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| 7 | She’s going to drag this to courtThis depends on your state. My ex husband did something similar, demanded a laughable amount of alimony, I offered something incredibly reasonable at mediation. He refused to negotiate and we went to trial. He came after me for all of his attorney’s fees, but the judge found that I had to pay only a proportionate share of the total equivalent to the alimony ratio. He incurred about $50k in fees, I ended up paying about $20k. Similar to a story told in here, it took days for him to stop screaming… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 3 | She’s fighting 50/50You have a lawyer, use him/her. You have to emotionally detach from the money. I lost a lot of money in my divorce. My ex did not work (no kids) and wanted EVERYTHING, 100% ownership and 10k/month alimony. You made the fortune once, you can make it again. All of the stonewalling, refusal to be reasonable is validating that divorce is the only option. Whatever it costs, you will come out better. It hurts, I know. But you cannot let that hurt prevent you from the abundant life ahead of you. Editin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 12:52 AM |
| 15 | Considering suicide. Divorce destroyed my life.I am not a man, but I follow this sub because my experiences are more like that of a man in a divorce than most women. I have felt this way too. I nearly killed myself in my job, was incredibly successful, and through the divorce I fell apart. There are times when I think ending it all is the best thing for me and the world. I’m telling you this because you need to know that thinking dark thoughts is normal for many people going through what you are going through and THOSE THOUGHTS ARE NOT FACTS… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/23 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Alimony modificationI’m following this thread. My ex is also in Florida and I know he won’t be able to survive long without a supportive relationship. I want him to be happy (and cohabiting), so I can stop paying alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced MenI’m a woman, but can I play?! I pay 4K for the mortgage in the house he refuses to leave and $2200 a month. He refused to work for 10 years and stupid me thought the right thing to do was to let him “find himself.” He found himself more than $50k tax free. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 07:06 PM |
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