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"30 Days of Discipline" by Victor Pride Exactly what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:01 PM
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Pop quiz: balding, short ginger versus tall, better looking guy that is lording the club, running the party, with his posters on the wall and has an afterparty upstairs ... who wins? Also this ... kinda different subject but still very related if you watch closely
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 12:42 PM
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Intermittent fasting. There are many ways of IF-ing but for various reasons (growth hormone, insulin resistance) I've picked the 'skip the breakfast' route. Hold as long long as you can, preferably till 2 p.m. and at least until 12 o'clock. You're not allowed to eat anything except black coffee (will not trigger insulin spike and will successfully kill your appetite and make it manageable) and of course water - lots of it. Over a year after making it a habit and without changing any other parame…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:38 PM
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"I have a headache", "I'm really tired", "Not tonight" over and over and over again ... from my wife obviously, after 10ish years of marriage. Back in my youth days I've always heard of this happening to many married guys - my rough guess back then would be probably 1/3 or something, little did I know it was close to 100%. Thought that would never happen to me, my wife was different, we're soulmates. In the end I only lasted a little longer than the average, but that was it: a bit more ride befo…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:05 PM
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I'll just link this old classic by Victor Pride: The Only Piece of Advice You Will Ever Need to Pick Up and Attract Women and Keep Them Vying For Your Love, Attention and Affection
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:46 PM
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This is exactly how I've got my first anal ever from wife ... who "hated it", never done it before and didn't even want to discuss about it.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:15 PM
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"Did I really have to fucking do that?", "Am I that desperate?" & "Would insert one of my strong, male role models have done that, no way!" If you have to ask yourself these questions, that's a strong argument for no. No shame in rejecting subpar pussy. However .... Thus, I would have no longer been a virgin. ... since this is the issue, I'd say go for it and get that pressure out of your system. Speaking from personal experience. I too had a subpar pussy for my first, but it was well worth it. …
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:15 AM
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Let's get this out first: women use covert language, men use overt - the truthiest truth I've ever learned after finding out TRP/Manosphere/PUA ... but what does this really mean? Here's an example: your gf comes to you in new/old jeans, stands in front of you, turns you her back and asks "Do these pants make my butt look big?" Do you think "No, it looks great!!" is a good answer? It's bad. What about the opposite "Ugh, don't wear that jeans, doesn't fit you"? It's even worse. Now, let's Sherloc…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:16 AM
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It's probably over/unsalvageable but if you want to at least give yourself some chance, do this: Have an affair and make sure she finds out about it. Arrange the confrontation so that it does not happen at your place. When she confronts you, don’t get defensive. Don’t speak at all. Let her vent. Let her punch you in the chest and scream obscenities. When she takes a breather, tell her she’s never looked more beautiful and you will never stop loving her. Then without waiting for her response calm…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:57 AM
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...but if anyone has ever strengthened frame during a relationship, I'd love to hear your story How about marriage? Even more hardcore. Two RP classics immediately come to mind, two guys that rose from the bottom by applying RP/Game principles: Dave from Hawaii The long hard road out of hell
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:54 AM
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Imagine a girl sitting at the table to eat. What do you conclude? - She's hungry. See, that's simple. Imagine a girl late at night turning off the light and going to bed. What do you conclude? - She's tired. See, that's simple. Imagine a girl showing little to no interest and taking hours to reply. What do you conclude? Maybe she's tired Maybe something happened to her <whatever> and she can't reply Maybe she lost/fortgot the phone somewhere Maybe aliens planted a self­replicating nano­probe in …
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:49 PM
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Yea, he probably meant to say "Women talk with actions" or something like that, but for some reason went with "body language".
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:12 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Effortlessly-Attract-Women-Want/dp/0062089781
/r/askTRP27/03/17 06:11 AM
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Power can come in many shapes. It's hard to pinpoint what exactly is the one thing that makes you alpha. Even if the guy is tall, has looks and is alpha of the pack in his social circle, that still doesn't mean he can't slip just a little in his LTR (impossible to have long term relationship without any/minimal beta game) - and this one minus among all other pluses is sometimes all it takes to lose her to a random sigma passing by. Granted, that takes some bad luck to actually happen, but I'm su…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:27 PM
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Power in any shape or form is what we here call "Alpha". The very essence. The article from what used to be one of the best manosphere blogs (now defunct, but saved by "web archive"), On February 21, 2012 by Shark: The question had recently chanced upon me; how do we define the “Alpha Male?” It has never come up before, but I can’t say I’m surprised. The concept is taken for granted and given a certain degree of flexibility. We hear the term “Alpha Male” and we mechanically imagine a prototype f…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:09 PM
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This ... is sidebar worthy!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:39 PM
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That's what too much CC does to a girl, similar to what too much porn does to a guy: over time your dopamine receptors get burned (desensitized), then you get bored of "normal" porn and keep looking for harder and sicker variants to keep the dopamine flowing. I've read quite a few stories on yourbrainonporn from guys thinking they were turning gay i.e. straight guys trapped in vicious PMO cycle needed gay porn to get off (and turned back to normal after quitting). In other words: way too many di…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 12:34 AM
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All it took was the crisis. That would be my hope and prayer for you and your friends. The crisis forces a choice. Change or die. I'm glad I'm changing. The ultimate motivator. Some also call it the phoenix effect or, as in this TNations classic: Phoenix Theory ... I've been helping people with their training, nutrition, and supplement plans over 15 years now. The pattern of success is clear. Regardless of their primary physique goal – rapid fat loss or massive muscle gain – those who ultimately…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 09:21 AM
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Your gut instinct is right. There are absolutely deeper connotations to this! Women's native language is covert (ours is overt). So, when she says "my friend thinks you're hot" - might be true that her friend really said that (I'm not even talking about preselection), but it almost always means that she thinks you're hot. That's how you translate all the "someone thinks you're ...". It is also the smoothest way to give her a hint without overtly telling her that you find her sexy or cute or what…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:33 PM
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Here's something to cheer you up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA Now get your depressed ass to the gym!
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:52 PM
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Rollo has an excellent article with all the answers you need: GIRL’S NIGHT OUT
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:28 AM
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Attention whoring, plain and simple. Ever seen a woman suffering in silence without letting anyone know? Me neither. Once they obtain their Victim Cardtm , their dream is to make it to (inter)national news. Just imagine ... all this attention ... from everyone ... you're so special at that moment ... <Homer Simpson's voice> mmmmmmm The other reason being manipulation, but that's obvious.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 06:01 PM
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Don't forget that phytoestrogens are the lesser of two evils. Lesser because you can control it - you can choose what you eat. The real evil are xenoestrogens and there's nothing you can do about it. It's the price we pay for living in a modern world. And these are everywhere: in your toothpaste, soap, shampoo, food ('manly' meat) treated with hormones ... including contact with anything made of plastic (xenoestrogens can be absorbed through skin). Can you imagine your modern life without anythi…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:48 PM
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Then, the other half of the internet is saying that these foods are gonna flood you with estrogens and give you manboobs if you eat them every day ... ... and dad bod and soften your voice and shrink your balls and make you lose your muscle and make you want to watch 500 Days of Summer and make you all emotional. I'm only half joking. This is correct. I'll skip all the scientific language and unnecessary complicate explanation and lay it down in ELI5 form: we (men) need testosterone as much as h…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:50 PM
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It sounds weird but I think I looked at the ground or below the horizon my whole life. Same here. And then, some years ago, I learned about body language and eye contact, the way it internally affects you and how others perceive you. Since I would regularly take a 30ish min walks from home to work and back I decided to use that time to practice: stand tall, don't slouch and don't look down i.e. keep your gaze at or above the horizon level. While standing tall wasn't that hard (other than constan…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:31 AM
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Copy pasting from past thread - I recommended 30 Days of Discipline and someone asked me if I have done it myself and how it went - my honest reply: Sort of. FWIW I'm 40yo, married, 2 kids. From 12 things he listed: 1) no snacking, max 3 meals - I did even better, went the intermittent fasting route (skipping breakfast) and made it a habit. 2) wake up early 5am - it was 7am for me (note that Victor mentioned in one podcast that he also wakes up at 7). That was a compromise in order to get more t…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:35 PM
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Funny thing is you've just described typical marriage. My take on it is that she's a decent girl, not spoiled by feminism crap or something but she's still a woman (in other words: AWALT). Your order of things is upside down: the first problem is just a consequence of the second problem, which is THE PROBLEM ... She is constantly reminding me not to forget to do this or that or to bring a,b,c with me. standard shit testing It feels like she is mothering me shit testing 101 If i forgot to do some…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:52 AM
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IRON AND THE SOUL by Henry Rollins I believe that the definition of definition is reinvention. To not be like your parents. To not be like your friends. To be yourself. Completely. When I was young I had no sense of myself. All I was, was a product of all the fear and humiliation I suffered. Fear of my parents. The humiliation of teachers calling me "garbage can" and telling me I'd be mowing lawns for a living. And the very real terror of my fellow students. I was threatened and beaten up for th…
/r/becomeaman26/12/16 10:50 AM
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What makes you think she's a cock tease (from Urban Dictionary: a girl that leads a guy to believe that she's going to have sex with him, then doesn't) instead of super standard case of slut throwing herself at you? The way you described it - she wants the D. my gut instinct is telling me that this slut is just looking for attention and validation And yet she's been covertly (women's native language) placing herself in your proximity, making a point to make physical contact in all ways imaginabl…
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:27 AM
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Learn from it! How's that for an idea. The reason women are hitting on you is that they see your SMV aprox. 1.5-2 points above her. If it's only between 0 and +1 then they'll be subtle (and shit test a lot) but not so proactive. If you are way above (3+) they'll be scared and stay away. And of course if you're perceived to be bellow her you have no chance in hell. So if she's SMV 4.5 then your own SMV is about 6. Disappointed? So was I when I noticed that only plane Janes were giving me way too …
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:13 PM
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How to Create the Illusion of Wide Shoulders (pdf)
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:23 AM
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Yes, it takes time for your brain to accept the affirmations. It takes a lot of 'bombarding your brain' till the (good) new program erases the (shitty) old one. If you read the forums especially man's journals section, you'll notice that it's common to face resistance and go through ... sometimes wild, depending on subliminal ... emotional turmoils, but everyone is different. But I digress. Anyways, if you do it like one hour a day, you're wasting time. Shannon (the author) suggests you play it …
/r/becomeaman17/12/16 01:43 PM
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Gym membership should be your priority #1 for many reasons. Even if you don't have time/money you can always do calisthenics, just do something with your body. Not only will you feel better just from physical exercise, but also heavy lifting is the best way to raise your testosterone levels which will change you in more ways than one. Speaking of which - google anything related to boosting your T levels. Learn the importance of diet (cholesterol!) and sleep. Then you can google "Amy Cuddy TED ta…
/r/becomeaman17/12/16 10:23 AM
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Yea it's a shit test. But I would do the same as you did. If she can write a book about recent abusive ex, she can easily play the rape card the moment you make a single beta slip and regret kicks in. Your gut instinct was right for screaming "DANGER!" Don't stick your dick in crazy. Risk/reward ratio is atrocious.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 09:37 AM
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Can confirm - this is how I've got my first quick course introduction to RP. Athol eventually distanced himself from core RP, most likely for business reasons, but MMSL is IMO the goto book for any freshly unplugged marred/LTR guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:56 AM
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Skipping breakfast for 2 years now. This, combined with exercising and taking little extra care of what I eat (no more sugar in coffee, clean eating, etc.) helped me to slowly lose 50lbs of excess weight. Took me almost full year to go from borderline obese to what I'd call 'normal', but the thing is it came naturally, on it's own, the moment I developed a habit. There were no shocks or struggling. Pro tip: when hungry in the morning - black coffee to the rescue. Pure black coffee I must add, no…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 09:26 AM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/askTRP03/12/16 08:04 PM
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It's been said before on these boards: what really makes a difference is what "Good Looking Loser" calls Swag Factor. Eye contact, body language, speaking loud or whatever you've seen are all important but mean nothing without context - overall swag. (creepers have exceptional eye contact game for example) To see it in action I reccomend you watch this: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117108/ (big props to Michael Keaton) Just observe the difference between Clone1 and Clone2 and therein lies your a…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:22 AM
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Now, I have the code to her phone (have not looked at it yet) so I am able to verify Are you able to read messages she deleted the moment they were received/sent? And is her phone the only possible line of communication? If no, then you can't verify shit. She rationalized by saying that she wasn't sure if we were going to get serious and that she wouldn't just cut people off unless she knows for sure I LOL'd at this part. Hamsters are so amusing. Let me tell you something: when girl is really in…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:14 PM
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It's more about breathing and projecting your voice. Releasing the body tension, which consequentially affects the self confidence. I'd guess it'll help even if only the volume is issue, at least it's how affected me: not only deeper voice (I've had a feeling that it dropped down by almost full octave), but also I was feeling way more relaxed at spoke more freely.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 02:48 PM
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I've made a thread 2 years ago: http://archive.is/V1jtx Works wonders.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 02:15 PM
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Neo: Why do my eyes hurt? Morpheus: You’ve never used them before. Yea, it's perfectly normal. That's what we call "the anger phase". We've all been through that and it's pretty much unavoidable. In time it'll pass. You'll learn to accept the truth for what it is. Word of a warning: now that you're boiling inside, avoid getting into a crusade verbal war with nonbelievers (you'll feel the urge). They are not ready and it'll bite you in the ass. Just let it cool off.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 05:58 PM
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It's man's job to initiate. We are active, they are passive. That's the natural order of things. If she's DTF the moment you initiate, I don't see a problem. Also, women being naturally covert (the opposite of our overt) communicators sometimes initiate without you even noticing - the famous "Does my ass look big in this dress" being an example. Chances are she does initiate, but you're missing clues (I know I did).
/r/askMRP06/11/16 09:38 AM
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As for Method Acting howto - google it. I don't have any good link about the technique. I've found quite a few variations and it's for some reason complicated - at times I was having feeling that everyone was beating around the bush, when all I wanted was "step 1 - do this; step 2 - do that". As for MA as a tool for changing/reprogramming yourself ... there was once in manosphere Shark and his blog IMO was one of the best. He influenced me, more than anyone else. It was Shark who introduced me t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:42 AM
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It's quite close (a bit simplified).
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:43 PM
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Not much to conclude from your story. Yea, over here we praise gut instinct, but on the other hand this could easily end up being just you hamstering. Let's work with what we have - and only one constructive idea comes to mind: ovulation week i.e. what happens between days 10 and 16. So, do you have sex during ovulation? What kind of sex? Does she want it rough, even initiates herself? Does she avoid PIV during ovulation? Does she trick you into handjob (even blowjob) to avoid PIV? (just in case…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 10:18 AM
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/u/Archwinger said it the best. However, if you still want to deal with mega bitches (personal challenge or something), the short answer is: asshole to the max. Heartiste wrote a lot about it. Here's one article, but search his blog for more.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:32 PM
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/r/DarkEnlightenment
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:24 PM
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Yes. And "light intensity cardio lowers testosterone" (google it). High intensity cardio on the other side is great. Not only for more T but it's also better for muscle building (image-google "sprinters" and "marathon runners") and it's more efficient way to burn fat. So, sprints - yes please, jogging - no way. @OP be able to jackhammer bang my GF without getting worn out kettlebell swings
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:53 AM
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Yep, recent. Technically they are not censoring content, but monetizing on 'controversial' content. YT is pushing s-a-f-e space agenda, much to SJWs delight. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCRJvXMixZY
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:48 AM
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So are you saying I am doing something right? Your words: ... beautiful (and a model) ... great qualities (anti-feminist, all about my mission, submissive to me/God/her family, feminine) ... So, you get to fuck submissive feminine beauty and the other guy gets to read her electronic words and watch pixels - sounds quite right to me. Would you like to swap with him? I know he would. OTOH if you expect the model, addicted to validation - essential part of her job, to be housewife, I'd say you're d…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:31 PM
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It is less shitty. She's the same slut but there's a difference between talking behind someone's back (implying some degree of fear to tell the same in-yo-face) and laughing in someone's face.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:57 AM
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Do this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvBKC_8TTao
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:40 AM
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I have this gem: one of the best Manosphere blogs, but now defunct. Luckily there's web archive. I'd put Shark in the top "Heartiste/Rollo" category. He was a big proponent of method acting as a way to re-build yourself ... IIRC the post was called "Carpe Diem", but read everything, it's a RP goldmine. http://web.archive.org/web/20150122231513/http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:32 AM
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That is by far the most important RP book you should read and absorb. If TRP ever becomes a religion, then Book of Pook will be it's Bible.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:27 AM
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And do it hard core style - google "method acting" and learn what/how.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:04 AM
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You know the golden rule about what they say - what they do dichotomy. she very passionately kissed me throughout and made soft moans and appeared to be enjoying it ... ...normally she would stop me if I was doing something she didn't like and yet she didn't. She most definitely liked it from your description. So, you caught her a little of guard (did way better then expected) and her comment is subconscious shit test - which pretty much fires automatically when you act more alpha then perceived…
/r/askMRP04/08/16 05:58 PM
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Probably the most important factor regarding everything RP related. To remind/aware: average male T levels are dropping at a rate of about 1% per year. For decades. To put it simply: our grandfathers had about 2x more T than us. If you look at any modern phenomenon (that we typically discuss here) with T levels in mind, everything makes sense. Feminism? Men become weaker and softer - women are just stepping through wide opened door. Less sex? With lower and lower levels of sexual hormone, what e…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:23 PM
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EXPERTS who dated women like these....please comment and explain. Here's one amusing FR about girl like this: http://archive.is/uzYni Granted, not every 'saving virginity' girl is exactly like that, but the point is: she's not that much attracted to you it's most likely a shit test/beta bait (the other possibility is: genuine crazy) red flags - you know what they say about sticking dick in crazy not worth it
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:13 AM
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This! Short, no BS, straight to the point manual. Done it before, will do again. Highly recommended. And another one worth reading (no personal experience yet): Gorilla Mindset by Mike Cernovich.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:40 PM
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Pretty sure it's a typo: he is 35 and she is 56 Alright alright, I'm joking but ... wow, the dude is 56? That money he's spending on fitness is one hell of an investment.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/08/16 03:58 PM
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Aside from already mentioned (Rollo, Heartiste, Pook, etc.), search web archive for Shark - Solve my girl problems (now defunct blog). One of the best manosphere bloggers at the time.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:29 PM
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'Heartbroken' Or something along the lines, but the main message you're sending her must be: "I don't take your question seriously". If you say yes or no, you'll fail. That's why this type of test is so sophisticated. Shark, owner of now defunct 'Solve my girl problems' blog, called this specific test "probing for beta blood". Sometimes it happens even after sex ("are you disappointed I left so early").
/r/askMRP31/07/16 05:29 PM
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Yes, of course. Only we don't call it 'oneitis' but 'alpha widowhood'. Extreme example: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/five-minutes-of-alpha-fifty-years-of-pining/
/r/askTRP29/07/16 08:13 PM
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I'll bring you the bad news: The Number One Dead Giveaway That Your Wife Is About To Cheat If you hear from your woman “I have a headache” any time during her peak fertility, she has either cheated on you, is thinking about cheating on you, or is getting sufficiently turned off by your burgeoning betaness that cheating will soon become an option in the calculation of her moral universe. You should examine that possibility.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 09:04 AM
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Get your Testosterone checked. Your description fits perfectly into Low T syndrome (all too common these days). Or better yet, follow some 'boost T naturally' advice like this and see what happens.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:34 PM
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It's all about the Squinch! It's all about the Jaw! These two made a world of difference and upon learning and testing 'photo hacks' I went from bland/stoner-looking to great looking in every photo ever since.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:05 PM
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Same here. Sometimes it's uncommon words (google dictionary plugin that immediately pops definition upon double click selecting word comes in handy) and sometimes it's just ... I dunno, style of writhing ... the way he forms sentences. It's hard to put finger on something specific, but reading his blog takes more mental focus than reading other's, or posts here. I guess his writing style has changed over time cause old blog posts are easier to digest compared to newer stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 09:31 AM
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Just watch first 5-10min of Part 1. Part 2 is about applying the theory to politics and Part 3 explains perfectly modern western world, feminism, SJWs, rampant promiscuity etc.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:34 PM
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Why do people feel the need to glorify failure? Why is it accepted and even, to an extent, encouraged to be fat? If you want to dig really deep, why it all makes sense (and it does) search for "r/K selection theory". If you have some time (more than 3 hours) to spend and get enlightened watch these: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 The answer to your question is in Part 3 - you can skip first two, but it's well worth it.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:43 PM
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I'm not arguing that they are heavily dependent on people around them. They are just example (in context of OP) of how to make the most from limited resources. They DID adapt to their surroundings surprisingly well. If the mentality ever changes then yes, they're fucked. But you could same the same for RP aware men (and open about it, or doxed) in more and more radical feminist/sjw society - Roosh being the example.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:30 PM
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Shark, one of the best Manosphere bloggers, on his now defunct blog made the case that The most important trait of an Alpha Male – biologically speaking, is his adaptability. He who adapts to his surroundings, is most likely to survive. Can you imagine yourself accomplishing the same without arms and legs? I couldn't even imagine Brad Pitt making it with that handicap. These guys succeeded against all odds and they do provide value (motivation) to others, which sets them apart from similarly cri…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:15 PM
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1) Sean Stephenson https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/05/alpha-male-of-the-month-4/ https://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/mindiesean.jpg?w=500 2) Nick Vujicic http://viralchronics.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/Nick-Vujicic-and-his-Lovely-Family.png If these two guys can be alpha (as fuck) and have pretty wives, so can you ... so can anybody. Keep improving, never stop. You're already reaping some early rewards and now it's time to work even harder. To quote Tyler Durden: "We gotta …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:24 PM
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Keep educating the masses OP. Lots of of BRO science about this mystical 'squirting' phenomenon. And yes, it's piss. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25545022
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 01:10 PM
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Women only service? What could possibly go wrong
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:09 AM
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That's the catch. You can't change yourself until you step outside of your comfort zone. Just like you can't progress if you never add extra weight to the bar or at least add an extra rep or two. Maybe your problem is just determination to embrace the pain. Sooner or later you'll have to look in the mirror and say to yourself "I know it will be unpleasant but I will do it anyway". Then you'll start making some new habits. Then after some time of struggling you'll notice evident change. And final…
/r/becomeaman09/04/16 12:25 PM
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You need a hard reset. https://boldanddetermined.com/30-days-of-discipline/ Get the book and do it.
/r/becomeaman09/04/16 09:16 AM
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When you figure out what makes a woman happy, reward her with it, when she earns it. But not all the time. Once in awhile, when she does a good thing for you, piss on her anyway. This is so Black-Knight-powerful move that most people don't realize it. This is the same mechanism that makes compulsive gamblers compulsive. Think about obsessive gamblers, the kind that will sink deep into depth, steal from family, etc. How did they get hooked? By randomness of the reward and the dopamine rush that g…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:29 PM
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Too cold? Lets see ... I say "no, I'm heading to the gym, not coming back in(deer'd that I see)" ... is way too warm for my taste I say "fuck off bitch, go get it yourself" ... IS too cold I say "no" ... is just about right I smirk and say "I'm pretty sure you can handle it yourself ... and it's good for your glutes too" ... is even better. As for ... Her: You really are a jerk. http://media.giphy.com/media/D6WuLOKOpR2fK/giphy.gif Good! You're doing something right. Finally ... Doing something n…
