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on chores specifically: do single women spend more, equal, or less time on chores compared to single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:41 AM
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scams tend to involve overpromising and underdelivering, or not delivering at all. this would include claiming to give you "all you've ever wanted"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:38 PM
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what about humming the tune of cbat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:12 AM
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and how do you yourself see them?,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:02 AM
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it helps if you are already "getting girls" yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:59 PM
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of course a purple pill woman would be the one to make this post, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:37 PM
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it's more accurate than blaming it all on porn at least
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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what is an awkward man to do then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:01 PM
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what counts as valid remembering things about people? sometimes its good and sometimes it seems people get labeled creepy for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:09 PM
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not that this doesn't happen among women who are "woke about autism awareness" but those people (men and women alike) are the minority. the majority of people don't give a flying FUUUUUCK about autism, "just be normal ezpz trololol"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:04 PM
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and also risks fines or jailtime in 99% of the US
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:46 PM
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An actually nice guy wouldn't resent endlessly that a woman doesn't like him back is it impossible for it to be the case that someone is genuinely nice/kind to others, yet still resents that their learned scripts/methods/approaches are unsuccessful or nonfunctional?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:44 PM
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I would be fuming if someone called me their ATM machine, because the M in ATM already stands for "machine"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:04 PM
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not until I'm out of this crappy military town, then I can proceed with starting to begin to consider stepping back into dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 PM
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why do men both eat medium-well steaks and hate people who eat medium-well steaks????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:32 PM
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whatever makes you feel better 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:57 PM
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10/10 ragebait, thanks for the belly laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:10 PM
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how do you differentiate between those cases when you see them - is it strictly by the perceived transactional nature? I sometimes think about moving overseas once i have the means, and being able to find a partner would be a big part of it. I don't really care for finding a subservient wife or whatever (anymore), although being a relatively wealthy American seems like an asset to whatever degree transactionality happens to affect things. the bigger draw for me is that I feel people from outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:07 PM
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in the moment? not reliably, or at least not as quickly as NTs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:53 PM
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Would those women not just give some form of "no" when asked then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:49 PM
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so if I can't read body language but I can take a no, am I "ruining it" for others when I try to approach a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:37 PM
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can't do which? can't read body language, or can't take a no (or either, or both)?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:13 PM
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I prefer having self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:10 PM
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Or humbly, or meekly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:57 PM
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Particle "I mean" 1. Used to correct an error or slip of the tongue. 2. (colloquial) A delaying filler. 3. (colloquial) A mild intensifier. I must say the title puts me off as well. I mean, come on. Is this supposed to be original or creative? (colloquial) An indication of approximation or uncertainty. > I mean, it very well could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:53 PM
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dating was equally "broken" for me when i was fully submerged in right wing conservative circles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:41 AM
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step 1: be neurodivergent step 2:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:31 PM
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mem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:28 PM
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you would have to show a different world that adheres to your idea of "normal and natural" to be able to call "the world" abnormal and unnatural or an insane asylum I resent a lot of things about typical human behavior, it doesn't make it abnormal or unnatural
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:42 PM
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we all should just say what we actually mean instead of using "nice guys" this goes primarily to those using the sarcastic/pejorative rendition of it but frankly the other side of it is tiring to hear. plus the nice guy / bad boy dichotomy is too reductive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:02 PM
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being ND is more than just social anxiety, there is an upper limit to my possible proficiency in socializing in NT spaces. I'm never going to be fluent in NT flirting norms or whatever and I'm not interested in exhausting myself on an impossible goal but yes, therapy is in my plans for things to do once I can afford them. whether to mitigate social anxiety or for other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:15 AM
