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A girl I'd previously matched with popped up again on Tinder. I seen she had her Instagram in her bio, and her Tiktok linked in her Instagram. Looked through her Tiktok out of curiosity and seen she had a video where she was asking multiple men to send her "sexy voice notes" so she could hear their voice - all of these were then played in the tiktok compilation. It was really eye opening, we all know women get more attention then men on dating apps, but seeing her actively have 15+ guys she's te…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:04 PM
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I'd say so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:40 PM
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As far as I'm concerned if I look at a couple and my immediate thought isn't "how the hell did they end up together!??" then they're looksmatched. Personally I wouldn't bat an eye if I saw these two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:39 PM
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As far as I'm concerned if I look at a couple and my immediate thought isn't "how the hell did they end up together!??" then they're looksmatched. Personally I wouldn't bat an eye if I saw these two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:39 PM
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I really don’t think so. Take short guys for example, does not matter one bit what kind of guy they are they will be instantly written off by 95% of women due to being short
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:29 PM
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That’s just gaslighting yourself, you were never really that attracted to him. If you were genuinely attracted to him he’d have to try very fucking hard to lose that attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:28 PM
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But that extra stuff is never enough. If someone isn’t already attracted to you nothing you can do will change that. And if they are already attracted to you it’s difficult to make them lose that attraction. That’s why you see so many women in relationships with “shitty guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:26 PM
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The older I get the more I think dating is majority about looks, especially modern dating, and everything else is just people gaslighting themselves and others. That’s why most dating advice is bullshit because the real advice is “just be hot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:19 PM
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For what it’s worth I can sort of understand why they can’t empathise, it’s not something they will ever experience. In the same way I can’t empathise with women who deal with creepy men. Not that I don’t feel bad for them, just that it’s not something I’ve ever experienced so I can’t truly understand how bad it is to be very young and have guys 3x your age making sexual comments and trying to corner you. Women will never understand truly what dating is like for a guy. Often times their advice i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:35 AM
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Wish we could go back to ~2014 when Tinder was somewhat popular but seen as a purely a hookup app. Now it’s just filled with people looking for validation. I never used it back then but I had friends who did, they say it used to have a story feature that only matches could see - which was almost exclusively used for posting nudes. You could straight up ask a match to hookup and theyd probably say yeah. Nowadays I match with women, ask them to go out for a coffee and they’re like “ew wtf?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:33 AM
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Messi is the GOAT. Most sports are dominated by tall chads. Unironically felt good growing up to have one sport where a short (most likely also autistic) king was not only good at the game, but one of the greatest to ever play.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:40 PM
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Yeah and how many dudes on here (myself included) have more or less given up trying because they know it's mostly height/looks women care about? If I keep my current mindset I just won't try at all, because I know my height makes me unattractive. But if I can trick myself into thinking height doesn't matter I'll still get rejected because of height, but overall have more success because at least I'll be trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:29 PM
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I watched a Veritasium video about success and whether it was all about luck or hard work and the conclusion was that yes, luck actually plays a pretty massive role in success. However, he also remarked that if you want success you're actually better off deluding yourself into thinking it's all about hard work - it won't be the most important factor but it will help. People who delude themselves into thinking it's all hard work actually do better than people who think it's primarily luck, despit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:18 PM
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"Watch what they do, not what they say." is honestly great advice for assessing most people in life. So often people will do something that goes completely against the morals they claim to have. Dating? Someone can claim they want x/y/z in a partner, but who they date/approach will tell you what they really want. Personality? Majority of people think of themselves as good people, you have to watch how they actually treat people and work out for yourself if they actually practice their supposed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:27 AM
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Specifically, the number of 18-24-year-old men reporting no partnered sex during the past year increased from 18.9% to 30.1% across time. Put another way, 1 in 3 young men today are reporting not having had sex for at least a year. They split the data into age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:10 AM
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I often daydream about just packing up and moving countries to improve my dating life. Aside from the obvious safety and employment opportunity the most important factors I've been looking at are: Ratio of men:women living in the area BMI statistics I don't see any flaw with this plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:51 AM
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https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2020/7/8/1-in-3-young-men-report-not-having-sex-in-the-last-yearbut-not-because-of-porn/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:48 AM
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The data for 1/3 young men not having sex is actually pre-covid, from 2018/2019. It shows a rise from the start of the 2010's to the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:44 AM
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They worked for you? I tried them and didn't see much success, then again I'm pretty ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:41 AM
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The data I was looking at was specifically 18-24. I wonder how much of that data you posted is skewed by women in their 30s not being as interested in sex, and men in their 30s dating younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:40 AM
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Do you guys think the reports of increased sexlessness with younger generations is actually true or are people just more likely to admit it these days? I've seen multiple reports and studies that say ~1/3 young men have not had sex in the last year and 1/5 women. Both are almost doubled from previous generations. I've seen two reactions to this, some people claiming it's actually something with society that's wrong (probably the camp I fall into) and others claiming it's purely that people don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:24 AM
