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Well, yes, but not really. As I said, any serious competition is getting shut down and the big ones all act in unison pretty much. I‘d love it if what you say was true, because that‘d really be enough for me. But it genuinely isn‘t - people are trying and getting shut down. Gab was targetted and even sites that didn‘t want to comply had to because paypal and hosting sites threatened to pull services if they don‘t ban certain speech or people. I mean, I guess we can just disagree on this matter o…
/r/MensRights11/12/18 05:50 PM
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The argument is more that the internet is becoming more and more a utility. I know it is privately owned, but so is a park or a street (in some countries, not all). The problem really ovcurs because not only do individual websites police what you can say or not, but so do servers, payment processors, etc. Gab, an alternative to twitter, was being refused by hosts and payment processors for reasons beyond their control. Honestly, the internet isn‘t free, but there needs to be change that allows i…
/r/MensRights11/12/18 05:12 PM
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Yes, yes it does - or at least it should if it works as a platform, not a publisher. Your phone contract won‘t be terminated simply because you say something controversial. However, the phone company will work with the police should a phone call incriminate you. Now if it was a publisher... it would also mean that the company is responsible for any and all libel/slander on its site, as well as anything else published, which it clearly isn‘t (or doesn‘t want to be). Besides, the private company a…
/r/MensRights02/11/18 04:24 PM
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... okay, that‘s too far. It really isn‘t. A man chose to have sex with that person, and there was nothing wrong with it. They had sex with exactly the person they saw. I respect the right of a man to break up with this person for that reason, or to be angry, but claiming it was sexual assault is just as bad as when women claim they were raped because they regretted it afterwards.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 12:45 AM
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That‘s fair to point out. Thank you.
/r/MensRights05/10/18 03:36 PM
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I still find it hard to believe the numbwrs are this high... I mean, maybe I‘ve lived a sheltered life but I don‘t know a single person who‘s experienced severe violence from a partner (but multiple who have from parents or siblings.) I also seem to recall statistics saying 1 in 4 women experience domestic violence, not severe domestic violence. I‘m on mobile so I can‘t check right this moment, but I‘m just curious really whether the numbers really are this high.
/r/MensRights05/10/18 12:52 PM
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Tbf, it‘s next to childhood diseases. I wonder if he can cure circumcision.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 09:23 PM
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Thanks, that‘s interesting to read!
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:15 PM
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Jesus. The fist thing I learned reading crime manga was that after a certain time has passed, a murderer cannot be held accountable, even if it is proven that he was the murderer. I think in that specific case (based in japan probably) it was something like 20 years? Now we can just accuse someone of a crime 36 years ago and think that that‘s a perfectly reasonable thing to do?!
/r/MensRights29/09/18 02:06 PM
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I‘m afraid there‘s not much besides a common uprising that will immediately change it. Likely it‘ll get worse before it gets better, and worst case scenario it‘ll be 1984 before change happens. I guess making people aware is the first step, but „first they came for...“ is pretty accurate, so I‘m not sure if there will be anything done. Outrage will typically not last long enough for the powerful companies to be held accountable.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:22 PM
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This is not just an issue of men‘s rights. It‘s an issue of free speech, an issue of censorship and an issue of tyranny. I‘m afraid that this kind of thing will become more and more common if something isn‘t done about it.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 07:58 AM
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I have a girlfriend. Thankfully she's a reasonable person, so she doesn't expect I change for her, she doesn't expect me to do everything for her and grovel on my knees to get her appreciation. She's thankfully the kind of person that realizes a relationship is a two-way street. I probably still spoil her a little. She looks at me with those puppy eyes and I'll sigh and tell her fine, I'll go get that thing she's craving. Not every time, but often enough. Because I don't know why. I'm probably p…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 03:46 PM
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Wish I could upvote this more than once.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 03:40 PM
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I realize that the issue isn't SOLELY concerning men's rights, but I think social media has infringed upon men's free speech and the ability for men's rights activists to talk enough in order to warrant this post. I have already submitted an answer and I strongly encourage everyone to do the same. I don't know how impactful it will be, but one can hope. Perhaps if there are enough concerned voices, there can be change and something that sets at least a precedent. Of course, it could be for naugh…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 03:35 PM
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Fair enough, it didn‘t have a great impact but the people who did support it were at least well intentioned. You don‘t need to cheer, just acknowledge that some people are still reasonable. Personally, it gives me hope that some who aren‘t locked into their mindset may see reason. Either way, thank you for keeping calm. I just wanted to put attention on the fact that it‘s beneficial to give individual people the benefit of the doubt, and not throw away the whole batch because of a (group of) bad…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 01:16 PM
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There's no point in calling out bad behaviour if you're not going to applaud good behaviour. This is the kind of thing where people go: Fuck it. Assume that you have a teacher. You're pretty bad at the subject, so you constantly get something like 40% in tests. You work really hard and manage to pull yourself to 60%. The teacher, instead of applauding your hard work, just laughs at you and says that you're still awful and that it makes no difference. Wouldn't you feel demoralized? There's a chan…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 10:47 AM
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this... made me sad. :(
/r/MensRights29/08/18 09:58 PM
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You make some good points, but I disagree that these cases are completely the same. A child is dependent on their parents and teachers, in a way that a citizen is not to police officers, and an employee isn‘t dependent on their employer (they, as an adult, can pursue legal action for example). I was abused by my mother, not sexually per se, but the one person who I trusted over anyone else was the one causing incredible harm to me. It took me well into my teens to realize this, before I had assu…
/r/MensRights19/07/18 03:50 PM
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Fair, but perhaps it‘s more the way you day it? comment you responded to got upvotes after all. I agree that the age of consent laws are a bit iffy, but I do think that it‘s the best solution we have. Since very young teens and children are unlikely to have the world knowledge and experience to recognize when they‘re being exploited, and more importantly are often in relationships with a clear power dynamic (parent, teacher, etc) it‘d be dangerous imho to have no age of consent laws. Though I‘m …
/r/MensRights19/07/18 08:44 AM
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:( I feel bad now. I mean, I cook quite a lot, mostly cause me and my partner like very different things and we make everything from scratch, so yeah there‘s a lot of dishes that add up, but I wish I was as organized. Even when I try to put everything away, things always get used constantly and it‘s a mess within an hour again. Maybe I just suck at cleaning...
