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Proof?
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:59 PM
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not anymore. but he used to do pickup back in the day. wrote about it extensively
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 02:26 PM
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On threesome game?
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:31 PM
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yeah I'm 5"8 and taller than most women so it's relative
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:14 PM
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If you're in clubs, you can inject physicality, look them in the eyes, isolate them to the bar or smoke pit so you can talk to them, etc.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:12 PM
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This so much. Everyone tries to make excuses but it just sounds like your friend is really good at being a man and women like men. Simple
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:01 PM
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My girl likes girls, been tryna get a 3 some for a minute. Tips?
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:43 PM
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It gets fun if you go to uni or live in a college town. Even if you don't, it's still fun haha
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:50 AM
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From Edmonton. Miss the 6ix. Went there a few times still
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:50 PM
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Which part fam?
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:12 PM
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From Canada. Can confirm women don't do that here
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:17 PM
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I didn't have a huge social media in uni, but I did okay. I could have done a lot better if I wasn't in a LTR and had the confidence to approach more women while I was in uni. I'd focus more on meeting attractive women through your class and all that jazz
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:45 PM
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Going out is the best way to learn like the comment above said. I wasted years reading theory on the internet and just getting weirder and weirder. Go out, meet people, try to move things forward every time. Write down notes. Read said notes, try new things. Have fun 😁
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:26 AM
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90/10 rule?
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:22 AM
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Yeah I found this to be the case too. Waiting around to approach heightened my A.A cause i was in my head so much. Plus time of day is important. If you go to your local uni campus at like 5pm all the girls are gone. If you go to the grocery store to early in the day, no one is there. I've also realized that as long as you're chill and not being weird, no one really gives a fuck what you're done. Approached at the same places for months, no one said shit to me
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:22 AM
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I've been approaching at my old uni campus and another one in my city for a bit. Never been called out for it. My friends chirped me a bit, but no one I didn't know. I try to vary the areas I go to on campus so ppl don't feel weird by you walking back and forth in the same area all the time.
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:19 AM
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great mindset to have
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:00 PM
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Yeah I live in a landlocked city so no beaches nearby. I'll try grocery stores and bookstores, libraries and uni and see what happens
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:30 PM
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Fair enough. What would be a better strategy for meeting people during the day?
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:24 PM
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Yeah you're right. I'm bullshiting with these questions. imma go out today and report back. ty
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:16 PM
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Appreciate the tough love g. You right, if I wanna go, I should go approach.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:00 PM
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Thanks I appreciate the feedback. I'm definitely overthinking it cause there's not a lot of places I can approach women during the day atm. I've been to uni campuses, malls, etc and there's just not a lot of women at these spots rn.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:59 PM
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Damn that's rough. Stay safe my guy
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:42 PM
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Also a follow up thought/question: I was spending a lot of time meeting women at university campuses during the day because that's all I had time for (I work 40+ hours per week now). Where do you generally go out to meet people? (I know it's a bit tougher now because of this corona virus still).
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:41 PM
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I've seen so many guys get into 30-minute conversations with girls that were responsive (but not attracted) and this not only lead to poor overall results but also a lot of frustration because they'd invest so much into one interaction, only to get flaked I've had this issue a lot. I would waste so much time just walking around because I was anxious and I would end up only talking to 2 or 3 girls. Same thing when I would go out with the boys at night. I would let my anxiety stop me from being mo…
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:38 PM
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You keep on posting this bro. Man just relax and ask her to link up.
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:02 AM
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"Girl doesn't feel too well, she has a sore throat and couldn't speak but she she still goes out of her to come to you, probably away from her friends. She doesn't speak but you just next to each other while she occasionally stares into your eyes, don't know what this means, before it gets awkward then looking away" Gotta be real with you bro, sounds like she's feeling you. I'd do what the other commenters said and make a low key move and see how she responds. No need to clog up your mental spac…
/r/seduction29/12/19 12:18 AM
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Can't speak on Corey Wayne too much. Only watched a few of his videos. As for AMS, I watched and followed almost everything he did for a year so I'll say this: - When it comes to his main talking points (being on your purpose, understanding the true nature of women, etc etc. I think he is often misunderstood.) Being on your purpose allows you to focus on something greater than yourself. This was never meant to be a substitute for getting better with women, it was meant to make you a better man. …
/r/seduction29/12/19 12:14 AM
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It’s a process, simply comes down to them not having confidence in themselves, my advice would be to ignore women in the sense that they aren’t your sole goal in life, do other things that would make you feel more whole. Always wanted to be muscular? Get in the gym. Always wanted to learn about a subject? Read a book or take a class. Always wanted to dress better? Learn style trends and make your own style. Bottom line. Women hold all the power in dating and are the gatekeepers for sex and they …
/r/seduction19/12/19 08:56 PM
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Read Mike Mehlman's blog. He talks a lot about this particular topic.
/r/seduction17/12/19 06:36 PM
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That's actually 4. 6 if you count the "one word."
/r/seduction13/12/19 08:30 AM
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[[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) - thanks man!
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:36 PM
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Lol at this still being post worthy in 2019. The only other topic more beat to death in these communities is indirect vs. direct. So goofy.
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:19 PM
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never put myself out there. That's your first issue. Change starts once we put ourselves in the position to be changed. ​ The bad news is that I have ZERO game at all. I am starting from the lowest depths you can imagine ​ Of course. When you've never done something before, it will be completely foreign to you. I am awkward, timid, and weird. I have virtually no hobbies or strong interests. I don’t feel comfortable being explicitly sexual. I’m nerdy. I have a bit of a nasally voice. I failed my …
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:11 PM
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When we get right down to it, not a lot needs to be developed This is such an underrated comment. So many of us set the bar so fucking high we forget that half of the battle is just saying hi. Women don't require much: - Eliminate any weird behaviours, beliefs, or oddities that could mess up your vibe - Learn how to be normal - Use a little "outer game" to move things forward Viola!
