wanderer1976 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
155	My uncle will die tonight, death comes for us all.		wanderer1976	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 04:04 AM
6	The Long Way Home		wanderer1976	/r/ThankTRP	22/09/15 05:04 PM

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1	What do you think is the cause for the supposed disparity between what women say they want and what they actually respond to? You want to know what the difference between your "weak woman" and your "strong woman" is? The "strong woman" that "don't need no man" and uses shit tests to try mates or potential mates is nothing but a gold plated, meaning expensive, pain in the ass. Healthy people don't judge their self-worth off of someone else's opinion of them or what they are able to get that other person to do, especially their supposed mate. I have had a woman that did, point in fact, make me work for it. She didn't lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 06:55 PM
24	What do you think is the cause for the supposed disparity between what women say they want and what they actually respond to? "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn!" Master that to the point that you could swear it before God and it be held true, and you will have no more troubles. If she makes you chase her, walk away. If she starts in on bad behavior and shit tests, walk away, and don't respond to her for a few days. Make it clear that at all times, you can walk away and what is more, that you will walk away, and whether she is easily replaced or not, you don't care. Of course this absolutely kills the idea of marri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:23 AM
16	Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why? I wanted the relationship when I was young. I had my "shit together" as you put it. A steady job, enough money for my own place, I even traveled to interesting places. I found that relationship after going through an asshole phase that came after being the guy whose shoulder all the girls cried on as they complained about their boyfriends to me. Years of a sexless marriage and a vindictive and abusive wife change a man. I came out the other side wanting nothing at all to do with marriage, and I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 02:35 AM
3	1 in 4 Millennials will have never married by old age because they "haven't found what they are looking for" Ha! No. What is it, exactly, that you want me to do? You see, I've been through the meat grinder. I've been dragged across the coals. I married that pretty little western princess that everyone, except a few, told me I should marry. I went through years of a sexless marriage, you see, she was unhappy, not that she could ever explain why she was unhappy. Then, she ruined my life in a divorce and did everything she could to render me into modern bond slavery, because she was unhappy, though she fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 02:09 AM
4	1 in 4 Millennials will have never married by old age because they "haven't found what they are looking for" First, these men have watched as their fathers, grandfathers, uncles, older brothers, cousins, and the men in their friends' families get raked over the coals in divorce court. Eventually, you wise up and realize that if you walk down that path (marriage), it's basically only a matter of time before it's your turn. That's enough to make most men walk away. Any excuse works. These women, they are encouraged to believe they are "princesses" and "queens" and that they shouldn't "settle" for less th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 11:52 AM
6	American Wives better on average the Eastern European Women I have a friend who is married to a Moldovan woman. She is none of that. She is pretty, but she is also extremely down to Earth. It probably helps that neither of them were looking for a date when they bumped into each other in Romania.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 01:34 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Nope, wouldn't care. I have even had women figure out the degree to which I don't care and try to neg me on it. At best, I found it humorous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 04:10 PM
2	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. With what? Oh. Nevermind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 05:38 AM
5	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. And how, pray tell, would you meet me? I'm not coming up to you in the street. I may greet you, as in say hello, but I won't break step unless you are maybe, somehow, in Morena Baccarin's league, and I'm not saying I'm in her league. If you can't handle someone that can laugh at you, then my assumption would be that you are pretty insufferable to start with. It would have saved me time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 04:20 AM
4	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. You can poke fun at something without necessarily "negging", which is a concept that I regard to be of dubious use. If I felt something is unnecessarily harsh, I wouldn't do that. That is what you might not understand, I was never controlling. I simply didn't care. I managed to not care at global levels. There was no game that would work on me. No "abundance mentality" on my end, just absolute non cha lance at whether or not she wanted to do anything or not. Some of those that claimed to be like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 04:04 AM
14	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Any more some other dudes might "line up" as you say, looking for sex, but not that many will offer commitment. I was the reverse. I didn't offer much in the way of attention. I was very sparing of any praise. I made a point out of figuring out what she was self-conscious about, then I would poke fun at that. They chased my validation. All of this was while other men were blowing them up daily. Hell of a society. Women think men are interchangeable and happy to raise some other man's kids for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 03:46 AM
38	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. What? No. If women didn't like casual sex, then they would rapidly adapt their parameters for what they are looking for in a mate and rule out the men that are clearly only going to have casual sex with them. Which I suppose is something many young women eventually get around to, but only after they have their "high body count" from years of having casual sex with Mr. Right Now. She can do as she pleases. If she wants to spend a decade pursuing casual sex that she clearly in fact enjoys with all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 02:55 AM
11	Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them? I wasn't one of the "cute" guys. I didn't come from money of any sort. I did what I thought was the right thing. I worked my ass off, took chances, saw it all fail, tried again, had an ex-wife burn it to the ground in what was probably a fit of jealousy, damn near died from the experience, suddenly lost all that extra weight, and then a certain group of women did find me "hot", but don't get me wrong, I can't think of any that would have married me given the chance. I struggled again. I rebuilt …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 07:25 AM
8	The disconnect between men and women makes me sad There was a post on a blog recently where a woman was complaining that she had been on 500 first dates in a little over 4 years and could not find a single one that met her absurd standards. She was maybe a little more than average in most respects. I wonder if it ever occurred to her that an average guy might struggle to get 4 first dates in 4 years, much less 500. The only way we have any idea of the differences is listening to what people who have either had abnormally high doses of medical t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 05:50 AM
2	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. It will happen for two separate reasons. First, there are unsustainable financial debt bubbles throughout our economy and it's a global problem. Government debt, corporate debt, educational debt, private debt, the lot of it's huge and we saw what happens when there is too much debt in the system in 2008. Literally nothing changed and the wrong lessons were learned because banks were bailed out with no significant consequences to anyone who engaged in the activity back then. It's just an everythi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 06:56 AM
2	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. Been watching Black Mirror have you? The past 70 or so years in the US, and probably 50 or so in the western world in general, are an aberration. Society has been easy. It's been especially easy, and especially accommodating to women. Which isn't to say that it hasn't been fairly easy for men. No major wars. No major famines. Air Conditioning has made office jobs comfortable, and the rise of computers has made these office jobs often more financially rewarding than jobs where an actual good is p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 03:58 AM
0	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. If that's it, then she either needs to leave, and take nothing from him as she has is "emotionally revolted" or she needs to be perfectly okay with him being with other women, if he so chooses. You don't get to have your cake and eat it too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 08:17 PM
7	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. But that's just it. When she chose, all of it shut off like a switch. Now, as time has gone on to reveal, I never should have married into that family, and to be sure, had I met them first, I never would have married her. For the count, she has two immediate family members serving more than twenty years for separate incidents where they each killed someone, and to make it better, the man she married is going to jail on child porn charges. Thankfully it didn't involve my kids. They both live with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 07:02 AM
