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I've been raped and have been with a girl who was raped. It wasn't off putting, however the part that was off putting is the poor communication when it was affecting our relationship subconsciously and us not identifying/communicating about it early on. Men do prefer/want women with clean states. Just as some women would like some men that are just as clean in their minds. They don't want to deal with the trama usually because it's heavy work by default, however if you do excel they do make exce…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 06:41 AM
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I was going to say go for being the breadwinner if you feel comfortable with it, but he has this as a major red flag " He also smokes weed everyday." You are better off being with someone who is clean from drugs longterm. Living in his moms basement is alright, it's a good money saving strategy longterm, but he doesn't seem to have figured out things yet or the chances of him figuring them out may take time or may never happen, that's up on you to take the bet or not. I'm strongly against drug u…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 05:07 AM
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Oh dear, just block him. He is not a dominant, take charge man, he is just an insecure immature boy. I would endure everything except his bullshit about the gym. Never ever give up the gym. Workout is vital. My spouse also likes to take control and charge and he requires me to workout. At home. He doesn't let me alone in the gym because he is protective and doesn't want me to get injured. He knows I am not careless but still worries about me. I don't wear sexy unless approved by him, but unlike …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 04:44 AM
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Was he raised on porn? At what age did he start? I think you both need to talk it out, it could be deeper than that. Maybe even watch a porn documentary and discuss what he feels and if he could self reflect to any of it? https://youtu.be/hzPylqS01qU https://youtu.be/TD_Nvp4BhnQ I found it to be helpful as i've been exposed to it at a very young age
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 03:53 AM
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lol I bet you a feminist woman wrote this one
/r/becomeaman14/11/22 03:34 AM
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That's a good quote. It's a good perspective to help me understand why I feel like this. The impression I got is that he went along with his friends, more like a peer pressure thing, and this is kind of disappointing because I do see him as a leader. It makes it look bad he would compromise his morals due to peer pressure. Keep in mind his confidence levels could be much lower back in the day compared to now. If he is still the same or wouldn't be a good role model to talk about perhaps the cons…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 01:52 AM
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“A man's sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions.... He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer--because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement.” And this is…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 01:10 AM
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Redpill's secret recipe/sauce is self improvement, which is very healthy in any relationship to improve overtime. Most seem to lack that that self awareness/self reflection as they communicate. Have 2 partners that communicate and do that and bam, they will have a much easier time, as 2 partners choose to be better for each other and the family everyday. Some of it's traditional dynamics with it's gender roles, keeps things simple, some people can alter/calibrate some of it, to meet their own mi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 12:34 PM
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Everyone's different, a friend married in 11 years. Another friend married in 5. I pop'd the question at 6ish Your mile age may vary. I do believe 2 years is fine if you are dating and the man's already ready, the one's i've mentioned are more of an organic love growth, where us men didn't have anything ready, were still growing up, going through uni / saving up till the time is right with them. It's nice going through the process of having someone love you for you and not what you can provide, …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 05:31 AM
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I've travelled with male friends before Well since you've done it before he assumes he can do it too, doesn't matter on consent or not, because you've already done it. It's the ego's default. If you had it why can't I? I don't need your permission. I just judge you and go for it. ( Dominance dilemma ) No. I am considering meeting a male friend who is like family to me, for a few days on a layover, back from visiting family overseas at New Year. I didn't decide anything yet, but even then, I'd wa…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 04:45 AM
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The older you are, the more you appreciate peace and solitude. well being is key learning to be content, when you made it, is key
/r/TheRedPill11/11/22 05:18 AM
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With a fucked up dopamine balance, willpower will have 0 chance of winning that battle. It's not a lack of character, it's biology. In my experience environment plays a big role when it comes to getting goals done, whether weight loss, living alone vs room mates or family / colleague influences at cafeteria or wasting time etc We go on auto pilot quiet often
/r/TheRedPill11/11/22 04:30 AM
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(I dont want to lift and im a little scared to do that!) Nothing to be afraid, putting on massive muscles would take years and years. And they can be lost easily by just not lifting anymore, toning them has health benefits as you age, you will feel less weaker You might want to have a look at /r/lowcarb
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 11:06 AM
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He basically has been very direct with you and said he doesn't want to get married to you, In his eyes you are over sexed and it's not going to change unless his perspective changes which is unlikely. You could try convincing him or just leaving. Chances of convincing is very low, It could also be nerve wracking and painful for you to hear his thoughts, Not sure how he may display them, either malicious or sincere.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 10:50 AM
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No need for validation, I have no choices I’m ashamed of or regret ;) you sound like a religious preacher, and I’m happy for you to have religious values. I am always skeptic of religion though, I mean how many churches have we seen with men that preach virtue but molest little boys due to their repressed sexuality? Too many. That's great that it's working for you, Your mile age may vary. Hope it lasts. I'm not religious but was brought up in a conservative home, I still dig those values. Maybe …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 11:12 PM
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Hi, This is a reminder that RPW is NOT purity culture. We do recommend that women should keep their n-count low for themselves and as a dating strategy. We do not consider women who have had past partners to be unsalvageable and we do not automatically default to 'virginity at all costs'. If you are here to keep women pure then you should move along. This is only one aspect of the dating culture today and it is not the be all end all. Too many men come here with the intent to rescue women from t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 10:53 PM
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You sound like you have a really unhealthy view of women. Why is it “just like all the women who say porn is healthy and regret it?” Why is it not all the “people” who like porn? Men far outweigh women in watching porn statistically and some get addicted, some regret it, some don’t care. I don’t personally sleep around and I’m in a loving relationship. However, I don’t objectify any human being (man or woman) to being just “holes” or “sexual parts” to be used. I also don’t judge other peoples li…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 10:36 PM
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What if my sister or mother met a man she felt was as attractive as Brad Pitt and felt empowered and sexually into the situation? Do men not realize women enjoy sex and masturbation too? Why is the narrative that women are used and women can’t use men? How strange. It’s like whoever wrote this doesn’t understand females enjoy sex too lol. Felt like I was transported to the 18th century reading this. So you feel like it's alright to sleep around and have a higher body count before being married f…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 10:01 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/TsyUul3.jpg Believing in redemption and hope is a choice. Everyone deserves a second chance. Most of these people were given several second chances only to keep ruining it further, As much as we're positive on change, I've personally seen serial cheaters keep giving in to their past, Very few make a change. Would your answer still be just be positive about them from a man's side?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 08:51 PM
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you gave an extreme possibly untrue example of women videotaping their virginities being lost to explain your theory? Not my theory, heard it from someone else Hence i called it exaggerated even though it was confirmed Wait, so should only women be pure for their cavemen or are the men expected to be pure virgins too? Will quote from a previous post. "By all means redpill doesn't mean a man has low Integrity and dignity where they just pump n dump women" A man with manners wouldn't be hanging ar…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 08:46 PM
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No offence, but this explanation just makes it sound like these kind of men are the type who get threatened by women being real human beings with sexual needs themselves. The type who would deem a woman their property and get bothered if other men look at her. And certainly the type who would feel threatened by a woman with more experience than them. Wrong, people with high body count bring in a lot of drama/trama into a relationship. The body doesn't forget it sets a score on all that. It affec…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 08:39 PM
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Thank you. Thank you for saying this. I hate that this is going on in society right now. It's ugly, as lies usually tend to be. Back in the day. Virginity displays ones dignity, integrity and honor for herself and her family. It was what was the norm where i grew up in at least. It is truly rare to find a unicorn that ends up not giving it away to strangers these days before their husband. This is common sense but society has been desensitized, they aren't able to grasp what it means to have dee…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 04:42 AM
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Are you kidding me? You're acting like she has untreated AIDS and a heroin addiction. Come up for air Is that all you got from what was said? You sound like you too want others to justify your poor actions and want me to kiss your ass for it. Empathy has it's place, the others are already validating her enough, She doesn't have a lack of that at all. She needs a touch of reality in the mix too. For her own good.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 03:02 AM
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Also you don’t owe anyone You do owe your husband truth as he does to you, that's the basis of trust. There will always be someone, that will accept it. The majority won't. Sugar coating bad choices isn't the solution here. Be more brutally honest. Playing victim at an older age when they know theirs consequences, they see their consequences come to life. They can still take responsibility and make it better, what's lost is lost. Purity is undervalued until it's lost. Some get lucky some don't. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 11:29 PM
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Take responsibility for your actions, everything you do has consequences. Communicate with him that you want to slow down the touch, for the reasons you want and let him know. Example: you'd like to stay a virgin till marriage and don't want to go further with this kind of interaction with a man that isn't your husband. You don't do strangers, that will always stay strangers before your husband. (Think of it from a perspective of your mom or daughter, Would you like her to be touched before her …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/22 05:47 PM
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Sounds like you have a keeper, treat him well before you ruin it for yourself Seriously though, work on yourself, don't make his life hell, seems like a good guy from what you've wrote
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 11:07 PM
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Why bully your husband about his sex performance from all of this? Why not communicate with him and let him know how you feel, let him assure you about the sudden changes. OP here's a video that may help you self reflect : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJ-yksdDzhc&feature=youtu.be Basically be the opposite help him, don't make it worse for you both in the future. He isn't your enemy here
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 11:04 PM
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The comments in the thread and on the Youtube video are far worse than the video itself, filled with baseless attacks on all men. I can tell you're watching the video and trying to find the good in it, meanwhile there's an angry mob hacking away on their keyboard in the background. The video isn't great though, it's still filled with flaws and the good parts of it are more like stating the obvious, "don't date trashy people." But it misses a whole lot If you tell her to learn how to vet well and…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 06:34 PM
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Yup we feminized men struggle sadly we don't even realize we've been feminized until it hits us later on in life, when it all starts to add up and make sense, to me I just realized I'm a feminized guy with a lot of beta kind traits, it's no wonder we're struggling so much internally. World is brutal, life is unfair, and women are chaotic, never trust a womens advice. Ironically my therapist is in her 50s and told me that herself and made me realize I'm super nice guy that has been molded and fem…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/22 09:44 AM
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Set boundaries, lead them, humor their fantasy world, take care of the stuff that requires brainpower etc. etc. If you don't want your woman to be a brainless child then stop treating her like one for fucks sake. Put her through some stress so her body can generate some BDNF to grow her brain and adapt to stress. A better way around is pick a woman that is more self aware and is into self improvement and is improving overtime, she chooses to be better for you everyday as you do for her
/r/TheRedPill23/10/22 09:43 AM
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Oh agreed. 100%. I just get so tired of the RP focus on females. My LTR is very RP and he came up to me one day spouting how women with high body counts have higher divorce rates. A study was done on it. So I asked for the results of the male study? Didn't have it. But I googled it. And guess what? Men who have had lots of partners are also more likely to get a divorce. Who would have thunk it? But much like another person said ..... The body count depends on the person/age. I don't necessarily …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 08:43 PM
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It's not natural to have rings on for men in general, This isn't something to be alarm'd about, However he could wear it for your special days, anniversary, valentines and birthday Would that make you feel better? Discuss/Communicate that with him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 02:44 PM
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Haah! Nice one, Almost got me there
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 12:36 PM
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Religious people tend to learn to be content with faith, this is a mind skill that brings in happiness and maintains it when times are tough with some conviction, since they usually stop bringing in reasons to be unhappy in their mind. Practicing the right type of conscious thought that leads to a better marriage is the key here, and being content over making up new problems and issues for what isn't perfect helps a lot of people out long term instead of seeking new partner experience. It's more…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 07:18 AM
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Red pill women vet their men and ensure they are with stable providers whom they can fully trust to make good decisions for their future family. This kind of advice (just throw yourself after whatever guy, take on all his baggage, and try to make yourself something else to fit his emotional needs) is 100% not red pill. Submission and monogamy is only reasonable with a stable and secure man. My bad, I assumed she has vet'd he ticks all the other boxes, He does need to work on his insecurity, supp…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 05:43 PM
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Make him feel safe respected and loved overtime, it'll take away his doubts. Commit with deep long term loyalty. Make him feel like he's always the top priority in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 04:22 PM
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The loyalty of taking care of him and the kids as he is sick while being anxious even with a full job is incredible kudos for you on that. He will be forever grateful and reflect on that, it is unforgettable very few have such commitment and he'll remember that years later. The only medicine he can get right now is the consequences of his actions years down the road, he will realize how good he had it and has not appreciated what he had. Edit: Just read through post, these comments are critical …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 05:39 AM
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I wouldn't recommend it, it's abnormal. Unicorns out there that can make this work with no issues are very low, and usually there is always one or 2 that'll be unhappy and won't speak about it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 09:33 AM
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https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNU3Yu_O9xa_HddkIwObIOYEonn7oeKr1 Thank you for the list
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 08:07 AM
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I don't agree with her when she mentions men only want young women, It's true that most men may seek younger women however, a mature man wants to build a legacy, take care of family and his wife in general, if he can find that in an older women, he knows the wisdom to go for her over a younger one. If he isn't able to bring kids, then you'll see various of choices, some go for deeper meaning in long term relationships, while others abort relationships (your mile age may vary). However in maturit…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 08:05 AM
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To me it's common sense to just hold him accountable for his actions and not someone else's, I understand your bias could be grown perhaps from people you hangout with or personal families you've seen fall down from trusting certain family's with a similar story? I think it's best you shed these thoughts away, you are generalizing too much, it doesn't always go downhill like that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 06:55 AM
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Now, the history is that I am on the spectrum. I have a very difficult time understanding human behavior but I have strong moral and honor code that I abide by. I have no trouble attracting men but I am yet to find a long term partner. I personally believe that geography is the main issue as I live in a very conservative country (and I am not a religious person). She used to say to me that you have to be mean and degrading to men in order to keep them. And that until she adopted this attitude sh…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 11:35 AM
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https://youtu.be/hytkQI57TSE?t=666
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:58 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/xftbg7/back_to_basics_september_relationship_dynamics/ Here OP this may help you
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 08:01 AM
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I’m definitely persuading him to go to therapy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aP7IxK63DFU&t=2577s just remembered you today, as i was watching this and i thought i'd drop this highlight since i feel like it may help
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 07:31 PM
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I don't know if this anecdote will be helpful, but my husband struggles with bad anxiety. It runs in his family. When we started dating he was even on prescribed medication from a psychiatrist, though he went off of it years ago. He has always been a great partner to me; I've always felt like I get more than I give. I have a lot of respect for him and how he's overcome the obstacles in his life. He also was cheated on, and never treated me badly because of it. The reason I mention this is becaus…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 12:32 AM
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he already knows what he has to do, give him time, be supportive don't nag I hope you've already communicated in a respectful way, keep in mind how often do you beg or ask him for something like that, obviously he knows he has to so the way you bring it up has to be done in a good way without provoking him encourage him by telling him you believe in him and "us" and you both will get through this hard time that should strengthen mental moral state and well being between you two in these hard tim…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 06:14 PM
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what the fuck you know what's crazy my ex told me "i cheated on you because i've had my reasons and i like the thrill" whaaat!!!
/r/MensRights06/09/22 08:41 PM
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:s
/r/MensRights06/09/22 08:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/eJbY1uwVgjA
/r/MensRights06/09/22 08:04 PM
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So the first thing you have to realize is that men and women are different are operate on differing biological imperatives, evolutionary psychology mechanisms, and with different relationship goals. The woman always wants the man to have the right frame, to hold the value in the relationship (be more valuable than her), and to take the lead. That's why women always date up and look for men higher on their social hierarchy than they are, which is also known as hypergamy. This is why your strategy…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 01:38 PM
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Kill the beta inside you. There is no disney, stop hoping for the reality to bend in order to fulfill your wishes... The reality doesnt give a fuck about what you want, it is what it is. Face the truth or live the rest of your life as a sad depressed beta right life is unfair i should wake up already
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 12:30 PM
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Remember, if a girl really likes you, she will chase you even if she knows you're fucking other women. Don't lose frame. Women shit test us all the time, so your version of the shit test has to be proving that she can be loyal to you even when you're spinning plates. this is quite abusive tbh, but then again i've been chasing her even though she's been doing other dudes, it hurts immensely to be betrayed and continue to love in hoping she notices that i'm different, or rather she is just too bli…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 12:02 PM
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this sounds very unideal it's not working at all..
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 02:36 PM
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The same goes for men towards women so its fair i guess as someone who isn't superficial i am quite immune to it i find them rather uninteresting unless if i have a longterm bond where she's actually clingy caring committed as i am to her
/r/BlackPillScience01/09/22 10:28 AM
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double ouch
/r/BlackPillScience01/09/22 10:25 AM
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ouch
/r/BlackPillScience01/09/22 10:24 AM
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Not too crazy Is this the kind of girl who would not ask for a condom or ask me to take it off? Is she very drunk or drugged out? Does what she says make sense or does it seem batshit crazy, overly simplistic, ideological etc Does she have hardcore, fast emotional swings, seem erratic, unable to maintain attention etc.? Is my astrology one of the first things she asks about? What kind of people does she hang out with? tbh, i've never met a women that isn't too crazy, am i blind or just unlucky
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 08:11 AM
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end game is just experience life as it comes pretty much and cherry pick what you want
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 08:10 AM
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let me guess a women is trying to get you to date, jeez they are batshit crazy to not even be able to have general common sense on something as simple as that on the other hand , will just drop this here : Just got some advice from an 82 year old man He told me I can't remember his exact words but i'll try to praphrase "Women are crazy unstable because of the cycles that go through in their bodies, it makes them unstable and probably their brain starts to swell making it hard for them to rationa…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 08:09 AM
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TL;DR: women don't love you like you love them. They never have, they never will. Women are governed by strong hypergamic and selfish instincts, her only purpose in life is to mate with the male with the best genetics she can find, that means you are easily replaceable if another "better" male shows up. Also: women DETEST weakness in grown men, this is why they have no empathy for men and men's problems. Show weakness in front of her and you'll be replaced (or resented to for life), so don't exp…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 08:50 PM
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didn't even know kevin was dead woah Kevin Samuels died of hypertension on may 5, 2022
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 02:55 PM
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not at all, women cheat even in happy marriages while being emotionally happy with their partner https://youtu.be/u0STqvF0BDs
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 10:09 AM
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OP, my fiancé thinks just like you which is why I decided to marry him. He’s very sweet, romantic and highly values the deep, intimate connection between two people. I hope you don’t let these commenters corrupt your beliefs by continuously saying women just want chad. There are many shallow people, men and women. The reason why these men are bitter is because the morally righteous women do not want anything to do with them, including myself. Pumping and dumping random women does not bring spiri…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/22 02:18 AM
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Wew. You are hella plugged in. Good for you to write up what you believe to be your truth. I wholeheartedly disagree with everything you say, but the point of TRP is that it’s a toolbox - whether you use it, or how you use it, to optimise your life is up to you. If you’re in the fix-it mentality you’re going to be wasting your time. Women and men are different. This is a great speech if you’re the leader of a police force, inspiring selfless acts to uphold moral integrity. We’re in the real worl…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/22 11:17 PM
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I agree somewhat with OP's fantasy, however it's so counterproductive to linger too much on this thought. The reality is we're animals and we live in the age of Kali Yuga when all of human desires are on steroids - so there's no point thinking of the potential fantasy that we could have. The machiavellian type men win consistently. high quality nobel causes don't survive and thrive at large sadly
/r/TheRedPill14/08/22 10:31 PM
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i am not even tryung to make you feel guilty to be honest but i think you should know that many men have this male fantasy in their head where one was made for him and shell do anythung for him and hed do ths same when its shattered from trying they just go redpill to cope psychologically with it
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:31 PM
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fair enough if you promised him hes special and youll get over all the bad and good together then you are resposible imo since nothing hurts more than a broken promise over and over
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 06:32 PM
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He talked about my bad behavior and how wrong I was to believe he was distant. I was feeling deeply sorry for my behavior and I promised myself to make up for it, he seemed distant and cold. this scar'd him after all that effort and then the later parts proved that you didn't care it might sound sick but men just have this fantasy in their heads where they really want to feel loved an unconditional love when they've tried their best, they've already earned it in their heads their disney fantasy …
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 11:27 AM
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horrible idea, it's not going to be worth it, virginity loss is a very important stage in your life, it's best you give it to someone that wants to take care of you and the family for the rest of his life he is worthy of it after all
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 07:56 AM
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I think where people get lost in red pill philosophy is they forget the human behind these terms. The general infrastructure is there to help make sense of the world, sex dynamics, and clarify your own thoughts/behaviors. But there are individual people who we're ultimately dealing with, not the essence of the philosophy in some ethereal pure form. While it's very possible you won't find a man who measures up to your dad, after a while perhaps you'll redefine what's really important to you in a …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 07:45 AM
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i mean technically its true a woman cannot really love you longterm when she's doing others or watching a bunch of porno videos, their brain isn't wired in a way to handle it, neither are men she'll love you but lose those feelings out of the blue unless she has a healthy mindset, no reason to fear just find a unicorn out there, it'll be hard but it's doable unless if your super unlucky
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 05:13 AM
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Porn desensitization + psychological issues i think it's more porn desensitization at a young age for years + hypnotic subliminal played with words, some got banned recently but im sure more of that is around there i found some and it was disturbing
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 05:10 AM
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sounds like you neglected him hard for him to look at redpill theory tbh it's people that hurt people that turn them into monsters when they've been at their best over and over sincerely
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 05:02 AM
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i mean i'm redpilled but without the pumping and dumping women and mgtow'd i don't have any hate within me, i'm just disappointed to see/hear that they are annoyingly right over and over as i hear stories and see stuff happen right before my eyes it's quite more common to hear of the rotten side of women because they are privileged to be women and just abuse it in areas of the world where they are put on a pedestal (example western societies) and same story goes to men the rates are higher there…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 04:57 AM
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Issue is, when i act like a suitable longterm partner, women just tend to lie about their history. I dont want to give a women my love and affection when shes giving it to everybody. Work or people you grew up are usually the best choice of knowing them as family that are familiar
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 04:15 AM
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I get that you're on the spectrum so forgive me for my lack of decorum when I tell you that you're in no position to be objective. Here's some fallacies that you're holding onto: ​ Soulmates - No such thing. It's something that you trick yourself into believing because if you're objective about it, if you were born in another part of the world or another time, there would've been another soul mate. Love conquers all - That's just a beautiful lie. You can trick yourself into believing anything. T…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/22 04:07 AM
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Guess we all took uncle Bob's advice at the family reunion in the early 90s when he leaned over after slugging sixteen beers while being six kids deep and told you: "Don't get married, kid. It's a scam." Good looking out, uncle Bob. lol
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:56 AM
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poor dude
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:45 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:44 AM
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I'm sorry body high bodycount phenomena and porn are real bad side effects for your mental health psychology longterm It will distort your perception on attraction, make you feel something's off in the future always due to that sexual dysfunction, i.e., problems with arousal, attraction, and performance, It will dull the reward center of the brain eventually and you'll be less sensitive to what a deep relationship is between you two since you've been frying your brain. This isn't made up but act…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 03:32 AM
1

