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Solid advice bro thank you
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:59 AM
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By making sexual jokes I feel like you’re placing the girl on a pedestal and saying that she’s good looking enough to have sex with, which boosts her ego and validates her. In my experience girls have also taken it as me being desperate. How do I avoid this
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:44 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:07 PM
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How do I prevent the sexual jokes from validating her though
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:06 PM
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How do I stay funny without being too goofy?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:26 AM
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What separates the two because I think my issue is at times I laugh at my own jokes because I’m too in the joking mood
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:24 AM
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I don’t like listening to it because I feel like it’s subconsciously validating the idea in me since we repeat the lyrics
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:29 PM
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I appreciate the straight forwardness, so what aspects of my game can I fix to prevent this or to better deal with situations like this
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:03 AM
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Ok read, link to what you’re referring to specifically
/r/askTRP05/05/19 11:46 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:32 PM
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It was a sarcastic joke because obviously Michael was a total creep but he wasn’t in a relationship with any women, so he didn’t have to deal with all the bs they give off.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 10:30 PM
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I’m of age though
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:53 PM
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I have 19 but have tinder plus so I just hide the age
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:52 PM
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Ik I was just wondering how girls in the future can get “I’m a sexual guy” vibes instead of just nice or friendly, I’m thinking in places where I don’t have as much time like a club, bar, or just meeting women in general
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:28 PM
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Haha I know I was just wondering how girls in the future can get “I’m a sexual guy” vibes instead of just nice or friendly
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:26 PM
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Haha ik I’m saying for future interactions how do I start off with the vibe this girl got after I said I wanted something casual
/r/askTRP28/03/19 04:34 AM
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How did you meet her and your other plates, I’m recently fresh in the game
/r/askTRP13/02/19 06:42 AM
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Yeah you hit in on the nail. Usually girls who are not smart don’t understand some of my jokes because I use blatant irony and they can’t process it haha. Girls who are smarter really like my humor and play along with it, I guess it’s natural filter as to who I would connect best with. How do I strike that balance of being funny but reserved when meeting new girls
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:51 PM
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What would an example of this be because I’m a very confident and social guy but sometimes girls just don’t get my humor which results in them thinking I’m weird or something
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:13 AM
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Bro thank you so much for sharing this guy is a legend
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:54 AM
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Hmm now I understand, how do you think I can convey this same attitude in texting and tinder because on tinder I usually begin with a joke to break the ice and only girls with a sense of humor play along and give goods vibes
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:51 AM
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How do I become a pussy magnet without talking though? There are times where a girl likes me already through previous conversations and when we are in a group and I’m more quiet they always ask what’s on my mind, so I understand the value of being reserved. However I’m curious as to how you build that attraction before talking so much, like I can’t just say hi and just make eye contact and body language, there must be more to pull them in
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:48 AM
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So how do I imitate without being talkative to get to the point where there is sexual tension, I can’t just arrive and expect there to be sexual tension
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:21 AM
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What was his comment? And what are some examples confident body language when you’re not talking
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:20 AM
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But if I’m always alone how can I meet women, I get your comment and agree with a lot of it but it seems that in today’s social interactions you have to play some of the “game” to get the pussy
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:20 AM
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I usually approach women in a joking way to break the ice and to show I’m a normal guy. I feel like by making the first move I’m showing confidence because it shows I’m not shy, but once I get to talking the guy who is being more quiet usually piques their interests since he’s not engaging with them. How do I counter overselling myself and being reserved
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:21 AM
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I’m a confident guy and consider myself an alpha, although I’m not the aggressive type. However I am also a super super social guy so I love joking with everyone, even if I’m not sexually interested in them. I’ve noticed that even though I’m just enjoying myself and making boring interactions fun for myself women take this as weakness and what you described. How do I strike the balance of being myself and having fun, but also retaining that mystery and control that was described?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:58 PM
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True, money stays women come and go
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:13 PM
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Good song thanks, have anymore?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah very true, goals over pleasures
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:16 PM
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I liked the song because it’s saying some true stuff about women there, I’ll take a listen
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:25 PM
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Any other songs
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:40 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:04 PM
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Very true, what do you mean by the last part
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:04 PM
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Yeah a big thing I’m working on too is not setting expectation with a girl right after I meet them, like I would envision us hanging out a month from when we meet when in reality I might not see them after the first date
/r/seduction10/02/19 10:39 AM
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Yeah that’s what I was thinking too I’m a people’s person so I don’t want to have to numb myself, I agree that I need more abundance
/r/seduction10/02/19 04:53 AM
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Thanks for the recommendations
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:51 AM
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The girls at my school have no outside friends lol so I’ve met some through mutual friends. I don’t drink and have good pickup but I’m just not meeting as many woman as I could .
