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Discussionwardenferry419/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:09 PM
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Is this physical proof of catcalling officers or are they just taking the women's word?
/r/MensRights31/08/25 12:57 AM
1

I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:29 PM
1

Learning from what you experience is natural. How a person responds from what they have learned is a choice. Hating or not trusting the whole group due to the actions of a few is both wrong and learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:30 PM
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My comment was about the human race. How did you see it being only about one race?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:16 PM
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Then he might need to change how he interacts with them or where he interacts them. He would have an easier time changing his habits then changing a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:59 PM
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Can it be possible that the more men that women date, the greater chance for multiple bad relationships. The more bad relationships that women experience, the less respect and value women assign to men in general. This can be extended to most human interactions. The more frequently someone has negative connections with any group, the more they will see that group as wrong or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:14 PM
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Some people use others and some get used. Often, but not always, the used women are seen as victims and the used men are seen as "suckers." That is how the world is. There is no fair and equal world. Keep your guard up around others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:08 AM
2

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:32 PM
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Can't even say all men have a penis yet all men are rapists is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:44 PM
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Got together over 20 years ago. Didn't think about these things until we had a kid. Happy, fun times disappeared. Arguments and resentment happened weekly and sex didn't. Older and too tired to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:41 PM
12

Depends on who you see as the victim, him or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:31 PM
13

Mess with crazy and things get messy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:26 PM
1

Used to be very angry. Now I just give it some token gallows humor and pretend it doesn't exist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:16 PM
1

Very likely as well. As a parent, kids strike me as being borderline sociopaths sometimes. But, then again, adults can be one as well, just more practiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:20 PM
1

Would they not seem him as a potential future victim of false allegations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:45 AM
1

As a man who has been with his wife for over 20 years, my wife is neither strongly connected to me nor overly disrespectful, some disrespect is expected over time, very much like the second choice. Maybe I would like to have a passionate partner for a change even if there is a significant increase in disrespect. Especially after the last dozen years where she acts as if sex does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:41 AM
1

As Gump said, ¨stupid is as stupid does.¨ The same goes for many other elements of human behavior such as entitlement and self delusion. They either learn or they don`t. All you can do is shake your head and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:25 AM
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For me, as a guy, once or twice in a row stings. The real hurt happens when sex only happens a couple of times a year. I learned to stop asking, assume the answer is ¨no,¨ and take care of myself. Look at deadbedrooms and be happy that you are not one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:17 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:27 AM
3

A rough road to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:44 PM
1

Thank you for the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:31 PM
5

Not diagnosed with autism; my son was diagnosed. I worry about his future relationships because of it. He is 12 and verv high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:29 PM
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How did you go so long without sex and how are you dealing doing currently? For myself, I just did the hooker thing at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:16 PM
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Please do not date anymore men. There have been enough people hurt by toxic relationships. You do not need to add more to that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:17 AM
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4 men in my immediate family. 3 have been in relationships 15 years to 50 years. None of us has cheated; though, one got cheated on and raised a kid for a few years that was not his. I dont́ know how that compares to national averages. I would say most men dont́ cheat. Those that do cheat; they do so multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:03 PM
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In the most basic way, as it would apply to women as well, it is someone who tries to make the relationship work and someone who tries to make life better for both parts of the couple. If many specifics become involved then limitations on what you get follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:49 PM
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Sorry, didn'tt́ see it was women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:43 PM
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Why poke at her bubble of hatred? It is her happy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:29 PM
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I agree. I was using the word "person" as an example to be as objective as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:26 PM
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As incapable as you are in not being insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:44 PM
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The person that works full time for 20 years then spends 20 years raising children should make the same total amount as the the person that works 40 years? The person that works 50 hours a week should make the same as the person who does 40 hours while raising children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:43 PM
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Your hatred of men is very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:37 PM
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There are some individuals that you can provide every proof possible that the sky is blue and they will shout "not at night."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:19 PM
1

The most complicated novel is a See Spot Run book compared to understanding women, at least for me it was. So, I stuck to my books.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:07 PM
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Most people have their denials that helped them make it through the day. Relationships is one of them, work and family are other categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:07 AM
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About 20 years ago, a kooky female friend of ours picked up a guy this way. She walked up and said "I'm going home to have sex, want to join me?" They dated for a few years until things changed. That is what I call a very direct approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:58 PM
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The ones who date less attractive people may have learned that looks are not as important after dating a pretty pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:36 PM
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Humanity in general is fragile and people often are damaged, either temporarily or extensively, by small, stupid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:34 PM
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One person's direct approach may be another person's vague uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:30 PM
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We had a woman in our unit whose nails were too long to throw a dummy grenade. How effective of a soldier would she be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:36 AM
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Maybe there should be a dating app with only a self made description and a means to communicate. You don't see the person's pic until they allow only you to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:34 AM
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Preacher telling the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:38 AM
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Whatever. Moved on. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:24 PM
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What is your proof, evidence, experience, or etc? You dismissed what I comment with "you're a man;" which I am guessing means that I am wrong only by the nature of my birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:39 PM
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Additionally,. I believe I guessed right on how disagreeable you would be with the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:26 PM
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Assumption. It's a bit more personal than that and I don't have buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:22 PM
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Always with the skepticism with what guys think or know or do. It is simple and logical. The guys that go out of their way to make a woman laugh are people pleasers that seek the validation, attention, and satisfaction, especially when these actions come from women. So, by extension, these are the guys that will make the more committed effort to ensuring that a woman orgasms. Feel free to disagree, I would be more surprised if you did agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:03 PM
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You summarized it very well.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 07:00 PM
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Not just women, anybody will given the wrong situation with the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:50 AM
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48 and still waiting for parents to give birds and bees speech. They did spend alot of time talking about working hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:12 AM
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I trust my wife and I don't trust others. The right person catching someone at the wrong moment can cause all kinds of shit to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:08 AM
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Not a bad thing. Many of the guys that try hard to make a woman laugh are the same guys that try hard to make a woman orgasm. The second response is just an extension of the first response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:06 AM
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That's truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:02 AM
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Sadly, we are still in that time even though he is almost 12. This is all academic discussion. I don't expect things to change for the better. I don't expect my wife to remember she had a husband before she had a son. And, I don't see myself forgetting that I used to be happily married instead of committedly married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:23 AM
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Because I am dealing with a responsibility in the best way I can considering that a childhood incident made it nearly impossible for me to have kids. I said nearly but obviously not completely. I spent a large part of first 30 years wanting a wife and I got one for almost a whole decade. Then, I lost her when she became a mother. So, now I trying to be the best husband/father to a wife that feels more like a son-fixated roommate and a 12 year old mama's boy. So, like working a job, I am trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:59 PM
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So far people are responding that our son is the only thing that matters or that being a mom is the main role of my wife. Every comment I have made about the husband/ wife dynamic or how this lack of connection is affecting me has been ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:05 PM
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Why do people go to work if they aren't going to make their job their main priority in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:41 PM
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That's assumption on your part. I try to do my best for the little guy. Kids may be the first thing but they shouldn't be on the only thing. When a spouse makes the son such a priority that the husband/wife dynamic no longer matters; that's a problem. The marriage started with two people not three people. Or is that meant to be forgotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:34 PM
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She adapted to her new role as mom so thoroughly that she got rid of her old role of wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:29 PM
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Sometimes the husband has to do the changing and sometimes the wife needs to remember why she married the guy in the first place. I did some changing, slowly but eventually, but I think my wife has forgotten why she married me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:58 PM
5