8	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. It was after she lied to the courts to get a restraining order. As I said, I was suffering from depression at the time. I also have a mild case of PTSD. Nothing serious, it can make me grouchy if I don't address it, but it has gotten better over the years. All that combined into a someone that was "lashing out" and "making her feel unsafe", none of which was objectively true. I got blindsided. Officers told me I had 10 minutes to collect some of my belongings and leave my own house. I didn't tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 06:43 AM
15	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. She destroyed the marriage, perhaps, but what did she actually destroy? She had the house. She had the kids. She had lied to all of our mutual friends and turned them all against me. She killed my dog. She captured everything I spent 20 years building. Through the kids she was able to capture ongoing access to any new resources I developed. Said as gently as possible. She lost nothing that she didn't want to lose. I will never allow a woman to place me in such a position ever again. I won't be i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 06:26 AM
11	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. If you are in a relationship, I am going to make the assumption is that sex is part of what got you into that relationship. Then, once you get bored, or comfortable, and you know he hasn't got other options, it becomes, "Naw, I don't need to have sex with him any more, he can't go elsewhere without painful results." I was in a dead bedroom marriage for years. I cried. I begged. I asked for counseling. I paid for a trip I couldn't afford at the time. I went through just about every damned thing y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 05:54 AM
2	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. It's an excuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 05:41 AM
16	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. Ya wanna know what I don't want to do? I don't really want to go into my business, sit at a desk, go over business proposals for hours to put in bids. There are days, when I have my bids lined up, that I really don't want to go do the work. I'd rather just spend the day fishing, or maybe work on the next Great American Novel. You know what I have to do, I change my attitude and thoughts deliberately. I think, before I start, "I want to do this and I want to do my best at it." I control my attitu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 05:40 AM
-7	If you wonder why feminism hasn't helped you with dating or hookups... Because a hairless plains ape is still a hairless plains ape no matter how much technology it's fellow hairless plains apes manage to create and surround it with. We are built to be complementary to each other in a way that feminists and leftists either have a complete blind spot or simply refuse to see, and I don't really know which it is. The effect is the same either way. Girls have been told to act like men to get what they want. Boys are being told to act like women, and have adult males co…	/r/ExRedPill	22/12/20 11:49 AM
2	Are Uninteresting/Boring "Betas" Options' Limited to Single Mothers and Troubled-Past Women? It's about playing the odds. If she is a virgin, there is a statistically low probability of divorce. By the time she has had 5 partners, there is at least a 50% chance of divorce, with an 80% chance that she will initiate the divorce. Russian roulette with six-gun loaded with three bullets that might fire even if you don't touch the trigger is not a good idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 08:11 AM
1	Please stop, it hurts I understand that from your point of view. I also operate a business that almost exclusively only serves other businesses. The business essentially has no public face, and I have no storefront, it's almost entirely located in a small warehouse that I rent. Should I, in your opinion, be spending advertising to attempt to cause people who mostly don't have a need of my products and services?	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/20 04:41 AM
2	Please stop, it hurts Advertising what I offered to, and successfully "selling" what I had to offer to women that wanted that. My beliefs are and were more or less ruthless. Unless she offered me something else, I wouldn't waste my time on her, as I shouldn't if my aim is to get laid. That said, I was equally reckless with the truth. "We can have fun, I would like to have sex, I am not relationship material, you can't expect loyalty out of me, and I don't expect it our of you", was a statement I said more than once. …	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/20 04:20 AM
-3	Please stop, it hurts I have to disagree. People make and use generalities all the time, and they can be incredibly useful. Advertisers and economists study trends and they know roughly what someone in your various group and as a generation will do and want at a specific time in their life. No TV show just gets on TV. The producers intend to market a target audience so they can sell ads. They aren't going to make a show aimed at 40 year old men when the lucrative advertising dollars are 16-28 year old women. Economis…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/20 09:57 AM
3	Red Pill advice is mediocre because it's the kind of advice that is as likely to succeed as it is to fail Mostly. It's the advice I would have given myself. Instead I hung on for years of emotional and physical abuse at her hands because of the kids and because "She luvs me!" I never once used abundance mentality. I was so beat down that I thought no one else would ever want me. Fear-factor, yeah, I was afraid of losing my children and that they would become they daily target of her rage instead of me. That was true. The damnedest thing is that an affair changed it for me. She never knew about it, a…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/20 12:53 PM
2	Red Pill advice is mediocre because it's the kind of advice that is as likely to succeed as it is to fail If your wife isn't willing to have sex with you (absent very good citable reasons you can actually do something about) and isn't afraid of losing you over it (again, regarding you do want to have sex), you have already screwed up. Before anyone gets offended, husbands should also be willing to have sex with their wives, it's a two-way street at all times. Yes, doing those things, practicing certain behaviors, trying to cold approach people, will leave you in some awkward situations. Part of grow…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/20 11:48 AM
7	Ex-red pillers, how were you brought up when growing up? My parents fought constantly. Not physically but they would constantly argue over finances when they thought we were asleep. My mom dragged me to two very different church denominations until I was 14 and just too busy for it. My Dad was too busy working to bother with it. Beyond that I was raised with a very innocent outlook. When it came to girls, I was always told be yourself, be kind, hold the door.... yeah, right. The Red Pill didn't exist then. The internet did not exist as it does today. …	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/20 03:39 AM
3	If it was more socially acceptable to wear makeup as a man, would you? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 01:13 PM
2	30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you. Once I got the hang of it? Smooth as butter. Finding anyone that brought much of anything to the table? Yeah, not likely. I got to where I didn't like it. A song and dance improvisation that both parties were guilty of and then only because we maybe wouldn't be alone for an hour if it all went well. That doesn't count the one where her six year old daughter accused me of "just wanting to fuck her mommy!" (daughters actual words). Or the time I showed up to an address that was a trailer, that cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 05:12 AM
1	Avoiding TRP/EX RP Men I'm 44. Whatever the damage, it was done well before I ever got there. Let's go back to 21 year old me. I didn't like clubs. I didn't particularly like dating. I believed when I said "until death" that actually meant it. I wanted to be married, have a family, and a house with a nice yard and a garden. It took years of emotional, mental, and physical abuse to turn me into what I am now. No, this bizarre western feminism encouraged women to act like men, supported no-fault divorce, promoted single…	/r/ExRedPill	18/11/20 02:03 PM
1	The 8 Biggest Lies Men's Rights Activists Spread About Women As to item No. 3, it just flippantly says, "Oh well, most of these cases are settled out of court, so that's what they chose." I went through that hell, and what you presented isn't even close to the truth. I wasn't a bad dad. For what it's worth, everyone, especially all the single moms, around us couldn't believe she was divorcing me. I was every thing most of them prayed to God for in a man. I was never violent, though I have the capacity for it. That didn't stop the police knocking on my doo…	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/20 10:48 AM
0	Avoiding TRP/EX RP Men Ok, can I have “objectification with a side of hypocritically shaming women for having sex” for 500 pts? That's odd, because that isn't what I said. Feminists encourage women to think that A: Guys think like women. (Here's a clue: Typically, we do not.) B: That women, in general, have the same problem finding a partner that men have. C: That women should "find themselves" before they settle down. As far as objectification, it's a silly accusation as everyone does it to some degree or another. As…	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/20 06:39 AM
