walkedplane Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	The New Divorce Surge: Why 2025 Will Be the Year of Strategic Divorce AI slop	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/25 03:52 PM
1	Needing advice on finding a new friend group pre divorce Rock climbing, paintball, and mountain biking have all been exceptional for this personally. We moved to a state closer to her family many years back, and I had no personal friend group here. These completely turned that around so rapidly its almost comical. They're all inherently social to a degree, create bonds via shared struggles (a common thread thats been proven to build strong lasting friendships/bonds), and each has a different flavor of crowd (climbing skews younger with some older folk…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/25 04:04 PM
3	Hang with the Boys Paintball and rock climbing here; huge difference in my mental (and physical) maintaining these two	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 11:37 AM
1	Going through separation, no single friends. Not divorced (yet), but I found friends via shared interest (cycling, paintball) - both hobbies that have an older (30s-40s) crowd, that are para-social (e.g. socializing isnt the core focus) and has led to me having a great group of people to call - some single, some not.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/25 02:40 AM
1	Trying to rebuild life after divorce and need ideas for hobbies and activities Paintball for me. Forced me to get my fitness back in order, to socialize, got me engaged with a team of folks (there are teams that skew 30s for sure). It's also very adaptable to different fitness levels Just absolutely the thing I needed. edit: I see you're in DC/Baltimore area - you have some good fields out your way (where I'm from). Feel free to hit me up if you wanna make a trip up to South NJ and I'd be happy to take ya out and loan some gear	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 01:51 AM
3	Afterschool costs? Whose responsible? If thats the case you 100% need a consult at a minimum	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/23 12:26 PM
2	Afterschool costs? Whose responsible? Probably worth an hour of consult time to know your legal responsibilities (and to be sure there's nothing in the agreement you missed, though you probably have a pretty good familiarity with it) After that, agreement is the agreement imo Extracirriculars, etc - obviously contribute equally (sports, whatever). But childcare for her convenience without agreement? Check with lawyer, pay the fee, be sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/23 12:13 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2022 I never understand the guys who are RP aware or lurk for years. > What finally makes them come off the sidelines? Are they actually > committed or just dipping a toe? Combination of failed starts + intermittent reinforcement (which is a motherfucker, psychologically - not an excuse mind you) but have done plenty of introspection and reading here and it comes down to fear, misplaced previous attempts (wrong priorities), and getting brief drips of positive responses leading to complacency. What’s …	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/10/22 07:17 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2022 OYS #1; 5'8, 210lbs, 35 Definitely fat; but fortunately have a really, really good foundation muscle-wise. Lifelong athlete/lifter that went soft over the last 5 years (shortly after second kid was born). Right now, I can recognize that I'm off-the-path and have been RP aware for years; but never been able to internalize it fully in the context of a marriage (before kids, I did pretty ok generally) - I think largely out of fear historically. Long story short: I've nothing left to fear (I'm agnos…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/10/22 05:55 PM