/r/MensRights01/07/18 03:41 PM
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Did you read the „when I‘m with another man“ part? Do a lot of men really butt in when they see a man and a woman talking in order to hit on the woman? I don‘t go to bars, so I wouldn‘t know either way, but it doesn‘t seem that likely.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 11:25 AM
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It‘s the crazy. Don‘t fuck the crazy.
/r/MensRights17/06/18 01:40 AM
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Different perspective. There are actually some cases where people who tried to help got convicted themselves. I‘m currently not really in the mood to go search for data, but there definitely are cases where people who had good intentions got into trouble, or got hurt and had police simply watch. Helping others can be a risky business, and if you have a wife and kids to feed, it can sometimes be a risk you have to take into consideration. I don‘t find it surprising that some men just don‘t want t…
/r/MensRights13/06/18 12:45 AM
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No, they don‘t. We castrate/neuter/spay animals all the time, and if they‘re not pets, it‘s usually done without anaesthetics. But I agree that men are last when it comes to humans. It‘s pretty sad.
/r/MensRights12/06/18 10:32 PM
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Oh, my bad. I thought it was 80%, but I‘m clearly misremembering. Thanks for the correction.
/r/MensRights04/06/18 06:47 PM
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Sadly, men consider 80% of women to be above average, while women consider 20% to be above average. I‘m sure that a larger percentage of women would also be mostly fine with attractive men (especially rich attractive men), but it‘s harder to qualify as attractive as a man. (Also, some are interested and when they realize the man doesn‘t want to date them longterm and doesn‘t consider them wife material they go back on their initial feelings and claim rape/harassment.) Men will generally see most…
/r/MensRights04/06/18 04:20 PM
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Absolutely, you are right.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 07:26 AM
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Reminds me of someone who got told they were greedy because they took all the hard and well paying shifts. Like, wha? Nothing to do with greed; some people need the money. And men often do more so to pay for their wives.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 07:40 AM
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idk. Clearly wasn‘t their concern.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 02:29 PM
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Not so sure, honestly. I mean, some definitely. However, I‘m pretty sure the seeds of some of the stuff that is said now were already sown back then. The Scum manifesto has a line that is very reminescent of today‘s patriarchy theory. There were already internal conflicts back then as well, from radical lesbians (you know the kind - all PIV is rape and such) to people who wanted suffrage but not militar service to those who wanted military service for women. Feminism definitely had a point back …
/r/MensRights28/04/18 08:45 AM
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Recently heard a lot of commercials like - ‚This is bob. Bob does things the stupid way. This is Anne. She is smart and uses our better service! Be like Anne.‘ The general gist being that it‘s always a guy who‘s doing things the bad way and the woman that‘s smarter and better. Idk, they probably think that if they dared have it the other way round, there‘d be a massive uproar.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 05:05 PM
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Agreed. I don‘t think trans people should get special treatment, and I demand none. Many trans people are deluded in thinking that the world needs to cater to them. (eg. people shouldn‘t reject them romantically, which is nonsense. If someone doesn‘t want to date a trans person, they don‘t and that‘s entirely up to them.) People who mock the idea that some people have a genuine psychological issue that impacts their life do exist, though, and that annoys me.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 05:14 PM
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We can argue over 'trangenders' who don't physically transition and/or have no gender dysphoria, but gender dysphoria is clearly a mental condition. If someone is convinced that they're Thor the Tundergod, then sure, it's all in the head, but it's a problem regardless because it negatively impacts their life. It has a physical cause (in the brain) and there are methods to treat them. Sometimes, people with disorders cannot be healed, they can only be treated so that their life can be lived norma…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 02:32 PM
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Fair. I forget about MGM sometimes as I don't live in a country where it's common, and it's been a while since I've been to school.
/r/MensRights16/04/18 09:01 PM
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Probably depends on how young. Once boys reach the age of like, ten or so, they start to 'resemble men', so they start to have less and less 'cute privilege'.
/r/MensRights16/04/18 01:20 PM
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Really? So men can't understand women's issues either? No white person could understand what a black person goes through? Anyone who hasn't had any children cannot fight for father's rights? This is needlessly divisive, and also very identitarian. Look, I understand the idea that you should rely on yourself foremost, but you seem to be paranoid more than anything. Yes, some people will be in it for gain, but come on. Anyone risks their neck by being a men's rights advocate (and yes, in my countr…
/r/MensRights19/03/18 10:23 PM
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While it‘s good not to depend on others, I believe there is reason to believe empathy is possible. People like Karen Straughan are proof enough that it is possible for women to empathize strongly with men, and understand their plight. They may not know exactly how it feels, but they can still care.
/r/MensRights19/03/18 07:21 PM
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I honestly don‘t know. I know there are studies on twins who were separated at birth, but wouldn‘t know if it was done in this specific case.
/r/MensRights04/03/18 06:48 PM
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No, but we have good evidence that it is influenced by genetics (twins are significantly more likely to have the same sexuality), and evidence that it is biological in some sense (the more older brothers a boy has, the more likely he is to be gay). So it can‘t entirely be a social thing, at least being gay.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 10:53 PM
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I‘d see it analogous to more something like feminazi. I mean, that‘s a word that has the same meaning as radical feminist, but is much more judgemental and loaded.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 05:58 PM
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Unfortunately, that's a very simplistic way of looking at it. Just like every dogma, people who fall for it believe in the lies that people are telling. Male feminists genuinely believe the revised history that women were always oppressed, and genuinely believe that this madness will help women become more equal. There are probably stupid ones among them, but there are stupid people in every movement, even within MRA, and stupidity is not necessarily the person's fault, and doesn't mean they wil…
/r/MensRights21/01/18 07:26 PM
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Look, Tofu is a traditional food which is eaten in certain countries alongside meat. It‘s not a meat substitute! Just because it is used as a meat substitute by a lot of people, doesn‘t mean it originated that way. And to many people in asia (e.g Korea where I‘m from), it‘s a staple food. I may as well say that bread is a rice substitute. Just not true!
