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Question For Womenwagnerlight/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:11 AM
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Leftest echo chamber is funny nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:38 AM
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Honestly you sound like a real piece of work not going to lie. You sound like ur stirring both sides of the flame. In one way you’re progressive feminism on the other you are lgbtq bashing. You can’t have both sides of hate and love in progression. Maybe your time in decision has passed and you need to delegate your decisions to the younger generation since it sounds like you’re spewing Fox News rhetoric. I’m more than 100% sure you have never been bothered by a trans person and only spewing cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:44 PM
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Use plan b? And morning after?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:08 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:07 AM
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It seems the only men women enjoy regardless of hotness is the abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:07 AM
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No you forgot to add attractive/tall higher income. What do you do if you’ve done all of that and yet women simply don’t find you that attractive no matter the woman despite doing all of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:25 PM
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I’m a man and poc and I am constantly told my race is not their type or what they are looking for and it makes it so I think my only value lies with the right wing of men
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/26 07:01 AM
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Telling as in hey I think you’re really beautiful can I take you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:52 AM
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How would he indicate aside from flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:48 AM
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Why is that? Are there not hot men roaming around as well? Have we lessened our attraction to men overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:48 AM
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u/tylikcat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:47 AM
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Valid reply hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:15 PM
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It’s person dependent some people are very good at serving their partners. Mine always likes to cook I always like to drive and clean up after her: dishes, clothes, the area
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:00 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:48 AM
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That’s a people thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:48 AM
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Romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:48 AM
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I hope you both find good examples
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:47 AM
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Have it? What’s it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:47 AM
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Why would you get annoyed by it if you don’t mind me asking. I always enjoyed helping my partner by getting stuff for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:46 AM
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Men also like the things women don’t like about themselves and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:44 AM
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Agreed on this one. Men don’t allow the floor for empathy nearly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:44 AM
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I like that women appreciate all kinds of comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:43 AM
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Based on how you talk I don’t want to go back and forth has a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:46 PM
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u/flightlessbirbz I’m someone from the opposite side of the debate pro men and this is pretty solid and accurate which I had not considered unfortunately it still does not negate all the harm women do to men’s side that creates this issue in the first place. I like the saying women are beautiful if only they were good people. If women were actually good people and didn’t play men at every level men would not be doing 95% of the things they do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:37 PM
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It’s more like both sides swiping on each other. Equally she also swiped on a thousand man and took who bit. It’s honestly so one sided though men have to kind of accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:34 PM
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I think we should reward good people I don’t believe this means we should have sex as a reward for doing good behaviour when it’s unasked for. When you are interacting with one person and they are very very good to you it’s nice to engage with them. You don’t have to be we should stop rewarding bad behaviour atleast to set the record straight might I add every time there is a villain or joker like character women fantasize about the bad guy. Thus reinforcing the narrative it never pays to be Pet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:28 PM
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These days it’s not hard though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:04 AM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:04 AM
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That sounds picture perfect I’d love it something like that happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:03 AM
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How did the house party one go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:02 AM
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How does the club interest one work? All the ones I’ve gone too the women did not want to be approached in that fashion not that I was there for that either but some guys were
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:01 AM
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That’s awesome I’m happy af for you two
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:59 AM
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Based on that comment I know what I need to know. Appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:58 AM
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Men do absolutely give better advice. They put you into style workouts and what to say and how to move
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:52 PM
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Are those traits held weighted more due to their loser status would you hold as much distaste for say a popular attractive male ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:12 PM
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Your analogy did not make sense about the phone ringing. Men do not help other men as it’s competitive I believe they want to hold onto every advantage over access to things (just a theory) in terms of what we want: 1) don’t subjugate a man to all men are the same rhetoric. 2) don’t look at us or hint that we are all mind self horn dogs (some men are bad I know). 3) Be honest with what you want this is the biggest one as most women will say oh he’s a sweet nerdy guy and I’d date him if only xyz …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:37 AM
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Why were the results horrible if you don’t mind saying. I have told women I’m inexperienced before and not gone into anything with them but did get some pity I appreciated. I don’t use it as a plow but I generally say it when I don’t know something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:58 AM
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You bring up a valid response and without a doubt I cannot deny it is partially a self fulfilling prophecy and fear of rejection. I don’t want place the blame on women as a whole but more on the importance of men having to be able to attract women to be considered of any value it’s been a doctrine that’s been pushed since the beginning. The issue with this is men have mostly stayed inline with their old ways and of thinking and radicalizing of gender concepts came about from the side of women to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:20 PM
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The problem is women don’t have to deal with approaching so it’s easy to just say it is what it is no big deal. Maybe dress as a male for a day and then say wow that was easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:26 AM
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Why don’t you put money where your mouth is instead of replying and go ask 5 random women that’s because once you know you won’t be able to hold to your views anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:26 AM
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It’s absolutely reasonable but it’s biologically unfair that most guys are unattractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:45 PM
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Right it is better in person but in person cold or even warm approach is hard because once you do they know you tried to ask them out and forever changes how they look at you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:44 PM
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Just do it. Otherwise null
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:02 AM
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Ask a short man how he has lived his life. Then you’ll understand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:35 AM
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Prove it to yourself. Actually be honest for once in life and do ask 5 random women. Then come back and say. Or lie and continue living as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:34 AM
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All your rebuttals are valid. If you truly believe them which I find most women don’t. They only tend to like specific hobbies (they think men who play video games are kids, or men who enjoy wresting are immature or whatever else is unattractive to them) - My proof survey women. Again travelling even one day via car is not a big deal but I can absolutely guarantee when I’ve spoken to women on dates they specified other countries as travelling not day trips. Again asking the majority of men what …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:33 AM
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Oh I misread your comment then. What threshold did he need to meet for you to have considered him though. Btw did you have a race preference (this is very common now days)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:23 AM
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Man about town. Hobbies, interests (only ones that are attractive like woodworking or fire fighting). Travelling (having time to do so), dining out (only fancy restaurants), concerts in this economy? Festivals (some are okay). Therapy waste of money and only if needed. The last three every person does anyways. You also seem to have forgotten the 1st point be in the top 6% of attraction to even have those other things considered. Oh your income is only 76k ? Sorry I like guys who can take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:59 AM
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This comment is the same as a white person saying coloured people are just exemplifying a victim mentality just change the wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:55 AM
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When step one is an unreasonable metric of looks what’s the point in saying what you said. You’re downplaying the level of detail that’s needed. If women swapped into men’s bodies they would understand am I missing something comment you made. You would see you are scratching a lottery ticket each time as to say unless you are incredibly attractive the odds are less likely than getting hit by a car
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:54 AM
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What is LCD? HD colour sense flat screen ? This is also inaccurate because in person she can find a lot more things she’ll tick off depending on answering the absolute right keys like a puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:52 AM