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God forbid a man be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:23 PM
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I wouldn't know, I don't have that kind of experience or mind what I do know is that men typically need to interact at a level beyond basic platonic/cordial if they want to flirt or attract or get dates, and that this is where women already express discomfort (depending on the situation/context). this is what i mean by flirtatious comments/interactions. obviously there's a level at which it becomes very clearly wrong regardless of context (e.g. catcalling), I'm not arguing for men getting one ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:21 PM
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And say what? Am I supposed to directly ask if I'm allowed to make flirtatious comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:01 PM
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so how does a man determine in advance if there is consent, so that he can avoid making an initial advance that the woman wouldn't consent to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:47 PM
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I think it's just that it sounds a lot like feminism so it more easily evokes the idea of uplifting men in a way that isn't about reinforcing historic masculinity/machismo/etc, and it also lacks the baggage that stuff like "MRA" ended up taking on. virinism is too esoteric for the average reader, and masculism probably evokes typical and/or toxic masculinity sooner than it evokes "male counterpart to feminism"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:19 PM
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your edit is something i feel is the case. I've heard the term "meninism/meninist" used for what OP describes (or more broadly, for non-toxic non-manosphere feminism equivalents for men), and I agree that we need it, but as long as the word "virgin" carries weight as an insult, or whatever word is down the euphemism treadmill from "virgin", I don't think it's gonna happen at scale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:32 PM
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i don't know what you're referring to, unless marriage count/rate dropping is something that "makes everything shit" in and of itself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:18 AM
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"bluepill" typically accepts that, marriage rates are dropping but so are divorce rates, bc the marriages that do happen are better ones on average redpillers are more likely to be the ones that idolize the past where everybody got married, even when that marriage was out of necessity on the woman's part (which afaik is a big reason why so many married couples seem to hate eachother)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:35 PM
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nobodys forcing u to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:52 PM
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not all of us are blessed with sharing your innate understanding of interpersonal communication
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:29 PM
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yes that's what "everyone shares the burden" means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:05 PM
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what about the meek cautious worldly liberals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:03 PM
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I'm noticing a distinct lack of mention of social skills and EQ in the main post, which are just as if not more important than the other things you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:56 PM
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so you don't care about education either? weren't you just saying that the lack of male educators was a problem? or if it's just that you hate the rest of their platforms then u could try to get pro-education conservatives elected I guess. good luck with that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:54 PM
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seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:51 PM
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liberals and leftists care about education. you should try helping them get elected :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:51 PM
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They aren't going to post online about women making them sexless until after they find out they're sexless, which can only happen after they try and fail to date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:48 PM
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what do surveys on the far left have to do with liberals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:40 PM
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I live near a gigantic military base, every woman here is either dating a super fit guy whos fresh out of boot camp trying to prove his macho manhood with his 30% APR mustang, or leaving as soon as theyre able to. meanwhile i had to move back in at home here with my parent to save on rent so that i can afford to finish my degree, and am slowly grinding it out online while limiting my class load to both afford tuition and not get overwhelmed by the combined workload of class + my job that pays fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:21 AM
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you're presupposing that all of those "a lot of people" already have the necessary social fluency to be an interesting or exciting person to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:01 PM
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it's possible he made up being told to his face about it tbh it's much easier for me to believe that than the idea that not a single woman has or expresses a preference for it in a country with a 60% circumcision rate on newborn boys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:41 PM
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some are, and you just responded to someone who gave you an example of it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:15 PM
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American men are advocating for FGM???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:23 PM
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Wouldn’t there always be some unhappy people and some happy people though yes, it will never be 100% Even if the marriage rates were higher, you’d have a significant amount of people who were unhappy because they didn’t like their partner/ didn’t want to be married Or it could be the case that more people become able to seek out satisfying relationships, and the percentage of the total population (of both single and partnered people) who are in a (mutually) happy relationship/marriage goes up. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:45 PM
