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| 4 | I think my friend got into red pill, how do I help himGive him honest feedback and don’t sugarcoat-especially in public. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | DevastatedHe sounds terrible.. you got off lucky not having his kids. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/26 04:44 PM |
| 7 | Should I just breakup w my gf and get back to the gameYeah, do her a favor and go for it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Women at work think I have wh0resThey may think you’re a fuckboy off of personality. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Is bold & honest about everything makes you attractive?Not having prospects or a job can ruin your chances. That’s probably what your issue is. I’d get better hobbies besides doom scrolling, it can take a toll on your mental health, viewing life as pointless. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficultYou are if you can get other women to like you, it’s much harder than men. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the advice "BE YOURSELF" is a good advice in dating?Yeah, it sort of doesn’t work if you have a shitty personality, whether it’s controlling or heavily flawed in other ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Confession time: Telling a girl I liked her after years stuck in the ManosphereThat’s great! It really seems like you’re growing from the RP nonsense. Keep going and hit as many milestones as you can! | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches)Yep I’ll swipe left on too many group photos. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?It’s not cool to cheat, or to have someone on the side..that’s morally not okay to me but live how you want to ig 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 01:13 AM |
| 10 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?Why do you want a side chick then? Why not just end it with the existing partner? | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 01:04 AM |
| 10 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?What am I fast in judging, exactly? Just saying how others rationalize the cheating party. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 01:01 AM |
| 10 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?How’d he like that if his girl did it, yk? He has to think about being in the other shoe to really value his relationships. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 11:47 PM |
| 13 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?Low self esteem, too trusting in what you say, broken promises, loneliness, however, it’s not morally okay. You’re wasting everyone’s time-including yours.. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 11:46 PM |
| 10 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?Actively listen, be ‘safe’ to go to emotionally, try and relate without seeming like you’re overtly comparing. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Happy Wife SchoolWomen need foreplay and my libido gets high sometimes xD bruh… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | If a woman putting her pinky in your waistband is top tier physical seduction, what is the equivalent for men?Exactly | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop pushing girls away by being an emotional bitchLol he is, but it honestly sounds like anxiety to me. When you think you’ve messed it up do you freak out? Doing things like unadd them and re-adding? Lash out when they slow down responding? | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?Lmao I’m getting downvoted.. but honestly you go back to the basics and read body language then escalate/deescalate from there! | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 10:57 PM |
| -4 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?As a girl that pulls girls, it’s easy. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 03:48 PM |
| 5 | A study by DatePsychology found that 45% of men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date.It’s a quick dopamine hit so it could interfere with a social life. “I got porn so why try to date right now?”. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, this is her replyAsk if you can just hangout and see if they like you then see. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the phenomenon of "high value" redpillers?I feel like nearly all of the men in the movement believe they’re “high value men”, even when there’s not much going for them and those technically “higher” than them would disagree and think they’re NPCs. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/24 04:07 PM |
| 11 | Why do redpill men hate women they don't want to be with anyway?Because they actually hate themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/24 03:45 AM |
| 2 | I had a debate with a hardcore RedPill man I know & he went silent.DAAAAAAMN. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 6 | This shit really effected my self esteem and I don’t know how to get back to normal againI would definitely go through a detox. & don’t worry, you’re not worthless and anyone who’s worth anything doesn’t hate you💜 if you get hate because you’re a girl then that’s just ignorance on their end. You’ll be okay, hon. Just hang in there and surround yourself with better communities/people. You got this(: | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | I can't fit the female gazeWide, long, doesn’t matter! Im most attracted to middle eastern men | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 10:38 PM |
| 6 | I can't fit the female gazeI’m a “female” and love big noses on men! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 03:24 AM |
| 5 | A different questionI think practice making friends (in general) who are girls is the best route. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/24 10:38 PM |
