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I'd say it's more like top 5% of looks. If you're not very close to being Chad, you're not going to do well online. And this is from a guy who's gotten laid twice in the last month off Tinder. https://redpilldad.blog/2020/01/28/field-report-update-on-the-online-experience-so-far/
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 01:12 AM
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Apparently my first post was removed immediately because I linked to an unapproved site. TBH, I actually think this sub got it's just due. The mods became too fascist. Any claims that reddit is prohibiting free speech can be likewise said of the mods on this sub. TRP should not be a place where ideas are censored, and yet, over time, that seems to be happening more and more. Unfortunate. TRP is about taking off the blinders and viewing life as it actually is. Apparently the mods on this sub have…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:27 AM
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This is why guys should learn cold approach. The fact is that for most of us, hot chicks aren’t really available via Tinder—there are too few and their options online are too many as OP points out. But at the coffee shop, mall, bar, etc, she’s out there, and so few guys approach these days you have a tremendous advantage by doing so. If Tinder works for you, great, but most guys are better off learning game.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 05:09 PM
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I have no idea—if that’s a serious question. If you’re trolling me... well played.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 04:47 PM
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You’re probably way below his SMV. But this is why we exist.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 08:39 PM
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Smart. I guess I’m a bit naive, but it’s crazy to me now I’m red pilled.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 03:48 AM
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The ironic thing is that women who follow their instincts and intuition do better in the world of dating than those who try to apply logic and reason to the process, because what women think they want isn’t actually what gets them wet. Women over 30 tell themselves they want a smart, responsible, loyal man, so they screen out players and bad boys, but then can’t find a guy they really like, because “I don’t feel a connection.” No shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 09:18 PM
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This post is for pussy ass faggots who suck dick. Oh wait, just because I said you suck dick doesn’t mean you do? Holy shit! Whatever dude. Nice write up and if guys can get pussy on swipe dating, cool. Do it. But most guys are better off lifting and learning cold approach—it’s better for your game and better for your frame. But the fact you had to pre-neg people who disagree with you means your argument isn’t very strong. Keep banging 5’s and 6’s on Tinder and call yourself a player.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 02:27 AM
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Great post. One indication she sees you as alpha is she’ll let you do things other guys can’t do. This is why alphas get away with cheating and all kinds of bad behavior. TL;DR—If she starts making rules or trying to dictate behavior, you either NEXT or retake the frame, whether by fucking her good or ignoring her. The caveat is if you don’t care and she’s giving you what you want. Guys need to remember: the reason you want to be alpha is so you get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 09:51 PM
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Very much appreciate the last point you made. Feminism is no longer about equal rights—it’s about convincing women to behave like men so they can gain political and economic power. Deep down they mistakenly believe this will make them more attractive, but as we all know it won’t. Women are judged for three very simple things: 1) how beautiful they are. 2) how beautiful/successful their children are. 3) how powerful/handsome her husband is. That’s it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 10:48 PM
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Women have created this problem for themselves by using Tinder and other apps, they match with guys 10-20% above their SMV, then fuck that guy because “he’s hot”, and then they’re surprised when he doesn’t stick around. Ladies: men who are significantly more attractive than you AREN’T going to marry you. They can do better and they know it. No man wants to give up sex with other women for the rest of his life if the woman he’s marrying isn’t bringing something to the table, which means she’s: a)…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 10:41 PM
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My handle is tongue in cheek 😜 but fair play.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 10:22 PM
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Sounds like one successful date. But OP is a fag if he thinks cold approach pick up doesn’t work. Sorry guys, but you’re not going to trick a girl into fucking because you have “dark power.” This is mostly bull.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 07:34 PM
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It’s pretty interesting to see hypergamy being endorsed and encouraged so openly... I’m quite certain women don’t realize that this is why guys won’t marry them, and why increasingly guys don’t even want an ltr. Like why? What’s the point? At some point we’ll be boring and worth cheating on—and it’ll be our fault! That’s the hilarious thing I’ve noticed lately... in every case, it’s the guy’s fault if she’s bored or cheats—there’s zero accountability for the quality of the relationship on the wo…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 04:08 PM
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Dude, I feel you. It is astonishing how many girls don't reply after you get their number. I would say my rate of response is 25%, which is fucking shitty. Part of that can be improved with better game, but girls are SUPER fucking flaky these days--that's something even Goldmund, who's I guess as successful a player as there is, has complained about. The good news is that if you get better at game and get enough numbers, some of the girls won't flake, and then you can bang them. Happy Hunting!
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 07:44 PM
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100% agree. That’s what I did before I started my blog. And there’s no ads and I’m not trying to sell anything. Just documenting my exp.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 12:12 AM
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Wow—she basically spelled out what’s wrong with American women. They’re taught to be domineering bitches who are uncaring, lack compassion, and entitled beyond belief. Don’t get married, don’t get married, don’t get married...
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 02:57 AM
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That’s a complete lie. Nice libel you jackass.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 11:31 PM
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I only made it 7 minutes in—so far nothing to with TRP, really. It is funny that the guys states how women and men are different in clear, concrete ways, then talks about how women are abandoning traditional gender roles through feminism. So we’re designed differently to play different roles, but instead of that, let’s pretend we’re not different and give everyone the opportunity to play whatever fucking role they want...
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 09:01 PM
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That first point right there—by using dating apps, you’re making women more flaky, picky, and hypergamous. You’re also sending the message you’re low value. Implicitly, high value guys don’t need to be on Tinder. Anyway, if you want to bang 5’s, or you’re Chad, fine, but EVERY guy on the planet can get hotter younger girls by learning to game IRL.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 08:14 PM
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They get almost all of it wrong. Yes there are guys on here who get political and the sub leans right, but that’s probably a sort of knee jerk reaction to the fact feminists are in the left. To me this sub exists for three reasons: 1) to help guys get their shit together, 2) learn to embrace their masculine nature, because 3) ultimately, that is what leads to getting laid. And the anger isn’t misogyny—it’s guys realizing that society gave them a shitty deal. Play by the rules, be a “good” guy, m…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 07:08 PM
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Don’t get married, don’t get married, don’t get married...
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 04:10 PM
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Good stuff OP. That last point makes sense given what we know about female hypergamy vs. male polygamy. For women it pays to fuck only the hottest possible guys, so the more physically attractive you are as a man the higher you n-count, and the difference is exponential because if you raise a point in SMV from a 7 to an 8, for women that’s not a marginal difference—it’s huge and THE difference between fucking and not. For men it’s simply binary: she’s either hot enough to fuck or not, and we are…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:56 AM
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I just don’t see this happening. It’s hard to take rights away from people. But who knows, we’ll see. Europe looks better all the time. Age of consent is 16 there. That a bit young for me, but people should be able to decide for themselves if they want to fuck and who IMO.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:25 PM
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If this is the case, every sugar baby, stripper, and web cam model under 24 will be de-platformed. I don't think this will be happening anytime soon bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 06:02 PM
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Here’s the thing my man—I can barely even tell my friends about my success. Yeah, guys are jealous when I tell them I’m dating women as young as 20 in my late 30’s, but guess how they react? They tell their wives: warlordchad is disgusting. I can’t believe he’s banging girls that are so young. And they tell me: why don’t you grow up and settle down? Find a girl in her 30’s who wants to get married. So what TRP is truly about—male sexual strategy—is not accepted by mainstream society, and I kind …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 10:01 PM
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Agreed. That and pre-selection. Guys these days should have accounts that are well cultivated to show them having fun, traveling, and with other hot girls—and then almost never use them.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 02:09 AM
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Also: GET. THE. FUCK. OFF. SOCIAL. MEDIA. If you want to have an account, fine, but the ONLY good reason to have that shit, especially Insta, is if you’re using it to talk to hot girls. If OP said this already in the post, oh well, it bears repeating. 99% of it is a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 08:26 PM
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Dude don’t pay attention to the sour grapes... your buddy may not be TRP but he’s got fucking good game by the sound of it, and I’ll remind guys that you can lift and self improve all you want, but if you don’t have game, you won’t get laid very often or at all. https://redpilldad.blog/2019/05/24/on-being-a-high-value-guy-vs-actually-having-game/ Good FR OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 07:41 PM
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Disagree, although I understand why people might think this. What needs to be understood is that women are only selecting the best mate in the short run--what male is most likely to produce offspring who will survive the next generation AND MATE AGAIN. This is why women don't give a shit about intelligence. Yes, intelligence is the key to human progress and survival, but only in the long run. Women will mate with men who get rich through their intelligence, but only because they have the money t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 06:46 PM
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The key is to show intent while having freedom from outcome. I did this with a chick I went on a couple dates with recently but she’s not letting me escalate—the answer is: NEXT. And here’s the thing: after 48 hours she’s texting me, first a sexy pic, then asking what I’m up to, etc. In short, I showed her I was interested, but I also showed her that if she wasn’t, I wasn’t going to continue giving her attention. So be direct. Go for the number. Ask her on a date. Escalate on the date. But at an…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 06:29 PM
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Love that you just says fuck it and walked away. I’ve been doing this recently and it’s amazing to see: 80% of the time they’re like “wait, I want to hang out.” But even if they don’t, that’s the power of cold approach—anytime I walk out the door I can meet chicks, so if a particular girl doesn’t come out or falls away, I’m a quick conversation away from the next one. There was a great post awhile back about treating women collectively rather than as individuals, which is a great way to frame it…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:03 PM
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You're getting lost in the noise my man--pay attention to the signal. When I see girls post a bunch of sexy pics, I think, "she's horny." But the beta orbiters aren't getting any. Maybe once in a blue moon she replies to their DMs, but mostly it's just false validation. If you happen to have her number, call her. Otherwise, go ahead and DM her, but make it about you, neg her, and/or make fun of her. Yes, you need a decent account with decent photos to pull it off, but that's the route to go if i…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 03:19 AM
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I honestly wonder how many women reach this phase, not just because they were chasing Chads, but because they were so busy chasing their career, traveling, etc. during their younger years that they didn’t even really ever give themselves a chance to have a relationship. So many girls I’ve hooked up with in the last year are so fucking busy all the time it’s crazy—and that’s not just what they’re telling me because they’re blowing me off, because a couple weeks go by and then she’s texting me aga…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 01:07 AM