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it's meaningless for people who are already single and unhappy. i would agree that its a net good in that there are probably more happy people than not, but its not significant in the specific way that OP is implying (that it would be a "shocker" to redpill/blackpill or cast doubt on their conclusions)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:59 AM
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desire and effort are separate things, so when I read that women want to be desired that is basically my response, "I already desire a woman I really like/love so what more is there to it?". that said, the effort part makes sense and I think your analogy about the buying flowers helps a lot. so imo the simplest thing to do is to skip to advising "he should put in the effort to make her feel desired" instead of just stating "women want to be desired" and running down the what-counts-as-desire dia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:33 PM
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taken at face value, it means 80% of mens dating app profiles fail to interest/intrigue/attract the average woman the key is to separate the profile/presentation from the actual individual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:59 AM
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I think the idea is to be making and having friends and keeping the social muscles warmed up so that you have social circles and can interact naturally and all that, which has value of its own in addition to being something that will look better to potential partners. but im not sure it's sufficient to appear attractive, and I don't think the social skills/habits/muscles for generic friendly platonic interaction translate well into romantic interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:23 AM
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are you just trying to say that there are hurdles after "get the match" that are equally difficult? because that can be true, and it still wouldn't change the fact that getting more matches (or having equivalent first interactions with a women IRL) in the first place is advantageous over not getting them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:19 PM
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I would have expected to be able to find dates on a dating app, for one. past tense because that didn't work Never really understood the point of going to a club alone. as part of a group it makes sense (and I've done that a few times and liked it!) but that's about it overall, how is this standing in one's own way? is it simply that they/we are letting the thinking get in the way of going and doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:42 PM
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I think he means that each woman values various traits to different degrees, but that of the traits that would fall under "personality", "sociability" is the only one that has any relevance just to clear up what (I think) he means to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:23 PM
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I'm a man and I say that it's bad to rape , and its also bad to mass rape Speaking specifically to the crisis in Ozoro, it's also bad to be a local authority and enable it by being silent on the issue or feigning ignorance like the local king(?) did. Conversely, it's good to hold accountable not only the perpetrators, but also those local authorities and leaders who helped enable it. which is exactly what the authorities in the Delta State and Nigerian federal governments seem to be doing (e.g. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:45 AM
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i agree it would be the better thing to do. but unfortunately it seems that for many people the act of asking explicitly is what ruins the vibe and makes things uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:23 PM
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I have autism so idk how the NTs do it, just that they manage somehow. maybe not on dating apps though , in that case most of what I see is they just go for it, and if it upsets her she will unmatched and he just moves on. couldn't be me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:59 PM
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it's less autistic to not ask because non autistic people can just vibe out what the other party is ok with (therefore I agree people should be more explicit in asking permission)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:42 PM
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it would be less effort for women too, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:42 PM
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Did the others manage to attract women easily by their mastery of social skills in combination with their looks? because that's how I conceptualize "chad" even though I don't use that word myself anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:00 PM
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This sub makes getting laid/attaining relationships into something SO MUCH MORE difficult than it actually is 🤦🏼‍♂️ so what was the point of this post, if it's in fact quite difficult? (Yes, it might be straightforward after all the difficult self improvement is done)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:45 PM
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so how was it "just not that hard"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:27 PM
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it's easy when it's innate , yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:09 PM
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I meant in person, I guess excluding PUA-tier cold approach and also long term friendship->relationship since those work a bit different than everything in between I know redpill characterizes it as competing with other men, but i would say its more like theres a threshold (or filter, or bar) to be cleared in order for a given woman to be interested in connecting in the first place That threshold will obviously be context- and person-dependent, but what seems to be the common thread is some uniq…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:44 AM
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How is clarifying the causality of those two traits a justification?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:54 PM