| 9 | What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here?Thoughts affect your feelings, feelings affect your behaviors and behaviors affect your thoughts. It’s a vicious cycle. “I think, therefore, I am.” -Descartes | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Suddenly feeling empty about my partner after leaving TRP.Therapy’s not a bad call, man. Your emotions may be stunted is kind of what it sounds like..? Not sure, but therapy can only help. Might be tricky trying to find a male therapist if that’s what youre most comfortable with, though. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/24 10:30 PM |
| 4 | I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrongShe’s not attracted to you, either? 0.o | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrongWhat if she wasn’t attracted to you & only liked* your personality, would you still wanna stay? You should do the kinder thing and break up :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.Yeah, I don’t do sex work if that’s the “implication” lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that the most outwardly sexist guys I know that do the best with women?They’re probably pro-social. Charming and cunning. Many men like that will lie to women, at first.. then they get tired of “being someone else” and show their true colors. It’s either broken off or the cycle of abuse continues because we try and see the best in our partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 03:44 PM |
| 15 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.Wanting to be desired seems more than just casual to me in a way, idk.. wanting to be desired is multifaceted. Far more than just looks when women desire someone (usually/not always tho). Edit: I think your view of it is reductive, but to each their own, I s’pose… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/24 11:51 PM |
| 4 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.What about the legalization of sex work? Seems like a solution if we stop shaming sex work every six seconds… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/24 11:38 PM |
| 0 | I'm considering leaving my friend group because it's too hard to see them succeed so much where I can'tKeep those friends into adulthood and as many as possible. They’ll hook you up with 2-6 figure jobs later on. Pretend you’re not jealous in the meantime. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/24 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly?Gah damn..lmfaooo | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/24 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on this?It’s for men only and def an incel sub… fuck em. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/24 07:47 PM |
| 5 | I feel like this redpill stuff is making me insecure.I’m in my 30’s and I feel like my friends are all more refined and way hotter! | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Why is being overconfident seen as so much better than having low confidence?Women like men who are pro-social and being pro-social comes with a lot of confidence/perceived confidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/24 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Do most women have empathy for men?If you’re in men spaces, then it’d seem that way. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/24 03:43 PM |
| 10 | The blue pill provides nothing that leaves me feeling better compared to the black pill or red pill.Being pro-social as much as possible would be the best thing you could do, aside from grooming/working on yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/24 01:32 PM |
| 4 | I think my boyfriend is a redpillerYou can come up with rebuttals to everything he brings up. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Do women in traditionalist countries have better morals than western women?Oh yeah, if a woman’s raped-they usually blame it on her for “being promiscuous” or “sinning”. Even if she hasn’t done either one. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/24 03:31 AM |
| 9 | High dating standards are certainly a big reason for more people being single and/or lonelyMoney and success don’t mean a damn thing to me if you’re hard to be around personality wise. Or if you’re controlling. I’d rather date someone at 35-50k that makes me laugh and is average than 100k and is good looking but controlling. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 8 | How does this r/ feel about white pills?I fucking hate Elliot Roger… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Are there options for my affectionless and sexless marriage besides divorce or living with it?r/deadbeedrooms | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/23 06:05 AM |
| 32 | A mini story on how me (23M)listening to the “redpill” fucked up my chances of dating with a 19F I met at the club. Plus rant.True shit. There’s no way a healthy, happy woman would put effort and a relationship into a redpilled man. Especially if he acts accordingly. People can grow from the trauma they’ve faced and come out better. It takes practice and time tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I don't want the red pill to brainwash meDon’t let the internet brainwash/control you, like it’s done to sooo many. Meet more people, more women. Try making friends with women or any at all if it’s hard for you. (You may only be getting one sides POV irl but I don’t know what you’ve witnessed either). If you’re Christian, go to church. If you like working out go to a populated gym. Go out to a low key bar, or dive club. Raves are awesome, and friends are easy to make there if you have any part of your personality showing and can conver… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Feeling emotionally lostI think you could benefit from therapy if you’re open to going at all. Good luck🫡 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | The oversimplification of women TRP preaches will prevent you from fully being able to understand womenThis has been the answer this whole time. The more you push women away as “people”, the harder it’ll be to get to know them. Youll have pushed them away, not even knowing where to start. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I wouldn't be so worried about redpill if all relationships around me didn't suckIt doesn’t mean they should get laid, even if they want to. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I wouldn't be so worried about redpill if all relationships around me didn't suck&also, I wouldn’t wish for a good man (or them being capable of it), to go for a woman (or her go for him) who lacks empathy and is prone to manipulation. I generally don’t like seeing good people leave all fucked up from one. It’s terrible how much it can change a good man or a good woman. But you’re right I get no say; just an opinion (probably a shitty one to you which is fine lol). | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | I wouldn't be so worried about redpill if all relationships around me didn't suckYeah good thing right. But I do get to decide for myself and I don’t need that shit. Especially if they’re prone to manipulation. I don’t trust them. If you have someone with no empathy and you’re shit works, go off. That’s just my opinion. I’m one of many with different and all sorts of them!(: have a nice day. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/23 04:11 PM |
| 10 | I wouldn't be so worried about redpill if all relationships around me didn't suckIf men don’t have any empathy I’d rather they not date, or date a woman who doesn’t either. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/23 05:29 AM |
| 8 | Red pill traits but no luck with women helpIf all you have to offer is looks and money, that’s exactly the type of woman you’ll attract.. one that only values those things. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women?You start to worry more about your own sex life and promiscuity. Whether or not you’re happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Not red pill really but I get really tired of how society tells men the only acceptable emotion we can express is anger.Men only expressing anger is a red flag because of the propensity of violence. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why does my bf always like red pill content?Bring it up to him and ask him why he likes rp content so much, how he responds will tell you so much. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/23 10:19 PM |
| 9 | guys watching...... hard core..... "stuff".... yet watching videos and preaching "i want a pure virgin wife". What is that called? Derangement ? I'm sorry, I throw my hands up for this one.100% they say they hate them, but want sluts so bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 12:39 AM |
| 18 | guys watching...... hard core..... "stuff".... yet watching videos and preaching "i want a pure virgin wife". What is that called? Derangement ? I'm sorry, I throw my hands up for this one.That’s exactly the issue. It’s hypocrisy. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 34 | guys watching...... hard core..... "stuff".... yet watching videos and preaching "i want a pure virgin wife". What is that called? Derangement ? I'm sorry, I throw my hands up for this one.They want a virgin who knows how to fuck. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/23 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Another thing is men and women are the SAME.Somehow anger got rebranded as “not an emotion” but imo it’s the scariest emotion men can show/have. Bad things happen if they’re only ever angry for the most part. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are people drawn to the Redpill?I’ve also said young men, middle schoolers included in that. A lot of them have relationship trauma, though. From relationships, childhood treatment from their mother’s/women, and societal pressures. It doesn’t make their response right at all, but it’s insightful. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are people drawn to the Redpill?I think for me really when I wasn’t as understanding it initiated a moral defense response like women were threatened when men/even other women would say some rp shit/dog whistles & I knew. But once I started to understand why and how these young men and trauma ridden guys got there and how yelling just doesn’t work to change perceptions-I’ve changed. Now I just feel bad for em. & those who aren’t ready to listen won’t be but might if there’s a first small change. Both sides are scared for diffe… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/23 12:27 PM |
| 3 | I tried to follow advices from redpill influencers, and they don't seem to be working.Do you see dating as a step by step ordeal? Or do you try to make more organic connections and flirt organically? (Things like eye contact, smiling, asking open ended questions, tv shows, open and inviting body language, smiling, nodding/looking and being attentive), shit like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 0 | This girl set me up perfectlyNiiiice | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | "Women dont like guys who are below 6 foot"Not true. In MMA/UFC I always root for the underdog/shorter one. They’re always cuter too. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/23 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Headsome man. Horrible luck with womenYou ever think of just having attractive girls as just friends? Even if it doesn’t happen “fast enough”, (terrible way to put it on my end, apologies), for you? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentTry it when you buy yourself a new outfit you feel better in! Or when you get a new hat you like or something. Then try the eye contact, open/confident posture, etc.. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentIt felt really uncomfortable. I have no idea why. I’m still kinda bad at it. It’s gotten a lot better tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentEye contacts an art fs and takes practice. I was never any good at it as a girl til I was 26. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 01:38 PM |