/r/MensRights20/01/18 11:59 AM
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Fair enough. I think of it like being born with a micropenis. It sucks, but it‘s something you‘ll have to deal with in life. Kinda like hair. FtMs often lose hair in transition, but I think of that as a kind of genetic lottery thing. There will always be things that you cannot control which will impact how partners see you. Either way, I think we agree pretty much. Life is not a wishing well where your every whim can come true. Sometimes biology is against you. If you‘re trans, you have some sev…
/r/MensRights18/01/18 05:46 PM
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Just one thing - I don't think it's the vast majority who don't have orgasms any more. It is true that the ability can be reduced, but it highly depends on the kind of surgery you get. For MtFs, it's a chance-based thing (though they can likely still orgasm through the prostate, if they enjoy that kind of thing), while FtMs have a choice between Phalloplasty (creation of a penis using skin), and Metoidioplasty (extension of the natural clitoris, which grows during hormone treatment). The first w…
/r/MensRights18/01/18 05:27 PM
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Agree so much :/ As a transguy who hasn‘t completed transition yet, I don‘t expect anyone to make accomodations to me. I let people believe I‘m a butch woman (if I don‘t meet them again anyway), and I always tell people that they shouldn‘t worry and that I don‘t get offended. Some people try and that‘s nice, but it‘s not something I expect or demand. In terms of partners, well, I think I‘d be pretty selective about my partners anyway, but I think a lot of women wouldn‘t get together with me on a…
/r/MensRights18/01/18 12:58 AM
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was in a similar boat. I didn‘t think of it as abuse either. :/ Sure, mine was less physical abuse, but the recising history, threats to kill someone/herself, etc sounds very very familiar. It‘s hard because you love her, but in the end I moved to a different country. It wasn‘t easy (she attempted to steal my passport and new apartment keys at some point) but now I don‘t have contact with her any more. My dad still lives with her; apparently she laments how much of a terrible child I turned out …
/r/MensRights29/12/17 11:48 PM
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People mistake words being arbitrary to the meanings of these words being arbitrary... yes, "man" is called "man" because we decided to call man "man". But that doesn't mean that there isn't reality behind the word. It's exactly why "male" and "female" are debated to be "social constructs" - because some people prefer playing semantic philosophy. :/
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:32 PM
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I really wonder why veganism has allied with the feminist movement so much... I mean, I get the whole idea that vegans are usually more "conscious" of what they think of as discrimination, but it's just so frustrating that many vegans are also spiritualists (i.e. believe in crazy esoteric shit that has no basis in science) and feminists (i.e. this example, which also has no basis in economic reality). It's sad to see how most vegans focus more on the part where their diet 'gives them more energy…
/r/MensRights26/12/17 10:53 PM
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Pssst - You said patriarchy twice! sorry i just wanted to help. Also, do you have a link to those studies about societies where men rule over women and women rule over men? That sounds interesting.
/r/MensRights26/12/17 08:24 PM
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You know, I just recently played "Life is Strange: Before the Storm" with my girlfriend, and I sorta see this exact thing in that game, and the comments on that game. I should mention that this is a very feminist-inspired game, it feels like (For example, one of the characters literally comments that Shakespeare was just a "dead white guy"). So, the entire series has a lot of male villains, and rough characters, but this story featured a 'deadbeat mom', who was a drug abuser and hadn't seen her …
/r/MensRights26/12/17 08:13 PM
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Ehh, I feel like that's a very arbitrary line, since it all progresses very slowly. Besides, if that was the case we'd see widely differing tendencies between countries, which we don't really. Small differences, but not that many.
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:28 PM
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Yes, that puts it quite a bit better. I'm sorry, I feel like I may be preaching to the choir, so if I am, don't feel offended and simply rejoice in the fact that we agree. I don't want to say that current feminism isn't a problem, and I recognize that they are having a terrible case of "grass is greener". I just also want to emphasize that both genders do have value, maybe not in the same way, but they are important as they are two sides of the same coin. I also wish to say that there are except…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:26 PM
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No, for a long time we still had specialization. I reckon it's only in the last 100 years where we really tried to drop specialization, where most work doesn't require physical labour any more. (Even then, women's and men's choices differ significantly.) And I understand. I'd find it hard to go celibate. I just think it's important to distinguish between a personal choice and a general formula. Choosing to avoid women for safety is something I can understand (I consider it myself), but we need t…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:15 PM
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I am very tempted to write this off as trolling, but I won't. Here is the serious reply: That's how biology and evolution made humans work for centuries. It hasn't been long enough yet to completely invalidate that. The women that cared for their children were more likely to successfully have those children grow up, while the men who protected their wives and tried hard to feed both the wife and the children were more successful at the same thing. Note that the woman's survival is essential for …
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:08 PM
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Yes, the physical side indeed, but women do their own things. They are more likely to be nurturing, want to help (nursing, social services etc) and their existance helps men mentally. (Most men anyway). We are, as I stated, one species. We can‘t have women or men without the other. Children, ideally, need both parents, and society needs well raised adults. And women can still contribute beyond, even if it is in mostly nonphysical ways. Waitresses, nurses, etc are still performing a valuable serv…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 05:08 PM
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I agree with you mostly, but there are exceptions. I think that my biggest problem is that usually in these works of fiction, ALL women are brave and heroic, when in reality, it‘s a rarity to see, and it would be a lot more realistic if there were different kinds of characters. However, while people have no qualms writing cowardly or manipulative men, there are rarely any instances of negative female traits... I think that‘s the real problem - lack of diversity (funnily enough).