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Last night I was with a friend and one of my female cousins and I immediately said, that’s false. Of course the girl goes nuts and says no, maybe he got greedy, blah, blah, and I was like: Why in the Fuck does Neymar need to rape anyone? Hopefully people are starting to see that most of these allegations are false—it’s either hamstering years later when they realize they’re post wall and a guy they were with is still a player, or they just feel slutty after an alpha pumps and dumps.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 06:42 PM
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I have to say, this is why I generally don't want to date women in their late 30's. To begin, by that point most of them are unattractive, but even the ones who are attractive are such low-energy, whiny people. Like, a few of you guys have said: what the hell is the author bringing to the table other than being resentful of men, old, and bitter?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 06:42 PM
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1) This starts off with a bunch of anecdotal evidence, which anyone knows isn't statistically relevant. I could list any number of one-off incidents in which women did crazy, violent shit, but that doesn't mean women are dangerous or that femininity is a terrorist ideology. 2) She ignores what might have driven these particular men--or men in general--to commit acts of violence. A guy could lose his job, have his wife/gf cheat on him, have clinical depression and/or anxiety, etc. and that could …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 06:44 PM
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Here’s my theory: I think most of these cases of supposed sexual harassment come from post wall women who now realize that they’ll never be appreciated or truly desired for their beauty, while realizing the man they accuse is gaining or retains power, and therefore remains highly attractive. In short, realizing her SMV has fallen far below his, she resents this and lashes out. This explains recent accusations against Kavanaugh, the Lt Gov of Virginia, the recent one against Biden, and now this a…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 02:45 PM
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A phenomenal example of this happened to me recently... Girl I cold approached two years ago contacts me out of the blue (we follow each other on Insta), saying that I look good. History: we had a great first date initially, then she flaked on me the next one so I NEXTED her. Last summer, she contacts me again, and we have another first date, then surprise, surprise, she flakes on me two times in a row, so again, NEXT. I probably shouldn't have even entertained it this time, but she's hot and a …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 06:40 PM
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I have far more friends than most of the women I know or date. This is true of most of my male friends--they have other dudes in their lives, and their wives (most are married) have the dude and the kids. I'm calling bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 08:26 PM
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This is one of the reasons I would advise guys against social media and SOD (Tinder, etc.)--unless you're a super hot Chad, you're attention on there is basically worthless. Moreover, the fact women can just go to this well anytime they want and get dick vastly lowers the value of male attention. Understand, if you're on these platforms, you're: A) decreasing your value as a man, and B) helping make women more hypergamous and unreasonably picky. Learn cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 06:58 PM
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Me too. I’ve been doing a ton of cold approach and while I’m definitely getting numbers, I’m still fucking things up and learning. Good reframe here—and though you should always try for a number/kiss, just flirting wit random girls is good. I opened a bachelorette earlier today and gamed her without even having the intention of closing (maybe a mistake, although it was at a book store and there wasn’t much of a way to escalate or make myself relevant), but flirting with her, getting her to inves…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 12:19 AM
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I struggle with that second point, even though I generally agree--when I've brought up certain RP ideas with friends without explicitly bring up "the red pill", I've gotten mixed reactions. One of my buddies who's married actually ended up stumbling across TRP, so now we can talk about it, but other guys have shied away. The flak you get from people generally is interesting: I've been told I'm being a player, that I'm treating women poorly, that I'm a misogynist, that I don't respect the women I…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 05:06 PM
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Again, the list is representative of the AFC, not the red pill player.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 12:41 AM
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As to your question on 10, no, simply because women had to find a guy to be provisioned for—even pre agriculture when we were living in tribes, I don’t think it was true. Pickiness is a product of having too many choices choices combined with the misperception that all these choices are legitimate options. Before, a woman only had so many options—guys she met at school, workplace, or out, whether at a bar or social event. With Tinder and social media, she now is exposed to 1000 times that number…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 10:58 PM
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The list I made is talking about your average AFC, not a red pill player—although as I point out some are universally true.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 10:07 PM
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I agree we should resist—isn’t that what we’re doing? We’re a community of heterosexual men talking about how to game women, why you shouldn’t get married, and how to make yourself the healthiest, smartest, most sexually satisfied person you can be. As far as politics, I’ll keep it short, because this sub isn’t about that. I’d guess I’m quite a bit more liberal socially and economically than most guys here, but if you’re conservative I wouldn’t worry too much and the reason is that the Democrati…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 02:20 AM
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In some ways I believe feminism will run its course. Even a lot of women are frustrated by being forced to take on male traits and having to deal with feminized men. And in 20 years there will be so many post wall single women with no prospects it will be laughable. Moreover, as more and more men start realizing that women don’t fuck white knights and/or respect their beta husbands, we’ll see them go TRP or MGTOW. make no mistake, this world IS NOT better for women—it’s worse, they just don’t kn…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 12:51 AM
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100%. Hypergamy is what women do. On SOD it’s even worse—women only swipe right 14% of the time, and view 80% of men as worse looking than average. And then it’s like: I can’t get a guy woe’s me! Well darlin, you’re too goddamn picky.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 02:36 AM
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You know what, I’m going to do something you’ll never see on Reddit—I see your point man. Good post when seen in that light, and obviously something guys needed to hear. There’s definitely too much moping sometimes in the manosphere. Cheers dude 👍
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 10:42 PM
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I agree with the premise that having fun when you go out, smiling, and helping other people relax and enjoy themselves is alpha and good. And yes of course, we should enjoy our lives and improve ourselves for ourselves, as opposed to others... I guess I just don’t see how this is red pill—I thought this sub is about sexual strategy and the post is essentially absent of that.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 04:00 PM
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Yeah just have fun! Don’t read, lift, have a mission, or try in any way shape or form! Just have fun bro!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 05:30 AM
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I like Torero, Todd V, James Marshall, RSD Max, and RSD Tyler. You can’t go wrong with Mystery or The Game by Strauss.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 02:22 AM
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I'm not saying SMV or TRP don't matter--they most certainly do and I think I made that point pretty clear in the post. What I'm saying, however, is that even with high SMV and an understanding of TRP, it's not just as simple as walking around and pussy just shows up at your doorstep waiting to get banged. I'm high SMV enough (lift guys, just do it) that I occasionally have women approach me, as one did last night. Actually a good illustration of this is later on at another bar, I was hitting on …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 09:31 PM
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Ultimately, the "bad" is more valuable than the good or positive in our current climate. This is true of politics, culture, religion, and even sexual strategy. What flies to the top of TwoXChromosomes isn't terribly different from what tops manosphere subreddits - "look how terrible [thing] is." So true. We as humans have a negativity bias, in that we remember shitty things that happen to us far more than the good stuff. In terms of evolution this was useful--if a lion chases me and almost kills…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 08:42 PM
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It's also been my experience that the more a girl uses social media the more of a garbage human she is--think about it, do you really want to date a girl who posts 12 Insta stories a day because she's desperate for validation? Guess who's got the most validation ever--Chad--and if she can ever get his attention, she's gone.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 08:13 PM
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Sure, you might find the odd girl who will immediately retaliate with things like "I am not your babe", "Don't call me that, asshole!" This is the situation YOU WANT to put yourself in. She is shit-testing you and powerful men look at that as a challenge and jump in to slay the challenge. She is shit-testing you because she sees you as a worthy being. Yes, definitely a shit test--I'd disqualify: "well not with an attitude like that little darlin." Now, just to be clear, if after that she shows m…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 01:40 PM
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Dude, I totally see your points. I have pulled from a bar situation three times in the last 6 months, so I can do that, but if you read my blog, you'll see that I'm kinda down on bar/nightclub game. I agree that that's the best place to go if you're going for a same day lay and pull, but there's nothing wrong with trying multiple strategies--and I have no problem getting a number and taking a girl on a date later in the week--I usually seal it on the first date anyway. The thing I liked about th…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 01:29 PM
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That is a one hundred percent fair criticism. I'll do a quick write up and post it with more details on the actual interactions.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 02:34 AM
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I’m white and Tinder is useless for me too bro. I don’t get who these girls are swiping on but I wish it was that easy... but by the same token, learning game this way makes it so much easier to escalate on dates.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 12:08 AM
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Fucking this ^
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 05:54 AM
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Also, this is what we should expect now that hypergamy is unchecked... women only sleep with the alphas. Watch: it’ll get worse.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 12:41 AM
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Right—there was a statistic in a recent article that said women rated 80% of men as below average looking on OK Cupid. 80%!!! That’s why when guys say they only use a Tinder and regularly hook up with 7’s and 8’s I usually don’t believe them. Ok, maybe you’re Chad in terms of looks, but for 95% of dudes (cause the hot girls are even pickier), they’ll be lucky if a fucking 6 swipes on them. This just reaffirms the power of cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 12:38 AM
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Yep, and the difference is agency. Men—real men at least—take responsibility for their choices and actions, because we are judged by them from a very young age. Women, on the other hand, follow the crowd and do what they’re supposed to do and when they’re young and pretty everyone says how wonderful and charming and smart they are—and that’s true: some women are highly intelligent, capable people. The problem is they never have to struggle the way men do, and therefore never learn to take respon…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 11:49 PM
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Yeah and I’d add that as a guy who’s almost 40 and likes girls under 26, what they expect from me is different too. It’s like what Strauss said in The Game: in your 20’s you just have to be doing something cool—once you’re 30, you should have accomplished something.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 10:33 PM
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Great post... what guys should remember too is that the drug addict/loser who gets chicks was probably a Chad in high school or even earlier and is so used to living in abundance that he learns that DGAF attitude and naturally develops the push/pull dynamic that is so crucial to game. Additionally, a dumb, good looking guy never has the problem of logic getting in the way of his game because he’s an idiot. Ultimately, however, that kind of game/success has a shelf life. Guys who are losers over …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 07:12 PM
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Excellent post. I wrote something similar on my blog recently about the fact women have no idea what they really want when it comes down to it—sperm collectors! Lmao... https://redpilldad.blog/2019/03/07/girls-know-absolutely-nothing-about-what-theyre-looking-for/
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:24 AM
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This post is all the fuck over the place—some points are legit, some are complete bullshit. Guys are best off using all the tools they have available: I agree with OP that game probably trumps everything, but a guy in mediocre shape with great game can easily lose out to a guy who’s in great shape and has good game. Best point is that women are random AF. For some women it’s the face, for others it’s height, for still others it’s status and money. Don’t worry about figuring that out for any part…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 07:20 PM
2

