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Escalation & Calibrationwarrenrb1981/r/seduction14/04/22 07:04 PM
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Yeah get married. Gotta start somewhere right? 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction17/07/25 07:53 AM
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I think he’s actually asking “How do I know a girl likes me BESIDES the fact that she does things to get my attention, because she does attention getting stuff to everybody?” I don’t know how to discern this besides just trying to shoot your shot and seeing if she’ll reject you or not.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:18 AM
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Duuuhh
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:16 AM
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There you go. That’s how you say it!
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:15 AM
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I get what you’re saying, but you’re saying it verrry wrong. And I don’t know how to correct you.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:38 AM
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Do NOT listen to this guy!👆🏾
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:36 AM
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Based on what I said above “Approach girls, if they reject you, ask them why”. This would be litterally the “direct approach” but just naturally being yourself, then if they reject you, you confront them with “How I just thought you looked attractive to me, and I genuinely thought I had a shot. What’s did I do or say wrong to make you not interested?” -ANY MAN who says this is not lying, and the mere fact that you have the balls to say this to a girl that you just shot your shot at (and you have…
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:31 AM
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I"ve updated my previous response a bit... But you have to start somewhere. Whatever city/town you are from, you need to find a wingman to go out and fuckup with. Do not settle for nothing.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:46 PM
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I was actually agreeing with you. But yes, If you adapt your skills for online they will meet you, and you take it from there. Its same odds as offline (to get phone number and date) if you do online approach steps properly. Online approach 1st starts with you having good pictures (showing different types of fun, different scenarios, different types of outfits, etc...) AND an opener that isnt being abused by the masses. If you have stale/dated pics (winter pics in summer, summer pics in winter, …
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:39 PM
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For starters, if you aren't doing anything nefarious, you shouldn't give a fuck about peoples judgements. So what if you look like a creep? Being creepy isnt wrong or illegal anyways. Its their opinion of how you look. And dare them to say that to your face so that you can then ask them to tell you what you're doing wrong/creepy. After getting enough feedback, you notice some responses may be founded and some are not. Now you'll realize some people are just stupid and not worth your time anyway,…
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:22 PM
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You need to build your self esteem.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:23 PM
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If you don’t be a creep, they won’t see a creep. Simple.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:18 PM
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Even in dating apps, the goal is still to meet them offline.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:13 PM
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Good fucking job!!! Fuck approach anxiety!! Its a lazy dudes excuse for wanting to do pickup, but not.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:55 AM
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No. Leave her alone.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:10 AM
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Doesn’t matter why she doesn’t like you. Have self respect to not chase her down like a dog who’s lost his owner. There are many fish in the sea! And if you really need an answer as to why, just think - you met her at a club, she probably was alittle drunk and inhibitions were down, and you didn’t look the way she thought when she saw you again. This has been my reason for ghosting girls… And they weren’t even ugly, just not how I thought and really not my type.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:09 AM
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Formerly Real Social Dynamics. It was a group (of now solo) pickup artists in early 2000s who were trying to start a pickup company or something together, but things fell apart.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:58 AM
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No it’s not. Picking up girls is the game, not the method(s). If you follow these coaches, they say the same stuff in general because that’s how you get a girl in life. On or off the internet. With or without a coach. But people do all that shit differently. Just like putting a basketball in a hoop. Some people are good at it from long distance, others are good close to the hoop. Some have pretty shots, others have ugly shots. But find the best way for you. As long as the ball goes in the hoop a…
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:53 AM
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That’s why wingmen are needed.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:44 AM
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Everyone is afraid to try. Lol.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:06 PM
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My sure-fire way? Stop them and ask for directions. You can do this ANYWHERE. ANYTIME. To ANYBODY. “Excuse me, are you from around here? I’m trying to find “a Good place to eat” or “a good place to hang out”, etc. (The idea is being vague for them to think alittle.) You can test it out around Times Square. Either they help you or they don’t. You can do this SHAMELESSLY all day long. Once they help/ engage you, you steer interaction the way you want it to go. My idea of using this is particularly…
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:58 PM
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This is bad advice. HIV means death, herpes means an ugly and itchy rash on your mouth, genitals, or ass coming and going forever. But what do you expect in a world where some people diseases are hoaxes.
