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You get awfully triggered when I ask simple questions. Why is that?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:10 PM
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He’s 29 and also posted he hasn’t had sex with any of them Why on earth would you want to be like this sleazebag
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 10:41 PM
0

Why wouldn’t you want your significant other to be happy?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:01 PM
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It is when your worldview becomes “I’ll never feel happy for anyone at all”
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 10:24 PM
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That doesn’t even make sense lmao
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 10:24 PM
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Make me!
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 10:22 PM
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If they deserve it sure. I don’t have empathy for people who censor the word “woman” for some reason, for instance
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:23 PM
-13

Empathy is a wonderful tool to have.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:15 PM
-22

The blackpill: being miserable, jealous and angry at everybody else. What a way to live!
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 08:58 PM
6

Go outside
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:37 PM
5

You may be gay my friend
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah it's almost like people have different tastes and cannot be constrained to a specific group. Weird.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:59 PM
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I see no reason why it shouldn't. You first, homie.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:01 PM
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Perhaps his sons didn’t need the extra attention?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 04:12 PM
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How did he treat them like crap?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 04:07 PM
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Loving other people is selfish now?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:56 PM
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Your uncle sounds like a man who tried his hardest to make others happy while dealing with his own pain and your response is you don’t give a shit about his suicide? This is why everyone hates you people
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:48 PM
0

Please seek professional help
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:40 PM
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Dude you think all divorce is caused by a lack of attraction? The most common cause is a lack of communication and support. Big reasons also include infidelity, financial trouble, and domestic abuse. Once again, the blackpill is inventing a problem and blaming all women for it. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/common-causes-divorce/
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 06:25 PM
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Why
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 06:18 PM
-2

This is the purest form of cope for lonely people. “Well IM not happy therefore no one is happy.”
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:54 PM
-1

Yeah one sub on Reddit definitely applies to all of humankind
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:54 PM
-1

Teenage “love” sucks tbh. Both of my high school relationships were drama-filled messes because both of us were immature teenage idiots
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:43 PM
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Classic blackpill moving the goalposts. “Women aren’t attracted to 99% of men” “Oh well those men in relationships aren’t actually happy!!”
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:24 PM
1

