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I'm an absolute schizo when it comes to this. I feel an invisible pressure to marry an objectively attractive woman, not because I dislike or feel superior for average looking women, but because it's correlated to winning in my head. Probably because I had to consciously unlearn having "low" standards, and pegged my views on the other end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:11 PM
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Personally, I don't care how much she makes. Anything past self-sufficiency has an extremely diminishing return. To answer your question: men that reject or feel intimidated by women who make more do so reflexively because generally speaking women aren't too big on men that make less than them - which is fair. I do feel like it varies from culture to culture. I wouldn't mind marrying a local white/'westernized' girl from my hometown that earns more. Some of my friends are with girls that make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:59 PM
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Actually, that was poorly thought out on my part. I was annoyed with him for getting himself in that position in the first place and then being overly upset over it. I'm admittedly far more conservative and less tolerant of inappropriate behaviour than him, and she was a loose girl. I told him what I thought of her when he asked, and he refused to listen. When they 'fake broke up' I told him to cut her loose, and again he didn't listen. That's what frustrated me. I can recognize that some girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:04 PM
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Quite atypical, but I lurk this sub so why not. No pill, I think. I just believe in strong traditional households with some emphasis on gender roles. At the same time, I don't remotely believe the purported emphasis on looks and money reflect the happy marriages I observe irl. I'm from a conservative refugee background. Textbook military dad. Married parents for 30+ years. Grew up very poor in an almost exclusively white town. My dad would tell me what kind of woman I should marry from the age o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:31 AM
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I'm open to the idea that it's pure male ego talking, but I agree with this. I can't rationalize it though. I can absolutely denounce both of them as vile, nonetheless. Two of my closest friends have been in polarizing situations. One of them has been a serial cheat. I had some honest (private) conversations with him and told him it's not cool (we're from similar cultural background), but in his head it's not great but whatever as long as they're not married. Once he marries her, only then it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:56 AM
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Depends on what 'uglier' means. I grew up with my dad trying to influence the type of women I should marry from a young age. He'd always tell me to marry a 'good woman, not just a beautiful woman'. I had a phase in my early 20's trying shirk that advice off and went did a total 180. I thought my father unintentionally handicapped me from diverging from what I perceived as the 'norm'. I had a very superficial streak, and I can't say I was the happier for it after initial ego boosts. Now I don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:59 PM
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That lack of introspection and doubling down on behaviour blows my mind. With the warped view the internet/media/whatever has enabled in both men and women, I can stomach some level of 'men/women bad'. I might sound like an asshole, but when girls complain about every potential or man that has been in their life is a massive red flag to me. Automatically makes me think less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:39 PM
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It's not really conservatism if it the credo that dictates their actions is one of maximal gain and minimal accountability. That fundamentally undermines conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:06 AM
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Interesting. I had no idea it "issue" of overeducated women and undereducated men might have already been ironed out among American women. I'm from a relatively obscure ethnic background and conservative culture even though I was born and raised in the West. I'm seeing all sorts of issues manifest with regards to gender relations in my ethnic community. Women are graduating at higher rates and struggling to get married. They're not interested in marrying uneducated men, and marrying a man from '…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:33 PM
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I wasn't trying to be aggressive at all, honestly. mb. That was not the intention
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:16 AM
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I'm not sure what sort of answer your expecting. Some biological pseudoscience? Some vague sociological statement about how promiscuity harms wider society? It's an undignified sight for a woman to whore herself out. It's not healthy behaviour, and my anecdotal interpretation of society supports that. I live in a country where prostitution is perfectly legal and enjoys protections that are seldom found elsewhere. Yet, there only a certain subset of broken women that resort to it. It's wrong in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:55 PM
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That makes no sense, because I'd still be disgusted by the sex worker even if I had zero sexual attraction to said person. I defer to morals, but seeing as the overwhelming majority of men from all walks of life and cultures do not appreciate promiscuity - I suspect there is more to it. There is a visceral disgust and lack of respect that comes with the territory. I don't want to unnecessarily sound like a dick, but I view promiscuous women (incl. SW) as less-than in context of relationships. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:45 PM
