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| – | One’s overall desirability among the gender(s) which they are attracted to (especially among their preferred prospective partners) heavily influences one’s standards in sex, dating, and relationshipsYeah my b I misread your comment. I mean it all comes down to how bad they want to be in a relationship. I think we can all agree that it’s better to have the relationship/partner that you actually desire rather than lower your standards too much and settle for being with anybody. Imo happiness should always be valued over being in a relationship purely for the sake of being in one. But at the same time, there are a concerning number of people who have unrealistic expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 12:58 AM |
| – | One’s overall desirability among the gender(s) which they are attracted to (especially among their preferred prospective partners) heavily influences one’s standards in sex, dating, and relationshipsWhy should people lower their standards if they have enough options/market power to have those standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.“We got pussy to get and selfish women to seize power back from!” And broken homes and single mothers to create apparently. I’m really not sure what your guys’ end goal is, seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:08 AM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.The unfunny memes dont answer any of the questions I just asked you. What’s your solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.So you just want the human population to end as a whole? Like what are we talking about here lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:04 AM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Just answer me one simple question: you’d prefer men to procreate (without being married), create a broken home, and more single mothers to raise sons/daughters without their fathers in their lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Nice, what else?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:43 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Am I supposed to be mad about that? If it’s bioligical TF can I do about it? Why are you reducing a marriage to sex? Also you’re acting like I cant just jack off if I choose to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Damn let’s keep it going I honestly wanna see how many screenshots of random tweets/reddit comments you have in your camera roll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:40 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.What does any of this mean?!?! What’s your point?! Women dont want sex as much as men do? And? So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:39 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I actually found evidence supporting your point so you dont have to! Dont worry about it, I’ll help you out! https://preview.redd.it/017iayu1ynsg1.jpeg?width=1297&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4bb1c43c12b6ecbdda62df717ad37c69edf499d1 Now yes you’re right women’s desire for sex diminishes over time but why dont we discuss the context surround that? Are kids not a stress factor? Taking care of a home? Plus it’s in part of the man’s lack of effort. What do you have to say about any of that? Or is that st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:27 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Omg another screenshot of a random post on social media, you know what? You just might be right! Funny you’re calling me a simp when all I said is that real relationships exist and men dont simply fall into those 3 categories lmfao. Never promoted marraige a single time in this thread. Show me studies supporting everything you just said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:19 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Damn I mean at least get some new stats/graphs bro come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:12 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I literally just had sex with my wife like 4 hours ago right before we went on that date 😭😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:09 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Wow a random tweet! Omg you must be right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:57 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.What does any of that have to do with what you said before? “Height, social status, income, property”. It’s not really some big revelation that a study concludes women are attracted to men who look “tough”. It’s the same as men saying they want “modest” women all day but somehow onlyfans girls and Instagram “models” still have millions of subscribers and followers. For short term relationships, of course physical attraction is going to be a big factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:45 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Where’s your official studies/stats to back up a single thing you’re saying? https://preview.redd.it/y2qykui2pnsg1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=532ed8ade295107ddbc4e3a314a5638664b7c799 https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/idealpartner Someone’s opinion on women and dating doesnt have any credibility to me at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:37 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.You’re showing me someone’s book when I showed you hard facts from a study lol. I can keep spamming screenshots too. https://preview.redd.it/5ib2zk4mmnsg1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3da866554a67f936e4bc6316ec8353f5128c42a | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:22 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Who needs a replacement? Also I asked you to name the things you evaluate a potential partner (or women in general)? According to a 2025 study these are the “most important” factors women look for in a life partner. https://preview.redd.it/4if4q1qwlnsg1.png?width=1716&format=png&auto=webp&s=bb7d2b5327edb2fdf764017146f656e079adbcfb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.That’s fair and I’m not saying you cant take offense to that. Again, finances are only one aspect on which women evaluate a potential partner. Many studies conclude that the first aspect is kindness. I’ll happily provide references for studies that back that up as well. If women wanted only money we wouldnt see any broke men with a girlfriend or wife and we know that’s not the case. I’ll ask you a question: What do you evaluate a potential partner on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 