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You were 15 I think your rule set was incredibly different with much less expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:49 AM
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Is this advice for 99% of women ? 15% men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:24 PM
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Why do we need to be able to afford a woman these days to even be in their radar before people went off other metrics bring me back to the 90’s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:02 AM
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So the finance bro lunch I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:58 PM
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People have varied opinions on what’s disrespectful. Like a younger couple might fight over small things like not wearing the same colour to a party so this is a bit dangerous advice. We should encourage healthy talking through things instead of non communication avoidant style
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:57 PM
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I don’t want to entertain dumb questions so have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:33 AM
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So what’re you bringing for his apples (money) your LEGS? HA ! Next
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:32 AM
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Chasing the same paths as men. Dressing seductively at young ages encouraging reckless partying and cheating and sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:31 AM
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Again who said they’re going only to those paces man. Next thing you say is they only go for women with third legs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:27 AM
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What about going to Portugal, Lisbon, Romania, France. Anything is better than the west mate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:24 AM
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That’s not all passport bros. I think what the other commenter is stating is also passport bros. You’re putting your own bias on it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:19 AM
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That’s not fair to younger men who are matured then. Do they have to wait till their 30’s to find a good woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:42 AM
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I don’t understand why women like you are the minority these days. It’s the simplest of thinking. Honestly women might be bringing down the west more than anything, so what if a man expects and value purity. That’s a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:23 AM
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Top tier answer wish more women would understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:07 AM
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What’s your address I’ll send a dictionary so you can look up irony. I’m hundred percent dead serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:05 AM
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I wish every single woman on this sub understood this. The keep replying yes women deserve everything and raise their standards but absolutely get blown up if men raise their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:03 AM
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Dude you are interpreting passport bros into your own terms. You can’t just assign any value to things as you please. Passport bros move to another country as they prefer the mentality of the women over there. That’s valid there is nothing wrong with that. They don’t have to be targeting and creepy as you seem to be insinuating based on biases
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:57 PM
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Not the besides if cuz oh money yeah excuse. Who said they would be played? And in servitude? Why are you comparing women to jewelry that needs to be bought? What are women bringing to the table that’s so valued? I didn’t ask women for anything .. I just want a good partner 50:50 if I bring comedy she brings comedy or vice versa I don’t have criteria list before considering someone based on their income that’s so vapid and materialistic! What he brings the list and what are you bringing ?? Legs?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:54 PM
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I’m an outlier I just want my woman to be a good person and care for me and I’ll do everything for her. But I’m still not meeting any woman interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:47 PM
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Absolutely correct and honestly I think men should address this more! There are tonnes of variables that men do not bring. I’m a red pill leaning man and I agree with you completely. I’m for whichever side makes the most sense. I’m all for men being the caretaker for the kids, being submissive to his wife and her running the show. All I ask for is a loyal woman who brings the same back. Which seems impossible these days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:45 PM
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Men should take care of the child as much as the woman if not more. After all if he is the head of the family he took on that role he needs to step in even more. The issue here is I only meet woman who want men to provide completely like taking them on dates to nice places providing social connects for them entertainment looks social clout. Maybe I’m meeting women in the wrong places but no one is able to say what the right place is. I go out to numerous types of events. Book readings, escape ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:43 PM
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If men only offer d women only offer v it’s fair trade
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:34 PM
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As do men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:33 PM
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men have nothing to offer (at least, the lonely ones, the ones who do offer something are already in relationships). -what exactly are you looking for? Men want a partner they enjoy being around are men not providing that? Modern women simply don't need to do that. So they can drop the manipulation (because that's what it often was) and just communicate directly. -sorry why don’t they need to do that? Requirements have changed? Not for the top layer of men women do all and more. What’s communica…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:33 PM
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This is an insanely off take. How would incels still be incels if it wasn’t like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:17 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:16 PM
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Very true. That’s valid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:42 PM
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Most prefer lean tall guy with very slim face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:31 AM
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So would your preference been lanky super slim strong feature men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:30 AM
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It was around 70 people in total but the 10-16 ish ppl I actually interacted with changed how openly they talked to me or failed to invite me out anymore to hangout
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:39 AM
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You’re an outlier we appreciate you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:54 AM
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Oh btw in case you need to read it again you’re wrong big shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:42 AM
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I never stated it’s logical simply that you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:42 AM
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I don’t sadly I truly wish I did
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:41 AM
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This is absolutely correct with some caveats. I don’t think you actually see those men who want to control women on the daily interactions—I have met one. I think media showcases the most extreme of both sides and if you actually talk to men you would see most don’t want total control over women and respect their autonomy. Even the religious ones fall in under and leader who uses extremes to ignite actions despite not even exacting said extremes in his own family. One said actor who is negative …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:40 AM
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That’s Incases of SA I would argue that’s not most women. And I see most women jumping with random men post lecture about how men are predators the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:24 AM
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I’m for empowering both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:22 AM
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Absolutely true. Men are incredibly stubborn when it comes to helping themselves. Men do have so much agency they need to exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:22 AM
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Women are selfish when they diminish the effort it takes men to approach and maintain a relationship. i.e. comparing the men in their life to that of the characters in their fiction Prince Charming. My man never opened the door, never took me to aruba never proclaimed love outside my window if he wanted to he would bs. Find high value men . The fictional idea they have a men time and time again is one that does not exist. They always seem to be chasing the grass is always greener mindset going f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:20 AM
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This doesn’t disprove that they want love. The reacting to the situation that the dynamic has created
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:10 AM
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Don’t laugh and belittle men when they’re expressing themselves. What’s with this epidemic on this sub as well where they say what do men offer? Or women have it way harder constant belittling of men’s struggles. Men’s groups to help men women laugh and say they misogynistic and men are so ego centric. I have heard from so many woman a put together emotionally perfect man would make a good friend but they aren’t attracted to that. They rather he not have anything and be better looking or have ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:59 AM
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There would have to be space for men to be sensitive according to media and women any man who has hesitant is woman and sassy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:49 AM
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I’ve spent years seeing your exact username. This chicks talking out her ass. Now your turn. It’s literally he said she said. I have heard from so many they like it and so many that don’t. Only siths deal in absolute.. maybe just maybe utilize the organ that is your brain to challenge your preconceptions that world is exactly how you think? Let me guess you’re republican .. arghh if the world isn’t exactly how I see it’s not ideal arghh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:37 AM
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That’s the thing we didn’t expect her to be like that way she was nice in every other metric. You’re making a huge assumption that woman let guys down easily when in my lived experience and many others women tend not todo that. They make it awkward they hate they don’t let it pass. I don’t know what angels you’ve found but that’s definitely absolutely not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:34 AM
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Sure doesn’t change anything I said feel free to feel however you want. Doesn’t do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:25 PM
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My issue is most women in the groups I’m in don’t seem to even want the warm approach as their standard of men seem to be higher than the average guy. Like for example in a sports group I was in there were guys there with good jobs good looks imo. And there were average looking women maybe slightly less than the men imo. While hanging out the women were talking about their preference for higher standard men I mean ridiculously high like I would only ever date a celebrity or close to celebrity st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:24 PM