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I didn't read OPs statement as implying they were antithetical, only that they're explicitly not correlated. so probably all 3 of us agree on that point I'd say his main point is that stuff like confidence and charisma is practically mandatory for not getting filtered early, whether they're an asshole or an honest kind sincere man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:29 PM
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when ppl like OP say The misogyny is more often the consequence, not the cause, of romantic deprivation it's because 1) incel-esque misogyny and "romantic deprivation" are often mutually reinforcing once both are present, and 2) the incel stuff typically starts as a reaction to "romantic deprivation" (i.e. early dating failures), not vice-versa I don't disagree with your picture or the analogy it makes, but that analogy only works for those who are already self-avowed incels, just as the guy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:03 PM
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men can be honest and genuine and kind and also lack confidence and charisma. that doesn't make them antithetical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:57 PM
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Are you endorsing stigmatization (of men who are unsuccessful in dating) in general, or strictly within the context of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:52 PM
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youre right about the history about the word incel, but honestly I think trying to make a better word is pointless unless/until the underlying social disapproval of lack of dating success is seriously curbed a better example word IMO is "virgin", which is much broader than "incel" and even includes ppl who date just fine and abstain from sex purely by personal choice, yet it's still used as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:57 PM
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There's a reason social stigmas exist, and often its for good reason. Does that include social disapproval of those who are unsuccessful at dating? If so, then for what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:21 PM
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this was basically what "incel" was IIRC, before it ended up being associated with mass shooters and the like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:51 PM
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the problem is that a fair chunk of social status is tied to dateability. so the label "undateable" (and all substitutes) is negatively loaded and will stay that way until lack of dating success stops being stigmatized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:17 PM
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so where's your disagreement with the other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:38 PM
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I don't owe you an explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:35 PM
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women shouldn't leave relationships just because they're bored
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:24 PM
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isn't that his exact point? that you ended up finding who you liked because you liked him specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:00 PM
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my best guess: 1) late bloomers don't get the same grace for inexperience that teenagers do, therefore more has to be done to offset it, and 2) while his peers were getting their normal early start and experience in dating, the stuff the late bloomer learned in the meantime, or the habits he developed, could be actively detrimental to dating rather than just non-helpful (i.e. incel manosphere stuff) therefore, the argument would be that he has to unlearn these to get to baseline again, and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:09 PM
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third spaces are meant to be places where social groups naturally form and strengthen, i.e. sidelining cold approaches in favor of warm approaches or "friend of a friend" thing. the lack of them is genuinely detrimental to dating and also just bad in general incidentally, their disappearance can be attributed to zoning laws and monetization of public spaces and other stuff that are actually mostly the fault of [people who are] men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:31 AM
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then why would I keep pestering someone who already told me no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:20 PM
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does no mean no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:17 PM
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the (supposed) blind spot is perceiving intentional actions on the man's part as spontaneous, or part of the spontaneous lived experience or whatever. basically if a man wants to date or have a relationship, at some point he necessarily has to intentionally choose to do some action, whether its to ask a woman out on a date, or to ask her for her number, or to begin attending some new event or setting where he might meet women, or so on. which goes against the idea of being spontaneous and uninte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:20 PM
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that all makes sense for rejection, sure, but being labeled "creepy" is different from merely being rejected. or at least I really hope it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:06 PM
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I find it questionable to apply the label “creepy” (which carries moral condemnation) to someone whose missteps stem from a skill deficit rather than intentional disrespect. Especially given that it's harder for those who didn't automatically acquire it to learn the social fluency needed to intuit other people's discomfort, than it is for most people to simply state their own discomfort
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:33 PM
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how do you suggest a man becomes good at dealing with being found creepy? since your own first paragraph already establishes that failing to read the room is inescapably guaranteed to happen at various points
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:23 PM
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usually the person has already been labeled unsettling before they ever hear a request to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:16 PM
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not really. her point is that she views the standards as not high enough, ergo "meeting the [current] standard" is "sub-standard" i think it's flawed in this instance but not for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:35 PM