| 12 | A vital key to detoxing from Red Pill is to become self-aware. Self-awareness is on a global decline though. Here's how you can improve yours:I think people also perceive emotional intelligence wrong; they think it’s calm, cool and collected. In fact, it’s empathy, compassion, assertiveness, intuition in yourself and others’ emotions. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 04:16 PM |
| 33 | I hate how much more power women haveI think going offline will do you some good. Do you have friends at all? Access to a church or community? Seeing other women/people in general will help with your worldview, and definitely detox you from Red Pill bullshit. You seem like a lost/lonely guy they’re taking advantage of. I wish you all the best :) | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:08 AM |
| 10 | How do you learn to accept hurt from former relationships?Are all men the same? The obvious answer is, “no”, right? Now, are all women the same? No. Every one of us are different and have different values and beliefs. We care, have heart, are loyal and drop everything to come back/to your aid-and some of us don’t. Or there’s a mix and in between to all of that. The world isn’t the internet. Influencers aren’t the end all be all and lie as well. Academic internet influencers aren’t too bad when presenting empirical evidence, but it’s still only one pers… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/22 02:50 AM |
| 3 | How to stop "spinning plates" and be faithful in LTR?You should pick her or the life you had. At least let her know if you’re planning on both. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/22 01:24 AM |
| 8 | Is it normal to feel like I’m not getting anywhere with my deprogramming?Have you addressed your missed milestones in accumulating social skills? Parties, college, high school, ect.. Have you addressed the insecurities you feel when you want to take risks and talk to others and have you let them stop you from going further? Are you working and keeping it together okay? There’s a video by HealthyGamergg and I believe it’s called Virgins or “let’s talk about Virgin’s”, or something like that. https://youtu.be/MWMWTTE-JR0 | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/22 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Stuff like this is reason why incels and red pillers are risingIt’s the product of doom scrolling in all of the wrong sources… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/22 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Liked by the parents, not by the girlRelationships are more than just being polite and nice to your partner and looking good on paper. Is it difficult to get a deeper connection or are they just not attracted to you anymore physically? It’s difficult to fully understand your issue. Do your relationships fizzle out, or? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Liked by the parents, not by the girlWhat’d they say?? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 05:10 PM |
| 22 | The Red Pill makes men MISERABLEIf we were able to afford homes, families and have a work life balance under capitalism, then many wouldn’t be nearly as miserable as they are right now, they just blame women for not making it easier for them to do whatever they want and be the lowest effort level of themselves. That and these “red pilled gurus” or whatever make huge money on misogynistic content from impressionable young boys and men and lost older men with trauma. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/22 11:48 AM |
| 16 | I keep attracting redpill losers into my lifePeople are trying to fit human nature into a step by step handbook and feel dead inside from how they were raised/their situation where they just don’t care for others.. or know how to have authentic relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/22 09:52 AM |
| 16 | I don’t want to believe in the redpill but I keep seeing some of the things they say manifest themselves in real lifeHe probably gaslit her and love bombed her to make her want to stay. Think he’d change and be a better man. Then she possibly learned after that and set boundaries. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | My story (male, 20) time for venting.Red pill doesn’t work for LT relationships | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Sniff some petrol so it dulls the pain as you cut your wristsI got his user deleted/perma banned. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/22 02:48 PM |
| 5 | If studies show that women are happier when they are single and childless; should we as men stop relationships with women and leave them alone?OP has the energy and mind of “if studies show it, then my girl must be the same way and I think I should break up with her!” He’s not thinking objectively while looking at the data. Why would he just break up with her without even talking about it and asking her. Weird as hell. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/22 03:17 AM |
| 12 | Just broke up with my red pill boyfriendHow embarrassing for him :/ not the struggling with job/life stuff, but the living by the redpill stuff… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/22 02:22 AM |
| 3 | How can I avoid embracing the “women are only attracted to misogynistic men” idea when all my anecdotal evidence points to that being true?He pays those women dude | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/22 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman?They think it’s simping, too much work and a waste of time. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags?What happens a lot of the time is that they’re nice in the beginning and love bomb then become the worst. Then you stay to try to get back to the beginning. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Why you should leave the redpill…Women actually went for men who had medium to medium high testosterone. They were better fathers. I’ll link the video if you want and the YouTuber puts her sources in the description. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Because of my lack of success in dating, I think I've missed out on a fundamental part of young adulthood.Not necessarily, it could be a number of things like social anxiety, avoiding talking to others, avoiding communities and everyone at work; ect.. I’m only speculating here, but you seem very depressed with low self esteem. I’d recommend therapy to get a game plan of you getting out there and become happier(: | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 07:14 PM |