Get off your phone and get out in the world bro. You’re 100% wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 11:29 PM
4

This is exactly right—it’s all well and good to watch videos on YouTube and read pick up blogs, but until you actually get out and do it, that learning isn’t actualized.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:20 PM
20

Oh trust me brother, my kid will be an alpha. In some ways I’m almost jealous... I didn’t learn this shit til I was in my 30’s.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 02:38 AM
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What I don’t get is why parents don’t rebel against the notion boys and girls are the same or that boys are somehow defective? Like I have a son... WTF? No way am I forcing him to be different than his true nature. We need to start calling this what it is: child abuse.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:18 PM
13

This article essentially confirms everything TRP says, especially regarding hypergamy--women only want to sleep with the most attractive guys. Quartz reported on this finding, and also cited another article about an experiment with Tinder that claimed that that “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men.” Yep. This is why I advise guys to get off Tinder and SOD (swipe/online dating). …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 05:59 PM
4

This seems like a troll, or someone who has a childlike understand of TRP... which I guess if you’re a child, ok?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:11 AM
32

What the fuck???!!! Guys this is why you get off the apps, delete social media if you can, and stay off the phone.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:28 PM
70

So, I was actually plating a girl who did this--for her part she was actually pretty cool--but this is literally the only job she's ever had, and one time she makes this remark about I'm so privileged because I'm a white dude... and I'm like, I don't think you understand what privilege is. Privilege is doing literally nothing (she never worked out)--other than showing up and putting in the time--to make thousands of dollars in few days time because you were born hot. Like, this chick didn't DO a…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:49 PM
46

This is also why women hitting the wall get so pissed and complain where are all the good guys? Well for one, we’ve feminized society to the point where even guys with good jobs and looks are too pussy to do anything for her sexually. But two, women can’t/won’t sacrifice status. I have no issue dating a hair dresser or a waitress, but in reverse a career woman won’t date a guy who makes much less money than her—it’s just not in them. Maybe I’m just being hopeful, but at some point it would seem …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 03:03 AM
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When are women going to realize you can’t legislate equality of outcome? Clubs discriminate all the time. Pretty girls get in; fatties don’t. But it’s not like they let in hipster dudes or guys who are poor either... it’s just the way it goes. If you want to be a fatass, be a fatass, but then live with the fact you’re unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 11:19 PM
3

That last paragraph... amazing.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 01:03 AM
23

One thing to consider is the difference in how we gain power in life. For a woman, power comes through beauty. Nothing is required except staying in shape, maybe learning a bit about fashion. This is why the basic position a woman comes from is one of entitlement: I deserve to have stuff, because I’m me. For a man, power comes through mastery. Of other people, a market, knowledge, athletics, etc. Mastery requires intense effort, time, and failure many times before it’s achieved, if ever. This go…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:39 PM
49

Don’t get married. Don’t get married. Don’t get married...
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:36 AM
25

I guess in retrospect this is what I did. But I mean, don’t fucking get married guys. Just don’t do it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 03:22 AM
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Agree. And unfortunately, if you talk about some of this people will become furious. People don't like the notion they're being lied to on a regular basis. Remember the reference point: Morpheus offers Neo the option, because he knows most people will take the blue pill. He also knows that Neo, if he is the One, will want to see, "how deep the rabbit hole goes."
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I was just reading that and I was going to say the same thing. It's kind of unbelievable how the authors could write this and the editors could approve it without owning the blatant bias they are presenting. Or maybe the writers came to the editors and they were like: no, no, no--this will never do. Who knows, but it's incredibly damaging to our society that people can't accept the truth when the face it if it doesn't fit their preconceived notion of what's going on.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 10:30 PM
2

^ Exactly. The thing is too that when chicks start spouting shit, just push back. Last night I had some woman try to tell me we shouldn’t sexualize breasts, and I was like: breasts are sexual bc it tells a man you’ll be able to feed his children. She immediately agrees and comes back into my frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 09:21 PM
1

This is why cold approach is so, so powerful. It doesn’t happen that much in many places, and it’s incredibly validating for a woman in a way Instagram or Tinder will never be. At the end of the day, the only power you have with women is attention, either giving or withdrawing.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 06:56 PM
14

Men have enabled this by using dating apps to meet women. If you want to help, get off the apps and learn cold approach pick-up.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 12:25 AM
1

Gross.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 03:40 AM
4

WTF? I tried, but I don’t know what the fuck this has to do with TRP. If you look at the genetic record, btw, MGTOW has always existed—only 40% of men passed on their genes to the next generation. It’s called not having game/being a pussy. Seriously, these guys are still trying to logically figure out why they’re not getting laid. Need I remind them what The Godfather says? YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE ATTRACTION. Lift. Mission. Game. Frame. Reality.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 11:56 PM
1

Agree 100%. That doesn’t mean you always tell the full unadulterated truth, but outright lying should be unnecessary if you’re holding frame.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:52 PM
3

Dude, to be honest I have no idea how to get into that scene—but if I could that sounds like the ideal gambit.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 03:00 AM
19

That’s fucking savage bro—not sure if I have the balls to pull it off, but if it works, good on you. Sexual strategy is amoral right?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 01:30 AM
4

Good stuff. I mean, the only thing I’d say is that at some point the girl is going to want to tie you down no matter what you do. It’s pretty hard to plate a chick for a year and for her to never ask the, “where is this going?” question. But absolutely: the longer you can avoid that frame, the better.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 01:24 AM
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Yeah I didn’t agree with the conclusions of the authors, because they’re obviously operating from a blue-pill/feminist perspective. However, the scientific studies they cite show that humans evolved as a polygamous species and that women are highly sexual by their nature. TL;DR—they still want to fuck alphas, but more than that they’re just driven to fuck period. That’s why sometimes being the last dick standing works as a sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 11:58 PM
3

Yep. Same. Deleted FB from my phone and don’t miss it at all. Recent studies have shown social media use has a negative effect on overall well being, especially mental health. OP is on point. GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:19 PM
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I’m actually more interested in the reaction. In actuality this probably doesn’t matter, but it brings up the whole gender issue for public discussion.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:05 PM
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Agree. This isn’t an example of not shitting where you eat—it’s an example of coming off as too needy post sex. A good rule is that after the bang, she texts you first. Just STFU until you hear from her... But don’t take it too hard man—you ran good game to get her in bed. Now go on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:19 AM
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Dude, it’s not worth it. Though this sub and the guys on it like to say they’re logical and rational thinkers, if you go against the conservative doctrine/orthodoxy, everyone freaks out—even if your point is 100% true. But let’s see if I can prove my point: I’m no fan of feminism, nor any kind of SJW, and I share the concern about limitations to free speech and Men’s rights in general that both present. However, the notion we’re somehow going to return to a time when women were married off as ch…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 07:53 PM
3