Nice to hear from the other side of marriage. The happy side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:24 PM
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She wouldn't be too comfortable with that. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:21 PM
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It took me most of a decade, after our son was born, to tolerate this idea. For my wife, our son is first in her thoughts; I am just an after thought or passing memory that is kept around only for functionality. A wife is what she was; a mom is what she is now. Soon-to-be fathers might want to get comfortable with that idea; and join deadbedrooms if you are not already there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:48 PM
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Same. We have 4 at home. 3 are pains in the ass, 1 is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:30 PM
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Liked the cat, didn't love the cat. Besides, I was in college dorms at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:04 PM
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Crazy, abusive woman-child with ever-present daddy was first GF. 9 months of red flags. By the time it was over, I only liked her cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:23 AM
2

Ever seen the movie "Paint Your Wagon?" Some amusing ideas about men, women, and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:05 PM
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It's Reddit, how productive do you expect it to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:01 PM
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So, in this imaginary utopia that endorses mass abortions, it's not what you identify as but what you are born as that counts. Sounds familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:31 PM
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Men with multiple wives must be some of the masochistic people on the planet or they hate themselves alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:26 PM
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How will the women in this feminist utopia tell the difference to save them that identify as women? Or will they be lost to greater good of other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:21 PM
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As I have read before in other comments; women don't owe men anything, men don't women anything. Nobody owes anybody else anything. Interpersonal relationships are completely and entirely debt free.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 05:09 PM
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Someone been reading Y the Last Man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:05 PM
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And that is assuming that just because the baby was born with a penis that it will identify as male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:04 PM
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Many people's favorite complaint will always be how they were wronged or misunderstood in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:28 PM
0

This has much simple truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:04 PM
1

I see the rate has doubled in last 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:22 AM
3

Maybe this post could have a poll format for better visuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:08 AM
10

For some, the hassles of sex and relationships outweigh the benefits.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 01:10 PM
4

First girl I dated, me 25 and her 21, said everyone of her previous boyfriends (5 or 6) raped her. Weird sorta guilt trip to put on a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:09 PM
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Nah, people like this are given jobs in HR.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 09:34 AM
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I am not responsible for how others feel; I am responsible for what I do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/24 09:23 AM
1

Also possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:56 PM
1

My previous posts would be for those whose goals lean away from your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:18 PM
1

Maybe true. And maybe it is true that the thing that makes a narcissist happiest is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:54 PM
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It could be suggested that those who are single and childless are strongly invested in themselves. So, therefore, to be seriously involved with another person or to be managing the challenges of motherhood might seem to be limitations on their main focus which is themselves. Without these restraints, they have all the freedoms and corresponding happiness of being in the condition they prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:42 PM
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48M. I didn't go on my first date until mid 20s. Sometimes it happens that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:58 PM
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Yep, her husband, boyfriend, brother, and/ or father didn't stop her from commiting the crime. They are responsible, punish them instead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 04:03 PM
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There is a reason she is your ex. Keep her outta your life.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 08:39 AM
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Yeah, it is usually numbers like 500 dead, among the dead were 50 women and children. What about the other 90% that didn't get demographically-tallied?
/r/MensRights02/06/24 11:09 PM
5

BSG, Star Trek, Buffy, X-Men, MCU and many others. Middle-aged nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:02 PM
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In the near future, women will replace men with cylons. Good luck in that frakking war without men. So say we all!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:38 PM
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It's one thing to look for loved ones first in a crowded area; and it is something else to hope that "loved one or ones" are focused on looking for you as well. In the movie, Tippet was in love with someone who was focused on someone else. He felt that it had to work both ways, it only working one way was just obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:07 PM
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There was a movie quote about sex that I always felt had some connection with love. In the 1998 movie The Opposite of Sex, Sheriff Carl Tippett (Lyle Lovett) compares sex to a biological highlighter, saying that its purpose is to help people focus on their partner. Tippett explains that sex should help people concentrate on the person they're sleeping with, rather than being for recreation or procreation. He says, "Say the point of sex isn't recreation or procreation or any of that stuff. Say it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:54 PM
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There is running away and there is walking away. Often it is best to focus on personal requirements instead of someone else's requirements. Why deal with an unnecessary hassle? By the way, this is a helpful suggestion for other men. I am already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:28 PM
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There's a saying that I think has some truth to it. Man marries woman hoping she doesn't change; women marries man hoping he will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:21 PM
4

Had an English teacher that felt it necessary to preach in class about how wrong porn was. I was in the back, smirking. She noticed and asked what I thought was so funny. I said many people watch porn and use it appropriately, to help get off. And, I don't see what porn has to do with classic literature. She huffed and said something about some people not being as evolved as others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:08 PM
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Another option for men instead of stepping up is stepping away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:52 AM
19