You say you're done, yet you keep coming back for more? Odd. Hope your "wife" knows there are many resources available for people experiencing domestic abuse.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 08:07 PM
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You still can't understand the plain meaning of words. You're "not arguing anything" is deflection and bullshit. Spamming the same thing over and over and pretending it's reality is not an argument. You're a liar and you apparently hate yourself as well as other men. You really should get that checked out. Right, defending women and arguing that your beliefs are a fallacy totally means I hate myself. Sure. You didn't ask anything worth answering. Your questions are nonsequiturs and have nothing …
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 07:27 PM
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I didn't say "supersede". I said "as important as". Once again, not surprising you can't understand the plain meaning of words. And you lie about what I said. You're not even arguing anything at this point. You can't handle any other point being made without deflecting and gaslighting. You failed to address most of the questions I asked you directly, just like you did the other day. Calling me a "misandrist" is gigacope, further proving that you lack the mental capability to have a reasonable ar…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 06:07 PM
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It is subordinate if your needs aren't as important as theirs are. I'm not going to do that. If you want to be some woman's bitchboy, that's on you. What "needs" supersede communication and the like, which benefit both parties? Divorce is one main reason for society's collapse. You need to face that truth too, sporto. You were true to form - of course, anything a man wants is "misogyny". Disagreeing with you or women is "misogyny". You never disappoint, I'll give you that. You're consistently wr…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 06:01 PM
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Communication and trust building ain’t being subordinate, it’s part of a healthy partnership. Otherwise you have servitude. Yes, blaming women for the collapse of family or whatever is misogyny. It’s increasingly obvious why you’re not too successful with women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:58 PM
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It doesn't matter why. Literally doesn't matter. It does if you wish to actually understand relationships beyond an 8th grade level. I do value those things. But what I value matters too. My decisionmaking processes matter too. What I want, need, and desire matter too. Lot of words to say nothing. There's no mask there. I'm very clear about what I know and believe, sportsboy. It also has the added value of being correct. You take care, sporto Hell yea bro, women love open misogyny. By the way, s…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:36 PM
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It doesn't matter WHY. What matters is they do it more. Anyone ever tell you that you have the analysis levels of a 12-year-old? They do it more because they can, because they can easily replace men, and because they're just "unhappy". But at the end of the day, it really doesn't matter why. I'm sure you'll demand that men shape their lives to fit women, so, yeah. Go ahead. You wouldn't value communication, problem-solving, mutual support, and shared common goals in a relationship? I find them v…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:19 PM
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So you gave me a statistic. I accept more women initiate divorce then men. So what? What does it prove? What are their reasons? Domestic violence? Infidelity? Financial trouble? Read this: Research shows that divorce negatively affects women much more then men. Women’s overall perceptions of marital quality – both overall satisfaction and adjustment constructs – may depend more strongly on the quality of marital interactions (e.g., problem-solving approaches) than men’s overall perceptions of ma…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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I guess I'm just a sucker for arguing round and round. Sports are fun. I have a good time with friends watching them. You might want to try that sometime. I thought we didn't deal in "insight" and "nuance". I thought statistics were all you cared about. Give up. I'll take scientific commentary on a study over "ALL WOMEN ARE A HIVE MIND BECAUSE I SAY SO" and other vague misogyny.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:01 PM
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So you have no source for 80%? Not surprising. So far you've provided: 1) personal anecdote 2) vague Reddit thread from a few years ago with data that is different from your claim 3) "just give up bro" The blackpill everybody!
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:58 PM
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Good to know you've given up and conceded the first figure. The 80% figure comes from estimates on who files the divorces. Most estimates are that 80% of divorces are filed by women. I'll see if I can spoonfeed you some things on that one. I'll make sure to demand a statistic or source for every fact you assert from here on out. (Citation needed) I know more than you do. I pay attention. And I pay attention too. Why is my life experience invalid? Why should I listen to you? I've sure got you rat…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:54 PM
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Some of us have jobs, you may want to try that sometime. Anyways, now it's 70%? What happened to 90%? Hell, even in the press release linked in that thread, the researcher says it's 69% of women. No clue where you got 90% from. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskSocialScience/comments/11yoavf/comment/jd9q3d5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Here's a comment from that thread that offers insight and nuance since the original study was not linked.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:53 PM
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No you're not, you've decided all women act a certain way and have adjusted your worldview to fit it. You lack courage to face the truth. You need to work on that. I like how you guys award yourselves medals of courage for venting on Reddit all day. Very brave to spam "all relationships are fake" on a niche sub with 2000 people on it all day long.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:50 PM
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No, you look around and see men and women together. You don't know if they're happy. You don't know anything about them other than on that day in that place you saw a man and a woman together. You don't know anything about their relationships or even if they have relationships. You just know you saw them "together", as in occupying space in proximity to one another. And you know their lives? Why should I listen to you? The divorce rate is 40-50% for first marriages. For second and later marriage…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:24 PM
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More like a world where I don't wallow in self-pity blaming everyone with two X chromosomes for my misery.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:23 PM
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Don't project your reality on to other people.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 03:22 PM
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you're not going to find a scientific study for it Yeah no shit. Enough women have stated it on various social media sites. Oh well if it's on social media then it has to be treated as gospel, huh?
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:33 PM
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All you need to do is look around. And read the countless stories all over the internet of women talking about their disattraction for and repulsion for their husbands. I look around and see happy couples of all shapes and sizes most women not attracted to most men, most men invisible to most women (so commonly known as to not need citation) (Citation needed) But if you need stats: --50% divorce rate --80% of divorces initiated by wives As discussed the other day, the divorce rate is not 50%, mo…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:23 PM
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Most women in 2023 America are married to men they're not sexually attracted to. (Citation needed)
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 01:30 PM
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Keep dreaming, they are in fact a hive mind This is not a generalization, this is an absolute statement. An incorrect one, at that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 06:17 PM
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No one ever says that. ​ Keep in mind that women are a HIVEMIND Pick one.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 06:12 PM
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according to a study of 700 men and women If I have 700 crows in one place, and they're all black, can I say that every crow on the planet is black?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 05:59 PM
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Keep in mind that women are a HIVEMIND No they are not. ​ Giga Chad is the 8/9 out of 10 guys who are basically status and SMV infinite. Very rare though None of these words are in the Bible
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 05:40 PM
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You and Kukkle need better rebuttals than "no u"
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 01:16 PM
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Disappointing but not surprising.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:34 PM
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Give up?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:17 AM
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No, they are spinning, they're not summarizing. How? Divorce isn't complex at all. Women divorce men for lack of sexual attraction and because they simply don't want to be married anymore. It is really just that simple. Oh, are you a sociologist? You wanna go discredit every other sociologist and marriage researcher who says that divorce is complex? Look at this article - there are many reasons! Women don't want the men who will marry them; and can't get the men they want to marry them. They mar…
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:54 PM
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The source is the Institute for Family Studies, with their spin on the "data" - funny how libs like you like conservative "sources" when they support your "points". I can tell women are checking off boxes by looking around: 50% divorce rate; 80% of which are filed by women. They aren't "spinning" anything, they are summarizing the Census data. Did you read the article? Divorce is a complex issue with several factors such as communication, money, and infidelity. I agree that such a large divorce …
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:35 PM
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Even assuming this is true (which I don't, consider the source), that does not mean women are marrying for any reason other than checking off the box. Marriage rates were in the shitter before the plandemic. To say nothing of women pushing off marriage to later. The source is the American Community Survey from the U.S. Census. Where is your source that women only want to check a box? So.. in other words, I'm right, mostly because of women's fucked up decisionmaking. Women push marriage off to la…
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:07 PM
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Women don't want marriage anymore except as a status marker for their families and friends. Marriage is no longer a vocation, or a lifelong relaitonship to be entered into with someone for love or compatibility. Marriage for women is now an accomplishment and a box to be checked off. Marriage rates are back to pre-pandemic levels while divorce rates are at an all-time low. Women don't want to be mothers anymore except as a "merit badge" to be earned and a box to be checked off. Motherhood is no …
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 07:46 PM
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This study on STDs from 15 years ago using a sample of 100 people from Nebraska totally shows that all women on the face of the earth hate men!
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 05:57 PM
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I don't trust stats like these. They couldn't have possibly analyzed every man and woman living in America. Most likely they took a sample size of under one thousand and make an assumption that it was the same for the rest of the country which in this case is stupid. Blackpill in a nutshell. Well done!
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 03:33 PM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bioe.13134#:~:text=Sexual%20loneliness%20decreases%20self%2Desteem,aggression%2C%20which%20can%20manifest%20violently What does it say at the top of the page? Yes, and I explained why this doesn’t necessarily mean that people are having no sex. Just that some are having more than others. Are you autistic? You have a fascination with the word “fuck”
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:28 PM
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The paper you posted, published this year, is quite literally an editorial. It cites several papers. One of them, the fourth footnote, was published in 2010. I believe this info is outdated because of advancements in online dating since that. Clear enough? Do you need sock puppets to help explain it?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:10 PM
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Did it take you long to wipe the tears off your keyboard before you typed that meltdown? The entire time, I’ve presented good faith questions and points. You’ve responded with a tantrum refusing to answer anything. Healthy relationships hinge on love, using the definition I provided. Without love, there is no healthy relationship. Period.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:09 PM
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You put this out there and keep replying to me so no one is harassing you. The fact that you can't even define love shows what's obvious all along. This entire sub doesn't actually have any understanding of relationships or attraction. It has surface-level cherry picked 'stats' that the posters don't even understand, they just keep regurgitating it because they want to feel better about themselves. They create a world where nothing is their fault. They make up an enemy and then keep giving that …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 08:14 PM
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Define "love."
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:57 PM
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I have not called you a single name, so I am not sure why you're so triggered. I'm not letting you twist away. Your argument is a house of cards. I asked you a simple thing and here you are throwing a tantrum. Furthermore, my argument is not 'stupid' because I have not presented it yet. I am waiting on you to answer my initial question. I believe you and I have two very different definitions of "love" and I am interested in hearing what yours is.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:57 PM
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If love isn't enough, then a definition of that which isn't sufficient isn't relevant. Do you really need that concept spoonfed to you? Since it's the status quo and your argument introduces a new paradigm, it would be helpful to understand what you think love is. then make your own post. I argued "love isn't enough". You want to argue "love is enough". Fine. You want to argue that? Make your own post. Why would I do that when I can challenge your argument here? That's the point of such message …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:48 PM
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You're deflecting from the fact that your argument is based on nothing.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:47 PM
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How can it be irrelevant when I've quoted you over and over saying that love is not enough for relationships? If your argument hinges on challenging the notion that "all you need is love," why not tell us what love means? No, Kukkle likes to hide behind articles from 15 years ago that he's never actually read to "explain" how no men anywhere are actually happy in relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:15 PM
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Love is not enough for relationships. It's necessary, but not sufficient. Your entire argument hinges on something you cannot define? Odd. I have not called you names one bit during this exchange so not sure where you're getting that from. Kukkle can't put together a coherent thought so I wouldn't exactly use him as an example.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:09 PM
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Gotcha. So you can’t define love and you’d rather stay in an echo chamber. Sounds like the blackpill to me.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:03 PM
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Then humor me. Define it so I can make a proper rebuttal, because I believe love is the most important thing.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:57 PM
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Doesn't matter what my definition is. Love is not enough for a relationship You say that love is not enough for a relationship, yet you can't even define it? Interesting, considering that your entire argument hinges upon love. Disappointing but not surprising.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:55 PM
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No, I asked YOU specifically. What is YOUR definition of love?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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You can throw whatever """stats""" help you cope with life at me. You aren't reading them right. The "5% - 50%" stat was posted here before and debunked then too.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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Can you define "love" in a sentence or so? Not sure you quite get what it means.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:33 PM
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It's an editorial piece. The fourth footnote, which I am referencing, is a study published in 2010. This isn't new info. So? People are still having sex. Some have fewer partners than others. Who cares? Is it desirable to have more than 50 partners? Why? You're so mad, I love it.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:28 PM
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1) Completely relevant when you realize the increase in online dating over that time period. 2) Still having sex so what's the problem? 3) Relevant because it shows that incels somehow believe that having 50 sexual partners has no downsides, as well as misinterpret articles. L
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 06:13 PM
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Sex is concentrated within a small, yet sexually active, group of people. In one study, it was reported that the 5% of the population with the highest number of vaginal sex acts (penile–vaginal intercourse) accounted for more vaginal sex acts than the bottom 50% of the population with the lowest number of vaginal sex acts.4 1) This study is almost 15 years old 2) That bottom 50% is still having sex 3) You ignore that the main conclusion of that study was that being in said top 5% astronomically …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:56 PM
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No, you don't see guys in relationships. You see guys in public with women. You don't know anything about them. But YOU know for sure that those women aren't attracted to those men? That they're just using them for money or whatever sad cope you've invented today is? No, you don't see guys in relationships. You see guys in public with women. You don't know anything about them. The "blackpill" in a nutshell. Making up your own fantasy world to cope with your own failures.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:41 PM
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Horrible misread of statistics. All this says is the people having the most sex have more than the people at the bottom end of the table. Those people are still having sex. You lose again you sad little crybaby.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:40 PM
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The blackpill is just 900 logical fallacies rolled into one!
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:27 AM
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Pshhh, every single woman on the planet thinks exactly the same and they specifically hate every single man who isn't Ryan Gosling. That's the only reason these fellas can't get a date.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:14 AM
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Meanwhile, you continue to think that you can infer and build interpersonal skills by watching heavily edited and catered youtube videos. No no, this bunch doesn't do that. They scroll through niche obscure medical journals to desperately find something to blame their failures on, instead of trying to improve themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:09 AM
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He's got a buddy, he's well dressed, he's cool and confident. Looks like someone I'd want to have a beer with. Better than sitting and rotting in a basement blaming everyone else for one's failures.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:40 AM
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Looks like a pleasant guy. Smiling and saying hello to men and women alike. Easygoing. Looks like he's having a fun time. Good for him.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:03 AM
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Probably because it's a free country and they can do what they wish.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:21 PM
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Take your meds.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:17 PM
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Nice comeback, sport.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 06:23 PM
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I got mine, guy. What's your excuse?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:41 PM
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bullshit. they can leave anytime they want. HAHAHAHA
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:15 PM
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Why's that?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 01:36 PM
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Guess you’re SOL then.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:32 AM
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Good thing I never post there then
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:04 AM
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Brigading is when one sub sends a directed bunch of members to another sub. Let me know when that happens here.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:22 AM
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Got it, so you DONT want all opinions. Echo chamber it is.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:01 AM
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What does the sub description say again?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:05 PM
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I'm waiting for the day when OP ends up on the evening news
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:17 PM
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Bro thinks men are sexually attracted to their daughters and he calls himself superior minded LMAO
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:25 PM
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If he did the crime yes
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 12:58 AM
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Neither do you, you have random sentences from the abstracts of studies published decades ago
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 12:57 AM
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You people don’t even know what you want out of a relationship
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 08:44 PM
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Sex is the first place your mind went to.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 08:02 PM
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So if that's the case, I want something out of the deal. I want sex, now, just like she gave Chad. If this is all you want out of a relationship, get a hooker.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 06:29 PM
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Debating the cherry picked nonsense "stats," the concept that every man in a relationship is secretly miserable, and that every woman on the face of the earth specifically hates every single man who doesn't look like Channing Tatum.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:28 PM
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It's incel wonderland where they've made up a whole alternate reality for themselves. They don't actually want to debate anything.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:27 PM
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Don't fucking care. It's a test for her attraction to me. Most every woman today fucked a guy immediately. That's what I want. If she won't, she's not sexually attracted to me. Then I don't want her. Then hire an escort if you want no strings attached banging. Don't fucking care. That's her problem, not mine. I want the same thing Chad got to have. If I can't have that, that's fine, but she can fuck off. I'm not paying full price for what Chad got for free. Ibid.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:22 PM
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I want sex with you on the same terms all your prior men got to have sex with you You are not the same person as the other men. The circumstances are not the same. People have nuance. Maybe the last guy she slept with was in a long-term relationship and she doesn't want to sleep with anyone she's not committed to.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:11 PM
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This sub is using daytime television for single elderly women as evidence now, huh
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:06 PM
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"I deserve to have sex with anyone I want just for existing" Sad life you have.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:54 PM
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Why do you WANT a high body count?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 08:03 PM
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Gotcha, never settle, never have a family or stable household, just keep endlessly fucking people with no purpose or goal. Sounds awful, but not unsurprising from a person who has a middle school understanding of relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 07:07 PM
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I'm engaged, so I must be doing something right.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:46 PM
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You're misreading the article. Sex is concentrated within a small, yet sexually active, group of people. In one study, it was reported that the 5 % of the population with the highest number of vaginal sex acts (penile-vaginal-intercourse) accounted for more vaginal sex acts than the bottom 50 % of the population with the lowest number of vaginal sex acts.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:25 PM
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Got it. A vague boogeyman to pin one's failures on.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:22 PM
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Define "chad"
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 04:18 PM
0