-17	Avoiding TRP/EX RP Men He does a terrible job at explaining things. The types of feminism that wanted women's suffrage (though that should have come at the cost of being required to register for the draft) and things like equal pay for equal work, commensurate with experience, are things that I will support. The thing is that I SHOULD support modern feminism but I do not and can not. On one hand the absurd notions that feminists put forth that men and women are exactly the same has resulted in free, easy, commitment a…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/20 04:30 AM
1	"Marry Him!" Feminist article dripping with TRP truths I'm curious what you think a real woman is. She knows she is a woman. She loves that. She knows that men and women are different and want different things. She loves that. She loves to do things that please her man. She won't ever see another guy as long as he is good to her. Their is an intense feminine energy about her that you can recognize the instant you see her. The contrast is the chick that hops into bed on the second date, doesn't think men are different from women. That really act like…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/16 12:08 AM
10	"Marry Him!" Feminist article dripping with TRP truths I understand where you are coming from, and they invite you over because you are fun, and there is nothing wrong with that. I did that for a while after my first marriage went tits up. Meaningless sex with women that were mostly pale imitations of a real woman simply got old and boring to me. Now, I work to keep myself in shape. I keep hobbies. I also make time to listen to her, make her laugh, and buy things when I know she wants them. I find the reward to be so much deeper. I won't say it's fo…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/16 05:59 AM
41	"Marry Him!" Feminist article dripping with TRP truths This is an insight into a portion of the modern American feminist mindset. In this case, her and these erstwhile friends of hers simply don't understand the concept of "opportunity cost". Opportunity Cost is something that occurs when you are faced with two or more options and are only able to choose one. In this case to marry or not to marry. Time is the resource that will be expended either way and there isn't a way to get that back once it is spent. Either path involves a lot of choices and a…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/16 05:14 AM
8	The Hamster Codex, part 1 - "Help, my boyfriend got assfucked by another guy and now I don't like him anymore!" I might get beat up for this, but simply put, if you can get the other person in a relationship to engage in a three way with you, then that relationship is not likely going to have a long shelf life. It introduces dynamics into the relationship that lead all sorts of directions, one partner could fall in love with the third wheel, one partner might become jealous, or as above one partner may find themselves disgusted by the kinks they find about the other. She is simply finding out what lot's o…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/16 11:45 PM
5	The American Male’s Identity Has Been Stripped and Shit On You are both wrong and right. The bible is full of things we would call red pill and what happens when you fail. King David let himself be led to murder because of a woman, when he had a whole harem of women. Samson lost frame and let Delilah cut his hair. There is also Paul, sitting in a jail because he went against the wishes of society, and refusing to lose frame, no matter how hard anyone tried. The book practically screams to be the master of yourself and your actions while acknowledging yo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/16 12:03 AM
3	So you're thinking about an LTR in the future? Be careful. That very feminine woman who smiles at you and treats you so nicely, can be an absolute tiger, the type that makes a quick meal out of you. Their home life is very matriarchal, the home is the wife's domain and that includes things like handling family finances. To not allow her to do things that are traditionally her job would be to betray trust, and would cause her to lose face. You don't want a pissed off Asian woman out for you, I promise, even more so when you sleep in the same …	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/16 11:33 PM
13	Thinking of marriage? Don’t Don't marry for lust (not love, your brain is too addled by chemicals at that point to call it love). Don't marry if she doesn't bring as much to the table as you do. Don't marry without knowing her family. Don't marry if your friends are pointing out, correctly and verifiably, that her actions betray her. Don't marry, or create any legal contract, without establishing roles, expectations, and backout procedures if one or both parties want out (we call this a prenup, but it is a common corporate…	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 04:56 PM
8	How does your SO support YOU during tough times? It depends... My first wife had taken actions to cause my problem. When she knew I was dealt low, she struck. Damn near pushed me to suicide. My current wife? I spent some time convalescing after having knee surgery. She took care of me when I needed it, she pushed me to do my physical rehab when I needed it. She was there for me in just the way she needed to be. Light and dark difference.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 12:27 AM
10	I just left my girlfriend. I am so fucking proud of myself. So, you met a woman that has very immature attitudes towards sex and intimacy and shit went downhill? That's no surprise. When you started doing for her, she thought you were trapped in her web, which happens to be just about the dumbest thing a broad can think. Right now, thank the divine being of your choice that you didn't marry this one and take it as a lesson learned. It isn't very common in this sick culture of ours, but a woman, a real mature woman with a healthy attitude towards sex and …	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/16 08:09 AM
2	Observations from the most conservative area in the nation, The Bible Belt An asteroid is basically a type of rock. When they enter the Earth's atmosphere they become meteorites. Sometimes they even manage to have a remnant that falls all the way to Earth. http://www.meteoritecollector.org/images/510_Meteorite01.jpg http://asima.seti.org/2008TC3/images/Almahata-Sitta15.JPG http://meteorites.wustl.edu/id/unlike1.jpg http://www.meteorite-recon.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/Tamdakht-meteorite-3.jpg Now the Earth, being generally uninhabitable for humans, these rocks that…	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/16 09:40 PM
1	Successful guy seeks first LTR with third world hooker A lot of 3rd World countries make it even easier. Just show me which palms need greased and everything looks nice and legal. I've worked in enough to know. I can almost point out the guy I need to make sure gets a bribe. I can usually figure out which guy needs a envelope full of money to mysteriously happen upon his porch after I talk to him. Money talks, always has.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/16 01:38 AM
5	Successful guy seeks first LTR with third world hooker Look, it's the same everywhere no matter what you happen to do. There was a saying during the age of sail that the men who went aloft knew well, "One hand for the ship, one hand for yourself." It meant that they always kept one hand so they could keep steady above the deck of a pitching ship, and the other hand ready so they could hoist the sails. Now, you want to be in a relationship? Keep one hand to yourself, your money stays in your mane and only your name, first and you take care of your ne…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/16 10:59 PM
3	Two Guitars This is why you have to be able to set your emotions aside and coldly assess the value to you of the relationship with the other person. BPD is just one of a whole host of personalities and behaviors that are toxic to the people around them.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/16 04:43 AM
57	Trust no one; my female coworker told people I was obsessed with her, and that I stalked her. It's one of these easy to earn badges of victimhood. Claim that someone followed you and that you were scared. It happened to me. A girl put out through her friends that I was stalking her. I couldn't figure out where the claim was, this chick wasn't even a friend of a friend, though I knew of her. Asking enough questions it turned out to be that I had bought something from a stand she worked at one day and "loitered" outside of it while waiting for a friend of mine to show up about ten minutes …	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/16 04:22 AM
0	Sigh Out of Sight, Out of Mind. First: http://cessna.txtav.com/ and http://livingwithyourplane.com/ It's entirely possible that she isn't public domain and you can take her home. There aren't extra expenses that go along with such decisions. However the life that you may choose may be more worthwhile in the end. Second: I've seen military women that were honorable to their husbands and didn't fuck around even when that asshole was doing it right under their nose. Measure the woman as an individual. I've had female soldiers tha…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/16 02:10 AM
11	On addiction "No one can be a slave of two masters, since either he will hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other..." Mathew 6:24 Holman Christian Standard Bible. You experienced that up close. As a slave to your own dopamine and your own animalistic desire to get that next fix, and you came to despise that master. Most don't ever get that far. This OP is an excellent post.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/16 01:38 AM
