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Her preference is based on her homophobia. Maybe look up what homophobia entails beyond a single sentence dictionary definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:41 PM
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I already did, you are sealioning now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:50 PM
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It's not, not in the way OP framed it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:48 PM
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It's literally the point OP made. They invoke that as the real reason women don't want bi men. I was replying to OP, so that's the context of my comments on this thread. Also attraction is to gender, not to sexuality. You feel attraction to men and discount bi men in particular for a reason. That reason merits questioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:46 PM
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Not wanting to date a bi man because you think he is less masculine for sucking dick is homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:15 PM
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Thinking a man is less masculine because he sucks dick isn't a "preference", it's a value judgement rooted in homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:32 AM
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Many women are homophobic, yes. Those men have dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:30 AM
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Lmao, you young'uns
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:37 AM
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I hadn't heard that word in so long
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:37 PM
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Damn, I was tickin' all them boxes and then failed by half an inch 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:14 AM
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Trans exclusionary himbo males?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:09 AM
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You're attracted to women. You might be attracted to women who look a certain way. But "promiscuous" is a value judgement. Meaning you may well be attracted to her if you don't know whether she's "promiscuous" or not.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/25 12:02 AM
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You don't date men because you're not attracted to them. Your motives are different so these two things are not the same.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/25 02:44 PM
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The thing with insecurities is that if you have them, you're not going to be able to hide them from your SO. It's better to focus on overcoming them instead, but that also means being honest about having them in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 04:23 PM
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The stuff you wrote here shows insecurity to me, which is a bigger turn off than "weakness", whatever that means. Stop listening to dating gurus that tell you to treat women like they're animals that sense your "weakness" or whatever, and start treating them like human beings just like you.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 03:59 PM
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When you get to it just say "You should know I've never done this before / it's the first time I'm doing this.". That's really all there is to it.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 02:08 PM
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Most incels are average looking people that are held back primarily by their shitty personality and lack of social skills, not by looking average. The fact that other men who look just like the incels do are able to form relationships with women should tell you all you need to know. Personal experience is often very limited, knowing 2 women that aren't attracted to you doesn't mean no women exist that are.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 12:49 PM
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Most men are average so there is no way most women are dating above average men.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:06 AM
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You sound like you have nice guy syndrome. No offense.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:50 PM
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I think you have confirmation bias.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 01:28 PM
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Men of all kinds can and do get with women. Straight women are still willing to accept a lot of shit from men. Incels are socially inept in addition to being misogynists. The truth is simply that you can get away with being a dick if you are not socially inept. That's not an excuse to be one though.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 10:37 PM
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I'll never be desired in the way some people are And I'll never be rich in the way some people are, or brilliant in the way some people are, or privileged, or successful, or athletic or a bunch of other things. That's life. Get over it and make the best of what you do have.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 01:43 AM
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Can you give me an example of someone you think has a "high value" partner?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 06:13 PM
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They're not Andrew Tate is a human trafficker who exploits vulnerable women. That's not what being successful with women looks like.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 05:01 PM
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You can have whatever personal preferences you want, but once you state them publicly, you are inviting discussion on why you have them in the first place. And yours implies a value judgement based on the innocuous sexual behavior of women.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:37 PM
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Yeah, she's not interested
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 03:51 AM
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Are you saying you're a psychopath? There's no cure for that but therapy might help a bit.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 11:23 PM
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Women are adult human beings. They're not children or pets. They have desires, plans and aspirations of their own in life, just like you do. They don't need to be led. Thinking that husbands need to lead their wives (whatever that means) is an example of backwards, toxic thinking. What are you, the Taliban government? Also "beta masculinity" isn't a thing.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 12:18 AM
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Um, no
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 08:21 PM
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I'm sorry, "leading his wife" to... where? Like leading you out of Ikea? Leading you through the museum? The things that aren't toxic masculinity aren't really specifically "masculine". They're not gendered, they're just decent human things. "Disciplining children" and "teaching others respect" are very vague phrasings, most of the times men absolutely do these things in a toxic manner.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 06:50 PM
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The patriarchal system arose with the advent of human civilization. There is no single starting point, but you can begin by looking at labor division in prehistory.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 08:10 AM
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This. Wearing a suit and tie everywhere at 18 reads as odd af, most 18 yo don't dress like that. A suit and tie is 100% formal wear, unless you're going to some high brow dinner with a dress code or something it's almost never appropriate. Being overdressed for the occasion is a thing.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 01:07 PM
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Personally, I would reassess my entire worldview if I found it aligns with a hateful, mysoginistic ideology in any capacity.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 06:24 AM
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And you don't share any of his red pill views or just this one thing? I think if you didn't share any of his repill views or found them deeply problematic, more things about him would repulse you than his "body count".