| -1 | Are there possibilities to discuss with people who believe in the red pill?Shit like that literally creates fantasy within closed off bubbles and go no where near shared objectivity amongst society. I still feel like the internet is nothing like irl in most ways. When extremist bubbled beliefs dawn from the web go into legislation scare the fuck outta me tho. Then shit gets real. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Coming of Age & The EpiphanyGood on you for putting in the work of improvement and self reflection! Emotional intelligence is crucial to humanity coexisting for one another. Keep at it. Try to find a community somewhere if you haven’t, it helps so much! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/22 09:13 PM |
| 8 | The wall for trans people.The way they talk about men and women is reductive, essentialist and collective.. there’s be no room for LGBT people in TRP. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Red pill rage after a breakupI’m so sorry about your bad experience-I’ve been cheated on when I didn’t even think about spending my life with anyone else and walked on eggshells with a boyfriend I had for five years. I gave him chance after chance; but I got very angry after for a while. I can understand that. I can’t say I hate men-but I’m not sure if I can trust myself with anyone. I’ve been burned by a woman before too (which is why I think it’s not gender specific; but just general disdain for others). People can be ter… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | There's no guide telling men to watch out for, and that hurts our views towards womenTRP loves generalizing others. I just hope it doesn’t fuck school kids up later on. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | There's no guide telling men to watch out for, and that hurts our views towards womenThe big Ed and Rose fiasco. Rose really tried with him. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The left doesn't seem to care about men's problemAre you actively trying to find a political party? Someone to look up to online? I’m not sure I understand... However, for men, a lot of support can be found irl at the gym, or at church. Bars have sports teams and friend groups too and shit. To your question at the bottom, yes. There’s r/menslib and r/bropill | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipHonestly, I wouldn’t mind taking control as long as they weren’t boring/never wanting to leave the house, and too indecisive/passive. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 08:33 AM |
| 8 | Redpillers finally discover women prefer attractive males their age 🤯Elon Musk is naturally bald rn but had a hair transplant done. Money gives you looks. Doubt he would have gotten the girls he’s had without it. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/22 01:32 AM |
| 10 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?Fellas, is it gay to care about other people? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Women are of course into men, just not ugly boring ones?As a gay woman, I wouldn’t particularly look at boring and ugly women, to be extremely fair here. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Do women truly prefer men with high body counts or who have been with alot of women?I would wonder why all of those other ones didn’t work out and which were relationships/just sex.. and if you were safe, then from there I’d come to a conclusion. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do feminists try to downplay the effects of autism?You replying this copy pasta to everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?When I hear the bar is low, it’s more in the sense that if a guy is even nice to us and doesn’t think we should have fewer rights than men, then we find them attractive as hell. That’s what I think when the bar’s low. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 15 | I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels.It’s crazy because trp numbers are smaller than other men’s are-but they’re a hell of a lot louder.. there’s r/menslib and r/bropill with more nuanced discussions of men’s issues that don’t just shit on women constantly. There’s double standards that are addressed, but it’s mostly systemic and society’s responsibility more than women being at fault and isn’t a circle jerk like Men’s Rights. I think most women know that most men don’t feel the way trp does about us, but it has some scared they’ll… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Please help me.Try to seek out help and go for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT. It helps in changing the way you think and how to talk to other people. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/22 04:03 PM |
| 4 | What do I do?It’s possible, you just have to go out and meet more people/girls. Life isn’t black and white like the red pill packages it up to be. Many couples are happy in various situations. As an adult, it’s a lot harder to make friends but it’s possible if you try man. The more you practice talking to others (even if some encounters are awkward as fuck) the better off you’ll be and better chance you have to make, like, just connections in general. Work, friends, or girls. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 05:57 AM |