5	Men Remarrying: It's like breaking back into jail As a man who is on his second marriage let me see if I can answer... My first marriage was what society told me to do. I married little miss All America. A blue-eyed blonde with no assets to her name, a lot of debt, and a family that was full of dysfunction. The marriage was a shit show. It went from being used, to being abused, to having dead bedroom, to her trying to destroy me and being left with nothing to my name a few years after making $100K for the first time. I left thinking never again…	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/16 11:40 PM
2	I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2) Dude, I learned a long time ago, if you really like a chick. Arrange for your friends to have the opportunity, and tell them to try. If she fucks them, they did you a favor. Buy your friend a beer and send the slut packing. If she doesn't, then you know you might have a quality chick. Saved me from investing in unworthy women a few times.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/16 05:30 PM
0	Guy is about to marry his girlfriend and co-habitating. Girlfriend's mother has nerve to ask them to take care of her illegitimate son from an affair. Tell me that again, in a few years, when the only ass "Tyson" is getting has a pair of balls swinging underneath. I've seen it all before, more times than I care to count. I had friends like "Tyson" when I was his age. I walked away from that lifestyle. Twenty years later, I'm still game. My friends from back then are all either dead or in prison. Who is the real alpha?	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/16 09:16 PM
-1	Guy is about to marry his girlfriend and co-habitating. Girlfriend's mother has nerve to ask them to take care of her illegitimate son from an affair. Yeah, he might find a few chicks here and there that will let him abuse them. That's just a signal for you to stay away from them. Those are women that were damaged before he ever got into the picture. He has to show he is "passionate" about something. What is he passionate about? Partying and weed? Seriously. "He has potential"? If he already on law enforcement's radar, he as excellent potential to become a guest of the state at one of their many outstanding room and board facilities, but littl…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 09:33 PM
3	How to lead a bitch – Or dog training 101 If a dog is jumping on you, putting it's front paws on your body, the correct response is to bring your knee to the middle of it's body. A dog's physiology won't let it keep it's paws on you. I've kicked a pitbull that was jumping on me, and everyone else, across the room before. That dog, that would jump on everyone else, but got the idea that it wasn't something to do to me. I don't like untrained dogs. I outright hate untrained big dogs.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 05:06 PM
-2	Guy is about to marry his girlfriend and co-habitating. Girlfriend's mother has nerve to ask them to take care of her illegitimate son from an affair. Because even Chad has to have something on the ball. Women actually do want a guy that does something besides smoke weed and party, and if he is already having run ins with law enforcement, time for him to grow up is rapidly running out.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 04:59 PM
3	Guy is about to marry his girlfriend and co-habitating. Girlfriend's mother has nerve to ask them to take care of her illegitimate son from an affair. We don't know what happened after this, however at the time of the writing of this post I can comment with a great deal of knowledge. I knew this guy. I dated his sister for a year when he was nine or ten. The relationship didn't work but a deep friendship with her and her family remained. They attended my first wedding. His parents enabled his behavior all the way down to the bottom. They gave him money. The car that he was driving that night was their's. They ignored his behavior. They tolerat…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 04:53 PM
-4	Do you guys really realize how easy it is to be a woman? Dude, Chill out! Engage your cognitive thinking skills for a bit here. do you realize how easy women have it in our society? Do you realize how easy men have it in our society? Maybe it's that we are just insanely lucky that we have been born in this time and place where life isn't such a massive clusterfuck and struggle. The world is literally set up for them to succeed. Men will take care of them so they don't have to work. Sit down and look at the income of most families in the US. The women …	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 08:06 AM
5	The Market for Lemons vs. Online Dating Online Dating isn't similar to used car lot, lemon or otherwise. It's a special circle of hell. Stay away from it at all costs. Look, if you walked into a bar hoping to hook up with a woman for the evening, and it was a sausage fest, say 10 guys for every woman and they are all hitting on every woman in site, even if these women are truly disgusting, what would you think? A. I've got a chance let me go see what I can land? (Hey, I'm not gonna lie, confidence is a good thing, but...this seems a l…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 07:42 AM
7	Welcome to Techno-Feudalism (Hint: the Beta Doesn't Do Well This Era). We're Fucking Cowards. You are right about most things in this article. Financial Consulting- Hell, even insurance companies don't engage in that kind of absolute fraud. Some time ago, a young man who was rather naive but intelligent happened to inherit a rich uncle's small fortune. Knowing that he was better off placing that money where it could make money, he went to one of the big financial consulting firms in New York City to see if he should trust them with his money. They showed him their lavish offices. They to…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 03:33 PM
2	Freedom is Different Than You Might Be Imagining I have heard two descriptions of Trump. People that haven't directly reported to him all say he is one of the nicest guys you could ever meet. People directly reporting to him say he can be a very demanding boss, he wants the best, but that he is also fair. That's a good model to follow. Meet everyone with a firm handshake and a smile. Be prepared to ask them about themselves, their interests, their work, and their families. Be prepared to offer a hand every now and then when they need it. Certa…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 03:12 PM
4	Straight from the whores mouth I'm going to have to take this apart a bit to address it, so don't think I'm trying to single you out. It's more of an attempt to remain concise. When I think 'human emotion' I think things like honor, compassion, nervous, relieved, horny. That's a rather narrow range of emotions and possibilities. You didn't even stop at things like happy, love, sad, upset, angry, or even a whole range of others. It's no accident that the great poets are men. I can relate to lust, and greed, but some of the shi…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/16 04:08 AM
10	Straight from the whores mouth No, a psychopath is incapable of feeling human emotion the way a normal human does. Since women are creatures that are often ruled by their emotions, at least more than men on average, I can't say most are a psychopath. We can't have it both ways. That's why a woman in a rage is so dangerous. A man may step back and think about what he is about to do. She is actively controlled by her anger.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/16 01:35 AM
48	Straight from the whores mouth I'm a bit older than the average TRP pill poster, and I have had the opportunity to gain a lot of experience over my life. All women may have the capacity for acting like this, but at some level, they want the stable happy home and good life that most of us deep down really want. The problem is the damage to society wrought by two generations of creeping leftism that is going all out to destroy the bonds between people.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/16 01:32 AM
84	Straight from the whores mouth That is the female version of a true psychopath, if this is even a true story. It's right out of the textbook. Little to no ability to emotionally connect with anyone, no compassion or empathy. Uses sex as a tool to manipulate and destroy others, but has no real emotion about doing so. She claims depressive episodes, given the available information, I highly doubt she is capable of such. This chick is the type that can literally destroy any man who gets crossed with her.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/16 09:38 PM
1	Is it easier for a white man to get a girl from China, ethiopia and eritrea (and maybe vietnam)? No, I'm built more like an NFL linebacker. I do have muscles and I do know how to use them, but I won't be winning any prizes in a bodybuilding competition. I am closer to 40. About women, and people in general, let me give you a secret. Basically, we don't change. There may be cultural things you need to know, but in general most women are looking for certain things in a guy. They want someone that's fun to be around and makes them feel good. There is more than one way to get there. I've got a …	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/16 12:15 AM
1	Is it easier for a white man to get a girl from China, ethiopia and eritrea (and maybe vietnam)? I'm late to this, but I will add that you sound bitter. I have dated in my past, that I can remember, disregarding all the various American women, Moldovan, Romanian, Polish, Russian, Ethiopian, Rwandan, Italian, Cuban, Puerto Rican, Cost Rican, Colombian, Korean, Chinese, and Vietnamese women. I am currently married to a Khmer woman. The problem isn't with others. By the way, I describe myself as rather plain.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/16 11:53 PM
