warbloggled Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How Normal Is It That The First Thing Girls Ask Is What Is Your Job?	warbloggled	/r/seduction	13/11/19 08:11 AM
2	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote	warbloggled	/r/seduction	30/08/19 07:25 AM
1	Conflicting Messages From a Girl [27f]	warbloggled	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/19 09:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-6	When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sex Girls say they wanna just cuddle but it’s a lie. they just don’t wanna sound too forward.	/r/seduction	14/03/26 11:11 AM
3	I feel like day gaming is not even worth it? Field report Your game could be more efficient. You have too much empty fluff and free qualifiers. In other words, you’re too easy. Listen to how you just offer up your time and attention. Which makes the girls feel like you are common, so they’re fine passing you up today, thinking they could pull someone like you anytime they might want to. Get it?	/r/seduction	30/01/26 10:27 AM
7	Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off. I’d say, “might still be too soon to tell! wink”	/r/seduction	17/10/25 08:32 PM
4	The most successful guy you ever saw Myself. I read the game and that shit made me unstoppable. Suddenly I could pick up every non-verbal cue, girls would say it’s like I could read their minds, and I could. My male friends would ask me what happened? How do I do it? And I would try to teach them but it would go mostly over their heads. I would receive screenshots from my friend of texts he would receive from girls asking about or complimenting me, from even when I did “nothing”, just being in my presence was enough for them. I wou…	/r/seduction	19/09/25 11:05 PM
2	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? As someone else commented. Small wins. Also, stay in your lane, as in - make a list of things you’re knowledgeable about. Which one of those things are generally interesting? Talk about those things. Learn how to steer conversations in those directions, then you’ll feel more in your nature.	/r/seduction	18/07/23 06:36 AM
3	How to deal with a low effort person? Until a relationship is solidified, texting should be used only as a means of setting up and confirming dates. Otherwise you get what you got.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 12:52 AM
1	I keep getting AA Perhaps your issue with it is you’re focusing too much on the end game. Your one little step towards the girl is carrying ALL this weight of expectations and emotional rollercoasters, that’s why it feels overwhelming to you. You have to let all that go for a second and consider the small things first, is this girl cute? Is she interesting to talk to? Are you interesting to talk to? What conversations could you possibly have with a stranger? For a moment, forget about your the sex, previous exper…	/r/seduction	09/09/22 01:15 AM
1	How the hell do people do this After replying to some pm’s, it’s become obvious that most guys who have issues with approaching women also seem to have a serious lack of initiative and discipline. I’ve broken down concepts to finer details and apparently it’s still not comprehensive enough. Further breakdown is requested and sure, I may not be the most eloquent person around however, communication is a 50/50 thing. We must meet each other half way. I’ve highlighted keywords that may easily be researched but these guys seem to…	/r/seduction	05/09/22 10:37 PM
1	How the hell do people do this pm me, I’ll teach you like it’s math.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 01:53 AM
32	How do I even talk to girls without coming off as a friend? Making friends with girls is a key step in seduction. Friendzone is only real for those who don’t know how to navigate sexuality. So I would suggest you reframe how you view being friends with females to a good thing. I saw another comment here offering good advice about giving compliments, physical/non physical. They are good for escalating yes, I would also add physical touch. Knowing how to touch a woman’s body in a place you know appropriate so she is receptive is also key. It doesn’t have t…	/r/seduction	30/08/22 04:58 AM
9	Women seem like the most empathetic people. You’re right, there is no sympathy for the average male. Then again, if you’re an average male and you need sympathy, that immediately puts you at below average.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:56 AM
3	Quick Case Study… why not to listen to female’s dating advice (Not an inkel rant) In my own experience as well. Women give terrible dating advice haha	/r/seduction	23/08/22 06:21 PM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Because there is a difference between, “let’s fuck” versus convincingly delivering, “let’s have the time our lives”.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 06:44 AM
1	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. Except I am not advocating for such malicious behaviors. I am not talking about guys who are emotionally abusive and manipulative, you are. You have interjected the idea that they’re the only ones who use game and because of that, the game is bad. I was simply stating, that the “games” you’re saying we should do away with, are absolutely an integral part of social relationships.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 09:36 AM