| 2 | You haven’t become man until you have kidsIf you had kids and were a shit dad or dipped out, by his definition, “you’re a man”. When that’s the most bitch thing you could do. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 4 | I hate the worldKeep coming back, I’d suggest cognitive behavioral therapy for your anger/mindset. They also teach you how to confront others assertively instead of being passive, passive aggressive, or aggressive. They generally guide you on how to talk to people essentially and which feelings you have that are healthy and which ones are toxic. GL | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 5 | Is it wrong to check and see if a girl gave me the right phone number?If I’m not interested and give them a fake number, I’m doing that because straight up rejection could lead to dangerous reactions and it’s happened to me before. It’s not at all a “hahaha fool!” thing that I’m thinking of, it’s an “uh oh, how’s he going to react if I reject him on the spot?” Always offer your number instead-it makes us feel safer instead of someone calling us right away once we give a number to them (fake or not). | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 09:03 PM |
| 4 | I am an underdog in datingFuck no, never give up! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 8 | I'm in a dark place65000 is small, once you get into the city, you find people with better views on equality, dismantling classic gender roles and LGBT acceptance. You can’t want a trad wife then say you’re not a wallet, it doesn’t really work that way.. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 3 | I'm in a dark placeDo you live in the city or a town? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Should we be that worried over Andrew Tate?If these young men and boys can’t get better role models & men to look up to, then yes. We should definitely be worried. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Leaving my red pill boyfriend + some thoughts on his ideologiesA lot of isolated and lonely men follow trp, which is why they don’t think they exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 7 | Women do not engage in hypergamy. If anything they're probably worried about men doing it.r/bropill r/menslib are pretty nuanced. They talk about men’s issues in society in a healthy manner(: | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Women do not engage in hypergamy. If anything they're probably worried about men doing it.Do you think if the economy was thriving men would get the shorter end still..? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:09 AM |
| 0 | I still have the insecurities that led me to RedPillThey did a study and women liked men who had medium-high testosterone because they made better fathers. Look at Harry Styles/boy bands, timothee chalamet, and MGK for example. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I wish I never discovered the red pill my view on women has completely changed because of it even though I left that community and no longer consider myself a follower.People love indoctrinating others on the internet. It works so well with people who are already isolated from society. It skews the mind and trp “content creators” get off on it and make money off of venerable men and boys. It’s fucking sick. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women say they don’t care about dick size and things like that to be nice? As in, would you say the same thing to a partner who’s small as a partner whos bigger?Nope. If I love them I especially don’t care. If he had a micro penis but I was attracted to him still, we could have other solutions(: | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Red pill and projectionI think so because women care about emotional connection. There have been studies done where women are more hurt when men emotionally cheat and less with having sex that means nothing. While men are more hurt by women cheating via sex than having an emotional connection. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS?It’s an incel term. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Help me understand the red pill.It started off in the incel ideology and hit mainstream internet culture fairly recent. It’s filled with “tips” assuming the stereotypes perpetuated are consistent. It’s an essentialist and simplistic view on women. Ig they think men can have complex thoughts and feelings and are individualistic but wahmin are all the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of the resentment ?I would let it go, and from now on always communicate and set boundaries on what you’re going in as when talking to girls. Don’t just expect to start dating, and don’t assume they’re flirting, yfm? It’s hard to tell what happened and if she was actually acting shitty in your situation without screenshots, but let this one go and learn from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of the resentment ?May I ask what happened? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What do do if the cult tries to pull me back in ?Says one small nice thing about one woman one time in their life for the first time ever Manosphere: siiiiiiiimp! | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | my girlfriends pastShe wants you now tho let it go before you lose her. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 03:56 AM |