10:08 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I never said they cant support themselves. But if that’s something that was taught to them as a child and is an idea that’s reinforced by society as a whole, not just in Western society but also across the world, naturally that’s how they’re going to look at dating. I said a few comments back that me and my wife split all of the costs in our relationships and that’s one of the reasons I’m with her. You’re assuming all women are SPECIFICALLY going after men purely to find someone who can support … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Cool dude. There’s risk in literally any decision you make in life on a daily basis. If you dont wanna be married i really dont give a fuck. My whole argument was that men dont fall into 3 categories and it’s a jaded way to think that way, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Obviously they dont. Men and women are different, men have historically been the breadwinners/hunters so why wouldnt women seek men who offer stability and comfort? But to assume those things are the SOLE reason why a woman chooses a man is just straight up wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Explain your point then instead of just posting images, you’re a grown man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:39 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Still posting images without any context that have nothing to do with the original post. Go ahead and use your words like a big boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:38 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Ok and what does that have to do with the 3 categories of men that OP posted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:38 PM |
| 0 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.You’re putting words into my mouth. I said people who feel the way that OP posted. I never said “if you dont want a relationship”. OP’s post literally said that all men fall into those 3 categories which just isnt true. You can call me a simp if you want to 😂 I’m literally on a date with my wife right now happy as can be lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:37 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Never promoted marriage or said that you had to get married. It’s literally called “Purple pill debate” you’re not debating at all you’re just posting red-pill memes without any context lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:34 PM |
| -1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I didnt say “dont get pussy” I said men who dont know the touch of a woman. And I didnt advertise marriage one time throughout anything I just said. I said these three “categories” of men is just cope. You dont have to get married if you dont want to but thinking genuine relationships dont exist is a jaded opinion no matter how you slice it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:33 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Lol again why would I take advice from any of you? I’m in a happy marriage with a woman who’s more than I could ever ask for in a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:20 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?I know but I mean in general as a society we dont view sex the same. Like there’s a lot of stigma around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:51 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?This is a very fair answer. I think if someone is in their late 20’s-30’s still sleeping around it’s a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:33 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?Yeah people dont realize the average looking women are the ones who get laid the most. I’ve always wondered why that is. Maybe more attractive people are just more likely to meet people who want to settle down with them, whereas the “average” looking ones get passed over more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:31 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?I have noticed brazilians have a very relaxed attitude towards sex. It’s pretty cool I wish the US could be that way instead of judging what everyone does with their privates lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:29 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?Many women have had casual experiences in the past just like many men have. If you really have never done that and have been celibate, waiting for the right one then it’s fair for you to expect the same of your partner. Personally I find women who arent comfortable/liberated in their sexuality dont have very much sexual chemistry with me and are a little too reserved/prude when we’re in bed together. It just varies person by person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Which of the 3 categories do you fall into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.So if you’re happily married and you’re apparently agreeing with this post which of the 3 categories do you fall into? Also notice I just said “satisfied” and you assumed I meant sex. You can satisfy your partner in many different ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I’m not in for any awakening lol. Again, the only time I felt the way you guys feel is when I was lonely with no women in my life. I keep my wife more than satisfied and she does the same for me as well. That’s really the key | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenThere’s still a 30% gap in orgasms between men and women when it’s involving a man and woman specifically having sex https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614 I’m not sure why you’re acting like it’s not largely a cultural thing. It says you’re red pill so you should know first hand the things that Myron or Andrew Tate say. I have verbatim heard Myron (From Fresh&Fit) say he doesnt care about whether a woman orgasms or not and he’s not going to out in e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenYou’re straight up just talking right now. I can scroll on reddit right now and find endless stories of women who didnt get satisfied by a man even after telling them what they like. I believe around 30% of women have never even had an orgasm in their ENTIRE LIFE. That’s not something we can just put the blame on women for. It honestly ties into misogyny and how women are generally seen as objects to be conquered by many men. Once most men finish their conquest, they mentally check out. Edit: I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenThe thing is you wont know you dont like it unless you try it. You can have 4 bad lays and the 5th one will change your whole life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenExactly. Sex generally just isnt as fulfilling for women as it is for men. Plus women can get sex literally whenever they want, so naturally they would prefer it to be worth they’re time if they’re not even going to enjoy the sex very much in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:02 AM |