Pre red pill my body count was 13 (37 years). Since, I’ve slept with 14 in the last 7 months. So now 27.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:31 PM
10

This is bullshit—read the post by magnum and click on the link to black dragon about serial monogamy. Women lose interest in LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:24 PM
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No. This sub is just far more woman hating than I thought... oh well.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 04:55 AM
6

Even worse, today’s strain of feminism tells women to deny their true nature. It tells women they should be like men, and that if they don’t want to do that, there’s something wrong with them. So many of the girls I’ve been with in the last year have either told me they don’t like feminism or not to call them feminists because, “those bitches are crazy.”
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 03:39 PM
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Thank you, you’ve said it perfectly: Tinder makes women at the same time hate men and take us for granted. If you’re on Tinder, you’ve given all your power away, because SHE chose YOU. There’s no story, nothing that sets you apart from anyone else. Guys don’t like to hear that because cold approach is hard and scary at first—but ask yourself this question: did you swallow TRP because it’s easy? Do you think it’s easy? If so, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 10:35 PM
2

Being on Tinder disqualifies one from being alpha. If you have game, wealth, status, and/or a cool social circle, why are you on Tinder? It’s an indication of not having abundance—and in some ways, of not having a mission. Like WTF are you doing with your time if you’re constantly swiping away on Tinder?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 06:56 PM
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This is pretty stupid, but it illustrates a good point which is that Tinder and SOD (swipe/online dating) is a losing long term strategy for men. Because women are the gatekeepers. Men on average swipe right 48% of the time, women swipe 17%. The average woman who’s on there with regularity is therefore cultivating far more abundance than the the average dude... but wait, there’s more! Think about how that plays out for a 7-9 (10’s has better options for sure)—literally every guy is swiping on th…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:35 PM
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What they describe has nothing to do with the red pill. I have to say however, it feels like this sub is dominated by right wing ideology and Trump supporters, which I’ve always found odd. I suspect that’s primarily because feminism is aligned with the left, so the reaction is to align on the other side, but otherwise there’s really no reason guys should see Republicans as supportive of male sexual strategy or rights. Seems to me they’re mostly a bunch of greedy, craven fucks who know how to man…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:22 PM
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Yeah this is something Tom Torero talks about all the time—women are most definitely willing to fuck with zero commitment. Any guy who’s pulled knows this first hand.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:11 PM
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Yep. Quick example: I was in a bar finishing my second novel and I cried after I wrote the last word because it finally felt like I got the right ending... female bartender saw this and reacted with a look of disgust. Women don’t give a fuck about your feelings. They care how you make them feel. And honestly I don’t blame them. Do they want the guy who cries all the time or the chief who cuts off the heads of his enemies? Who’s better for her offspring?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 09:07 PM
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Well and additionally, if a girl is raped or assaulted, she’s strong and a survivor, but at the same time can use that experience to virtue signal, shame, and avoid taking responsibility. When it happens to a man, not so much. But the true problem was that his dick wasn’t working. Women can’t handle that—it calls her worth into question and disrupts the feelz.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 08:57 PM
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This poster is a woman, btw.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:58 AM
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What’s implicit but never stated is that she feels the need for companionship and marriage because she can’t attract/fuck alphas like she could in her twenties—otherwise she wouldn’t care. Did you guys see all the fucking tapes that chick had of men who’ve banged her? Holy shit! Maybe I should start collecting panties... oh wait but that’d be creepy. Anyway, feminists like to frame this as pressure from society, and a double standard between men and women, but in reality it’s mom and dad looking…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 01:16 AM
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Crazy thing is, honestly just proposing that is something girls think is super hot. Try it sometime my man.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 03:20 AM
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This is some dark triad shit here—love it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 02:13 AM
6

Shit I didn’t do that intentionally, but now I have to check out this movie.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 08:58 PM
1

Interesting thought experiment—always good to look at the world from a different perspective. The reality is that it’s much less rational than this. I’m struck by the recent post about how girls like us because we make them feel good... for women it’s all about the feelz. Doesn’t matter that validation on social media means nothing for most chicks—it feels good. Doesn’t matter that husband works two jobs and loves them—he feels needy/boring. Doesn’t matter that she’s 35 post wall and can’t attra…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 08:11 PM
1

I suppose MGTOW is too, but I mean the whole idea of getting married and being the monogamous good boy beta society wants us to be (and also despises).
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 10:59 PM
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Literally the only power you have, but the power is incredible. I’ve had a girl texting me for several months now, because the fact I don’t want to date her broke her brain. She can’t comprehend a guy who has options and doesn’t need to put up with bullshit to get laid. Channel Rollo: the person who can walk away has infinitely more power than the person who can’t.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 02:56 AM
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A long time ago, or a short time for some of us, we thought that if we were kind and respectful to women, studied hard in school, got a good job, made enough money to provide for a wife and kids, and started trying to date, women would like us because we were kind and respectful and were able to build a future with them. We though that around age 25-27, we’d find a woman maybe a few years younger who would love us for who we are and appreciate how good we were to her. We would date for a year or…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 08:43 PM
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What’s even worse is that women get more picky and entitled as they get older. It’s awful. I’d so much rather date a girl in her 20’s... they’re fun, energetic, with no ulterior expectations. But what’s bizarre is that it seems women are almost incapable of changing their strategy. They just keep wishing for the perfect Chad to come along, even as the definition of who that is and who they can attract becomes more and more ridiculous as they age. It’s so dumb, and yet the reaction is to complain…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 02:27 AM
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True to an extent but there’s a key difference: whereas attractive women get offers for dick all the time, attractive/high status men don’t just fall into pussy when they walk out the door. Sure, it’s easier if you’re that guy, but in the sexual marketplace men have to take action to get laid in a way women don’t. Because of this, men don’t often act on their impulse to fuck younger more beautiful women for two reasons: 1) laziness—game takes skill, work, and time. 2) oneitis/loyalty—a lot of me…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 12:43 AM
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This is why I don’t understand the trolls on this sub who hate on cold approach. Like, yeah, if you’re banging girls on Tinder, fucking awesome—but most guys aren’t so lucky, either because they live in a shitty market or because girls have gotten so picky even a pretty good looking guy can only match with land whales. With cold approach you immediately put yourself in another category.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 05:04 PM
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I guess the unfortunate truth is that you're going to fuck it up a bit at first--just understand that's OK. And like, yeah, the girl might not give you her number, but the odds are she's not going to freak out about it either. She'll just say no and you'll both move on. But as you keep going and get better, your success will increase exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 04:09 PM
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Dude, I wouldn’t worry—most men are too lazy and will never care to work hard enough to be red pill. But even if they did, in many ways it would be a better, more productive, more orderly society. Part of the reason women get away with being overly picky, squirrelly, and ridiculous in their sex lives is that there are so many pathetic blue pill goons out there, they can have their pick. In the the end they won’t be happy with said dude, but in the moment they don’t care—it’s a dick and a warm bo…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 08:54 PM
1

Dude that rocks that’s how I got into keto—I realized that I was in ketosis a lot while doing the Whole 30.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 03:50 AM
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Good point. Ironic that a woman who claims to be a feminist is basically arguing that women who are legally adults can’t be trusted to make their own decisions.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 12:07 AM
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Male sexuality is constantly under attack--witness this article today on Medium. Basically, a classic hamstering screed of nonsense saying that older men shouldn't date younger women. The irony is that the writer admits: Some younger girls are attracted to older guys, and the romantic interest with age gaps can certainly be mutual. Still, it is the responsibility of the older person in the situation to know better than to pursue someone younger. So it's always the man's responsibility to know be…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 02:34 AM
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The main thrust of the subsequent research is that traditional masculinity—marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression—is, on the whole, harmful. Men socialized in this way are less likely to engage in healthy behaviors. Bullshit. Men raised to be uncompetitive pussies who can't control their emotions will be unhappy from cradle to grave. These men will never have a good relationship with women--in fact, many won't get laid at all, and if they do it will be the true definition …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 02:15 AM
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First there's no inherent differences between men and women, it's all a product of centuries of rigorous conditioning administered by the big bad patriarchy, then when evaluating a study such as this, all of a sudden women are inherently less inclined for monogamy than men. This, at its core, is why modern feminism is an absolute sham. When it's convenient to argue women and men are the same, that's the argument you'll hear from the SJWs and Jessica Valenti's of the world. However, when it's con…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 07:41 PM
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Based on what I've seen with my friends whose wives are considering divorce, they don't get it (not sure if we need to call them cunts, however--this is just who they are, no reason to be angry AWALT). You can't negotiate attraction, that's true. But the problem for women who get married young (in their 20's) to a beta, is that the hamster thinks they can still land Chad, forgetting that they made a calculated decision NOT to continue riding the carousel. I guess what I'll say to any guy in this…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 04:47 AM
3

I feel like we should document failure along with success. Thanks bro
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 02:12 AM
5

Yeah dude, I agree. The point of the post is: I’m a fool. It’s a beta mistake meant to caution betas
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 01:46 AM
5