/r/seduction03/12/19 03:50 AM
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Fellow black man from Canada here. I used to exclusively pull up on black women only, had some success that way but I realized that I was significantly limiting myself in terms of the women I wanted to meet. So, I started pulling up on white women, hispanic women, asian women, east indian women, etc etc and it's been bless ever since. To be honest bro, I get you. It was tough at first, and there are still people who make these silly ass comments like "you look like the type of guy who likes whit…
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:50 PM
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I took a bootcamp with a coach and he pulled some fine girls. But he was also pretty attractive and relatively normal, so that probably helped as well. I wouldn't buy too much into infield as it's usually just a snippet of what actually goes on during the day or night. Pull up if you can, but be realistic about what you can achieve. Most coaches who are actually decent have over 10, 000 approaches, but have only slept with a few hundred girls. The reward to effort ratio is low. If anything, this…
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:27 PM
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Abundance can come from either actually having it (i.e. women and money for example) and realizing that you're not in scarcity. Or it can come from having so many rejections that you just become unphased by it and let your real self come through (the authentic, self-developed you, not the caricature you put out). And by doing that, you'll end up getting abundance anyways. Rejection is part of the journey. Don't let ANYBODY tell you otherwise.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:25 PM
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I have very good looking friends who attract a decent amount of attention from women at my university campus. I understand where you're coming from and I don't like the idea that PUAs like to say that looks don't matter or that looks don't play a part in attraction. Completely untrue. With that being said though, don't use it as a self-fulfilling prophecy to not work on the things within your control. You're not 6'3 Can't grow a beard Don't have a chiseled jaw etc etc. ...Cool. Work on the thing…
/r/seduction17/11/19 12:24 AM
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Naw there's so many up and coming guys: Karisma King, Coach Kyle, Avery Hayden, John Anthony Lifestyle, etc etc. There will always be guys talking about dating and pickup advice. Focus on taking the best from these guys and making yourself into a better man.
/r/seduction15/11/19 03:51 AM
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True. Context is so important. I think a lot of coaches talk about "be exciting!" "be engaging!" "don't ask interview questions!" but they very rarely talk about being relatable. I don't mean someone who they "have things in common with" but someone who is the type of guy they could see themselves dating. And one of the ways to be that guy is to learn how to be normal. Sometimes a couple of "boring" or "mundane" questions is fine. I've gotten my fair share of girls by asking boring ass questions…
/r/seduction14/11/19 05:13 PM
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You're dope. Love this comment. I wish I ran into more women who kept this open minded perspective. Would definitely make meeting them a lot easier.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:28 AM
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"I simply can't live with the regret of not saying something" - This. So many times I bitched out and the regret of not pulling up was so much worse than the temporary awkwardness that may have come from a not so good interaction. If worse comes to worse, she'll politely excuse yourself or you can politely excuse yourself and the ball keeps on rolling. A little awkwardness never got anyone killed. There will be lulls in conversation and moments where things get quiet. Women can handle it, I'm su…
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:23 AM
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"He seemed normal" - Such an understatement how important this is. A lot of the reasons why men don't have much success, especially in these communities, is that they don't learn how to be normal and relatable. They learn "tips" and "tricks" which work, but they don't balance that out by being normal (which is what women need a lot of times) so they end up freaking the girl out, being weird and awkward, and showcasing a bunch of red flags that will get you rejected so fast it'll make your head s…
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:19 AM
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Solid point. There were a lot of good things in that movie... and a lot of bad things as well, haha. I think my favorite thing was that Hitch actually gave the guys a makeover, and basically told them in so many words to get their shit together. Then he got them to go out and interact with the women they wanted. Two simple things that could have an effect on most guys results.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:14 AM
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How do you, or any other other girl, expect a guy to find you interesting, kind, loveable, and special if he never meets you in the first place? " How do you, or any other other girl, expect a guy to find you interesting, kind, loveable, and special if he never meets you in the first place?" This. It's hard enough to meet people as an adult, especially if you didn't develop those skills growing up. I like the points the moderator made... a lot of men don't think critically about how they're appr…
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:12 AM
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Yes. Listen, women can date and fuck WHOEVER they want. But, and here's the but that most people seem to ignore, MEN can choose to spend their time with WHOEVER they want. Don't let anyone guilt you into staying friends with someone you don't want to be friends with. If she ain't fucking with you, keep it moving. There's way too many women in the world for all that jazz. Here... peep this: https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-get-out-of-the-friendzone-my-6-month-experiment/ It'll probably change y…
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:29 PM
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I like how this addresses the myth of why 'being alpha' won't always get you shordies. This community harps and harps on being alpha so much (I get why they do) but they forget about what it is about being Alpha that makes you successful. #blessedarticlestill
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:13 PM
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Amen :)
/r/seduction20/08/18 10:13 PM
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Being internally validated has been one of my sticking points for years
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:53 PM
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Amen on the excuses part.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:47 PM
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Seduce them. Trying to get a few plates this year.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:00 AM
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Agreed. But I'm glad I made the mistake now (I'm only 22) as opposed to continue believing all the b.s. about relationships and the disney b.s. that we're fed growing up.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:51 AM
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Facts. Ty fam.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:50 AM
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Word. Thank you for your advice! I really do appreciate it and I will devour the sidebar and start making the appropriate adjustments. But... I do have one question though. Even though I'm done with her, my parents told me today that my ex had burned her face and her chest. Should I contact her and send her my well wishes or leave it?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:50 AM
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