Because he was virgin, and because his first time was with you, he’s probably having a very difficult time imagining how you could “get over” your first two boyfriends. In his mind, you’re his first sexual partner and therefore extremely significant and special to him. Therefore, in his mind, he’s thinking, “Well her first partner must be extremely significant and special to her.” Unfortunately, it might be hard for him to understand that you truly don’t think about your exes or care about them.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 02:49 AM
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virgin to low is a no brainer
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 02:41 AM
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its woman's choice who they fuck most woman lack self awareness tbh
/r/TheRedPill12/08/22 10:29 PM
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you know what god damn it i'll have to agree with you guys even if you plan up a big plan for the future figure out everything just need some co-operation done from her females just ghosts out of no where change their feelings over night even when they make you feel so important to them
/r/TheRedPill12/08/22 09:08 PM
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Thanks for your kind message, I know everyone is different but how long did it take for you to recover? Still recovering one day i'm hopeful for a full recovery
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/22 09:03 PM
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Technology and feminism has just removed accountability and brought awareness to the power of female sexuality. Not every women wants to abuse men, in that kind of nature, Maybe i'm pointing out bluepilled traits, maybe i'm on denial, but i belieev some women do not want chad but rather the person she's trying to be with longterm as she sets a connection between them as a powerful bond between the two I'm trying to point out the women that lie on purpose and cheat on men just because they've bee…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/22 04:58 AM
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I don’t care about the video. If you’re on a crusade to make the world better go to TwoX and AskFeminists and tell them all the ways that they need to be better then since you’re interested in being fair right? Oh and have a back up account ready So the cycle continues because of…what a MAN did TO a woman? It didn’t START because of what a WOMAN did to a MAN? Interesting (not really just want others to see the internalized misandry) It’s not a war. It’s a marketplace. Only those who can bargain …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/22 04:47 AM
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As we say on PPD “Men bad women good” Nice try Next The video linked addresses that for the women's side actually, A self aware women is important compared to one that is not into self improvement and goes on her subconscious mind with bad behavior with no self reflection for sure or bias from a bad encounter or many just as men. Yet the cycle continues on a women's bad experience with men makes some of them just go out there for revenge playing men out there so it's quite a toxic dynamic betwee…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/22 04:30 AM
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You might be right, but if you've ever posted in this sub before, you should know that it's full of assholes who want to cum on your daughters face and send her home in an Uber. tl;dr don't waste your time Maybe most are degenerates, some might be innocently and will want to go beyond it. It's not a waste of time even if i manage to get a single person to have a better life in the future from a post like this, I'll take it
/r/TheRedPill11/08/22 04:10 AM
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I feel porn damage is very under-rated. https://youtu.be/hzPylqS01qU?t=511 Watch this highlight it's pretty insane that it would cause some men to be like that due to early exposure, Sadly i'll have to admit i've been exposed to softcore porn at 9 while i found hardcore around 13, It had a lot of damage done to me over the years as I grew up, It affected what i would do and say in bed which was very abnormal. I feel guilty that the purity of love was taken away from me without me knowing it's ab…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/22 02:09 AM
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There is a lot of clutter to clean up, I think marriage therapy would help
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/22 02:04 AM
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he is lucky because you recognize that in him many would underappretiate him you both are great bless you both
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 10:32 AM
2

