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It means he's doing whatever and whoever he wants, but she's only having sex with him and deluding herself she'll be something more than a quick fuck to him someday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:31 PM
126

As much as websites like that are filled with inaccuracies, 31/23 is already pushing it in terms of a healthy age gap...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:32 PM
26

This honestly seems like a form of self-harm. You were in the right for removing yourself from the situation, but for the sake of any future relationship she has, I hope she gets therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:46 PM
10

I am seeing a guy sporadically for a while now (FWB if you will) Get rid of him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:41 AM
3

Forums for New Zealand Agriculture, OMG it took me a minute 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:52 AM
19

Summed up my entire position on the “sex work” debate in 28 words, this is beautifully said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:42 AM
4

I’d kinda like to know if it was who I thought it was too, u/GabbaG0ul only if you’re comfortable obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:13 PM
6

Haha well it’s a bit more than that, I stay up to watch their releases drop, started watching award shows they’re on, I have a side account just for stuff related to them, and I have posters and collected a few albums. But I’m an adult woman and my goal is to see them live once or twice, not to go beyond my boundaries as a fan. But honestly, that type of behavior occurs quite often and they’ve had a few incidents, it’s sad to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:59 PM
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Ohh I actually might know who you’re talking about if he’s one of the most popular ones who uploads on Youtube too. Whoever it is, that’s an unhinged reaction for someone who, at the end of the day, is just some guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:24 PM
74

Yeah I don’t understand the obsession with any of them. I get being a fan of someone with a talent, I am, but doesn’t streamer usually just imply they play video games on Twitch with funny commentary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:09 PM
22

Hey, some of us just think they’re cute and like their music…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:07 PM
147

Two fucking losers, I hope Charlotte walked away laughing her ass off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:18 PM
13

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:54 PM
24

Don't give them any ideas!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:13 AM
81

Exactly. It's no different than traditional prostitution under a pimp other than you're not physically getting into a strange man's car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:12 AM
53

Right? Their name is synonymous with pornography at this point, and has been referenced in countless recent songs the same way strip clubs are. I think they'll backpedal on this very soon, maybe even before it becomes in effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:11 AM
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Yeah I guess it just goes to show how broadly the term “red pill” has evolved into, everyone from run of the mill neocon Trumpers to anti-vaxxers and conspiracists to open racists and misogynists call themselves “redpilled” now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:58 PM
5

Aba always seemed to be the more misogynistic one to me, I can’t remember a video when Preach said something that stuck out to me but I could be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:00 PM
13

They definitely espouse some redpill ideas but never really go all the way as to not alienate their large following which has to contain a good portion of women. I wish I had more concrete examples but I haven’t watched their content in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:57 PM
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Holy shit, I’ve read some cringeworthy profiles from men and women alike but that absolutely takes the cake for the best/worst I’ve ever seen. “So you see laydeez, I’m tall and have abs and am wealthy so that gives me a right to treat you like shit!! 🤪”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:53 PM
2

Right? And it's so much easier for men to have good skin, they don't get cyclical breakouts like we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:36 PM
11

The only red pill this dude needs is Accutane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:55 PM
7

Restraining order. NOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:47 PM
2

Genuinely hopes she ends up like Rose. Honestly, I hope all women in this type of situation end up like Rose-happy, gorgeous, successful and creep-free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:50 PM
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I really hope she has a support system in her home country or is able to find one over here. Most likely he's just like the other worthless and repulsive American men who can't find wives over here or had their wives leave them for being a piece of shit, but she can't see that yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:28 PM
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If she's from Asia I guarantee he's older than her father. And I've always wondered what couples with a gap like this talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:19 PM
42