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I never actively thought about it, as I never dated in school. To be honest, part of me does feel like I missed out. I didn't care in high school, and then second hand experiences in university sobered me up to how shallow and meaningless they often are. That said, I do feel like I romanticise it. Because of the nature of my interactions and courting process of women my age (mid-late 20's) I'm terrified of a loss of 'joie de vivre' or innocence. I can cede it could totally be an unwarranted angs…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:40 PM
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Option 1, but that's also because I'd prefer to wait for marriage. I can't separate ideology, but even if I try I still think I would prefer girl #1 as long as I believe there is some sexual attraction behind it all and she's acting out of discipline, her own morals etc. Option 2 just doesn't seem attractive to me anymore. Maybe when I was like 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:52 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with the OP - but women certainly pay more attention and put more effort into their appearance. I've recently started invested real time and energy in my time and that has led me to a plethora of women's avenues with a lot of girls fixating on minute details. A lot of the stuff they use to fix what I personally deem a non-issue is indeed quack. There are very few spaces for men for working on their appearance and a lot of spaces tend to be dominated by TRP culture. Of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 03:36 PM
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That is actually a legitimate point. I still think it holds true for Black Americans and to a slightly lesser extent the African diaspora elsewhere. Just going through older African American media & culture I think it's fair to say there is a significant change in beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:29 PM
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Yes, I'm from Europe. I'm very surprised to hear that. I have never set foot in North America and only ever met a handful of Black Americans during my travels, so it's largely speculation from media/social media - but the emphasis is on short & very curvy with the male counterpart being built stocky and preferably tall. Kind of how MGK types do well with white women, but Nipsey Hustle/Wiz Khalifa's physiques don't do so well w/ their black counterparts. Although I would argue they're just too sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:26 PM
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Wow. Source on #2? I know women are graduating and achieving higher education at a higher rate, but I didn't know it reflected on real world pay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:20 PM
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I suspect a lot of it comes from relatively recent hypersexualization of black culture. I tuned into Fresh Prince the other day for the first time in a decade and got caught off-guard by the non-stop featuring of slim and tall, short and petite black women. I can weirdly relate though, I'm black, 6'2 and have a slim/medium build and seem to never get any interest from specifically 'thick' black girls unless they're literally underage for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:32 PM
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I'm 99% sure you have it backwards. I'm non-White and born in Europe. Asian women are definitely not considered as attractive over here as they seem to be in NA. I very much doubt the beauty standards shift that much across the pond though. Men that are really into East Asian women tend to prefer petite and 'smaller' women. Their bodies are a large part of their appeal to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:16 PM
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Last year, I probably would have said no, but now it's a hard yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:48 PM
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That's not true though, traditional women do hold high standards to men. The emphasis just isn't on their appearance as much as it on status, income and social outlook. Traditional women do not marry the men you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:48 PM
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Even so, that's ridiculous. My lord, I feel sheltered because the idea of a woman going on a date for free food just screams pathetic more than it seems disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:40 PM
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I'm not sure what AF/BB is new-ish lurker. Very interesting though. Contrary to some of the posts here, I think it's almost the norm to see a woman at the very slightly more attractive than her partner. The only complete mismatch I know irl is from a friend and his deeply insecure gf. He pays and does a lot of things for her, but he's also very controlling and pushy with her. I still kind of think that's the normal arrangement. Maybe it's because I genuinely can't imagine myself or most of my fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:34 PM
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Do you think you're in the minority in today's world? I ask because I was raised in an extremely traditional non-Western household where everything from skinny jeans, sagging, non-watch jewelry was considered feminine or unmanly. I actively avoided anything perceived has hyper feminine. Just the thought of an earring, tattoo, piercing or any sort of 'pretty boy' gimmick would've been met with total derision. I've recently (mid-late 20's) started obsessing over my appearance and I genuinely belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:49 PM
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I genuinely thought the first paragraph was an internet invention. I'm very surprised to read this. What do you mean by simply exactly? Overly affectionate and offload emotional burdens? I suspect many women date guys that may be below them in looks just to feel extra secure and cherished. Was 'simping' more than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:16 PM
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Why do you dislike men who pay a lot of attention to their appearance? Not judging, genuinely curious. How would you feel if your S/O had an extensive daily routine that'd match yours or even took a few extra steps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:55 PM
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