Congratulations not only you don't have cancer but you have one of the best men on earth! Happy for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 06:24 AM
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You chose to do that. No one took advantage. You threw it out like confetti and those you approached simply made a decision to participate. Don't try to blame shift and say others took advantage of what you were simply doing at the time. It doesn't absolve you of your responsibilities or your agency. Someone could also make the case that you were selfish as well by letting others have for free what your husband had to buy to get. It sounds like you didn't get sexually satisfied, however, your re…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 05:15 AM
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Absolutely! I'm shameless though, I'll just ask him to praise me when I really want to be acknowledged. I'm grateful for his patience. I think it's cute to ask to be appreciated it after doing a bunch of tasks and them not taking notice honestly it's just adorable heartwarming and innocent has that energy of pureness honesty
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 04:17 AM
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No, it's not about money. A lot of people go for loyalty and dedication, for instance. I wanted a husband I knew would stand by me if I got cancer or faced some other serious tragedy. Sex is important but secondary to a lot of other things. Would good sex be worth it if your husband ignores your kids, is mean to your mom, never wants to spend time with you, and cheats while you're in the hospital? People with life experience know marriage is about so much more than sex or money. Yes but the poin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 04:13 AM
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Exactly!! Their dopamine receptors are completely fried and those type of females usually and intentionally put no effort in trying to please the man they choose to marry as well. The men they were attracted to when they were younger, on the other hand, got their best efforts in and outside of the bedroom. Absolutely repulsive behavior on their part. Which also makes bonding/trust/faith hard longterm hence a missing connection in their life with their SO, they start seeking it else where thinkin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 03:55 AM
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As much as he has trama about his parents having a bad relationship that ended up in a divorce, try to communicate that you aren't like that. He has to work on that and be mature trying to pursue it to make it work with you if he feels like you are the right one. Clearly he isn't feeling it since he has been asking for an open relationship to see if he can get away with it. By all means redpill doesn't mean a man has low Integrity and dignity for his wife in that kind of manner. He discussed it …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 03:01 AM
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I regret not waiting till marriage too, Feels like a special connection missing that'll never happen to me. But it's alright we can still try to fill in the other parts for it to be special and never give any of that to anyone else but us and the family. It's all good.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 10:42 PM
1