1	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. The communication aspect you’re highlighting goes both ways. The same way there are people who can’t get a clue from “don’t make it weird”, there exists people who are equally unable to communicate effectively. Who can’t choose their words to clearly describe what they’re looking for. That’s why when we learn about seduction, nonverbal cues are taught to be much more relevant than verbal exchanges.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 09:25 AM
1	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. I’ve seen time and time again that the people who are most against the idea of having “game” are usually because they have no clue how to conduct themselves in a way that is socially attractive. The game is key for filtering these people out, nobody wants to spend their time with these sheltered vanila personalities featuring victim complexes. That is an absolutely toxic environment. An overtly interested person is the same as an ambitiously deadbeat loser. Do you not have anything to do other t…	/r/seduction	13/08/22 08:51 PM
1	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. You misunderstood the idea yet presumed we are talking about the same thing. We’re not. Allow me to clarify. I am not advocating for dishonesty as you suggest. Having game and being honest about your intentions are different things that may or may not mix. I am talking about the ability to present yourself and your intentions in a manner that is interesting, attractive. I am talking about creativity. A way to close the gap regardless of physical attractiveness and wealth. Also, “guessing”? You m…	/r/seduction	13/08/22 08:40 PM
-1	Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird. It’s only juvenile in the view you’re assuming. These “games” are absolutely crucial when it comes to learning more about a person, whether they have or don’t what it takes to challenge your complacency. Imagine a world where there are no games. People would say yes or no then proceed with their lives, there would be no challenge- no skill, only 1s and 0s. At least with games, it’s not only up to the 1s and 0s, we get to dance and play in the gray area.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 07:40 PM
2	How do I tell my best friend, I don't want to take him with me when approaching/ meeting women? Your more attractive friend can work to your benefit too. Like, he can be the ice breaker for you, your set opener. You don’t have to frame yourself as the ugly friend. There are other ways to frame your dynamic. Attractive people are harder to relate to. Their relationships are more superficial, shallow. You being less attractive can balance that dynamic. You can be the viable option. They’ll think - If you can manage to have very attractive people want to be your friend, then you must be somet…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 06:37 AM
1	Is high income less useful for younger men(23)? Every relationship starts as friends first. Friendzone is a myth. You should love when girls call you their friend. Being a girl’s friend opens up all kinds of doors. I’ll tell you this though, sexual energy comes from how well you can navigate touching her body. Baby steps, fist bumps, hand shakes, palm reading, shoulder taps, hugs, etc. non verbal escalation is key. You should seldom verbally escalate.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 04:37 AM
5	Is high income less useful for younger men(23)? What will help you a lot, is going outside and talking to 100 girls. Get rejected 100x per day and sooner than later, it will click. Looks, money, it barely matters.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 09:21 PM
3	Do any of you guys know what I might be doing wrong, since I cannot get a second date with any girl I go on a date with? Perhaps you’re missing some work in the hot and cold part of escalation, also take a look into overcoming last minute resistance. LMR. Perhaps also some qualifying and disqualifying the relationship/potential relationship. The girl needs to organically arrive to the point where she will qualify herself/the relationship for you, from what you’ve described, it seems you’re giving the girl the impression that she has already won you over from the getgo, with maybe little to no effort. This will cre…	/r/seduction	01/03/22 07:59 PM
1	Now that everyone pretty much admits the truth about what the current dating market for men is like and how it's practically different then it has been in the past generations, THIS is what EVERY non-chad average joe should be doing in his 20s, (even better if you start earlier in your late teens) Yeah everyone would like to mate with a nice body to some extent, what I’m trying to point out however, is that extent to which they want that hot bod, is not any more or less, than the extent to which they could want you, especially if you’re cool. Kind of like, choosing between two different story tellers. One could make a bad story significantly more worthwhile through a number of factors. When the difference can be seen/noted, the “good story/hot bod” may even come to be seen as cheap, and g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 06:21 AM