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:56 AM
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Then why do you care what things are like "according to the redpill"? Most people who don't share your exact conservative christian views would tell you the red flags here are rooted in your expectations for each other rather than how many people one has had sex with.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:43 AM
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You're probably not going to find validation for any of your own redpill views on a sub called "exredpill"
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 03:30 AM
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Not being a red piller instantly makes you 100 times more attractive. Views from the 21st century are good here. Good hygiene, basic social skills, not being creepy or awkward all help. Aside from that, there's no recipe. Women like all kinds of dudes.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 03:08 AM
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He may get occasional internet access for good behavior. Alternately, he is just passing his tweets along to his lawyer / PR guy.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 01:55 PM
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Yes there are.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 08:55 PM
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This. Make friends with them. Give them a chance to get to know you and like you first, before you "approach them" for romantic reasons. You also can't possibly know whether someone even is romantically available or on the same page with you until you get to know them at least a little bit.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:43 AM
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What? That has nothing to do with what I said. Depending on where you live, you might see gay couples. But generally, gay people are often hiding to avoid social stigma and they represent a much lower percentage of the population. Straight couples aren't hiding and they form the overwhelming majority of the population. Like i said, all you need to do to see the evidence you seek is look around.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:59 PM
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"beta" male isn't a scientific term. If you mean "average man", all you need to do to see the evidence for that is to get out of your house and sit somewhere for a while, observing the couples that walk on by. Most men and women on this planet are average and most people have sexual experiences and form couples. The people that are unable to do this for whatever reason are outliers, not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:53 PM
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Academic achievement isnt a predictor for the success of one's interpersonal relationships. Why even stress so much that you're a high achiever academically? You sound arrogant / condescending and you dehumanize women. Very likely that this is your answer.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 08:58 AM
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Yes, Redpill dehumanizes women
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 11:49 AM
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It's incredibly difficult to give you a viable answer if you say that you don't like people, only care about women for their bodies and have no desire to change. Also the way you describe yourself as unemotional and unempathetic is very concerning. Are you saying you have this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Callous_and_unemotional_traits? Being with someone like this sounds like a bad deal for anyone. Without a desire to change and improve, I'm not sure what you expect?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 05:36 AM
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But is he wrong? Is the bad guy he points at not the bad guy? Is he doing social damage in a manner even remotely comparable to the red pill?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:17 AM
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Do you have some punctual critique to something Hasan has ever said or done, or are you just anticommunist by default? Everything you said here is vague enough that it could easily be said about capitalism. Which, I'm sure you're aware, relies on the state to guarantee property rights. It's also incorrect with regards to communism, because communism isnt synonymous with "the state controls everything". This is just an extremely superficial take on complex political issues.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:08 AM
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And?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:00 AM
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What is everyone's issue with Hasan exactly? He's just a leftist streamer.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 12:44 AM
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Hatred of women is a you problem, not a women problem. You already operate with preconceived notions about women and have a pre-existing hatred of women, so there is nothing that anyone can prove to you on Reddit to convince you you're wrong. I would suggest starting by looking within yourself, analyzing your motives, getting really introspective, maybe even seeking therapy and trying to identify the source of why you feel the way you do.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:40 PM
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I have a degree in political philosophy and have an interest in the incel social phenomenon / the manosphere / red pill ideology
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 04:57 PM
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Women don't want expensive necessarily, but they would prefer a guy who has their shit together. So being "broke with no future" is indeed unattractive generally, but not for the reasons you seem to think.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:05 PM
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They don't really. They just marginally want the guy to be the same height as them or taller. But beyond that, they don't care about specific feet and inches. No woman on this planet has ever said i liked that guy but didn't date him cause he was 5'8" instead of 6'2".
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:14 AM
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You're not ugly, you're extremely overweight and aren't taking care of yourself. That's the issue here, not "beauty".