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Ask another one aside from yourself. How silly of a reply. Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:17 PM
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Yes agreed. She is definitely not forgiven even by the other women in the group. She was very not cool for what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:17 PM
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I have a caveat to this. I found that some women flirt in public like moving closer and smiling a lot fixing their hair every 5 secs trying to join my group etc small things like that. But when I do approach it’s almost like my approach wasn’t the one they envisioned and since it does not match up it’s cold shoulder. There are other times when women have asked me out! And then they go cold shoulder it’s so random
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:16 PM
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I don’t like being over detailed they won’t read it 99.9% of the time. It’s looks based bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:12 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:07 PM
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Why not ask an attractive woman herself that you know. It’s a guarantee they are okay being approached due the privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:04 PM
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That’s a given as well but not all of the approaches will be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:03 PM
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No my friend got close with one girl in the group and after that day when he asked her out slowly and respectfully over months she couldn’t keep a straight face around him or be around him and others in the group had a wounded dog look when they talked to him. He left then eventually she left a few months later but the won’t show up to the same hangouts ever now!!! Mind you he didn’t even really go after her she flirted with him and lead him on. But yet he looks like the sorry actor. All the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:57 PM
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I have asked a girl out to food. Then she avoided me the rest of the events and other people did to. And that’s just one woman who I established connection with. So unless you are a male you don’t understand how detrimental this is. I avoid the whole group now and I did everything right…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:54 PM
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That’s very untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:15 PM
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I agree with the skew. Many of the good guys I talk to say they are looking for their wife and nothing more. They won’t goto bars or drinking partying and a lot have found their partners in mutual hobbies and it’s super cute !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:23 AM
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It’s better?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:35 AM
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I’m not denying that happens but I believe that the general population of men are not horny dogs and do value personality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:26 AM
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No that’s the shallow women which come in all look categories
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:12 PM
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They actually are so much nicer and kinder people to be around honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:10 PM
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Based on what I read here and what I hear from men in real world is that they get the same lack of care from women either way so they might as well put in the effort for a more attractive woman. Actually it’s funny because in my experience the more attractive women tend to have better personalities and less bitter so equally I do more for them as well. It’s a weird thing to be jealous of. Just as good looking men can get by with the bare minimum so can good looking women because it’s a competiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:21 PM
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What’s your point. Are you helping anyone? No? Okay. Go on then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:39 PM
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Facts presented attacks character instead of admitting fault. (Wonder why more men in stem hmmm maybe they don’t go off vibes)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:25 PM
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You might as well go into any office building and claim what they’re doing doesn’t exist. Sounds like you just want to be contrarian. If you don’t have anything to add.. maybe don’t add anything? How does saying your problem doesn’t exist to me so I will talk bad on it help anyone? Same thing with skinny people with eating disorders doesn’t exist right ? Just eat not that hard amiright my dude haha.. mental health no just lock in haha dude bro am I right dude braaa haha am I right haha imagine b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:21 PM
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I wouldn’t say wallow in self pity. It’s similar to saying I feel sympathetic for those broke dirty homeless people. I think men do realize there are women who don’t experience romantic relationships. Also men realize how much easier it would be for them to have something were the gender dynamics switched.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:18 PM
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If you think about it she maybe upset about both. Not having lived or have gotten to have lived as much as her partner. She still could if their relationship were healthy enough but I think she should find her peace for 1-2 years then come back if still wants him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:59 PM
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More like men need women more than they need men. Men want to be around women even if it meant no cracking. We are more simplistic creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:55 PM
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This high quality man thing is made up. It’s starting to sound like ayran race. Yes there are better we must strive for this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:52 PM
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Where do you think the difference comes from. It seems like some regret not starting a family and some are happy with their choices. I think definitely more than men they adjust. I think the issue is being lonely more than anything. I don’t see friends or pets being able to fill that spot and I often read about women in their 60’s who wished they did more dating to have someone to age with. I see so many single older men and women but I wonder why they don’t be there for one another even just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:50 PM
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If you are positive person I can still see men showing attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:45 PM
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Which is how it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:59 PM
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Dude you have such low value placed on human life you might as well work enlist, after all being a martyr is the utmost form of serving and being of use according to your definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:59 PM
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Do you got by 90% for anytime you need to make a point? 90% of lesbians say that is the right toothpaste brand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:36 PM
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Spoiler: all of history of mankind confirms this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:31 PM
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Picky isn’t something that’s ever been or ever will be beneficial to men it goes against the history of mankind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:22 PM
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What randos are you referring too? I’m close to hundred sure from what I read on here these are lived experiences of these guys and that fact that so many can agree means it does happen commonly enough to form an opinion on. I have seen guys doing the nicest approaches and get obliterated mocked teased and humiliated for entertainment. Men don’t deserve autonomy to have emotions though so it’s okay if they get hurt though right? Inb4 man up you’re an adult it’s no big deal. And my counter if it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:22 PM
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I don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:15 PM
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Man since birth here: They want a promiscuous girl but when they start dating them they hate their promiscuous side. If it’s not only for them. They want a strong girl but get turned off if stands up to him too much. They want a funny quirky girl until those become too much. They want a bbw until they see how an unhealthy life affects them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:34 PM
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DUDE YOU LITERALLY REPLIED HOW DO YOU KNOW! Wdym it’s literally in the instructions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:33 PM
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I did not promote that I’m strongly against that. My point is why are as bad as women when we refuse to take accountability (our whole movement) we absolutely need less shitty women but also men suck can we come together to hold each other accountable too? How many dudes do you see harassing women why can’t we stop it??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:30 PM
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“Why are you guys here” is one of the worst statements women say. It’s very contrary to most feminist movements of past. The goal was never to dethrone men off their power it was to equalize power. When women like you have such hate for men do you think you are helping anyone at all? Telling a woman who doesn’t do much that’s she’s useless it rude but when men don’t fit into your ideal standards they are useless? I kinda hope you have disabled child one day so you know what it is to have a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:26 PM
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Have you considered therapy? It sounds like you hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:22 PM
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To be fair op men are a lot of times the problem so they do need to stop harassing women and also stop other men harassing and assaulting women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:52 PM
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Go on… posts that… show …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:41 PM
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I hope that’s the case because even in this thread you can see woman defending and victimizing her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:40 PM
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OP STATED THERE IS LEAVE AT DOOR INSTRUCTION did you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:38 PM
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I knew someone would take that angle but to say flashing women is healthy is simply lying. Of course the onus should be on men you are absolutely correct men are the problem in this regard but you are disregarding the structure that exists biologically between us. You as a woman would hate it if you saw a woman flaunting her bits and bobs it would drive you crazy if if the man were good. It’s actually a bigger problem for women than men so if you want to take the angle enjoy the inner anguish ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:34 PM
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We shouldn’t police either side for enjoying their sexuality. This is issue when we pass judgement this girl or guy is more slutty and out there. It creates a game of judgment we don’t really have a right to play. If a man sleeps with 40 women good on him if woman sleeps with 40 wow that’s horrible according to society but it’s structural set up that women are more selective thus that number should not be as high be irregardless it shouldn’t change how we view her and yet it does biologically sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:38 AM