0	Now that everyone pretty much admits the truth about what the current dating market for men is like and how it's practically different then it has been in the past generations, THIS is what EVERY non-chad average joe should be doing in his 20s, (even better if you start earlier in your late teens) Physical attraction is incredibly subjective and fickle. Give a dog a bone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 05:38 AM
0	For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind. It goes both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:49 AM
1	I have a date tonight and have so much anxiety You’re welcome, out of a scale 1-10, how’s your anxiety from before to now?	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:18 AM
3	I have a date tonight and have so much anxiety Think of 3-5 different interesting topics, in the form of “what’s your opinion on _?”, “have you ever _?” “What was your last date like?” and save these for when you’re feeling out of things to talk about.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 10:50 PM
1	FEAR OF REJECTION Another concept to help you get over that fear - is familiarizing the unknown. If you practice visualizing the experience of meeting a new girl and talking to her from stranger to acquaintance, break it down into steps, formulate a plan and imagine it every step in the process. When you go into it for real, because you imagined more or less each step, you will be less fearful because you’ll know the possible outcomes.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 11:54 AM
2	Typical women You got triggered too soon. Girls like this exist for a good purpose. Hit it, and quit it. “Tall enough. My turn, what is the female equivalent of that question - in your opinion?” This response alone would give you enough fuel to get her to meet. This type of female can’t resist borderline offensive topics. They get hooked on the gossip material.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	14/12/20 08:59 PM
1	Had successful conversation on Tinder/Bumble but have no idea what to do now... Think of each exchange as an emotional investment. Every text is an investment, the sender expects an equal return or more. If she sends you a long text and you don’t return something equal or more, how do you think she will feel?	/r/seduction	29/03/20 05:43 AM
1	Had successful conversation on Tinder/Bumble but have no idea what to do now... You are exchanging long texts like that and you’re not sure if they are interested? What is your age? Honestly, you’re only getting texting experience here. These long texts are going to become mentally draining very soon, if I were you, I’d call to slow it down before she does. It’s not about finding out if the girl is interested. She obviously is, but more over, it’s about being the MAN, who has become interested. You tell her she’s interesting first, and that you want to take it up to next le…	/r/seduction	29/03/20 05:07 AM
1	Are you tired of chasing women? Slow down there sport! I know it’s exciting knowing that what I have to share with you will get you immediately laid/in love, whatever you want. But first we need to talk. Meet me at 3am on Skype and bring your PayPal.	/r/seduction	28/03/20 07:29 PM
2	Are you tired of chasing women? The secret is to have a plan. Pay me.	/r/seduction	28/03/20 08:46 AM
0	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. As far as you know	/r/seduction	16/03/20 11:56 PM
-1	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. Grow up.	/r/seduction	15/03/20 03:55 AM
1	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. The timeline for getting good at cold approaching is connected to how many cold approaches you can do within a given time. It’s more about how many cold approaches you’ll do, before things begin to click and you learn something. If you want to be ok, aim for 100, if you want to be good do 500, if you want develop the skill to talk to any girl at any given place or time, do 1000+.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 06:34 PM
1	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. This is incredibly dismissive. You don’t have to poop on cold approaching just because you don’t like it.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 05:44 PM
1	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. I use these terms very loosely here. Below is just my personal opinion. I make the distinction of closeted beta as males/men who pretend to be alpha. Because accepting your betahood makes you alpha, lol. They’re undesirable because their frame is weak. As in sense of identity, they are too quick to change their opinion based on external validation, makes them unreliable as a partner because they don’t see things through, easily swindled etc.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 04:51 AM
2	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. People are always gaming/testing each other in every type of relationship. It’s natural/not a big deal. Watch yourself or you’ll end up a victim to your own emotions without realizing it until someone else points out, like therapy. If someone sparks an emotion within you and as a result, you succumb to it, you lose yourself, who is really responsible for your actions and how you feel? You know this.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 09:28 PM