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 05:39 PM
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Have you tried doing something to improve your situation? You can work out, find a hobby, work on your career / education, find groups or communities with shared passions to hang out with, go to events where you can encounter other people. Do you live in a city? Your situation doesn't seem that dramatic, tbh. People go through stuff like this all the time and get better with a bit of effort.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 11:20 AM
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That is... Not what i said. And I'm neither upper middle class nor a westerner. You might be surprised to find out that poor, marginalized people don't just hate women or fall prey to easily disproven nihilistic ideologies. Usually the marginalized are better at identifying the real systemic sources of their strife rather than just blaming women and bone structure. In fact, that kind of bs is precisely the penchant of jaded middle class westerners, which is why it originated from, and thrives am…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 12:18 PM
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If you already know it's bad, nihilistic bs, what more do you need to stop believing it? You say you think you're supersmart, that comes off as arrogant. Are you? Let's be honest here, super smart people wouldn't fall into this trap and be unable to crawl out.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 07:55 PM
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We are a gregarious species, we need other people. So I don't think it's beter generally, but it really depends on each person's own psychology.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 04:56 AM
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It's easier than getting rich
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 04:35 AM
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Have you considered not building your entire belief system from Reddit posts
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 02:11 AM
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You started to hate women and how you look because of Reddit?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 01:32 AM
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If someone liked you at all, would you even know it? Are you that good at reading subtle social cues? If you're socially inept how exactly do you expect to tell unless someone spells it out for you? You're already convinced that you're ugly and you say you hate women. With this attitude, why would any woman try to flirt with you?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 11:56 PM
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Your "experience with women" is a headline and a story your dad who works with convicts told you. Come on, dude
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 01:46 AM
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The feelings you listed are things all people feel and that men know all too well, especially after being alone for a long time. Dudes can act exactly as you described in their teens, 20s,40s and all throughout their lives. It has nothing to do with a "wall" and it's not specifically a woman thing. You must learn to view women as human beings just like you, with an inner life and emotions, just like you.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 03:42 AM
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None of the things you mentioned are occuring because of your gender. I can see racism being an issue, but your gender is definitely not one. Just ask yourself if any of those things would have to be different if nothing but your gender changed. Your circumstances, your personality and your social skills would be identical. Building a career would still be difficult. Making friends is hard for women too and women get ghosted by the people they like all the time. Being a woman doesn't magically m…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 07:11 PM
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The things that seem good about TRP are just basic, common sense ideas that you can get from so many other support communities. Beyond those things, the ideas that make TRP distinctly red pill are all nonsense. If you need support, you don't need to look towards the red pill at all because they don't have any unique insight that you wouldn't be able to find elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/22 04:18 AM
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If i was in her shoes and you thought that "my looks are fading" and that I'm "mature" for you because I'm only 5 years older, id never let you meet my son either. I'm sorry, but wtf Sometimes I wonder do men even really like women or are they only interested becuse there's a biological imperative compelling them to seek a mate or something
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 07:18 PM
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Thing is both of these can be "reality". In the sense that depending on how you pose, the angle, the way you flex and stretch or bunch up your skin, suck in your tummy or take the shot when you're either fasting for 10 hours or bloated at the end of the day, you can look like either picture. The human body stretches and bloats and does things that can change dramatically what it looks like in a picture. Meeting women in real life helps one understand that the same person can really look both way…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 01:27 PM
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It is not easy mode at all. There is more to dating and romance than whether you are a virgin or not. Virginity isnt even a real thing, it's a made up concept entirely. Case in point: you could lose your virginity today by paying for sex and yet you choose not to do that. Why? If what is stopping you is that you want a real connection there, then women encounter this exact same problem. To complicate things, women also have to deal with rampant misogyny from so many of the men who claim to desir…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 05:32 PM
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None of these things are true. Your opinions are based on red pill ideology and it's quite clear you have little 'real world' experience with people in general, not just romantic potentials. Women have to navigate a world where they are constantly under physical threat. As a consequence, women are always, at all times, in a heightened state of vigilance. You want to go out in the evening alone to the corner store and buy a bottle of coke? You're at your friends house and it's getting dark outsid…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 11:00 PM
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There is also Google Scholar for the academically inclined. It's a great resource and actually indexes most of the research thats come out in the last 20 years.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 01:51 AM
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You know you could just google this, right? Like literally google hypergamy research and look past the first entry.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 01:27 AM
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You're free to believe whatever you want ofc, so long as you're aware this belief is ideological and not based on an honest assement of reality. You believe men should lead rather than be equal partners, and that this is what women "actually* want, in spite of a lenghty and complex history of women telling and showing us otherwise. What is wrong with this is that you're not listening to women. Hypergamy is a consequence of the persistently misogynistic culture women and men are raised in, for hu…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 01:18 AM