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No they do not. Any guy who has said that is bs you. If you’re blind which seems to be whenever women choose to be every single point a guy has ever brought up is why do I need to pour more than she will ever pour for me. (Pouring/effort into water glass). Men love women for their body and their intangibles we aren’t starving dogs as much as the other side portrays that narrative. I don’t want a woman who’s the best sack ever I want everything. If I’m going 1000% I want 1000% back none of this y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:53 AM
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That depends on the man not all of them are constantly sex crazed as much as society portrays that. And most of these unfckble guys to put it prudently would be happy with anything. It’s the super hotties that have thresholds becuz they get so much options which is a cycle of damage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:50 AM
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This is the best revenge actually because women who don’t get to partake with rage against those women who do but claim they don’t want it. Just because they are too non brave to be like them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:46 AM
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Hard disagree many men here won’t marry a toxic girl who is good in the sack becuz that would go against everything they constantly preach so I doubt it highly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:41 AM
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Not to all men. And not all women for some couples sex is more important to the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:37 AM
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This should be what they read every time before replying with malice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:44 PM
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Content seller opinion invalid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:41 PM
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Okay tiny flamingo are you happy now.? I hope that comment served you for the time it took you to type it and chuckle. Please go on Mr bi pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:20 PM
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That means nothing to me.. are you saying I’m nerdy? Cool I like being smart :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:16 PM
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I just typed into Google Fawning over a person" describes a behavior where someone exhibits excessive flattery, attention, admiration, or deference towards another person, often in a submissive or servile manner. So I’m not sure where the confusion is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:00 PM
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I have seen this so often it’s insane. Now what? Do we agree to disagree or do we goto I don’t go outside enough ? Do we come to a conclusion some people are shallow? I’m saying there are tonnes of shallow men but there is huge majority of shallow rude women that people are afraid to mention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:53 PM
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Don’t know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:51 PM
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Speaking of ur bio is that of a teen rage baiting that’s why we go through the college process into adulthood it serves me no benefit arguing with someone with the mentality of a child not to insult just statement of fact based on your response and bio .. so ig reevaluate, relocate, reestablish, reformat, reformulate and come back in maybe for you 6 years ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:14 AM
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If your reply is sucks to suck womp womp might as well sign up with my kid cousin into middle school sweet…aww so cute oh wait ur a whole grown woman… . And yes let’s go over my other post and use it to attack character or strength btw you’re totally not wearing this seasons outfit hahah you’re not going to fit in must be tough to be so weak.. haha good thing you’re in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:12 AM
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I love when people use all iq points to reply. May I ask if you’re kind enough to be honest was your work peer reviewed and did happen to graduate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:10 AM
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Does it need to be elaborated on? Oh wow he’s so tall!! How tall are you!! Oh wow I look so cute next to you!! I bet women are throwing themselves at you!! What’re wearing today!! Wow must be hard to find in here!! Come sit next to me!! Etc etc etc etc etc etc WOW a man this is the height difference I want! Hehe I wish I could find a tall guy please god please I can’t accept short guys please I rather die or stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:08 AM
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Female Chad bro equivalent ah my number is .3 off so it’s not going to be balanced dudeee you’re right haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:41 AM
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Op did though. There are more that care that don’t is what many rp people seem to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:24 AM
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I don’t hear it from women but I have witness action that goes towards completely ignoring or being indifferent to even casual conversation with a shorter male and fawning over height. Not all but enough to make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:23 AM
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Echo chambers reinforce views
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:22 AM
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How does judging height or build of man remind women to not let their own worth be determine by outside feedback? Seems similar to what a bully would use. Just swap in the words…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:21 AM
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Is this genuinely how you speak or Is this satirical? Becuz well done if it’s not wow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:18 AM
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This covers it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:16 AM
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Do you feel that if you went out if mind and looked at things from different perspectives you could gain more? ( …321 idc I’ll say what I want response )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:48 AM
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If that’s the case then your point is valid. I have no counter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:51 AM
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That and they overvalue the kids and undervalue the lives of the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:13 PM
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I already replied to this several times as have others
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:58 AM
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Why are men constantly being called shallow? For liking attractive women or not liking heavy women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:57 AM
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Question being why not admit you’re the more shallow sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:46 AM
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Thanks fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:40 AM
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Well then you are a good person. I wish women were
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:32 AM
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Okay when men won’t date women who are heavy they are shallow jerks and douches and jerks and ahh men are so shallow. When women won’t date a man who is shorter she’s a queen who just wants what’s best for her?? Huhhhh??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:31 AM
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Did you read the ending of the article? the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway.” Yes they reach out to average but their averages are much more strict. And they message the ones they find unattractive which is horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:24 AM
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That’s ironic women are selecting many attractive bums
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:15 AM
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So we divulge into a he said she said how productive. If you want to be an adult about this I’m okay with women being as shallow as they want as same with men. I will put down a thousand dollars right now if I take two random people a man a woman and bet the man will give me an honest opinion on his type while a woman will dance around the subject or lie depending on whose watching
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:11 AM
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Okay thanks for digressing to you sound mad. Saying it’s not constructive is your opinion. I see it as fuel to back the truth after all that’s what a back and forth is. No shit women and men have different standards the point is men are honest they will tell you what they like women will lie to your face for years (not very loving is it). I stated repeatedly (if you read) women are entitled to their choices as are men but atleast be honest that you’re shallow! Men will constantly show humility a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:08 AM
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That’s unfortunately something we men need to work on I’ll admit that we create undue pressures of perfect women but truly we do lean on women for emotional intelligence at certain times to see the bigger picture and realize where we were wrong. Honestly women when I was growing up were a lot more accepting of men and their flaws and it was more of a partnership from what I saw these days it’s such a divide of toxicity and I can see my brothers healing and have healed from that but still being p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:00 AM
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Okay, Mr high iq. Please pass on your high intellect so we can progress the species. Big brain over here. I’m glad you are contributing to our planet please pass on your genes it’ll be a shame if it’s left with you truly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:55 AM
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Saying ha yes you proved my point isn’t contributing at all especially when it can be said to any comment. Btw ha yes you proved my point also jinx and dibs and whatever other words you want to type to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 AM
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That’s only because men have to play in world dictated by women they have to play to their advantage. Men fall in love so easily for any number of reasons not looks alone have you seen some men with less conventionally attractive women? They love them all the same. If a women is in love it’s after he meets the criteria of potential. Show me women falling in love with short, non confident guys. I can show you thousands of men who settle for less attractive women. If the barrier is due to pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:52 AM
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I want the men slander to stop and I want women to admit they are more shallow then men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:47 AM
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Yes men are more honest and loving too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:44 AM
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I’ve said this before I appreciate people who make useless contributions. Especially when they are the same people who are worried their unique being cannot be replaced by ai. After you typed your comment did you feel good about yourself. Thank you for making my day genuinely I feel better about myself when people like you exist hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:43 AM
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Love as we have made it out to be, even in your romances is loving things greater than the physical. Men have more accepting standards women are just shallow and picky. How can you turn down a man who was born 1 inch shorter than another yet so much more impressive and then in the same breath call men scum for wanting a lighter partner? Who are the real bad people in this story ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:42 AM
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Whose doing the judging picking a man? It’s not men it’s women who have this sky high expectations on things yet they paint men as horny animals who only see the body when the irony is that’s what women do more than men. Women will suffer through with a guy she does not find attractive just to appear as a good person instead of being honest that women are incredibly bad people. Only men get painted as villains in 2025 is so outdated and should have never been a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:40 AM