Watch a silent voice
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 05:53 AM
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you can't teach a women boundaries if she just doesn't get it, her foundation of it plus biology just causes it to be a pain longterm finding an aware women is key imo
/r/TheRedPill04/08/22 04:52 PM
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very few get the wisdom of being content and not superficial sadly
/r/TheRedPill04/08/22 04:49 PM
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i've been raped at 17 by a guy and it's the one of the worst feelings ever Edit: just had a flash back about it and it's so weird, i didn't even tell anyone nor did i speak bad behind his back, whenever i was asked about it or brought him up, I'd only speak of the good times I just don't like conflict Thank god i didn't have to be around him for long, he was my room mate for 2months
/r/MensRights01/08/22 06:11 PM
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logic and women don’t go together or using logic to understand women don’t go together. I now understand, you’re too rational for your own good. I’m sorry brother. I hope you find a way to deal with it. pretty much impossible, it's hardcoded programmed within me just like anyone have their code in them, i could brain wash myself but it would take a while like years probably, but i just dislike superficiality i still don't get how that's authentic
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 11:55 AM
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I am not on the spectrum so I will not pretend to understand the challenges that you go through. I hope you find a way to make it work, despite of this. I do feel like you are giving up too easy, but again. You are grown and intelligent man and it is safe to assume you weighed the benefits and costs in a rational manner and you decided that it is not worth it for you.I respect that. Thank you. I wish you the best as well too. Hit the DM’s if you ever want to chat when you change your mind It's v…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 02:53 AM
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I disagree but to each their own. If that is the defeatist mindset that you have and the subsequent existence that you want to have, as a result of it, then who am I to tell you otherwise? God luck. to me it's all or nothing and apparently it's been lost since i'm on the spectrum i just can't grow feelings to any other women, feels too fake with the copy paste lines, and i'm not into gaming them to like me either, so i'm pretty much done with my shot for something meaningful, and i'm not into ro…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 01:32 AM
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it is what it is. we can whine & cry to the man upstairs or we can do what we can to still win in this game. I choose the latter there is no winning tbh, i'd rather skip a childish set up with unfair rules and unfair players
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 11:25 PM
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they are the same species but there are variations among them. most are selfish few are selfless
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:54 PM
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You don’t hate women, you hate yourself. You hate that you were forced to take the Blue Pill, you had no choice, you didn’t know better, no one was there to teach you, to show you the Red Pill. It’s called the anger phase and we all go through it, but an unfortunate number do not get through it and end up stuck, it turns them miserable. As someone who went through it, who went through the pain of this realization and had to start the slow tough climb back up..I can safely say I love women even m…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:46 PM
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Never lie ever
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 10:27 PM
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Just keep it simple, communicate let him know it's something that is a big deal breaker to you as you've saved yourself all your life for him, you want this to be special between you and him, see how he reacts, is he mature enough to understand what it means or is he going to just be childish animistic over such urges. The values of monogamy is highly respected and shows deep integrity and dignity of the marriage, as it has been agreed upon you both in marriage, you are for each other exclusive …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 08:51 PM
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i feel like this applies to woman who are of low quality, a high quality woman would be more self aware and wouldn't be letting this flow always in that manner where she just throws tantrums without trying to process or understand herself in a healthy way as she communicates with you (shit am i sounding like a bluepilled/purplepilled guy?)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 01:37 AM
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there is nothing to forgive, stop thinking of yourself as less for things you may not have clarity for ~coming from someone who is also on the spectrum
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 01:33 AM
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I'd recommend adding a meditation routine that helps a lot in being aware of picking choices and not just letting your brain run the software of the will power theory, the muscle of awareness is a game changer in my experience Environment counts too, being in the right environment helps things become either more effortless or it gets harder due to exposure to unwanted actions possibly draining you at first or even taking you out of balance of what you really want as the end result
/r/becomeaman25/07/22 09:58 PM
1