Yeah, you don't want to be falling all over yourself drooling--but you do need to establish that you're interested in a sexual way. This is where the push-pull comes in... "Hello beautiful" followed at some point by expressing reservations, negging, or making her qualify. She needs to know: A) you find her attractive, but B) you're willing to walk away/don't care. Usually that's the case--you're going to carry that first part of the conversations, but as it goes on, hopefully she starts particip…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 03:34 PM
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Agree to an extent, but the overall picture you’re painting is that women don’t have any standards, which isn’t true. Like yes, she will do all of the things you’ve described—if your SMV is high enough AND there’s some sort of story or context that allows her to rationalize that her behavior isn’t slutty. Can that sometimes mean being the right dick in the right place at the right time? Sure. And are there some girls who are absolutely unable to control their sexuality? Yes. But it’s not purely …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 12:33 AM
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Dude I’ll do a post on cold approach later, but when people say don’t shit where you eat, that means you’re not hitting on girls at work or the gym. The reason I don’t worry about girls getting upset is that when I cold approach it’s at a random bar, coffee shop, or at a park, on the street, etc. I don’t know the girl and she doesn’t know me—what makes women nervous is when it’s at work or somewhere they continue to have to see the guy day in and day out. The beauty of cold approach is that if s…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 06:05 PM
2

There’s no way cold approach should result in sexual assault. Talking to a woman is not assault. No lawyer would file charges against a guy for saying hi to a woman or asking for a number. And any judge would throw out such a suit. You’re protected by the first amendment. But whatever—go MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 04:07 PM
2

I mean I’ve always said, if you’re getting matches with women you’re genuinely attracted to on Tinder and SOD, go right ahead—it’s the easiest pussy in the world. What I’ve found—and I get that it varies from city to city—is that where I live, I don’t get matches with women I’m attracted to, and even when I do match, it’s a pain in the ass managing all the texts back and forth and all that shit. It takes too much time that I could use in other ways. The beauty of cold approach is that most of yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 10:50 PM
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I think the point here is that yeah, if you’re really good looking and live in a big metropolitan area (1 million plus) you can probably do ok on Tinder. Understand however, this sub isn’t called: glory be unto Chad. It’s about giving ordinary guys a chance to be more successful with women. And ordinary guys are going to have a hell of a hard time on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 03:10 AM
6

Quite true.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 04:59 PM
11

I gotchu--I'll try to put that out in the next week.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 01:45 AM
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One was actually pretty hilarious. Me and my buddies were at a bar watching NFL football and this girl is a huge Saints fan and is rooting loudly, pretty drunk for it being like 11:30am (I live on the West coast), and wearing a shirt that says, "Breesy like Sunday morning." As she's walking past our table I'm like, "so why the Saints?" A good opener btw, where I'm challenging the girl and she immediately has to qualify herself to me which is a good dynamic. Anyway, she comes over and we start ta…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 01:41 AM
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I would say just start for one, knowing that if you're in that top 20% women will take it as validation that you approached and will therefore be more likely to give you a number. There are tons of videos on YouTube about cold approach, but the best I think is Todd V. Watch his shit--RSD Max is pretty good too. Maybe I'll do a write up here about the basics of cold approach at some point.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 01:28 AM
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I actually think the best cold approach method isn't to day game or night game per se, but to approach any woman you find attractive in any circumstance. If that means you're running errands and there's a hottie at the grocery store, make it happen. If that means you're out with friends at a bar, make it happen. Opportunistic game, I guess, is what I'd call it. Ultimately, I agree with you--game is much easier to work in a party environment or another setting where you have some social standing.…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 09:38 PM
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Ok, but dude, we’re not all badass athletes, movie stars, or whatever—and the truth is, without game, those guys don’t do as well as you think. Daygame (or any kind of game) works because it is inherently high value. You’re demonstrating extreme confidence, outcome independence, and entitlement—because if you’re hitting on a woman you’re clearly used to doing so and it going well. This is a completely made up issue. The type of women who say this shit NEVER get hit on because they’re ugly or too…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:35 PM
20

And Christine probably has a giant vagina.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:17 PM
1

People generally don’t care about things that don’t concern them—the other thing is that if you dress well, are fit, and don’t act like an idiot, women won’t make a scene even if they politely reject you. Just remember: it’s not illegal to talk to a random stranger—and if you have something interesting to say, they’ll usually thank you for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:33 AM
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Coffee shops can be good, or malls, or if there’s a street or area in a city where there are lots of shops and restaurants. Honestly what I try to do is approach randomly anytime I have the chance. Grocery store, park, skiing, whatever...
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 11:39 PM
2

I personally would never define the relationship. Let her do it. It’s by its nature a needy move. You have far more power in the relationship if she asks. Why is that important? Ask any guy who’s been cheated on or divorced.
/r/seduction27/12/18 10:39 PM
1

Seek professional help.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:53 PM
1

Yeah agreed I never ask... my point was that if you are going to, that’s the best way.
/r/seduction23/12/18 10:32 PM
8

If you have to ask (don’t recommend but whatever) Mystery actually has the best gambit. Ask: do you want to kiss me? If yes, then kiss her. If she says IDK, say: let’s find out, then kiss her. If she says no, say: I didn’t say you could—you just looked like you had something on your mind.
/r/seduction23/12/18 10:11 PM
7

That’s a shit test. Just hold frame and keep going.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 01:30 AM
21

Yeah this fucking rocks man... the sun and moon analogy is spot on. It’s why most women will never be truly happy—they are not the steady source of abundance in life. It’s also why the whole “independent” woman thing doesn’t work. Because what is that really? It’s a woman behaving like a man. And by definition that means she has to fake it. Any guy on here who’s fucked one of these women knows they like to be absolutely fucking dominated and smashed, because in every other facet of life, they’re…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 05:36 PM
3

Ha! So true. Whenever a married women on Instagram is posting 5 plus stories/posts a day, you know you’ve found a lonely woman who’s in bad need a some good dick.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 05:09 PM
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No, he's correct. Being unmoved by rejection is how you build frame, and it's impossible to develop that skill without being rejected. Any human's natural instinct when being socially rejected is to feel bad, nervous, anxious, etc. because in evolutionary terms, this meant you might lose status in the tribe or worse face exile, which meant you were literally dead. ​ Thus, we have to learn to be stoic, unmoved, non-reactive when our frame is tested, and the only way to do that is to face rejectio…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 08:10 PM
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This is RP as this fucking shit gets. This dude was killing it in exactly the way he wanted to and OP explains exactly how it relates to the laws of power. What are we, puritans?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 01:33 AM
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Just saying, if you read The Game (and you should), HB stands for hot babe. If she’s a 6, she’s not a hot babe. She’s just a 6.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:18 AM
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Hmmm... I believe the man’s story. Maybe so, but hamstering can cause women to pull that trigger REAL fast. Plus they know the law is on their side. Remember this guys: 70% of divorces are initiated by women, which means that given 50% fail, you have a 35% chance of being divorced through no fault or choice of your own if you get married.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:46 AM
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My ex-wife did this. Had a guy within two months of our separation, married him within a year of our divorce becoming official. Maybe she was fucking him on the side before, maybe not, but thank God I got out of there (I was blue pill big time). Now she already hates him—I can tell when I drop my son off and she’s coming on to me again when BB isn’t around. AWALT. The hamster is alive and well in every woman boys. It is some fucked up shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:39 AM
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Goddamn, you're more patient than I am. I stick to Rollo's rule of 3, sometimes less if I can see it's going to be a long process. Look guys, the thing is, if she's into you, she's going to be down. Read Cain's recent post on sluts. I can see the benefit of not pushing for the f-close right away, but at the same time, I've had two girls drop off the map recently after 2 dates each and very heavy making out (fingering in one case) but no f-close. Here's the thing: very few things build comfort an…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 10:18 PM
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It wasn’t a rant per se, cause you don’t want to sound angry, but along those lines—I talked about something relevant in a causal sort of humorous DGAF way. Like I said she loved it. Too bad she decided not to put out on three consecutive dates. Say it with me: NEXT!!
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 01:06 PM
2