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That’s fine if you’ll admit that you’re the pickier sex not all this men are dogs slander and propaganda why yall mess everything up so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:32 AM
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I love when people contribute dumb things it makes me feel better about myself. Thanks for doing your part today. Here take an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:31 AM
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Sure becki
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:30 AM
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This the realest thing I’ve ever heard from a woman why can’t they admit that shiz
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:28 AM
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I can’t take you seriously. You seem to have something wrong with you man. Sorry it’s like that but eventually maybe by chance you will re look at it and see what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:51 AM
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No actually choose better it’s not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:04 AM
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That’s because just like you have a lot of dumb people in general. Men and women. I think the important thing is that as a man I can take accountability and say those men were wrong being told to smile is wholly unnecessary thing that men need to stop. Women aren’t there to be mood lighting to your experience should be treated the same as male employees this doesn’t however change the power balance the world has setup between men provider women support that has been going for ages so you might w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:04 AM
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Ridiculous claim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:58 AM
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But they do choose the wrong and ignore the red flags when there are too men one slightly better looking but abusive and manipulator and one slightly less good looking the slightly less has to do way more to get a seat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:49 AM
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Lots of car accidents are caused by women should we say women shouldn’t operate cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:41 AM
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Ridiculous have a son then talk. If you have one you are a bad mother I he should be taken
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:40 AM
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The fact that so many men agree to this shows you that in doesn’t need to be proven. Maybe have a son and he will be able to explain how ridiculous it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:39 AM
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This is a horrible comment. You are basically disgracing everyman down to animal instinct. I suppose you might as well give up every invention and good you own including your phone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:39 AM
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I’m sorry I find it difficult to argue with people who don’t meet a certain threshold of iq it feels like robbing the blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:34 AM
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Oh come on man be realistic what does this have to do with guys being absolute jerks to everyone. Why is it then women create such kind community spaces and men are hyper violent and act towards aggression as first response ? Why because we encourage it amongst our children community and identity and when more soft spoken or feminine men exist they are bullied to existence for being less than. Yes let me ruin the party and blame everyone else? Maybe the ideal that men are horrible is because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:33 AM
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The point was women tend to have larger better more supportive social relationships. If you read before commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:18 AM
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I don’t think men mind women being single. I think it’s the flashing in their face there are no good guys or guys are all jerks thing and the ironic statements that bother guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:02 PM
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Correct. Men need to do better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:58 PM
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This needs to be pined every time to reply to these kinds of posts. Men can be friendly with each other if they wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:57 PM
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Some options allow for trade up to better options. No options is bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:53 PM
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That’s noble of you but that’s opposite to the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:31 AM
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I still don’t see how it’s the guys fault. Why do we still fall into she’s always right and good in discussions it’s so sexist. The guy is the jerk the one who needs to be corrected to do better etc to this day I’ve never heard that comment for women in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:28 AM
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That’s the so silly of a statement since when have you known a man to not give an opinion I can only imagine the number of men that would have told her not to fall into the situation then it’s always whoopsie no one told me otherwise. That’s why they curl their lips. Just like when women tell their male partners good advice and they don’t listen we have to accept the choices. But why do we have to put agency on the old man. When in majority of cases the women are incredibly capable even more so …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:03 AM
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But we are quick to jump to allegations as if she’s not piloting her own ship but being led because she’s already infantilized and victimized in people’s mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:01 AM
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If that’s the girls choice why can’t we let her be ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:47 AM
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Don’t really see your point with the political quotes but in terms of men going for being. You are just referencing the shallow men. I know many men who are not shallow and love being over looks any day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:14 AM
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Absolutely 100 times over with what you’re saying i think if men’s ideal of partner is subjugation then men should live on a planet alone. Are we going to discount all the good fathers and men who make society what it is? I’m not asking to forgive the men who are faulted but I’m asking for women to hold some accountability too. Why are all men the villain it makes it harder to believe all women with the me too mind you I’ve never met a women who has had sa done to them and I’ve been on this plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:02 PM
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Absolutely I don’t disagree. It’s the weird dynamics of the past saying men have to lead but it appeared to now girl boss and bossing men which is creepier. I agree with your point men shouldn’t have to lead the flow of jack it should be two adults enjoying their time neither being unbearable jumping to narcissistic, blow hard weirdo is kinda extreme he could just be playing out the role society set for him. Have you ever seen a man not act to his role and completely lose his place in the eyes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:58 PM
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That’s not the average. If you hated men as much as you do you wouldn’t be dumb enough to fall for their jargon. Does that not mean women are less than nursery? This proves nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:51 PM
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His ex being a feminist ties in to what his post is about the dynamic and power shift towards hr passive aggressive style of relationships that seem to become the norm so much so that women made just a girl and feminine energy a thing when we didn’t even question before what is male and female. The power loss of men has been greatly detrimental in the west it’s needed more in other parts of the world where it’s incredibly infinitely stacked against women it’s wasted in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:33 PM
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I think men have been lead astray if you were to ask women of the generation past 30’s or even whilst growing up I never heard such distain for men and their choices women loved men and met them for where they are and loved for them to lead . Women were more respected and men as well knew they couldn’t be all kinds of crazy they had a social image they had to upkeep for community which no longer binds or aids us since we are so disjointed from such concepts and thinkings
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:29 PM
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There are thousands that say even when they loved the greatest guys they preferred someone with depth and girth that made them crumble
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:37 AM
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Is bigger more dominant becuz I see woman with larger cabooses and I am very unattracted I prefer smaller and shaped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:51 PM
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How does one compete if they can never go deep enough to hit what others can?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:49 PM
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Why not be a side chick to a guy now as opposed to finding a single ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:25 AM
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How is it untrue. Generally the taken men tend to have a large field of play
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:08 PM
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Award for most real comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:05 PM
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And the men here refuse to acknowledge women can struggle. They refuse to believe people exist outside their own echo chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:04 PM
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This whole inferior men and women thing is something pushed by men. Life isn’t a video game smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:02 PM
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The op is pretty delusional. This comparison was pretty funny lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:00 PM
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Sounds like you don’t want to be shamed for your simping tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:52 PM
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Don’t worry you’re handsome, just be yourself the right woman will see it. Ah type advice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:51 PM
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Some countries don’t have running water meanwhile a phone to comment on.. but whatever ig slay hashtag the universe revolves around you or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:36 AM
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After a point men have to take some hits it feels like. I even now have an ideal woman in my mind with base looks or personality. I was thinking to never settle for any other woman who did not meet that but I was never closed off to the idea of my mind being changed I was open to women of any looks if they had other good features like heart or personality. I could see myself dating a woman I don’t find as attractive as a top model but I guarantee I will treat her as top of the class if that’s my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:01 AM
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Why is there an air of I gave so and so a chance that women propagate. Why is it when women date someone who they feel is less than they can get they treat it as charity. Some men do this with women they deem less attractive as well but the large majority of men don’t say I could have done better and it’s charity or pity. Usually they make it known that the girl is not for them the woman gets the message either badly or well and leaves. Whereas women will stay with a man for years even though sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:59 AM
