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| 1 | On Dating and Seducing Chinese girls.HAHAHAHAHAHA NO. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 04:03 PM |
| 2 | The Social Skydiving Game: What Happens When You Flirt With 77 Women In 14 Days?Don't you worry about what that is ;) | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Back-to-School: Social Improvement Tips from Neil Straussthis was free, what did you lose? | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 05:16 AM |
| 1 | [Told to post here] Rather be in combat than talk to opposite sexpeople will give a lot of advice on what to do or not to do but really too much information can make you think you have to do things 'right' or something like that. Basically break it down right now to just getting a girls attention, say hi or whatever you want. Introducing yourself and speaking loud enough to hear will take you much further than you would ever think possible. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Giggling GirlsI think this is being overthought. The next time a girl giggles, just smile and ask her why she is giggling. She will most likely tell you completely honestly. The most likely thing on my mind is that they are giddy that a guy is hitting on them and they aren't quite sure what to do next, which would be great if true since it is an emotional response. Just ask, who cares. Explain your whole situation if you have to, keep it fun. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Giggling Girlsdid ever occur to you to ask? | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 06:42 AM |
| 2 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from AssholesThese are not traits of an asshole they are traits of someone who is awesome | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Richard la Ruina's "How have you been?" approach - it works pretty damn wellNot sure why someone down voted you, seems like a valid question | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Really hot girl at the gym...but she is always with her mom. What do i do?Talk to her mom | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:29 PM |
| 21 | What are your hail mary texts or plays?Sounds petty spiteful and insecure | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Massive approach anxiety problems.I know the feeling, it doesn't feel justified because you don't have the excuse of someone telling you its your job. Next time only think about one thing, what do I want? Most likely you want to be in a conversation with that girl you are looking at. Speak deep and say hi. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Instead of pushing all that PUA/seduction stuff, we should work to legalize prostitutionSo move somewhere with legal prostitution, and for you the problem is solved. Don't confuse getting girls to comply with sex as only wanting sex though, I think very few people here have no interest in companionship of any sort. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating as a Female Ego BoostAny kernel of truth in this article let is wiped out by its ridiculous exagerations. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right subreddit, but it's eating me alive and I need some outside perspectiveShe hasn't found anything better and is looking to settle. You can be better than you were and don't have to settle for her. Meet lots of new girls, she if she is even still in your radar. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Instead of pushing all that PUA/seduction stuff, we should work to legalize prostitution6/10, hope you didn't put all your mental energy into this. Ridiculous misconceptions are something everyone here is used to. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Got a slap in the faceEven if what you did was weird, that girl is fucked up. Rude people are out there, it is a hurdle to deal with. Sometimes girls take an approach as a 'be rude and get away with it free card. They are not happy inside, it isn't about you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Why "Be Yourself" is the Best AdviceBe yourself isn't wrong but that doesn't mean it isn't shitty advice for someone who doesn't know what is attractive | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 11:03 AM |
| 3 | How do you AMOG your best friend?You don't because that would be petty | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Do women find intelligence attractive?you're gonna go far son | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Super solid daygame, shitty nightgame. Advice?At night everything is a direct approach anyway | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I'm a short guy who just cannot seem to attract women. What is the single most important trait or technique to cultivate in order to get attraction?Humor | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Fucking Contradictions in PUANone of those things really matters enough to be dogmatic about in my opinion. I wouldn't however go dark until a date, that seems to be begging for a flake. Also I end up paying on dates possibly more than I should but it is all in the name of fun. If she split everything with me we wouldn't be able to do the things we are doing. Also the one rule you might hear about not ever doing dinner and a movie I have to agree with. No talking+no touching = what's the point. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 12:02 AM |
| 2 | [NSFW] I (22f) have been trying to seduce this guy (24) for a year, but I keep on pushing too much or too little. Help?So look at women who have gone way out of their league. Arnold's maid, clintons's girl etc. You can offer him something men rarely get. Basically, you find a way to not make a big deal out of saying 'i won't tell anyone, but if you get horny, give me a booty call any time, and I will come to you and do whatever you want, no strings attached.' It won't ruin your friendship if you don't make a big deal out of it. Beyond that the only thing you can do is casually offer when you see him after you've… | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 10:32 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Total newbie starts from scratch, first eveningYou got out and practiced. Be proud, you stepped out of your comfort zone and that is manly courage. Period. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 06:53 AM |