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:51 AM
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I’m 18, but a senior in high school and the girls at my school are all not my type at all. So I think I have to dance less at parties and spend more time picking up girls
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:13 AM
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I’ve been trying with tinder and so many girls are flaky, but yeah when I am seeing multiple girls at once I stop giving a shit
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:53 AM
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Very true I learned several lessons from this girl because of her weird ways
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:50 AM
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That’s what I was thinking but she went to her school’s formal by herself with her, she hung out with her friends who had dates 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:49 AM
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Haha yeah this thread helped me stop caring and move on mentally
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:48 AM
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Really solid insight and perspective thank you! My social confidence is strong, I insisted with her at the party and started joking with her. However, when I’m by myself and behind a screen I lose some of my identity since my phone is a world of its own. That’s why I’m trying to master not caring about response times or any petty things. Thanks
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:08 AM
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Exactly I’m going to gauge it in person and stop getting in my head over this, this thread made me realize how much power I gave to someone else over me and such a stupid reason
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:05 AM
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We’re going to hangout this Saturday, I tried to ah got before but she flaked then a week later asked if I wanted to hangout soon so I set this up
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:04 AM
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And the funny part is she went to her formal by herself with friends, so I don’t know if I’m orbiting , but she definitely is playing these games. She taught me to not get attached and the necessity of talking to multiple girls at once
/r/seduction08/02/19 06:56 AM
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Our groups are hanging out this week so I’m going to gauge her from there, if she’s boring or not interested in moving on
/r/seduction08/02/19 06:55 AM
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That’s exactly what I did. My last text was suggesting what we do when we meet up that day and she didn’t respond. I decided that I’m going to let her contact me back because she didn’t that day when we were supposed to meet. A week later I posted a video on my insta story of my dancing at a club and she messaged me saying our groups should hangout together. And in her text she referenced one of my jokes. Why do you think she decided to unghost me and by her wanting to hangout in groups does thi…
/r/seduction08/02/19 06:54 AM
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I put effort to my texts but she’s the one who is only reactionary not bringing any jokes herself
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:20 AM
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Very true thanks
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:19 AM
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I’ve tried to make plans with her before and she has flaked, I’m a people person so I prefer in person anyways but women are so gross tang and flaky nowadays
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:19 AM
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Love this thank you
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:18 AM
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Haha yeah
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:17 AM
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Yeah I’m mentally ready lol, like Saturday night my expectation is just having fun with my friends
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:16 AM
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Very solid advice bro thank you
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:14 AM
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Sometimes it’s only 10-20 min after too, once it was like live texting like a conversation
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:03 AM
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I’ve texted her in the morning only for her to respond 6 hours later
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:02 AM
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But we’re hanging out Saturday before going to a party, however she wants to do it with both of groups of friends, idk if she’s friendzoning me by this or wants to know before and not get trapped on a date
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:00 AM
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Ik but as of now it’s just been figuring out the details of us meeting up, so no need.
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:59 AM
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I understand but this is chronic regardless of the time, she can text before she goes to sleep and puts her phone to charge lol
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:58 AM
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Don’t want to seem desperate and nowadays people get weird out by talking on the phone, even though I prefer it
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:58 AM
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I did that two weeks ago, she texted me at 5:50 after I texted her her at 2:30 to confirm plans
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:57 AM
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Probably uncomfortable and don’t want to seem rude. When a girl is not interested but doesn’t want to be rude she gives very little effort, girls who like you put more effort and attentive
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:56 AM
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Maybe but girls are in their phones 24-7 in today’s world and she doesn’t play sports
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:21 AM
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Yeah I’m probably seeing her this weekend so I’m going to gauge her interest there
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:20 AM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:20 AM
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Brazilian Jujitsu?
