM
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I think ppl like these have double standards in every aspect of life, not just dating / relationship.
/r/MensRights10/05/21 10:51 PM
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Wrong Turning down uninteresting sex has nothing to do with orientation. Demi sexuality is a thing.
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:34 AM
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Give a thought about ppl who are carrying diseases. You'll feel better automatically.
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:32 AM
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Address real problems of your life. What triggers you to click on play? Boredom ? Focus on social circle Stress ? Figure out what stresses you and address it Watch for what were you thinking right before you clicked play and address it. Share your problems, find support group. You need to counter the triggers.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:01 AM
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These things help justify misadventures and illogical acts. Also most cannot pay for therapy, so these things make up for it. Spirituality is real, but someone claiming to be morally superior by trumpeting new age wisdom all day is probably having lot of things wrong in their lives.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 09:55 PM
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Thumbs up
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:21 AM
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More people need to help others break the cycle. This is one of the best things I have read today
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 03:32 AM
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OP , do you live in a place which is community property?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:26 AM
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Still not too late. They got married only in 2019 end. Dude needs to move fast. At least a post nuptial agreement
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:44 PM
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Dude, not too late. Get divorced or at least get a post nuptial agreement. Still not too late. Depending on where you live, the later you do it, more you'll be screwed. You are able to buy a house, you will get a better partner. Get a post nuptial or do whatever lawyer tells to cut short your losses.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:23 PM
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Pro tip: Don't become a therapist over texts.
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:05 AM
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The married / relationships one try to live their ideal fantasy via the subject. In all, if a girl is seeking suggestions from her friend group - beware that is your future. All your relationships secrets and 'your' secrets will be shared. That's the balancing you gotta do.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:43 AM
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More often than not,the hive mind is jealous of each other. They just c-block. Just ignore. Don't give any validation or attention. Plus point if you can be seen with another girl and that news goes to her.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:44 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:45 AM
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Because in my experience, if I (man) start sharing deep fears or vulnerabilities with the woman I was in relationships with, they run away. Basically, women want fun- not emotional responsibility. Welcome to 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:43 AM
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Harmful advice
/r/seduction11/02/21 04:38 AM
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Imagine them picking nose or pooping real bad. Also, it might be that you are lonely in life. Get some guy friends so that dates don't become your only escape from mundane life.
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:05 AM
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Whatever works for you. You can also start by reading book "Feeling good"
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:57 AM
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Why are you obsessed with TRP guys? Is it because they actually come out as True Alpha 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:31 AM
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Unless they got a bigger purpose in life, it backfires. It applies to both men and women. Having a child in home who depends on you, give you a connection and attention - which is basic human need. Unless you get it from somewhere else- like some serious NGO work or serious teaching or some super successful career where ppl always want your attention (and you can handle it well), then it might be ok.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:24 AM
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In long run it doesn't matter. All of us have been through such phases where we feel our masks are suddenly gone. I would suggest seeking therapy if you can afford. Otherwise be with guy friends who will always be there for you and spend few weeks detoxing and just doing fun.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:13 PM
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Nope, not at all. Trump has small hands, but he got great women and led US. (Set politics aside, see from TRP pov) It's all in mindset .
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:31 PM
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It was a hilarious reply 😂 Also if a person comments on someone's seemingly physical shortcomings - it is a screaming sign that they are low value. Don't bother much.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:15 PM
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Please yourself
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:01 AM
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Short term maybe ok, but she's not worth any long term thought or attachment.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:27 AM
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This. You're her soulmate because you have access to the things she wants. Full stop.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:23 AM
1

What is the TRP recommended way of handling the situation??
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:42 PM
0

Nah, they may still be low value.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:22 PM
1

Very important ! OP - maintain your frame. If you become emotional about your past, that's when you lose - specially with these kinds.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:22 PM
1