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Man I thought reading the FA subreddit might make me feel better to find others in my situation but it just made me feel even more hopeless. One thing they pointed out on there, not having any relationships/sex in your late teens/early 20s says a lot about how bleak your future is. Like those are the ages when everyone is most open to trying out new things, drugs, alcohol, and of course sex - people are experimenting and if you're not getting anything at this point in life what hope do you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:07 AM
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Not all butterflies and rainbows. At this point I’m somewhat jaded, and over dating. I have a hard time trusting women, given the sneaky and underhanded things I’ve seen them do to get what they want. Most recently, a friend’s new love interest took it upon herself to hit on me and inform me that if I wanted to date her, she’d drop him in a heartbeat (yes I told him asap). This is an interesting perspective (assuming you're not just another dude on the internet bullshitting). As someone who's ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:59 AM
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Ah right, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:28 PM
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It’s not the same. She’ll have no physical attraction, only be around for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:21 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:18 PM
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See my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:12 PM
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How tall is your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:09 PM
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I want love, in 2024 only tall men are entitled to love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:06 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:05 PM
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Just for that, I’m gonna wank.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:57 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:57 PM
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5’7”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:56 PM
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Anyone here been through leg-lengthening surgery? Think it might be my best option in the modern dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:31 PM
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shorter men who have made the rounds among the women in their social circles. Everyone seems to have a story about this mystical short guy who's an absolute woman-magnet. I've met plenty of short dudes who desperately wish they were that, but never a single one who could actually pull it off. On tho other hand I know a fat 6'2 dude who reeks of BO who still manages to pull women based on being 6'2
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:57 PM
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Cap. I've seen tall dudes who look like trolls have no issue pulling any woman they want. Tom Holland on the other hand would be a virgin if he wasn't famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:52 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:36 AM
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Not gay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:27 AM
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I've tried that pre-covid, still got turned down by one of the fattest ugliest girls in the club. Needless to say it was a huge blow to what little self confidence I had left. I don't go to bars post COVID
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:26 AM
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I'm a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:23 AM
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What do you think would be the best (non prostitute) chance of getting laid in < 9 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:19 AM
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Sticking with the food analogy I'd personally say that women are looking for meals that taste good. If it tastes amazing and is healthy for you then obviously it'd the perfect meal. However most meals aren't like that. And given the choice between a healthy meal that tastes like shit, or a delicious meal that's very unhealthy most women seem to choose the "unhealth but tastes amazing" option. A meal being healthy is always going to be a bonus, but at the end of the day most women aren't looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:43 PM
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Halo effect imo. They already have the hots for him so if he does literally anything their immediate reaction is to view it favourably. If an ugly guy makes a shitty joke it's a shitty joke, if a hot guy makes a shitty joke they laugh anyway because they assume it's an anti-joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:54 PM
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No one doubts that women are horny. It's just that men men when they're horny will fuck pretty much any but the most unattractive women. Women on the other hand won't just fuck any guy, it has to be a really attractive guy. If anything I'd say that men are willing to drop their standards lower than their dating standards for a one night stand, where as women do the polar opposite; they raise their standards higher for a one night stand than they would for dating. At least when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:43 PM
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Your tag says blue pill but your comment says red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:22 PM
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Because most men are not violent abusive and lazy, right? Nope, a lot of men are (mostly lazy and quite a few abusive). How many guys do you know who get married and then immediately give up on their appearance and goals? I can think of quite a few I know who fit that description. ​ So then women must be rewarding men who go to work, pay their bills, don’t commit crime and don’t abuse their loved ones. Don't get me wrong, it can encourage men to lead a prosperous life in some instances. Hell, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:33 PM
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Nah I was just looking for the tweet and that was the first image of it I found on google images lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:08 PM
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This is a debate sub man, I'm not going to get upset at you for challenging my beliefs. You can't expect to sway peoples opinions with a two word quip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure I knew my roommates, unless I have undiagnosed schizophrenia. In any case I feel like you're trying to red-herring the argument rather than actually try to refute what I said. Men act the way they do in relationships because it works, a big reason people turn to the "red pill" in the first place is because they realise "what I've previously been doing hasn't been working..." I think FDS are wrong on a lot of fronts but they're right in the belief that they shouldn't date men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:02 PM
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Sure you do. Have you ever opened a twitter thread? "Men are trash" is tag-line of half the women on there, hell even on reddit go to the FDS sub, everything there is about how "low-value" most men are. In college I used to hang out with my roommates a lot and they were very left leaning LGBTQ+ type people, the topic of "abusive men" was something that came up semi-frequently between them. ​ Tupac was never in a gang. Tupac may not be the right guy I'm thinking, I know for a fact it's some famou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:40 PM