I knew they were a (probably southeast) Asian woman/American white guy couple before she mentioned it as soon as she said 22 and 50 and LDR...fuck I honestly just feel bad for her. Hopefully she wises up and dumps his creepy ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:17 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure I'd be willing to risk becoming that weird girl who came at her and her bf because of their ages. I'm already weird to some people because I can't shake how gross I find early 20's women being with men a decade or more older than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:00 AM
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16 and 22? Honey no, I hate to say it but I'm siding with him on this one. Hopefully he realized how wrong and creepy he was to talk to a 16 year old and will never do it again, or he didn't know and noped out after she told him she was 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:28 PM
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Exactly. Part of me would love to help her see the light if we got that close and in turn her relationship turned sour, but honestly, I'm 21 and I have to keep reminding myself I have my whole life ahead of me, and I'm not sure I'd be willing to spend it counseling her out of that if she hypothetically needed it. Like, if you want to date a 40+ man at 21 and think it's a great idea, that's your decision, I'm going to make my decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:46 PM
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Thankfully it would be a while before and unlikely this would even be a consideration- hanging out third wheeling with a couple is odd to me and he's apparently military, so I doubt he's even around our area much at all, she said something about flying to another state to see him soon. It's just a matter of whether I should ask her to go the next school event with me since we're both new and don't know many other people, since I'm not sure if I'd be able to hide my "ick" if it ever comes up that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:20 PM
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You are far braver than I, I could never imagine being candid about what I think about it, even though early 20's girl/10+ years older guy relationships will ALWAYS give me the creeps no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:36 PM
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I agree. I recently realized that my social anxiety is double-edged- I'm nervous about how people perceive me but I'm also nervous about what kind of people I may be inviting into my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:12 PM
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Thankfully her bf is in the military and she mentioned something about traveling to see him in another state, so I doubt I'd ever meet him unless we got close, so I think I'll definitely keep a bit of distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:05 PM
85

He's such a loser and she doesn't even realize it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:27 PM
108

This is not going to end well by any means. She needs to examine his past relationships or lack thereof, realize why they never happened or didn't work out and then RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:26 PM
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She says they met at work, I don't know what's worse-him having the same position as an 18 year old at 45 (probably retail or fast food) or him having a position of seniority over her and pursuing her despite that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:59 PM
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To me it sounded like he might have seen another woman he was dating in one of the restaurants or outside and known then he was in deep shit and needed to bail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:47 PM
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I wonder if in SK specifically the horrors of what comfort women went through in WWII is still fresh in the cultural psyche of most women, so they wouldn't dare call prostitution empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:36 AM
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My mom just recently admitted to me that my dad couldn't handle me alone for 20 minutes when I was a newborn, she'd hand me off so she could take a shower and I'd start crying and he'd have no idea how to handle it. He got through it and was allegedly better when my sister came along, but I think so many men want to be parents but can't handle equal weight in parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:23 PM
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I wonder if most of those ratings are from "nOt aLl mEn" white guys who know nothing about Korean patriarchal culture or from Korean scrotes who are mad their bullshit is getting put on blast. Probably the latter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:19 PM
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Oh man I really can't wait to live on my own. I like living at home for now, but I'll be damned if I go from my parent's house straight into living with a guy. Living alone sounds like paradise to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:16 PM
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She was extremely uncomfortable and it showed. I know I would most likely be the exact same way, and I'm not judging the way she reacted in the slightest, especially since she looks like she could be a minor, but women need to learn how to be MEANER to guys like this. "I'm in the middle of a call, do you MIND?" right off the bat, (although "I didn't say you could sit there" was a pretty good line.) I honestly believe men get off on making women uncomfortable and this is the only way I can think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:41 PM
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Yes, I'm curious about this too...this sounds like how it was a couple months ago in most places, not now, but I suppose OP could be in India or Brazil where it's still bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:51 PM
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They can lie to themselves all they want, we know that's not true and will never be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:44 PM
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I agree. I'll be building up my own life and refusing ANYTHING casual. If someone comes along then I'll consider it then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:18 PM
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Right? I'm still in college and won't graduate until I'm 23 so I feel like a 27-28 year old is just in too different a phase of life for us to have a similar lifestyle enough to make something work, I already tried dating a 22 year old in grad school when I was 19 and I should have known that would not work from the get-go. But at the same time guys my age just aren't serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:29 PM
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Yep, from am app and he had only been living in my state for a couple months for grad school. Dumb mistake on my part but I had been out of a relationship for a couple months and i felt like it was the only way I was ever going to see what was out there. Apparently he's now dating a manager I used to have which came totally out of the blue but that's another story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:55 PM
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I had a guy cancel on a first date and ghost me for what had to be a full 48 hours, I literally thought he had passed out in the street or gotten arrested, that was how MIA he was. I actually posted about it here on a throwaway before I had read the entirety of the rulebook to know I was getting played. After a full day of freaking out he messaged me that "some stuff happened" and "his life went up in flames" but he couldn't tell me what had happened. And yet my dumbass went on a date with him a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:17 PM
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I mean no offense but OP your first mistake is matching with a 28 year old at 22. I'm 21 and 27 is too old for me, with a few exceptions of course. Unfortunately I can't think of any alternatives since most 22 year old men aren't much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:08 PM
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Obesity is certainly a major factor I would assume. Unfortunately it's not an issue that only affects men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:12 PM
2