3	Red Pill Advice request for a 22M emotional abuse survivor's future. I dealt with daily physical and emotional abuse at the hands of my family for years. I was in a similar situation in terms of no real job skills but tons of knowledge. I won't make a recommendation, but my why out was the military. Three hots and a cot, free medical and psychological help when I needed it, your employer pays for and encourages you to go to the gym and get an education, there is a lot to be said for it. There is also getting to see the world on someone else's dime, which is alway…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/16 11:18 PM
2	Y-Chromosome analysis of 1200 men from 26 different populations shows half of all European males descended from a single 'king' around 4000 years ago A good percentage of the population of Asia are descendants of Genghis Khan. When you are at the top, you get the advantages that come with that, just as it has always been. Hold off your rivals long enough and you too get to leave along a broad genetic heritage.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/16 04:32 AM
2	"Communication is the key to a healthy relationship" You should know how to talk. You also have to know when someone is weaseling with power talk. "I'm feeling tired and stressed, and I don't know when I will want to have sex again." is a perfect example of a bullshit answer. The proper response is, "Okay, get some sleep tonight, I'll bring home dinner tomorrow night, be ready to go after dinner." It's laid out for her. She knows you will be responsible for the evening meal. She knows that you are planning to have sex afterwards. You aren't making…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/16 09:38 PM
12	Real life Chad brags about bedding 2500 women This seriously looks like a 16 year olds creative writing fantasy. I'm not going to say it's impossible. Frankly if you are willing and able to devote your life to nothing but bedding easy women, you might be able to achieve this. You also won't be able to be picky about their looks, this is a quantity over quality proposition. Also, I know it's looks or money over all else for most here, which might get you an audience. They won't get you laid by themselves. Unless it's money and she is a prost…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/16 08:23 PM
13	On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Porn Fantasies This can't be said enough. It all distills down to "don't be that poor motherfucker!" We all know that guy. The one that wifed up the chick that was willing to string him along with sex. The one that led him to the altar with promises of continued reward, yet never really giving as much or as often the way she did with past boyfriends no blowjobs (of course, that's ickey despite what she did with her last boyfriend) and never really willingly, yet he is happy just to get a little bit of a "rewar…	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/16 02:05 AM
1	My uncle will die tonight, death comes for us all. I am doing well. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/16 09:24 PM
1	Teen gets $4k in tax returns cause she popped out a baby I have no problem helping a person who has fallen on hard times and needs help. Woman or man that has had misfortune befall them and needs a chance to get back to their feet. Either we have all been there or at some point in our life, we all will be, that's the nature of things. When you start handing out awards for poor choices for a long enough time you get problems. The government actively encourages women to have children out of wedlock, preferably they say they don't know who the father is.…	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/16 02:01 AM
1	My uncle will die tonight, death comes for us all. Thank all of you for your comments and links. I hope he is somewhere where the sun is warm and my grandma can remember who he is.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/16 01:21 AM
10	How to date a 19 year old as a 32 year old and get away with it, in the public eye. My wife is a fifteen years younger than me and from a part of Asia where some internet brides come from, though she isn't one. We have been openly sneered at in public by women. Women my age and feminists make it clear that they disapprove. I've caught older men leering at her, as if I needed to worry. They are all thirsty idiots that have been trampled by their wives. They wouldn't know what to do if she did bother herself with them. The best is when we go to an event. I have literally heard ol…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/16 07:01 PM
5	The lower the status, the crueler the girl. (The Ladder Rule) At some point we all have a mountain in front of us, all of us. For some of us that mountain is both steeper and higher, or maybe we just start lower. I hope you have had the early intervention and counseling that you need to be able to function more normally. I am blessed in that I have many female friends, yes friends in the term that we actually do things for each other. They even sometimes confide in me things they could never tell their husbands or their other friends. I'll tell you a big s…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/16 10:37 PM
2	Is Western Feminism That bad for you ? this could be your fate The more you sit around pulling your dick with your Chad voyeur fetish the less of anything you are actually going to accomplish. He is fucking a hot chick? Why the fuck do I care? Back in the day when I was in the Army, it wasn't uncommon for a chick to pass herself around the room, and more than a few worked their way around the barracks. I'll get my turn, and if not her, then another will be along shortly. Now? I have no desire to be a room mate with another man, it's a passing, temporary, th…	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/16 01:43 AM
1	Haunted by your Past: Self-Sabotage and the Fear of Success This is an excellent article in all respects. It isn't just fear of success that can hold you back, it's also becoming transfixed by the fear of the possible. Let's say you lose your job, not your fault just the market turned against you at the wrong time, or your an employer loses a key contract, just a bad break you were effected by it. Then in your next job, because of the trauma of losing your job, you try to be perfect, no mistakes, no errors, no problem at all, the only problem is that we …	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/16 07:16 PM
6	Beta Male Mythology in Hollywood Goes Way Deeper Than I Expected. Check This Out. American Pie was about a group of boys that were in the awkward transition to manhood. Out of the lot of them, only one had a girlfriend and she was happy to give him a blowjob, just not finish him off. They had to approach. They had to learn about themselves and about women along the course of the movie. The lead even discovered that the girl with something to talk about was more interesting than the girl he thought he wanted. Accepted was about another kid who made mistakes and discovered that…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/16 06:50 PM
1	Q4Men: If a woman surrendered custody of your kid(s) and paid child support, would you take full custody of your kid(s)? In a heartbeat. I love my kids. My second wife is truly the person that my first never was. I wouldn't even want child support. She would have the right to as much visitation as she wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/16 04:21 PM
5	Recently married (<1 year) with small problems, going to take the RP approach with my wife.. You are married. While it is true that you can not be the source of her happiness, you also should not be the source of her misery. In the same way that she can not ultimately be the source of your happiness and should not be a source of misery for you. However, one of two things will happen if you don't take care of this, either way the sex will dry up and you will be miserable. LTR or marriage is built on the ability to be able to be vulnerable to each other and to try and meet each other's ne…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/03/16 12:12 AM
4	On The Male Mid-Life Crisis It isn't a mid-life crisis n the way that the media calls it. It is what happens when you realize that most of the information society gives you is pure bullshit and because of that, most of your decisions were bullshit, and not even good fertilizer. Get a job, get married, have kids, slave away and wonder why you never have any money, as you have a house that's too large and full of shit that isn't yours and cars that just have to be new every two years. Then you find out your company is shippi…	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/16 02:14 PM
7	Discussion: 'Nice Guy' shaming drives people to TRP The problem is this, the quarterback only pleases the coach to the level he knows that he needs to keep the starting job. I was a strong safety in high school. I loved being in front of the crowd, and even more, I loved hitting people. That is what drove me to spend extra time in the weight room and the film room. That is why I was running sprints and drills all off season, not the thought of pleasing someone else. The fact that I spent a lot of time with one cheerleader or the other was just a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/16 03:14 PM
1	Redpillers: How were your relationships or attempts at dating prior to TRP? Did you attempt egalitarian dynamics, and if so, why did they ultimately fail? Let's see. I was definitely a nice guy almost my whole life, I suffered beatings at my parents hands and learned to never articulate my personal needs. I definitely orbited a few women and even ignored women that were interested in me hoping for the "big score" I suppose. I embarrassed myself with white knight behavior a few times, but on balance, I also pulled a few chicks out of situations they had gotten themselves into that I knew they really hadn't set out to be in. I know because they than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/16 02:54 PM