This is pre-selection at work as well as non-neediness. Got her hamstering, thinking how can I get this guy? You went from a schmuck to a challenge.
/r/seduction18/12/18 01:45 AM
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Next. Girls will drop off the map like this. It’s weird, there’s no explanation, but you just have to move on.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:37 PM
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Next. A lot of girls are flaky AF. Drop off the radar and who knows, maybe she pops back up. But don’t ever invest too much in one girl or let it bother you too much.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:33 PM
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An example to piggyback on OPs point. BF/GF walking down the street, girl drops her bag of clothes (he probably bought for her). She says fuck then proceeds to yell at him, why aren’t you helping? Before beta even knows what’s going on, he proceeds to apologize, but she’s still mad at him because she’s just mad and since her feelings can’t be wrong it’s his fault. It’s a small thing, but it just shows how easily a relationship can go south—if this instance becomes a dynamic ie he apologizes to h…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 11:18 PM
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Agree. We’re honestly killing ourselves by using these apps. Male attention is so fucking cheap for any decent looking woman that unless you’re rich AND extremely good looking, you’re just a chump shouting into the void or wasting your time swiping. I’ve had much, much better results running cold approach because you immediately stand out from the online chumpery.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 02:21 PM
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More on this: https://chuckingrocks.com/rejectiondoesntmatter/
/r/seduction16/12/18 04:41 PM
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Why do you want to be a politician? If it’s to make the world a better place, good luck. If it’s because you want power and money, there are better ways to get those.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:10 PM
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I mean to reply to this comment but it went on the bottom. TL;DR—you’ll have better results with women using cold approach (hotter girls/better connection) as an individual, and we also benefit the more of us who do this collectively. So even if our culture is fucked, it’s better for you as an individual anyway. And the advantage of cold approach will only increase as time goes forward.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 08:18 PM
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This is excellent. Thank you. At its core TRP is about logic, reason, and strategy. Just a reminder: none of this matters with females. Never argue. Fuck or ignore.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 11:18 PM
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Here’s the thing though: generally I agree with you. But in this case it’s in the interests of the group AND the individual. For example, if you meet a girl on Tinder, and I game her IRL, who’s got the advantage? 9 times out of 10 I do. Because she can feel my presence and confidence. So by running game I have an advantage over any guy on Tinder—any guy can do this. So on an individual level, it’s an advantage. TRP is all about strategy, right? OK, so here’s the thing: the more of us who do this…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 10:58 PM
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We’re all making females worse humans through these platforms. The sheer abundance any woman has via these apps is frightening. Want to know why women are flakier, shittier, squirrellier, and more entitled and arrogant than ever? Because: Tinder, Insta, FB, Bumble, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:33 PM
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I’m going to keep saying this: SOD (swipe/online dating) is a poison pill men are giving to women. The sheer abundance any decent looking female can get via social media and SOD is fucking astonishing, and we’re (all men on these platforms) literally making women worse—far fucking worse human beings. So remember, the next time a girl flakes on you, or acts like a bitch, or is entitled, if you’re on social media or SOD, it’s your fucking fault.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:11 PM
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To piggyback on point 3, texting is a good place to practice power law 17, be unpredictable. Sometimes reply quickly, but generally wait awhile, and occasionally don’t text back for a day or too... obviously this all has to be calibrated, a point OP made well in the post (good stuff btw, don’t worry about the haters). On a side note, I sent a girl a voice message the other day and she flipped—totally loved it. I also do this on Facebook messenger with another girl and that seems to work well. I’…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 07:48 PM
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Swipe/online dating and social media have put hypergamy on steroids. Want to understand why girls are super flaky, squirrelly, arrogant, and entitled? This is why: because they have so much abundance via Insta and Tinder that they can get Chad’s dick whenever they want. Honestly, the manosphere and men everywhere would do well to boycott the dating apps entirely. The longer we keep giving girls this validation, the worse it’s going to get.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 07:19 PM
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I just want to say, we should all get off online dating. All men. Swipe dating accelerates hypergamy and turns women into picky, entitled brats.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 03:02 PM
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Grievance/victimization has become valuable. This guy nails it: https://chuckingrocks.com/cultofvictimhood/
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:55 AM
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This 100%. I’m fairly good looking myself, but until I learned game it was still hit and miss. For women it really is about more than looks—Chad isn’t Chad because he’s only hot. He’s Chad because he has a DGAF attitude, is direct/sexual, and probably to some degree just got lucky in high school to bang some girls early and then from there the stars aligned.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:18 AM
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Thanks guys—that’s what I thought. Guess my fucking hamster got spinning.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:26 PM
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That feminism is trying to take away men's freedom is a fact, but it is an implicit goal, or side effect if you will, of the movement. On the surface, feminists believe they are asking for equal rights relating to the economy and the law, which I don't think most people object to. The problem is that women believe this means equality of outcome, and when you factor in gender differences, that's impossible. Consider attraction for example. For a relatively brief time in most women's lives, they a…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 07:16 PM
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Whenever you see a woman you're attracted to, you should approach her and say hello.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 06:04 AM
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I agree that society is in decline and that TRP has its limits--however, I wanted to drill down on a key point, which is this: Most men are pathetic and undeserving of women, and many women are either so fat, misshapen, and/or ugly as to be completely undesirable from a mating perspective. This is why having a society that valued monogamy and marriage and had strictly defined gender roles by and large worked and was extremely stable. It turns out that if people feel like they are valued, they ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 08:44 PM
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That’s cool man—do you know of any good articles or videos that go step by step how to do a good job of that? I mean I post pics at concerts, my blog posts, occasionally pics of myself or with girls, but I haven’t had much luck DMing with women and it seems like it’s more of a liability... women are so fucking squirrelly these days if they see one single thing that’s off putting depending on what mood they’re in it’s a turnoff.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 04:56 PM
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There are crazy ups and downs in this shit. Using myself as an example, didn’t fuck anything for three months, then went on a spree and fucked 8 girls in two months, now back to nothing. It’s kinda like poker or baseball—crazy swings in results, but if the process is good you’ll be fine in the long term.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:17 AM
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Man I got you—this is straight fucked up. Just another example of how women use victimhood to gain status.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:02 AM
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I swallowed the pill just a bit before you and it's been fucking crazy. At first I was just really angry because I began to understand why my marriage ended in divorce, why I never got laid in high school, etc. In effect, we've been lied to our entire lives, and it sucks to realize that in your late 30's. But better late than never. Once I'd learned enough I finally managed my first pull in August, and since then I've bedded 8 women--had one plate but she broke when I fucked her friend. Not a sm…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 11:12 PM
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To piggyback on this, a recent article in the NY Times Modern Love section is a woman writing about how she prefers a dominant man to the beta she married before. Guy sounds red pilled AF.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 10:51 PM
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Trying to explain this to a friend yesterday and he’s like, bra she’s just taking things slow. No. She’s not that attracted to me. Could she be a less sexual person? Sure. Could she be a more conservative girl? Sure. But whatever the reason, if all she wants to do is peck after two dates, she’s just not that attracted to me. Luckily we have an answer for this: NEXT.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 02:20 PM
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Wait for her to contact you first. If she doesn’t you can text her after a couple days, but if she wants more she’ll text you. Then yeah, set up a date and go from there.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:56 AM
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Yeah my assumption is they fucked. If she was at a bar and a guy was actually harassing her, wouldn’t she say sometime to the bouncer or her friends? On a side note this type of shit drives me crazy—women claim shit like this happens and say they were raped... but where’s the agency? Again, if what she says was happening was actually happening, there were plenty of things she could have done to stop it.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:31 AM
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I just wish you guys would let me post. I have a bunch of field reports, theory, and other TRP stuff (will become part of a novel later). I know my account is a newb, but I had to delete a previous account--I've been reading this shit for awhile. I want to produce. I want to contribute. Let me. Or upvote the fuck out of this so I can get whatever amount bullshit karma I need to post.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 09:26 PM
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Are you a complete fucking idiot? Have you not read the sidebar? Do you not understand Briffault’s Law? All women are manipulating men—all the time. Constantly. They want sex from Chad and money from Brad. That’s it man. And yeah, if you’re giving them one or the other or both then you can talk, share, and to some extent have a normal human relationship. But understand that if they can’t get dick or dollars out of you, they could give a fuck what happens to you. AWALT. This post is spot on, but …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:32 AM
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I don’t know WTF this guy’s ^ talking about... he sounds jealous. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:15 AM
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Cold approach bro.
/r/seduction03/12/18 08:25 PM
1

Just read everything Cain wrote and apply it. Dude is spitting wisdom today.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 11:02 PM
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This is a troll comment. Most women are absolutely not afraid to be mean or rude if they don’t like you, but if you talk to women in a social adept way, most women will are quite pleasant to talk to, even if they reject you in the end.
/r/seduction02/12/18 07:04 AM
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Learn cold approach. Online dating is an absolute waste of time unless you’re exceptionally good looking AND have good pics. The girls who are even remotely good looking have so many guys to choose from it’s a joke—and then they often can’t decide because humans aren’t equipped to make good decisions when faced with too many choices. When you cold approach on the other hand, you immediately stand out.
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:56 AM
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Ok, so I get the whole work thing, but is there any particular, specific way guys are augmenting their income? I’m have a good job and make $65k, but I’d love to pick up and extra 10-20k to get closer to that 85k threshold.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 01:04 AM
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Yeah I definitely need to read that.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:34 PM
1