Ah yes the oldest male fantasy: to be loved for yourself i still believe in it and i'm on denial
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:50 PM
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Different guys, different cities, different women... same pattern. Never stops to amaze me how universal trp principles are. Congrats bro to be fair the east have more chill traditional bluepilled women compared to west, however gold diggers are everywhere
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:45 PM
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I have just been extremely unmotivated that everything seems to make me feel tired, not in a sad/depressed way more in a no energy feel in things I once loved such as hobbies, going out, video games etc. all feel like a chore to do. you are in a burn out, it's alright to take it easy for a while, still take care of your be healthy relax chill and then get back to doing more later do eat healthy, meditate/yoga and exercise for your well being sake you'll get your mojo back in time
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:42 PM
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it feels like women don't really want to support you during hard times it's weird, they just want to take more than give the moment you are vulnerable ofcourse you have the unicorns that have self awareness and improvements, those are what you should be seeking go for redpilled women or women that have more quality of those red pill traits, it'll help a lot, they don't need to follow ideology completely and neither do you, in essence you just want someone to grow with you everyday be better for …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:33 PM
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They want both 1 they marry as ATM 1 they look to sleep with. Remember, Alpha f#vks, beta bucks. If you’re a beta, your consolidation punishment is her replacing you with another man. Your “first price” punishment? Hahaha, real case Happened here. She took his credit card, loan $100,000 out of it, mortgaged the entire house and your name innit, call a lawyer for divorce, keep all 4 kids so you’ll have to file bankruptcy, get thrown into jail, lose all your assets in alimony, and pay child suppor…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:21 PM
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both matter in a superficial world
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 09:17 PM
1