/r/askMRP05/04/16 10:47 AM
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Confidence Overconfidence https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/01/18/overconfidence-is-the-heart-of-game/
/r/askTRP03/04/16 06:23 PM
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Kettlebell swings
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:29 PM
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So, we have a girl ... excited to buy revealing dresses ... why? 1) So her granny can be proud of her demure granddaughter 2) to get attention from guys girls nights out ... why? 1) to make business connections 2) to meet guys coming there specifically to pick up girls, all under the mask of 'just us girls having some fun' (bonus: no BF around to cockblock) lots of free drinks from guys ... why? 1) they were just trying to buy their way into her pants and she was confused 2) shameless cold blood…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:41 PM
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Travelling girl is one huge certified-slut stamp. There's a world of difference between girls dreaming about going to exoctic locations (they all do) and those who actually do it often. The messages you've found fit perfectly into the picture. Almost like a cliche. It is as bad as you think it is. You can hamster it all you want, you can hope to turn the hoe into a housewife, but in the end - you know what will happen. So, "getting progressively serious" is totally out of the question. She is no…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:22 AM
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http://www.lukeford.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/ga13.jpg http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-T-zcRTHntBk/VCoPpaov_EI/AAAAAAAAa4A/P7MVLg78DPw/s400/Samra%2BKesinovic.png https://i.imgur.com/T1opfHv.png https://i.imgur.com/6ytj6KD.jpg "Soul-less eyes" would be the shortest description.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:22 PM
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What makes them "Red Pill"? They know and accept the same truths we preach here. No sugarcoating. What do they want? Unlike us guys here - a very heterogenous group where some want just to spin plates and never ever marry, some want to spin plates on the double and marry later (enter 40s), some are already married for years and just want it to work well ... they have one goal: old style 1950s marriage (aka "Marriage 1.0") where husband is the leader ("Captain/First Officer" dynamic) of a functio…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 11:56 AM
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Yes. Read this
/r/askTRP27/03/16 08:48 AM
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What you think she likes: http://i.imgur.com/TOZlpeA.jpg What she really likes: http://i.imgur.com/wtE9tbc.jpg And many guys who actually did hit the gym (hard) and packed some muscles will tell you the same story ... here's the funny one - this one's from MMSL forum; thread was about how to get your wife to give you BJs: I used to get BJ's like while driving down the freeway from my wife when we were young and crazy and I was in decent shape. I never got wildly out of shape, but that stopped fo…
/r/askMRP20/03/16 09:51 AM
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I know you're not supposed to talk about RP, but I desperately want to let her assistant in on it. Just don't. It'll come back and bite you in the ass. Many guys here have tried to unplug those who didn't ask to be unplugged and later regretted it. As for Office Game, Ian Ironwood has some good articles worth studying: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/10/office-game-primer.html http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/10/office-game-primer-part-2.html http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/201…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 11:43 AM
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Because power shifts to man. And that freaks them out. You know what makes compulsive gamblers compulsive? Dopamine rush when they suddenly win. This is how they get hooked. But this is not the point. My real point is: you know who the luckiest roulette players are? Those who sit at the table for the first time and lose. Then they try again and lose. No dopamine. And one last time and once again they lose. And they say 'fuck this' and never play again. Those are THE LUCKIEST roulette players. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 01:35 AM
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Came here to say this (I'm Serbian). Although she'll laugh either way.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:00 PM
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/u/[deleted] nailed it and there's nothing else to say about it. Just wanted to say this, regarding ... I did note the diverging SMV years ago, but as god is my witness, I never thought this guy would ever cheat on her. As a guy who has never ever cheated any girlfriend (nor wife), who was repulsed by the idea, who lived by his own code of honor and proud of it ... all I can say is that we all have our limits. Some have longer fuse, some shorter, but no one's fuse is unlimited. To some extent I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 02:39 PM
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You should study NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). They are the masters of reframing and where this excellent OPs technique originates from. Can't point to single best source, but I'd start with simple google "nlp reframing". And any other nlp tool, for that matter, they have many goodies, both for influencing self and others (manipulation).
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:56 AM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.rs/
/r/becomeaman02/03/16 12:21 PM
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Should be #1 on the list.
/r/becomeaman02/03/16 12:19 PM
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To me all my life I come to the realization that if given the right situation with the right person , 99 percent of women will cheat no questions asked And this is exactly the reason why red pill women (whether naturally red pill or just properly raised or even thought on RPW subreddit) avoid situations that might get them in tough spots to have to fight their temptations to cheat. If you want to stop drinking, one of the worst possible ideas is to go to the bar with your old drinking buddies. E…
/r/askMRP27/02/16 11:55 PM
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This needs more upvote. It's not that she's planning to fuck Chad as soon as the plane lands - it's about AWALT being slave to her feelings at the moment. Google "marshmallow test" to see what she'll be through, with only difference that instead of yummy marshmallow there will be yummy Chad's cock. Going alone is problem #1, money is problem #2.
/r/askMRP27/02/16 03:24 PM
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Heartiste The rational male Also, now defunct, but still can be found in web archive or compilations some guys made: Solve my girl problems
/r/becomeaman22/02/16 10:51 PM
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Svaka cast! (translation of the above: "well done")
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:15 PM
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Also Maddox: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BDj_bN0L8XM
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:01 AM
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A plate always tries to LTR trap you into a commitment. It's just a matter of time - usually takes few months before the inevitable "where is this going". If he's getting his dick wet (well, one way or another) without commitment, without promising anything and being upfront about it - she's a plate. I'll agree that it's not ideal, just BJ and no real sex, but it's still on the chad/plate spectrum - the opposite would be attention whore/orbiter dynamic, which is clearly not the case. @OP: My gue…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 11:54 AM
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I've watched my 10yo daughter shit test my wife. Much to my surprise and amusement the wife was failing hard, totally into daughter's frame, she was her bitch. The look on daughter's face (after wife eventually snapped and started screaming and cursing) was mix of triumph and self amusement with a touch of evil. It all came out of nowhere, there was no obvious reason for "frame battles". And I do consider my daughter well raised, with healthy values and good manners ... at least that's what othe…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:40 PM
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If you get over it (the first time), what message do you send? And does it really matter if it's only 1 extra cock or 2, 3 ... ? There's absolutely no way to get out of that paradox: if you forgive her, you're beta bitch with no other options <---> hypergamy is hardwired to resent beta bitches. Think of it as her getting exposed to radiation from nuclear power plant. From that point on, she's permanently contaminated. Or think of it as getting cancer on certain part of your body: the only way to…
/r/askMRP11/01/16 03:21 AM
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Is there any situation in which a wife who cheated once should not be dumped? No. Is there any situation in which a wife who cheated twice should not be dumped? HELL NO!
/r/askMRP10/01/16 09:55 AM
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Don't say it twice
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 05:15 PM
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Be at a healthy bodyfat level Excercise (Particularly high intensity exercise and weight training) Lower stress levels Cut out sugar and eat healthy fats and proteins Get enough Zinc and Vitamin D (especially important in winter months) Intermittent fasting (anecdotal) Don't forget the most important part: SLEEP, min 8 hours. T is produced while you sleep (http://www.anabolicmen.com/sleep-testosterone/) I hear of guys who orgasm thrice daily and I've only done that once. Is it possible to achiev…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:29 AM
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Actually Milos Obilic disagrees with you.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:50 AM
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Rasputin supposedly had a huge dick, but that doesn't explain how he managed to screw half of the Russian aristocracy. He most likely was screwing the Czar's wife, one of her daughters the was a photo of him surrounded by Russian aristocratic women fawning over him. The guy had poor personal hygiene, poor taste in clothes, the unkept beard and hairstyle isn't what attracted women. The only logical conclusion: he was born with mad testosterone levels, probably in the 2k range. Time to quote Pook …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:35 AM
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Shout-out to Shark and his now defunct blog "Solve my girl problems" (thankfully there's web archive) and his definition of "Alpha": https://web.archive.org/web/20140819073952/http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2012/02/alpha/ Full article: ALPHA On February 21, 2012 by Shark The question had recently chanced upon me; how do we define the “Alpha Male?” It has never come up before, but I can’t say I’m surprised. The concept is taken for granted and given a certain degree of flexibility. We…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 12:44 AM
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... hitting the gym ... about 2 moths ... 5x5 program ... approaching my first plato ... Just like you're supposed to. Everything explained here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFZWM-_JNhQ Take a good rest, then change your program.
/r/askMRP06/12/15 11:59 AM
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Basically, she's venting to him about my behavior ... Emotional tampon. Remember that high school hot chick that you orbited and listened to endless complaints about her jerk BF? Was she fucking him or you? Yea, that's him. As long as she's not indifferent, you're doing something right. ... and he's talking shit on me This is VERY beta thing to do. He's basically saying "this guy (you) is better than me, so my best bet is to try to convince her to choose me". Never EVER do that if you feel threa…
/r/askMRP02/12/15 09:57 AM
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Wrong sub. You should post this in askTRP, not main. Anyways, do this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvBKC_8TTao
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 10:13 AM
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My girlfriend broke up with me... Can you guess why? Do you really think she just one day decided for whatever reason to not have a boyfriend and be alone? No, she found someone else, that's when gfs typically break up with you. It's that simple. she said she wanted to start out as just friends "Emotional tampon" is what she meant. From Urban Dictionary: A role taken on by the man in a 'just friends' male/female relationship. An emotional tampon is a man who will always be there to provide a wom…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 11:54 AM
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I've read all of that and more. One of the most influential things that shook my view on not just relationships but everything came in the form of blog. Rollo and Heartiste are great and highly recommended, but Shark really has a talent to redefine what you already know and point to what's in front of your eyes that you can't see. Don't be deceived by relative simplicity of articles, the more you read the more your brain will spin. Blog is now defunct but luckily it's archived: https://web.archi…
/r/askMRP30/10/15 06:01 PM
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It's hard to draw the line and probably no advice is good other than "use common sense". And since you're starting burden free (unlike most of us here who found RP after getting handcuffed) your best bet is to 'start from the beginning': screen early and screen hard. Party girl? Likes to go out a lot? Slutty friends etc? No committment! (or, god forbid, marriage). There are decent girls whose life doesn't revolve around night clubs. Then if that girl suddenly comes out with the idea of going out…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 08:17 AM
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Absolutely. I've heard arguments before that only Sigmas are true alphas in the alphaest way - (social) 'Alphas' need betas to be what they are, Sigmas do not. Remove betas from 'Alpha' and he's left naked, at best he can adapt to sigma ways. Sigma OTOH has no weak spot. But then again, it's double edged sword since we humans are deeply programmed to be social creatures and for a good reason.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:55 AM
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Girls nights out (let alone girls weekend out) is a shit test - simple as that. The only correct answer is NO. This is your final stance, <Gerard Butler's voice>this is where you hold them, this is where you fight. No DEER (I like that acronym), just a hint that if she decides to have it her way, then you're checking out -> there WILL BE consequences. Bonus points for demonstrating savviness in immediately recognizing the difference between harmless day lunch with sister or whatever and going to…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 06:45 PM
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Add this one to the list: http://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:50 PM
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Now that you've mentioned it, this is the best explanation I've ever found why people hit plateaus in 3x5/5x5 and what to do about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFZWM-_JNhQ
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:21 PM
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Hahaha IDIOTS! So, the facts are: men shaming is off the charts slutery has gone rampant 80% of guys from all age brackets are horny and frustrated when they google their problems chances are they'll find some generic 'be yourself' crap (I know it took me quite some time, months probably before learning about PUA and then accidentally stumbling upon RP) In short: they are numbed frogs about to get cooked with occasional rage/meltdown episodes. And then suddenly someone goes on mass media with "h…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:52 PM
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How did you learn to walk? By falling over and over again. And you fell quite a few times, but eventually got to the point where body/legs movements/balance is so internalised that you can flawlessly walk in all directions relative to your body position and at various speeds. You can even purposely fall if you wish, fully aware of what you're doing and how to do it. See where I'm getting at? So, after a few good steps you fell. Big fucking deal. Get up, dust off and practice some more walking. H…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:55 AM
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What you're describing here is 'impostor syndrome'. Google it! And it's way more common then you'd guess. Even among hard core pros and in every field. First thing you must accept is that it's perfectly normal. You start at the bottom, start improving yourself and feel the disconnection. Fine, everybody gets the same feeling at one point on their improvement journey. So, what do I do? That's easy: keep pushing! The river stream is pushing you back, but you swim against it ... and swim and swim. …
/r/becomeaman09/10/15 11:34 AM
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Excellent book. Highly recommended.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:46 AM
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The best explanation I've found about why 5x5 is beginner's program and what to do once you hit the plateau: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFZWM-_JNhQ&list=WL Still, it's the best thing for anyone starting out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:53 AM
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Keep up the good work. Many of us appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 08:24 PM
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Reddit search sucks, can't find the post now ... anyways, this question has been asked before. In one of previous discussions mod here explained that (IIRC) /u/redpillschool wanted to moderate this sub as well and keep it part of TRP network. One other mod here had issues with his attitude and got into fight and kicked him out of here. Then other mods wanted to undo the damage, but he wasn't willing to cooperate anymore. Long story short: clash of egos.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 05:26 PM
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IIRC MRP isn't a part of the redpill network because it sometimes promotes marriage Not quite. MRP isn't part of TRP because mods here had issues with TRP's mod and founder /u/redpillschool
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 10:06 AM
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You bend over for every single person in your life, except your wife, for whom you occasionally establish some semblance of boundaries. Nailed it! My personal experience also: my wife was giving me ton of drama when I wasn't (in lack of better word) 'alpha' enough with other people, especially my controlling mother, even though I was pretty alpha with her. She wants the whole package and when you're inconsistent (semi-alpha with her, beta with others) you come to a point where shit tests become …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 11:44 AM
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In retrospect I can't believe how stupid I was to see, scientifically speaking, the same experiment, over and over, always giving the same result and not draw any conclusion, not notice the pattern. As for your question, probably not for most of them. RP is unlikely to ever hit the mainstream. SJW zombies will fight it to death. Information is out there, just one click away, but you'll have to search for it. None of them is happy, but if the pain is mild and bearable, that will not create moment…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:14 PM
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Speaking exactly as I feel right now: I could see myself jumping in front of a bullet to protect my wife ... BUT I do expect to have decent % chance to survive. If the death was guaranteed, the only two women I would do it for are my 2 daughters.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:33 AM
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Serious question: is this against the law? There must be some law against discrimination, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:19 AM
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It's simple. Low intensity cardio (jogging) is bad. High intensity cardio (sprinting) is great and will help with muscle building. See for yourself - image google marathon runners and then sprinters. As for ... I want to lose weight and gain muscle ... this will be tricky, it's very hard to have it both at the same time. In order to build muscle you need to eat - you won't build much while on caloric deficit. That's why bodybuilders typically go through 2 phases: bulking (eating a caloric surplu…
/r/becomeaman01/08/15 12:00 AM
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Just a ploy. They are slowly realizing that modern feminism has gone rampant and men's response is to start withdrawing from marriage/commitment. Just look at declining marriage statistics, "where have all good men gone" rants, MGTOW Google trends etc etc. The pressure is bit to high and even beta conditioned guys (vast majority) are slowly waking up. Myth about cooking the frog by gradually raising temperature is just that - myth; in reality frog jumps out at some point. It's happening and the …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:44 AM
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First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win -Mahatma Gandhi Manosphere is growing. They can no longer ignore it. And weak attempts to ridicule it backfired hard - I was TRP member #18k-something and look at us now: 123k and counting. Let alone MRA and MGTOW (those that don't overlap). They are preparing now and sooner or later the sense of panic will be unbearable and someone will pull the trigger. Once again for new guys that missed it - our backup site is p…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:53 AM
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Bodyweight training. https://archive.is/5nYIr
/r/askTRP23/07/15 11:45 AM
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You're supposed to multiply it by 3
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:07 PM
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The next morning, the first thing my wife says to me is "My mom thinks your hot." Translation: "I think you're hot". Doesn't matter that MIL did actually say that. This is classic example of woman projecting her thoughts in covert fashion (covert being their native language). Womanese 101! Learn it and (ab)use it: http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-58-womanese.html http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-59-even-more-womanese.html http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-60-even-more-woma…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 02:10 PM
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midlife crisis So called "midlife crisis" is nothing but a socially constructed feminist approved myth. In reality it is midlife epiphany about man's increasing SMV whether conscious or subconscious. Don't buy into that crap! Sexual Market Value chart: https://dalrock.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/smv_curve1.jpg The Rational Male - Mid-Life Crisis: https://dalrock.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/smv_curve1.jpg The most stereotypical mid-life crisis occurs for a man around age 40. It’s important to rem…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 12:59 PM
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You might as well enforce the same rule in AskTRP. I unsubbed from there after too much morality and "positive thoughts". Not sure how is it today, but last time I've checked people couldn't grasp the idea that assholery IS valid strategy for getting laid and fast. It's losing it's edge and it's watered down a bit too much /rant
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:20 PM
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It would be good to put together a collection of "what women say" => "what they mean". http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-58-womanese.html http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-59-even-more-womanese.html http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-60-even-more-womanese.html http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/08/pook-62-secret-to-womanese.html Knock yourself out
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:15 PM
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It's a great concept actually. And rarely mentioned in self improvement mainstream. Common advice heavily leans towards "write your goals" (which is not bad by any means) rather than "assess your performance" (and be brutally honest about it). EDIT: typo
/r/becomeaman14/06/15 11:51 AM
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Rightful shiny knights will never learn there's no bad publicity. The more they send people to clever guys like Sandman, the more people will be outraged and/or intrigued, then discuss with others, which then also get intrigued and on and on. Meanwhile on Google Trends: http://i.imgur.com/xQa44O9.png
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:09 PM
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Very interesting research. And does he offer some therapy, breathing exercises or something to reverse the process? Or is it too late by the time you're adult?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:55 PM
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Never did I say "asshole 24/7 = trp". It's very bad to be an asshole to your friends, colleagues, neighbors, family, etc. It isn't even that good in committed relationships that require a bit of beta game (if you want it to last). But it is very effective in dealing with women and getting them to spread their legs ... more so with western bar sluts than eastern conservative girls, but I digress. Saying that being an asshole to women isn't RP is just wrong. Same like saying that being sociopath i…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:47 PM
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Being an asshole to women isn't Red Pill. Wrong. It is. Actually it's very effective strategy for getting laid fast. It's not the only strategy and it's not the best strategy for maintaining LTR or marrriage, but your statement is wrong. Being the best man you can be (including anger management and impulse control) is what Red Pill is all about. True, but not mutually exclusive with the above.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:48 AM
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For those not familiar with the linux scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVpOyKCNZYw And they've got the message: Nvidia seeks peace with Linux, pledges help on open source driver Nerdy or not, that was alpha as fuck. Also, Paul Graham (co-founder of Hacker News) is not very popular among feminists.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:40 AM
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Am I crazy? Does everyone feel like this at first?? It's perfectly normal, yes. You're in Anger Phase. We've all been there. I was so pissed. I WAS SO FUCKING MAD. Good! You are now in perfect place to start making some radical changes. Phoenix theory: ... I've been helping people with their physical transformations for over ten years now. The pattern of success is clear. Regardless of their primary physique goal — rapid fat loss or massive muscle gain — those who ultimately succeed always begin…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:07 AM
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As cold and brutal as it sounds, this is the only type of Game that'll work on 'black widows'. The moment you slip a single beta ping, she'll eat you alive. Keep your shields up 24/7 and enjoy the show. Relevant: How To Keep A Stripper Enamored Of You
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 10:55 PM
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Absolutely. Both are strictly male traits. It's deeply ingrained in our being and you can see it in every society throughout history. Women on the other hand are physically weaker sex who evolved to fight for survival by other means: emotional manipulation and shameless opportunism. They cannot have that mindset and honor at the same time. Like programmers are fond of saying: it's a feature not a bug. Or if it's easier, you can imagine them like simpler creatures - just reacting to stimuli, with…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 04:50 PM
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In a nutshell: she lives in the moment and only thinks feels about what she gets/can get in the moment. You've been good supportive BF/husband when she was going through tough times and needed help? ... That was past. In the present that guy she's just met is sexier than you and that's all that matters. You did X expecting Y (sexual favor) that she previously agreed with/promised? ... She's already got what she wanted. Why would she do Y? What's in it for her?
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:01 AM
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You're overthinking it. State of mind that naturally produces dominant body language is what's important. But since you've asked - it depends, the devil is in the details. To illustrate: YES, if you do it like this. NO, if you do it like this.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 09:52 AM
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No no no - NO announcing. You'll shoot yourself in the foot. It MUST be covert, not overt. Read this: Just Get It
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 09:49 AM
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She's literally broken (dysfunctional pussy), enjoys your commitment, enjoys receiving oral sex from you, but does not want to reciprocate - that's selfish, plain and simple. What's in it for you? Boring conversations and lousy handjobs. On top of that your relationship already has an expiry date. The alternative ... I know I'd probably be alone for the next 4 months and a half ... is what you see. What I see is plenty of opportunities to improve yourself: go Monk Mode practice Game hitting on n…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 09:09 AM
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Can't remember where I found it, but there was a study of women's preference to muscular guys based on their ovulatory cycle. Long story short: when they are not ovulating, they prefer ordinary vanilla looking guys (BB obviously), but when they are in Ovulation Weektm (in pursuit of AF) then the more there's muscle the wider their legs spread. This is also why online surveys about the subject are misleading: none of them take into account ovulatory cycle of participants, so you get mixed results…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 12:15 PM
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Add Heartiste to the list: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ Not necessarily marriage oriented, but still good to grasp the concept.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 11:15 PM
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Very good and thorough list. Someone should collect posts like this into one big hall of fame compilation. ♂
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:22 AM
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The easiest way is to start yourself by playful teasing. The plan is to get her to 'fight back' with a ST - that you pass. Then tease more, to induce more, than pass. You've probably been in situation like this before, or seen others. And you've certainly noticed chicks really enjoying this verbal sparring, getting their emotional high. One of the underlying reasons for their fun (unless you fail, immediately killing the vibe) is you being amused and unaffected, aka passing the ST. Also a very g…
/r/askTRP02/05/15 10:47 PM
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Usually yes, if she drops a ST it means she sees you as 'fuckable'. You can even go a step further and find a way to induce ST and then pass it and that will raise her interest a little, without her being aware what's happening. There's a possibility though that sometimes girl will be mean to a guy way bellow her standards just for some twisted fun. I'm sure you've seen it many times. Common sense always applies.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 02:33 PM
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Different angle: women are irresistibly attracted to high T men and one of usual effects of high T is baldness (actually the only bad side effect, everything else is awesome). I'd even argue that shaving is male equivalent for makeup. Also I've seen lots of guys reporting increased interest from women after shaving their head, even if their hair was otherwise fine and they did it only for fun. Shave it and own it. Jason Statham style. Packing some muscle wouldn't hurt either. Makes a killer comb…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 03:59 PM
1