I assume you guys mean Camus, who wrote The Stranger?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 06:19 PM
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12 fuck yes! Maybe the single most important thing you can do in the short and long run to do better with women. A girl doesn’t text back? Next. Third date no sex? Next. Too busy? Next. Flakes? Next. You will do far better to just move on and cold approach more women than chase any particular one, and what’s funny is the second you start ignoring them, the hamster starts to spin.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 03:46 AM
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Fair point. What I think everyone needs to remember however is that men, ultimately, are in control. We can take power back anytime we choose to because we are smarter and more physically powerful and naturally dominant. Now why did we give up power? Initially it was because we thought by cooperating with women we would benefit—most blue pills still think this way. But we at TRP know that is not the case. Women do not cooperate, they procreate. With the biggest baddest Chad they can find, and th…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 06:46 AM
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Right. The hope is that women start to realize they were just as, if not more screwed by feminism than men are. There’s a whole generation of women growing up right now who are going to end up single and without kids, which is not what they thought nor what they wanted. Now the knee jerk reaction will be to blame men, but when it’s pointed out that they basically brought it on themselves, it’s almost impossible to argue that truth. Women like to say they don’t owe men sex—and that’s true. They d…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 02:19 AM
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Yes, but on the other hand, the true nature of who we are is at some point self-evident—it’s hard to unsee what you’ve seen. Like once I read some TRP stuff, it became impossible for me to go back, which is why the Matrix analogy works so well. On the flip side, much of what feminism says is inherently contradictory and can’t stand under its own weight. For example, on the one hand they want to say gender and sexuality are social constructs, and on the other hand they’re convinced most men are s…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 12:30 AM
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You're taking the idea of socialism to the extreme, which is not what Bernie Sanders, or honestly, an politician people take seriously is or ever has proposed. TRP can exist in conjunction with universal healthcare, free college--hell even a UBI. Ask men who live in much of Europe where that's the way things are. Money is only one way to achieve a higher SMV, and frankly, if you can't exhibit other alpha behaviors it doesn't even matter how rich you are. Seriously, this is one of the sub's major…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 11:04 PM
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I predict this is all going to fall apart fairly soon. The truth is most women don't like this bullshit--a lot of them just go along with it because they feel pressure to conform to society, but when you talk to them one on one and they're honest, the truth is they like being feminine and girly and be around men who are dominant and decisive. And once the white knight betas realize women aren't going to fuck them for being chivalrous and once the majority of women realize the feminist way is a d…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 10:36 PM
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Agree, except for the political aspect. One could hypothetically agree with Bernie Sanders on most policy and still be red pill, but I digress... To piggyback on the last point, I’ve had so many women tell me (usually after sex) that they’re just as sick and tired of feminist doctrine as anyone—they want men to be men, they want to be pretty and girly, etc, etc. And when I bring up TRP ideas around other people (without ascribing the name), almost no one objects, and usually a few people are lik…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 12:53 AM
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Yeah this has happened to me too. It’s like their guard is down—they were just the fuck doll they want to be and now they see no issue talking openly about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 03:40 PM
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If that’s the case, go on a 4th or 5th date, but understand it’s exceedingly rare these days that a woman will not sleep with you by date number 3. Usually that means she’s not that interested.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:38 AM
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Just ask. Better if you can do it alone bc then she doesn’t have pressure from other people on her making her feel slutty, but if that’s the way it is just ask. She might reject you, but who gives a fuck? There are so many girls out there—sometimes I’m actually glad when a girl flakes because it means I can go run game that night.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:22 AM
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Be direct. It’s shitty to pretend to be doing something else only to turn around and start hitting on her. That’s actually super beta.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:19 AM
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You could fuck both those girls if you want to, but I also get the whole don’t shit where you eat thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 10:34 PM
2

This is why TRP exists. No. It’s possible for a relatively ordinary looking guy to pull 8s, and I’m the other hand, possible for a very good looking guy to never sleep with a girl over 6. Like, however good looking I am, say a 7?—there is a stark difference between the girls I pulled before and the girls I pull now. In the last 3 months I’ve smashed with 8 women, averaging 7.5 at least. Best was a 24 year old 9. Pre TRP I was lucky to fuck a 6 I met on the apps. Learn cold approach. Lift. Read b…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:45 PM
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I had sex with a 20 year old HB8 two weeks ago (I’m late 30’s)—she bragged to me about fucking 45 guys. Yes you read that right. Wrap it up boys.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:01 PM
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It’s not a good practice to be dishonest, but if your voice is shaking, maybe don’t speak the truth. Especially with women—there’s something to be said for knowing when to keep your mouth shut. Remember what Rollo says: don’t tell a woman why she shouldn’t sleep with you.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 07:06 PM
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I’ll just be direct: it hurts your game. Why? Because alcohol distorts your frame. When I’m sober I basically never fuck up communicating with women. When I’m drunk I word vomit like an idiot. The less you rely on it the better.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:26 PM
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The question women of today need to answer is this: what real benefits does a man accrue if he participates in modern marriage? Is it a guarantee she won't cheat on him? No. In fact women are already starting to justify infidelity. Is there a financial benefit? Extremely unlikely unless she makes far more money than he does, but we know that such a woman would never marry a man so far beneath her economic status because she wouldn't find him attractive. So basically, no. But what if he wants kid…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 10:49 PM
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Escalate. She’s presenting herself to you.
/r/seduction18/11/18 06:44 PM
1

Here’s the thing: the most rudimentary gym can provide you what you need in terms of lifting. Bench, row, squat, shoulder press, lat pull down, curls, dips. Even a shitty high school gym can provide you with that and you only need (should) to lift twice a week if you go hard and do all the exercises. I guess what I’m trying to say is finances shouldn’t be an issue for lifting.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:58 AM
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Be the man. Take control. Escalate. But expect nothing. If she puts up LMR, make it clear you don’t care about getting laid—offer to go home or go to sleep.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:42 AM
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Dude she’s telling you she wants to fuck. Tease her—“only if you promise to be nice, otherwise I’m leaving” then, get the deets and go over and fuck her. Use a condom. Escalate. This happened to me recently: a girl I knew from FB said hey want to hang out, I was like sure, she’s like I’ll come to your place let’s watch a movie, I say great, come by around 8. She shows up with a bottle of vodka and want to do shots... an hour later we’re smashing. Don’t overthink it.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:06 AM
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Dude I was married to a ball crushing doctor for six years—nice dodge I wish I would’ve woken up earlier. Good shit all said: our society gives women the message, often explicitly, that they’re entitled to a Chad who only has eyes for them and will both be the alpha lover they want and the perfect beta chump society tells them they should have.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 01:39 AM
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I see what OP is going for here, but if this sub is about what it say it is--and that's a sexual strategy for men that works--being the best at a particular skill/job is irrelevant. Like yes: have a mission, a passion, a talent that gives you confidence and/or money and all that, but to attract women in the short run you don't need anything other than frame and game. I guess I'll use myself as an example. I'm a teacher who makes a middling salary in a very high end city where real estate is fuck…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 01:21 AM
2

Of course you want to continue to fuck them and there's no reason not to try... I guess if I reinitiated contact with a girl I was ignoring and she acted bitchy I'd go back to ignoring her until she contacted me again. Seriously, a lot of these girls WILL zombie back and resurface--I've even had one do so a full 9 months later. I mean, do these girls think you're their BF? If so that's a whole different situation. Or, if it's as OP said, they're just dates--that's not a plate either. I have to a…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:13 PM
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Fair point. Also, there's a strong impetus for women to "fit in" or conform to the social mores of the tribe. In our society, for women (and men to a lesser degree) that means being in a committed long term relationship that leads, ideally, to marriage.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 10:23 PM
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You're confusing a "plate" with a "date." Sounds like you need to read the side bar, study some more game, and learn how to escalate--if you have a date with a girl she should want to see you again. If she doesn't, it means she sees you as beta and/or low SMV. A "plate" is a woman you're fucking on a semi-regular basis, from FWB to she thinks you're BF-GF to someone you hit up for a booty call.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:14 PM
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Disagree: girls most definitely date guys because it's the thing to do. There are a ton of women out there who have BFs they aren't into--I mean, sure, maybe they were at some time, but not anymore. And there are plenty who just can't stand to be alone (some guys are like this too), so once they break up with a BF they end up dating one of the first guys they meet and end up in an LTR. This is why: 1) We always treat, "I have a BF" as a shit test--because even if it's true, if you can prove you'…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 10:10 PM
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One thing I've found is that plates break for reasons that are out of your control--and sometimes even just a one time thing won't have anything else develop. Quick example: this girl and I went on a few dates, had a really good rapport, etc. and after the third date we end up smashing. After, I kind of throw off this casual/friend vibe, hoping she can be a FWB. She goes from being very chatty texting to not replying for stretches of time, to not replying at all. But when I thought about it, she…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:48 PM
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The key is to let them contact you, not the other way around. Some girls will most definitely come back around if you ignore them, but if you contact them first it just looks like you’re playing games.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:44 PM
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There are very few men for whom what you’re saying is true. We’re talking about behaviors, not genetics or a bank account. Yes, if you’re not good looking it’s more difficult, but there are plenty of dudes who are average at best who pull hot tail. As for the addiction point, the reason girls like those guys is they don’t give a fuck and they hold frame for the most part. You can do that without drinking—actually it’s a lot easier if you don’t.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 03:22 PM
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The true mind-fuck of it all is that women facing the wall desperately want marriage and commitment from an alpha, but will then immediately turn around and try to make him a beta, thereby less attractive year by year to the point she’s going to cheat and/or want a divorce. Seriously, there’s no good reason for a man to get married these days. None. I’m in my late 30’s and my date tomorrow is a 21 year old HB 8. Maybe... maybe when you’re in your 50’s or 60’s and you just don’t want to deal with…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 12:10 AM
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1) is why social media is dicey for guys. No matter what you do it will seem like you’re seeking validation because that’s what social media is: a place to seek validation. That’s why Instagram is so popular with women—it’s the most narcissistic validation seeking platform that exists.
/r/seduction08/11/18 01:36 AM
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I'm going to add a letter: D) Game/frame: try to have at least one conversation a day with someone you wouldn't ordinarily talk to (preferably an attractive women, but anyone will do). Try to pull them into your frame--as in, they agree with you, see the world from your perspective, laugh at a joke you tell, etc. Maintain strong eye contact and keep the conversation going as long as possible, but at the same time, calibrate: try to sense how the other person is responding to you--not just speech…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 05:03 PM
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Meanwhile, have you guys seen this? Basically feminists are now justifying women cheating on their husbands--it's hilarious because this reply to the article is basically a woman who totally affirms what we at TRP already know: Original article: The Future of Infidelity is Female Female comment affirming TRP: Holy shit yes Seriously cannot make this shit up.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 07:51 PM
2