| -1 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.31? Not sure what that has to do with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 10:46 PM |
| 10 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I can be in any subreddit I choose to be in. Plus I love debating people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 11 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.You sound so stupid 😂 I’ve literally still had women trying to fuck me while I’ve been married. Discipline is one of the most important things as a man. Marriage doesnt have anything to do with being a beta male it’s literally about raising a family in the most stable situation possible. People will say dumb shit like what you just said and then complain that single mothers are raising messed up children. So which is it? Marriage and a stable family as a “beta male” or no marriage and broken hom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:17 PM |
| 13 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Im “ok enough to help pay [my wifes] bills” even though we split everything and she also maintains our home and cooks for me every day? Not to mention she met me when I was at one of the lowest points in my life financially and mentally. You’re just assuming every single relationship falls into these categories when it’s just not true. I used to date a girl who made more money than me and honestly would spend more on me than I would on her. Again, only people without female touch in their life t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:41 PM |
| 10 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Im literally married and the only time I thought stupid shit like this kind of rhetoric was real was when I was lonely with no women in my life. I’m a completely regular guy, normal money normal height and have never had problems getting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:24 PM |
| 4 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.It’s extremely wrong. I’m not “that guy” at all and have never had problems finding women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:08 PM |
| 29 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.This post is so funny like imagine taking advice on women from someone who has clearly never touched a woman in his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.Being a “good man” has nothing to do with putting all of your wants and needs away. Where did you even get that from? I do agree though that most people are seeking a partner that has things that they themself arent even capable of doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.They’re your regular average looking women. And I hate to say it but OP is right. I always say men act like they hate “hoes” but are constantly chasing after them. Many of us men will constantly say “Oh I don’t want a girl who wears revealing clothing” while following a boatload of IG “models” and “content creators” on Instagram/Tiktok/etc. Idk where I read this but most guys subscribed to girls on OF are already married. Most of us just love promiscuous women at the end of the day. And the one’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenIm not religious at all but I do believe that there is a creator. I kind of just take things as they go and put my faith in myself. And yes it’s crazy to me how they use that same kind of rhetoric to control women and patronize them. Honestly though, most red-pill influencers dont even believe in the stuff they post on social media. I’ve seen a few of them marry women with multiple kids from previous relationships (even though they say women with kids are “damaged goods” or “unloveable), or a go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenNah you’re good I totally understand. I shouldve worded it differently instead of saying “serve” cause that sounds like some red-pill manosphere shit. Are you muslim as well or is that just how you grew up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenIm not talking like be a slave but I mean that they are very generous and willing to please their partner. I probably worded that wrong. The one girl I was with who was pretty “promiscuous” I guess you could say, would treat me like she wanted to eat me up all the time and would cook for me all the time as well. And ofc I would treat her like a queen too. I wasnt trying to be mysoginist lol cause I definitely serve my woman as well. It goes both ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenDrop your sources please. I’m extremely skeptical of anybody unironically saying “pairbond” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenExactly. This is the worst thing that nobody ever talks about. I hate when you start talking to a girl and they’re putting on a front like they’re such a freak but turn out to be pretty prude. It’s the worst lmao. I honestly feel like the biggest freaks dont really flaunt it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenIm ngl I agree with you bro but you have to be very selective it’s a very slippery slope. But as someone who likes women who are very sexually comfortable and eager to please (and doesnt wanna teach women what to do) it can be pretty enjoyable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenIt depends tbh. And it also depends exactly what OP means by “slutty women”. Generally though the girls considered “Hoes” are pretty agreeable and are willing to serve their man. I’m on OP’s side, I honestly dont mind freaks either. Sexual satisfaction is a pretty important thing for me in a relationship. Plus I’m not tryna teach a girl what to do either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.The thing is a lot of people say they’re “looking for something serious” when they really arent. At least, here in the US. It’s pretty common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:25 PM |
| – | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.Depends on what you define as “casual sex” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if you aren't able to climax during sex - who's fault is that?Mollys way worse in my experience. Cant get my soldier at attention when I’m rolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 11:14 AM |
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