This sub's understanding of women comes primarily from hentai.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:32 PM
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Well the “hurting men” are the ones telling me my 6-year relationship is all fake, since I’m not Ryan Gosling I’m a complete sexual failure, etc. It’s interesting to see incels in the wild
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:21 PM
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Yea, I’ll go back to having things like healthy hobbies and friends lol Reducing women to “fulfills a need, does what men need to do” is pretty shallow
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:51 PM
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Yin and yang. Healthy relationships have both.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:44 PM
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Back and forth, back and forth. The truth that sexual attraction is based on physical appearance and nothing else. Mindless easy sex gets that need taken care of so I can do the other things I want to do. So does porn/cranking the chicken. What is the point of endless sex with no relationships? Right now, it simply seems that you just want to screw with no consequences. That ain't how life works. I have no problem with people having "happy lives". It's just that most don't. They're not secretly …
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:40 PM
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Didn't answer my first point. Then what does mindless easy sex mean to you? What is the point? To me, screwing around with 100 different women says you see another person as something to use for 30 minutes of hip thrusts. "Chad" does this for a few years then either gets an STD or wants to settle down and can't, then ends up alone for the rest of his life. You live in a made-up work of cope. You can't handle other people having happy lives, so you decide that they have to be secretly upset.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:28 PM
1