They have some nice positive look outs but some over extreme ideas that need to be toned down, i wouldn't follow their whole ideology but i can agree to some good ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:16 PM
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1:28:00 is spot on, love the self-awareness! Quoting Koko "I would never do anything for another person" https://youtu.be/yhpCARg90Zg?t=3942 Imo A true relationship takes 2 and not one To be better everyday for each other Although with context, I do understand her point if she is a workaholic unicorn, but sacrificing/compromising (it's the same thing) is important, Like if he is really able to provide, I don't see why not relax https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/vx0o6b/my_husband_doe…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 09:33 AM
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I appreciate his character and thoughtfulness, so I’m interested in moving forward How about testing his thoughtfulness There is a chance he is getting his revenge high at her by using you, whatever you do, do not sleep with him before marriage. But that's just me overseeing worst case scenario agenda. A guy that really cares and wants you to be important with him, will understand that factor if it means a lot to you. You do you, face the consequences if anything goes bad, this is just my 2 cent…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 09:18 AM
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they just spam like most likely and then cherry pick who to message
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 03:27 PM
1

/r/TattooRemoval/ If you want to take action on looking and feeling less rebellious with it
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 03:22 PM
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how often would you say is a healthy practice of tantric sex once a month once in 3months? no limits?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 11:32 AM
2

It's fine to go for strength training, it's actually quite hard to put on muscle, and is almost a genetic impossibility to be that bulky/unnatural look for female genes, just don't take steroids that would really make you look unnatural with health consequences (possible unwanted side effects too) which isn't ideal, otherwise you are fine If he is a person that takes feedback you explain to him that it's fine and he is misinformed he's someone that has a healthy mindset, if not then he's not lis…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 10:30 AM
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No one gets it all, You cannot score a 100% in life, We all do what we think is best at the time. Raise them with all the best ideas/values and explain to them why you think in that manner, Let them learn how to think and navigate life on their own. They will find their way eventually, even if they fail, they will calibrate around it, we all do. Life comes in seasons, sometimes it's bad and then a good season is just around the corner. Even these spectrums can be gifts, they are what made eienst…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 11:25 AM
2

idk about "norm" but it happens. I've heard kids threaten to call cps on their mums for taking their internet away, read stories about kids claiming male teachers touched them out of spite, so it's not a stretch. Children are not great at thinking about far reaching consequences. back in my day none of that shit would fly, mom/dad would just hit/spank the crap out of us till we obey lol and honestly i have no trama or anxiety.. from those beatings, but i was confused if they loved me or not, but…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:49 PM
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Ah ok, been dealing with too fembot trolls, I get a bit kneejerky. And back in the day I'd have agreed with you. In these times? Idk. Even kids know how to weaponise that shit. jeez really kids weaponising that as a norm these days?
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:37 PM
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Did you read the article? Men are killing themselves for the shame of false accusations. Men are being socially outcast as pedophiles and abusers, their careers, marriages, reputations and families ruined over false accusations. Why are you minimising this? oh i'm not, i just meant he'll be alright if he lets his daughter invite her friend over, maybe i'm too naive?
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:18 AM
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I thought that was just an internet meme. People actually buy those sex toy pillows? yes look up weaboos and comic on youtube videos, it's quite cringy tbh but hey atleast they arent harming anyone?
/r/MensRights18/07/22 08:31 PM
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A man has to be insane to be a teacher, or any profession, where you're alone with children these days. I have a daughter and am divorced. I would never let her have friends over, or especially spend the night, unless my girlfriend was there, too. This is male common sense 101. hey i feel like your too paranoid a chance of such drama is low or either i'm just asleep
/r/MensRights18/07/22 08:12 PM
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The world is unfair for both genders. I hope the bitterness from male mistreatment doesn't cause more men to take this out on general woman. Woman are being treated pretty badly these days in different and new areas. It's not a competition and regressing the rights of one sex doesn't help the opposite sex. . . Todays political climate of repressing certain groups to liberate others. Is just damaging all round. Fair people need to learn to look out for eachother. And improve all of this. There's …
/r/MensRights18/07/22 05:31 PM
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Now compare that to female behaviour. Females self-obsess over their own beauty and expect males to fight over them. Narcissism is female in nature. this is true they do always want to be the best it's kind of sad however some harness awareness where they go beyond it and become amazingly beautiful
/r/MensRights18/07/22 11:53 AM
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1- redpill discovery 2- redpill rage 3- redpill acknowledgement 4- redpill application 5- redpill results You are going through the discovery/rage phases, and it's a shock. You have to get thorough the initial depression safely. Take care of yourself, use all the resources available to you. or he could just chill and take care of his well being and not follow societys norms
/r/MensRights18/07/22 11:10 AM
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Narcissism is female in nature i don't think so, i believe both males and females are capable of being narcissistic due to bad foundation
/r/MensRights18/07/22 11:06 AM
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Put in the reverse situation would she stay with you? Would she think about your wellbeing before her own? If not then you have some thinking to do. some do justify it as self love and ditch you, very few have the heart to stick towards hard times, someone that does stick with you during the hardest times, are worth being there with no second thoughts about it
/r/MensRights18/07/22 11:03 AM
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As a man who had to divorce a woman who kept quitting doctors and counselors as they narrowed in on her mental health issues, let me share something I learned. (It wasn't her usual MO either.) You cannot say to yourself, "she is not in her right mind". If she refuses to get help, she IS IN THE MINDSET SHE CHOOSES to continue in. An alcoholic who won't admit they have a problem and seek help will only get worse. And their families will suffer with them. A mentally ill person who won't admit they …
/r/MensRights18/07/22 11:01 AM
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UPDATE I found and read my wife’s private journals. In them she talks about her history of trauma and mental health disorders and makes several other comments that I believe clearly support my story. Among these comments are that her parents emotionally neglect her and that I am her best and most consistent support system, since I always try to help her even when I am the one that she’s being mean to. I have taking pictures and intend to move them to a safe location in case they’re needed as evi…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 10:57 AM
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try practicing mindfulness, try mediating
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 08:07 AM
1