White feather movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/24 09:41 AM
2

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:04 AM
2

A 5 who turns down 7 or 8 because they want a 9 or 10 is not worth any time or effort. They will misuse their partner because the 5 will always think they deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:00 AM
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There was a famous man, 90+ years old, can barely sign his name at the end. He was happily married for 70 years. He was accused of inappropriate behavior. How predatory was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:44 PM
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Hope so, seems excessively angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:37 PM
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Has something happened in your marriage to give you cause to look elsewhere?
/r/MensRights29/05/24 03:55 PM
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Yep, I just suggested that I might kill men. But, that's okay because I am a woman. Ain't that funny!
/r/EverydayMisandry29/05/24 11:13 AM
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Women should avoid dating any guy that they can't think we'll about or appreciate. Guys will know, eventually, if their partners think poorly of them and the relationship will be toxic for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:49 AM
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Is there a war between the left and the right, women and men, then have and the have-nots? Not a war we're casualties can be be counted but a cold war where tensions exist and subtle actions happen. Maybe, smarter people might have the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:25 PM
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I am still working on my definition of equality. Since I am a guy, I often have difficulty figuring out what's in a woman's head.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 09:46 AM
16

Horseshoe theory of human behavior? Where the extremes are closer to being alike than they are with the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:13 AM
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Of course it's not reality, it takes place in the future. And just because it was created by a man does not mean it is only about men. It does suggest that anybody (men, women, alien, or other) can be the captain of a starship if they have the skill, ability, and motivation. That is equality to me.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 09:09 AM
36

Don't argue with the feminist overlords or wind up the shit/hit list.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/24 10:54 PM
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I would like to believe that a Star Trek:TNG future may happen. Might take longer than 300 years to get there.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 10:48 PM
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Give yourself credit for being committedly active in your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:54 PM
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Is that why some women want to marry men? Explains much. I'll see if my wife is willing to verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:50 PM
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Yeah, I like this idea. I'm a simple guy that is not too believing revenge conspiracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:47 PM
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Sure it happens every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:03 PM
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People can lose due to others lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:00 AM
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So, since it didn't happen to Trump; it has never happened to anyone. Get Trump outta your head; he isn't worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:58 AM
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So many women want Harley and the Joker and I want Morticia and Gomez.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:37 AM
3

I like giving oral to women more than I like receiving oral. Mainly because giving is a more active role than receiving. My wife, when we were active, was and is indifferent to giving and very much opposed to receiving. My other significant partner was opposed to both. From numerous conversations with others, women tend to have a reluctance that men usually don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:18 PM
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No worries, twitchy is nervous, hesitant, or reluctant. Not bad things just annoyingly passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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"You're telling me i shouldn't be giving non-chads head or what," that is an assumption not made by any of my comments. And thank you for responding to my question about oral experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:55 PM
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Have you or anybody here had a guy get twitchy about a BJ? How many have had a woman get twitchy about receiving oral? Just out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:38 PM
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Gotta agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:59 PM
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Right or wrong comes from the responses of the person you are with at the time. No responses usually means no direction for activity correction. No responses suggest stopping or causing a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:55 PM
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What one woman or man finds pleasant another might not. Same woman or man might find something enjoyable at one point in her\his life and not later on. There is nothing intuitive here just the experiences of hitting or missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:47 PM
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Men usually don't get as self-consciencious about women going down on them as women get self-conscious when a guy goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:40 PM
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Or it's because she or he won't provide input or instruction without getting embarrassed or assuming he should know better from previous experiences or partners. Bodies change. Opinions change. Fluid updates are needed. I believe OP's post concerns partners that take a passive role in mutual pleasure. It has is very easy to judge someone as bad at what they are doing if they are doing double duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:20 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:16 PM
2

The Age of Feelings Over Facts. We had the Age of Reason. We now have the Age of Irrationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:06 PM
5

My parents favored by two younger brothers. Guess I was too weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:55 AM
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I am 48 and still waiting for my dad to give me the "sex talk." It might be useful knowledge to pass on to my soon-to-be 12 year old son
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:53 PM
0

Yes.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:35 AM
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More guys have been there than you can imagine. My first GF did me some hurt. It took some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:45 AM
0

In the situations when men were responsible for the money, who was punished, legally, if the household did not meet their financial obligations? The husband or the wife? And when wives were allowed accounts, who was punished for financial issues? Was it the wife or the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:29 AM
1

In my 30s, I looked like Wilford Brimley from Cocoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:17 PM
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Your honor, my date wanted to go 50/50 on the bill and look at my chest for 5 Mississippis. I feel raped.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:32 PM
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Been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:30 AM
2

For the record, I was offered opportunities with drunken women. I said "No." My thoughts on the matter was if they were not willing to do me sober then I should not do them drunk. Maybe it served me well; I will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:52 PM
2

I wish you all the the luck in your endeavors and experiences. Hopefully, you never be jaded by life like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:16 PM
1

Additionally, I am not a part of that game. Merely a curious observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:47 PM
1

It only takes one. Everytime must be akin to playing Russian roulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:45 PM
1

There have been multiple social media posts that state or suggest that women are not able to consent to sex after one or more drinks. Hookups with drinks can lead to locked-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:51 AM
1

Any kind of sex is never a smart idea. Two people going through the hassle of trying to get themselves off while performing something similar for their partner. To be followed with the possible consequences of becoming a pair-bond, one or both being dissatisfied with the act, SA allegations, or pregnancy.The easiest solution is to masturbate with some porn and or imagination going on.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 01:15 AM
1

Men tend to like casual sex.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 12:49 AM
16

Truth.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 10:25 AM
2

If a guy is willing to take second place to get with a girl then he deserves no empathy. Since he has no respect for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:24 AM
1

The best rule is fuck the crazy ones once or twice but never get in a relationship with them and especially never cheat on them. These are the women that stone cold killers cringe.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:51 PM
1

I've had a couple. It sucks in its moment but the moment passes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:14 PM
8

Nowadays, you could be right.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:57 AM
6

Was that stated or suggested?
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:47 AM
141

