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wadearave/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 05:24 PM
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wadearave/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 04:57 AM
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This app helped me understand what meditation is and what it’s purpose. Plus it’s free. Oak - Meditation & Breathing by Courtney Circle https://apps.apple.com/us/app/oak-meditation-breathing/id1210209691
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 07:09 PM
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Everything I needed to hear today. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 04:13 PM
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Get your testosterone checked as well. You’re not doing yourself any favors by spreading yourself so thin. There’s a good chance your hormones are outta wack. That will make a big difference with everything.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 03:30 PM
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Shit tests are testing your mettle and resolve. It surprised me that it was happening all the time. I first started to recognize them any time I said or did anything. My wife would instinctively come back with a question or push against it. My beta self would just roll over and give in assuming that she was right. It was almost more helpful to me to identify my behavior of giving in before I recognized a shit test.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 01:49 PM
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There is a great part near the end where it talks about Siddhartha’s connection the river. As he watches it flow he realizes how similar his is to the world. Recognizing what he can and can’t control. It’s worth the read.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 12:18 PM
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Have you read Siddhartha?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 01:37 AM
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I am in a continual conversation with a coworker of mine about myth and the myths that we depend on in order to survive and carry on in our lives. One of the things that got brought up was the question, “what do you do?” Which implies for work. But it’s so much more than that. We dove into what do we really mean when we ask that? Or what would we really like to get out of it? Working in the arts that quickly turned into practice. Making the question what do you practice? Aside from sports doctor…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 05:16 PM
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What did you take?
/r/askMRP29/05/18 11:04 PM
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You’re looking for validation from her and she knows it. “I know you need more from me.” You’re still pissed. I wonder if that’s from you lack of leading. If you are going to lead the ship then you really need to lead it. And that means everything. You didn’t communicate about the movie. There was no expectation set there. The fact that she got back at you by staying late at a church functions means that she doesn’t trust you or your ability to take care of things. I get that you need to take ca…
/r/askMRP16/05/18 07:35 PM
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If you’re in Utah and have some time at the end of June I’m hosting a men’s retreat where we’ll be covering this topic for three days. I can probably make room for you. You need to get some friends who you can talk to about this and stop talking to your wife. Talk is cheap. Women know this but betas like gab. It makes them feel like they’re doing something. Stop talking and start taking action.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 08:31 PM
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Yes. Good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 11:13 PM
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Yes! I’m hosting a men’s retreat this summer and as I started to outline it my approach has shifted from provide as much information as possible to how can I make the most impact on the lives of the men who attend? What I can tell them that will be practical enough that they’ll get the results they’re after? Much more difficult than anticipated.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 06:45 PM
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I’ve had similar thoughts. I work at art school (in Admissions not faculty) and there is a delicate balance between craft and concept. Craft being the skill the artist executes and concept being the reason for the creating in the first place. The traditional model for this is the apprentice model. Where the apprentice just shuts his trap and copies the master. After several years the apprentice finally develops such a skill that they can start thinking about deeper meaning and developing style. …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 02:57 PM
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If you’re trying to save the marriage you are still holding on to a covert contract. The stay plan is the go plan. If your concerned about the connection read Sex God Method. There’s some good material on there about emotional connection. Continue working on yourself and have some fun with her.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 05:06 PM
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The timing of this post is perfect. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 05:05 PM
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I’m afraid you’re trying to do too much at once. You’ll burn yourself out and not get anywhere. I was in the same spot you were a couple of years ago. I’m barley starting to get to the point where I’m making some actual gains because I was bulking core strength and learning how to lift. Get into the habit and then optimize. Your putting the cart before he horse.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 11:17 PM
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As far as the kids go you need to talk to them sooner rather than later. If they’re not hearing about sex from you they’re hearing about from friends at school and that’s where the issues start. I read a stat once that’s said that most kids start hearing the word sex thrown around in 2nd and 3rd grade. In a casual conversation with my son when he was in kindergarten, I asked him if he’d ever heard the word sex before. He laughed and said no. A half second later he stopped and said, “do you mean …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 10:12 PM
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That’s what I was worried about. I just got reading a whole bunch of stuff from Anabolic Men and then Tim Ferriss’ suggestions in 4-hour body. They lined up. I’m going in that direction. He recommends: Fermented cod liver oil with butter fat (2 capsules) Vitamin D (3,000-5,000) 3 Brazil nuts 10 minutes cold shower This routine when you wake up and before bed. Figured it was worth a shot and that is share if you hadn’t seen it before.
/r/askMRP11/03/18 05:57 PM
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About a year ago I got my testosterone checked for the first time. I started to change things (sleep mostly, vitamin d, fats). My diet was alright and I was lifting. Got it checked a few months later and they number improved but still not to where I want it. I’m sure it a slow rebuild. I was curious about what it is that you’re planning on to increase your numbers?
