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I think you’re missing a key component of the relationship. They’re not married, they’re not living together. They’re in a relatively early stage of their relationship where codependent patterns can be created and become really destructive. Right now she’s spending much of her free time caring for him and he’s spending little to none become a good leader or showing that he’s going to be a capable leader and partner. High value women spend time on themselves. They work out, they have robust frien…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 04:30 PM
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This was a fun read! Thank you! I’m a couple various forms of neurodivergent and on bc that I think impacts my libido and I have had ALL of these thoughts at one time or another. And tbh if I’m tired and adhd is in full swing then I’m likely thinking a version on one of these things WHILE having sex. It’s not intentional- my mind just wanders uncontrollably. IF you find the advice given so far helpful and reassuring then I think %100 do that. For most people just relaxing and not overthinking it…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 03:23 PM
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I have a really low libido so I don’t actually have a great answer to your question, but potentially advice for the long run Sex multiple times a day sounds like a genuine nightmare to me. I notice that if my partner is constantly trying to initiate sex I shirk away from all physical affections. I want cuddles and kisses and massages, but if I know my partner is interpreting cuddling on the couch as “I’m gonna get laid later” I’ll avoid even starting because I don’t want to push over that first …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/24 02:39 PM
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Yeah, maybe i need to make a list like that Getting into a new routine is hard and I’m sure part of feeling frazzled is the mental energy in that exact moment to figure out what to prioritize and what order to do things in
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 10:58 PM
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Thank you 🙂 He’s been really great when I’ve been in the office and I think would fully embrace if I asked him to pick up dinner on the way home every now and then Now that you mention it I do think driving is one of the bigger stressors. I could feel really great at the end of the work day, but so stressed by the time I get home because of traffic. I might look into a podcast or audio book that I find relaxing and only listen to is on the drive to sort of make that time feel more special To me,…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 10:55 PM
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He definitely does a lot and on days I go into the office is (unasked and preemptively) taking care of things that I have always done. I don’t feel like im “working for him” and I agree that if someone felt that way they’d need to have a discussion about it. But this is MY home and MY dog and MY dinner and MY bed and it is important to me that even if it doesn’t really bother him to make the bed or walk the dog that im not letting things in my life that are important to me get so low on my prior…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 10:48 PM
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That way (they’re gonna complain no matter what) but the more reasonable people around won’t think you you made a full back up meal intentionally. You brought a dish and accidentally made too much and it worked out/ everyone is happy And on the weird off chance people eat turkey and don’t finish off all the bulgogi you can take it home and freeze it- or give it away. It doesn’t have to leave the bag
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 05:39 AM
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I asked transport info because with the information pieces you’ve given- I’d make a more than 5 servings, but I’d have 5 servings available “hot” in something that plugs in. Then in a cooler bag I’d have the kimchi and other cold goods, but at the bottom with an ice pack have another 5 servings available to top up after first set of plates has been made That way you can say you accidentally made too much but didn’t think you’d need it so you didn’t set it out. Brought it “just in case”
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 03:34 AM
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How many adults are there normally and how are you transporting everything?
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 01:34 AM
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I think I’d question how it gets so dirty that it takes you so long? Not in a mean way but people who say “it only takes two hours to fully clean my home” also have habits that prevent them from becoming disasters in the first place. Maybe it’s making their bed every day, never taking dishes outside of the kitchen, never going to bed with dirty dishes in the sink, never wearing shoes inside, running a load of laundry every Monday and Thursday, clean as you go style cooking. All these habits aren…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/22 04:04 PM
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I like target, I found some really great modal undies (more breathable than cotton and feels like a little bit softer of a cotton) in black with a cute mesh/lacyish waist band and I feel very confident in them :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 12:33 AM
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I have all of the dreams of being a stay at home wife and none of the dreams of having children. My fiancé and I have talked about what that would look like. He makes enough currently to cover all of our expenses. I volunteer 15 hours a week for a church and get free housing from that (we don’t yet live together and I’m also working part time to cover my own expenses and to save for wedding stuff). Our plan is to continue that pattern- where he works and my time is spent serving part time for a …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 11:09 PM
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Your word choice is so odd. You use “allowed” in the title as if you are seeking some sort of permission (from us? From your partner?) to orgasm. Then a lot of your comments revolve around things being “natural” and you seem to think that female orgasms are somehow unnatural? THEN, you describe a scenario in which you think both you and your partner could both orgasm, but then decide that “it just takes you too long” as if the entire act of sex is something to get through, or a kind of burden, o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 05:17 AM
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Did he mention any specifics or examples of things that worried him? I’ll echo what a few other ladies said, it sounds like you have this mentality that it’s everything or nothing. You don’t have to wear your special occasion- takes 45 minutes to put on make up everyday. If you have clean, cared for skin some tinted chapstick and mascara can go a long way. I use a bit of powder or a tinted moisturizer as well. This takes less than three minutes. Doing your hair doesn’t have to be completely curl…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 06:54 AM
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Okay, well I must not be a normal adult female. I’m a twenty something female pastor who organizes teens events, takes the girls out to get coffee, listens to their teenage problems and tries to help them see beyond the soul crushing place that is high school. When girls come to me and say they have no friends I encourage them to join a hobby group- typically that’s something at school. But, as someone who didn’t have the privilege of strong familial relationships, I completely understand when a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 01:58 AM
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Because people should have friends and mentors of all ages...? The easiest example of this that I have is at church. A teenage girl can be friends with a sweet old lady, someone else’s mom who has a different perspective than her own, a youth leader, a new mom she volunteers with in the nursery. All these friendships with adults would be HUGELY beneficial to a teen.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 12:13 AM
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Since your partner is fully aware of the steps you're making with this issue, I'd also let him know the new way you've decided to approach confrontations by waiting until the next day. Just let him in the loop that way if you do bring up something from the day before he'll know why and where it is coming from.
/r/RedPillWives18/07/16 10:36 PM
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but, why are they called vampire tacos?
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 07:34 PM
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I like lighter things for lunch and now because it is so hot, I love not turning the stove on. I make chicken salad for lunch pretty often. It is a great way to use leftover chicken and if you make a bigger bowl it lasts so you could have it two non-consecutive days. I make a curried chicken salad (mayo, curry powder, shallots) and traditional (mayo, celery, quartered grapes) and eat them with pita bread, and also a Caprese (basil, mozzarella cheese, quartered cherry tomatoes) that I eat with tr…
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 07:29 PM
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I just order off amazon. It is more expensive than regular sunscreen, but it is thinner so a little bottle does last longer, and it doesn't leave my skin feeling greasy. It actually soaks into my skin instead of sitting on top so then it is really easy to apply makeup on top of it.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:27 PM
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Little notes he'll notice in a place he'll look at later: Sun visor in his car, bottom of a drawer he regularly gets into, laptop case etc Remember when he says little things about his preferences and then get him the thing (you could leave it with the note). "The other day you said you liked the cinnamon Altoids I had so I thought I'd get you a tin for your desk drawer." "you mentioned that you liked the way that pen wrote so I picked a couple up for you" Make a point to compliment the way he l…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 06:45 AM
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I would love this. I was raised by my dad and only have older brothers. I'm in college and testing out dating, but a lot of my intuitive mannerisms are fairly masculine and I've been told I can be intimidating because of it. I'd love some pointers that aren't compilations created by Cosmo.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/16 04:23 AM
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