What truth? The guy is happily married with a family! Why does he need "da trooooth" that his life is all a house of cards? "Fucking women with no effort" sure sounds like hedonism to me. All mindless easy sex says to me is you're too immature to 1) treat women like human beings instead of a sex doll and 2) handle a long-term relationship. Anyone can sling dick around, but they end up a broken-down loser sitting at the end of the bar at Applebees. Maybe you should stop that. You seem really unha…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:42 PM
1

No. No one can be happy unless they know the truth. Go ahead, go up to a guy married 15 years with two kids and tell him he's actually not happy and it's all a lie. Let me know how you do with a dislocated jaw. He didn't say anything about hedonism. Fucking women without requirements of time, commitment, or investment, is not hedonism. It's sexual success, but that's not "hedonism". Sex is physical pleasure. Having a goal of simply railing 100 women for said pleasure is the very definition of he…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:42 PM
1

Oh, they’re very happy. This is because they’re delusional. There you go. You honestly believe that no one anywhere is truly happy unless they're just mindlessly fucking people Fucking women without the requirements of time, commitment, or investment. Hedonism is boring, sad, and unfulfilling. Read The Tyrant by Plato.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:02 PM
1

It’s everything you’re doing to convince yourself that other men cannot possibly be happy What is sexual success to you? Just slinging dick around and having 900 partners?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 04:22 PM
1

Another bit of mental gymnastics y'all like to pull - the belief that no happy, stable relationships built on love exist, and the belief that men in relationships are failures.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 04:01 PM
3

Just logical fallacy after logical fallacy. Like I get it, a lot of the posters here have been hurt by women and feel lonely. Unfortunately, they cope with this by inventing boogeymen, declaring that no man anywhere is happy in a relationship unless they look like Christian Bale, and pursuing a woman means you're weak.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:51 PM
-4

Real life isn't anime. Women don't tear their clothes off 0.5 seconds after seeing someone they're interested in. Long-term successful relationships require compatible personalities, goals, and dreams. That's what love is. Your understanding of relationships is 10th grade at best.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:49 PM
-5

Way to ignore my post on the other thread regarding women finding personality important in attraction, by the way.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:38 PM
0

Maybe that's why I keep coming back here; the mental gymnastics on this sub are fascinating.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:31 PM
-2

Elliott Rogers, the final form of inceldom.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:18 PM
-9

he would be physically restrained and removed from the premises. Do you always like to pretend you're persecuted or what
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:18 PM
1

Half the comments in that Dating thread are "I wasn't really attracted to my spouse until I got to know him and his personality"
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 02:53 PM
1

For me it's not that I find men unattractive, it's that I only feel real sexual attraction towards people I'm very interested in. So I can have mild crushes, but I don't do hookups. And I don't really have types, because appearance is not what makes me sexually attracted to people. Read deeper. It's exactly what I've been saying - lust ain't love, and if you want an actual long-term relationship, there are a bunch of things that matter beyond looks.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 02:27 PM
1

