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| 47 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player? | Debate | wannakeepmyanonymity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:34 PM |
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| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I am good at talking to women, I just dont meet them is what I am saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Lol not howit works. Men can drop their standards as much as they want, women always want to sex up, and so they won't be picked if they're not chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Lol it wasn't long before my reply otherwise I wouldn't have been able to quote it. Quit the bullshit. So if it would have been deleted long before your reply, you could have quoted it? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I go to uni bars, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Neither is it appealing to me, but that's how it works for "players" in real life. They sit together with others at parties, do drugs together and take the girls home like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Oh getting laid doing drugs is so easy though... a few spliffs or lines and the girls get horny and giggly and somehow need to make up all the free drugs... Only downside is though if you do that with alcohol,, people call you a rapist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I'd go with B. Most average guys get laid through social circles and meeting women in like classes, work or the neighbourhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Oh I know plenty people who tell me they did, but I never saw it actually happen. And then I get the same bullshit stories here of guys just pretending like they are players. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?You fucked someone average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:06 PM |
| 0 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Okay, defend him. I don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:55 PM |
| -2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Not the same thing. I don't want an echo chamber, but if you take things from context, it's not good argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Sure you do, bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:01 PM |
| -2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I literally quoted the whole content of your message. You never said that, but that's strongly the feel you give off. Along with wanting to be hear that others had the same experience as you did. If you want to take things from context, I am out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?You highly doubt that average dudes have game? Yes, I do. Thanks for telling them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:42 PM |
| 0 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?So what? I elaborated further in the other response. Don't be a dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I highly doubt that happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:39 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?That's the type of stories, I mention in one of my comments. This is just the generic BS people tell you. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:37 PM |
| 16 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?And my point is, they don#t meet those girls in bars or clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:35 PM |
| -4 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Your entire response takes things from context to prove your own point and agenda. You need to read the whole thing, and not only the snippets. I never said I feel like I am very unattractive. And yes, there are Henry Cavill types, who just look so good, they walk into a room and that's all they need to do to meet girls, for them it's not a challenge at all. That is way above the average man who would walk into a bar and no one would even notice he is drinking alone. And there are no opportuniti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I am talking about me going out and not being successful, and about other guys, I know, who go out and not being successful. And that I never actually seen it happen, only heard about it. And everyone with a girlfriend, met the girlfriend through friends or dating app, but not "in the wild" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:31 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Your n count? What's that? N? Besides, black man have a huge advantage in white countries. Especially if above average. It's good for you, but just pointing out, that his is not really applicable to me, as a white dude. Also I was talking about bars and clubs in specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:28 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Not about your looks, but the bit that people casualy hook up. I doubt it's a real thing. I may happen, but only as often as people win the lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I was more one about the whole "I fuck more than my cousin." Besides, he talks about marrying the first girl he saw basically with 22, and that can't be long ago because he says he is stil in is early twenties ( and pretends like being married for 2 years is a feat) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:25 PM |
| -2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?However, I was single for a short time in my late 20’s and had lots of clear opportunities to pickup women in bars; I’m not especially attractive. I didn’t not sleep with any of these women for various reasons. This isn’t to brag, but to say that it’s very believable that lots of people are hooking up this way. Doubt that bit though. It's not only that I don't get laid when I try to get laid, it's also that I don't know other people who hook up in a bar, especially not average looking friends (I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:15 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Oh, I see. I really had no clue what you were trying to say. But as a black man, you have an advantage, the advantage of being bit of a taboo for white girls, which makes it exciting. And you AAs grow up learning how to dance from little on, it's your culture. White guys can't dance, we all know that lmao But I do think that dancing is a good tip maybe. Dancing is fun and engaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:13 PM |
| -2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Well, before effective contraception and abortion, it definitely didn't happen. There may have been a brief period from say mid 70s to late 90s that was perhaps the high point of the average guy's ability to get lots of novel, no-strings sex. But even then, I don't think it was that common or available for Joe average attractiveness. Before contraception and abortion, there were just way more teenage parents. They had way more sex back in the day than today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yeah, but when did you ever meet a girl that is totally hideous? That is like 1% of society. Btw the officially ugliest woman in the world has a husband. So tht is pretty much irrelevant. If the girls are fat, or ugly, or both, lonely guys will still go for them, if they gave them a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:09 PM |
| -2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Come on you got better than that Is this one of those "witty responses" you read about in some pick up forum, and now you think you are great at comebacks? Dude, you are projecting majorly. We both know that, and now all you do is try and "defend your honour". You only call it weird because your attack didn't work on me. And I won't respond to you any further. You're just here to argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:08 PM |
| 0 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?You're a 1,95m Duracell AA Battery? What? lol But yeah, maybe I need to learn to dance. I wat to learn how to shuffle dance, but I don't knw where to learn it. I don't want to learn ll of hip hop just to do that, and on my own I just fail. So dunno. Have to try it once more, maybe this time I will get lucky and find a way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yeah but my point is still about how often do people find partners in bars or clubs. Is that really so difficult to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:04 PM |