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There are other forms of aggressive men than violence. Today we don’t need violence but many men still dominate others in the business or work. They dominate other men in these aspects and are selected as more breed able mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:21 PM
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I don’t disagree with you I was simply saying what cake was saying wasn’t correct. They cannot make the broad statement like that, it’s not representative of the whole of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:19 PM
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I was not making the suggestion that women are solely attracted to violence. That would be nonsensical. They prefer the dominant male, and the violence can be a side product of said high dominant attributes in said males competitive nature. So men who can also physically win a fight or a boxer or great athlete or muscle builder can appear to be more attractive do to being more dominant in their field, which attracts more women and gets more men to pursue those traits and violence is byproduct of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:18 PM
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This argument aside (I’m not set on it) Why is it that men will date and mate with basically any woman and tend to stick with the ones who they match best personality wise where women select based on resources and checklists but men get the blame for being more shallow, that makes no sense. Men are painted as body hungry emotionless monsters by women’s media and descriptions and women are the ones supposedly being down to earth humble emotional loving yadda yadda but when we look at how both app…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:13 PM
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Where in my whole statement did I say anything about violence? You can learn a lot about which male is more dominant without using violence. If you go to a regular group of men and put them together a hierarchy forms same with women as well. If you have a class full of guys they usually circulate among the most dominant male, there was no winner or loser or battle and yet the females will direct their attention towards the dominant male even if he is physically not the most attractive male. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:55 PM
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Can you take any random sampling of women put them into a test and see how many prefer the dominant male the data while mostly likely skew in the high 80th percentile. Even survey you own groupings and see which is preferred dominant or less dominant males
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:34 AM
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Women lie to themselves and the rest when they place looks lower but systematically selectively choose breeding with looks at near the top priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:31 AM
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This is false many women are attracted to aggressive men who dominate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:29 AM
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We are living in a female created world that rewards dark triads. Women are known to be attracted to the dominant more successful male. No matter the means in which he acquired his success. Morality is overwritten by their need to have a top specifications and being a lab technician with their access
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:28 AM
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Miles long of shallow interactions and repeat answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:59 AM
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Absolutely, that was always an option. If men want submissive loyal petite virgin pure funny accepting women. Women can want super dom super caretaking 7” men who can provide a certain lifestyle. But also there are men who just want a good person. Have to take with a grain of salt. Not every girl needs a 6’5” finance bro with blue eyes. Guys from what I have experienced in my life have a quintillion less expectations for women than vice versa. Women tend to make artificial barriers to their time…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:57 PM
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Daddy’s girl is the creepiest one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:31 PM
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5 points to white knight 54. More dehumanizing and you get upgraded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:29 PM
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I think if we push traditional values it’s the values to respect your wife and family I.e we need to come down on men even harder for cheating and not doing right by their family. Absolutely there needs to be more talk on men like this but doesn’t change what he said in the same vain we can have both topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:49 AM
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My face is good looking. I’ve been complimented by random people that I’m an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:55 AM
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It depends becuz sometimes woman need that final push to commit to a guy or to see him in a new light
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:54 AM
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You’re right absolutely but I’m only talking about getting the initial meeting with clout since many guys fail to get to that initial step. And if that man is wildly successfully socially he will appear more viable for cohabitation. But yeah anyone can be improved up to a limit but many women just need that little bit extra incentive to commit. And I’d argue many attractive people are unsuccessful since they don’t have those initial building blocks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:31 PM
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I’d say lots of guys just need that little bit of area of improvement then they can do a lot better. For instance I’d say if do those areas of improvement I can do much better but I get what you mean about potential cielings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:28 PM
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Well example: younger Elon musk, unattractive nobody, acquired status and currency (even pre 150k) could hire a team a of personal trainers or health professionals to look max, outfit update, how to talk to woman , how to be impressive in business or sport how to appear as affluent. Better access to medications and health products, better hair Better body, able to learn about the arts and music through connections. Just everything having money grants you access to. Assuming the guy is quite ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:06 PM
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I’d argue you can initially pull the women with the clout and get her to fall for you. This way to not be only using you. Plus the matter of fact that you are more in demand causes more women to be interested as well. Women need that initial spark to be interested, I have had women tell me they were initially attracted to be because I did such as such I seemed more attractive to them. Situational matters to get women to feel attracted to you if that’s not sustainable but you then have to actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:01 PM
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Most guys have some attractive attributes that can be compensated for. I think I’m unattractive but if I had more income annually I’d be able to bring out my attractive qualities more. I’d access to many things can make someone more attractive be is health professionals, classes, medicines
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:49 PM
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What’re you talking about. Women love status, ugly guys with large followings have access to more funds thus can bring in more women, yeah there might not be as a strong attraction to that guy but he definitely has a larger chance than a guy with an average salary. If I was uglier but more wealthy (YouTuber with several cars) I’d be pulling women on my clout alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:47 PM
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Where are you getting this delusion from… wth so many woman are with dudes who make less wth are you talking about. Come put a bet on it. If I make even 50k I’m still pulling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:17 AM
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Serious? No men have no choice but to grind up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:14 AM
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No idea where you are getting these ideas from. Plenty of ugly guys pull. Give me 75k a year I’m a 2/10 and I’ll pull 8’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:12 AM
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It helps immensely. You can literally be 8/10 and be ignored if you don’t have clout and be a 4/10 in a rich area with lots of connections and you would clean the board. Women are mainly attracted to clout and status before anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:42 AM
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I don’t think this is true at all. The guy making 150k can still pull while being a 2/10 he just has to be interesting and not creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:38 AM
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How do guys get the raw attraction? Hit the gym? Is it only for some guys? I feel like lots of woman are into me until I approach and then get the cold shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:36 AM
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You’ll find someone who loves you trust me. You’ll find a good man or woman just have to be ready ti accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:16 AM
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That incel to say men don’t pick. Men can always reject and decide if he wants to be with the woman also men tend to pursue the woman they are interested in. And they pick better…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:36 PM
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No logical inconsistency just woman avoiding accountability as per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:16 PM
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Sounds like women suck at being personality detectors even though that’s what y’all claim to be… men are shallow yet they somehow pick the better partner funny right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:09 PM
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Something I want you to consider is. When guys are replying like this gentlemen it’s a in a calm way with respectful tone while you seemed to be angered and upset. That seems to fall under his witch hunting, if you immediately go on the attack how can mindful discourse ever take place also it seems like you didn’t really understand his points before going on the attack. Statistically HOUSES ARE MORE expensive than ever how is that entitlement it’s speaking to the fact that as a society and econo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:59 AM
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Women are stupid they will never admit their faults ironically. Just look all the comments blaming men and women are wonderful. Women don’t poop or have bad qualities only men do wah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:20 AM
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It’s okay Becuz she has no penis men aren’t allowed to have emotions according them these women it sounds like. There are cases when women dump all their baggage on men and men just soldier on but we won’t talk about that Becuz we are and always were the better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:18 AM
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The men’s one is outrageously too simple and short. We actually don’t forget how much riskier dating is for women’s it’s constantly shoved down our throats that we are the issue and need to be declawed (but women don’t like softer men it’s not masculine). Also you guys say dating is Riskier for the reasons you listed but don’t trust the guy who works in your office for 5 years has extremely verifiable social network and background but smoky eyes cowboy boots in the alley gets three rounds after …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:16 AM