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read it as "merely decent", she is differentiating "decent but incompatible" from "compatible"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:03 PM
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probably from being told that befriending a woman in the hopes of escalating to romance was labeled as bad and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:49 AM
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I don't think this question can be properly answered without first clarifying 1) the difference between "good" and "great" (you used the latter instead of the former in your last sentence) and 2) whether you are applying those terms to basic human worth, to moral character, or to partner suitability
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:01 AM
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Those aren't the ethical lines I was taught upfront growing up. i was taught to be honest and respectful and considerate, and that doesn't leave room for the ambiguity or "mystery" that seems to be important for flirting and attraction, which is exactly what OP describes. i dont think he would've labeled those behaviors as "manipulative" if the norms more closely matched reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:16 PM
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I don't get what you mean in response to #5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:13 PM
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is this meant to be purely informational, or is there something men are supposed to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:52 PM
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this is broadly true but OC declined to elaborate on that phase and just skipped from "first looks up potentially RP/manosphere-adjacent content" to "berates women for not worshiping him"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:31 PM
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this was good until the last sentence when you made a pretty wild jump you established that Joe is already seeking answers online for his struggles with approaching women or getting tinder matches. Whether through his own further curiosity in the people responding with their RP "advice" or through thw algorithm funneling more RP content to his feed, Joe is led to communities that tell him that those issues he faces are the result/fault of women being awful, either by nature or by intention. Thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:28 PM
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or they are pickier about looks on dating apps because dating apps are heavily slanted towards selecting for looks, on account of profiles being primarily a set of photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:32 AM
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how do you go from random comment to chatting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:19 AM
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in this case, i would imagine she would probably reply very coldly or not at all, and the man would just take it as the clear sign of uninterest that it is and cease to bother her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:11 AM
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it's the "the bar is in hell" kinds of comments that lead to the impression OP is describing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:07 AM
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those who tend to meet people and date them (because they are "naturals" who don't need advice) obviously won't end up sharing his worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:56 PM
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so I'm not really seeing the "you chose the bear" comments as much as i see men saying they aren't approaching women because they've been told basically everywhere is off limits. This tracks because the latter is typically the more common response to "why arent men approaching me anymore?" now as far as i know about the man vs bear analogy, the only prescriptive takeaway of the man vs bear analogy is "dont make women feel unsafe". this begs the question "how?" and the easiest answer to that is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:57 AM
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what's immature about the response - the logic, or the phrasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:02 PM
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Phrase the dust settles (idiomatic) A heated, angry, or confused atmosphere calms down. I tried to make amends after the dust settled. You should let the dust settle. Verb wait for the dust to settle (third-person singular simple present_ waits for the dust to settle, _present participle waiting for the dust to settle, _simple past and past participle_ waited for the dust to settle) (idiomatic) To let a situation calm down, become clear or certain, before taking any action. Usage notes This is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:22 PM
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I don't disagree that a lot of those people make the jump from "women's attraction [seems like it] behaves in this really unsatisfying way" to dehumanizing women, but how does the former automatically become the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:57 PM
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feminism was enabled by technological advancement that made it easier for women to be self-sufficient in society woah....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:13 PM
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so what label would you use for a guy who fits either of the situations me and u/SummerBreeze750 described? how would you interpret such a guy describing himself as "nice"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:58 AM
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or you can just say what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:47 AM
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third
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:23 PM
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left-leaning politically i reject the label "redpill" because its loaded with lots of extra baggage (especially in leftwing spaces), but if i limit it strictly to the core definition used in the sub's wiki/glossary, then i am red leaning i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:59 AM
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i'm not arguing that "women only like assholes" to be clear. just that the "nice guy" phenomenon isn't often (let alone always) the result of mean men being fake nice and getting mad that it didnt work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:47 AM