Probably doesn't do much in the bedroom either.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:36 AM
0

Emotions have a fluid, fickle nature. How can they be the determining factor of what is real or not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:12 PM
2

Sometimes that is equal to working a Rubik's cube blindfolded because guys are giving no indications or directions. Banky quotes "treat it like the weather channel, constant updates."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:11 PM
1

Not in that game anymore. I am firmly stuck in the other game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:35 AM
6

Guys are gonna pay because guys have always done the paying. If one guy doesn't pay then another guy will pay. Women will usually head in the direction of the guy paying because they feel entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:04 AM
11

I could invest some time in this discussion; but, that would interrupt the time I am currently spending looking at porn. Have a good discussion and a pleasant evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:06 AM
6

Agree.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/24 03:21 PM
22

The same way anybody can rape anybody else. When one person says " No, Stop" and the other person does not comply.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/24 01:09 PM
13

That statement could suggest, with the women being focused on first, that women and their more fluid emotions are more likely to initiate drama within a relationship and that men, possibly, are more likely to take that drama initiated by women and escalate it, dangerously.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/24 12:27 AM
48

You've got a tough road ahead. Maybe a church or support group. Could do an online search for what is available of either in your area and check out their social medias for a comfortable connection.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:19 AM
1

Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:32 PM
1

Nothing, the pendulum is swinging away from the family structure.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 11:24 AM
4

You have to be young to be that idealistic. I use to be young and idealistic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:57 AM
1

I was a 5. Over the last 10 years, I have become a 3. A lot of it has to do with an increasing level of distrust and a developing idea that concepts like love, romance, and marriages have had their day but, now, are not good for anyone. They create an unrealistic ideal. It would be better for people to find a way to fuck then leave each other alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:52 AM
24

It's only good for the goose, never the gander mentality.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 01:08 PM
2

People have preferences. You put a darkly handsome, British guy in a cloak (Alan Rickman) and you will get by wife's attention. You hand Rachel Weisz from the Mummy a pair of eyeglasses to wear and I will notice. But that just covers the superficial. I remember a meme where a woman joked that she was better looking than her exe's new girl. Someone comment that he must have learned, due to her, that some things matter more than looks in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:03 PM
14

It preaches nothing but hate.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/05/24 07:45 PM
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Any woman that would chose the bear is not a woman a man should get involved with. It would be better for a man to walk away, happily, and leave them to whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:43 PM
–

That person will deny water is wet when they hear a man say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:38 PM
38

Not focusing on men dying younger with more overall health problems. Let's focus on those extra years women get and having to deal with back pain and a headache. Where is the logic?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 09:58 AM
1

Be happy being you. If others don't like that,then fuck him, they don't matter.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:32 AM
2

Ask Flower from Ghosts.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/24 09:05 AM
-1

Based on his posts, I figured it was more of an online recognition and acceptance thing. Sounds youngish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:09 PM
1

Does he say he is looking for a partner or is he saying he keeps to himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:42 PM
–

Not far behind. I am married and celibate. Many suggestions could be made as to the more that you could do; but, few of these suggestions will be nice. As long as you are a living, breathing man you will never be an ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:49 PM
10

No cheating. It shows how little your partner and the shared relationship matters to the cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:46 PM
0

Some fathers are not deadbeat. Some are dead. Some are divorced and not allowed/able to be involved. Some may have been good fathers but not good citizens (imprisoned). Some may be dealing with personal addictions, physical disabilities, and mental challenges. Instead, there's a focus on the jerks and casting them as being representative of the whole. Additionally, I've known a few moms I wouldn't trust to take care of a brick without finding some way to break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:33 PM
1

You win. Women are the greatest victims in history. The loss of one mother is greater than the loss of every father who ever lived. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:53 PM
0

A small number of fathers are not deadbeat fathers. A small number of fathers are dead fathers. Losing a father can go a long way to hindering a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:43 PM
2

Nah, I would say a significant percent are system kids, non-mother, family member kids, and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:36 PM
14

And from then on Ray was not invited to hang out with the guys.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/04/24 11:15 PM
4

What number would you give your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:42 AM
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Yeah, closer to not-cool, moderately insane experience; probably sounds better from not having to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:56 PM
–

If everybody that a person dates cheats on them; then, change how you date or the type being dated. Because you are the common factor in these bad relationships. I dated someone who said everyone of the previous 9 guys she dated SA'ed her. I sometimes wondered if I was added to the list with her next guy. For the record, I never did, but she tried to attack me in anger; which caused me to leave and never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:38 PM
1

Lesser percentage of men going to college; so, lesser percentage of men affected?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:22 PM
1

Words I am sure that you have heard many times before and said many times as well. Your feelings must exhaust you greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:05 PM
1

Tossing hate at what you see as other's hate is so productive. Thank you for showing me how angry people spend their time. It was amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:57 PM
0

Cattiness is synonymous with hatefulness. Gee, there's that word "hate." Malicious gossip which is often associated with catty behavior is a form of "hate speech." Darn, that "hate" word again. Maybe you are too deep in the catty forest to see the hate trees. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:45 PM
1

Competition does not equal love either. "Drama queen" LOL. Namecalling is not an effective argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:42 AM
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That was a complicated way of saying "truth hurts."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:12 AM
2

Sounds like more victim talk. Next will be the toilet paper gap. Where men use up more TP than women even though women have a greater need and are often denied TP.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 09:07 AM
2

Cattiness is a theme frequently used in movies/tv for comedy. It is frequently used in literature for dramatic conflict. It can be found on multiple social media platforms. And even guys who are clueless about social cues have picked up an instance or two in personal experience. But, no, let's pretend it has never happened and is just some imaginary crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:28 AM
2

Covers a lot of ground while being direct. I like it.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 07:57 PM
2

Yours is how it should be and mine is closer to how it is.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 07:33 PM
10

Because we are. We are disposable, easily replaceable, and our only value is what we do and are willing to tolerate. That's reality.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:22 PM
17

Most of us guys only have one card and it's not even a face card. That card is the walkaway card.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:19 PM
2

I get 2 of the 4 points. There is the unsaid 5th point, sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:15 PM
3