| -5 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?My question doesn't provoke your boasting, you just used my question to boast. There is a difference, but I am not talking to any more. You're just going to drag this fight on forever because I hurt you, where your pride lives. This has never been a debate, you just cme here to make yourself greater, than you actually are. You didn't really challenge or answer anything I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Also: men don’t “fuck what they can get” as much as dudes think. Or they’d be at the last calls. Most dudes would rather go home than “settle for the bottom of the barrel” Who told you that? Definitely not true. Most dudes definitely would fuck any girl that is not absolutely hideous to look at, if that girl would touch their arm, giggle about their jokes and tell them, that they want to take them home. Stop pretending like most guys have some sort of standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:01 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I don't know? Before the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:00 PM |
| -5 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?No, I did not. I spoke about myself in the third person to make it clearer to you. Why? Is that something you do? That's projection par excellence. Very telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yes, some. But I meant player as in super handsome guy who just needs to show his face and girls stare in his direction and try to get his attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Okay, that actually makes sense. I thought this was just some random BS. I am actually 26. I am not totally unfucked, but I have a really difficult time meeting single women. They're always either very uninterested, cold and distant, or in a relationship. And I definitely never met a woman in a bar either. I met groups of people, among them attached girls usually, or some guys to hang out with, but beyond that never anything ever happened. And the few girls I meet,are just pure chance meets. Bus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Do you mean sex in general or sex with different partners Both I guess. Anything that isn't a committed relationship, but I am more interested in how often people actually meet someone in the bar and it ends up with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?From bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:49 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?This will depend on many factors that haven't been disclosed and are . What is the sex ratio where this person is? What are the cultural attitudes towards casual sex? etc. lol what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I mean, I think it's a legit term. There definitely are people who want to get laid, but never do because they are so absolutely unfuckable. But that doesn't mean you have to throw this word in the ring every chance you get. And it also doesn't mean that you need to pretend like there are many incels in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:48 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Really highly doubt that. It's not that men choose hook ups over relationships. I think men lack the option. They can't just say "oh you know what? Maybe today I will let a girl get lucky. I need to get laid, but I am only looking for a one time thing" and then do that lol. Men fuck what they can and then those things evolve into relationships, when they feel like the other girl likes them Only very, very, very few men have actual options and can choose and pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:47 PM |
| -4 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?you can believe what you want, but people in relationship will usually have more sex over time than players because of overall better consistency of sex within said relationship. OP doesn't care, because OP didn't try to talk about the benefits of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?81-85. What has this to do with anything? Now explain why my age makes a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 0 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Pretty sure another factor is also that even if guys wanted to, that girls don't go out to get laid. They don't have sex with strangers, they have deifnitely people in their social circle to hook up with, that's a lot safer for them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yeah, as you can see I deleted it long before your reply. I meant to say this to the other guy who obviously lied about his stuff. That was an error on my side when I wrote the comment. If I delete it before you reply, it's not a "ninja edit". You didnt "beat my trickery" or anything. Jeez. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Why do people here bring the term incel up at every chance? Incels are not average people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:37 PM |
| 8 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yes, not in a relationship. Talking abou hook ups. And I also mean clubs and bars, because I feel like this is all just ego bullshit going on. Stories men tell other men because they heard it from other men and it sounded badass. I have never actually seen anyone do it, neither my friends nor strangers, and I have never done it myself. And when I talk to other guys about it, they often boast and tell their stories, but never have any actual advice. You can tell it's just made up. "yeah, sure, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Lol no. Men would literally fuck anything with a pulse, and still often don't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yeah, well, I have never actually seen anyone do it, neither my friends nor strangers, and I have never done it myself. And when I talk to other guys about it, they often boast and tell their stories, but never have any actual advice. You can tell it's just made up. "yeah, sure, last year I fucked 6 girls on 6 different nights out. I just go to the club, dance on my own and I am confident as fuck and then just talk to a girl and ask "wanna go home with me?" and that usually works". Or similar. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:31 PM |
| -12 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I don't really care about you boasting about your probably fake anyway success. I thought that was clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?When I said player, I just meant guys who are like the top5% of men or something. The type who walk into a bar, and girls go and pick THEM up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:26 PM |
| 3 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I never done it, and despite knowing many people, I also never saw anyone actually do it. Even the good looking guys, except one guy I knew. But he was really exceptionally good looking, and he didn't even say anything. The girl picked him up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 3 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?It's difficult to say really. Because women lie to make it less, and men lie to make it more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Not how the real world work though. I know you convinced yourself that this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:22 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I know that's the averge amount of lifetime partners. But not what I meant. I meant hook ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give herI think that is often the issue: Women can't communicate their needs well. Too many women just don't speak out if it's an uncomfortable topic, and they just sugarcoat things. Internally they are not okay with something, but they don't show it. (to not break lose a fight or something? Not sure about the motives) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later.Long text, but based from the first few words evrything is irrelevant: Just because society causes men to be less confident than ever, doesn't mean that confidence is not still the key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:31 PM |
| 0 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Some men. Not the majority. Men do go for younger women, but that doesn'T necessarily mean young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Men would fuck anything that has a pulse, and still often don't get laid. It's because even fat, ugly, autistic and mentally retarded girls have high standards. Actually, the less attractive they are, the higher their standards usually because it's an ego thing, I suppose. The more men you can turn away, the more desired you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Yes, because as long as they have pussy, they're valuable for reproduction. Men, on the other hand, are not. We are worthless to women, unless display extraoridinary value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:27 PM |
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