16	Women 'Improving' Men No, Women don’t improve men. They may try to modify a man’s behavior in such a manner as to best service themselves, but they don’t actively seek our improvement. Poor quality women will actively interfere if a man shows efforts of self improvement. High quality women will actively encourage the improvement, knowing that an improvement is going to benefit them. Perceived self interest drives more human action. You should be strong, brave, confident, and honorable. You should be the master of you…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/16 06:16 AM
1	Attention Alpha Men: Learn From Michael, Don't Get Married. You don't get anything without risk. We can't know precisely what he is taking to get and stay jacked like he is. However, if he is taking steroids, he is at a high risk of liver failure and several cancers. Creatine supplements have shown a possible link to heart failure, Huntington's Disease, and neuromuscular disorders such as ALS and muscular dystrophy. All of them have side effects. He might be jacked. He might also have a heart attack and find himself trapped in a body that won't respond t…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/16 04:32 AM
9	Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11 Dude, what have you been doing about the behavior leading to this? The response should have been immediate. Cancel the party. Stress the importance of respecting everybody, especially people others look down on.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/16 06:58 AM
0	Attention Alpha Men: Learn From Michael, Don't Get Married. Look, this guy is not an example to follow. When time catches up to him and his body goes away, and they always do, he is going to come unglued. If you want to live the life of clubbing, spending all your free time at the gym, and chasing tail, then do that. If that's what you want, then don't get married. There isn't anything wrong with it. On the other hand, that way of living gets to be nothing more than a grind. If you come across a woman who is quality and who brings more to your life than …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/16 05:15 AM
1	Marriage used to be a duty I don't think I stated it as an act of courage, I said it is perceived as courage but it really doesn't qualify. I will try to answer you. I think it is important, especially for young men to have a proper (learned) attitude towards rejection that simply isn't taught most of the time any more. Approaching someone that, we are talking guys, here...Approaching a woman that you hope to, have a romantic relationship or just do the horizontal hop with triggers the fight or flight response. In this ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 11:42 PM
2	FR - Turned 21, first night at a bar It takes a lot to effect them. I have known some bright hard working women in STEM fields that were there long before this current push. They knew they were going into male dominated fields and accepted that they may have to prove themselves. They didn't wander around complaining about some mythical beast oppressing them. They went in and proved their worth, the same as their peers. There are good reasons that feminism is now just a loud minority.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 11:20 PM
13	If you're a beta, your needs, knowledge and interests don't even matter to your own family in some cases. Talk with your father about moving in with him and his wife. The environment you are in is going to constantly hold you back.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 11:17 PM
2	On the popularity of cuckold porn People are into some weird shit and always have been. Things like gaping anal, fuck anal period, are really disgusting when you think about it at all, but the internet is lousy with chicks taking it up the hershey highway. Back in the 90s, I had a guy ask me to be part of a gang bang of his wife that he wanted to record. He finally backed off when he realized I wasn't considering doing it, but just how much of a disgusting faggot he had to be to want that from his wife. After he managed to get t…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 03:09 PM
0	Marriage used to be a duty LOL! Ok, tell me what do women have that I can't get somewhere else? It isn't that I don't value friendship and companionship, but that isn't something exclusive to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:53 PM
1	Marriage used to be a duty Largely, I think so. Women said that I made them feel safe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:34 PM
1	Marriage used to be a duty No, she is my second. The first was little miss all America that I treated like a queen. The pedestal was just high enough for her to kick me in my face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:33 PM
0	Marriage used to be a duty Dogs aren't completely natural creatures. They are wolves modified by humans to serve us. In the wild, only the alpha male and the alpha female of a wolf pack are allowed to breed. As to what traits I consider to actually be important, many of them have been perverted in modern culture to things that they are not: Strength. Raw physical power and ability. If he doesn't have the ability to provide for and protect the people that matter to him, then he doesn't count for much. Courage. Strength wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 12:53 PM
-1	Marriage used to be a duty If that were the single most important factor, then reasonably the line would have leveled off some where near the men's historic levels. It simply didn't. That means there are other factors to consider and the best research available indicates that the reasons I cited are important factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 11:49 AM
2	Marriage used to be a duty LOL, a male dog will run around and fuck any bitch that will let him. That describes a lot of so-called assertive, dominant men. They run around and act like whatever they think will get their dick wet. That is what makes them dogs. Assertive and dominant are fine, but those are hardly the two most important traits to even consider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 11:46 AM
-2	Marriage used to be a duty I don't think so, but I will concede that I may be influenced by the time I spend among my wife's family. Look at the west now. Women, and men but the statistic for men has been more static, have been encouraged to follow their hearts since the 1960s, and, according to every study, it's making them miserable. They complain about there not being any good men and then reward the dogs with affection and sex. They want kids, but don't want anything to interfere with their chosen career. Don't get me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 11:03 AM
4	FR - Turned 21, first night at a bar Feminism, way back when, addressed some very real issues women had. Lack of a right to own personally own property. Lack of a right to vote. Lack of protection in cases of marital violence or rape. The fact that her children's father could simply walk out and leave her and their children in destitution. These were all very real problems that we forget about these days. They were also heavily involved in prohibition. The pendulum has also swung too far in some cases, such as an assumption that a …	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 10:52 AM
-2	Marriage used to be a duty If you want to talk suicide rates, it is happening in the west as well. If the suicide rate among men, especially divorced men, in the US was occurring to women, it would be considered a national crisis and talked about nightly in hushed tones on national news. Obviously, I am married into a family that prefers arranged marriage, with my wife and I being a kind of outlier. We have some rather interesting conversations with members of her family every now and again. Attraction, properly called is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 10:41 AM
6	2 years unplugged.. I'm so damn tired. Give yourself a break. You got laid by 4 girls. You know what, good for you. Did you enjoy their company? Did they enjoy yours? Did they come back for more? If you only have that one ex besides, that mean you are currently at five women that wanted to have sex with you. Do you know what the global average, not the mean (which is probably less), just the average for sexual partners for heterosexual men in the west is? It's nine. In another year or two, barring nothing else, you will hit the avera…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 10:26 AM
1	Marriage used to be a duty Yet, for much of human history, women had no say in their marriage partners and little say in their sexual partners. Men were expected to provide for their families. Both were expected to willingly and cheerfully fulfill their responsibilities to each other. Outside of the west, in more traditional societies this is still mostly the case. The secret is that this also works well. I am actually in an arranged marriage though we met and agreed to it before it was decided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 10:00 AM
2	Don't be like Ben What happened after that.... I found myself in a place that wouldn't even make it to small town status at my friends place. Most of the people who work full time there earn about $10/hr, which is a shit wage, but the cost of living isn't much when everyone has their own chicken coop. I started by literally walking door to door every day looking for whatever work someone would offer. I often wound up working for a bit of cash and a hot dinner. This later worked in my favor when the judge asked me…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/15 06:41 AM