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:01 PM
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I wanted to do the same thing not that long ago and approached it with no expectation and built up to it. Gotta have a clear OI. It’s all about the action and not the words but words won’t necessarily hurt as long as they’re playful. I wasn’t expecting to cum. I just wanted my cock in her mouth more. Plenty of times I would just pull it out and put in front of her face. I was surprised at the compliance. Assume the sale. The best thing I ever did was at one point she’s said, “okay you’re done.” …
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:38 PM
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Take an improv class. If you’re in any decent sized city you’ll be able to find one. Improv is built on the concept of “Yes, and...” its the same idea as AA. Improv will provide a structured way to recognize what it looks like and the opportunity to practice it. Classes might also be offered at a community college as well. At the very least google “Yes, and...” a different approach might help you understand it.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 11:23 PM
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The best way I’ve found to introduce guys to the concept of red pill and just start a conversation is to tell them my story. Most guys will empathize with not having the sex they want. When I tell them what has worked for me they are impressed. The problem, though, is that most guys also think they’re snowflakes and that nothing will work for them. But it opens the conversation and then they know where come when they get really frustrated, which has happened. Share it for yourself not to save yo…
/r/askMRP30/01/18 11:48 PM
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Men are visual (porn) women are aural (romance novels). Tell a story with your texts. Take her on an adventure. Break her out of her reality and into a fantasy. She wasn’t in the right place to take a picture of herself but she can read and text you back anywhere. The words will stay with her and she’ll think about it the rest of the day.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 08:55 PM
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In the sidebar there is a great section on the difference between how men and women love. No woman will ever love you the way you want them to. Keep that in mind. Even if a you end up fucking someone who is attracted to you the attraction is complicated. Women will never love unconditionally. All that being said you have to do what you have to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 05:15 PM
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Stop focusing on your wife and your family. If you think the whiteboard calendar will help you then start using it for you. She’ll come around if it helps you get your act together. The reason she’s resistant is because this kind of shit hasn’t worked before and she doesn’t want to go through the motions. If you want to stop being a bitch then stop being a bitch for you. MRP saves the man. Start saving yourself. When you change others will follow your lead, especially if it’s positive. Wake up e…
/r/askMRP16/01/18 05:02 AM
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If you’re curious about anything throw the term into google followed by “red pill” and it will pop up. There is a lot of information to consume and it’s easy (this is what I did) to intellectualize and think you’re making progress. Start taking action. I thought myself into a corner and it wasn’t until I started doing things consistently for 3+ weeks that things started to improve and my eyes really opened to the matrix. You’re in the right place.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/17 06:26 PM
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At the beginning of the year I went in for a check up and tests after a nutrition assessment projected a few things. Low testosterone was part of the results. Turns out there’s some history on my dads side; shitty sleep and testicular atrophy. Knew I had to start getting my act together. Increased my vitamin D. Your body can handle absurd amounts of vitamin D after some research I started taking 5000units a day. My vitamin D was low anyway. But testosterone won’t get produced with out it. The ne…
/r/askMRP22/12/17 09:21 PM
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I’ve run into a very similar issue. For me it was my hang up on sex. I was needy for it. Any time I was needy my wife could smell it and attraction went down immediately. I was too attached. I started to go to work trying to recognize when I needed sex versus when I wanted sex and how were they different. One of the tactics I used that has lightened the sex conversation up is joking about sex. I took sex way too seriously and that put a damper on the fun it can and should be. When I started to l…
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:58 PM
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Women shit test. That always have and always will. They’re never going to stop no matter how strong your frame is. It’s their default setting. Single guys aren’t around their girl all the time. Especially when they are unguarded. They can relax because they know a shit test is only going to happen when they are around their girl. We don’t have that luxury. We’ve got to be on all the time. We have to be aware and ready. Because shit will happen. Especially when we relax and are unguarded.
/r/askMRP16/12/17 02:48 PM
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I think there is an opportunity to house culture here. Look at the weekend to build a relationship with your kids and frame the rebuttal for the weekend in a way that allows you to focus on the kids. For example. “I think that’s great you want the weekend to yourself. I’ve had this activity rolling in the back of my head with the kids. But in order to do it I need all of attention on them. Leading up to the weekend can you help me get the house in order so that we can both focus on what we want …
/r/askMRP15/12/17 03:53 PM
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The benefit I’ve had with counseling is working through my own shit. But that meant finding my own counselor. Finding the “right” is 90% of the work. If you’re not doing individual counseling along side marriage counseling I don’t see the point. The best counselor I found did EMDR. I would recommend going in that direction. It’s a transformative process. But you have to be ready to be vulnerable. I have found that men make better counselors.
/r/askMRP15/12/17 02:34 AM
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