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:30 AM
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Haha very true I didn’t even think about it that way
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:28 AM
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I’m not worried out my mind but it’s just annoying when I’m trying to confirm plans and not able to make other plans for that time since she didn’t give an answer. Puts everything for that day in lock until I see what’s going on
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:28 AM
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Yeah exactly that seems to be the remedy since she’s just one of many, but I hate how people can’t just text in a reasonable time. It’s like they’re trying to show that you’re not priority or something
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:27 AM
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How about on tinder because there I usually just joke a few times then say she’s chill and ask for her number or snap. From there I just plan something
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:21 AM
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Yeah you’re so right. I noticed that I would chat too much and make them lose interest because it showed I was too available. I’m more of an in person type anyways so texting isn’t my strong suit, that or phone calls since I can also convey my personality through there. I need to work on not being needy, because even when talking to multiple girls at once I make it seem that I’m needy through text when in reality I’m just super talkative and want to have a conversation haha. Since I’m person is …
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:17 AM
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Yeah I think you’re totally right tbh, in person and through text I’m two different people. In person I’m really confident and myself but when I text I’m seem more needy because I text like how I talk with my jokes but they don’t translate well. Funny thing is she still views my Snapchat stories, why do think this is?
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:14 AM
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With another girl we met, made out , and she said she wanted to meet soon. We then couldn’t meet for a week because she was in nevada. Before she would text right away but throughout the week she would take longer to text. When I suggested we hangout she stopped responding. The next day I start a conversation where she’s engaged and laughing, then I make a transition from a joke she said to suggest we hangout and she stopped responding. The next day I ask if it’s because she’s afraid of competit…
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:39 PM
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Yeah I’ve learned to not put more effort than the other person is
/r/seduction29/01/19 12:43 PM
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Although I’m a bit unsettled by how it played out I’m talking to other girls anyways so if I can just make her a plate/something casual my penis can forgive and thank you for the article
/r/seduction29/01/19 12:40 PM
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Yeah I’m going to suggest mini golf
/r/seduction29/01/19 03:24 AM
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I said I’ll let you know to which she responded with “ok” 12 hours later. Pride wise I’m pretty unhappy about the whole situation but at the same time if I go out with her I will be with 4 other friends (in addition to whoever she brings) and we’re going mini golfing so it would be like a chill Saturday with friends in addition to her and her friends. I feel like I put too much time in to texting her and stiff to not get a hookup or something, she lives in the valley away from me so doesn’t real…
/r/seduction29/01/19 12:58 AM
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Yeah I am, oneitis is not fun at all
/r/seduction29/01/19 12:02 AM
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Tbh you’re right, but I’m debating on whether or not to put my pride aside to potentially get some but I feel really conflicted because I feel wronged and used
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:53 PM
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Good advice thanks. After seeing what she did at the club I’m just not that motivated to pursue her, like unless she is easy to make plans with I can’t justify to myself working to get her. Haha we’ll see where this goes
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:38 AM
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Haha why would she pity add me though? She could have just not added me, unless she’s trying to get orbiters
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:36 AM
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Yeah I’m going to let her initiate it. Like if she replies to my story or something, what happened at the club really just took away the enthusiasm I had towards her emotionally, so I just see it as physical connection. I’m not willing to put that much work into her because I’m not afraid to lose her, which I guess gives me leverage lol
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:35 AM
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What do you mean by try again and do better, like as in my approach or just my game? I think my sweat was one my biggest weakness tbh
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:25 AM
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Yeah I’m going to play it by ear and not emotionally invest in her at all because I honestly didn’t expect to see her after last night and was surprised she asked her friend for my Snapchat. So I’ll be able to experiment with not being needy or being interested that much with women. I’m talking to other girls anyways thanks to tinder so I’m not sweating meeting up with her. Haha this is going to be my experiment with women like this
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:22 AM
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Good advice thanks man
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:29 AM
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Yeah this is exactly what I was thinking, so what should I talk to her about because the o my talking we did was about her dance moves and the music haha. I don’t want to come across as desperate or trying to find out a bunch of information about her. Also I’m going to wait for her to message me first because I honestly don’t want to play her game, what do you think?
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:43 AM
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How much is the guy packing damn “awesome cock”
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