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| 3 | Taming "Approach Anxiety" - a gradual desensitization thought experimentThis seems like a good primer. I see its practicality and I suspect it would be effective. That said, I don't like scripted games, personally. You're drilling in behaviour that is not concretely beneficial. There is no solution to approach anxiety for me. Regardless of circumstance, the most I'm going to get out of it, on average, is an average interaction. Pre-selection is key for me. Did the sparkle of her earring catch your eye? Comment on it. Ask about it. Caught a whiff of a heavenly perfum… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 08:24 AM |
| 28 | Whenever I (30m) make decisions for us, ie, where to go eat, my gf (29 f) gets frustrated.Here's what she said, boiled down: "I propose I spend your time doing this." You replied with "How do you want to spend my time?" You should have replied with: "I propose I spend your time doing this." She pitched an idea to you and you just kinda caught it. What she wanted was for you to toss it back with your own spin. Her: "Let's go out for dinner." You: "Let's go to the Mata Hari." She's imposing her will on you. You failed a shit test by not doing the same to her. She is literally demonstra… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Losing my attraction to womenWe sound a lot alike. It's funny: the learning you ascribe to opiates, I ascribe to amphetamines. They enabled a detached, emotionless analysis that I learned a lot from. For me, amphetamine withdrawal is not severe; I simply am exhausted for a week, lethargic for a month, then get better. I don't think our paths are all that dissimilar. I started mine two decades ago as a young teen with alt.seduction.fast, so a lot of TRP concepts are very deeply embedded. I'm pretty sure that with the right (… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Losing my attraction to womenThank you so much for saying so. I was starting to really wonder about this sub, haha. I know some shit here sounds Dark Triad, but the girls both knew I was involved with others until I tried and failed to restrict myself to the one. The drugs are no longer a factor. Hell, I got uncomfortably high off of one cup of strong coffee today. Total lightweight now. There is a faster, smarter way: to learn from the experiences of others. =) I'm here to try get some grounding, because I'm at the point w… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:04 AM |
| -5 | Losing my attraction to womenIf you say so. The discussions about her professor were initiated by her. She brought up his account on Rate My Prof. Strongly negative, correlated with her perspectives. I know Chomsky. He's one of my academic pillars, and this prof was making unsubstantiated and uninformed claims, perhaps as bait to assess who actually got the material. Yeah, I got a little long-winded. Felt good to write. *shrug* | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 07:02 PM |
| -16 | Losing my attraction to womenOMG how true! There's a girl I was seeing when I got into my current relationship. I was honest with them at first. Two women at the same time is hard for me to juggle, especially since it was my first time doing so, and I was rather hard into drugs at the time. Blah blah blah, cheated a bit, got caught. Been rebuilding shit. Had that girl over for a visit about a month ago. I told myself I was not going to even hint at sexuality. She left glowing about me. Admittedly, she's a Linguistics major,… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Losing my attraction to women>drunken sex with some slut from a club Start approaching elsewhere then. Soblem prolved. I'm a kinky fucker. A little over four years ago, I made a FetLife profile and was completely honest about my sexuality. I have had incredible sex since. That said, my sexuality is aggressively sadistic/dominant, so it plays right into what a lot of women want. Moreover, these girls are often hurting for a real connection. I'm over two years with the same woman and the sex has never been better. The one-nig… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 05:13 PM |
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