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Men act the way they do because women reward it. Women are the ones who select their partners while men are the ones who have to compete. So it's only natural that men are going to act whatever way is more likely to get them a partner/laid. I constantly hear women complain about the way men act, but the truth is they act that way because you reward it. Men aren't romantic anymore because women view men who are romantic as unmanly and choose not to date them, men act like thugs because women find…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:43 PM
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We're headed for a Japan-style society. I've commented here before about how I feel the rise in inceldom is mostly related to larger changes in society, some of which aren't even directly related to relationships but impact them anyway. I feel like if you want to see what the future of dating/relationships looks like you just need to look at Japan. There's some differences between the west and Japan (Japan is stricter on immigration, and they managed to retain most of their manufacturing industr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 02:26 PM
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But almost everyone seems to somehow forget, tall handsome men aren’t cardboard cutouts with no personality, you’re competing against tall and handsome men who also have great personalities, or hell you’re also competing against your average man who also has a great personality. Another thing people seem to forget is there's literally a direct coloration between height/attractiveness and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:02 AM
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Alright so I'll chime in on this one, although I don't subscribe to most incel beliefs anymore this is one I still believe, because I have personal experience with it. It was after a night of heavy drinking, I went back to my house with a couple of friends, one of whom was a woman. This woman I had been friends with for months beforehand and we were always on really good terms. Anyway I ended up getting pretty depressed and it must have been pretty visible because eventually she ended up corneri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:55 AM
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I think that's partially true but it's more nuanced than that. Most women I know who earn a good wage still want to date, but the important factor is they refuse to date "down" that is they won't date someone who isn't at least as educated or earns as much as them, for guys that doesn't seem to be as big a consideration. This is important because (at least in my country) women graduate college at a higher rate than men, and are more likely to go to college in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 10:00 PM
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Personally I'm not sure there has been a rise in ASD, as far as I understand Autism is mostly genetic (it has a tendency to be passed down) - I think it's always been there we've just gotten better at diagnosing it. I agree that having a good father figure is important for men growing up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 09:47 PM
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I've spent a lot of time thinking about why there seems to be a rise in Incels/Red-Pill/Single Men in general these days and the more I think about it the more I think it's caused by a multitude of factors rather than just one single issue. I spent a lot of time on Incel forums, I'm still technically an Incel but I don't subscribe to a lot of the beliefs I used to (though I still do believe the undeniable facts; such as tall men having a much easier time when it comes to dating). I've heard all …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 09:24 PM
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I see a few people in this thread saying you won't make 80k/year as a tradesman, which is true, but it's better than going in debt getting a 4 year degree that isn't worth the paper it's printed on. I know guys/girls who fell for exactly that, one guy studied English for 4 years, but had no desire to work as an English teacher or a publisher or a writer... He now works on a stud farm which he could have done without a 4 year degree.
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 02:06 PM
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It's so retarded that women think it's an accomplishment for them to have sex. If you're a 7/10 girl and want no strings attached sex just walk into any nightclub, 99% of the guys there will gladly fuck you. If you're a 7/10 guy that percentage drops dramatically. That's why a guy sleeping with a lot of girls is seen as an accomplishment, it takes fucking effort. If you're a girl what effort did it take? Installing tinder and showing up?
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 02:19 PM
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She partied her ass off in her younger days, back when she was pretty fucking hot That's why I'm so glad things like Facebook and Instagram are around in my generation, even just the internet in general. You know those sluts can't resist getting every bit of attention they can from it. Why do I like this? Because when I'm in my 30s/40s they won't be able to lie about/hide their past any woman who approaches me with the whole "I just think you're the right guy" I'll be able see she spent her yout…
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 02:14 PM
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My highschool prom date (well my country's version of prom, we were 18), she asked me to the prom, spent the whole lead up talking about how she loved me and would not stop texting me. The day of the prom she got drunk and I left for 10 minutes to talk to some of my friends, came back and apparently she'd left to go fuck some other guy.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:50 PM
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then you see they are married with two kids and their page is covered with bible verses. Or if they are younger you see some guy they have been dating since high school. One of the first things that taught me about how women really act, a friend of mine (a real "Chad" type of guy) said he had nudes of a girl who we went to highschool with (we were a year out of highschool at this point), I thought he was bullshitting me but no, apparently she sent them to him a week ago, face included and all (h…
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:47 PM
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My uncle let his wife go on a girls night out with her friends while he stayed at home to mind the kids, she didn't come back 'till the next morning. Apparently they were so drunk they all decided to rent a hotel room to share between themselves. He buys the story but I don't, would anyone here with half a brain think that they decided to just rent a hotel room rather than getting a 20 minute taxi ride home?
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:39 PM
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some on stagettes You mean a hen night? But yeah I never understood stags/hens, I men I've heard so many stories, even in AMAs from male strippers, that basically confirms a lot of women cheat on their hen nights. It really says a lot about female nature, commitment? Bullshit, they want to fuck whatever they can all you are to them is resources.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:32 PM
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Bro, one of my own fucking cousins (2nd cousin) also fetishises black guys and has fucked more guys at festivals than she can remember (I'm not even being hyperbolic it's literally about 17 guys). She's only 16... yet already well on the cock carousel, it's honestly fucking disgusting, especially knowing it's my own family member. Her parents of course think she's a sweet little angel who's driven and wants to go to college, and she goes to all these festivals because she's young and just loves …
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:16 AM
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To add if she wanted you she would have messaged first. You're just validation otherwise.
/r/Chadfish10/06/19 02:11 AM
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