In general this happens all the time. Women cannot stand getting ignored. When combined with the fact that everyone seems to think they can’t find someone better than their current date (thanks Tinder), women will often flake out only to zombie back a few weeks or even months later, because they realize your better than whatever else is out there. As for your situation, take her on a date!
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:11 PM
1

In short yes. I could tell you about my own experience (lost 30 lbs and feel 100% better), but I read a piece recently about it so I’ll just leave the link. Good luck! 10 tips to rock the keto diet
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:55 PM
4

Thanks man those are all good tips!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 09:09 PM
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One thing that has become increasingly clear to me is that it’s very easy to let women become your purpose—but if that happens you immediately become less attractive to them. You also screw yourself. This has happened to me in the past few months... I’m a teacher who writes fiction and has a blog on the side—I don’t make money on either, but hope to at some point. Anyway, in the past three months I’ve gotten pretty good at cold approach and I’ve slept with 8 girls in this time, two plated. Howev…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 07:45 PM
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Cold approach is hot and cold. You’ll go for awhile and kill it, then you’ll hit a streak of women that aren’t into you. Just keep going—the more you do it the better you get. And watch infields of guys like Todd V, Julien, and others—there’s tons of stuff out there on YouTube that can help technique. Look, every girl is like a video game: if you know the right moves and figure it out you can beat the game. Some games are easy and require only that you play and persist. Some games seem unbeatabl…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:37 PM
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I guess I'll post this here because the mods won't let me actually post my own field report. Went out on Halloween and there are some similarities here with OP's point on clubs--especially with regard to leading/being aggressive. TL;DR—a lot of opens, but not hooking and being too apprehensive will kill you. As a result, only one number/kiss close. Went to a Halloween Party at a bar this week. All my friends had to work the next day, so I ended up going out alone—the first time I’ve done that. I…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 06:45 PM
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Yeah I like that a lot
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:13 PM
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This 👆👆👆
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:05 AM
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Look on the bright side kid—you’re 19 getting laid, and you won’t even reach your max SMV until mid 30’s and that’ll last for another 10-15 years. You can be fucking girls in their 20’s until you’re 50... I feel sorry for these girls to be honest. Society just says go fucking nuts gals, you’re the same as a man, but the truth is they’ve got 10, maybe 15 years max where they can get what they want sexually—then it’s a slow depressing slide downhill, becoming ever more bitter and low energy as the…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:00 AM
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Obviously this is an individual case, but OP’s points are generally correct: 1) Women—especially in today’s society—are extremely hypergamous, which translates into being unrealistically picky. Yes, part of this is because of social media and swipe dating inflated their standards, but no one is forcing anyone to be on FB or Insta or Tinder. However: 2) Women generally refuse to take responsibility for their own lives—especially when it comes to dating and relationships. One of the best things TR…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 06:52 PM
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Great post! I was thinking about this earlier after responding to the post on she's not interested, because guys could get the wrong idea--just because you don't hear from a girl doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Sometimes she's actually busy, or you left the conversation/meeting on a point where it wasn't necessary for either of you to say anything. Perhaps a story is necessary: recently, I pulled a girl from a local bar that's two block from my apt, f-close. The next day she came over and mad…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 08:33 PM
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Become a better person. Get in better shape, make more money, do something creative, be a bigger badass.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 02:13 AM
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Yeah it doesn’t help our cause that most guys get angry when they get rejected. Worst possible reaction.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 02:29 AM
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I wouldn’t have texted the third time for sure. At the point she says she’s going out instead of doing stuff with you cut off communication. Also, no need to send the text the day after you smash—let her send it. Otherwise if you want to hang out again, wait until that time and then suggest something specific or ask when she’s free. But I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Maybe she’s just fucking a bunch of dudes... just learn from it. I definitely fucked up a bunch before I learned this shit—an…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 12:55 AM
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As I've written before, this is why women will say, "I have a boyfriend," instead of "I'm not interested/no thanks pal." Because they CANNOT bring themselves to deliberately tell a man they're not interested and therefore, he shouldn't be either. "I have a boyfriend" implies, "but otherwise I'd listen--maybe sometime in the future." It's also why you have to treat it as a shit test, because if you can prove you're alpha enough, the job is yours. Here's what you do if she's not interested: either…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 10:05 PM
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That’s fair—there are more important things to focus on than that for sure.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:16 PM
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Isn’t the whole point of his question the fact he wants to understand? He’s trying to learn no need to be a dick.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:44 AM
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It is of critical importance that you remain captain of the ship. Feminists and BP's and apparently the reddit administration no doubt see this as a form of misogyny, but it's actually to the benefit of both man and woman, based on our instincts and evolutionary nature. Because at some point, if she takes control and you become first mate, her desire for you will cool. This is why so many marriages fail in our society: we tell men to be the white knight servant of the woman--and to a point she's…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 05:49 PM
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I’m skeptical: unless you’re a total fucking baller, it’s hard, even with good game and good looks, to be so bored with pussy you don’t care anymore—unless you don’t like sex? Like, if you’re actually there, god bless—go forth and slay. But women are so stupid picky these days and so flighty and flaky that unless there’s some special circumstance, there should always be a challenge for you. Plates drop, there are new clubs, new women, different options. What I’d say is raise your standards, find…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 01:33 AM
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The last two women I slept with both did something like this... The first said, "you're just pissed cause you know you're not getting laid tonight," to which I replied, "I never assumed we were going to have sex" and shrugged. Within 30 minutes we were naked in the shower. The second just kept saying, "we're not having sex"--when I asked if she wanted to check out my new place, when we got in the car, when we walked up the stairs, when we had a drink, when we got in bed... and then after she kep…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 01:01 AM
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If you don't want to engage in games and quibbling and bullshit you probably shouldn't worry about getting laid. Women do this shit without even thinking about because they're instinctually driven to do so. Consider the "I have a boyfriend" shit test. If a woman REALLY didn't want to talk to you, a more direct thing to say would be, "hey pal, no offense, but I'm not interested." But women don't communicate directly--they engage almost exclusively in power talk--and there's another reason she doe…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 12:54 AM
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Wow not here in the US... women here are in full on rage over the Kavanaugh thing. What’s funny is it’s proven every single red pill principle correct. When you point out that it’s damn difficult to adjudicate something that happened 30 years ago, or the fact that society has never been safer i.e. less crime, etc., or that misandry is wrong in principle, women here freak the fuck out and go full on emo rage—like absolutely incapable of being rational or logical... And yet when they go to the clu…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:35 PM
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This seems right. Additionally, it just takes practice and like the rest of life there are ups and downs. And it's a learning process--keep your mission in mind and think long term, not short. Using myself as an example, I had a raging August and Sept. Slept with five women, turned three into plates, including pulling a stripper. This month: fuck. One plate is for sure broken. Two plates are currently crashing to the cement unless I can somehow kick save (which seems unlikely), and none of my cu…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:30 AM
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I like the idea if you’re fairly certain she’s down AND there isn’t time to run game or get her number directly, like if she’s busy working, etc. One thing I encounter a lot with waitresses however is that they’re expressly told not to date customers (or at least that’s what they say lol)... in this case I like the note drop—or better yet, a business card with social media and phone number. Because: A) if she’s actually just not interested it’s probably because she sees you as low value SMV. The…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:29 PM
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It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything. -Chuck P Fight Club
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:56 AM
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You’re 100% correct. Some women get so much validation from social media they don’t seek it out in real life. They also get super picky and feel like they deserve some movie star super hot guy when they’re only mediocre looking. Some will figure it out, some won’t, but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. The fact remains that girls still go out to meet guys and there’s nothing more validating than to have a good looking guy cold approach then who’s smooth and knows what he’s doing. And for the g…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:09 PM
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Never mind I’m just going to do it if they don’t let me fuck it.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:38 PM
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I know badass right?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:38 PM
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There’s a cool blog post on this I came across recently. DM if you’re interested. Totally 100% true. Rejection in today’s society doesn’t matter—especially with women.
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:24 AM
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TL;DR -- I'm not actually new -- I have a new handle because I got DOXed by beta lurkers. I have to echo OP's sentiments here. I came across TRP randomly and lurked for awhile (about a year), but after I started to see the changes happening in my own life, I started responding on threads and writing some posts. One post, which some of you may remember, was a field report about the benefits of cold approach. I linked to a blog post--which was my mistake--and some fucker decided to post a photo of…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 09:51 PM
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