I want to change my life. I'm fucking sick of living like this. It's pathetic. I don't even know why the fuck I'm posting this. I just need to let it all out. I need to fix my life. I'm asking for help. You've already got lots of advice about diet. I'll address something else, something that has helped me tremendously when I decided to raise from numbing mediocrity. 30 days of discipline Get it. Steal it from torrents if you can't afford 10 bucks (pay him later). Start doing it. His blog is also…
/r/becomeaman28/04/15 03:00 PM
3

I managed to swallow Black and then gave up. My generation was raised on Metallica and GnR. Good times. And good analysis OP, I enjoyed reading.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:17 PM
2

Crush your enemies. See them driven before you. Hear the lamentations of their women.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:01 PM
10

You've learned how not to be a pushover. Good! Now it's time to learn Red Pill. My very first recommendation is The Book of Pook. Don't be deceived by his unusual writing style - it's packed with wisdom. If I was forced to pick one and only one book - this would be it.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 10:43 AM
6

She's worried someone will tell you what actually happened. She tried to do damage control by telling you first. My thoughts exactly. Trickle truth. Also: full breakdown mode, complete mess. Tears and suicide threats. Alright, you've sticked your dick in crazy. But it's not too late to eject before shit gets serious. GTFO!
/r/askTRP27/04/15 10:23 AM
2

