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Welp that made the decision for the judge a whole lot easier. Men, me especially have thoughts of similar, men who are able to control them are what stands us apart from them. Congrats to all of us who wanted to but didn’t act on them.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 09:12 PM
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Can you clarify on the FBI connections? Im in law enforcement and if there was someone who used the FBI to investigate a civil personal matter, there’s laws against that.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 12:11 AM
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100% accurate. Next time im marrying for missionary.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 12:00 AM
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There’s a book about breaking up with BPD. Either “Fuck you, dont leave” or i hate you dont leave.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 09:05 PM
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The definition of making up for lost time haha
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 03:13 AM
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I left my first wife for a 21 y/o bartender in Key West prior to a deployment. Best weekend of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/22 10:55 PM
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Hasn’t been much…? Verbal and emotional will wear anyone down. Sorry you’re going through it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 11:31 PM
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Break the isolation as soon as you can. It does get better.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 04:52 AM
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I feel like we are wearing the same shoes. I finally went to the court on the last day to file my response and as I was leaving she said I was the one breaking up the family. Even though she filed in March, never had me served, and no is wanting a DVPO against me cause she says I’m violent. I’m at the end of my figurative rope each day.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 04:51 AM
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DVPO for physical, emotional and verbal abuse. No one will judge you or call you a bitch. Definitely not here. I got my ass kicked for months before people saw i was becoming a different person and asked how my home life was. I broke down. Im an alpha male in a tactical job. It’s ok.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 04:35 AM
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Im an LEO and about to start EP. So I can’t get a temp DVPO
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 02:22 AM
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And the cops and judge wouldn’t see that or is it not worth the risk? I recorded mine saying she was gonna tell her lawyer i smashed her face in the door of my truck.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 02:18 AM
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If there “no” equity in the house I wouldn’t have to sell right?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 02:16 AM
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Where did you go though?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 01:42 AM
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Mine just threatened me with a temp DVPO because i own the house and will not leave, only married for 20 months. How fucked am I?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 12:15 AM
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Can I ask if the missus had a mental health condition and that’s why she needed someone to care for her? If so, the feeling you’re feeling that makes it hard is probably the manipulative part that you will absolutely feel better from once you get out. Everyday is going to get better.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 04:25 PM
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I love the way you wrote this all out. You lucky SOB, you won the special lottery haha
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 04:12 PM
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Are you living in the same house during all of this?
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 12:18 AM
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Preach brother preach. Anyone else wanna start a tax free church with this guy and set up a community in Montana lol
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 09:26 PM
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Bocas Del Torro is quite nice.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 09:23 PM
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“Let the bodies hit the floor” Deadpool “When the man comes around” Johnny Cash That song with the trash bag flying from the Interview. Katie Perry.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 04:19 AM
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Listen to this podcast, “Fucking Canceled” episode #94. How to stop self Sabotage. Im in a similar situation and I keep procrastinating getting the divorce going. I came across this podcast, hate her voice and only listened to this episode. For some reason it really hit home for me about procrastinating and why we do it. And fuck what people think of you at work, everyone has there issues going on. Especially after the last two years. I am in a similar situation were i keep procrastinating f
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/22 05:54 AM
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Send it to her in pennies.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 05:56 PM
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Thanks. Best advice yet
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 08:22 PM
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Yeah she played me pretty good and said the therapist notified the cops, but then months later she told our couples counselor that the therapist was checking in on her. All BS.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 07:46 PM
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Im ready for a fight. I dont want to lose my house or daughter. The plan was for me to retire than become a stay at home dad. I just don’t understand how vicious someone can become, and being a white straight guy im worried.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 04:02 AM
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She shook her once. I dont have proof other than she said she declared it to her therapist, but im not sure how true it is.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 04:00 AM
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How about i pay you a visit… 😂
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 03:14 AM
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I wanted to keep deploying, that was worth more than anything to me. I payed 124k, she didn’t get my pension, i got to be free to operate. Worth it then. Now i just bought our retirement home a few months ago and we have a little one.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 03:12 AM
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I got a DVPO against her after getting my ass kicked a few times, she put one out on me and the judge sided with her. She then terminated it, said she wanted to work through things then filed. It’s toxic and complicated.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 03:10 AM
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Im a trigger to her mental health? She has been misdiagnosed for everything and landed on PTSD just recently. Im in WA.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 03:09 AM
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