There's no way you're using FDS as an actual source. That place is as bad as this sub. Also half of these straight-up disprove the "Blackpill" ​ This is exactly how I feel. I still occasionally find men attractive just based on their looks but I’m never super into one until I know what he’s like as a person. I’m also like that with celebrity crushes, I don’t get them unless I’ve seen interviews. I’m the opposite with women. I find a lot of them physically attractive but I’m not romantically attr…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:00 PM
-3

Bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:46 PM
-2

Why don’t YOU just settle for someone you’re not attracted to?
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:57 PM
-14

Whatcha gonna do, big boy
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:15 PM
-8

On average, yes, assuming you treat them like actual people and not one hive mind that specifically hates you.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:12 PM
-14

I'm sorry you have had poor experiences with women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:53 PM
-8

"women can't be lonely they should just settle for morbidly obese NEETs"
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:32 PM
-1

In the US, unattractive men are at risk for cops hassling them and for arrest and prosecution merely for being around women or looking at them. HAHAHAHAA
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:05 PM
-1

"Women don't like broke losers" yeah no shit, people generally are attracted to people who are financially sound because it allows them to do things like buy a house, get married, and have kids.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:04 PM
1

Probably the most nuanced and thought-out take I've ever seen on here.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:01 PM
1

Says who?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:31 PM
1

Would you date a "below average" woman?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:30 PM
-4

-A normie makes a his gf wet by initiating foreplay. But Chad's gf is 24/7 wet for him. - A normie needs to give head to be considered 'good' in bed whereas a Chad's gf likes to give him head for hours. When your understanding of women comes exclusively from hentai
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:12 PM
0

Every day it’s more and more obvious why women don’t like you people
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:20 PM
1

Every day it’s more and more obvious why women don’t like you people
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:20 PM
-1

Didn’t know that only men were allowed to post like this
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:32 PM
-2

You guys didn't invent anything so no, it's not imitation. It's a trope.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:41 PM
-6

Gatekeeping a bunch of teenagers is a new low even for this sub.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:20 PM
-6

It’s literally a bunch of teenagers posting “relatable” memes you fucking dork
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:47 PM
-7

They’re all teenagers posting memes lmao it’s not that deep, dork
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:46 PM
-7

The sad belief that all women (or men for that case) share a hive mind and have no individual agency is just so pathetic.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 08:36 PM
-8

The belief that no one anywhere can possibly be happy in a relationship is the ultimate “blackpill” fallacy
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 08:35 PM
-20

No, no they are not. Keep coping though.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 06:35 PM
1

If you believe that’s all that’s required, you have maybe a high-school level understanding of relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:17 AM
1

This makes zero sense. Those other things are part of a loving relationship. Sex by itself does not build a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:49 PM
2

Why not education? Why not similar interests? Why not hobbies to share? Your understanding of relationships is shallow and vapid.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 05:55 PM
3

You think that all women have to provide is sex.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:37 PM
2

I have a stable, happy relationship. If mindless sex was the top concern, my relationship would have fallen apart years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:35 PM
-3

Thinking women are sex machines first and subsequently begging for it is your problem.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:10 PM
-5

"Won't someone puhweeeze have sex with me :(((((("
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:05 PM
-1

Sure, who needs things like "compatibility," "similar interests and likes," "similar life goals," and so forth. Just sex and base-level complements are all it takes. Yep. Perhaps treating women like actual autonomous beings will help.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:01 PM
0

One Two Three Four Five
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 01:55 PM
-12

There is zero difference between this and half this sub crying about not getting "Stacy" or whatever
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:35 PM
-1

How do you know what women are or are not attracted to? They have one cherry-picked survey from OK Cupid that came out 14 years ago. That is the basis for their belief. Remarkable, isn't it?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 03:53 PM
-1

I cannot believe you actually believe this shit. "no woman anywhere is actually attracted to her husband." Remarkable.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 03:51 PM
-6

Oh look it's the old "I'm fucking miserable in my life therefore everyone else must be miserable too" cope.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:55 PM
0

Sounds like someone got cheated on!
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:10 PM
0

Never said it was. But then, I don't cope with it by writing fantasies about watching women fall and hurt themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:54 PM
-7

The basic and ancient dilemma of normal people not wanting to be around psychotic pieces of shit, sure.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:01 PM
-9

No, there's one rather obvious constant.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:53 PM
-7

I receive no kindness or respect from anyone. Gee I wonder why lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:27 PM
1

Another logical fallacy. If this were true, the human race would collapse. Women aren’t attracted to terminally online weirdos who actively hate them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:55 PM
0

Attraction exists on a spectrum and doesn't have a universal "nature". Congrats! You have just disproven the "blackpill." Well done.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 06:58 PM
-1

"Human attraction has nothing to do with human nature" shows yet another example of the gargantuan amounts of cope "blackpillers" go through to justify their failures.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 06:26 PM
0

"People like other people they're attracted to" is not some groundbreaking concept lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:19 PM
1

Mostly the fact that society hasn't collapsed like it would under the blackpill belief that women won't sleep with 80% of men. The internet ain't real life. Get over it and get gud.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 10:11 PM
1

Blue pill: “people have subjective tastes in potential partners and personality is an important part in compatibility and a successful relationship” Black pill: “this unscientific data from a niche dating website collected 14 years ago shows that every woman on the face of the earth thinks exactly the same and everyone in a relationship is actually miserable and cheating on each other”
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 02:05 PM
1

You don’t like it because it shows off the hilarious amount of logical fallacies one must juggle to believe the black pill
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:49 PM
1

Women are not a hive mind. Everyone has subjective tastes because everyone is different. More like women don’t like weirdos who censor the word “women”
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 12:22 PM
-1

Mostly because we go outside and observe the real world.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 12:14 PM
0

"I am miserable in my life therefore everyone else must be" is such a sad attitude to have.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 01:22 PM
1

