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I have this, but mainly with girls. If I approach a hot girl, I am doing like LITERALLY 99% of the talking because she won't talk back and seemingly doesn't want to 'encourage' me by talking back, (presumably because i'm not her type) and so gives one words answers at best or maybe just ignores me. So i'll make statements, ask questions, cold reads, everything that 'game' says to do, but it basically never actually works unless she's into me. So I guess it's to be expected when cold approaching …
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:53 PM
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How do you define 'game'? Are you talking like mysterymethod, so routines and negs and not showing intent until they do? Or more Mark Manson, no techniiques really. Just hope that she finds you handsome, and make your intent clear and if she's not interested (which she won't be if she's not into your looks), move onto the next? Also, how to fuck well? I feel like every guy must fuck the same? It's not like we can make our cocks spin around like a helicopter lol. Some secret hip movement or somet…
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:03 PM
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lol, I feel like the idea of 'running game' is the most confusing thing there is nowadays. The line has been so blurred it's beyond recognition. (I guess due to so many conflicting theories and ideas and definitions etc) Sometimes I read stuff hear and it sounds like 'game' = being normal and talking too a girl!. SO yeah, socialising, basically! And then in the next thread someone makes it sound like a mystical skill whereby you can bang any 10/10 teenager you want even if you are an ugly 75 yea…
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:57 PM
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but if you don't game How are you defining 'game' in this context? Most of what I read hear defines game as 'having your life in order' and stuff. And 'inner game' (tell yourself that you are the prize etc). Other than that, it's just approaching and seeing if she's down or not. Isn't that what everyone does? (except they don't call it 'game', but 'trying their luck' or whatever)
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:50 PM
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Examples of how you 'have fun' when you approach a complete stranger? (hot girl at a bar or on the street or whatever). Like, what do you say/do?
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:19 AM
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You have no chance with a girl who's attraction level is under a 5 initially. This is what lots or people were disagreeing with the other day, but I think it's 100% true. 'Game' can't make a girl attracted to you. It can only amplify existing attraction This is exactly why it IS a numbers game despite what some people want to believe
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:19 PM
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How long are you into the game? Had any results yet? Sounds like you done nothing wrong, but the girls you opened probably weren't into you
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:49 AM
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You have any infields? I'd like to know what you talk about to make the date fun and how you actually escalate? (You mentioned 'I tried to escalate' a few times, but i'm not sure exactly what that looked like for you) like, do you use any routines to escalate? I try to touch girls - maybe grab their hands, pull them towards me, touch their legs etc, but if they think i'm ugly, it NEVER works and they recoil lol Just randomly starting to touch a girl out of nowhere whilst your talking about her j…
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:37 AM
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has anyone had proper success with medication? I've always had social anxiety, but I never bothered with meds because it's hard to imagine it actually working in the way that I need it too?? Like, I feel like I need a magic 'bravery' pill! Or a pill that completely eliminated feelings of nervousness. Also stop the nerve induced mental paralysis that happens. For example, once when I was starting a new job, I failed to do the SIMPLEST thing that I was being shown since I was nervous. Literally a …
/r/seduction30/09/17 12:53 PM
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whilst I do agree with you, I then sort of wonder how the ugly guy has a shot even in cold approach bearing in mind she has 300 handsome-as-hell dudes waiting for her on tinder. Like, you say 'online women are more picky', but then normal girls in bars probably also have a tinder account or whatever and obviously have the same endless options, no?
/r/seduction30/09/17 11:59 AM
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probably just reaching the 'hook point' - be able to get too the point where she doesn't want you to just leave her alone and maybe even asks me a question or 2!
/r/seduction25/09/17 12:18 PM
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most guys who get laid don't have a clue how they do it. It's often either good looks, social circle game, or occasionally 'natural game'/cold approach, although like I say, they are largely unaware of what they are doing that is 'working' and so would really struggle to teach it
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:22 PM
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never ask a girl! Worth asking if there's any successful Essex boys here, though
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:47 PM
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If she's into you, she'll let you know This sub doesn't seem to belive in 'game', though which is kinda weird for a seduction sub, lol - The idea is that you can do and say things that help build attraction - not just ''she's either into you or she's not''. That's basically saying 'only looks matter' which I don't think is the ethos of this sub
/r/seduction22/09/17 01:16 PM
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lol. I've been to the US a number of times and am well aware of how much friendlier people are to strangers. Be honest. Have you ever been to Scotland? England? France? Have you cold approached lots of people in the street there, and opened by telling them your name and asking what they are up too? I think I know the answer based on your reply. I've seen vids where YOU approach girls and they ignore you which proves that whether you get shot down or not is not about 'game', but about how approac…
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:07 PM
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lol, the ignorance of youth
/r/seduction18/09/17 08:05 AM
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Met her online and dm her but no response .I kept bothering her and she finally responded and we hit it off How did the messages look? I'd love to pull a hot stranger from online. But when I try, they just ignore or if I try again, they block
/r/seduction16/09/17 01:30 PM
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but my looks help me a lot I guessed that would be the case to be honest, lol. I see it a lot on this forum (guys who get laid always turn out to be handsome)
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:28 AM
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Only English and Polish, but girls don't like me, lol (i'm in UK too- lots and lots of rejections per night, lol) What's your style of game like out of interest? teach me your wayzzzzz
/r/seduction16/09/17 10:06 AM
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yep, as I said, that's what I currently do
/r/seduction14/09/17 09:26 AM
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but should she only know this AFTER she has first shown interest in you, as per mysterymethod?
/r/seduction12/09/17 08:03 PM
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so in terms of indirect game, what 'things' do I need to make sure I do in each interaction? for example negging or breaking rapport or qualification whatever - And regarding what you said earlier about intent, Should she in fact not have a clue that I want to bang her? (I should actually be hiding my desire?) until very late into the interaction?
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:21 PM
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OK - I'll probably go back to indirect then to be honest. Just wanted to give direct a try because it seems to be pushed on here a lot (mark manson seems to be the main man on here and he seems to be like the anti-mytery method lol) But the MysteryMethod also doesn't work for me. The whole, ''if they give you an IOD, give them an IOD back and then a DHV story and make them chase'' but in reality, the girls just walk away, or don't really care about the DHV story lol. Also negs don't go down very…
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:45 PM
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exactly. So we must show our interest. Pople like mark manson say to show this interest straight away and open direct. Mystery was obviously open indirect, neg, show DISinterest to make her chase and then eventually show your interest. But it doesn't seem to work in practice.
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:28 PM
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but anyone can also open indirect and ask for directions or for an opinion. ps - pick-up-artist-forum
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:18 PM
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Do you not think opening direct is 'game'? What are some good breaking rapport things you do? Do you only use them at a certain 'stage' of the interaction? There's also a confusion in regards to 'making your intent clear' which I read a lot on this forum as a vert important thing to do, but it seems to conflict a lot with other advice such as being aloof, opening INDIRECT, breaking rapport etc.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:57 PM
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