/r/MensRights19/12/17 12:12 PM
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Honestly, I‘d say if it‘s gonna be like that, avoid women altogether, as sex is one of the most dangerous things you can engage in. Especially with someone you don‘t know and trust. (And you cannot form a knowing, loving bond when you are avoiding non-sexual contact). Apart from that, I don‘t think the „we don‘t need them“ mentality is healthy. Seen plenty of feminists say „We don‘t need men for anything but maybe reproduction“ and see how that turned out... :/ Men and women are part of the same…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 11:40 AM
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I don‘t really get dating anyway... I always met my partners through common interests and got to know them before asking them out. And I do have my own requirements, thank you very much. Then again, I don‘t blame people who do this. My first concern, for example, would be whether they are okay with living in a meat-free household or not. I don‘t want to convert anyone, but as a life partner, we‘d have to be compatible. So... whatever really. Anyone who asks these questions is at least being hone…
/r/MensRights13/12/17 11:54 AM
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All humans are.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 07:56 AM
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True, it‘s not all that clear. My guess is that his native language may be a very boxy language, like German maybe? Or he just loves commas.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:15 PM
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Only one comma of that first sentence was wrongly used, though. ;)
/r/MensRights24/11/17 09:33 PM
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Yeah, as a trans-guy, I experience exactly this lie as well. "No is no" was taught to me at every corner, except my girlfriend complains that I stop immediately when she says no. "I want you to continue despite my protests," she says. I'm like - I can't read your mind! :T
/r/MensRights31/10/17 11:51 AM
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It sort of depends, I think. As long as he wanted the child and he is still involved in the kid's life, and makes significantly more money than the mother, I think it's a reasonable thing to do. Then you have cases of men being tricked into parenthood, mothers demanding full custody and full payment for no good reason (man isn't abusive or anything, but her claiming that shouldn't be an auto-win, she would need hard proof)... and cases where you clearly aren't the father. Yeah, there's lots of c…
/r/MensRights17/09/17 11:17 AM
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I encourage living as the desired gender. Hair, clothes, make-up etc can do a hell of a lot. Changing names, etc is all not a problem at all. I'm just not sure if we should be encouraging very young physical transition. Then again, someone below said that there's evidence in favour, so I don't know for sure. I guess I'll probably retract my statement for now. :/
/r/MensRights08/09/17 07:50 PM
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Unfortunately, Transition is a one-way-street. Once you're transitioned, there's no easy way back. It's risky, the effects on the psyche that the hormone blockers can cause aren't fully studied yet, and while I agree that on terms of passing, MtFs have the worse deal, that's hardly reason to disregard the massive amount of children that change their mind. Being trans isn't a choice, but children are often not completely capable of telling if they are trans. And even if they know and don't change…
/r/MensRights08/09/17 08:39 AM
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I disagree with it being child abuse, much like you wouldn't call Contergan child abuse, but much more a terrible mistake. Most people mean very well, and are listening to medical advice. I just think it's misguided.
/r/MensRights08/09/17 08:26 AM
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You know, I've seen a lot of trans women... and I think some genuinely think that all the bad things they experienced as a man was due to transphobia, when in reality it was them being men. That, I think, is the only reason why some trans women can be so into the feminist rhetoric. They are just too self-absorbed to realize that all men face problems, not just them. Just a small observation. I think some people seek out victimhood.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 11:41 PM
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I personally heard, though I'm not absolutely sure on this, that trans people that undergo surgery often have a post-surgery depression. They tend to often think that surgery will change everything, and they tend to project every problem they have onto the fact that they're trans. So, when they realize that surgery doesn't change their lives, they fall into depression. I think this accounts for a lot of trans people's misery - the fact that their transgenderism becomes the main thing in their li…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 11:11 PM
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As a transguy, this so much. At 12 I was trying so hard to be feminine, wearing lacy dresses and shit. So much changes when you grow up, and you get a sense of time. I see people arguing for early transition all the time, but I disagree so much. Below 18, you should not be allowed any permanent changes. Crossdressing, heck, even name change or use of whatever devices you need to feel comfortable, be it stuffing bras or packers or whatever, just don't do anything that permanently changes your bod…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 11:01 PM
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There will always be people who believe something for the wrong reasons. There are MRAs who believe in men's rights for irrational reasons and those that believe in it for rational reasons. Similarly, there are feminists who are genuine and try to find a logical path, but haven't been exposed to the truth yet, who would abandon their beliefs if questioned correctly, and those who are religious fanatics. Not everyone will be able to fo research and logically think things through to their conclusi…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:56 AM
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That's interesting. Nevermind then, good sir.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:39 AM
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Just from my limited knowledge, it seems that genetically creating a child from XY/XY chromosomes would result in a 1/4 chance of a YY baby. However, I think it's entirely possible that such risks could be avoided, I don't know enough about it.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:32 AM
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As a trans guy, I disagree with transitioning early. Even if it meant getting better results. I just don't think one is ready to commit to such a thing when one is young. I needed to be 20-ish to say with confidence that I had gender dysphoria, and I believe it's imperative that you have the mental capacities of an adult for that decision.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 01:30 PM
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Such a shame. I doubt they'd have caught a woman in a similar situation, even if she actually was a pedophile.
/r/MensRights26/08/17 01:05 PM
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Well, I wasn't exacly answering to you ' Sorry for any confusion!