You guys spend a lot of time making up these situations in your head, or do they come up during the community circlejerk?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 11:02 AM
0

The "blackpill" teaches that all women are a hivemind with no individual agency or thought, and they only want sex all the time with guys who look like Channing Tatum and nothing else in a relationship. Sound stupid? Yup!
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:45 PM
3

You have to understand, these people think that mindless sex is all anyone wants in the world and nothing else matters. They don’t comprehend things like “romantic attraction” or “dating”
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 09:15 PM
1

You literally are not even done with puberty.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:20 PM
1

I was a virgin before I met my girl. I'm trying to give you advice to get off this awful path you're on.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:58 PM
1

Why should women approach you in the first place?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:47 PM
1

I'm an average 5'10" white dude. Never very popular in high school, just did my own thing in college making friends and building a career. Landed a great girl who loves me by doing so.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:46 PM
3

Sweeping generalizations are pointless copes that you pin your own failures on.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:37 PM
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This is why you need to get out of places like this. You're too young to be thinking this way.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:36 PM
8

Read the sub description.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:23 PM
0

There's your problem. You are hyperfixated on women. You are making up nonsense in an effort to blame someone else for your own problems. The idea that having friends is "cope" is completely absurd. "Handsome males" absolutely do not only have women friends; this is insane. Please stop thinking like this, it's not healthy.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:23 PM
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Screw off. He's 17. He should be working on college and a career, not crying about "chad" or whatever cope this sub makes up to blame their failures on.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:08 PM
-1

Get over this pathetic whiny attitude, go make some friends, build a career and a good life for yourself first.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:07 PM
2

You are a teenager. Stop rotting your brain on this sub.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:56 PM
0

Why are these self-reported numbers "bullshit" but the ones you guys circlejerk over aren't, even though those are also self-reported?
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 04:41 PM
-9

Sexless rates for 18-29 year-olds have plummeted. Plenty of time left.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 03:58 PM
-4

You are contributing to said body count.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:47 PM
-1

"I whine about the problem I'm also currently contributing to"
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:29 PM
-6

Outdated, nonscientific cherrypicked data from almost 14 years ago, that captured a sliver of the population using a niche dating site. Sad how you revolve your entire life around it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:21 PM
-2

Women don't come to you just for existing. They are not moths and you are not a lamp. Make it worth their time.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 07:34 PM
-3

Correct. You need to convince a woman you're worth the time. Thanks for playing.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 06:34 PM
-5

You think women should just be drawn to you like a magnet with absolutely zero effort on your end?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 06:00 PM
-5

Do...do you guys understand how dating and courtship works? Talking to people, getting to know them, asking them out...?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 05:47 PM
-1

Or, she will be happy with her partner and enjoy a life-long marriage filled with love and affections. Like how the real world works.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:50 PM
-1

Super ultra mega copium. The notion that no one is happy in a relationship is the ultimate fallacy of the so-called "blackpill."
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:39 PM
0

It's almost like personality matters more than the chuds here think.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:43 PM
1

How is dating different in the "east?"
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:26 PM
0

Like I said, a colossal logical fallacy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:46 PM
1

I suppose if all my brain could process was meaningless shitty sex, I would believe that too. But it isn't, so I don't.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:07 PM
1

Provide me the information or shut up. It's so easy to poke holes in your little pill because it's one colossal logical fallacy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 01:32 PM
-2

More information needed. How are they dressed? How socially composed are they? Do they have existing friendships, or are they coming in cold to this situation?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 01:17 PM
0

I think I see why women don't want to be with you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 12:21 PM
-4

Yes because the blackpill is one gigantic bundle of logical fallacies and impossible statements.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 01:23 PM
-3

This makes absolutely no sense, as usual.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 01:19 PM
-4

Your version of “Chad” must have at least 9 STDs
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 04:36 PM
0

This is how real life works, yes. Good job. Gold star.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:38 PM
3

"Just settle for someone you're not interested in and trap yourself in a loveless miserable relationship!"
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:37 PM
1

you just meet a dude and you either get along or you don’t. If you do then you’ve made a friend. This is literally what friendship is. It's connecting on an emotional level, albeit lower than romantic. You don’t need skills, as long as you can hold a conversation you’re good to go, you can just talk to women like you would talk to literally anyone else, except for the fact you’ll also be flirting, dancing, and kissing them too. You contradict yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 01:40 PM
1

They don’t give a single, solitary fuck about how you “carry yourself”. Proof you have never been around a woman in your life.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 01:39 PM
-1

So you catch a woman's eye. Then what? Still got to have the personal skills to actually make a connection on an emotional level.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 12:55 AM
-4

Correct, because you take care of yourself instead of whining on an incel sub all day long like everyone else here. Going to the gym shows you have responsibility and pride.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 07:42 PM
-5

Bullshit. You said it yourself, going to the gym completely changed how you carry yourself. You have more confidence and are more outgoing.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 05:18 PM
-1

Like I said. Mathematically impossible copium.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 01:04 AM
0

Better than selling hateful nonsense to depressed people
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 01:01 AM
1

their self-respect in exchange for pussy Now having a relationship is a bad thing! This place is the ultimate copium mine.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:30 PM
-1

Mathematically impossible.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:17 PM
-1

Ah yes another extension of the mega cope fantasy that women only are attracted to 3 people on earth
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:41 PM
-3

This makes absolutely no sense, dweeb
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:43 PM
0

Yeah what a shame if a woman was "stuck" with a guy she loves and can have sex with at any time for the rest of their lives, how awful.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 01:50 PM
1

No shit, but it’s an easier time to talk to them if you’re in a group talking together rather than approaching solo.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 02:58 PM
0

Then get some friends and go as a group. Meet a group of girls. Talk to them and learn about them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 02:14 PM
1

I want a stable relationship. My friends want stable relationships. Why wouldn’t you want a stable relationship with someone you love?
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 10:55 PM
1