Love this quote.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 09:36 AM
31

she was more of a problem than he was. She gets suspended jail time and pays less.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/04/24 11:13 PM
0

Whatever, not my life, not my choice, not my consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:54 PM
–

Those that choose the bear deserve the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:29 PM
7

Men care about many things. Sometimes, though, seeing what people are doing is akin to seeing a kid trying to stick a fork into an outlet. Advise them against it, then let them learn on their own. We have good intentions but the final results often suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:23 PM
7

Sadly that has truth in it, for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:16 PM
1

A lot of people are not honest, some are honest; and others, like me, will tell people what we are good at or suck at. Mainly cause we don't worry too much what others think of us. .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:37 PM
85

Unreasonable,no, limiting,yes. But, hey, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:17 PM
3

Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:06 PM
0

If so, then noone can vouch or undermine their peers or opponents. I chose to think that most men are not like that. You seem to disagree. Your choice as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:13 AM
3

Not all, not most, not even half of men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:32 PM
1

You maybe could spend some time thinking if you like the P or the person attached to the P. I have heard, from direct person to person conversations, even lesbians like some form of penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:30 PM
5

Most men are not like that. Yes, for men PIV is the main event and we like the lead up to the main, the after-the-moment chill, and we like to make sure women get theirs at least once of twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:12 PM
5

A. Most men have heard the word "no" more times than most women. It sucks but it can get easier with time. Not hearing it enough creates entitlement. B. Completely agree. Sometimes a guy just doesn't want that kind of attention. C. Transactional sex rarely is quality sex. D. Testosterone is a helluva drug. Men usually have more of it than women. E. Agree again. For obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:57 PM
13

Abuse could be solved if bad people stop abusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:45 PM
3

A horseshoe theory where deep redpill and extreme feminism have more similarities in behavior with each other than they do with a more centrist general population?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 12:42 PM
2

Is that love and rockets comic?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 12:27 PM
2

In a country where money rules, those that spend the most money are royalty. Women outspend men.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:58 AM
11

I know motherhood is important to women. But, when A soon-to-be 12 year old boy is getting his meals served, his bath made, his hair washed, and his mom laying in his bed until he falls asleep as if he was a toddler. That bothers me. How is he going to develop necessary independency and self-sufficient behavior for adulthood if he is being babied?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:42 AM
35

People can be lazy. It is easier to break something down then it is to build something up.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:16 AM
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Maybe, the question unasked is the answer not learned. Is asking a question of potential interest entitlement or is it something else? Is the chance to connect with another person entitlement or a natural aspect of human behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:09 AM
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Ain't that the truth, especially if you're not good-looking. Can get bothered by a guy just sitting there, looking at his phone, and not pay attention to the world; just in his own world for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:58 AM
15

3 years probation.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 07:39 PM
1

Not good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:07 PM
2

I passed an army psych eval and was considered sane. It really could have gone the other way if I wanted it to. They asked my questions as well.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 01:23 PM
3

We, as men, do nothing. Anything a man tries to fix will be met with suspicion.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 01:11 PM
2

If only there were a way to easily recognize the distinction without getting involved.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 01:09 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:42 AM
34

well said.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 11:41 PM
43

No duh. There is even a famous quote about it. It goes "bitches be crazy." Ask Sheldon Cooper's mailman, he knows.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 10:32 PM
3

What is up with female teachers treating their classes like personal harems?
/r/MensRights18/04/24 01:01 PM
28

Live a single life and be happy.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 11:21 PM
4

Seems like your end of discussion is getting off topic. And I didn't accuse you of making the excuse. Also, I have no association with MRA. Thanks for playing and have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:38 PM
6

So you are admitting that women are given shorter sentences for one excuse. Are you willing to admit that are other excuses as well? Like men are considered more accountable for their crimes than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:15 PM
5

Wanna do a simple google search about sentence disparity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:09 PM
2

Women are people and some people like to hurt other people. All the evidence needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:03 PM
1

Strategy of containment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:54 PM
12

How certain are you that is fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:47 PM
10

I don't see men changing their ways because a small percentage of women who don't like men have opted to not interact with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:19 PM
14

Compare prison sentences between men and women when found guilty of similar crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:31 PM
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TBOW. Tested By Other Women. Some women want to minimize the hassle of finding decent guys by stealing guys that other women have vetted and started the process of changing into partners. Or some women want to prove their greater attractiveness by seeing how far they go with an already committed guy. In, in the spirit of female cattiness, some women may think taking another women's guy makes for good revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:39 AM
1

After 20 years, it is leave or make adjustments. I adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:33 PM
23

Teachers need to wear cameras like cops.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:05 PM
1

My wife treats sex like a sanitation bill. Twice a year it gets taken care of then forgotten. I am a low T male and I give myself twice a week attention. So, yep, women do not get horny like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:01 PM
2

Keep living that good life.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/24 03:44 PM
2

Too lucky for words.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/24 03:18 PM
15

I've worked retail and got decent at indifference.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/24 09:36 AM
18

Smiling without eye contact is vague and indifferent.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/24 09:35 AM
119

Married as well. Current climate suggests being polite and distant. Treat women like new coworker that you have to tolerate with a smile.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/24 11:58 PM
743

If chivalry is dead; it is because men were given no reason to keep it alive.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/24 06:02 PM
0

I am pretty sure I used the word specific in my post. Which was the climactic ending of a bad relationship. Climactic in that I never fully saw how awful things were until afterwards. And, yes, I am not the only guy to have been put in similar situations. There are several videos on reddit of men trying to leave and women not only blocking them but getting violent with the men and/or self-harm. So, not so amazingly rare as it is often suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:40 AM
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Sounds like Buddhism, only about 3 to 4 million in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:05 AM
1

Anytime "but" is added to the end of a statement; that statement has no value tomthe speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:53 PM
1

Why do women hit a stronger person? Why is this something men have experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:51 PM
1

Sometimes woman block doors while throwing heavy gifts at man's head and scratching at man's face requiring man to grab and shove woman to the ground in order to leave apartment. Sound specific? Sometimes a man discovers how crazy and violent an ex is on the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:46 PM
-2