Do not pet the unicorns. yes mam
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 12:11 PM
1

yikes
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:47 AM
1

sluts usually try to ruin other girls into having more sex so they don't feel like their at a disadvantage, they dislike purity since it threatens them but what does this have to do with mens rights? threads are getting silly but i do get the point that they also do shame men as losers that can't get sex but again how is this related to men rights again? and why is this upvoted to vahalla?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:43 AM
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i've been there and i can tell you it's a recipe of pain soon ex and then she'll replace you and she'll probably continue that cycle for a while unless she wakes up from it somehow
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:40 AM
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apologies on sounding harsh, i'm pretty much talking about the obsession of make up culture where they made end up with mental issues over it which isn't healthy, sorry if i may sound out of context and attacking perhaps this subreddit may give you an idea, what i'm actually pointing at some people even makeup/doll up their 5 year old it's pretty scary tbh and unhealthy longterm for her/him, they get into a weird state of obsession you can imagine they can't live without it just screams unhealth…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 09:39 AM
1

I’m a “never wears makeup” because I found it fussy — lady that's actually so attractive you have no idea, to me it's healthy to see a woman not lying about her face on a daily basis, but that's just me natural beauty is great and so underrated since marketing and society has pushed it as such a culture norm that people have lost simplicity sake
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 11:51 AM
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Exactly When they stop trying so do I when someone stops trying, finding out the root to why they've fallen and helping aid it back to a healthier place is a better approach and vice versa for you, you'd like someone to help you get out of your own rabbit hole if you've fallen, it just feels better that way it's a healthy approach of growth with ongoing calibration when flaws or spikes happen that's the basis on an unbreakable/unshakable relationship where both are aware and are trying to make i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/22 09:58 AM
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You're talking about a system that imprisons men that can't pay child support. It's so fucking bizzare. Imagine going to prison because you literally cannot afford to support yourself much less your child and it's baby mama (cause many women use cs payments to fund their own lifestyles). If women were being jailed en masse over child support payments it would be nixed tomorrow. poor dude
/r/MensRights08/07/22 05:30 AM
0

"the male element is a destructive force, stern, selfish, aggrandizing, loving war violence, conquest, acquisition, breeding in the material and moral world alike discord disordr, disease and death" ~ Elizabeth cady stanton lol
/r/MensRights08/07/22 05:15 AM
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guys this is getting silly, neither man or women are supposed to even reach the period of a kid being born if their not ready to have one, and neither the sudden option out of this unless if someone else consents to taking care of it and is capable of doing so be responsible with integrity and dignity on both sides and not just 1 gender
/r/MensRights08/07/22 05:13 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect correcting link
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:43 AM
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high quality men are aware beyond their monkey brain chatter, they don't really give in to keeping that the center of their life, they are more than content with a special connection with their wife just treat him and yourself well, take care of your health and be active that is plenty of beauty for just being healthy both mentally and physically at your age range, he will love you emotionally and physically for that
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 04:33 AM
1

sadly it's a biological trait if you are strong in a jungle you can take care of me so i am attracted to you doesn't work with the world when you are nice and can get things done with money they still subconsciously crave that bad boy behavior unless if they've been into self help/development and are conscious to re-channel that energy into knowing they don't want/need it and choose something more healthy instead very few women are from that sort of value
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:32 AM
1

Women aren't held accountable for their actions. Sorry but it's the truth. Women are drowning in so much privilege that they don't even realize it. The fish is the last to know it swims in water. man i feel sick how unbalanced and unfair the world is when people have such bad behavior with all the benefit of the doubt given to them
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:29 AM
1

wow third wave feminism is just silly..
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:26 AM
1

scary
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:25 AM
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Misandry is not real Men talking about their issues is "whining" Yeah, I find it so disgusting how women make fun of men for being “big babies” when they’re sick i think it's more like people just being mean and toxic over women just being shitty towards men, the rate is higher on women being mean to men because they are in their own burn out experience from the world and they just lash it out and blame men over it, not really understanding the context of it
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:04 AM
1

my dear my dear my dear please kindly get some therapy, i don't think you need redpill forums from where you are right now bless you
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 05:14 AM
1

A fetus is not recognized as human unless it starts having a heartbeat. Until then it's part of the woman's body. And what do you mean by "taking accountability" in the case of abortions? They're clearly taking responsibility for thier pregancy and choosing not to have a kid that would be neglected. yikes i think it's time you come out of the brainwash you've had so let's kill your dad before he has a chance to be born sounds like a great idea, he wasn't alive right? that's what your saying tech…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 01:15 PM
1

I didn't have male friends in the first place. But if I did, then I would have given them the slow fade. you are beautiful, bless you
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 06:28 PM
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careful with the hook up culture, it's a low quality area with short term experiences not valuing longterm commitment/quality, i wouldn't recommend partaking in it, if anything avoid it
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 06:27 PM
1

On the first one, I'm not really sure. We talked about it a few times, I apologised, and we went on from there. I think that trust is something that is regained when the other person shows behavioural changes. I haven't acted the same way since then, and over time his faith in me has grown. However I also believe that he'll always be more sensitive to any attention seeking behaviours I might exhibit, as he should be. thanks for the reply, did you cut out all male friends since then?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 06:22 PM
1