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I was only asking (in this reply chain) whether you meant "phenomenon" to mean "any pattern of behavior" or specifically "an unusual pattern of behavior" That said, i misread how the other person phrased their #3. i would agree with him if he phrased the "other guys treating her worse" not as what's actually happening (like he did) but rather as what the "nice guy" in his scenario perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:32 AM
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some of us were told to be extra extra nice and extra extra considerate to the women we liked. and at first, that makes sense to a young early teen boy without experience because a girlfriend is closer than just a friend, so why wouldn't it work that way? meanwhile what's actually also needed to be attractive is neglected by the people first telling this kid how to navigate early dating, and/or is assumed to be intuitive to him because ???? reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:27 AM
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are you saying it's not a phenomenon like it doesn't happen, or just that it has a sufficient explanation? it seems like you're describing the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:20 AM
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maybe there should be a separate word for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:00 AM
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"just read social cues" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:06 PM
1

i agree, especially with your paragraphs 5-8, and i have no idea what we (society as a collective) would do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:12 AM
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I fully agree with this copypasted AI response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:20 AM
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you might be thinking of Croatia (2 months ago) or Latvia (last year). sweden has always had conscription, although it was paused 2010-2017. Only a few thousand of those eligible for conscription are actually called up. 24% of swedish conscripts in 2023 were women, up from 14-15% in 2018. for conscription specifically, only Norway and Israel have closer gender parity than Sweden
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:03 PM
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I'm autistic and don't have the skills to approach and doubt I will ever be able to learn those skills to the necessary degree my location is also uniquely skewed against me, that might change in a few years so maybe ill try again anyway, but until then there's no point in trying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:44 PM
2

or maybe collective force is just more powerful than individual alphas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:28 PM
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I only counted one time they said "I'm not uncomfortable" and it was in response to you asserting they were discomforted. when did they repeat that phrase, let alone "like a soothing mantra"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:24 PM
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"patriarchy" gets used in two (or three?) separate ways. one is a literal patriarchy (rule by patriarchs), or more loosely a society where the men effectively hold the patriarchal roles in their family, workplace, community, etc. the definition used by feminists might be better described as "systemic patriarchy" (compare plain old "racism" with "systemic racism"). basically describing the way in which various norms, expectations, outcomes, and so on of the patriarchal society we used to be are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:15 PM
4

not marriages. (consensual) arranged dates would be cool, but at that point its basically just asking for a personalized matchmaking service for free
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:10 AM
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not a sentence i expected to read this year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:41 AM
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this is not automatically a flaw of feminism, because our modern society has both feminist and patriarchal prescriptions embedded within it, which are sometimes (or more likely, often) contradictory. that only confirms that this middle ground between patriarchy and egalitarianism (which basically defines our modern society) is chaotic. it doesn't automatically mean that feminism bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 AM
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the porn thing is pretty straightforward, the split in attitude you're describing is more about the ethics of producing it, and the agency the actress has in the production. OF typically grants women more agency than a contract with whatever porn studio, so it's going to be seen more favorably. I don't think opinions on the consumer matter as much, people aren't usually taking the platform into account when they judge men for watching porn For approaches, I think the stronger point to make is ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:34 PM
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> you will need to learn to socialize like a normie which isn't easy at all i do agree that it's (sort of) easy to figure out when/where a man would clearly be "bothering a woman going about her day" by approaching her, but that doesnt say much about "how people actually meet"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:54 PM
2

no, just autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:35 PM
2

you don’t understand how people actually meet and start a conversation is it supposed to be easy to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:04 PM
5

the scars of this war will run deep, but the economy will be semi-okay - they've taken a bunch of steps to specifically ensure the economy continues chugging along as best as it can, and a lot of the non-military aid to Ukraine is for this exact purpose. You may recall that Ukrainian adult male citizens were forbidden to leave the country very early on (and still are, i think) - this was of course partly to have a conscription base, but was primarily there to ensure that men who didn't get consc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 05:13 PM
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in ukraine, by ukrainians? the Vietnam war was an overseas war that people back here in the US protested our involvement in, the Ukraine war is a fight for the continued existence of Ukraine. in no world is the latter ever going to be treated as bad as the former
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 05:04 PM
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have they not seen his wife??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 04:41 AM
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can't believe we don't even have womens rea
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 08:21 AM
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