/r/MensRights14/08/17 05:26 PM
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Oh alright. I live in a fairly temperate, cool place, so I guess I never thought about it that way. And if someone was concerned about something like that, they could realistically just cover their nipples or something without having to wear a bra. But I guess nobody does even that. Yeah, I sorta understand. Not really a problem over here, though, so no experience regarding that.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 01:08 PM
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Okay, I'm a trans guy so my experience might be different, but bras are horrible. They hurt, they aren't nice and they are simply a pain in the arse. After my early teens (12-14) I simply decided that bras were not for me. I never wore bras because I value comfort over... whatever it is bras provide. I don't get them and they're awful. My gf obviously doesn't think that, but even she agrees that they get uncomfortable sometimes. So I'd really say... rude? Really? I don't see it. As long as the r…
/r/MensRights14/08/17 12:13 PM
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Goddamnit. But why am I surprised - nobody really noticed or cared that I was abused by my mum, just because she's like, 150cm and generally really petite. How could a small little asian lady be scary, hahaha! :I
/r/MensRights11/08/17 05:07 PM
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I'm trans, but I think a good portion of trans people are men in dresses/women that have short hair and get read as lesbians anyway. Since I haven't really fully transitioned, I don't get offended that people think I'm female. I'm a bit sad maybe, but I don't make a big deal out of it. It's hard enough for people to wrap their heads around it. I think people who get upset and offended are pussies that think their every whim must be catered to. If they don't look like the gender they're transitio…
/r/MensRights11/08/17 05:02 PM
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I agree, they're aren't. All I said that that could somewhat reasonably be argued for, while fully transitioned people, they don't even have that argument supporting them. You know how it is - people complain about having the wrong genitals in the wrong environment, whatever that means. It doesn't mean they're right, but it is how they feel. (Note: Feel. Irrational.) So from that point, I can accept that line of reasoning, even if it's not sufficient grounds for discrimination. :I I really think…
/r/MensRights28/07/17 09:31 PM
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...wait, what exactly is backwards about my views? :T I'm not exactly sure what you're talking about. I don't feel my views are very backwards. I try to be understanding of all sides, and, well, I don't buy into the LGBTQ+ narrative of gender spectrum and trigenders and whatever, and also believe that simply preferring certain pronouns or a certain style of dress, without the want to change your body (i.e. gender dysphoria) doesn't make you trans, it makes you, well, someone who doesn't fit into…
/r/MensRights28/07/17 02:30 PM
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Fyi, I am trans and have a trans girlfriend. She has almost fully transitioned while I was with her, from start to now. Most of the medical complications obviously come from surgeries (SRS in both, with top surgery being an additional thing for FtMs). I don't believe that anyone is put on HRT irresponsibly, at least not from my experience (Britain's NHS is really stingy with their allowing of HRT), but hormone treatments do impact your psyche in my experience. Well, it might not be something tha…
/r/MensRights28/07/17 09:24 AM
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I'm not sure about the "not everyone who is trans suffers from gender dysphoria" thing. I do think it's necessary for you to have gender dysphoria. Then again, what gender dysphoria is exactly - a mutation, a birth defect or a psychological condition, we don't really know. I do think it's not right, especially for a fully transitioned, physically able person. During transition, I can somewhat understand, however - it's like a second puberty and while it's not like you're not functional, there ar…
/r/MensRights27/07/17 07:29 PM
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... for the longest time I thought the post was about being pRetty xD That was the most confusing read in a long time...
/r/MensRights23/07/17 04:13 PM
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If you want to, sure. (:
/r/MensRights25/06/17 09:33 AM
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Does it matter? :o
/r/MensRights23/06/17 07:20 PM
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Definitely planning on doing so. It's a topic that's criminally underrepresented.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 06:45 PM
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Hm. I don't know, honestly. I've seen a lot of people in the exhibition shake their head and walk away after reading a little bit, so some of it definitely wasn't in line with what they were expecting, and many didn't finish it. In terms of feedback, I'm not sure there was a lot of focus on the content of the work. I've numerously mentioned how I want to do something on men's issues and against feminism, so it can't have been something people just didn't hear, but at the same time, I feel like i…
/r/MensRights23/06/17 06:44 PM
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It's mainly an argumentative thing. There's pretty much a TERF/radfem, an intersectional feminist, a regular, off-the-street feminist-aligning person and a more MRA/egalitarian focused person. They're discussing a project and then arguing for/against certain beliefs. The topics are how a female only team is not "diverse", how domestic violence is not just a male-on-female issue, how it's absurd to argue both that men are inherently bad/toxic and that gender is completely arbitrary, and lastly mo…
/r/MensRights23/06/17 06:38 PM
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To a certain degree, I agree with you, which is a bit of a sad thing I guess. :I I didn't want to push the message too hard, à la these christian comics: https://www.chick.com/reading/tracts/0055/0055_01.asp Instead, I wanted to try to be somewhat neutral I guess, while making some clear arguments? I don't know if I succeeded fully, as most of the tutoring was relating to the format and presentation, while the main person I relayed information to was my girlfriend, who has pretty much the same v…
/r/MensRights23/06/17 04:49 PM
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I successfully graduated with this project, and it was at the graduate show. This is how it looked in person: http://imgur.com/MscrAoa I'm not sure I adequately portrayed the issues of men's rights, however, it was more my goal to spark discussion and thoughts on why people never talk about it, and to bring up these issues in a setting where it wouldn't seem like someone talking down to them, which is why there is a lot of feminist perspective. I think some of my tutors were confused at certain …
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:36 PM
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What a world we live in where it's perfectly okay to deny climate change but not okay to deny a very flawed argument like gender theory which has no scientific basis... :/ As a tranny, I am just baffled by people's inability to logic and common sense.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 11:58 AM
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That's why I suggested affordble insurance. And yes, it will come off taxpayers, but health is important to a functioning society. Overall, we need health and education to be as affordable as possible for the well being of the entire country. No, I don't mean to say that we should pay for everything, but, since you're probably situated in America, you do realize that a lot of people can't afford any kind of healthcare, a lot of them men, and if they happen to get a bad condition, they're screwed…
/r/MensRights18/04/17 08:07 AM
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you know, while I'm all for responsibility, I think a good deal of medical procedures should be either free or covered in basic insurance, including abortions when they're early enough. I mean, if someone has an accident in a car while driving drunk, it doesn't mean we shouldn't try to save him unless he pays. Oh, and by basic insurance I mean at a rate that anyone who earns a living wage should be able to afford it.
/r/MensRights17/04/17 05:22 PM
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I can respect that point of view completely.
/r/MensRights14/04/17 04:28 PM
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Well, apart from the fact that dolphins have a similarly developed brain, yes it is. (Though more accurately, it's the combination of a body built for tool usage and a brain capable of complex thought.) This does not mean we're built for logic and reason. It was primarily built for survival. We're capable of logic and reason, but that part of our brain developed very very recently and is not nearly as fleshed out or as dominant as the rest of our brain, which makes all sort of logical fallacies …
/r/MensRights14/04/17 04:27 PM
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You have a good argument, actually. I'm not sure we can accomplish it. I do somewhat hope we do, and that deconstructing the feminist perspective will lead to improvements on the matter. Yet at the same time, we cannot cater for every individual variance. For two women, the better looking one will likely be in an advantageous situation most of the time. Will we have to compensate for this beauty bias and have different standards? I'm honestly not sure. There is a considerable amount of nuance th…
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:59 PM
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I only agree with one thing here - the question wasn't necessarily made in order to learn or gain insight, I feel. It was probably more of a frustrated rhetorical question. However, your reaction is a bit on the defensive side that doesn't even attempt to engage with the discussion. Granted, it did make a couple assumptions of 'some-things-are-better-than-other-things', but if you want to be taken seriously, you should try to argue your point instead of dismissing these things by saying 'you nee…
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:39 PM
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Equality is anti-male? I'm... not sure I follow. Could you elaborate on why?