You seem to think that every “Chad” never settles down and wants a different woman every single day. 9/10 people want a stable relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 10:50 PM
-2

Because real life isn't porn. The end.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 07:50 PM
0

Your brain straight up cannot comprehend that the blackpill is complete bullshit LMAO
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 01:57 AM
-3

Says who?
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 01:00 PM
1

Your own eyes allow you to see into the inner mechanisms of every relationship on earth?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:34 PM
1

You don’t think relationship satisfaction includes sexual satisfaction? Come on. 9/10 being satisfied and 6/10 being extremely satisfied is perfectly fine. It’s exactly in line with previous years. Yes, yes I do. That and your complete lack of any scientific evidence for your claims.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:13 PM
1

“Observation over decades” Except actual studies disagree with you: https://www.monmouth.edu/polling-institute/reports/monmouthpoll_us_020722/#:~:text=Among%20Americans%20who%20are%20currently,more%20than%20seven%20years%20ago. I’m here because this is an all pill debate, and I take great offense to the circlejerkers stating that my girlfriend secretly resents and hates me because I’m not Channing Tatum.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 08:52 PM
1

Such a claim is not empirically provable. It's made up by the circlejerk on here. You have zero evidence beyond what you think. Prove your statement with data.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:51 PM
1

Yes because it's a common logical fallacy and pure cope for you not having any kind of relationship with women. "I'm not happy therefore no one can be happy!"
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:57 PM
1

From where? Are you asking every single woman on the planet who is married? My god, if I had a nickel for every time you guys committed the "No True Scotsman" fallacy, I would retire.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:48 PM
1

Who is "they?" Where are you getting this from?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:29 PM
0

You're doing the thing that all blackpillers do where they decide that no one is ever happy in a relationship because the women have "settled." It's pure, uncut cope.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 04:51 PM
0

So if I, God forbid, had cancer and was no longer able to have sex, that would be the end of my marriage? Just like that?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:31 PM
0

Partially, but it's also companionship where each person shares responsibilities with each other ultimately resulting in a strong and fulfilling lifelong partnership. To say that marriage is entirely about sex is extremely shallow.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:29 PM
0

"Sex is the only thing that matters, I have been so poisoned by pornography that I cannot comprehend that other things make people happy"
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 01:47 PM
-1

Because he can't cope with the fact that women don't like terminally online weirdos so he's invented an entire separate universe where no man is ever happy in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:24 PM
-2

Sorry that blackpillers put sex on such a pedestal that they have to make up a whole different reality as cope.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:14 AM
1

20% of the guys get 80% of the female interest on Tinder. This was an OK Cupid study and, as I've said before, you are leaving out other key findings such as women being much more likely to message someone they find less attractive than men. The "which race wouldn't you date" videos all turn out to be the same. People tend to date within their own race. No shit that asking random drunk white women to choose between 50-year-old Sikhs and 20-something American Eagle models is going to skew data.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:13 AM
1

Sounds like cope to me.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:11 AM
-4

unless you have the height looks and race they want All of which is subjective and varies from person to person.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 09:18 PM
-2

I like how your first study literally helps prove the Blackpill right, altruism had literally no effect on unattractive men for short term relationships. Aka the kind of relationships women jump in just to have a good fuck. But she’ll get into a long term relationship with him. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Long-term relationships include sex all the time. But they also include companionship and bonding resulting in a stable and happy family with kids, something you wave away as "betabucks" or whatev…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 08:02 PM
1

I directly quoted you.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:55 PM
0

Women had the same financial freedoms as men, there were even female-owned banks which only dealt with female clients. There was discrimination practiced where some banks had unfair policies regarding women and racial minorities, but women still had their own financial institutions and banks just like blacks did. They most definitely did not, as evidenced by the Equal Credit Opportunity Act I referenced at minimum. Also "separate but equal" is stupid. No, all they had to do was walk down the str…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:45 PM
1

No it isn't. Women had to have a male cosign on a bank account until the Equal Credit Opportunity Act was passed. Cope.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:00 PM
0

No one is obliged to reply to the posts that piss you off so much
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:38 AM
-2

Wouldn’t you want to feel validated for looking good?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 01:55 PM
-2

Women do like men who provide and aren’t jobless losers, yes.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 08:02 PM
1

The gap is only like 10%. The Pew data is an outlier. https://ifstudies.org/blog/theres-no-huge-gender-gap-in-being-single-among-young-adults
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 06:01 PM
-4

It's blatantly obvious why women don't like you lmao
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 09:13 PM
0

Gee I can't imagine why women don't like you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:56 PM
0

Then be friends with her, expand your friend group, and keep meeting new people. Women exist for more than sex my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:53 PM
3

Bro can't handle seeing women in workout clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:33 PM
4

A gym is a gym, and them keeping in shape shows that they take care of their bodies and like to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:24 PM
-3

I was raped and abused as a kid, and assholes like you will literally turn around and tell me that I got raped and abused because of my personality. Strawman argument, logical fallacy.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 01:51 PM
1

Your OP included stuff like stopping volunteering, being polite, holding doors, etc. That is being a decent human being, not buying a mansion. Why should women stop you from doing that? Priests are celibate and yet they still act like decent human beings.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:16 PM
1

Is earning "500% of what I need" your definition of being a decent human being? Strange.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:09 PM
1

Oh yeah? Well I walked to work today and saw fifteen couples where the woman was taller, so you're wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:07 PM
2

No it isn't. Someone who says they only act like a decent human being for "pussy" is a complete loser. There's zero context to that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:06 PM
0

Men no longer have to be "responsible" to society, other than to refrain from violating criminal law. Men no longer have to be polite to anyone. Men no longer need to show common courtesy to anyone, publicly or privately. Men don't have to volunteer, attend social events, or demonstrate any kind of civic responsibility or presence. We don't have to change anything or fix anything, or make anything better. I fail to see the correlation between not having sex and not being a decent person.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:05 PM
2