For the guys of redpill, is there anything you miss from your bluepill days? Well yes. It was a nice warm fantasy. Part of me still wishes it was true and you could find a soulmate and relax and enjoy the true love. But the reality and my own experience sealed the deal - what has been seen cannot be unseen. And I'm a married guy with kids, far away from feminist America, wife traditionally raised - very close to 'unicorn', even by rigorous red pill standards. And no, I wasn't spared, we say AWAL…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 05:59 PM
2

Your last sentence says "let's not forget who we are," but what is that? To clarify: we all came from the blue pill background. That's what men do, search for solutions when there's a problem. None of us ended here because our wives were initiating 24/7 and waking us with blowjobs. You don't bother solving a non problem of finding a better tools for eating because fork, spoon and knife work just fine (alright some men do, but most don't). Swallowing RP is very unpleasant experience, to say the l…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 01:34 PM
1

Dread does work, no questions. If it doesn't work for you it only means you're doing it wrong. Here are some ideas: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:44 AM
1

Not necessarily straight line. It was the easiest way to draw an 'ascii chart'. I could totally imagine parabolic shape with (0,0) being blue pill to the max and DT on the far right approaching infinity. My main point is there are no two distinct areas with big buffer zone in between - the line is continuous, shades of gray. Whenever some new guy jumps in with "I've swallowed the pill" it's almost guaranteed he's only scratched the surface. The rabbit hole is much deeper and darker than novice c…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 08:20 AM
8

Archwinger raises a good point, but the problem is RP and BP are not opposite states "on/off" but two zones of the spectrum. Let me illustrate: |----- RP zone -----|----- BP zone -----| On the far left you have Dark Triad, Rasputin and Jim Morrison. On the far right there are neurotic feminists, SJWs and this guy married to this landwhale thing with personal gravitational field. TRP is mainly populated with single or divorce raped guys and the consensus is that this zone ... |=====---|----------…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 11:45 PM
1

and later said my confidence annoys her Shit test. A&A or ignore. They are probing for weakness and that's it. Probably because ... I see a hint there: "what is the author called of the book which you get your pick-up lines from?" ... it's possible that you come off as "try hard", that your body language is incongruent with your attitude and they can sense it -> this is typically when you get a barrage of shit tests. Maybe you should just work a little more on internalizing it, till it really be…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 11:34 AM
1

So true, I wish I could upvote this more times than once.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:01 AM
4

I have to disagree with the fact that is rare that people unplug themselves without aid. If that were the case, I don't think this reddit nor the PUA community would exist. My point was that he reached the rock bottom -> said "fucked this shit" -> and picked the perfect tool (heavy iron) to solve his problem, completely on his own, not because someone told him to. What majority of us do: have a problem -> try to solve it conventional way -> start googling for some answers -> eventually stumble u…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:12 PM
5

Operant Conditioning: How to train your woman
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:43 PM
93

Bluepill brigade got a massive butthurt. The real beauty of this story is that guy is 100% genuine: long history of ranting about sexless life shits on counseling as a goto bluepill solution applies clean RP solution when it's clear from comments he had no idea about the existence of TRP gets spectacular results thread is overwhelmed with "... red pill ... red pill .... red pill ..."
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:47 PM
-1

"miss you too babe" (with zero fucks given to proper formatting and no emoticons!)- point being what you say overtly is nice, but what you say covertly is "I'm fine ... having lots of fun ... not really hearthbroken because you're not here".
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:29 PM
2

Testosterone levels. Guys with high T (whether it's natural or temp boost) find that it's almost impossible to be depressed, even if you want to. Let alone anxiety. There's more to our RP signature Hit The Gymtm advice than meets the eye.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:39 PM
1

The question is too vague. It depends on type of emotion, context and how you express it. For example ... beta: What you did really made me angry alpha: I'm disappointed in you In former your emotion is purely reactive in a sense that it's out of your control. In latter you're the one doing the judging (and it implies control).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 01:32 PM
1

It will pass eventually. In my bluest of the bluepill days, my very 'first love', relationship that lasted 14 months, first time my dick got sucked (we never got to sex unfortunately, but plenty of oral) - she dumped me the moment she found a better branch to swing on. To add insult to injury, the truth was presented to me in front of my friends - not only dumped but also humiliated. I was devastated and I still remember that awful stomach feeling, almost like a physical pain. And to make things…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 11:39 AM
1

'Oneitis' would be the closest equivalent. With one notable difference that oneitis can be cured. Even if you don't change the way you think (usually influenced by mentally strong friends, or family members, or places like this) it will fade out over time (with some exceptions of mentally unstable guys). Alpha widows on the other hand - permanently damaged. Pair bonding ability - down the toilet, divorce risk - through the roof. With every new cock. Like amputees, it's doesn't grow back.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 08:08 PM
2

"You will always lose money chasing women. You will never lose women chasing money" - whoever said that was dead on.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 12:01 AM
1

This: https://archive.today/uzYni And this for lulz: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ZF_R_j0OY
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:03 PM
2

It's as if she's insulting me but in childish and funny way, like: (taken out of context) "I still don't see the 6 pack <touching my belly>" or "you're getting old <alluding to age>". It is too light in the situation when it's obvious I won't get offended, but still a shit test (in essence shit test is form of attack). Looking through RP lens all I see is her saying: 'Accepted. Just let me warm up.'
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:50 AM
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It's always surprising how much women liked being bossed around. Yes, at first glance - why would they do that? What's the point, right? And on the other hand it's not surprising at all when you start thinking in terms of what she actually gets from such bizarre behavior. Unlike us they are emotional beings, hardwired to get aroused to masculine traits, mainly confidence and dominance or even sheer strength (sometimes to the point of craving physical beating). To them, your masculine (re)action …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 11:42 PM
2

Mandatory read for you OP (swap wife for GF, or any kind of LTR for that matter): https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/03/31/the-number-one-dead-giveaway-that-your-wife-is-about-to-cheat/
/r/askTRP16/04/15 05:06 PM
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(Male perspective) Yes. It's VERY motivating. You're almost forcing him to act naturally, the way man has evolved to do (unless he was brainwashed bit too hard, beyond repair). And then the positive spiral hits you back and you're even more attracted to more confident/alpha guy. That, I believe, is one of the major points of RPW. Words of warning though: You're a woman. You're programmed to always probe (shit test) for weaknesses. It's subconscious and you can't help it. The problem is that deep…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 04:36 PM
1

Paraphrasing from memory - old advice that's surprisingly effective with side effects of projecting confidence even when there was none to begin with: "Speak louder. Louder than that. No, you don't get it, speak LOUDER!"
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:14 PM
1

I remember this story from ... not sure if it was reddit or some manospherian discussions ... but the story is real and he got sentenced (and pleaded guilty IIRC). EDIT: Found it. It was Roosh Forum and apparently he got 10 months for exposing engaged slut for what she really was. http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-18324.html
/r/askTRP13/04/15 07:53 PM
1

OP is phaggot. Pepper your angus. (SRS) In all seriousness MISC is amusing trolling subforum, good to have a laugh when you have time to kill, but that's about it. Occasionally you'll find some gem, but nothing you couldn't find on a more dedicated place (like RP stuff on RP subreddits).
/r/askTRP13/04/15 05:17 PM
1

This! OP, this is the info you need to gauge your progress. This is where you are now and you can accurately asses your global SMV by paying attention to the details. For start: -women cannot imagine being with anyone on lower level; -they can be with someone on the same level but get very upset (think barrage of shit tests) if that's the case (probably due to fear of you gaining a little fat, or starting acting a little more beta ... anything that'll drop your SMV bellow her's - a living nightm…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 01:25 PM
4

but she put forth sincere effort, so good job plate. Good. Make sure to always give her compliments afterwards, to make sure she knows how you enjoyed it -> positive reinforcement (google "operant conditioning" and how dogs are trained, cause the same rules apply to humans). Overall you handled it well. You've set standards, asserted loud and clear what you expect and got her to submit when challenged. Case in point: when I met my then girlfriend, later wife and as soon as we became sexual, I st…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 10:02 AM
3

In 12 years of marriage (13 living together) I've been through decent shape to fat to great shape and from alpha to beta to alpha, with all possible combinations of the above and from my experience: your attitude ie frame is waaaaaaaaaay more important than your looks. It's not even close. Fat Alpha beats beta Adonis every time.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 04:40 PM
1

She's emotional, validation seeking leach. The only good thing I can think of (just in theory) is getting preselection points when other girls who don't know you two, see her flirty with you and that is only if she does that in public. But even that has very bad ROI and overall it's not worth it. You've made the correct decision, told her to F' Off and stick to it. Also ... I've just had to dig deep through my saved threads ... you'll find this FR interesting: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:58 AM
1

No. Shit test would her teasing you or mildly 'insulting' you to see how you'll react. In essence shit test is form of attack. I don't see how's this an attack. She just wants your notes, like a guy friend would. Nothing to see here.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 05:29 PM
1

Food for thought: SMV chart
/r/askTRP02/04/15 11:17 PM
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Yes, her having a boyfriend is exactly the reason why she's grinding her ass against your crotch and giggling at every sentence of yours that remotely resembles a joke. Understand that young girls (while still young and excluding landwhales) have options and crave commitment ... really, they have it easy when it comes to luring a guy into exclusive relationship. It's a given. Always assume she has a boyfriend unless you know from outer sources that she's just broken up no longer than few days ag…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:25 PM
1

When we were talking on the phone right now, she said a lot of things that hint to me she's thinking about breaking up with me. I have no fucking clue why. Why: If I had to guess, it's probably because your weak attitude, your 'betaness' if you like. Others here have already called you up on that. Why now: She finally found an upgrade. Women don't think twice about upgrading, given opportunity. What do I do: Accept the reality. This one's lost. At this point it's to late to prevent the impact. T…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:47 AM
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Eject immediately! Don't think twice. She sees you as beta bucks and The Divorce Rape Axe is already swinging above your head. And even that scraps you're still getting will be off the table the moment you put a ring on it. And her already cheating you is highly likely (I'd be willing to put money on that bet). And even if she hasn't yet, it's almost guaranteed she will (I'd be willing to put lots of money on that bet). Consider yourself lucky she opened her cards way too soon so you can fold sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:17 AM
1

Here, explained: http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/22/youve-been-with-how-many-girls/
/r/askTRP28/03/15 12:28 AM
2

Serious question or witty reply? I can't imagine it happening anytime soon. IF it happens (assuming no radical muslim methods or similar radical change) we'd likely go 50-100 years back, relatively speaking, when men were men, women were feminine, chivalry made sense ... good ole times. That's my idea of TRP ideas going mainstream. But it's just utopia.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:54 PM
2

I hate replying with memes/gifs i.e. with no substance to my post, but this is all there is to say: http://mrwgifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Dramatic-Slow-Motion-Clap.gif
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:56 PM
4

Seriously? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phrases_from_The_Hitchhiker%27s_Guide_to_the_Galaxy#Answer_to_the_Ultimate_Question_of_Life.2C_the_Universe.2C_and_Everything_.2842.29
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:45 PM
3

Yes, for various reasons. http://www.uwgreek.com/frat/home.html
/r/askTRP07/01/15 04:58 PM
3

Win what exactly? Beta bucks ... yea, sure. But it's not what they really want. It's only what they have to settle for, cause they ran out of options. Pyrrhic victory.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:45 PM
2

but i cant seem to read people http://www.amazon.com/What-Every-BODY-Saying-Speed-Reading/dp/0061438294 if a girl likes me i dont know and it happens a lot Google "indicators of interest" or "IOI" for short and you'll find plenty of (mostly PUA) indicators to look for. It's a good start. BTW any book recommendation? http://www.reddit.com/r/redpillbooks/
/r/askTRP04/01/15 10:29 AM
2

Start finding ways to raise testosterone. Every little bit helps: eat more cholesterol rich food, sleep min 8h/night, always be aware and work on your body posture (Amy Cuddy TED talk), cold showers, workout (bodyweight or lift, but no cardio), hang out with masculine dudes, take part in masculine activities (hunting, chopping wood, martial arts ...), loose fat (helps a LOT), learn to speak louder and project your voice (good model would be Chris Hemsworth), watch masculine movies/scenes - imagi…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:50 PM
1

Intelligence is attractive. Not the most attractive trait, compared to confidence for example, but certainly helps. Bottom line: she likes you and it's giving you a compliment, expressing her feelings. There's nothing hidden behind it. Addendum: In the future, I know I should work on avoiding mentioning my intellectual interests to plates Why would you do that? Women actually find it really hot when man has personal interests and passion. Why would you restrict yourself to some boring everyday t…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 10:08 AM
2

Just google: alpha male body language and knock yourself out reading. They all give the same advice, more or less and it's a good advice.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 01:45 PM
3

POOK: Womanese POOK: More Womanese! POOK: Even More Womanese!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 10:05 PM
1

Yes, there is still some anger inside me over this. Good! That's an excellent starting point: Phoenix Theory. And it's not only about working out. I've been helping people with their physical transformations for over ten years now. The pattern of success is clear. Regardless of their primary physique goal — rapid fat loss or massive muscle gain — those who ultimately succeed always begin the same way: They get pissed off.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 11:41 AM
1

It matters some %, just like looks, money, confidence, etc. It's not be-all and end-all, but it is one of very powerful attraction triggers.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 12:41 PM
11

when he lies to avoid the fight ("What do you mean I left our apartment door open? I never even knew our apartment had a door!"); The guy is a pushover, failing shit tests like it's his job. Logical consequence is: I contemplate divorce everyday. And then some hamstering to attempt to justify loss of attraction. Nothing new to see here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 05:03 PM
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We have been together for 4 years. Well, you've got past the 3 year itching point. It's kinda surprising you've got that far in relative peace. We had an amazing relationship. We talked about house layouts, kids names, pets and our future after i graduated. Yea, you've been amazing girlfriend. I'm sure she enjoyed all the comforting talk about girlie stuff. In the beginning she was very worried that i would cheat on her. RED FLAG! Projecting. Guys, remember, if a girl starts bombarding you with …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 01:52 PM
1

Depends on delivery. It can be very 'alpha' to tease in a way that big brother treats his annoying little sister. Technically it's a shit test, but more bold and direct than what your typical girl does.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 12:40 AM
1

Much better!
/r/becomeaman20/12/14 12:02 AM
2

PRAW: The Python Reddit Api Wrapper The AutoBOT thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:17 PM
0

No one can know that for sure. Usually it's 7-10 days, but it can also be more than a month. Go read nofap subreddit, everyone has a different story.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:16 PM
3

Side comment: Switch your hair parting from right side to the left: makes you look more manly and this is just natural for men. EX: Clark Kent (right side, like you're wearing it): http://i.imgur.com/blMRMJQ.jpg Superman (left side): http://i.imgur.com/2RuXmtA.jpg Or google images of male role models like actors, politicians, leaders, etc. and you'll notice consistency when it comes to hair parting (it's not 100% but it's definitely a rule).
/r/becomeaman19/12/14 03:07 PM
2

It's "flatline" and if you read r/nofap you'll see that lot of guys report the same. I too had it for periods of 5-10 days on 3 occasions during "90 day reset", without any rule when to expect it and for how long. It's unpredictable, frustrating, sometimes you're even scared that it'll never stop ... but it will stop eventually. One day you'll wake up with a boner and feel horny as hell. And that boner won't be semi-limp, barely enough to get to O, but the real thing. Flatline actually helps cau…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 02:44 PM
59

"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." - Mark Twain
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:21 PM
2

ONEitis kicking in? Do not fail this shit test. She's a plate, not a GF. You two are friends with benefits. You fuck other girls, she fucks other guys - that's part of the deal. You DGAF about her stories cause you're too busy fitting other plates into your schedule.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 07:46 PM
1

Lift more. Lift harder. CUT BF%! Facial Transformations Reloaded: High to Low BF Facial Progression (Pics)(Post Yours)
/r/becomeaman18/12/14 12:40 PM
105

And this is how you hard NEXT with a style. AFCs, watch and learn. Well played OP, well played /slowclap
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:06 PM
2

So this is essentially how one can become confident. By constantly putting one self in fearful situations and desensitizing themselves to their own fears. http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2010/10/how-to-be-confident/
/r/askTRP17/12/14 09:55 PM
1