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:30 PM
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I somewhat understand, actually. Nuance is lost all the time when discussing matters, such that when I opposed Hillary Clinton more than I opposed Donald Trump, people were flagging me as a right wing Nazi, even though my actual point of views were mostly in line with Jill Stein. Similarly, the extreme point of view that all women are manipulative, rather than some women can be manipulative and we need to acknowledge that, is an easy conclusion to jump to when you constantly think about all the …
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:19 PM
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No, the tactics isn't what made feminism successful. Gynocentrism has always been a thing because of evolution. It makes logical sense - a man can fertilize a thousand women, but a woman can only make one child a year. Therefore, a society with a thousand women and one man can pass on their genes, but a society with one woman and a thousand men will be much less likely to successfully pass on the lineage. Now, this is of course not true any more, but humans still have that instinct. Studies indi…
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:12 PM
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I'd argue that is more due to gynocentrism than the high road. And, well, money, due to several different factors. Quite honestly, I'm not sure what, if anything, makes people consider the male perspective. Most people simply won't acknowledge anything that doesn't fit in their belief system. All my research into propaganda has so far indicated that you can only really make someone believe something that they already are inclined to believe. Which is why feminism has had such a field day...
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:01 PM
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Left is such broad spectrum that I find it difficult to say that just because the left has done one bad thing, we should abandon the entire idea. And it may be more than one, but then again, same could be said for the right. We should not judge ideas by where they came from, but by their merit. So yes, while the left has become a tool for feminism, their ideas have to be judged separately. I doubt anyone will agree with one side on absolutely every single issue, and that's why I believe we need …
/r/MensRights14/04/17 02:40 PM
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Any movement that has a lot of members will have a number of people that aren't rational, objective and cautious with what they believe and say. Especially social movements that don't necessarily have an entry requirement. Fact is that 'believing in men's rights' doesn't necessarily require any other beliefs or states of mind, be they rational or irrational. Some will, due to personal experiences, grow resentful or fearful towards women. Some are already right-wing and just take men's rights as …
/r/MensRights14/04/17 02:31 PM
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I'd sit on it. It'd be funny!
/r/MensRights30/03/17 04:51 PM
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I don't think deception id mentioned... just "change up", meaning... to change somehow. Like, idk, if after havibg sex you realize he's actually not that shy, or you didn't quite think he'd play video games that much instead of talking to you all the time, or something... deception is an entirely different cup of tea.
/r/MensRights30/03/17 04:26 PM
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why not? I think it's good that people seek out differing opinions, it's not like we're an exclusive secretive cult or anything.
/r/MensRights28/03/17 08:06 AM
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I must defend him here. Yes, women have it bad, and in ways unique to women, but women don't have it worse than men. If you're interested in some very interesting discussion on this, listen to Karen Straughan and the honeybadgers in general. Women have restrictions but are much less likely to be murdered outright. Men are forced to labour or war and get killed, apparantly for glory, when they're really just getting oppressed, for real, by the authorities. A high status woman, say the wife of a p…
/r/MensRights27/03/17 02:44 PM
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I expected this. Gonna have to warch the clip later.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 04:06 PM
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It wasn't clear whether it was a stranger or not. Yes, avoiding it in the future is good, but we also need to make sure that such behaviour doesn't go without consequence. You can say that someone who got robbed should have paid more attention, but to not punish the robber is not right. He should absolutely report the crime and make sure it gets heard so that the girl doesn't think she can do this to everyone without consequences. Because this could have happened with roommates or a close friend…
/r/MensRights13/03/17 03:55 PM
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It is a rather questionable decision, imho, that risks the kid's life much more than not doing it. Like how, you know, piercing ad tattooing your kid is somewhat more dangerous (and permanent) than not doing it. I think the morally best choice is not to do it based on the fact that there are no reasons TO do it.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 03:15 PM
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Tonsils are very often removed. The point is that foreskin doesn't even have a comparable rate of issues to all of these. Foreskin is completely normal and natural just like an appendix, serves a good function of protection and friction just like tonsils serve a function (but you can do without it). Very few people's lives will be saved by performing circumcision, while any kid's circumcision COULD go wrong - which it does not that rarely because, well, cutting someone, even if it's just a pierc…
/r/MensRights13/03/17 03:08 PM
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I think it shouldn't be done by default for the simple reason that it's unnecessary. My wisdom teeth haven't grown out yet, so they're not a problem. I won't hunt them down because they could cause a problem or because they're useless. Same with appendix. If an adult chooses, it's fine. I mean, people pay for unnecessary surgeries like nose and boob jobs. Just... if every girl was given breast implants at puberty because it "looks better"... just no. So much unnecessary surgery. Remember that su…
/r/MensRights13/03/17 02:58 PM
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We should also remove tonsils, wisdom teeth and appendixes at birth. Prevents like, a couple minor problems from happening. That's worth surgery at birth, right?
/r/MensRights13/03/17 01:22 PM
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It may seem like a large percentage, but a look at the data says that the actual percentages were from something like 2. to 1. (I can't remember the exact details, but it was overall 60% ofc - just not in the way you'd think.) It's really not a large increase in safety, and the overall people helped for the overall people affected by potential sofe effects, it's a very, very low score. Also, condoms are much more effective and much cheaper. Why push surgery instead?
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:55 PM
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Wait. Mexican men are not rapists? How is that possible?! I learned all men are rapists!! It even says so under ther - men won't grope you here. I don't understand!! /s
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:38 PM
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All I'm sayin is that in switzerland, if you go to a private school it means you're probably not smart enough to go to public school and had to buy your way to education. Unless you have special needs. (Yes, I grew up in switzerland.)