3	The Suffering of the Lost Boys Yet, society continues to create these lost boys. Men that grew up in households where dad was absent because he couldn't make money near home. Homes where men knuckled under to a batshit insane woman because to do otherwise was to see their children completely stripped from them. Homes where the mother knew what she could do to the father with no repercussions in an instant, and made sure he knew so he stayed in his servile role. This is the worst part of the world that feminism has created. Th…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/15 06:09 AM
4	Response to "Don't Hate Women For Being Women" Hold women accountable? Short of a total collapse of western civilization, that just isn't going to happen. Feminism, however you want to define it, is triumphant. Feminists want a law, they snap their fingers and the organs of the state grind out the new law, no matter how shoddy the logic and evidence available that supports the new law. A big part of modern collectivist and feminist thought is that women should never face any penalties for their behaviors no matter how egregious or damaging. …	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/15 06:58 AM
29	Don't be like Ben My name isn't Ben, but this could easily be my story. I fell head over heels for the first piece of ass I got and never did let it go. I joined the Army, we broke up. I hooked up with a lot of girls that viewed sex as good athletic fun. Hell, I even had two girlfriends that knew all about each other and didn't really care. It all ended when the call came. She had broken it off with her fiance and wanted me to come back to her. I should have never answered the phone, but it was 1997 and caller ID…	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 11:18 PM
1	Why Women Despise Stability. This is almost an inversion of reality. Yes a woman will test you to see how you stack up, to see that you are able provide her with stability and security. The thing is, despite their reactions, and all else being equal, women will always move towards the man that can provide the security and stability. We can call that being alpha, or dominant, or other things. A guy that properly handles shit tests sends a clear message that he is a man that can provide the stability and security that she ult…	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 10:46 PM
1	Is Daygame Cold Approaching Really Worthwhile? And are its Advocates Actually Sane? "Where would you place yourself in terms of physical attractiveness?" I am no better than average in the looks department. I try to dress reasonably well and present a groomed appearance, but I would be lying if I said there weren't many other better looking men. I have the advantage men have when we get older. Women looking for men in their late 30s and early 40s are doing good to find a man that isn't a complete wreck of some sort. Also, I tend to aim for single or divorced 30 something moms, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 11:01 AM
1	Is Daygame Cold Approaching Really Worthwhile? And are its Advocates Actually Sane? Yes, it does work. The best part is that it is easy and can even be fun. It's even really easy to work in an angle. I don't like hanging around in bars and nightclubs. It's expensive. It can often be difficult to make yourself heard or understand the other party. I view dating websites as some sort of man made layer of hell. The people on them never seem to get off. The men struggle to be noticed while the women bask in attention. I have used all sorts of hooks to start a potential conversation.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 10:29 AM
1	As a man, you are disposable and your life isn't as important. No matter the circumstances. Close, had parents on the ambassador staff there for that fiasco. I remember fleeing in the middle of the night when my parents were given the order. I left friends.	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/15 01:46 AM
8	As a man, you are disposable and your life isn't as important. No matter the circumstances. Yes, that is the way it happened, and I am barely old enough to remember it. The only groups of muslims I have ever found to be trustworthy are the ones that do some sort of direct work with their hands, mechanics and such. They are looked down upon by other muslims and tend to view people that aren't trying to bs them as a rarity and worth befriending.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 06:06 PM
3	Got real close to making a mistake That was a straight up hit and quit it scenario. Escalate as far as you she is comfortable with. If it goes all the way, then enjoy the ride. It's high school, and it really wouldn't be fair to say any of you have more than tonight figured out with any certainty. Also, because it can't be said enough, have condoms, your own condoms that you brought, on hand and use them. When you are done, that thing goes down the toilet, take no chances you don't have to, a little bouncing bundle of joy can rui…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 06:02 PM
1	The underdog story: A red pill that Asian and Indian men living in America have to take as they start their journey. Turn it around or walk away from it. You aren't Pakistani. You are an international businessman with interests in multiple countries, you aren't even lying when you say it. If pressed, say you were born in Pakistan but haven't been in some time, but you still send money to your aging mom and dad. The almighty dollar (money, whatever currency) trumps an awful lot of other things. I've seen a lot of white US girls running around with Iranians and guys I know are Pakistani. The only thing a lot of …	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 05:05 PM
22	As a man, you are disposable and your life isn't as important. No matter the circumstances. This is BS. If these young men showed up on my border desperately hungry with their wife and child in tow, I would bring them in. Hell, I would give some of my food to them and some of my clothes, no problem. That isn't what is happening. What is coming into Europe and the United States are well fed military age men who, immediately after arriving, start making demands that everyone that is their conform to their fucked up society and world view. We think of jihad meaning an organized and led mi…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 04:57 PM
3	Being physically attractive is really it, guy uses Chad on tinder and get guaranteed replies from women LOL, you sure of that? What if instead, he said I work out, run a small business, coach a little league team, spend a few hours each week volunteering, and play softball on a co-ed team twice a week. None of it matters, he happens to have a look a few more chicks than average like. Big deal.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/15 08:33 PM
1	Being physically attractive is really it, guy uses Chad on tinder and get guaranteed replies from women Look, it's a dating app. How are you judging chicks on dating apps? I am sorry, but things like interesting conversationalist, good humor, and snappy dresser don't translate well to the internet, not just dating apps. Another thing you will find on those dating apps is that a good percentage of the men and women on them can be on them for years and have no real luck with it. I am convinced that they are a special circle of hell for most people. The truth is that if you want to meet people and es…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/15 08:29 PM
0	CMV: 3rd wave feminism is a thought policing tyrant which cucks academia The truth is that there is no rape culture in the west outside of prisons, and let's face it, feminists don't care about male on male prison rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/15 11:19 AM
1	CMV: 3rd wave feminism is a thought policing tyrant which cucks academia Hardly. All western political parties bow to feminists to some degree or another. They don't want to upset women, a majority of the vote in these countries and they think feminists can stir enough women against them to limit their power. I have looked at the totals for the US, and even if I allow for a total of double the number of rapes crimes prosecuted as having actually occurred then ran 70 years of the crime into one year, I would approach around 10% of women in the US having experienced a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/15 11:17 AM
1	CMV: 3rd wave feminism is a thought policing tyrant which cucks academia I haven't ever heard of soldiers getting raped as part of any initiation. Hazings, yes, outright rape or anything like it, no. Maybe it's just the Aussie Army, but I have met Aussie soldiers and that doesn't seem like something they would do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/15 10:42 AM
1	Men Only- Which would you marry? Neither. The best bet is to have a small harem of women that know which day of the week to come over and cook dinner for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/15 10:27 AM
7	"It's the Steel: Bill Whittle's Solution to Gun Control" Ah, yes, the old "Reagan closed the mental hospitals" trope. Except he didn't. No really, I mean that he didn't. It's true that they closed in the first years of his term, but that doesn't mean that he did anything as at least the first budget of his term is the last president's budget. Carter, under pressure from the SJWs of his day, cut off federal funding for the mental health facilities in his last budget. They felt that "warehousing" the mentally ill was the wrong thing to do. Now we can po…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/15 01:13 AM