You think we do all this shit for ourselves? HAHAHAHAHAHA Sounds like someone has low self-esteem tbh
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:01 PM
1

Anecdotal bluepill evidence doesn't count. Yet you provide four paragraphs of only anecdotal evidence. Odd!
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:55 PM
-1

Friendship makes you a better person.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:48 PM
1

You said it better than me lmao, I guarantee the second story was more like “girl comes over to ask us to be quieter and my drunk friend staggered over and complemented her tits”
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:17 PM
1

Stephen Hawking’s second wife was his nurse lmao, she fell for him while taking care of him as his disease progressed. It had nothing to do with money; he wasn’t even particularly wealthy. He couldn’t even have sex!
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:13 PM
-1

Because a solid group of friends builds character, gives you an outlet to try new activities and things, and meet other people. It provides companionship and prevents loneliness. Friends can even wingman for you. You’re only a “flesh colored blob” if you’re sitting in the back of a room looking miserable.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:09 PM
1

Stephen Hawking was married twice. Gilbert Godfried married and had two children Gary Busey has three kids. Behavior has everything to do with a stable, long-term, happy relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:04 PM
1

Then stop having sex and creating fewer virgins
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:23 PM
-2

Except the average man isn’t in “compete invisibility,” he’s out with friends, doing hobbies, etc instead of whining about made-up enemies on Reddit
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:05 PM
1

Then don’t whine about women not being virgins or whatever. Takes two to tango
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:42 AM
1

The cognitive dissonance is amazing. So you sleeping around creates fewer virgins which you don’t like, but you still demand a virgin for a wife?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:40 AM
-1

Like I said, skill issue. Simply don’t be a weird creepy pervert and you’re good to go.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:39 AM
-8

Sounds like a skill issue
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:35 AM
1

But it's totally cool for you to get some, huh?
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:25 PM
0

You mean this one? This is absolutely self-reported because that "data" is user choices. Furthermore, I like how you "blackpillers" ignore: 1) "Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-rated females, while plenty of potentially charming, even cute, girls go unwritten." Sound familiar? 2) "the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most …
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:20 PM
0

How do you think you guys got that "women aren't attracted to 80% of men" number lmao that was self-reported too. That's how a survey works. And what she posted was from a scientifically-reviewed paper.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:03 PM
0

She gave you actual statistics. You have her “hurrr durrr I don’t believe it all women lie durrr” Take the L bro
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:50 PM
0

You guys have some of the most insane victim complexes I have ever seen fr
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 06:18 PM
1

The fact that you think every woman on earth has had a one night stand is proof you need to be medicated
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 05:06 PM
-8

"my source is I made it the fuck up"
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 04:12 PM
1

Hell yea bro, I bet women are banging down your door to get at you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 01:56 PM
1

Yea you can't really debate any of the "Blackpilled" folks here, they've made up a complete false reality to explain why women aren't attracted to them. I can't imagine why women don't want to associate with people who censor the word "woman" or who honest-to-god believe that all women on the planet are only attracted to like three men. Sure is fun to try, though.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 01:49 PM
-9

“80%” Another terrible misread of a non scientific OKcupid survey from 10 years ago. Sad!
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:15 PM
2

So get off Tinder and meet an actual person
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:06 PM
-1

If you’ve ever dated, you know that a relationship goes far beyond looks. That’s the rub.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:09 AM
-1

“Just settle for someone you aren’t comparable with and grow to resent and hate trapping yourself in a loveless marriage”
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 02:53 AM
2

That’s not what a strawman is.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 02:52 AM
1

Personality matters in the long-term, dummy. I fully concede that looks matter on first contact, but again - if the dude has zero hobbies, friends, interests, etc., why would anyone want a long-term relationship with him? Yet you didn’t doubt for a second that these men you cannot see who are writing messages you cannot read are “sweaty weirdos” who are “begging for sex”. They could just be perfectly polite, normal men who are also lonely looking for a female companion among these women who are …
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 01:37 PM
1

https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish A small group of assholes catfishing people is not a scientific study The insinuation is that personality matters. It doesn’t. They only care about men in the top percentile of physical attractive. They could be “terminally online” from cradle to grave, but as long as they’re handsome, women don’t give a shit. They give a shit when it comes to long-term partners and marriage. You can be Channing Tatum but if you have the personality of a small pile of rocks, …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 05:59 PM
-2

You don't know what you're looking at. Unless you are with those people 24/7/365, and watch their interactions behind closed doors, you know nothing about them. You could be seeing people who aren't in a sexual/romantic relaitonship. Your idea of "average" man is really "above average". You aren't even seeing any "average" men or "below average" men. You don't even notice them. Just because a man's in a relationship doesn't mean he's getting what he wants from that relationship. He stays because…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 04:30 PM
-2

You are the one desperately trying to disprove reality, my guy. You've created a world where no one can possibly be happy because you're not happy. It's a coping method.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:47 PM
-2

Your argument boils down to "nuh uh you CANT be in a happy relationship because my totally legitimate statistics say so"
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:17 PM
0

If these “weirdos” were forced to attach photos to their messages, I have the funniest goddamn feeling these “forever alone” women would make an exception for the tall, handsome men. Bullshit. If the “blackpilled” weirdo in question looked like Marco Asesnsio, his death certificate would read “Death by Drowning - In Pussy”. No, I don't think so. I think women don't like fucking weirdos begging for sex out of nowhere. I know this because I talk to women in real life. The burden of proof is on you…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:00 PM
-1

I ask this question to every "blackpilled" chud I come across to try to get them to do a little self-reflection. Your point in question is that women can't be lonely because men are DMing them begging for attention. No shit! Why would any sane woman want to get with some weirdo spamming her messages? Note, in this case, the hypothetical woman wouldn't know what the man looked like because it's just reddit messaging. She's uncomfortable with some random guy showing up begging for sex. It's becaus…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 12:27 PM
-7

Why should women go out with you? What do you offer them?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:00 AM
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