2	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. Whoosh	/r/seduction	13/03/20 09:22 PM
1	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. Haha she’s not exactly a milf, just a couple years older than me.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 09:12 PM
0	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. “Shit testing” is a woman’s best defense against closeted beta males.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 09:12 PM
2	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. Boss status.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 09:11 PM
12	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. Yeah you got it. I just said no. Though I “challenged” her with my next question, “do you have a preference for older bodies?” she thought that was funny	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:42 PM
5	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. She said I am too young but we can still be friends. I just said, no. Then continued the conversation with a question/joke.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:18 PM
10	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. I said, no, and continued the conversation with a question/joke.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:16 PM
2	It’s pretty well known that women lie about what attracts them and that’s why men are upset. However, there is something that’s never talked about: why do they feel the need to lie? It’s because for a very long time, women didn’t have a good chance at life unless they were chosen by men. Their position on the ladder of social and romance hierarchy(which was/is parallel to the ladder of survival/comfortable life), is very vulnerable to how they are perceived by others. If they lose social value, their overall value drops dramatically. Traditionally, women’s position in society is care takers, people jobs, so they’re very dependent on maintaining a healthy social image. Unlik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/20 12:29 AM
1	How to last longer when the sex is so good it's hard to last? Put half a viagra in his water.	/r/seduction	27/01/20 06:54 AM
3	Advice She lives too far bro. It’s not worth it. If you haven’t smashed or kissed already, you’ll come off desperate and she’ll lose attraction if it isn’t already gone. If you really want... send her an ultimatum text just to be sure “I felt some chemistry there and I wanted to explore it if you think it’s there but if not, no worries I get it. Let me know if you want to make a plan”. but it’s not worth your time believe me. Between the gas money, time spent traveling, and money on the date, she’s goi…	/r/seduction	27/01/20 06:02 AM
1	Advice Wait a day, then text her a plan to hang out doing something interesting.	/r/seduction	27/01/20 05:46 AM
1	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. “It’s better without these games” that’s a misconception. One way or another, games will be played. Your entertainment value will be measured, doesn’t matter what you’re talking to her about. Both parties will be trying to entertain each other, whether it be talking about the cube or the weather. You tell me, which one is more interesting?	/r/seduction	16/01/20 12:16 AM
3	Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help. Ah, you were asking him to give you a detailed breakdown of this particular case.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 07:36 PM
13	Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help. He created attraction through a combination of his verbal and body language. Including but not limited to; word choice, outfit, posture, approach positioning, eye contact, etc	/r/seduction	14/01/20 07:30 PM
1	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. Seriously though, even men are objects of seduction. We’re all victims to each other one way or another. It’s up to each individual to practice their own good moral and self respect. Honestly I see most of these guys coming out to this post and hating, as asking for help in mental discipline, they’re expressing to the best of their ability, a request for education. Lol. I call it mental judo. Fight me.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 07:27 PM
11	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. To the girl I introduce it as psychology game or meditation exercise for learning about one self. Or some similar version of the above. In this post I wrote cube so people who don’t know can look it up.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 07:20 PM
2	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. You get it. It’s funny how what you just explained, and I also explained the same thing in a top comment, but this explanation is just going right over people’s head. How can some of these guys be so justified in denying the effectiveness of something they have never tried or even understand? Lol. Call it a fallacy, self sabotage, short sightedness, defensive mechanism, etc. I worry that by engaging them, they will be mislead by my attention into thinking there is validity in their arguments.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 07:08 PM
-71	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. Honestly, if you read all this and your take away is “it’s stupid” what you’re really communicating is “I don’t have the mental capacity to understand what I just read in a way that is productive and worth my time”.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 10:41 AM