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It’s unmanly in our current view of manhood. But a real man makes his own definition mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:09 AM
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Male here. This is a dumb comment. Mate we both know they feel pressure to look good especially when men who are the ones that decide to be with leave them when they loose their looks. It’s so much less these days and women are absolutely 10000% no doubt more shallow than men now but so many men are dumb and still figure bimbo chase ruining the dating pool for the rest of us. Ofc it’s women do more damage then men now funny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:08 AM
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Everything you wrote is fair and realistic. But I think he might be upset you that seem to put the women in the spotlight in these scenarios which is totally valid in many cases since guys can be like this but something you have to consider in 2024 especially men are more emotionally intelligent most of the men I know are considerate and take care of their partner via helping them, taking care of them cleaning with them. We have to let this simpsons dad drink beer lazy mindset go, men and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:05 AM
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This is really good and I agree with it fully. Although my only hiccup would be as you see men and women clown on guys for having emotions and until women let that kind of thing go men will continue to put on bravado to appear viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:56 AM
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We know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:37 PM
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Did you read his reply. Dehydration in the ocean doesn’t deserve complaint as dehydration in the desert
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:42 AM
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The will only target and pick the ones they want to reply to. As you see above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:39 AM
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People got together in high school and arranged marriages or met at a bar and married in a week and are still together for 40 years it’s about comprises and time wor
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:20 PM
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Unfortunately women are hive mind even if they joke about not being. Instead of judging on a case by case they take it as blame all men for society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:27 PM
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Why are we sticking to classes like it’s a movie? Any person can pull and date any other person as long as they vibe each other. Nerdy guy can date the party girl and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:06 PM
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Doesn’t picking limit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:55 PM
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Yeah all those things I’m fine with doing for any person but it’s the open discussion I’m hear amongst colleagues or peers that we are second class due to being a man and my future son will have to walk in shame for being a man let alone him even being accepted by society another thing he will have to deal with due to radical feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:45 PM
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See that’s the point I’m trying to dismiss. As civilized humans we are very much different than animals, we have laws rules respect justice community and logic. It seems apocalyptic the way some women describe the situation with men when in truth many many women are happy and fine. Not to make light of the situations that were definitely not fine but I don’t personally see any harmful men in my day to day life nor do the women I’ve encountered in my life. They all seem to trust men but I find th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:08 PM
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This is all valid but I am also wondering what it is a man can do to prove he is not dangerous. I am accountable by the ppl in my life so I could never do those kinds of things and continue existing in my current life I would be communicated from the only life I’ve known. I understand op is wrong here for wanting to be rewarded but part of his stance is true how do we declaw if you will we can be a good as possible and still treated as less for being a man these days such as when boys are rough …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:48 PM
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3000%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:12 PM
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I can’t believe it, that statistic sounds like cap. So many dudes I know been rejected more than once. They just held their pride I’m sure. Even with money up social status still missing. Maybe I’m not in the right places or just meeting shallow women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:28 PM
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I mean if they talk to woman and are shut down for being too kind why would they continue todo so? (Not in every case) but I see so many good guys and good women get looked over but it’s on guys (decided by y’all) that guys have to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:45 PM
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I mean lots of the times I see women going to players or clear red flags then complain after when he does the exact thing she thought he would do like somehow she is immune to flames, but then she will blame the fire instead of herself for being an arson lover. Take some accountability when you guys chase for the wrong men? This isnt all women (ik y’all will complain) but you know there are several lots in lots in fact who play with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:43 PM
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No but, your experience is yours. While guys here and the west as a whole is seeing otherwise. We are yet to meet women who are single and good as you say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:34 AM
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You’re absolutely right lilrip but the problem is you’re in the minority, just like your friends every single women I have met has this mindset of the guy must provide financially even if he not dating her. So guy who want to settle or get things moving have to sacrifice this begrudgingly, it’s caused this issue. You can’t blame men for pursuing this at that point men and women won’t even get together. Men make the choice to take on those toxic women but will complain about it because they are r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:36 AM
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It’s simple. It’s because women do stuff like the guy in the video and get supported and when men do even a fraction of what he did they get called out for being an a hole. It may not be you doing but plenty of women I’d go as far as to say the majority of women will absolutely bring this man down
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:31 AM
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That’s not fair if people are unable to hunt or provide different support we aren’t animals there needs to be a producer a lawyer all works make up society we can say the man with the biggest balls gets all the women. It’s not even an argument of risk, he was first he is more deserving of food? We should just return to animal kingdom and de evolve then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:29 AM
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Sure if we agree that is outdated can you in your own personal findings see how emotional women tend to be? Like drop everything you read. If your lived experience on a one to one me looking you dead in the eyes tell me women are not more emotionally sensitive? And they make these type is posts like his video but when a man does it’s wrong some how.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:25 AM
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It’s our biological wiring, men spread their seed while women pick one father
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:23 AM
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The only example you could think of actually supports this point. Take the ugliest man you can find, okay now someone attractive like steph curry the ugly guy is super wealthy he will in fact have a larger collection of women vying for the chance to be his partner, now take an unattractive guy with average money. He won’t even be in the same dimension as the women who have their hearts set on steph or the rich ugly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:33 PM
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The spectrum might be slightly wide due to availability and situation, but when polling the same subset of women or any certain peaks form. Men above 5’10”, good looking face, good body, socially popular, wealthy habits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:29 PM
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There is vip passes for certain attributes. Majority of posts on Reddit and online prefer only white men or black men. Also be at least 5’10” ambitious driven be fit. Not attracted to guys who don’t take care of themselves and weight. Ideally can support. Financials front of the line others maybe in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:27 PM
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Because I truly believe that no man or woman is ugly. We just all like different things. For instance some men may go crazy for Hollywood women or celebrities but I find every day women I run into a million times more attractive. I’m not into that perfect hourglass heavily done up look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:58 PM
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Some of the ugly girls are just plain or not my type/nothing that attracts me. But might not be ugly to others. Aside from that set few I would approach any. When I saw ugly I mean can’t move with me or dress with me or go socialize with me. That’s unattractive to me. Also a lot of ugly girls are really mean and bitter at the world. If one has good personality it’s possible I’ll date her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:31 AM
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I think they have been bullied much to many times and formed an opinion of fear or distaste when all they come across is rude women much like that fear women have of dangerous men. I have had women tell me men should all die or be our slaves or be imprisoned for even being allowed to be in the presence of women. When I hear all the women snicker and nod and cackle in agreement it’s disheartening. Also throughout my life experiences I have met many good women (of the older generation) who don’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:24 AM
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This is true but the disconnect might be that men these days have no idea what most women want, to them compared to in the past it may seem like they want a lot more that they can not offer. Women are people and a have right to choose, but I do feel bad for the older single women who say there are no good men and the men who pass alone there is some kinda disconnect that doesn’t seem to be working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:05 AM
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No this is men’s fault for creating that pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 AM
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No one said sex it’s the issue of even the highest echelon of men saying how fickle and difficult it is to pull women it’s completely to their power
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:02 AM
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Incorrect sir. The odds of pulling the quiet girl is 10k to 1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:00 AM
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Okay sit and watch me paint operation spot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:58 AM
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Absolutely but the data clearly favours certain attributes. Like we can even tell which woman is likely to be perceived as more attractive. But the issue is given the power of selection women have the power dynamics of choice whereas men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:01 PM
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That makes sense but another thing you have to consider is, women can choose and pull both the toxic party guy and the nerdy virtuous guy but men can not. That is why men make that claim. The toxic red flag guy no matter how toxic or charming her is there is less chance of him pulling the nerdy virtuous girl. Therein lies the issue. All the choosing power lies with the women, a extremely wealthy choice pool and power to accept and deny the fish at their will, if women deny 50-100 no one will bat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:52 PM