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:14 PM
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I applaud you for #1 as a trans man myself. Always felt very welcome here.
/r/MensRights27/02/17 02:33 PM
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Trans man here. Felt completely welcome here. I think I even have better insight because I witnessed female privilege myself. My trans gf is also more on the side of MRA than feminism (though she does say some MRAs are misogynist, which I agree to, but this sub is largely very neutral, and I can understand skepticism towards trans people as well, seeing how... glorified and buzzwordy it has become recently). She has been treated way better by university, healthcare and people in general after be…
/r/MensRights27/02/17 02:28 PM
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It's an oldish post, but here goes nothing. I am trans, and I am not a biologist, but I've thought a lot about going into the field in order to try and find answers. Why am I this way? It's not that I can't accept it, but I am never quite satisfied with an internal evaluation. I want to know which parts of my brain are different, how my hormone levels compare to cis women (I was born female), I would love to investigate genetics and epigenetics in order to find something... more. I know that for…
/r/MensRights16/02/17 05:18 PM
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:/ I'm a non native speaker and am used to a pronoun that's gender neutral, so I use 'they' quite liberally as I learned that you could use it that way. Is it really a feminist thing? 'He or she' is just such a mouthful, and sometimes I don't want to disclose gender. Are there any alternatives?
/r/MensRights07/02/17 10:10 AM
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I'm sure it's been pointed put before, but never has a society been only bad for women. If women have it terribly, you can almost always bet that men have it equally bad, just in a different way. Karen straughan brought up an example where a bunch of girls were kidnapped and forced into marriage because they wanted a western education in, I'm not sure where, but it was an islamic country. Media was outraged ofc, but it completely ignored the fact that most of the time, the group targeted young b…
/r/MensRights06/02/17 01:23 PM
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Sorry to barge into this conversation, but perhaps there is nuance to be found in between both of your arguments. So, before puberty I think we can all agree that someone is very unlikely to knowingly consent to sex. Between that age and, say, about 17, there should be circumstancial reviews of individual cases, where there can be situations where people were clearly abused, but there are possibly other reasons to assume it's completely fine behaviour. Is that, perhaps, an approach that seems re…
/r/MensRights06/02/17 12:37 PM
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I agree with your edit. As a guy, I also thought it lacked some more facts and evidence, but then a couple of women said that they could really identify with the journey and that this would draw in women more, so I think it's just a thing that bridges the gap to the more emotional people, especially women, but ofc not exclusively.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 09:17 AM
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Hm, interesting. I sort of agree with you, actually, but there is something that's still unclear to me. If there's two minors engaged in sexual activity, and there is no evidence that one took advantage of the other, which one is committing a crime? The older one? The boy? Both of them? It's... a greyish area imho.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 05:25 PM
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I'm now unsure whether you're advocating this or not. It seems you're quite sceptical, so I'll take it that you disagree with the approach. Is that correct? In that case, I have little to argue. There should always be room for circumstances to influence the result of court cases, but overall I don't want the default to be for the male party involved to be criminalized while the woman is considered pure. I agree with gender neutral laws. I think criminalizing sexual acts of people who are under a…
/r/MensRights21/01/17 09:49 AM
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agreed. Just that even if someone was always wrong, it would be difficult to determine who, and "it's always the guy" is faulty logic.
/r/MensRights20/01/17 09:16 PM
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I can't help but think you're not thinking things through. I mean, how do you even determine who was the one "abusing" the other? Do both get the punishment? Because otherwise I see a huge problem. I know someone, male, who was 15 when their girlfriend at the time came onto them hardcore when he wasn't really into it. Pressured, he gave in to having sex. It wasn't really rape, we would say later, but it was a bad sexual experience. Does the guy get punished for the sexual act simply because he's…
/r/MensRights20/01/17 07:55 PM
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I think one needs to write or at least think a "tendencially" there. There are some exceptions to every tendency, and, for example, hiring a man over a woman without looking at their qualifications and actual merits is just as bad as hiring women cause vagina. Obviously, in fields such as maths, it's often going to be the men who come out on top, but we won't get anywhere if we let tendencies override specific situations. It's one thing to accept biology, it's another entirely to disregard niche…
/r/MensRights20/01/17 01:55 PM
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Haven't got anything to share but man, how can people get mad at simply stating that not all mothers are great parents? My mum was terribly abusive and is mentally ill to the point where she doesn't recognize at all what she's doing. How can people not even recognize the possibility that maybe not all women are angels? :/ I don't get it.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 05:09 PM
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My gf has adhd and is an adult. (23) She was always a very extreme case. Caffeine doesn't impact her (she has tea and coffee at night). Her medication (restricted ofc) contains speed (yes, tje drug) and it makes her act normal as opposed to hyper distracted. I can't see that and not be convinced that adhd is real. It simply changes your physiology.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 12:50 PM
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Well, if you're honestly communicating, you don't demand an answer NOW. As in, you'd discuss the matter and perhaps make a few conclusions, not "sex now or I leave". Can be a fine difference though, I agree, and not everyone's good at communication.
/r/MensRights05/12/16 03:21 PM
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Urgh, Judith Butler is such a pain. Had to read some stuff for literature (mid high german literature at that)... Now one of my tutors literally is an expert in queer theory and did her masters (or phd I don't remember) on f'in GLITTER.
/r/MensRights02/12/16 10:27 AM
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Haha! My dad never drove a car and I take after him, thanks to the fact that public transport is pretty good here and where I'm originally from. As a bit of an environmentalist, I enjoy my car free life. Now computers? That I can get behind.
/r/MensRights02/12/16 10:17 AM
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Oh god I relate. Sometimes my gf will be like "stop" as I, say, kiss her timidly, and I'll stop inmediately. She then says - No, I didn't mean it, continue! Be more assertive! It's really weird cause according to feminists this never happens. And yes, she's pretty much the one who introduced me to the MRM, and I believe she won't pull a "he raped me". She had sympathy as well when I tell her she confuses me at times. Doesn't stop her from wishing I just 'forced' myself on her... apparantly... an…
/r/MensRights02/12/16 10:09 AM
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They're all for minorities until it starts hurting da womenz... Just like white gay men are now priviledged. Heck, I don't think trans people should have any significant say in those matters and I think the notion that gender neutral language should be used just for minority genders (??? there's only male and female) is laughable, even as a trans guy myself.