| 15 | R/EXREDPILL RULES.. "No Jordan Peterson."People say that because that’s what kicks off the rabbit hole and he plants seeds for later indoctrination to make sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 3 | How do I get this anti women stuff out of my head? I’m paranoid of everything a girl doesYou can probably speed the process up going through therapy, and they’ll teach you how to talk to others and where to socialize as an adult. Put you on meds if it’s severe enough. Good luck(: | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | How do I get this anti women stuff out of my head? I’m paranoid of everything a girl doesIs therapy available to you at all..? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 3 | I can’t be the only one who loves strong womenShouldn’t be ideal for everyone, and isn’t. If it is for you, great, but let’s not tell these young men they’re weak if they can’t “control” their wives, or if they have working wives that they’re doing everything wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?Kinda unrealistic. That’s a small sub-sect of women. Extremely so. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?Lmaooo, take my upvote and go away Dx | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?Nah, i just don’t care about height. The first serious relationship I had he was 6’2”. I don’t think I’m bad looking. It’s just not a deciding factor or essential. I don’t value it like people that spend a lot of time on the internet do. Just because you’re tall doesn’t automatically make you good looking. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?I’m 5’5” my ex bf was 5’5”. Short men are kings💜 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | What are some hard truths you have accepted about life?No one will care if you don’t with yourself. But even then, there could be some people who still care while you have absolutely no clue that they do. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?I’ve seen people look different at all sorts of different ages. Doesn’t matter gender, race, anything. Even within the same family aging doesn’t progress the same haha | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?I saw a story of this good looking, but also average dude, had a really nice dating profile and got zero matches on tinder and he said he swiped right for every single profile he came across. I felt so bad for him dude :/ I think not being assholes to girls that join gaming/community discord’s or spaces could help and people could try that? Otherwise real life would have to be the way. I have a question tho, do you think getting into a sport, club or youth group or anything would have helped wit… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?In different ways as far as safety goes-we take the cake on that one. However I believe men are lonelier than we are. (Both sexes are super lonely and a lot of society is now with smart phones and shit, but young men and boys have the numbers). | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on the MensRights Subreddit?Fuck them, it’s all about r/menslib | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 08:43 AM |
| 15 | Redpill is bullsh*tIt’s really a ‘people’ issue. There’s a ton of assholes in this world and sorry you’ve had bad experiences with both sexes :/ Supporting women and wanting to do something nice or say something nice once in a while isn’t simping. We’ve become almost a sociopathic society with an every man for himself type thing happening. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?It takes a little while for de-programming. I’d cut him some slack. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?It takes a little while for de-programming. The fact that you’re here is great man(: | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m descending into the woman hating madness. I don’t want to believe red pill but it’s too convincing. Help me.I think stereotypes have the ability to cross many sects of people. Lots of people have simplified and essentialist beliefs-but that doesn’t make them exactly true... be them I mean the generalizations of these stereotypes. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:30 PM |
| 7 | Can a woman verify this for me?& also, I believe manipulation could be genuinely rape if a lot of pressure was applied-but it would be very hard to prove in the court of law. So that very much depends and depends on what’s morally right which is what trials can be for, but most wouldn’t go there I assume. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Can a woman verify this for me?I’m sorry, 63 percent aren’t reported. Also, being manipulative, I’m not sure if that’s real, but it could have been consent as well. That’s a grey area for sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 10 | Can a woman verify this for me?63 percent of actual rape allegations are reported to the police and false rape allegation numbers are extremely low. Addressing that part of your post. What’s PUA? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 17 | Any hope for older incels?You could hop on state insurance and start going to therapy and get on medication to help you function? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 4 | I’m descending into the woman hating madness. I don’t want to believe red pill but it’s too convincing. Help me.It can be a widely held, simplified, and essentialist belief about a specific group as well. So that’s probably why! | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 12:12 PM |
| 8 | I’m descending into the woman hating madness. I don’t want to believe red pill but it’s too convincing. Help me.My ex was a guy with BPD, depression and anxiety. He also worked in IT and wasn’t a Chad. The red pill stereotypes the absolute fuuuck out of people/women. They make vague statements sound true and they’re manipulating these young men :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 12:05 PM |
| 24 | I don't hate women for being casual sex-havers anymore.Yis, that, plan b, and gay marriage are next up on the chopping block. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 30 | I don't hate women for being casual sex-havers anymore.Idk if that’ll be the case now with what’s going on in government. They’re going to go after contraceptives next, so we’ll see.. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Are most people scared to be genuine?It wasn’t nearly as isolating tho imo. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Beta male triying to not believe in the Red PillDon’t let unethical practices on the internet mess with your head. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/22 12:16 AM |
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