Thanks for the gold, good unplugged rp-er. The main takeaway from UnluckyPenguin's and my comment is: if you want to have good old fashioned LTR, then have very high standards and zero-bullshit policy. If you want to spin plates, then you don't mind is she's a slut ... actually sluts are prefered because they are easy game and much cheaper than hookers. Just never ever mix the two, or your find yourself with majority of AFCs, confused and miserable.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:11 AM
1

Also, the ♂ point can only be given after you are TRP Endorsed or have at least 5 ♂ points. Correct me if I'm wrong, but what you've said is for main TRP. On AskTRP there are no such requirements.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:05 PM
3

This is the correct answer. Hell, she even bragged about giving her number around. Do you think she told you the whole truth? Do you think she will tell you if one of (many?) guys that got her # runs a proper PUA-style text game? Insta-deal breaker as far as LTR is concerned. Not worthy of your commitment. Plate material - yes, sure. The only problem being that you can be hard pressed to get ONEitis out of your head and really treat her like a plate. It would probably be more comfortable to go t…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:42 PM
3

Standard story. You've just learned a lesson called "window of opportunity" ... and the importance of having logistics in place. She was DTF, but the next day she remembered she has a BF. Nothing you can do now.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 03:25 PM
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How is it possible that statements like those are even possible? One word: solipsism. How can they be taken seriously? One word: feminism. But yea, this is both sad and hilarious at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 12:10 AM
3

If you have the means to prevent their friendship, without being too controlling i.e. coming off as a beta, trust your instinct and do it. Nothing good can come from slut giving crazy ideas to unspoiled girl. I won't even get into women being herd animals and easily convinced to fit into group - the principle is universal and can be applied to men as well. Our parents, grandparents, grandgrandparents always warned us about dangers of getting into bad company and there's a good reason.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 10:08 PM
3

This question is weird ... did you mean 30+? Actually by not fucking 20+ you lower yourself. Why? Because at 23 girl is at her prime. http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/ Why ban yourself from the garden with the ripest fruit?
/r/askTRP12/12/14 09:55 PM
7

Plates eventually expire. 6 months max (unless you are a rare case of very high social status alpha). Doesn't matter what the reason is - if I had to guess, she found someone 'serious' and is in honeymoon phase. Best course of action - do nothing, let go, don't be clinging beta, few months from now you'll get 'Hey' message from her and you're back to Bangville. In the meantime get yourself a new plate, spin more, etc.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 12:40 PM
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This. Think about this scenario (not at all uncommon): husband; in sexless marriage; cheats with his secretary/coworker/whatever; sex with her is crazy and enthusiastic ... how that guy fits into Rollo's description? Is he alpha or beta? The answer: he's both! Beta to his wife - Alpha to his secretary. Also this: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2012/02/alpha/
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 10:50 PM
2

Justice porn: she failed the shit test. Speaking of which - women are also bad at dealing with shit tests. I was stunned the other day watching my 11yo daughter STing my wife (the same way the wife was usually testing me) and my wife failing like a clueless beta boy.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:47 PM
1

Ouch, I see your troubles and I'm not smart enough to help you with that. And since this thread is old and buried my best advice is to open a new thread on AskTRP with updated info. Maybe someone will chime in with some brilliant idea, I dunno. Overall I think you do stand a chance (if you solve logistics). And given that she's a virgin, the way you played it was fine. You don't need that tight Game with inexperienced girls, like you need with sluts. You can get away with a little more beta beha…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:16 PM
1

This is good but now you must escalate. You know about the '3 date rule'. If you don't push for sex immediately chances are you'll end in LJBF category (a.k.a friendzone).
/r/askTRP10/12/14 04:13 PM
1

One brash user had made a comment that the website Art of Manliness was shit and for faggots More about what's wrong with AoM: http://www.returnofkings.com/25876/art-of-manliness-is-poisoning-the-concept-of-masculinity-with-disney-lifestyle-advice Anyways, you're in the right place, keep improving.
/r/ThankTRP09/12/14 09:52 PM
11

Came here to say this. Deadlifts are the exception. Explained here: Why only 1×5 Deadlifts, not 5×5?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:49 AM
1

Standard. Everyone here can remember getting that line: "you're a nice guy but ...". We've all been there. It's funny that people tend to see that as some sort of excuse or them trying to soothe you or something, while in fact they are literally telling you why they don't like you: "you're a nice guy". It's even amazing that it takes so much reading of TRP posts/sidebar/manosphere blogs/books, to fully comprehend that simple message hiding in plain sight.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 10:39 PM
6

How exactly was she talking about him? Full of emotions? (what he did and how she was sad/crying/happy) - You're emotional tampon. Eject. Emotionless? (more like stating facts) - She's interested and wants you to 'steal her'. Source: Mystery Method
/r/askTRP07/12/14 04:24 PM
7

And this is how you get confidence. Not by thinking and dreaming about it, but by making action, getting out of your comfort zone, inch by inch, until you no longer feel the fear caused by lack of experience. Related: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2010/10/how-to-be-confident/
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:37 PM
1

When was her last period? Any chance she is ovulating now? Woman wanting sex with you, initiating even, while in the middle of ovulation is very good sign and argument against infidelity (and vice versa).
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:40 PM
5