Thank you for posting this, even though I know it must be painful. I was in almost the exact same situation, but I am lucky that my husband decided to forgive me. how long did it take for him to forgive you? how often did you apologize for the past?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 06:32 PM
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plenty of men love petite women, and plenty of men accept a woman they are emotionally involved with without being that critical of such silly superficial standards as they are dropped overtime as they become more mature overtime we all age, and natural youth/face/body beauty is lost overtime, true beauty is the bond made between you two and how you can treat each other well with love and respect even at older ages it seems like you dodged a bullet, he isn't mature nor is he is self aware of wha…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 06:06 PM
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I’m a caregiver. For a while I worked as a home health aide. Stick with me, I promise this is relevant. For a while I worked with an elderly man called Bob (not his real name). He lived alone. He was in his 90s. He was mostly independent but he needed some assistance after a motor vehicle accident. I would go to his home and help him with his basic needs (showering, dressing) and house chores. Bob was an old-school high value man. He was a widower. His wife stayed at home when she was still aliv…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 08:18 PM
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nice congratulations
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 12:22 PM
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porn desensitizes you and makes you expect things that are not from your unique own connection which ruins longterm sex robbing you of greater experiences and satisfaction in that part of sex life better to detox and be more realistic, no one is good at sex from the first get go, it takes practice and it gets better overtime as you both communicate through it
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 09:15 AM
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Will any man love me ? absolutely many will love a woman that is self aware/self improving/is able to live with integrity and dignity daily while loving herself, her husband and family with her beautiful femininity you posted Ashamed of my body count number … which is attractive, you are practicing humility/shame which are healthy signs of you being aware that something that isn't morally right has been done and you want to stop it and or improve the situation, which is a great self reflection, …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 09:50 PM
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This is supposed to be common sense, why would you share something that is sacred meant for only 2 of you? We have become so desensitized to the basics such as these I understand there can be unhealthy/unideal levels of practices even between 2, but even those are meant to be overcome by the two of you taking a healthy committed approach of improvement together
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/22 08:15 AM
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Oh please. There are plenty of things in today’s society that we didn’t “evolve” to do - doesn’t mean they’re all harmful. porn is dangerous, it can get too dirty that you start questioning what is moral about such taste if sex is meant to be sacred between you two, introducing out of control addictions is just plain wrong to the mind which just ends up going for more and more deep down the rabbit hole of doom of new problems and issues arising longterm affecting your natural bond feeding your b…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 01:02 PM
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It takes roughly 30 days of not watching for the pathways to reset in your mind. That should help with you feeling more satisfied. However, your mental pathways are one things but if you enjoy those videos beyond that, then it is something you will have to manage or seek help for. Porn is very addictive, and it effects most men that watch it by lowering their overall drive and causes weaker or trouble staying aroused during real sex...as their brain is wired to feel their hand and view porn. For…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 12:51 PM
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losing your virginity to a friend is just not a smart move this isn't encouraged at RPW at all if anything we ask for you to save it for marriage to show real high quality
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 11:36 AM
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Does anyone know how a person could determine their ideal weight? I’m 5’6.5" and 134 lbs but my chest is very small unfortunately and hasn’t changed since I‘ve started puberty. It sucks because I have broader shoulders and small boobs so the top half of my body looks very masculine which sucks. I also do not have the wide hips to overcompensate for this. I was thinking about gaining weight (but I would gain most of it in my lower body) so I was thinking about implants instead. stay natural many …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 01:51 AM
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it blows my mind how people don't get this as common sense to be honest
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 07:24 AM
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what you really want is inner value states and not really the external, the external is a plus extra if you can get it, if not don't worry because it fades away as you age older you will realize that it was a good thing you cultivated and unbreakable unshakable bond from the start that even the looks as you age older won't matter as you both are beautifully happy and content with each other however the bare minimum is taking care of health being in a healthy weight biologically helps both sides,…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 07:04 AM
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Today I had an experience that triggered me to think back to an extremely dark time in our marriage 4 years ago. In short, my husband was in a very serious car accident, out of work for almost a year, severely depressed and suicidal, injured, in pain all the time, you name it. It was probably the worst time in my life, in his, and in our time together as a couple. Thanks be to God and to his incredible doctors, counselors, PTs, SLPs etc he has since made an almost complete recovery and he is doi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 06:59 AM
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It is actually a lot of things that I can't unpack.Some are double standards.Some are about smv.Some are about my stupid mistakes here's some brutal honesty we all do stupid things when we are unaware, life is unfair not everyone is equal at getting a good start at life on various stuff what you can do is just go for self improvement wherever you are at life from there continue to improve to reach the goals that you set yourself for not everyone reaches their goals either from trying which sucks…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 06:57 AM
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I did that. A few times. Usually it results in him saying I’ve nothing to worry about and I can’t get rid of him, and that he knows his temper is bad but I shouldn’t take it personally, then repeats the pattern. I think he’s aggro because of my certain repeated behaviours that I struggle with, such as sleeping too much or not hearing him, and the repetitiveness drives me insane. Like his repeated behaviours drive me insane. in this case you both go to a behavioral therapist seems like a good ide…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 06:49 AM
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Thank you! Oh but he’s fully aware of it, and also completely remorseful at times. He genuinely does go out of his way to be good. But can’t control his temper. I am definitely going to disengage like others suggest. you can time out respectfully on bad behavior repetitively so he gets to care more and/or choose to love him in it and he may actually love you more on that or calm down, I've personally done that with my SO but i'm a man and she loves it find what works in your relationship just tr…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:23 PM
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this is true while life is unfair it's hard to know what really will workout for you in the end with your choices feels like even saving virginity may have its pros and cons with progressing relationships, but in my opinion just as a man or women they would love to have it all, but they can't really have it all, very few people have it all or none do you could say
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:13 PM
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Not communicating this behavior would be gaslighting him, As he isn't aware of it and men just can't feel these things clearly at times due to burnouts, neither can they read your brain emotions/thinking clearly Talk to him in a logical manner and make it very clear, How you feel and what you want from him next time he speaks to you in a burn out, make sure the setting he is calm and not clouded by emotions that day as it's easier to listen and reflect in that period, you can also try and mentio…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:06 PM
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sure virginity matters and is a nice eye candy touch between 2 but it's not everything just keep your count low be careful life is unfair and no one gets to get it perfect, no one has it all very few people make it for this current gen to meet the first person and it works out perfectly, so don't worry too much, just do your best with your integrity and dignity
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 04:47 AM
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that's all on you, but yeah do your best when vetting with decent dignity and integrity it is an honor after all to respect your love/SO before you even meet him/her I personally follow that golden rule for myself
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:10 PM
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a high value man likes a woman who can't really perform in bed, it makes him know she's clean and low count, it's a privilege to be able to touch a woman who is clueless in bed compared to one where she knows what to do it screams high count and used up, doesn't feel deeply connecting when a man has sex with a woman that feels too familiar to it, there is a factor in innocence that catch that moment as special between us, the first factor just save yourself up for your man and practise and progr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 01:06 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71TsgQavVkM
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:02 PM
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don't bother just move on, clearly he's not worth your time, i've done the same problem with my ex by retrying everytime and it just became worse and worse, i even found out recently that ex has been cheating the whole time even while acting like there was never a cheat moment, even while i smelled and saw it all happen, i waited for a moment where they would come clean with their moments to why and yet it never came instead we just broke up and I was left like I have no value ironically. one wh…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 05:45 PM
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tbh he has a point as in who are you to tell anyone how to live their life? afterall to each their own
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:51 AM
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personally, my core value is not about banging some meaty vaginas, marriage is more an experience of having a partner that you are compatible with as you may raise up kids if you decide to bring any or adopt.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:12 PM
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yeah most women are easily impressed by things that make them feel so art/music that makes them triggered with constant emotion is key to keeping them as they are bird brains that don't really logically think like males when it comes to logical thinking long term, even if they have a gold mine of a man they'll toss it away for some stimulation that's how dumbly cheap they tend to be without even noticing their flaw even if you were to point it out.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:59 PM
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going beyond limits of gender alright
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:03 PM
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by transcendence do you mean the no ego?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:20 PM
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sinus damn i've been always drinking my kefir with my vitamin d.. i never really got any sinus are you sure about this?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 03:03 PM
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aww
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 10:07 PM
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well they are illogical and emotional so it does make sense
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 01:25 PM
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would eating around 60grams of protein be enough to gain some lean muscle?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 02:06 AM
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so technically.. i messed up by abstaining myself from her and the other guys got her before i could.. and i am no longer in the formula of love:(.. what a cruel world i've rejected sex when we had the chance.. i'm just not sure what to think now about morality
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:30 AM
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