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No, humanity is approaching 10 billion people because only the top 1% of guys have sex
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 07:40 PM
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I think this is something that's proportional to how insecure you are. The more insecure the man, the more likely they are to prefer inexperienced women because they are afraid they won't be able to compare to the woman's past experiences.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 02:52 PM
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It was an outrageous example but i am glad to see i would still be able to find someone interested in sharing that with me lol
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 06:05 PM
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It provides simple explanations to difficult problems, it absolves men of responsibility for personal failures by blaming bad genetic luck and women in general, it plays on age old stereotypes that people mistakenly think is common sense etc
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 11:19 AM
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I've worked with sex workers for years and know several, so i know it from them
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 07:46 PM
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A sex worker does not care for you and doesnt really want to have sex with you, shes just doing it because she needs the money. It will feel very empty and transactional. If you're expecting it to fill the void of being lonely, it will not work.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 07:39 PM
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That doesn't seem to be true based on your first answers. i think you're intentionally narrowing down your interests when questioned about it, so as to exclude women. You're doing this deliberately to entertain a narrative you have created in your head.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 01:12 PM
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Ok, but this is a problem entirely of your own making. You're deliberately sabotaging yourself. The way out is to stop doing it - stop narrowing down your interests to something fewer and fewer people can like. Stop looking for excuses to not engage with women on broader interests. Stop hiding behind hyperspecific hobbies etc
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 04:36 AM
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Then what is the point of gendering these traits so ridiculously? Pink and blue, really? In case there was any confusion, lol And what the hell is divine energy? What is pure energy? These phrases don't mean anything. This has nothing to do with science.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 04:26 AM
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Lol, jesus christ, no. Please stop trying to pigeonhole people into these pseudo psychological woo charts.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 04:19 AM
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Yes, women aren't into hyperspecific hobbies meant to be deliberately exclusive of them. But i mean, who is? No one.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 04:15 AM
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Well if you're going to deliberately narrow down your interests to something uber specific like "rebuilding teams in madden" so as to eliminate as many people as possible and possibly only include like 5 people on the planet, then sure. You're pretty much screwed. I only like making macramé depicting north african ants. Why won't anyone love me
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:48 AM
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Women aren't into stuff based on their gender. They arent a monolithic group with gender defined preoccupations. Plenty of women like sports and anime. Idk why men tend to think these are some arcane hobbies, because they're very common, popular things with massive audiences across genders. Not to say women aren't into these things, You literally said exactly that though
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:42 AM
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It means if you find nothing in common with women, how do you expect to achieve anything with them? Like how do you imagine these potential interactions can possibly go? Without some things in common that draw you together, 2 people don't have the basic ground for interaction. You can't just accost a random person on the street and ask them to be your friend for no reason, with nothing to base that friendship on. They might entertain you for a while at first, but as soon as it becomes clear you …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 02:06 AM
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Perhaps you need to expand your jiving? Do you usually jive with other guys then? If you don't jive with any woman, there's nothing to achieve here really. You must find people you can connect with on a mental and emotional level, there's no other secret recipe to making relationships happen.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 03:58 AM
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Have you... ever considered asking a woman to corroborate any of this stuff? Negging makes you look like a tactless jerk, it doesn't make you attractive.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 03:33 AM
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Women aren't a hive mind, they don't all want the same thing. But all people have some basic requirements to be treated with dignity as human beings. Start there and you will be surprised at how much you can understand about women once you view them as people just like you.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 03:27 AM
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Buying a girl dinner and a sweater isn't going to make her date you if she isn't ready or doesn't want it. Life isn't a videogame where you fulfill the quest and get the reward. People aren't NPCs. If you expect to insert money and receive romance, your entire approach to relationship dynamics is flawed. If you feel like you wasted your time and resources, consider not doing this next time you meet a woman. A gift or nice gesture should be selfless and heartfelt rather than come with the expecta…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 07:29 PM
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No. But it helps everyone understand the psychology of inceldom.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 01:09 AM
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They are not, you just exclusively consume content geared towards men.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 05:28 AM
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Men are just as likely to leave women for someone hotter, younger, etc. A relationship is not a guarantee of forever after and endless loyalty. There is always a level of uncertainty and risk in any relationship, even in marriages that last decades. It's not because people are monsters, it's because people are people. But that's part of the beauty of romance. You simply have to take a leap of faith and learn to live with the idea that people are autonomous, things might change, you or your partn…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 04:35 AM
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