If men are cowards for fighting back; what do you call women who start the fight on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:01 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:13 PM
17

All people lie?
/r/EverydayMisandry13/04/24 07:53 AM
1

Does society need professional dating proxies? Women whose job is to approach other women that a guy might be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:53 AM
7

It has been commented that men, also, don't handle rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:59 PM
26

Encourage women to approach men and prepare them to sometimes hear the word "no."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:52 AM
1

Yep, nice and boring are synonymous to most women. Women don't want a boring partner; so, therefore they don't want a nice partner. Unless they are older and been through years of exciting and abusive partners; then, they might settle for nice temporarily. Better to work on your social standing, financial situation, and fashion sense than your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:23 AM
13

I tend to use asshole as a gender-neutral insult. Very few people are without one and few people want to hear them.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/24 12:59 PM
15

Or all the not so flattering descriptions of our penis.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/24 12:57 PM
44

Alot of women have made themselves rich and/or famous by accepting these terms as titles.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/24 08:23 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:21 AM
2

The history of Hollywood's "casting couch" dates back to 1910s or 1920s since there is a stag film in 1924 that covers this topic. It's another form of transactional sex where those in power offer the needy and the greedy a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:59 AM
10

I have a son (11) on the high-end spectrum and it would piss me off if a teacher was sexual with him. He is barely figuring out the differences between men and women.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:36 AM
22

Never happened in the history of humanity? Doubt it.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 10:39 PM
19

Where is the line? Man says B-word. Gets slapped. Is he supposed to take it? Man says B-word. Gets stabbed. Does he get to hit back? Man says B-word. Gets shot. Does he deserve that?
/r/MensRights09/04/24 10:32 PM
25

I think death by running someone over with a car has a different intent than death by snu snu.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 08:56 PM
42

It said extreme sex not forced sex or rape; so, most likely consensual. Two consensual adults have sex, woman dies, man gets treated like vicious killer.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 07:58 PM
1

An honest, rational, and polite statement. Few are going to read it and like it. Thank you for the time and consideration in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:16 PM
2

Even if you manage to get married, continue to drink heavily. The less one is aware of; the more content one stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:57 AM
1

agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:39 AM
2

Good article.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 10:19 AM
17

Give children a microphone and they will say stupid shit for attention.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/24 09:16 AM
2

Will all these discussions about inequalities from 50 to 100 to 1000 years in the past still be happening 50 to 100 to 1000 years in the future? Picked scabs heal slower and leave scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:11 AM
1

Probably boils down to the most given a bad excuse to hate the least. Give a mob of people the chance to hurt others and they will often take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:06 AM
3

Some individuals will never be happy or satisfied. They could have partners that make all the money, do all the housework, and these individuals will complain that their partners aren't paying attention to them. Everybody should find their own balance between work and home. If this balance is not accepted then find a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:15 PM
14

In 1850s, it was allowed against black slaves. Perfectly legal. In 2020s, it is allowed against men. Perfectly legal.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 01:18 PM
20

The old "what did he do?" Unless he hit her with a car first; she does not have much of a leg to stand on.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/03/24 12:57 AM
4

Correct. Just like there is nothing wrong with men deciding not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:53 PM
20

Women don't apologize when they do wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:52 AM
6

Women are deliberately using their bodies and sexual suggestion in order to get attention and money from men?! WOW! What a radical new concept.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 12:18 AM
1

What was he doing? Being a father in a mothers-only group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:01 PM
2

Thank you...first positive father story I saw on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:59 PM
11

Yes. Definitely over-emphasized women's struggles while understating men's struggles. All women are suffering like Job while men are merely dealing with loneliness and a hangnail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:40 AM
0

How a guy's status and money situation compares to the women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:36 PM
47

I am not responsible for what others have done and how others have reacted to this actions. I am responsible for what I, personally, have done.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 01:16 PM
1

Why still discussing? No mutual movement possible. Walk your way and I walk mine. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:57 AM
1

This feels like such a hopeless topic. Women, in general, are going to consider most, if not all, men in the worst light possible due to the wrong actions of a few. Nothing any man can do will change this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:22 AM
1

A multitude of moderate voices often get drowned out by the screaming rants of the extreme and the insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:54 PM
1

You miss that barn by a mile. Time for you to get some new glasses; your's ain't helping your myopia. I don't do victim and I stand by my statement. Though, I will agree with you that you are what you say you are. Emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:02 PM
1

women often want male usefulness and attention with obligation hence the "the friendzone."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:04 AM
1

You disproved nothing but you are proving something about yourself by getting personal as opposed to general discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:59 AM
1

Excluding the name-calling about me being delusional, we have seen this world in different ways. Might be a good time to end conversation when the insults are gearing up. Take care and have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:11 AM
22

Yes. when mass deaths occur, you get total number and then how many of that number was women and children. Male death is secondary.That has to be society saying that the lives of women and children are more important when their deaths are given added attention.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/24 01:20 AM
2

Possibly the more developed a country is then the more that is expected of men and therefore the men have it harsher for not meeting and exceeding those expectations. In less developed countries, again as a maybe, the expectations might be greater on women to perform and over accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:55 AM
1

Imma gonna disagree wit' ya on dat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:38 PM
3

That is truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:12 AM
3

agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:08 AM
1

mayber even fewer. the old saying was one bad apple can ruin the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:04 AM
1

yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:46 PM
3

unless you're born rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:38 PM
6

The theory sounds nice about welcoming men to be emotional. The reality is quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:31 PM
7

How many guys continue to get dates by crying at movies on a first date? Not as many as the guys who hold as much as possible internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:30 PM
15

Society and women see emotional men as weak men. Always have and nothing about the present indicates that wind is shifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:16 PM
15

Women can. Men can't. Didn't make the rule. Learned it the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:04 PM
1

Nothing new under the sun. Everything thought of has been done. Women work in gang behavior as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:11 PM
1

Not alarmed. Had that as a maybe for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:09 PM
6

There is nothing a husband can do to encourage sex in a wife that is done with marital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:16 AM
3

I help more and sex is happening less. Kinda proving the law of depreciating returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:24 AM
2