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:51 AM
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Does nobody fear AIDS anymore?
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:39 AM
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Please, no offense, but I would bet you're probably rich and/or being taken care of by very well off parents.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:06 PM
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Cringey is an opinion. Its better to be cringey than being boring and not thought about at all. And you can get better at not being cringey. Cringey is getting better at not being boring...
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:03 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 This is like saying "Why do daygame when you can do night game". If however you do it, you approach, build attraction, escalalate, then end up in bed with her who cares if its through text, in person, skype, or email?
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:19 PM
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I'm so proud of you🥲😂
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:37 PM
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Doesnt have to be a first date. Could be 3rd, 4th, or 5th date... They could be telling you for you to make mental bookmark of a good place to go on a date, when you're ready.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:09 PM
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Aaahh, you’re so right sensei. I follow you now!🤣🤣
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:58 PM
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I can’t speak for anyone else but myself. I have fucked up situations where a girl clearly liked me (not clamoring like I am Justin Bieber, but based on her body language interest and attraction was there on her part) and I fucked up the occasional amount of times it happened. I’m still not good at not fucking that up, but now i don’t fuck it up as quickly, and I have been full successful with some. And I attribute it to PUA.
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:55 PM
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🤣🤣. Ok. And you must be a girl, who doesn’t understand men can lack proper social skills. And got taken advantage of by one of these “losers” one too many times. And because you’re jaded for only God knows what reason, you judge PUA without knowing anything about it but hearsay, an don’t even ask why I suggest mystery. You’re just like “aaahhh, stop bothering women!!”
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:29 PM
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Ok. So you think if a girl likes a guy, he says or does something that makes the girl not like him anymore, and the same thing happens every time a girl likes him… He‘ll be fine, right? No need to find out if he’s doing something wrong?
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:21 PM
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And actual PUA gurus, like Mystery, who can find on YouTube, have their own methods and styles of concepts. A lot of overlapping areas, but they go through the whole process differently. One of the main points of PUA is it’s a process. Btw, mystery and his method is the best place to start understanding what PUA is and how it works, then look for other gurus to see which method best works for you.
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:13 PM
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Maybe so. But you can fuck it up so that she doesn’t like you. PUA can save you from that. That is SURE AS SHIT a reason why guys won’t have confidence… Because they don’t even know that they say or do something that turned the girl off (because of not recognizing social cues or body language). But they do know when they talk to girls it doesn’t work, so now they’re scared to talk to them…
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:02 PM
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Good argument. You’re right. I’ll stop picking up girls and just wait for them to come to me.👍🏾
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:46 PM
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It’s because the system is still inefficient. If you don’t have someone show you how to do something properly and you get bad results, you stop trying… or keep doing it wrong and keeping l getting bad results. Then you have people here on Reddit who don’t know WTF they are talking about telling people what to do - a shitload of posts and responses here are useless. Litterally not even telling legit PUA advice. That will fuck alot of people up too. Then there’s naysayers like u who’ll get a perce…
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:37 PM
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PUA TEACHES SOCIAL SKILLS TO NOT VERY SOCIAL PEOPLE. What is there to not understand?
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:04 PM
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This belongs in /WTF sub. This guy or girl is delusional and/or nutz. If we were instead talking about playing soccer, or doing coding, he is essentially saying “we are all good at playing soccer and coding. The problem is soccer has more people playing soccer than before, and coding has more people coding than before. THATS why you don’t get picked to play soccer games. THATS why you don’t have a coding job. So if you just be confident that you are good enough, soccer and coding will come to yo…
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:01 PM
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Another question, are you picking them up and taking them right back? Or is this after a few dates?
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:22 AM
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If you have any of their numbers, why dont you just ask them what happened. You couls even bait them with a worse case lie to see if this is what it is or if its something not as bad or close... Say: "Hey, I'm sorry about when you were here the other day. I used new bath soap that had created an unusual allergic smell on me... I smelled funny. This is why you left, right?" This should make her either agree or correct you, if she is interested in helping you.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:20 AM
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This is good info too. Thank you. I'll try to gross her out till having babies sounds like a bright idea, j/k
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:25 PM
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I like these
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:20 PM
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If you do it logically back you accept her frame that she guessed right, also that you dont read profiles, and that you made a mistake in the first thing you said to her. It will all amount to having lower value - even if she doesnt stop talking to me.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:01 PM
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This is good. Could use this for any joke that goes awry.