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That’s the entire argument men believe considering the wealth of choice women still end up choosing the attractive a hole. Despite the ready of so many better options. You might say they were unaware but from what I see it is in fact active compliance, there have been plenty of cases where people have told them hey don’t choose such and such they have this issue but still the readily commit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:46 AM
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That’s the same vein or be yourself type advice, yet there are men in their 50’s who are themselves and yet to no avail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:42 AM
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When asking every women I’ve met and seeing street interviews every time they usually want a cute tall white guy or a tall black guy, black men are highly desirable right now maybe for a long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:38 AM
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Agreed. The ones with more tend to have an ego based on experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:33 AM
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Read the other comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:16 AM
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Even the unattractive toxic women know how to have a good time better than non toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:16 AM
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Women always have options where men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:15 AM
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Not even attractive being the issue. But availability. Assuming the quiet introvert girl is an 8 which in many cases they are very attractive and the toxic girl is 5 something you have to consider in the introvert virgin girl probably shuts down a lot of stuff, why spend 5k on trips for her to turn it down? Why spend rent money on her just for her to not be fun? Meanwhile the toxic unattractive girl you provide very little and get so much energy and passion and fun in return now add looks to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:14 AM
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I don’t understand what you are saying her about active choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:09 AM
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Enabling comes from dependency on someone it’s hard from both sides to let someone you love go or to fix them or leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:04 AM
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The thing you have to remember about toxic women (atleast all the ones I’ve met) are very outgoing and fun so they end up with more men overall. We can’t blame men for liking toxic women when they are the only one in their sphere. Non toxic women are never to be found or if they are they are taken. Just like women say no good men, men can say even more no good women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:01 AM
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When we see it in reality and math at which viewpoint denies it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:30 AM
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That’s kind of mean mockery, and hyperbole. You are assuming what they want when he very clearly stated it’s the ones that have done it all and now are rebounded. Even women wouldn’t want a guy who is twice ran over feels like an act of mercy when the only time interest is shown is at the end of bad ride
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:23 AM
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Some do some don’t. The feeling of being left behind by society can ruin their confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:21 AM
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I don’t think he is bashing the act of giving a chance but bares resentment towards the fact that it’s looked as given a chance, like after women have done their dues it’s time to settle. Feels like 3rd prize or rebound to incels perhaps. Which they are absolutely right about in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:20 AM
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It’s more so referring to odds… men tend preference less aged women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:31 AM
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I answered in dms with honesty read and don’t reply but I gave you the unfiltered truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:16 AM
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When I was a kid playing with other kids I had moms come up to me and tell me to stay away from this boy he wants todo dirty things to you, and I just stood their jaw open not even know what the body looks like to having any interest in women or anyone at that age, several scenarios like that, walking at night time and women moving away or walking fast, avoiding contact all together, having held a door open or picking up a purse for a girl (again whilst I was a teen) for to say ew I have a boyfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:10 AM
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So how should men act I’m always feeling like women treat me as a potential criminal even when my motivations are completely harmless or even say I am. I stopped even bothering to show up after being treated as such so often. We need to teach women to not be so off put and afraid of men it’s kind of messed up when I’m doing something innocent as people assume the worst since I’m a larger make
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:55 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:53 PM
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Not that but always try and better your situation bring her up if she’s loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:06 PM
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I already agree with your post but I still have to believe I have a higher chance with less attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:07 PM
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It’s the hypocrisy for me. It’s the same women who say ohh but you’re so handsome you can do well and find so many good women. Women don’t want these shallow things they want a good guy who treats them right. They won’t admit the world is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:06 PM
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Pretty much how older guys tell younger guys this exact thing. Men don’t show they care but a women can destroy their lives in many ways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:06 AM
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So different than my situation then good. A lot of girls give me the flirty eyes but they haven’t initiated conversations so I know it’s not that. A lot of them have done things like follow after me or sit near me in empty rooms and give me special treatment but none of them have any energy when talking so I just avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:16 PM
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Absolutely. Also not privileged exactly but women get treated as human beings a lot of the time. Like if a woman were to ask for help with carrying something or dealing with something people would be kind enough to help as a fellow human but for a man a lot of times they expect “real” men to handle it. I was lucky enough to be taken of by my parents and generally acknowledged in my life while a kid but once I turned into an adult it’a weird now a lot of things are expected of you to be a support…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:14 PM
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What if he initiated conversation and you didn’t give him energy bsck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:38 PM
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Bold too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:35 PM
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People who don’t own fast cars complain about others fast cars jealously is a weird thing. But foreign women are women just the same just American brain washing can be really messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:33 PM
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The fact that you could handle yourself but aren’t constantly trying to dominate men outside work shows your just doing it becuz that’s your field and that’s admirable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:29 PM
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If you don’t mind what’re some of those hard truths you learned I’m curious to hear your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:27 PM
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Good question. It would be the opposite spectrum. Women who are too bold or manly come off a butch or trying for attention or a bitch. For girls there seems to a be (in my experience) a lot more cut offs for what they are willing to take like they seem to have a higher baseline. Ideally they want a guy who can provide for themselves and her easily, can lead and be dominant and is very socially active and fit. They want someone who is like a hero or cool older guy to be with whereas men want a wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:25 PM
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There is levels of that. Some women or men are just less likely to dominate conversations and would give others a chance to speak first or dominate. I don’t mean no confidence perhaps a tiny bit less but still everyday going out there and doing their thing. I speak my mind for the most part but assertive people can be jerks disrespectful of the situation at hand and pushing their own agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:19 PM
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Pity is a tough one since they already pity themselves for being timid or shy. Asking out every girl in sight is not confident it’s a bit slutty and forward. Timid towards a girl can show he cares enough not to mess it up, he could still go up talk to her ask her out and slowly work towards being confident but these days a LOT of women want the guy to come right from the beginning with tones of confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:15 PM
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All sub women aren’t inferior some just roleplay it as they like but can still control a lot of things but the majority of more submissive woman are definitely inferior in power dynamics on the household but that’s how majority of women prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:43 PM
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Safety issue’s definitely affect the willingness for women to try and that will never change as men are messed up with trying to force things into women. Slut shaming is good and bad because a lot of women find it hot to be that bad girl for their fetish and it discourages a lot of from going with guys but it’s a necessary because women should feel a little shame with how exposed they are there is a natural order to things and women are homemakers and empathetic people they should not be going a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:57 PM
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Good looking is relative, successful is relative there are more successful guys, dominate is not exclusive to them, competent also not true chads can be quite dumb. You should say women are attracted to what other women are attracted too and are a bit lizard brain. They like guys who sleep around that’s just what they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:51 PM
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I would treat my partner just like she was a guy I don’t see a point in treating her differently because of her biology that seems like an excuse. If she is weaker in strength then I don’t mind lifting the heavier things and doing the harder things but I’m not chopping that up to gender I would do that for a weaker male as well. If she is interested in me she doesn’t have to act like a girl she can act however she actually is if I like her I like her won’t change. If she wants to be a football p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:54 PM
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I agree with this 1000% also the girl would not expect lots of manly things from him like being able to fix a furnace and build a house and drink lots of beers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:49 PM
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You’re comment made me laugh loudly thank you!
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