Organizing specific parties. Like one with a special recipe you are driving. Or specific costume or games which you organize which makes your parties desirable.
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:16 PM
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Cause, her broken family. Effect, doing anything to replicate it. Sad,harsh reality. High time guys realize that it's not always their fault. Sometimes the other person is just not their type beyond physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:57 AM
6

had
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:50 AM
1

But you gotta clarify your zone asap. Don't keep doing this forever and ask her out or at least get some exclusivity
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:36 AM
1

Same boat. After 3-4 interactions I start to feel. I just cannot do one night stands. but by the time I start feeling it, apparently they lose interest
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:49 AM
6

Huge +1 Women will shut you down if you are too emotional. Don't fall for it.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:08 PM
1

I like people who can apply a data driven approach. Having a coffee may be SIMPing to you, not to me. Here is a woman (hopefully) who applied tech to get to a point (whatever that is) and took effort to write a well crafted post. I'd like to spend time with her. That's me, I don't care what you or someone else thinks about it.
/r/seduction08/12/20 06:29 PM
1

If you're a monogamous straight female, I'd be honored if you'd like to have coffee with me sometime. Virtual OK. Direct message me if you are OK with that. And, needless to say- he didn't deserve you.
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:28 AM
1

Followup question- what is the right step after they go out. How soon or late to tell them your interest? How long to keep them waiting? What is best frequency for asking them out once they start showing real interest?
/r/seduction24/11/20 04:15 PM
1

Yeah, so don't fk around. but I hear you.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:15 AM
3

Sure, then transplant is the thing. It is still baldness. It is not that by healthy living, people can avoid baldness.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:38 AM
7

Agree with everything, except the bald part. How can someone avoid being bald? I thought that's hereditary. If Jeff bezos cannot solve it, how can mortals?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:41 AM
3

I had exact same realization few days ago. Was planning to write it down. Glad someone wrote it already. Extender families did solve a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 07:05 PM
2

Ok. I will ignore your judgement and focus on your advice. Thanks
/r/seduction05/11/20 11:04 AM
1

Thanks but that doesn't help. Question is that I do want to give both of them a chance, while avoiding any hurt feelings.
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:55 AM
-5

Wow ! So insightful. Now, please say something which helps.
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:49 AM
1

Any advice ?
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:46 AM
3

Oh, the legendary 'i am not like the other girls' story 😂
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:59 AM
6

100% agree. Being nice is self-harm in online dating. Be nice only after committment OR if both people are demisexuals. If you are nice and other one is either not already attracted or is not a demi - friendzoned.
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:57 AM
1

Surprise surprise, we are animals
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:52 AM
5

So how do I handle the mental gymnastics the shrewd one is playing?
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:27 AM
1

That's why western society is becoming dysfunctional everyday. Such an insecure childhood is the reason why eastern developing world is overtaking west. The commoner workforce is less motivated than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 04:46 AM
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Monogamy also ensures that offsprings are raised in a secure and protected family. An available father figure and an available mother figure are essential for growth of a responsible citizen. Let's stop fantasizing polygamy, it has not worked for masses - ever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 12:59 AM
4

You can actually do solo travel without relying on others.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 06:30 AM
4

I am trying to avoid acting like a teenage girl
/r/seduction07/10/20 06:32 PM
1

As I said, I would love to go out with a woman who is comfortable that way. Yes, they love to do mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:16 PM
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I'll actually love to date a woman like this. Unfortunately, 99.99% women are so insecure that they won't ever dare to show up like this. Subconsciously they project this insecurity on men and want them to present a fake persona, rejecting natural behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:56 AM
4

Fight club The Secret Guns germs and steel
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:00 AM
1

Wish you good luck. I hope her dad understands you and is supportive of her next move. Best wishes buddy.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:59 AM
1

Rule 1: your coworkers are not your friends. If they are, you are wrong.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 11:20 PM
1

I know sweet fat girls who got a date, and ultimately got married. It's more to do with personality. A fat girl with charming personality will get a date, a slim hot babe with an attitude - will attract only jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:45 AM
1

Not even tall men approach ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:31 PM
1

This is interesting. Do you have any thoughts, on why? Is it because in general you are not in social gatherings (of any sort- bars/sports/hobby group etc)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:29 PM
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