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:53 PM
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Approach them.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:31 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 hardcore.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:14 AM
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Yep. Only other possibility is she was trying to rope you into some kinda cuckold scheme…
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:18 PM
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You had an on night… You were social glue, a bunch of your guys just having fun, recently married woman recognizes you from social media and you recognize her too, but you have a crew with you so you’re looking more alpha. You’re not showing her man to woman attention( or at least trying not to), and this makes her want you more - IN THE MOMENT. It’s text book game, ESPECIALLY when you’re even not trying, like really being a nice guy by not taking advantage, plus going and talking to other girls…
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:59 PM
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I totally agree. Still interested?
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:08 AM
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Still looking for a wing?
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:01 AM
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Good job sticking with it. You need a wing bro. A wing will come out with you, keep you motivatated, tell you shit that they know, and give you tips (right or wrong) about what u could do better. Basically, you wouldnt do 1 approach in a day if you had a wing... Why dont I see posts about people looking for wings in their city?
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:59 AM
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Get whatever you can get, just dont be stupid and fall in love.
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:44 AM
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Lol, so I went to hard closing for the date huh? I kinda thought so, but our conversation has taken days off like this before so I wanted to confirm if I did something wrong. So should I even contact her? Because I think I can start it up again. I dont want to lose value by seeming needy or something. And I am mainly getting practice dealing with her.
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:19 PM
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Unless u have a microphone and are able to hear their whole coversation, and also know that the guy just picked the girl up, you dont know what he's doing to get laid. I have friend friends who we talked about pulling girls and I never knew what they actually actually said to get the girl. If u sid know what someone said, there would be zero use for learing pickup.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:54 AM
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You seemed smart when you recognized it being pickup and that it attracts low self esteem guys, but completely lost credibility saying it should be banned on internet. Until u start sounding reasonable I pray noone takes your advice.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:18 AM
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To answer your question, i think the first one is, i just dont know how effective. You know yourself that 2nd one isn't. Push-pull is really reverse psychology. Show/tell/give them something they want, then take away from them.
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:21 AM
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Ok, maybe not arrested... But he definitely doesnt want to lose his job one day because of this.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:12 AM
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He doesnt fully trust you and doesnt want to get arrested.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:42 AM
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Technically speaking, yeah 🤣🤣 But I dont know you to call u that. I just say it for effect so that u can flush those ideas down toilet, and hopefully who ever else reads the post later doesnt embrace those thoughts either.
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:38 AM
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Bro, stay away from social media and TV as much as possible, read more, and/or go back to college. This will help clear your mind and give you real shit to think about, besides judging other people who you have no clue as to how they got with the girl you see them with. You need to go out with someone proven in your area, or find a coach online, to work with you on your pickup skills.... For gauds sakes, you think you've done something by only approaching ‐ which to me means you probably dont do…
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:41 PM
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Now you, dumbass number 2... Why would you learn from a guy who is not getting girls to NOT GO GET GIRLS??? Does that shit really make sense to you? If you've even gotten a girl before, you would realize in his cry out for help that he did the things that take no push back - grooming, dressed better, hit the gym, colognes, yada yada.... But what where he failed was getting help getting past how ever he was fucking up in his approach - because he NEVER got past that. Its step NUMBER 1 in trying t…
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:25 PM
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Why would you be scared to talk to a girl because someone else is? Getting a girl is not like joining the military or becoming a doctor or some shit... I say this with love: Thats stupid thinking. Get that shit out of your head.🤨
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:11 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:16 AM
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Yeah it is. Some women+men can reach that emotional connection quickly. What if she actually only did that for you - are you doubting how attractive you are? And what if the guy habitually sleeps with girls on first date - what does that make him? Food for thought: Is a 🎅hohoho still a hoa if she wont sleep with you?
/r/seduction18/03/22 12:50 AM
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👏👏👏💯! Makes no damn sense. All complaints. Zero accountability.