It's been said many times - all the things that women are attracted to, like confidence, dominance, muscular body ... have one common denominator: these are all signs of high testosterone. And as we all know, balding is also one side effect of high T. Not only that you should not hide it, but you should embrace it. Like a badge of honor. I'd even go that far to say that many AFCs would immediately improve their sex life just by shaving their head, even if they leave everything else the same. Rem…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:58 AM
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This is actually good thing IMO. The more they sidetrack from common sense, the more people will see them for what they really are. When women fight for "equal job opportunity rights", most AFCs will be like "yea ... ok ... that's fair ... nothing wrong with that". But when they do THIS, even the neckbeardiest beta chump will be WTFed and slowly start to realize that something is really wrong with feminism and it's ideals. How can I reverse sign this petition? You can't, but if you really have t…
/r/TRPOffTopic03/12/14 08:50 PM
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Million(s) of years of evolution of the human race, that's why. Average male (since ever): is about 2x times stronger than average female superior spatial awareness better self control equally capable of working as an individual and in groups 10-15x more testosterone then average female -> aggressive, competitive, driven and many other traits ... ... that combined give much higher chances of surviving in harsh environment that predates last several thousand years of civilization. Even more laugh…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:19 PM
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More testosterone -> more body hair -> more manly. Women remove hair because it makes them more feminine. It is only in recent years (from historical pov) that it became 'the thing' for men to shave their bodies. I'm against it. But in global scheme of things this is really nitpicking and I don't think it's that important compared to other (confidence, dominance) traits.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 02:10 PM
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You are drugged with blue pill poison because the two of you are in honeymoon phase. Yes it's sweet, but it won't last long - max 3 years in absolutely ideal circumstances. That bitter feel tearing you from the inside is your gut instinct - self defense mechanism that we here praise and modern feminized society tries to shut down completely ("Man Up! Marry a slut!!"). You are LTRing a slut. Emotionally unstable slut. You cannot even deny that to yourself, no matter how hard you try. To make thin…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 03:42 PM
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OMG, not a single mention of the all time classic: "Book of Pook"? Free online: http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/07/book-of-pook.html
/r/askTRP25/11/14 11:17 PM
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Women shit testing you is expected and welcome - no better indicator of your improvement then shit tests (all of a sudden they are curious, there's 'something' about you that wasn't there before ... hopeless betas do not get tested at all). So far so good. As for men doing the same shit - it's quite common actually, almost like a rule. After a year+ on this sub I've read quite a few stories from guys that have stepped on the self improvement path and MANY of them noticed the same thing (myself i…
/r/askTRP25/11/14 03:06 PM
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You're probably right about that. Part of me still sees it as a random excuse to justify flaking. Main reason being: Facebook - on one side we have scenario where she gets a message on her phone and thinks "who the hell is that!?". On the other side of the spectrum there's Facebook where she can see OP's pictures and get the idea what kind of guy he is, where he goes to school or who is he friends with (she probably knows someone from his social circle to ask more questions), etc. He's not that …
/r/askTRP24/11/14 09:05 PM
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Ouch man that kinda hurt :D You do understand I'm trying to help ;) I sent to her exactly this: 'I am free on Sunday and Wednesday. We should hang out together(...)'. So I let her know that I'm busy and I am only free these days. Alright, that wasn't so bad as it sounded in OP. Where you really failed is chatting too much for 4 days, even the whole night. And logical action of 'gain her trust before we meet' totally backfired. They are emotional, not logical creatures. Majority of todays girls a…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 05:31 PM
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...We met online 4 days ago on facebook. Sometimes we chat all night. Fail. You gave her so much validation for nothing in return. And you've also sent a message: I have no better things to do in my life and I have no other options. ... I let her to choose Sunday or Wednesday Fail. YOU are supposed to have a busy schedule and it was YOU who should be the one to choose time. If she can't shit tests you it's her loss. And once again you are sending the same message outlined above. Hypergamy is not…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 04:01 PM
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Lifting boosts testosterone levels. One side effect of high T is deeper voice. And if you read stories of people that (typically) were fat and started lifting and lost lot of fat and built muscle during the process - you'll notice that many report their voice is now deeper.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 09:25 AM
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Just get MMSL. Athol, although no longer RP, really hit the nail with that book and covers lot of important concepts. As for BETA -> ALPHA transformation, accept that it will be a slow process; not a sprint but a marathon; one step at a time. So, instead of "what secret maneuver can I make to become alpha", it's "what little step can I make today, that'll get me closer to my goal". Persistence and discipline. If you're out of shape (odds are that you are), hit the gym OR if you can't afford memb…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 12:26 PM
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Rollo Tommasi's story on how he completely lost his frame/sanity after meeting Lucifer's daughter: The Death of Rollo Tomassi And he was high on SMV scale and with lots of experience by the time he met her.
/r/AlreadyRed19/11/14 01:16 PM
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This might help: http://www.returnofkings.com/47426/3-easy-hacks-to-develop-a-dominant-presence I mean the first exercise, but the other two won't hurt either.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:51 PM
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I don't think he was part of this community. He was just RP oriented blogger and is not posting anymore (too busy with real life). But his blog, along with Rollo's and Heartiste's is one of the best RP resources you can find on the internet IMO. Highly reccomended.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:37 PM
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This masterpiece keeps popping in this sub over and over. Honestly I don't think anyone here wrote it, although it's interesting to note that the original article appeared about the same time when the r/TheRedPill was born. Awesome read nonetheless. This should be on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 07:40 PM
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"Method Acting" is what you're looking for. Search google, search reddit. It's hard to explain, but it's 'special' in a sense that many 'method actors' have had mental issues by going too deep into their characters. Bottom line: it's really powerful method/tool for self improvement. This guy (red piller) also used and wrote about it: Carpe Diem.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 07:19 PM
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Some things don't click in the story, but pills really affect libido. To the point that woman suddenly loses fling for muscular jocks and starts genuinely enjoying beta game (not too much though). Then she gets off the pill and alpha craving is back. It takes time and her hormones are on a rollercoaster now. ... OR ... When was her last period? The first day the bleeding started - day1. If she did that in the middle of the cycle (day14 plus/minus 3 days) - there's someone else in, or just about …
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:20 PM
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Start reading this guy's blog: http://boldanddetermined.com/ And get his book "30 days of discipline".
/r/becomeaman11/11/14 07:43 PM
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Also Charles Bronson. There are lots of movies from that period that portray 'silent alpha'. Cliche, but certainly doable.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:21 PM
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Solid tips and good read for newbs still lost in The Rabbit Hole and in need for little encouragement. Re 1) this is another good article, pretty much what you said, but Victor Pride's style: The Real Benefits of Weight Training
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:06 AM
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/thread Seriously, we man have it easier. Ugly woman? She's fucked. Bad luck. Nothing she can do about it (plastic surgery aside). Ugly man? Not that big of a problem. Looks are only one aspect of our attractiveness and not even the most important one. We can still lift heavy weights and build muscle (that'll help a lot). We can learn to be aloof and dominant - it's a skill that can be learned (and that'll help a ton). We can build a career ... and many many things that have zero connection with…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:46 AM
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It's been said before, but worth repeating: healthy relationship (LTR/marriage) is about maintaining SMV difference, ideally +1 up to +1.5 SMV points in man's favor... a) -2 or worse: she can't even imagine being sexual with you b) -1: you might get pity sex once in a while but she's repulsed and won't think twice about upgrading c) 0 (equal): she is interested but deep inside she can't stand equality and will go nuts with shit testing and shaking your frame d) +1: healthy relationship; you're a…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:19 AM
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Remove from the list: artofmanliness.com Add to the list: solvemygirlproblems.com
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:25 PM
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Last time my wife asked "are you mad at me" for something she fucked up (nothing major though), I just replied with 'meh' tone: "Nah, just disappointed". I could also sense that it was a shit test. Basically flip it back on her and put yourself in the position of being the one to judge (and without emotions) and her doing the explanation part.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 08:41 PM
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One of the best articles I've found about raising T naturally: http://www.muscleforlife.com/how-to-increase-testosterone/ Also search YouTube for Amy Cuddy TED talk (how body language affects T levels). Also: you MUST sleep at least 8 hours/night (that alone might boost your T up to 30%, assuming sleep deprived). But first and foremost: the diet. Testosterone is made from cholesterol. You don't eat enough cholesterol (meat, eggs, ham) - you'll literally have no material for T production.
/r/becomeaman31/10/14 08:22 PM
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Common thing. Quite a few women enjoy 'strong man' breaking through their resistance. This is also the cause of two, not so rare occurrences: rape fantasies and safe words in bdsm. If she does it all the time though, that's fucked up - after fourth time you should classify it as "sticking your dick in crazy" i.e. take that as a warning.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 07:38 PM
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Whole Brain Power, by Michael J. Lavery Accidentally heard about it, tried some of his exercises, noticed the change in just a week of practicing and now I'm hooked. Other people are noticing that I'm much more energetic, present, confident and whatnot. Even strangers on the street have randomly approached me in last two days more than in last 6 months (questions about the streets or objects, some old lady on the airport (I was waiting for my brother) asked if I was that guy supposed to wait her…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:33 PM
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Beta. You can do it sparingly and when deserved but constant PDA kills attraction and should be avoided. Heartiste:PDA Is Beta
/r/askTRP04/10/14 06:05 PM
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True mastery of the game: you know it works, know why, know the rules, play by the rules to get the desired effect, while being mindful during the process ... and have fun doing it. Solid report. And solid attitude you have. Lately I've been reading way to many bitter thoughts from freshly unplugged guys. I know it's just a phase (been there), but it's depressing. They should learn from yours and similar examples - this is the mindset to adopt.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:32 PM
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solvemygirlproblems.com Shark, blog owner, no longer posts (too busy chasing his dreams and living the life), but what he left behind is worth it's weight in gold.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:32 PM
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She 32, in relationship for 10 years => since 22 Prior to meeting him she was all into shooting (private) porn The sex is vanilla and 2,3x a month at best What are the odds of her being faithful to her BB for all these years? I know I wouldn't bet on it. This is what really bothers this poor guy and deep down inside he understands that the numbers don't add up and his gut instinct is screaming at this point.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:35 AM
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It does. Women are herd animals easily affected by other women's opinion. Combine that with the preselection effect and you get the idea how bad it is to be known as that guy other girls are cheating on. If the new girl finds out about that, she'll immediately subconsciously categorize you as 'BB material' - no anal for you, just starfish when the stars aline (assuming you do your emo-tampon/pay for dinner part). So ... "why did you and your ex break up?" - "it didn't work out" or "I wasn't happ…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:32 PM
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Some story! The first part reminds me of this old classic (ignore the Swedish subs): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts4sEBb2K3s
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:57 PM
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No, you don't validate her, the BF does. You agreed to be FWB. You get a boner - you make a booty call; she gets wet - you do your AF job. You don't judge her, you don't get emotional (the BF does), you don't spend time with her and her friends/go to movies/expensive dinners (the BF does) ... you get all the sex/anals/BJs with minimal investment. You're cool like that and that's what makes her soaking wet. That's part of the deal. If she starts shit-testing you with 'I have a BF' (might or might…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 12:16 PM
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Not surprised at all. The central message (regarding changing ourselves) that we here preach is how to become a better man. Or what Elliott calls 'the best version of yourself'. Remember that cracked article '6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person'? Because that's the step that gets skipped -- it's always "How can I get a job?" and not "How can I become the type of person employers want?" It's "How can I get pretty girls to like me?" instead of "How can I become the type of person tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:49 PM
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Wrong. Roissy has referenced and analyzed zillion scientific studies that confirm RP.
/r/becomeaman16/09/14 07:32 AM
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Sort of. FWIW I'm 40yo, married, 2 kids. From 12 things he listed: 1) no snacking, max 3 meals - I did even better, went the intermittent fasting route (skipping breakfast) and made it a habit. 2) wake up early 5am - it was 7am for me (note that Victor mentioned in one podcast that he also wakes up at 7). That was a compromise in order to get more than 7 hours (8 recommended) of sleep for healthy testosterone levels. 3) cold showers every day - I skipped some days, but eventually I got used to c…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:41 PM
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Well done!
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 11:46 PM
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Do this: http://30daysofdiscipline.com/ Search torrents if you can't afford it. Then report back after a month.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 11:23 PM
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I will tell her when she's shit-testing me and tell her its hurting the relationship. You'll shoot yourself in the foot. With a shotgun. If you want to spark and maintain attraction, lust and ultimately faithfulness (within reasonable limitations) you MUST pass shit tests. And you pass them by covertly avoiding emotional trap (aka holding frame), not by being overtly butthurt. There's even school of thought that you could use that same women's subconscious algorithm to spark attraction where the…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:39 PM
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"right" Even better than "ok". Keeps the hamster spinning more. This is standard cc rider, approaching the wall and fishing for bb till it's not too late. This was not about your SMV, but about your willingness to invest. You did buy her a drink and hamster was haaaapy, but after the remark that the next round should be on her (/s isn't that amazing that modern womyn actually don't like the whole idea of 'equality'? /s), the hamster was outraged -> and you've got a nuclear shit test. What she wa…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 01:43 PM
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There's one important, if not the the most important, piece of the puzzle that you're missing: menstrual cycle and how it affects them. Without taking that into account your observations are hit or miss. The same woman is not the same during the month. http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/25/your-friend-menstruation/ http://marriedmansexlife.com/2010/02/ovulation-game-learn-her-cycle-and-close-on-tuesdays/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/03/31/the-number-one-dead-giveaway-that-your-wife-is-abo…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 09:44 AM
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As a rule, a girl in love will rarely shit test It's important to note though that if she's not interested at all, there will be no shit testing. No shit tests is either very good (confirmed alpha and usually of much higher status) or very bad (hopeless beta). You might be at that weird stage where girls are starting to like you but notice incongruencies and weakness. I think you nailed it. Also my experience after learning about TRP and starting to implement it. OP, you're sending weird vibes, …
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:24 PM
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http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2004/07/pook-19-what-every-skinny-guy-should.html
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:22 PM
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The sad part is you can't do anything. Many here have tried to enlighten their unplugged friends and came back here to rant. It's just doesn't work. Even with people you are close with. And now imagine trying the same on global level. You don't even have to imagine, we all know how much we are popular here on reddit. So, if you can't educate them, you can only sit and watch the whole system to become soooo rotten that in one point there will be revolution. That's what history thought us over and…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:12 PM
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So men are finally starting to get it. The trend is spreading. Recently I stumbled upon some thread on Quora (IIRC) about feminism being possible cause for skyrocketing divorce rates - the answers were as you would expect and someone even showed the graph proving that the number of divorces is actually going down. And it's true, however on the graph there was also a line showing that the number of marriages was also going down and when you plug in the numbers (marriages #s going down faster than…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:55 PM
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Once you work on it for a while it's an interesting question whether the body leads the mind. I do find that in a tense situation the fact that I find myself standing with good posture with my chest out and shoulders back makes me feel more confident irrespective of how good or bad my argument is. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:49 AM
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Speaking of Yo Elliottm , I posted this some time ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/comments/23uqa6/how_to_deepen_your_voice_and_boost_confidence/
/r/askTRP09/09/14 10:30 AM
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That's your SMV then. Disappointed? Good, that'll motivate you to work hard on yourself. Facial aesthetics (plastic surgery aside) or height you can't change, but there's plenty of things you can: body language - how you handle yourself, including how you talk and project your voice clothing/fashion/style etc. build muscle/cut fat - the most important here cause it'll attack the real problem, the answer to all confidence, dominance, <insert any masculine trait> issues: Testosterone. Read this: h…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 04:14 PM
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No more than 3 and I'm being generous. He's a child trapped in grown man's body.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:06 AM
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This needs to be posted more: http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:00 AM
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Another vote for putting this in the sidebar. Excellent go-to for beginners trying to grasp the basics without the need to dig through Rollo's and Roissy's blogs (more thorough but time consuming). Good job Ian.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:24 AM
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"Women are completely oblivious to their own natures" - deep truth I've read on some manosphere blogs. Accept that fact and everything makes sense: hamstering, giving horrid advice to men about how to seduce women, AF/BB ... all the way down to cases like this: she really wants to give that clueless guy a chance, she comes on the internet to seek advice, she wants to believetm ... but she can't and cannot understand why.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:46 AM
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That's the whole point of the article - to accept what's natural and not fall for feminist propaganda. (prepubescent children is not natural, no one's arguing that)
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:31 AM
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You're right about that. But then again the effects of Zinc (or lack thereof) are well documented and easily 'googlable'. Anyways, this is good friendly reminder of some other aspects of becoming a man: if someone is lacking important micro-nutrient, he'd be better off fixing that first before trying to discipline his will and change habits.
/r/becomeaman31/08/14 09:43 AM
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The correct answer. It's the typical beta guy who for some reason (and temporarily) does some alpha thing. It's not 'natural non-RP guy' as some described here - naturals are 'all the time', it's what they are even if they are completely unaware of this subreddit or manosphere blogs. This is about accidentally doing something right.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 08:19 PM
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...took her back to my place and escalated Exactly at this point 'third date rule' goes out of the window. Sushi was the metaphorical 4th date and now you're hoping to close on 5th or 6th. In reality she's cockteasing you into Oneitis and Betabuckville. She's not that into you. And I hope you weren't the only one paying for that sushi and drinks. Time to stop with giving her your time, validation (money?) ... no sex => no commitment. Get out of her frame. And the sex you're hoping for (if it hap…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:18 PM
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Testosterone. Alpha, confidence, dominance, assertiveness, masculinity ... it's all about Testosterone. Stuff nerdy beta with loads of T and watch him become dominant cocky amused 'asshole' without even thinking about it. Women are not drawn to jerks because jerks, they are drawn to men with high levels of T (Pook's words:"I believe they can sniff it").
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:45 PM
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If r/relationships does one thing right, it is they don't tolerate cheaters. Yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:35 PM
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Somebody send the link to Roissy
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:57 PM
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By not having a profile in the first place. Men with real social status, circle of friends, business, interesting things they're pursuing do not have time to waste on counting e-validation points.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:34 PM
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This must be a troll. Common. I was blue pill little more than year ago and even then I would laugh at something like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:16 PM
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Happened to me occasionally. It's likely you need more sleep. I used to be sleep deprived for long periods (shitty life schedule) , 5 maybe 6 hours/day. Way below 8 which is a minimum. Sleep deprivation is also one of the reasons for lower T levels, from 10 to even 30%. Good thing is you only need a week or so to get back to normal. It doesn't matter that much though, just do the exercise, there will be results.
/r/becomeaman12/08/14 10:37 AM
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... I'd really like to become attracted to my wife again You can't. You're the product of hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. You're biologically programmed to find certain things attractive/unattractive. And for a good reason, for ex. fat is unhealthy - not good for procreation, at best it's going against the odds. I guess you could go to the hypnotist and get 'persuaded' to find her sexy, but that would not be permanent and why would you do that. Forget about what you can't change (yo…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 12:45 AM
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Just because they are natural born emotional manipulators, it doesn't make them smarter. Those poor men didn't really get deceived with some clever logic that only Mensa members could see through.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:20 PM
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Working as intended. Pook #19 - What Every Skinny Guy Should Know... Best part: My biggest problem is women only wanting me for sex (no, this is not a joke. Yes, it is a problem). You try to find a girl that fits your life and all she is interested in is your body! It is like getting rich and putting up with gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:27 AM
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Apparently we should multiply with a factor bigger than 3.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 09:32 AM
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2 ideas come to mind: Intermittent fasting - or more precisely: skip breakfast; simple as that; while it's hard to eat less once you're sitting at the table, it's much easier to simply say "I'm not eating anything before 12am (or 1pm or whatever you decide)" and stick to the plan; very effective (can confirm); bonus points for skipping breakfast (instead of dinner): boosting production of HGH, a little bit of T and resetting insulin resistance and some other useful stuff that I can't remember/sp…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:30 PM
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Just be careful there ... you never know Oh, and: Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:10 PM
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No, it's a blog. Shark (blog owner) no longer posts but there's plenty to read and learn. http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:19 PM
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I have this book. It's a good book, pretty Red Pill without officially being "Red Pill". Author bashes feminism, teaches you to be confident, leader, dominant, gives practical advice on things like body language, etc - overall solid. Recommended. On the other side there isn't anything new that you won't find in Roissy's, Rollo's and similar manosphere blogs (I'd highly recommend solvemygirlproblems - even though it's discontinued and on life support, this stuff should be on the side bar).
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:59 PM
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This is partly a shit test but also a truth. She's obviously not over him. and my ex is an asshole There. Unless he becomes a nice guy, she won't lose her feelings gina tingles for him anytime soon. So, what do you want? This is plate material at best.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:02 AM
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They are obvious to you and me, but to average nice guy ... ? When you think of it women (and some men, tbh) are often so childish to the point of looking retarded, but the practice shows us they get away with it - it just works, so why not use it. There is also a special case where woman, already checked out, does something outrageous, a bit too overt, with a sole purpose to force him to pull the trigger and end the relationship cause she doesn't have the courage to pull the trigger herself (bu…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:50 AM
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http://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/joblessalpha.jpg?w=500&h=372 http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/the-look-of-confidence/
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:35 AM
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I need to move out and find myself again find myself again find myself I'll translate that for you: 'find myself' is universal code for 'find alpha cock'. Always, no exceptions. You can trust me or you can learn it the hard way. It doesn't mean she already did it, but there's someone very specific that looks promising and that you're still not aware off. She's now weighting pro et contra, thus the shit test. Good job holding your frame. You gave her tingles, that's for sure, only I wouldn't bet …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:10 PM
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However, my ideology has always been based somewhat in heart based decision making ... There was once some 26yo dude who was also following his heart and promised and believed in true love to that chick, was faithful and caring. In the meantime she spread her legs to some throwaway1230528262 dude, while still telling sweet lies to her committed boyfriend with a big heart. It lasted for months before she finally did the only honest thing and broke up. ... and abandoning that process would nullify…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:01 PM
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Dude, wait, no! Forget about all the 'friendship' and other emotional crap. You're The Man - you don't 'follow your heart', you process the facts and make rational decisions. And the facts are ... you'e 23 and want a family some day - that's cool, but investing yourself into serious ltr, let alone marrying before at least 30 is not an option for gazillion reasons. Your job now is to work on yourself, prepare for the future (how will you support the family?), network, create value in every possib…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 10:04 AM
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You'll find this interesting (watch the vid): http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/killer-instinct/
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:00 AM
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This isn't even Red Pill. Just common sense and basic self respect. And the fuck is wrong with today's girls? She lives in the apartment that he's paying for and still has no shame to pull that. Somebody PM the guy, he belongs here.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:42 PM
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Brad Pitt - Achilles from Troy (and most BP's characters for that matter) Also this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_lToyPAUyE The epitome of masculinity (check out comments)
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:27 AM
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Different game - no. The only thing you'll accomplish is to fool yourself. If you 'game' her properly she'll be very sexual from the get go. Why? Because she's a woman; simple as that. And don't worry about ruining something because too alpha game (it's just in your head) - IF she is LTR worthy, you will be her dream come true and she'll be the happiest girl in the world. Seriously, what can be more fulfilling than getting commitment from alpha. Maybe you could go just a notch slower and don't p…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:57 AM
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Absolutely not. Girls' night out is all and only about getting easy access to fresh dick. "Oh you want to dress little slutty and go out with your single and divorced girlfriends? No problem honey, here hold these divorce papers for me. NOW you can go whenever you feel like. And in the future you don't have to ask me, that's cool."
/r/askTRP24/07/14 07:30 AM
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This! This is the answer to your question OP. The book was specifically written for people like you (and the problem is more complex than you can imagine at this stage).
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:46 PM
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You've got solid replies regarding attitude and how to think about it, but I'll address something different: Sweet Charming Caring Adorable ... Being aggressive, playing games with women, being really dominant, etc. That's not the kind of person I am. this is just another way to say: "I've got naturally low testosterone". Attack the problem from that angle. And yes, it's a big problem and not only for getting laid. And when you boost your T, you'll notice that being aggressive and dominant comes…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 09:24 AM
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Yet women who read about them love to hate on them, claiming not to care and "don't let the door hit you on the way out, boys!"... ... when they are still young and have plenty of alpha cox. Do they really care about betas refusing to play the mating game? Not at all. Maybe a little, because validation, but no biggie. ...whilst simultaneously ranting endlessly about them. ... cause they've hit The Wall and now alphas are telling them "don't let the door hit you on the way out, grrrrrls!" when th…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:23 AM
1

I dunno the details. Just stumbled upon these 2 gifs and immediately recognized probably the #1 RP (and not only RP) concept: frame control. And it's a good laugh.
/r/TRPOffTopic12/07/14 05:47 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/4Ttv1SG.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:13 PM
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Better place to ask is /r/RedPillWomen. From male perspective (say, I'm your brother who wishes you nothing but the best): it's hit or miss, depends on the individual. Good thing: he knows what buttons to press - how to hold frame, pass your shit tests, he's never boring, sex is always great Bad thing: he knows what buttons to press - unlike your typical beta with no game, this guy actually knows how to seduce women; unlike average beta couldn't cheat even if he wanted to and given opportunity, …
/r/askTRP10/07/14 06:10 PM
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Related: http://www.uwgreek.com/frat/home.html
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 09:22 AM
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Of course we're not anti-women. Hell, we like women A LOT. This sub preaches self improvement in every area but #1 reason we are here is ... because we like women. We're not gay or something (nothing against gays). MGTOW is -----> that way. Anyways, when feminists call us misogynists or haters or whatever, this is nothing but manipulation. It's load of BS caused by fear and panic. The real reason, the real threat is best described by Rollo: The Threat This is the threat that Game represents to t…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:34 PM
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http://www.slate.com/content/dam/slate/Authors/rebecca_schuman-authorbio.png Sums it up. (me ugly - me jelly - young pussy stole my betabux ... spinspinspin)
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 07:46 PM
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Dude, stop hamstering yourself. You know what happened. Do you really think they were eating and talking the whole time? And for how many hours? And she even admitted that she was at his place (even worse: after drinking). What do you think they were doing there? Listening to The Beatles? EJECT! Immediately! The sooner the better. This one is rotten. This is Hard NEXT. Hard as a boner after gym. And get STD checked.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 11:17 AM
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This. Tell him. You might give him an 'edge' (I'm poker player) by providing early info. He might be able do something about it or prevent something or at least prepare properly before it's too late.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 12:27 PM
3

Maybe you should just lift more. This might or might not be relevant for your specific case but it's a good read nonetheless: http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2004/07/pook-19-what-every-skinny-guy-should.html
/r/askTRP04/07/14 01:28 PM
1