6	I'm in fucking tears right now. A woman used the justice system to ruin my life. I don't have time to wade through 600 and some odd comments, so here is my two cents. 1. As others have said, once she placed the restraining order, she should have been dead to you. Blocking her calls and texts and possibly filing a stalking charge with the police using personal letters left on your vehicle is the route you should have taken, but that is water under the bridge at this point, take the lesson learned. 2 Since you didn't do the above before, do it now. 3 You will get your day in c…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/15 03:02 PM
1	35 year old man with 2 children looking for opinions I can understand your concerns with medication, but consult with a psychiatrist before ending or reducing any sort of drug like that. It's possible to set a dose that will get you past the worst parts of the psychosis and let you function normally. To me it, it sounds like you needed the medication to help you live normally, some people just do need that, and the entire psychology/psychiatry profession isn't BS. You seem to be foundering in your relationship with your wife, no sex (BC is plentif…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 05:53 PM
3	Q4RP: Why do you fear equal relationships so much? A lot of truth in that, but she was getting railed by a guy I fired for being an incompetent idiot. He moved in the day she forcibly had me moved out. Her grand idea was to replace me with him, because running a business is easy, right? The business tanked within four months, she was knocked up in five, he was gone by the time month six rolled around. She tried to find me by asking friends but none of them would tell her a thing, including her own brother. It was a hard lesson that way too many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 10:09 AM
3	Q4RP: Why do you fear equal relationships so much? I wanted for the emotional initmacy as much as the physical. I was more than willing to live up to my end of the bargain as I saw it. She had no needs that she answered for. She worked and spent that money and much more on a closet full of nice dresses, jewelry, and designer shoes that she never wore. She will even tell you that I was a model husband in almost all respects. If she had made a habit of even just trying to meet the needs that I articulated to her, the marriage would be strong and n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 03:57 PM
8	Q4RP: Why do you fear equal relationships so much? I was in what the Blue Pill would insist is an equal relationship, the house was in both of our names, the business was in both of our names, almost everything was. I prided myself on including her in all financial decisions. Anytime, which got to be all the time, she didn't want to have sex, I was understanding. The fact is that as long as things were “equal” things were exactly her way and exactly how she wanted them, except for me “Griping about the lack of sex all the time” and that was tole…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 03:19 PM
2	No judgement. Are you religious? I am a reformed Christian after I walked away from the Christian faith for many years. My mother bounced me between Pentecostal churches and Baptist churches, and as near as I ever knew it was based on her whims more than anything else. Those that are aware of the theological differences in the two churches probably know why the result for a very intelligent kid was cognitive dissonance. My father claimed Catholicism, but I never set a foot in any Catholic church until well into my adulthood. To…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 12:57 AM
2	Why living in a "red pill" country is bad. I am pushing 40, however as an American, I spent more than 8 years in various countries in the middle east and I am fluent in Arabic. I don't know how to break this very gently but Moslem women are even more out of control than you think, even if they are careful to hide it. More than a few found there way to my bed while I lived there and I rarely did much to draw them there. I guess I got the fascinating foreigner card that a lot of guys get when they aren't in their home country and make an e…	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/15 10:27 PM
2	RP who pretend not to be RP IRL I never bother hiding myself. It would involve telling lies and remembering what lies I told so I can cover them when I need to, and that is.....simply too much work. Do I have long converstations and screeds about the true nature of women? No, but then again why would I, people who haven't been through the pure hell women are capable of putting them through wouldn't understand. Even many who have refuse to understand. That doesn't make them good or me bad. It doesn't mean I won't toss a theory …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 03:40 PM
2	TRP misconstrues "be yourself" advice Good post! cheers	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 03:28 PM
1	TRP misconstrues "be yourself" advice I wonder where I fit in the anti-trp paradigm. I was once dating three girls at the same time, and they all knew each other. Unfortunately, I married a woman that was wholly incompatible with me. r/deadbedrooms worthy tale of woe. Slowly recovered myself and now date with the understanding that I will never make a formal commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 03:24 PM
4	TRP misconstrues "be yourself" advice I have heard that and have never quite believed it. Pre-industrial, the boys were with the men from the time they were old enough to have responsibilities. During the industrial period, men did often come home tired from work and it started the whole notion of boys growing up separate from men. Now, society is post industrial and there is a lot of evidence that men want, and expect, to play a large role in the lives of their children, while society makes divorce and parental alienation easy for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 09:51 AM
7	TRP misconstrues "be yourself" advice Everybody, all of us, occasionally need a guide (at minimum) or a swift kick in the pants (maximum) to correct some inappropriate behavior or habit we've gotten in to. Boys used to learn how to behave at their father's feet. In our infinite modern wisdom, we ejected fathers from the household. Tommy's dad would never have told him to just be himself. Tommy's dad, knowing his son smelled like cat shit for some reason, would have told him to take a bath and quit playing with cat shit, put on some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 08:52 AM
1	Never Take a Woman Fishing Rollo, you're taking the wrong woman fishing. Hell, I have even had a "first date" that involved cleaning and waxing my truck followed by hanging out listening to the radio while drinking sweet tea. That turned into a LTR, and she was worth it, but I had to move when she didn't want to. I always try to make date four or five something that wouldn't usually be in a girl's comfort zone. It's how you really find out about people.	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/15 08:30 AM
5	TRP misconstrues "be yourself" advice A better translation: Timmy and Sarah Timmy has oneitis for Sarah. It's the year 2015 CE in the western world. Timmy's mom has either chased off Timmy's dad or totally emasculated him to the point he is basically not there. Timmy's mom tells him that he is a special little snowflake, perfect just the way he is. He keeps trying and doesn't understand why Sarah thought it was stalking and got a restraining order placed against him. He repeats the pattern several times with no better results. Then,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 08:22 AM
5	The problem is that men are fooled about feminism and so called feminists I'll try to answer you, but I doubt you will like it. Thanks to industrialization and feminism men are alone and more isolated from one another than ever before. A boy used to go work in the field with his father and learn and take responsibility from a very young age relative to what we think of today. As an example, it wasn't all that uncommon a sight in late 1800s early 1900s Texas to find a twelve year old boy miles from any adult working with the responsibility of an adult. Then industriali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 12:51 AM
3	Are we headed towards matriarchy? What will it look like for women? For men? The mongols conquered China. China had an advanced bureaucratic government, scientific institutions, advanced technological innovations, walled cities, and a large army and population. Mongols had a horse and a few goats. Think about that for a minute. Wars are won by men and always will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 06:38 PM
3	CMV: The lie that women shame "alpha males" It isn't about being cocky...I'll agree with that. It's about conditioning your self to really, really not care what any specific woman thinks. Then cockiness can come from a place of confidence. I was one of the "nice guys". Women told me that they wanted a nice, funny guy that really listened to them and really cared about them. Trust me, I won't ever be that guy again. Women don't regard that guy to be dateable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 04:37 PM
2	CMV: The lie that women shame "alpha males" But that tends to those men acting like assholes to get laid, and then it works. What are men supposed to think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 03:34 PM
0	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? No. Not to a modern American woman anyway. I guess I should preface that, though. I was married to little miss blue eyed blonde all american girl for 16 years. 11 of them were hell. I could write a book, but who cares, it's all been written before. In the end, despite being a very good earner, I was left penniless, homeless, and with no access to my children thanks to her (and her attorney) using every advantage the court gives women. What was my grand crime? She wasn't happy. On the other hand,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 02:45 PM