| 3 | I am so sick & tired of these women who don't know what the fuck they wantMaybe they pick up on the fact that you aren't into meaningful relationships. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 06:48 AM |
| 2 | [NSFW] I (22f) have been trying to seduce this guy (24) for a year, but I keep on pushing too much or too little. Help?Men really aren't that difficult, if you want to no string sexual experience then find a way to communicate that to him clearly but without an awkward all in make or break style. He knows you, put the offer on the table and see if he takes you up on it now or in the future. We aren't that difficult. Also if you know you are overweight and frustrated, eat less and excersize more. But mainly eat less. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 06:46 AM |
| 2 | The Angry Underground World of Failed Pickup Artists (read the user comments on jezebel trashing PUAs)You could just click on the link | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 06:29 AM |
| 3 | what do you do when your friend acts like an ass and blows you out of conversationThis is what I recommend, some people just don't know what to do in certain situations which is why we are here. Explain that it makes you both look bad. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How should I convince my partners to make an effort?I've had this problem too, to the point that girls who I've known for a while and are absolutely into me still won't initiate anything. If I don't call they get extremely hurt, but still won't text me first. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I crashed and burned tonight.This is practice, nothing else! You got out there and got some experience and that counts. Give yourself some credit! It is all about learning, as long as you are learning, you are awesome. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, need advice: How to maintain game when you've got no cash to spend.First of all she didn't cause your debt unless she stole from you but these things happen and you've learned from it. Cheap date ideas are going to be your friend, which is fine, don't underestimate walking around. You can kino, move, isolate, and generally laugh and have a good time. Go grocery shopping with her then cook. The traditional expensive dinner dates and movies are something you want to avoid anyway. You will have to realize that it is something you will have to get in order to take … | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Please point me to material on closing you recommend. Or post your thoughts on it. I need work on same night lays and closing on dates (consistently) Gracias, SenoresI can tell you what I do on dates, although I have experience on date two not date one or the same night. Basically it is dinner at my place and we cook. She comes over, I show her the place, we go get groceries, we cook, we eat, we watch a movie close together in my room, we move to watching the movie on my bed. This is all broken up with makeouts and conversation and fun. If I can make out with her in my room when I show it to her, thats great. At many points I have gotten her on my bed, I wil… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Awesome ways to get in-stateIt took a nasa engineer to figure that out? I put two and two together after getting hungry right after swimming. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 10:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Managed to hit on a lesbian, get flat out rejected and friendzoned in one party. Feeling quite dejected. Is it just bad luck or am I doing something wrong?You've got to be doing something right, a girl isn't going to spend that much time talking to you if you aren't some sort of interesting worthwhile person. Two samples don't define you, but I am sure there are some things you can do. Flash attraction: Role playing, push pull, teasing. That is probably the order of how easy each of them are to do. You can do this stuff quickly and start to see a girl get attracted. Talk about stories where you win. Positivity is your friend. When you talk about y… | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:24 PM |
| 1 | how i make exchanging numbers fun for girlsI doubt very much age has anything to do with loving to laugh and feel sexy at the same time | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 03:26 PM |
| 2 | What are some things I should do on a getting to know you type coffee date to escalate?This ridiculous troll does not speak for everyone and we appreciate your insight. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some things I should do on a getting to know you type coffee date to escalate?That's also a good tip. Some places have couches which would work. Ideally though getting it and moving is great, it makes you feel like a couple. Escalation doesn't feel in full view of people that can sit and watch. I try to be concious of who is watching 'us', and by us I mean her. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some things I should do on a getting to know you type coffee date to escalate?All of this is good advice in my experience. I like 'I do hugs', girls won't hug right when they meet you without a slight 'plow'. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:46 PM |
| 3 | What are some things I should do on a getting to know you type coffee date to escalate?coffee is two people, in public, in full light, most likely sitting across from each other, drinking something that will make them nervous. Watching TV is at your place, under total control, in isolation, surrounded by your awesome place, with your awesome pictures your can show her, things you can do together, on a couch or somewhere you can sit together, but no inconceivably lay down together and cuddle up. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)I dont think you are in on the fun | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 10:39 AM |