/r/seduction18/03/22 12:40 AM
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Holy smokes, 3 hours? I gotta find that one. Lol!
/r/seduction18/03/22 12:29 AM
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I agree. Todd Valentine is more my style, but even he agrees you should take what you can from other people too. Plus hearing other perspectives sometimes clarifies wht the other may be trying to teach.
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:25 PM
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How did this play out?
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:35 AM
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Go on youtube and check out Todd Valentine or Sergio Sorokin. Sergio is same guy Todd, but sergio channel gives specific information explaining pickup tactics.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:09 AM
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I gotta try this line. Seems pretty complex!
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:28 AM
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This is good because she's qualifying herself to you...
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:27 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:35 AM
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You havent built up enough interest or value, you didnt iron out the logistics (where do you want to go, what else do you have going on before/after we meet, what could possibly make u cancel, you're not going to stand me up right?, etc.) and you lost value by confronting her about flaking on you.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:29 AM
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Thats not flirty. That maybe funny (not to me though).
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:18 AM
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Bro. I think you are doing good. Keep doing EXACTLY what you are already doing. You are just trying to have as many as your friends when you are not trying as much as them. Continue to focus on your studies, and just get girls the way you already do - when you see them and you wabt them.👍🏽
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:16 AM
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You need to know what and how to communicate with them. Thats number mostly it. Everything else is not as important.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:05 AM
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3 girls in 7 months??? Bro, you're doing better than most of the dudes in this reddit... There are people in here doing so bad that they dont even want to talk to women anymore, they now want to prove to them that they don't need them... Find out what your boys are saying and/or doing, and use that. Simple.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:00 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 You guys are assholes
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:49 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:46 AM
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Fuck that. I've told my friends just go home - I'll meet you there tomorrow...
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:44 AM
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Take him with you so he can see you be a beast. Just dont let him stop you. He might get a kick out of it and female coworkers might over hear him talking about how savage you are. And now you've just turned pickup into social capital...
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:42 AM
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The problem is they're not as focused as you. When i was in the Marines, me and my boys in there KNEW WHAT TIME IT WAS. We'd go to the club, split up, regrouped to shoot the shit (when we bumped into each other), split back up - then alerted each other when there was 30 minutes lefts till lights came on so we can make sure we left the club with something (number or the whole damn girl). My boys when I got out and went back home thought I was crazy.... But I didnt give a fuck, i still circled the…
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:37 AM
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Who do you watch or following for pickup and/or dating advice?
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:25 AM
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So maybe you need to work on your emotions game, so they stop flaking.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:24 AM
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If you're not going to read and/or comprehend the full response I wrote, I'm not going to go back and forth with you. You're right on two points - picking the right woman could be a skill, and it should be learned AFTER you can speak to them without saying something that will turn them off/away. And yeah, my first paragraph should make no sense if you think choosing the girl is the only skill needed to getting girls... All in all. It doesnt make sense to embrace approach anxiety and to then rebr…
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:14 AM
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Yeah, it is a nunber game. But its funny, I feel like the dating platforms meter or cap your likes/matches. Also, I dont know what platforms you use but i personally noticed that wed/thurs/fri after 5p (I'm EST) seem to be better days to boost. I also think I boosts increases them liking you (waiting for u to match) and increase them getting and seeing your like (to match with you) even if you're liking a bunch girls all the time. Who do you follow for pickup advice?
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:52 AM
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Im not sure what you mean by quality, but I personally dont think quality matters that much if your honing your pickup skills, because to me its about getting better at each step - not about the girl. Find a girl that you find atractive, go through each step of pickup till you're consistently getting what you want, AND THEN improve quality (which would also improve and fine-tune you pickup game). Also, I think (and could be wrong) that he's not talking about trying to bag 3 girls at the same tim…
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:32 AM
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Hey, its better than my 1 duckling that I have right now. Its not going to be perfect. Just get to know them, once you see you dont, start working on getting a different one, till one seems like a keeper (if you're even into settling down).
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:03 PM
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Im not trying to offend, but this seems like hype for those unvolunteered celibates i've been hearing about. Some girls are headaches, some are not. Everyman should have a girl, or be able to get one. Not just deal with it..
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:00 PM
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