And this is precisely why any "red pilled analysis" of intersexual dynamics based on a study of dating apps will ALWAYS be highly flawed. Women of quality usually a have a broad enough social circle so that apps to meet men simply aren't a need, the ones that do use them quickly find they're degrading and a waste of time. The women that use and stay on those apps usually have a personal reason why they're there in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:42 PM
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Oh absolutely, I totally believe you can take advice at face value, and I think she's spot on about a few things. I found her last year when everything about Ellen Degeneres being a nightmare to work with was coming out and I think she was right about Ellen being a narcissist, but after this got her attention there was a HUGE exposé involving a ton of different Youtubers exposing all of her problematic traits and the things she's lied about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:09 PM
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Ugh sorry but I do not like this woman. Even if some of her advice is good, I think her real views come out when she discusses celebrities. She has an obsession with Justin Bieber and constantly disses Selena Gomez because she thinks she broke his heart, she has said things many interpreted as racist towards Beyonce and BTS, and has been predatory towards young men and told an 18 year old she dates men younger than him...not a fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:38 PM
10

Good lord I hope it's fake. What would be the motivation behind writing several posts like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:27 PM
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Reminds me of the poem the other day "He insulted me, but at least it didn't get physical. Now he shoved me, but he was drunk. At least it didn't leave a mark. At least he didn't punch me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:20 PM
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22 with three kids...mother of God. She has several children to take care of most likely before she ever learned how to be an adult herself. Also, notice how she mentioned her age and her kid's ages but not her husband's age. I would bet a serious amount of money he's AT LEAST 27 and they were either in a whirlwind relationship and got pregnant accidentally/he sabotaged her BC OR they've been together since she was a minor and he groomed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:19 PM
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That's what I thought too, he's exaggerating. And if her dogs are genuinely special needs it's certainly easy to get attached and carried away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:55 PM
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Right? He clearly has personal family issues he needs to work through, the things she did for the dogs didn't even seem very out there, if they have special needs then it's good she's that devoted to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:53 PM
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Huge sexual assault TW - apparently there was this guy I knew of who started a Twitter group chat of women to support this woman who publicly accused a politician of sexual assault, and encouraged them to open up about their own stories as SA victims, and then used that vulnerability to attempt to get close to them. So vile, especially when it was found out that women were sharing their stories of him being creepy towards them and had men defending him, but he eventually tried to apologize, wasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:15 PM
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Coming from someone who has spent a considerable amount of time in left-leaning spaces online and in real life, men are men no matter what they claim to believe, about things concerning women or otherwise. Plenty of guys would tweet nice guy bullshit in between their woke posts or would use activism as an excuse to get a girl alone or initiate a DM with her and turn it sexual as quickly as he could, boy do I have some stories to tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:09 AM
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Mia Khalifa did porn for three months at age 21 and no one will ever let her forget it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:53 PM
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That's exactly what this type of behavior is and it should be regarded in the same way imo. Women don't become valueless by sleeping around, but many certainly do so because they already feel valueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:14 AM
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THIS. Like what exactly are you getting out of it other than stroking some guy's ego and feeling like you're sticking it to purity culture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:11 AM
3