So true. I've lost plenty of respect for him after subbing to his newsletter. Major overall disappointment. Still, his videos and his messages are top notch and I'll keep watching the vids on YT.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:05 PM
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I'm thinking of discussing these things with her. No no no, this is one thing you must not do. She's less sexual. Time for dread game. http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/
/r/askTRP26/06/14 12:09 PM
1

Read this: The Revealed Preferences Of Drunk Girls Alcohol is truth serum, and a drunk girl will reveal her true desires faster and more boldly than a sober girl who has mental checkpoints, border guards and lockdown procedures in place to dupe provider beta males about the nature of women’s sexuality that is unleashed in limbic lands just beyond his ken. Now you know, it's just whether you want to.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:17 AM
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ALPHA On February 21, 2012 by Shark The question had recently chanced upon me; how do we define the “Alpha Male?” It has never come up before, but I can’t say I’m surprised. The concept is taken for granted and given a certain degree of flexibility. We hear the term “Alpha Male” and we mechanically imagine a prototype figure with very specific characteristics depending on our unique perception of masculinity. But if you REALLY try and DEFINE what it means to be Alpha, in a universal sense, the c…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:45 PM
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There are 2 ways of complaining about boyfriend (alpha or beta or however you perceive him): 1) she's not very emotional while talking about him, more like giving facts what he did, etc. => GREEN LIGHT; she wants to be "stolen" (by you, duh). 2) she's very emotional while talking about him, she's trying hard to express her feelings of how she was hurt when he did that and how she cried later that night and shit like that => RED LIGHT; she sees you as beta sexless LJBF; you're wasting your time. …
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:41 AM
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Hahaha, haven't laughed so much in a while. On a serious note: there are some creative ways to pass the shit test.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:18 PM
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As funny as it sounds ... since, well, this is TRP after all ... but it seems that you have to beta it down. You are too alpha i.e. the SMV difference (perceived by her) is huge. And probably not only because of preselection, but also looks and status. No wonder you have zero problems getting sex. The problem is she is so insecure that she might eject to minimize emotional damage. Wouldn't be the first time for a girl to run away from alpha. This is not a shit test (her sexual affection is the t…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:50 PM
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Well, then you've missed the step one. Your chances are slim if she's with friends or in public where someone could see her. Even if she's horny and wants you bad, the anti-slut shield will be up ... well, not with uber-sluts but it's still swimming upstream. Just lead her (she expects you to, you're the man) outside or some private place ("it's noisy here, we can't talk", excuse doesn't really matter) and now your chances are x1000 better. Here's a good, almost textbook example from GoodLooking…
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 06:34 AM
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Someone isn't sexually interested, so you should touch them more? If she's not interested, she'll let you know sooner than later. And that is a good thing: you don't waste time (and money). You just move on.
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 06:00 AM
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One word: KINO (assuming you've done the isolation part) It's too much to write in detail here. Just google it/search youtube for examples. But this is definitely the reason and typical beginner's mistake that usually ends like you've described: pleasant chit-chat and jack off when you get home. You must keep touching (and escalate).
/r/trpGAME25/05/14 03:59 PM
1

Book of Pook. #1. The Bible. If you could pick one and just one book about women, this would be it. EDIT: read online
/r/askTRP16/05/14 10:07 AM
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I lol'd. On a related note - Roissy, What A Girl’s Job Tells You: Lawyer Amoral alpha males with vaginas. Their yin is so deeply buried they spend all their free time (2 hours per week) fantasizing about a powerful dominant man releasing their inner woman. This is your cue to ratchet up the assholery. Outside of i-bankers and fashionistas, you will not meet a more materialistic or status-conscious chick than a lawyer. When she inevitably starts talking about what law school she attended and poli…
/r/askTRP13/05/14 05:33 PM
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There is no unicorn and even if it does, chances are none here will ever find it. But there sure are more quality girls, less spoiled, worth hanging with, not just pump&dumped. The rules still apply though: if there's no sexual vibe from the get go, your wasting your time (and money) and will regret it. Maybe you could go just a bit slower if you're certain she's a virgin, but I wouldn't go past the commonly accepted 3 dates rule.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:58 PM
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My thoughts exactly. She's hitting The Wall, wants to marry and withholds sex - textbook description of beta provider.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 03:08 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:21 PM
2

Porn? Fapping? If yes then www.yourbrainonporn.com. Also /r/NoFap
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:24 PM
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Well, he was beta from the beginning ... I'd asked my SO before if he would want to try an open relationship or swinging and he said no. Can any Man (with capital M) imagine giving commitment to and having a 3 years LTR with this kind of girl? Inevitable happened.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:28 PM
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I don't see what's wrong with sometimes being hurt. If you are easily insulted: you're insecure, not confident - exactly the opposite of what women are attracted to. And not only do they find it unattractive, but they are repulsed/disgusted/hate it with passion. And not only women for that matter. Men too will not be impressed with someone that's easily insulted, even man that are not easily slipping into bully mode. Imagine a toddler telling you: "you're ugly" or something along the lines ... w…
/r/askTRP10/05/14 01:16 PM
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All in all, I ask: what am I and why is not attractive to women? You can easily be uber-alpha raid leader in your favorite MMO and a dork IRL so thinking binary alpha<->beta is useless. Speaking of women, I'll point to this specifically: A simple insult from anyone can wound me for hours or days, I care deeply about people especially girls that I like, I am extremely open with my emotions and default to being an open book unless I see a specific reason to not disclose There's your problem! You'l…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 11:50 PM
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Not really. The problem is that people generally associate "vulnerability" with weakness, while Manson has something different in mind (and it really was a bad wording choice on his part). Here's how "vulnerability" can show strength and what he really meant: http://markmanson.net/vulnerability-and-manipulative-women Example 3: Vulnerable Man with Manipulative Woman Him: So after school I actually hitchhiked my way down to San Diego. It was a little bit crazy and my parents hated it. Her: Wow, y…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:40 AM
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Keep practicing, say every morning (or whenever you feel like) - in a month or two deep talk will become a habit.
/r/becomeaman01/05/14 03:56 PM
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He got "4chaned": http://motherboard.vice.com/blog/4chan-bullied-the-og-youtube-fitness-guru-off-the-internet
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:33 AM
1

Mine is dark triad alpha. Very selfish, dominant person, was famous back in his time - TV, politics, followed by business career (now retired), cheated on my mother etc. I still ended as beta cause he 1) didn't give two fucks about children (me and my brother), 2) was obsessed with his career and was out the whole day, we would only see him in the evening. I was 100% raised by my mother. Not that I don't respect my mother, quite the opposite, she did all in her power to help us, support us, the …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 12:56 AM
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Then it's not beta at all. To her this is very alpha to have that much all the power in your hands. It's quite possible to flip the script and have female beta orbiters like you did here (although it's not common).
/r/askTRP26/04/14 02:51 PM
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Here's my uneducated biological opinion: feminism is the leukemia of the society. It's unapologetically destructive, spreads everywhere with the final result being killing the organism as a whole and consequently self destruction.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:47 PM
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These are all good signs. It's clear who's the alpha here and that she can see it. Fits into beta friend picture. And that would also explain him avoiding eye contact: he's jealous. You are doing what he always wanted with this girl. Also if he missed to close 10 years ago and ended in her orbit, it's very unlikely that something will change now. Common wisdom that even blue pillers will agree with is that it takes a miracle to get out of the friendzone. There is also one good indicator, all the…
/r/askTRP22/04/14 07:04 PM
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How hot is he? Does he act like alpha (body language etc)? It is quite possible that he is her beta emotional tampon asexual friend. I've seen that before. In fact I was once 'that guy' to a hot chick and we had a deep connection, shared secrets and some outsiders even thought there was something between us but ofc that was out of the question. But then again it can be what you suspect. Now that you're diseased with oneitiss: buy VOR (voice activated recorder) or two and hide in the apartment. I…
/r/askTRP22/04/14 06:03 PM
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You've got plenty of solid, witty remarks as a way to answer this shit test. I'll just point out that when she says that "she's bored", what she really means is "I need more alpha from you". It's counterintuitive but that's what it is. LTR/married guys will get this line more often than plate spinners.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:04 PM
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This is one thing, yes. The other thing is ... ...ladies from middle school or high school ... ... 10-15 years later ... ... now, can someone please remind me what was the name of that popular Pink Floyd's song ;)
/r/askTRP22/04/14 12:27 PM
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Losing fat is your #1 priority (doable at home) and getting muscle would be #2 (hard without gym). You've got plenty of good advice here. I'll just add: search Youtube for "freeletics" if you want something structured, a program. General advice will be to avoid jogging and similar slow, low intensity and boring exercises. Instead go for HIT - high intensity training (google it). That means sprinting 30sec, walking 90sec, rinse, repeat. High intensity! Whatever you do. If you're bored during work…
/r/becomeaman22/04/14 12:19 PM
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Let's say at the moment he can fuck 3s. Working on himself (in every way we preach here) will get him up to 6s maybe, or a 7 when the stars align perfectly? It's worth it! I'd take it! But you're still missing the big picture: IMPROVING. Look at this dude again and imagine him with hair redone, manly beard, +30lbs of muscle, stylish clothes, fully confident ... and how about putting a cool million ($ ofc) in his pockets. Can you imagine him banging a 10? I can. And we haven't even got to the 'Ga…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 11:27 PM
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Off topic: I'm former EVE player but wasn't really into politics/warfare (I was your typical explorer lone wolf type). Can you roughly estimate to what type of corporations those girls gravitated the most? I'd guess Null SOV holders (heh) or maybe they were leaching ISK from miners, I dunno, just curious how hypergamy works in virtual environment.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 11:24 AM
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Look at her, then look at him: "Nice try".
/r/askTRP19/04/14 10:20 AM
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Sums it up. I still cringe thinking of my old self.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:23 PM
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Sorta but it's a double edged sword. Too much Game and you can overcome incompatibility by pure alpha-ness, but it will bite you back eventually. Too little and you won't accomplish anything, because woman. One of many reasons LTRs/marriages are called 'hard mode'. TRUST YOUR GUT is probably the only good advice here. Everything else is theorizing.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:20 PM
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There is also one little factor that I can't recall seeing on TRP, that might explain why exactly you think that way (but it sure isn't the only factor, just a part). Athol Kay explained it in MMSL primer and I hope he won't mind me quoting (emphasis mine): We’ve all experienced meeting a lot of what appear to be very similar people with the same general attractiveness, but sometimes individual people stand out from the crowd and just hold our attention. A whole team of people might agree that t…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:56 AM
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The 5 Stages of Unplugging It's just a phase. We've all been there. And it'll pass. In the meantime keep improving; good things are coming!
/r/askTRP18/04/14 07:35 AM
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She told me, after we were done fucking, about her having an attempt at sex with 1 guy. He couldn't keep it up because of the nerves. EL OH EL Hamster is strong in this one. OP, I think you already know what really happened. Trust your instincts. This is damaged beyond repair and at worst you can keep her as a plate - which I advise you not to; you've already developed oneitis and even thought about marrying. Instead dump her (fat) ass and move on with your life. I'm not saying you should go in …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:19 PM
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yup
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 10:23 AM
1

What would the TRP do? Smash her pussy, that's what. Seriously though, you have a moral dilemma and it has nothing to do with TRP (amoral strategy). Whatever you do it's neither alpha nor beta. Do what feels right.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 10:49 PM
1

The Book of Pook A must. And it's free. Also check out /r/redpillbooks/
/r/askTRP16/04/14 07:44 AM
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Context matters. There's a huge difference between: you coming to her with flowers and saying "I love you" and then waiting for her reaction ... and ... her giving you BJ, doing her best and you saying "ohhhh yess, that feels good, I love you baby" My example is a bit extreme, but you get the idea. Properly stated even "I love you" can be alpha, but not in the way you think (and certainly never be the first one to say it, ever).
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:21 PM
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It feeds the hamster, that's the point. She's trying to insulate her solipsistic fantasy world from naked truth. Imagine a child in the middle of the argument, covering ears and singing "LALALALALALA". She's mostly lying to herself.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:13 PM
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Testosterone levels, then and now.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:52 PM
1

Become more selfish. Mandatory reading: The Only Piece of Advice You Will Ever Need to Pick Up and Attract Women and Keep Them Vying For Your Love, Attention and Affection
/r/askTRP01/04/14 01:28 PM
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OP, "alpha" is very contextual thing. Say, you are friend with not so hot girl and you act naturally, aloof, DGAF - she sees you as alpha that you are and is getting gina tingles when you're around. Then you meet really hot chick that you see as "out of your league" and suddenly you don't know what to say, act like a dork - she sees you as beta and you are. But you are still the same man. Or, another common example, husband gets betaized and his wife is repulsed and not giving him sex anymore. M…
/r/askTRP31/03/14 12:52 PM
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No, most have inclination towards alpha behavior - look at kids, they have no problem doing whatever the fuck they want, looking in the eyes when talking to you, shamelessly asking and insisting on getting stuff or doing things their way, fighting back when (and when not) appropriate ... but, like others have said: conditioning ...
/r/askTRP28/03/14 05:46 PM
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Here's the thing: if you meet her, say, at party with a group of friends that you already know then you act aloof, not giving her too much attention (you're important, she is not). But with direct approach you approach face up (hey, I'm talking to you). Search Heratiste's blog, there are some examples and lots of tips about body language.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 05:39 PM
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From your description: this is plate material. FB, that's it. From the title ("taking a girl"): implying any sort of LTR, this is terrible idea and it will end bad. Why would you want relationship with a girl that'll cheat the moment her BF is not around? If you decide to plate her, make sure she understands that you DGAF about her BF and under no circumstances should she expect your commitment - which is 1) fair and 2) will boost your DHV and make her work harder to please you (in her mind: att…
/r/askTRP26/03/14 07:13 AM
1

"Good. He'll keep you occupied while I'm not around."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:58 PM
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She's clearly DTF. The only question here is logistics (I agree with the hotel idea).
/r/askTRP25/03/14 07:31 PM
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Sidebar for start. But to get deep into the rabbit hole, without wasting too much time rereading same stuff: Two blogs (Chateau Heartiste and The Rational Male) and one book (Book of Pook) is all you need.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 06:43 AM
1

Body language? Soft voice? Start from there. It's hard to imagine bold man standing in front of (and turned at) the girl, saying 'hi' in a way that commands attention and getting no response.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 06:30 AM
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Yes, standard. Now she has an excuse to come back. It's not her fault, it just happenedtm
/r/askTRP24/03/14 06:15 AM
2

Of many resources around the web I'd suggest http://boldanddetermined.com/ Read everything and get his book "30 days of discipline" and just do it (it will be hard). You need it badly and after a month no one will be able to recognize you and 'depression' will be just some abstract idea.
/r/becomeaman20/02/14 08:10 AM
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First and foremost cooking is not beta skill but a basic life skill. As with all things with woman in life: it's about frame and how you hold it. You can be alpha even in the kitchen. As Athol Kay pointed out, there is something primal in giving your (presumably submissive) woman food. At the risk of going too deep into "inner game" that's way to often feelgood-BS ... but try to think about yourself as a caveman and a hunter doing his job - getting food; and that's alpha as fuck and she'll subco…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:58 PM
1

That's the one.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 11:38 PM
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"Be selfish" Probably the best one liner advice I've ever got. Pure gold. There's an article on Victor Pride's blog but I can't link it now (on phone).
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:48 AM
1

It's a well known fact that sleeping less than 8 hours/night (6 being the bare minimum) lowers man's testosterone levels. It takes only one week of sleeping <5 hours to cut Big T a lot, even up to 30%. And if you search "how to increase testosterone naturally" the #1 advice will be to sleep enough. So yea, makes perfect sense.
/r/askTRP06/02/14 10:14 PM
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Men here an I've been subbed from the beginning (after subbing to the main TRP). I don't post much here, mostly lurk, but I can tell you there are some interesting things here that miss the main TRP. And I can't help but notice that RPW is getting traction recently - more threads are popping and overall quality of content is going up, GJ ladies. PS. and as a man you really shouldn't ask women - you judge by yourself, you decide, you do
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 03:45 PM
1