Women need to have an advantage to counter men's size and strength. Something like multiple women on one guy or going after someone emotionally vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:23 PM
3

Society says it is only good for the goose not the gander.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 10:14 AM
1

Marriage is often a gamble. In gambling, the house always wins. Men are not the house.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/24 11:04 PM
9

How true. When a man stops being useful to a woman then he starts being described as part of the problem. What he did for her in the past becomes irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:14 AM
15

I tend to be indifferent as well. Do whatever stupid thing you want to yourself. I'll laugh or snark then walk away. This goes for both men and women. Try not to involve outside others with the stupidity. And definitely leave me and mine alone. I have told my wife many times. Our neighbors could kill each other. As long as they do it quietly and out of sight; I don't care. The same policy extends to all men, women, plants, animals, or whatever. So, if women consider that indifference to a requir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/24 12:45 AM
3

Also curious as to intent with report.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 01:23 PM
6

I would be surprised because I think my wife is in denial about being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:12 PM
1

First girl I had a relationship with said that every guy she dated "raped" her. She was usually lazy, always self-centered and sometimes angry. During last argument, she refused to let me leave, stripped naked and said I would never see her naked again. She tried to pin me to her couch. I pushed her away and got out. I oftened wondered if I was added to her list of "rapists."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:01 AM
1

Man what a good and honest post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:31 AM
7

Because male issues weaken and destabilize men; something feminists want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/24 11:01 AM
23

This is the way. For every fact, statistic, or element of truth used there will always be stubbornness, stupidity, or expression of hurt feelings used. Just walk away. No forward movement of understanding can be achieved.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:45 PM
2

The only privilege are those with money. For those without money, privilege does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:32 PM
1

Often is incorrect. Find what works for you not what works towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:46 PM
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Not necessarily. Many of its members have talked and talked. Often the other party is not listening or caring. So, people find their way to DB just to get a response from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:30 AM
2

There is no exact science to people. Too much variety demands ambiguity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:25 AM
-1

Have more. Make more. Be more. When one has an abundance; someone will want a piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:16 AM
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Deadbedroom subreddit suggests that it might be less regular for LTRs than it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:04 AM
0

The only stigma that exists is on cheating husbands; none exists for cheating wives. Society blames the husbands of cheating wives for not providing what was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:01 AM
3

Women are people. People lie. Trust no one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 02:17 PM
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Interesting point. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:02 PM
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Feels like this individual does not want any male opinion just validation. So.. Best to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:57 AM
3

world domination?
/r/MensRights15/02/24 09:41 AM
2

If they are not caring about living men then why would they care about dead ones?
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:24 PM
19

Because girls are made if sugar and spice and everything nice; therefore they never do wrong.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:12 PM
15

She won't get jail. Community service at best.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 02:19 PM
6

Get money and/or position. The rest will follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:18 PM
10

They want everything they want. Everything they don't know they want. And not have to do one thing for either. And, of course, blame men for what they lack in life.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 11:58 AM
12

White feathers from women never led to a man dying?
/r/MensRights21/01/24 04:33 PM
5

No demographic is a$$hole free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:43 PM
-1

A well organized shelf of collectibles or beauty products is more of a need for wives than sex. With enough years of denial or disinterest, sex becomes less of a need for husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:58 PM
2

Well said and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:18 PM
2

Both men and women think that they are entitled to more or something better than their current condition. One life has one entitlement and that is one death. Everything else that is made or gained comes from how far a body is willing to go to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:13 PM
2

Soon everything invented by a man will be credited to that man's wife or nearest female family member.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 04:39 PM
5

If men start supporting anything; then many others will stop supporting that thing because men are supporting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:16 PM
2

Dude is making bad choices in partners. Take a break from their crazy and figure out some new tactics.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 04:55 PM
2

no means no. no doesn't need a why then it would be noy which is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:27 PM
2

Speaking truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:38 AM
2

Some wives will invest more time and attention to cleaning a bathroom than is given to their spouse. Alot fewer men commit to lawn care with the same intensity that they commit to sex care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:58 AM
1

Is is abandoning if men are not going where they are not wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:30 PM
11

It is a high-loss/ low-gain game that is not worth playing.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 02:20 PM
1

Women like men that are useful for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:10 PM
1

Their childhood and family life set the standard. Forrest got positive reinforcement and Jenny got negative. In college, Forrest continued to listen to good advice and made choices to do better. Jenny made bad choices that escalated into rebellion and addiction. It could be said that Gump was lucky and Jenny wasnt́. But, really, luck comes from putting yourself in a situation that could benefit you and making the right choice. Gump pushed himself and Jenny let others push her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:11 AM
1

There is nothing a husband can do to change a wife's mind towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:58 AM
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men don't need either. they want. two different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:06 PM
3

no way to learn when what is right and wrong keeps changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:42 AM
3

Desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:48 AM
5

it's not their problem; so they don't care.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 11:02 AM
5

it's not about men. it's about the have and have-nots. very few have the most and the vast majority have little. women are quick to blame men because we are not allowed to fight back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 08:29 AM
3

Just a thought. All the strawberries were good. Someone made one of them bad and affected others in the process. In this case, it was a woman. So, don't be an asshole and ruin strawberries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:08 AM
1

women writing books on how to be a man is akin to aliens writing books about imitating humans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 11:33 AM
1

what would be the most definitive evidence of the crime? video? multiple eye-witnesses? a confession from the perpetrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:51 AM
1

If you and your partner are happy together then fuck the world and others opinions. Alot of people are looking for an excuse to be pissed off anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:05 PM
4

If you are married with kids, then their reason for asking doesn't matter. Answer as you like and move on. You are too busy trying to figure out your wife to wonder about other women and their thought process.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/23 09:53 PM
2

Fuck ém. Enjoy those boobs, Jesse.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:59 PM
2

Cheated=no. Urge=no. Had a few passing thoughts that were quickly buried as the most stupid thing for me to do. My parents have never cheated in close to 50 years. As far as I know, neither of my brothers have. Will not be the first to break the tradition or ruin marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:05 PM
2

speaking the truth. power resides not in who is given power but in those that authorize the power to be given.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 02:25 AM
2