45	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. It’s not about tricking, or using gimmicks. It’s the same thing as talking about an interesting article you read or the news. It’s just conversation, a cube exercise delivered by itself without personality wouldn’t be as well received as one delivered by someone who is into it, and projecting themself. The matter is more about how you say, than what.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 10:39 AM
1	Field report: I feel like I did everything right at the club and still came home alone. Starting to think my looks just don't cut it. I am South Asian but have been remarked as a very good looking south Asian by girls. I mean, if girls have called you good looking before and you’re at least a 6 you should be able to pull girls with a smooth game. I say this from experience, I’m a 6 on average and while my game isn’t too refined, I’ve had a handful of occasions where I’ve pulled 7+ girls because I was on point that day/moment/few lines of dialogue. I attribute it mostly to my knowledge of body language which allows me to know what lines to deliver and when. I have a few conversation openers in my back pocket an…	/r/seduction	10/01/20 08:08 AM
1	3 girls ghosted me recently, it's okay but it still hurts especially since I don't have the time to meet many new people Being your self is great and all however, when meeting new girls there’s still a period where you’re walking a thin line as you’re judged between being like a weird functional vs sociopath. Someone who can read social interaction vs follower, someone who is on the receiving end. After this period,if you’re not ghosted, then you can turn up the spice more casually.	/r/seduction	10/01/20 08:01 AM
1	How to Never EVER Pay on a Date They’ll have an interesting dance.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 08:13 AM
4	How to Never EVER Pay on a Date That is hilarious. I’m left wondering, is this how they feel when they find our posts about ioi’s and dhv’s? It’s fair game I suppose.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 08:08 AM
2	Finally made a girl cum You may have a point there	/r/seduction	14/10/19 11:17 PM
3	How to tell when to stop persuing My general rule of thumb is unless a girl explicitly tells me something along the lines of, it will never happen, stop talking to me please and thank you, don’t contact me again. I will keep pursuing. I’ve had many “no”s turn into a yes, and a handful of “I can’t imagine a relationship with you” become healthy year long relationships. Persistence is key, but you gotta manage the hot and cold. If a girl keeps giving you cold and you give her hot every time. The no will become a never. You’re bett…	/r/seduction	14/10/19 01:54 AM
3	What Are Some Good Openers To Talks To Girls With? There is a line for every context. No point in judging.	/r/seduction	20/09/19 04:19 AM
1	Last Night while banging my booty call I told her Your conception.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 09:41 PM
0	Last Night while banging my booty call I told her Share with us something similar.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 06:23 PM
-2	Last Night while banging my booty call I told her Haters.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 06:23 PM
3	Does the mystery method still work in 2019? Mystery method is about invoking primal instinct. Yes, it still works. It targets a persons animal desires. Those won’t change for at least another 100 years, if even.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 05:49 PM
1	How do you tell if a girl is just being friendly or is actually into you ? By her receptiveness to your touch. If she is just friendly, she will not be very receptive.	/r/seduction	08/09/19 06:23 AM
7	Being a nice guy isn't the problem, the problem is being boring. Too many genuine nice guys are not interesting enough for a woman to want to get to know you more. Also, nice guys don’t get laid because they try to avoid causing discomfort by not making any physical advances without first having verbal confirmation that it’s ok, which is a huge turn off for women and in general. It reveals a lack of intelligence. An inability to take a hint, or read a situation, it shows fear, being reluctant to take a chance which means your career is probably shit, it’s a give away of a beta male lifestyle.	/r/seduction	06/09/19 11:55 PM
2	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote Hi, reposted it here. https://www.reddit.com/r/LovEvolution/comments/cz1sfa/breaching_the_friendzone/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app	/r/seduction	03/09/19 09:15 AM
1	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote You’re right there was definitely a strong case of two steps forward and one back going on.	/r/seduction	30/08/19 07:35 PM
2	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote Thank you. Yeah I wanted to post this because it felt like a genuine seduction. If I only went by what she said verbally I would think that she didn’t want to do anything but at the same time, she was letting me finger bang her fist and even gripped my fingers harder when I did, she would lean in very close to me and rest her head on me, reach out and touch my hand without me initiating. When I asked her for a kiss I was so sure she’d say yes because of how she was behaving but she said no! lol …	/r/seduction	30/08/19 06:39 PM