It sounds like she needs to take a step back and realize he's not the only guy in the world, far from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:49 PM
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He's so pornsick he thinks there's a woman out there that's "naturally hairless..." So a twelve year old. He wants a twelve year old, basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:47 PM
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If my bf admitted he preferred an anime sex doll to me I don't think I would even be offended, I would probably just laugh myself off the premises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:25 AM
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i'M aN oLd sOuL aNd mAtUrE fOr mY aGe aNd hE's yOuNg aT hEaRt!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:20 AM
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Also, the TRP/mgtow types always use rich, famous, attractive divorced men like Brad Pitt as an example of how "women are never satisfied" and how you can have all the riches and looks in the world and ~female nature~ will still mean you could get cheated on. Uh, no, it's that having those traits doesn't mean you can't be a terrible partner in any variety of ways, or that your relationship won't fall apart because of a million other reasons, some that will never even cross the radar of non-famou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:25 PM
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The interesting thing I've seen is how they miscategorize what FDS means when they say "high value man." They think we mean we want a 6ft+ billionaire with a perfect body and that we're superficial golddiggers who don't work on leveling ourselves up physically or personality wise to be on the same level as that type of man. However, the way I see it, being a HVM has next to nothing to do with the physical or financial. Sure, there's often correlations, and of course anyone is entitled to have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:44 PM
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Yes, Zuby is right about men who aren't covid deniers still potentially being low value but that doesn't mean he isn't a low value denier himself. Lifting alone does not a HVM make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:34 AM
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I definitely felt this way too. We were friends in high school and I just felt like I should take advantage of the opportunity to turn it in to something more. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:27 AM
52

Just realized recently my ex looks like a totally different man from 21 to almost 23, he dropped a bit of weight but didn't gain any muscle and got a buzz cut, and just that made him look 30-something. Edit: And the fact that the buzz cut revealed his balding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:25 AM
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Not a bad income if it's actually 12k a month, but when you factor in the time and money (for makeup, lighting, lingerie, toys, etc.) it takes to build up a following, the resume/skills gap if you do it full time, the 1099 anyone who runs a background check will be able to see you filed assuming you're not committing tax fraud, the potential risk of doxxing, stalking, harassment, alienation and even disownment, yeah, nothing is worth that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:39 AM
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And it's so easy to fake and exaggerate, especially sugaring. The amount of people making a significant income through sugaring, especially virtually and/or without sex must be impossibly small, even though so many girls seem to wish this lifestyle was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:22 AM
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That's about what I make per month as a cryptocurrency novice combined with PredictIt during election season, and all I do is make a decision of where to put some of my money and when to take it out. You can do literally *anything* else for $46.50 a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:17 AM
35

Texas Roadhouse? Girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:33 AM
2

she's clearly very insecure about the fact that she put a "red flag" to a lot of guys on her skin forever and that she's a single mom which is the #1 woman most of the guys she panders to say they would avoid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:30 AM
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He really thinks a low effort coffee or drinks date should be enough for her to want to go home with him the first time they meet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:58 PM
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Some men have this weird complex about "building society" despite the fact that historically, often times women weren't even allowed to do the things they think constitutes building society. When they see a woman just existing on her own terms and not participating in their martyr complex it drives them insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:53 PM
15

So proud of you!! Now you know never to ask him out first, never directly initiate. If he truly wanted to, he would be pursuing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:18 PM
10

I've never known anyone around that age with a large age gap either. The only time I've ever heard of it is when the woman is involved in the entertainment industry and wants to get ahead more easily by dating high status actor/sports star/singer or when she was groomed, point blank. The first scenario could also easily involve grooming too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:47 PM
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Watching ugly old white guys cope and seethe trying to convince themselves that only middle schoolers and "ugly" girls are into BTS and other male k-pop stars who actually take care of themselves has become one of my favorite past times lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:38 PM
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And now, even though she deleted the TikToks, it's immortalized in a Daily Fail article that's the first result when you google her name, an article she'll never be able to scrub off the internet, so all her future friends, coworkers, and significant others will know about it. Awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:30 PM
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And now since there's a Daily Mail article about it, this relationship will follow her for the rest of her life. I genuinely hope she gets out and as far away from this groomer as she can as soon as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:05 PM
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I wonder how it works for women who have a free Onlyfans. I've seen a few say that they their OF is free to subscribe, but they link their Cashapp or Amazon wishlist account so they can still capitalize off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:53 PM
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Speaking out against the sexual objectification of women with a MAGA hat clearly on display in the background. Conservative women never fail to make me laugh out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:49 PM
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It's an interesting phenomenon since it does seem like a bit of a trend. For me I'd like to think it came about completely naturally. I never was into it until one of them happened to spark my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:05 AM
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The thing is, BTS, for the most part, *is* tall, broad shouldered and masculine-the shortest member is 5'8" and the rest are mostly around 5'10" with a six pack or getting there. I think it's just cultural differences in beauty standards and in your cousins' case, peer groupthink that's common amongst girls looking for acceptance amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:00 AM
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