What happens when everybody is fighting fire with fire? Everybody gets burned.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:44 AM
4

That seems fair to me. But, then again, my number is less than 10% of my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:42 PM
2

Is that a false quote? Either way, it seems like a slippery slope to anarchy.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 11:59 AM
2

Went from once a week prior to son's birth to once a month first few years after his birth. Now it is 2 to 3 times a year. Very vanilla and very boring. Her disinterest, and middle-age diabetes, has killed my interest. Fortunately married men have hands and internet porn to substitute. Not the same but better than cheating, abstaining, or being with someone that doesn't want to be with you.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 08:35 PM
1

Those stats match me. But I usually wear 36 not 40 pants with pant button just below belly button. Not tight fit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:44 PM
1

Amen.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 03:59 PM
2

A dominant idea in the U.S. is getting the most while giving the least. This idea can be applied to most everything including relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:47 PM
2

​ sex. and sex.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 09:31 PM
2

Give me Velma over Daphne any day of the week. Fucking is fun but lack of intelligent conversation reduces sexual attraction. As an addendum, the sex has to happen on a semi-regular as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:05 PM
1

Earl Silverman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:53 PM
12

I dated crazy. Went bad. Read some stuff. Dated sane. Married sane. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:29 PM
1

Preach on!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:46 PM
2

He's not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:35 PM
1

they would have to be fairly inexpensive and very interactive. But, yeah, they have potential for major shift in relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:00 PM
3

If people aren't happy with themselves; they will always find flaws in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:07 PM
1

Zuckerberg, then Page, maybe not Buffet; his wife is waiting for widow status.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 10:43 PM
3

Didn't your parents ever teach you not to mess with crazy?
/r/MensRights01/04/21 11:49 PM
1

My music bounces between Sarah Brightman to Aqua to Queen. My playlists look like a schizo made them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:57 PM
0

Has some validity in my opinion. Agree or disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:12 PM
1

A whole lot of indifference towards nonsexual interactions with others, men or women. Unless the other person is directly hostile or negative, the majority of interaction problems stem from my perceptions of their stupidity. As a married man committed to his marriage, I am not trying to show sexual interest in other women. Also, I tend not to notice any sexual interest direct at me. However, I do have long-term issues with my wife not showing any sexual interest with me. Yes, I often post on r/d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 11:58 PM
1

They can have an opinion; but they will be wrong.
/r/AntiFeminists22/10/20 01:56 AM
1

Some believe that all women have been raped. It happens the first time a guy says "Hi."
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/20 01:26 PM
2

Death of the Oscars. Almost made it to 100.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/20 01:14 PM
1

"Women and children first." An old saying still in effect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_and_children_first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 02:20 AM
2

Other than one of her boyfriends had the name "Bucky;" no, no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:52 PM
-4

Having discussions with people that lead with insults wastes time and good feelings. Saying "Have a nice day" was meant as a conclusion. So, finally, "Have a nice day!"
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/20 09:27 PM
-5

Ignorance often involve using arguments like yours. Have a nice day.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/20 09:17 PM
-25

Assholes being assholes don't like it when others do the same. All groups do it. Nothing special.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/20 03:40 PM
1

I would say that 50 to 90% of women marry men that they aren't attracted. Women don't value sex as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:38 PM
1

40, for me, seemed to be the beginning of the end. Health took a hit. Marriage has been taking body blows. People are becoming increasingly annoying to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:33 PM
1

My parents have been together over 45 years. I often wonder how they did it and if they are still happy with each other. Hard to tell sometimes where other relationships really stand with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:24 PM
1

Wife and I have been together 16 years. First 8 were great. Had our son. Last 8 have been a downward spiral of heated discussion and emotional disconnection. I can count our yearly sexual activity on one hand with fingers left over. Is it salvageable? I don't know. The longer time passes; the more certain I am that it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:15 PM
0

Not this guy. I will take Velma over Daphne. Or a librarian over a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:57 PM
6

Not the most dominant but close.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/20 11:27 PM
1

Maybe for the same reason rednecks and hillbillies are dying. None of us want to got to the hospital.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/20 11:25 PM
5

I can agree to that as very possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:46 PM
2

What sane man wants to have sex with graffiti?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/20 11:51 AM
51

Sex becomes highlighted when it hasn't happened for awhile. When it happens on the regular, and men actually like their partners, the non-sex stuff becomes enjoyable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:31 AM
1

Even the Cleavers and the Huxtables had issues and that was about as close to perfect as families get. People dealing with people. It took just 4 people walking the earth for one to think that was one too many.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/20 11:08 AM
4

Thank you for the consideration and courtesy.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/20 01:13 AM
7

No need for checking. They exist.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/20 01:06 AM
20

Women always have daddy issues. Men always have momma issues. World keeps spinning.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/20 09:19 PM
1

People treat unattractive people like slaves. People treat attractive people like royalty. People in bad relationships nitpick the details. People in good relationships let the little things go. It is not specific to one group. It is common to all groups. People who are not happy often cause problems to make others unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:49 PM
1

There are alot of immature people in general. If a person cares about another person; they learn, remember, and adapt to balancing their personal needs with their partner's. If one person has become less concerned with their partner's personality traits; then, the relationship has lost strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:38 PM
1

Regular sex in an LTR makes sex a non-issue. No sex in a LTR makes sex the only issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:30 PM
1

Only 2 were LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:43 PM
30

Also curious about what was on sign.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 01:46 PM
5

A future trophy wife made of fool's gold.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/20 05:26 PM
5

Definitely not her first shot to the mouth.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/20 06:05 PM
8

Damn right. Don't start trouble; won't be trouble.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/20 01:45 AM
1

Honesty is never appreciated.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/20 12:45 PM
3

I would say they were about the same weight and she had 2 or 3 inches in height on him. And, she was using her height advantage aggressively. Maybe some mild excessiveness with that last kick. But, sometimes a statement needs an exclamation point.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/20 01:45 PM
6

Well, it is Vader. His tidbits probably got burnt off on Mustafar; so, that is the only way he can get some.
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