Well ... she's 41. She might have been 'party', but hardly a 'girl' anymore. And there must be more to this story, but let's just say there isn't. That's how post wall sluts can really be desperate. As for the guy I feel really sorry for him: he's got feminist raised old, used, useless cum dumpster, bitter alpha widow - pure trash.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 12:32 PM
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This is really a question for /r/nofap, but anyways: What you experience is normal typical after starting the reboot. Fapping addiction (and just about any other addiction) is based on dopamine. Your brain craves it. And since you've stopped it's production the way it's used to, it tries to lure you back cause, well, it's been your modus operandi for years. It'll stop at one moment, followed by days of "flatline" (sharp drop in libido) and then again spike then drop etc. If you get some real gir…
/r/askTRP30/01/14 12:09 AM
1

relevant read: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/03/27/the-revealed-preferences-of-drunk-girls/
/r/askTRP29/01/14 10:27 PM
1

For reference: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-crab-basket-effect.html?m=1
/r/askTRP29/01/14 09:23 AM
2

This! Set the boundaries loud and clear - and that's not clingy or jealous, that's alpha as fuck If she crosses the line - hard next
/r/askTRP26/01/14 09:34 PM
1

It's simple: first comes the attraction then comes the funny, not the other way around. When AFC acts funny he's a clown. When a girl is already attracted she will find the guy funny no matter what. Even if his jokes are retarded (we've all seen it). She'll hamster it out, usually unaware of the underlying process. And when you ask womyn for dating advice there's a mandatory "be funny" usually on top of the list, not because she's trying to deceive you, but because she doesn't know any better. A…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:06 PM
3

You're on the right track and those are good examples. Not that it's something huge, make-or-brake, but every little bit helps. Keep practicing and reminding yourself till it becomes second nature. Yea, it is "fake it till you make it" approach and I can already hear naysayers and inner-gametm zealots, but essentially you are developing a new habit. So practice every chance you get. (it takes about 60 days for a habit to form)
/r/askTRP21/01/14 09:01 PM
1

Paradigm, science, tool ... but not an ideology. Blue Pill is an ideology for that matter.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 08:51 PM
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You did great. She wanted to lure the beta out of you, to see if you can be shaken by her irrational moody shit. Instead you held your frame like a champ and remained unaffected. And that's exactly what she needed - reassurance that she's with a strong man. I'd bet that phone call made her horny. Next time you see/hear her, don't even mention it, as if nothing happened, just be cool. From The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipu…
/r/askTRP20/01/14 07:18 AM
2

/applause ... every single choice in life comes down to making a choice between freedom and security, and nothing more ... I've just had an epiphany.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 06:05 PM
1

Inspiring and spot on. This is the frame to begin with, then the rest naturally fits in.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:23 PM
1

Hahahahahaha OMG! (programmer here) This is beyond awesome. Whoever came up with this and put so much thought and effort into this ... good sir, I bow in awe.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 06:02 AM
1

Someone should xpost this to /r/becomeaman as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 04:38 AM
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came to this sub 2 days ago, via the askreddit thread. My heart melts every time I see this. Those feminazis & manginas inc. are wasting so much time and energy bashing on us ... Result? Tons of freshly unplugged subscribers. @OP: Take your time, read, try a little, then read more. It takes time to digest all the material and ultimately accept the new reality. Read this: The 5 Stages of Unplugging ... and it'll be a bit easier realizing that what's happening to you is normal, Red Pill is bitter …
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:49 PM
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And yet he has more spirit than majority of 6'2 'bros' (AFCs). And he's just started with RP, not even properly warmed up. Well played OP. Of course there are still many obstacles on the way, you're only half way there, I'm sure you know that. Stay focused, hold your frame, soon she'll be yours.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:34 PM
5

Woman: "I love you." Translation: "You're alpha/value enough that I'm scared you'll leave me and/or find another woman." Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:30 PM
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This is one among many Elliott's videos that belong here. I'm subbed to both his chanells. Smart, educated, down to earth guy and pretty Red Pill ("don't put pussy on pedestal" and "women are waste of time" videos come to mind).
/r/becomeaman06/12/13 08:19 AM
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Correct. Too much alpha will eventually make her extremely uncomfortable (often to the point of emotional breakdown) and she'll eject. Just bear in mind that for many alphas it's a feature, not a bug.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 07:05 PM
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The Married Man Sex Life Primer, by Athol Kay
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/13 05:26 PM
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I'm only angry for not swallowing RP earlier. And boy am I angry last month or so getting flashbacks of all the blue pill crap I went through, missed opportunities and lolbad mistakes I made. I guess it's personal attitude or maybe I'm past that depressive phase, but I'm now in 'opportunistic' mode, experimenting, playing just for fun, like a toddler in toy store ... and what can be more fun than learning some weird new trick and seeing it actually works. No real point in denying, it's how it is…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 05:57 PM
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Sorry, my bad. Just checked in MMSL. (although I'm sure I've seen the other version too in some RP blog)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:32 PM
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ILYBINILWY – I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You. I believe this is - I Like You But I’m Not In Love With You.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:15 PM
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yourbrainonporn.com r/nofap
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 07:58 AM
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Absolutely! That's what I've told my future wife back in my semi-alpha/beta days (in retrospect I was ok back then, the problem was betaizing after years of being married) when it became obvious where our relationship was going. I wasn't talking to her directly, but made sure to send a message, loud and clear, that cheating in any form or shape will not be tolerated and that "I was always ready to drop 'the whore' on the spot the moment the news get to me" and that's completely irrelevant if tha…
/r/askTRP27/11/13 11:11 PM
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True that. Sometimes it's broken beyond repair and you'll have no other option but to next her. The ultimate goal of MAP is to make yourself better and have a healthy marriage/relationship with better woman. If she doesn't comply there's another around the corner. Red Pill 101.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 10:05 PM
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Athol has warned you that once you start with the MAP you are effectively destabilising the marriage and should expect to face heavy resistance. They never give up bad behavior without a fight and this is it. Keep pushing, hold your frame, this won't last forever. Always remind yourself that you are not responsible for her feelings. (and in the meantime gina is getting weird tingles while the hamster is about to die of spinning)
/r/askTRP27/11/13 09:38 AM
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Most betas, when they first learn game and apply it to their dealings with women, are utterly taken aback by how effective it is. A light goes on, and they feel the spiritual alpha surge of a thousand ancient warriors coursing through their veins and guiding them on the path of righteousness. Swing your two-handed skin sword and drink heartily from the scrotal-shaped chalice, Warrior-Poet! Your dominion over the gina tingle is assured. AMEN
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:27 PM
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ditto EDIT: he just replied that he's read this thread and posted [update]
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 05:44 PM
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Do this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvBKC_8TTao
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:30 PM
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Doing nothing will put you in beta mode because your SMV will fall. Actually SMV difference goes up in man's favor during time. Still it's not enough and one should always work on himself (I agree with the rest).
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:15 PM
2

I died a little inside.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 05:17 PM
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My understanding of 'shit test' (correct me if I am wrong), is when a woman does something to explicitly test if a man will 'call her on her shit' No it's not that explicit although some women do that. In fact most women shit test subconsciously. To quote Rollo: "Women’s shit testing is a psychologically evolved, hard-wired survival mechanism." Like bats emitting ultrasound to navigate in the darkness. Read the sidebar material, blogs listed, some threads here or /r/asktrp, it's been discussed a…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 03:53 PM
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Him?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 03:39 PM
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Where are these people coming from? (unless it's a troll) Alright, I was beta in my younger days and had my fair share of blue pill, but even in my beta-est days I couldn't even imagine GF telling me something like that (never happened) and me pondering what to do, asking for advice or something ... seriously? Why hasn't he dumped her on spot!?? And if "friend" decides to fuck her - dump him too! (what kind of "friend" is that?)
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 05:42 PM
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Or like ... Spoon boy: Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead... only try to realize the truth. Neo: What truth? Spoon boy: There is no spoon. Neo: There is no spoon? Spoon boy: Then you'll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 06:27 PM
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You should really read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:21 PM
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Similar story here. Strong alpha father, but no connection (he sucks with children, both my brother/me and now my children) and raised by mother.
/r/becomeaman14/11/13 05:44 PM
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Sidebar worthy. Friendly reminder to new/ignorant redditors: Right under the OP there's a "save" link - click it. (later you can go to your profile and on the upper bar there's the [saved links] button)
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 09:22 PM
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Thank you so much from the father of two daughters.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:56 PM
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Big Thank You to you and guys like you. That's exactly how I got here.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 08:06 AM
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The Red Pill, duh
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 06:12 PM
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Agree with what everyone said: NEXT Just wanted to link this ... Respect > Lust > Love http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/07/30/respect-lust-love/
/r/askTRP10/11/13 09:04 AM
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She wanted to get some water. She wanted to find some pizza. Looks like she was into you and doing the 'isolate' part (that should really be your job). (can't find better link, just to ilustrate) instigate-isolate-escalate
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:05 PM
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women are keepers of sex, men are keepers of commitment
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:26 PM
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When woman suddenly comes out with the opening relationship idea, that usually means she has someone very specific in mind. Chances are 50/50 that she's cheated already. And I think this guy is smart enough to figure that out. Kudos to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:17 AM
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The next thing husband is gonna hear is "I like you but I'm not in love with you tm " - she's got someone on the side for quite some time and is stepping out of the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 03:23 PM
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shit tests vs plain old bad behavior It's both and you failed, not because you didn't respond, but because you ... turned on and jumped me when we got back ... rewarded her for bad behavior (I assume you accepted). It's important to note she crossed the line, probably because you (being TRP aware) successfully deflected lighter shit tests, so she upped the antes to see where your boundaries are. Of course that's unacceptable. Now the problem is how to tell her that "you're affected by her behavi…
/r/askTRP05/11/13 09:26 PM
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This is one of those things I have that is an immediate deal breaker for me. It's probably stupid, but it shows a complete lack of respect if she won't change her name. Agreed wholeheartedly: a deal braker. And it's not stupid for the reasons stated - lack of respect. It's clear where it's heading and what will come in N years. Just like it's good idea to leave immediately when you hear the Geiger Counter crackling, obviously not because you don't see/hear/smell anything atm, but because what's …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:25 PM
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This thousand times! Educate him first, then encourage to make the change.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 11:36 AM
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So my friend and I got up and left without saying anything. I've never done anything like that before but it felt like the right thing to do. He called and asked where I was, I told him we left and he was really shocked. He stayed out and kept drinking and called me a dozen times... There ya go - this is NOT 'alpha' behavior. From your description it's more like someone who's manipulative, insecure, arrogant, no integrity, actor who's read one PUA book too many and thinks he's the shit, while us…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 09:48 AM
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Sexual game - tl;dr: They like it rough. Each one of them. Go cavemen. (I'm dead serious, not trolling)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 06:52 PM
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Yes and yes. Strong eye contact is the sign of dominance - you're supposed to be 'alpha' and demonstrate dominance. Even with other men. And if you have to break it for some reason, do it by moving your eyes to the side, not by looking down (sign of submission). Keep practicing all day and every day, till it becomes second nature.
/r/askTRP02/11/13 06:34 PM
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TIL I'm beautiful, poor and likely to get divorced (two daughters) On a serious note #8 really hit me, being a married man soon to hit 40 and not getting enough sex 10 years into marriage (I now understand why and that's how I found TRP int he first place). My reaction? I suddenly felt the urge to do some major changes in my life, I even started working out (never considered it in my 20s). There's some weird feeling as if I'm young again, like a bear waking up from hibernation. And yea, it's def…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 06:28 PM
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Along the lines of ... Her: “So how many girls have you been with?” You: “You’re my first actually” Her: “Really, how many girls have you been with?” You:” You mean tonight?” Her: “C’mon, how many girls have you been with?” You: “You know, I really lost count after 50″ (or something outrageous). Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. ht…
/r/askTRP01/11/13 05:39 PM
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That's exactly what Athol Kay was talking about in "MMSL Primer" book. The guy, without even knowing the theory, successfully executed what Kay calls "Man Action Plan". By working on himself - less neediness (alpha) and appearance he upped his SMV to the point that he became attractive to his wife again (implying she betaized him after after marriage, as usual). And let's not forget SMV aging chart. What Kay argues is that cases like this (women losing sexual interest) are not due to wives being…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:53 PM
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idontwanttoliveonthisplanetanymore.jpg
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 07:20 AM
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And don't forget STDs.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:21 PM
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guess where my name comes from
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:46 PM
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Classic LMR (Last Minute Resistance). Super-standard maneuver that you'll see a lot ... if not every time. Don't be hard on yourself. In fact you've done everything correct and failed on the very last test, which accounts for 90% success overall. I know, I know, you still feel shitty about it, but give yourself some credit, that's a good start. You didn't know about it and that's fine. And you're in for learning how to get things done. Take this for what it really is: valuable lesson and clear p…
/r/askTRP28/10/13 09:52 PM
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We live in feminist society. More than 90% males are raised (indoctrinated) to be betas. Some find the right path on their own, but most don't. And most of us here came from the Blue Pill background i.e. opted to be unplugged, for that matter. Now imagine some bunch of 'weirdos' come, with sound theory and proof to back it up, and basically tell you: "dude, you suck! man up!" - this, I believe, is where the hate comes from. The hardest thing in the world is admitting your mistake. And to make it…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:53 PM
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26 days and counting. Best decision in my life. Relevant info: http://yourbrainonporn.com/
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 08:13 PM
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You do now you can "save" the thread (right under OP), don't you?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 08:11 PM
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I second this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/13 05:11 PM
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I didn't downvote you That part about sperm and sperm wars is kinda odd. Agreed. Maybe he's blowing it out of proportions or cherry picking random facts to muster a theory. As for "fairly simplistic and rather obvious stuff" - it depends where you're coming from. OP and men with similar problems (myself included), coming from Blue Pill background and who've just discovered Red Pill have (obviously) a lot to learn, starting from basics. For that specifically MMSL is recommended read (IMHO) cause …
/r/askTRP24/10/13 05:56 PM
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I'd suggest Athol Kay's "MMSL Primer". In a nutshell: be alpha, aim for SMV 1 point higher than her's, but it's really not that simple - you should balance alpha and beta traits.
/r/askTRP23/10/13 08:58 PM
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Of course it is! I can remember quite a few ugly guys picking chicks like it's their job - that is from what I've seen with my own eyes. Not to mention stories and stories over the internet. And if it's gonna be easier think criminals, bikers and similar 'bad boys' that always get hot chicks - can you find one that looks like fashion model? See what I mean? It's the attitude. How you handle yourself. It's in your head. I'd even argue that we have it easier, cause ugly women can't do much when we…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 03:06 PM
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I've got 2 daughters, the other is still a baby though. Dunno, would be easier with son. What I do take care of is not let the older one get into bad company and learn to cheat, lie, be jealous and similar traits. And way more often than not I was shocked at how girls, even at that age can be mean. In all honesty my wife (raised in conservative family) is fully supportive and totally agrees with that "old values" approach. But now if you ask me how that fits into red or blue mold - I have no ide…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 05:41 PM
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I expect this to be another feminist ****. But more publicity will draw many curious men to places like this, even if they are brainwashed and critical to begin with. And then when they start reading and start questioning themselves - chances are many will be converted or at least shaken to the point that they'll never forget that tempting Red Pill. There's too much quality, scientific material to shrug it off easily. Worked for me at least. Once the new horizons were opened I couldn't help but …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 05:21 PM
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Old classic: "Dirty Rotten Scoundrels"
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 08:13 PM
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We have gone to 2 counsleors, and that didn't help much ... ...When the counselor asked us what our problems were, I couldn't tell the truth... Seriously? What did she expect, magic pill? Does she go to the doctor like "something's wrong with me, will not tell you what exectly - gimme cure". And as if MCs ever really helped anyone. Feel kinda sorry for the guy, solid beta provider, lost in the Matrix. He needs proper education. MMSL Primer would be a good start or whatever it takes him to make s…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 07:43 PM
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