| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 117 | Not disclosing their age? red flag? | DISCUSSION | w0rstbehaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:49 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?I guess that’s something I’m confused on. I don’t necessarily understand how I’m supposed to get to know someone before a date. To me a date is extremely casual. It’s dinner and a conversation, they pay, and I leave. i don’t do texting, Especially not to learn about someone. That makes it ten times easier for them to lie. I’ve read the handbook which states vetting process while “dating.” Not having a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?I firmly believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Ugh. Right? It’s actually not fair. He seriously could have lied and I would have never known unless I checked. Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?I wasn’t loved by my father. You are correct! Hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Another thing that didn’t even cross my mind. Rethinking on it and I can’t believe I let it slide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Interesting. I think I’ve always been drawn to older men, but that might be deeply related to issues I already have which I’m working on in therapy. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 7 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?It’s called people looker. I have to pay for the service but it’s been very helpful! You can look up by name or phone number. Gives you criminal history (i always double check the local court pages though), their address history, relatives, age, education, socials etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:43 PM |
| 8 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?It’s called People Looker. I pay for the service. It’s been very helpful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:39 AM |
| 16 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Thank you for putting it bluntly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 20 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?I understand that it’s not a one date thing to vet, i just meant the process in itself. But you’re right. It is a red flag that I completely ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 39 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Really valid point. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 27 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Thank you all for your input. Sometimes I don’t realize how passive I’m being! Gonna move on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 5 | High value men in movies/tv?He tried to r*pe a young teen in the very first episode what are you talking about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art)I am so ready to be 30, flirty, and thriving. 🥰 I'm 28 and this is the best I've ever felt mentally, and I believe it will keep getting better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Truth hurts and the pickmes don't like to hear it 🙄I have friends that participate in sex work. I often remind them of this factor. I have been turned down from jobs just for having tattoos showing on my PERSONAL FACEBOOK PROFILE. None were showing at these interviews, as I tend to dress incredibly professional. I've learned now to be deeply private. So, I can't imagine what employers would think of an onlyfans account. It's not like you can write that on your resume. How will you explain that job gap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 179 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️I'm crying. Thinking of my ex husband. I told my mother I feared he would leave me if I had cancer (i had a few bad paps). I now know he would. He abandoned me (ghosted, moved to a new state, divorced me over email) after a mental breakdown. I know the red flags now and will ensure that never happens to me again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 04:46 PM |
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