/r/MensRights02/12/16 09:58 AM
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After being emotionally and physically abused my entire life by my mother, I've finally cut most ties to her. She's still convinced that she did nothing wrong but sacrifice all her life for me and that I'm an ungrateful bitch because I only like my father better because, clearly, all I care about is that my dad has the money. ... sometimes I see her behaviour in feminism, and she's a (diagnosed by my dad who is a psychiatrist) proper narcissist.
/r/MensRights02/12/16 09:13 AM
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Hm. Thanks for the explanation. (:
/r/MensRights23/11/16 10:32 AM
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No, it's just when you've taken female hormones, you literally get weak as fuck. My gf is trans and as a female born myself, I can easily beat her now in playfights, and she's even heavier than me, when she was actually an athlete before and could easily hold me down etc. with just half her strength. So... it seems strange to draft a physically almost-female. Like, they'd probably be useless. Also, where I'm originally from, Switzerland, you can get out of the draft for a lot of reasons, includi…
/r/MensRights23/11/16 01:05 AM
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That's really interesting. :o Thanks.
/r/MensRights22/11/16 06:41 PM
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Huh, interesting. What if you don't have a dick (anymore)? Just curious.
/r/MensRights22/11/16 05:41 PM
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But normal can mean anything. Though I have to admit you have a good point. I guess we could do without the word, but at times it can make discourse easier. Kind of like we could use normal instead of mentally stable, but mentally stable describes in which way they are normal. I understand where you're coming from, but it's not always used as propaganda. As I said, though, it often is... And that's very unfortunate. Not being trans IS normal, but people like to pretend when it suits their agenda…
/r/MensRights24/10/16 10:55 PM
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Well, the Cisgender at least is just a way to describe non-trans people in a shorter way or if you want to differentiate between them clearly (cis, trans is much more efficient than people-who-are-normal or people-who-were-born-without-brain-defects-that-make-them-believe-they're-the opposite-sex). Though yes, it has been abused to shame people, which I very much disagree with.
/r/MensRights24/10/16 03:54 PM
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Instead, we have people defending wikileaks... Which is pretty much proof that Hillary is a liar, a fake and in bed with wall street and ISIS. :/ I don't know, accusations of rape seem much less substantial to me than thousands of documents, a lot of them pretty much confirmed and none debunked, that scream Hillary is a traitor. In fact, if you hate Trump, guess who's responsible for getting him all that media coverage? Hillary. She literally made him the front news because the campaign believed…
/r/MensRights13/10/16 12:48 PM
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Listen and believe, aka feminism is literally going to ruin this election and the world. Any man does anything that the media and wealthy don't like? Hire a woman to say that that person raped/touched them. It will ruin everyone. Trump has no chance against this... I hate to say it, but it's over.
/r/MensRights13/10/16 12:43 PM
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Agreed, actually. Another reason why I don't want kids.
/r/MensRights07/10/16 11:44 PM
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You're right, my reaction was a bit too dramatic. Most people, after all, are biologically programmed to want to pass on their own genetics.
/r/MensRights07/10/16 06:45 PM
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Well, thinking about it, my reaction was a bit over the top. I guess he just doesn't feel that way. I mean, if he had a male partner, it might have been a nice thought to have a child together. I don't ultimately want to judge anyone. Though I agree that it's not exactly a men's right issue, I don't take issue with his decision. I just cannot relate.
/r/MensRights07/10/16 06:44 PM
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I gotta be honest as a trans guy myself - why th FUCK would you want to get pregnant?! I'd rather kill myself than get pregnant, I've had enough dysphoria tyvm. Menstruation is bad enough. If you really want a kid, adopt...
/r/MensRights07/10/16 02:50 PM
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... damn, sorry, I replied to the wrong comment.
/r/MensRights27/09/16 09:47 AM
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Hm, don't worry about offending me. I don't exactly know how my brain looks like. What I do know is that most of the testosterone a man produces is not actually made in the brain, but in the testes, with most female sex hormones that include estrogen being made in the ovaries. The brain, well, to put it bluntly, isn't very involved in this. (MtF that get their genitals removed don't produce any more testosterone.) Therefore I cannot conlude based on your argument that I would look intersex if I …
/r/MensRights27/09/16 09:44 AM
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As a kid whose dad was in this exact situation... I don't resent my father for trying to keep the family together. I wish he hadn't done it for HIS sake, but despite the abuse I faced from my mother, I know he was there for me, that he protected me whenever he could. But I agree that a divorce isn't the worst thing and that as long as the children don't get isolated from their father, the situation can only get better with divorce. I personally know that if I had been stuck with my mother withou…
/r/MensRights26/09/16 09:26 PM
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... I feel for ya. I was in that situation. But I was the kid. My dad is still in the relationship, forever saying that he will support her no matter what. Even though they don't talk, and if they talk, it's my mother screaming at him and blaming everything on him. Like me turning out to be a failure. Saying that he's manipulating me into hating her. And that's only the stuff I hear from him. He's working his ass off to try to support her (doctor, 14 hours a day, 6 days a week pretty much) fundi…
/r/MensRights26/09/16 09:21 PM
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I'm trans, and I totally agree with you with most things. Children can have all sorts of thoughts and they should not be allowed to transition before adulthood. Illegal hormones are a no-no. People with severe mental instability should not decide on life-changing situations like it either. Identifying as trans, I obviously think the condition is real. I think there's decent scientific evidence that establishes a connection between brain structure and gender. HOWEVER. I also believe it to be a me…
/r/MensRights26/09/16 08:42 PM
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I'm FtM trans. Unlike most trans people, I think it's a birth defect. The explanation that comes closest to me is that I was born with a male brain. I have some physical male features (slightly thicker body hair, wide shoulders, longer ring finger than index finger), but generally, my body developed female. Whether it's the brain that's gone wrong or the body, I do not know. What I DO know is that it's causing me to be suicidal about my body. I don't feel like my breasts are anything but weird e…
/r/MensRights26/09/16 08:21 PM
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