2	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote I did summarize a lot to keep the post from being too large. When she asked me what I think of her. I told her that she is my friend. She replied, “when I’m with my other guy friends, we don’t do this stuff”, me “I don’t do this with my other girl friends either”. “What are we then?” She asked, “we are really good friends” I laughed and she giggled a bit while repeating what i said, “really good friends.”, I said “yeah and besides look at you right now, you’re pretty sexy” as I moved in and move…	/r/seduction	30/08/19 04:32 PM
1	I’m just gonna come out and say I’m scared to make a move because I fear getting rejected and don’t want things to be akward. Its all about the physical touch bro. Touch her body in respectful ways, like her shoulder and arms, see how receptive she is to your touch. If she doesn’t pull away, keep touching her more. Reposition her to the other side of you. Hug her. Ask her if you can see something on her hand. Tell her you know how to do palm reading then make something up as you try to give her a genuine reading then say you were kidding and you don’t know shit.	/r/seduction	30/08/19 09:38 AM
3	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote Good for you.	/r/seduction	30/08/19 09:07 AM
1	Breaching The Friendzone Anecdote you’re warping what you read bro.	/r/seduction	30/08/19 09:02 AM
1	Anybody in san francisco that does coaching? Hey I’m in sf. I’m pretty humble about my game but I know a few helpful things. You can be my wingman.	/r/seduction	30/08/19 07:37 AM
1	turning a situation around In short, you need to practice a strong physical connection game. Prepare a couple topics to distract her with while you focus on body language. Ask her to come with you to a comedy show or walk your dog or do something slightly interesting outside. Do you smoke weed? End the night with a smoke. If your game was tight by then she should be giving you all the signals. It all starts with your greeting, shake her hand and try to get a hug, then slightly ever so gently push her away after the hug. S…	/r/seduction	28/08/19 10:39 PM
1	Night-game or Day-game for beginners I have the opposite approach. Day game > night.	/r/seduction	17/08/19 01:47 AM
2	How can I pull this off without being creepy? “I don’t know if that was you or your twin that I saw outside of _____ the other day but I almost said hi”	/r/seduction	17/08/19 01:38 AM
0	How to meet women at events? Just because you can’t imagine how to deliver a line successfully. Doesn’t mean there isn’t a way.	/r/seduction	15/08/19 03:52 PM
1	What am I messing up after initial attraction? There are two kinds of people.	/r/seduction	15/08/19 11:23 AM
3	What am I messing up after initial attraction? When a girl asks you to friends, you have to agree. It really doesn’t mean anything other than you can hang out with her and work your game on her later. They say they want to be friends because they’re unsure how they feel and they want more time before committing to you. So don’t let that throw you off your game. Just remember theyre very feeling based and feelings change fast. Girls will always give you these underhanded tests just to feel out your reaction. All you gotta do is roll with it. …	/r/seduction	15/08/19 04:36 AM
1	How to meet women at events? “I have to tell you something” “What?” “Don’t wake me up” “Huh” “I must be dreaming cuz you’re so cute” Dude just say anything. “I have pet named Harold. He’s a spider” “Just kidding spiders terrify me, I don’t know why I said that. Maybe because You’re cute”	/r/seduction	15/08/19 02:02 AM
10	What am I messing up after initial attraction? You need to de-escalate too. That’s what’s happening here. You’re only escalating the situation, there needs to be a cooling period, which is natural and will happen one way or another, as a male you need show the female that you’re capable of being chill too, otherwise they don’t feel they can trust you, it’s a safety thing, kind of a test. But more importantly you need to slow things down BEFORE them. That is what will allow you to push further. You need to say things like “damn girl, chill. Y…	/r/seduction	15/08/19 02:00 AM
5	My [23M] ex-girlfriend [21F] of 1.5 years called me her best friend a few hours ago over text. I’m not about that life, and want her back. Especially, after I have learned so much about seduction. Doesn’t matter what she calls you. We’re all driven by our prime biological motivators. If you truly become a better version of yourself. When she sees you she won’t be able to contain her desire for you.	/r/seduction	11/08/19 10:18 PM
1	Where to find PUA coaches? We’re doing a pua work shop in San Francisco this next month if you’re interested.	/r/seduction	11/08/19 10:06 PM
1	Hook Up Etiquette At 9am tomorrow or 9pm tonight, invite her for lunch tomorrow. Phrase it like a statement. “I’m going to get lunch at _____ tomorrow. You should come with me.” Or a different activity.	/r/seduction	11/08/19 10:04 PM
0	GIVING THE 10 STEP TINDER SOLUTION BY ROB JUDGE I’ll give it in 3 steps for $11. Dm me.	/r/seduction	11/08/19 10:01 PM
10	Alone with Four hot Italian girls in my hostel Go out drinking with them. Try to have a good time, try to maintain an energy level that is slightly higher than theirs. Touch them a lot in a friendly way. Make best friends with the least attractive one and dance with her then make friends with the one you like the most and dance with her and make her yours by taking her to talk with you away from the group.	/r/seduction	11/08/19 10:00 PM
1	How do you make a move despite being very anxious? The thing is that sometimes we over think to a point of counter productivity. The reason I mention a formula is because I wanted to show you how there is less to think about. Seeing how on a biological and social level, there is an internal and external checklist that gets checked off, as both parties are launched into a self perpetuating emotional journey. It feels like a lot because there seems to be many unknown factors and you say you over think anyways, the main reason you’re over thinking …	/r/seduction	10/08/19 01:04 AM
1	How do you make a move despite being very anxious? Being nervous is ok, it’s even good. From the many things a female judges whether she wants to be intimate with you or not, nervousness is not one them. So take comfort in that. Then making moves, it’s all about baby steps. Did you greet her properly? A nice hand shake, with good eye contact, maybe pulled her in for a hug? Did you give her a casual offhand compliment, like “ooh nice shirt/shoes/pants/hairdo/style” then without missing a beat, kept the interaction going? That’s being smooth. Did …	/r/seduction	09/08/19 11:09 PM
6	Why is most advice on here so goddamn contradictory? Communication is hard. When people offer advice, even if you heard it before, unless a line is drawn and followed by both parties, there are actually two ideas being simultaneously discussed that may or not be along the same tangent. “Be yourself”, know your passion, know your humor. “Change up a bit”, try a new hairdo/clothe, try being more optimistic/Use less dark humor. It’s up the receiver to make sure they’re able to interpret the information they’re being given in a way that is positive an…	/r/seduction	09/08/19 11:02 PM
5	Need Advice! Afraid that i'm slipping into the friend zone and want to avoid it! Ok read carefully. Awkward silence NEEDS to happen. It is an essential part of bonding. Let it come and go, no worries, let her break it sometimes too. Also, if a girl agrees to be 1on1 with you. I don’t care if she says she only wants to be friends. If you’re a cool dude, half decent looking and she laughs at your some of your jokes. She is waiting for you. It comes down to an exact number of times you have touched her body and pushed boundaries. Then there will come a moment to kiss her and it…	/r/seduction	09/08/19 07:48 AM
2	:/ “Let’s continue this conversation another time. Do you play tennis?” “No” “It’s good exercise, I have a spare racket”.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 07:37 AM
3	:/ You will benefit from having a plan for situations like this. Right now think through a sort of template you can rely on. Then when the little bitch in you comes up, you don’t have to over think yourself because you already know what to say.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 01:50 AM
1	How do i be disinterested without being a dick? Ah yeah that’s inconvenient when you don’t have much rapport. Maybe you can say that you’re going to be in her area on Wednesday and ask what is a good place for you to get lunch or dinner then when she replies, say she should come with you PERIOD. Try to avoid question marks when doing invites.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 12:53 AM
1	How do i be disinterested without being a dick? The reason she’s not responding is because you’re not invoking any emotion on her part. You’re simply expressing your availability. You’ve posed yourself as an option with that text so don’t be upset you’re being treated like one. You need a call to action. “I’m going to my favorite ramen place tomorrow. Come with me.” Don’t even put a question mark.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 12:40 AM
1	How to make a damn move? For someone late to the game... Good post bro. Nice job asking the right question. I’ll break it down for you to the most basic element pertaining to your question. “How to reciprocate” “how to make the first move”. It all comes down to one thing. Touch. You have to touch the girl as much as possible. The more you touch her, the more natural it will feel to touch her more for both parties. It all starts with the handshake, then hugs, shoulder touches, pushing her away, pulling her in closer, you moving in closer, bumping into …	/r/seduction	06/08/19 06:39 AM
1	Seducing a 10 girl what’s going to help you here is the concept of “most interesting guy in the room” Be comfortable your own skin, your body language is what’s going to matter most. Your verbal subjects have to be supported by your body language, you could be talking about how an item on your bucket list is taking a dump in a golden toilet in Dubai and then laugh but what she will evaluate is what your body was doing while you delivered that line. Getting her to meet will be the actual challenge, if she’s met you…	/r/seduction	06/07/19 08:46 PM