| 4 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"I think you are right on your assessment, I never call anything a date, it sounds weird to me, like you are playing by someone else's rules. You just have to flip it around on her - 'why? are you going to buy me dinner?' ' if you play your cards right ' all that stuff. Whatever feels calibrated, but the underlying frame is that she is trying to get in your pants and you are not into labels. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bitches Love Pop RocksI think you are right on, sometimes with playful teasing you walk a thin line in my experience and every once in a while I say something uncalibrated that comes off very wrong for the dynamic I have with someone. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs Indirect Game - The Efficiency Principlereally awesome write up, great concrete info, thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 04:34 AM |
| 1 | For shits and giggles I decided to randomly message cute girls in my city on facebook....and its surpringly working!Or you could just type it into a comment | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 09:08 AM |
| 4 | For shits and giggles I decided to randomly message cute girls in my city on facebook....and its surpringly working!Well what is the opener? Initial online interactions can reused easily from one person to the next. | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 03:54 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First attempt at daygame. I really suck at this.I don't think it needs to be so harsh, a lot of the concept of negs is really distorted for most people (including myself) without a lot of calibration because of how they were presented. In the game and mm stuff something this harsh was really only reserved for the hottest girl in a crowded bar after she had been hit on by 4 guys already. Really light positive teasing works wonders. 'A Saturday night out at the grocery store, that's wild!' Huge smile - 'you're out of control, do your parents kn… | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 09:54 AM |
| 11 | After running bootcamps for three years I've made a conclusion about the genetically gifted.I'm pretty sure this is why your life is boring. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm really sexual when 1on1 with a girl, but keep getting told, "I'm not that type of girl."That's ridiculous | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm really sexual when 1on1 with a girl, but keep getting told, "I'm not that type of girl."You can always do reverse gender jokes or push her away. 'I'm not that type of girl either' 'I'm not that type of girl either, probably because of my penis' You can pull her into you, or put her hand on your leg or give her a reason to touch you a bit. I would probably just go ridiculous and say something in the realm of 'you're not what type of a girl, like a <something totally ridiculous and out of the blue>? Another good thing is to stop trying and get up to go to the bathroom, or just move l… | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm really sexual when 1on1 with a girl, but keep getting told, "I'm not that type of girl."Sounds like a case of calibration. Not that type of girl reads to me as 'privacy please' It seems to scream isolation. Also when talking about sex 'it's better to use the indefinite article 'A' dildo, never 'YOU'RE' dildo'. Joking aside talking about sex is enough, you don't have to talk about her specifically. That being said stuff like talking about waxing can start to go in that direction. You even set it up by talking about your own body hair and asking as a joke if you should wax it. Then y… | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Socially awkward penguin embarrassing myself a lot, should I just keep going?D G A F | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Was dancing with a girl at a club last night; what could I have done differently/better?Yeah you will feel these plateaus and know that you should move on with a little more calibration. Breaking that touch barrier is so great because you can lead with touch by taking her hand, puttting your hand on her back and all sorts of stuff. 15-20 minutes of dancing without solid conversation is alot, something was going very right and you were coasting on it. Once you talk you can really get to a point where you know she will text you back. Any point in a coversation where you can go 'youve… | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Help my poor chode ass.only one way to learn when you get uncomfortable, remember that you are learning, so you still come out ahead | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 04:00 AM |
| 2 | "Women really DO find the silent, brooding type sexier: Scientists discover happy men are 'significantly less attractive.'" Don't findings like these contradict the idea that we should be the super-positive guy who's talking to everyone?I didn't even have to read the last part to know that is all conjecture. This is completely counter to my experience. I know because I thought for some reason it would work to be distant, aloof, casually disinterested etc. It never has for me. What works is leading conversations, smiling, joking around, giving value, talking to everyone and all that jazz. There are many reasons it is attractive, not the least of which is that it draws attention to you. Focus from others turns into emotional inve… | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Just Made my second day game approachnice! | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Speed Seduction Principles: PatienceIt is, an it is interesting that you consciously decided it wasn't worth the benefit for the amount of money and time it was costing you. With all the information swirling around I really like it when people prioritize some stuff and recognize other things and not nearly as crucial. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Speed Seduction Principles: Patiencenormally I would agree, but it is a good way to avoid flaking for a couple different reasons what he calls time bridging is going to a lot of different locations instead of staying at one, which is also valuable in my experience | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Speed Seduction Principles: PatienceThis article has time bridging wrong, I thought it referred to talking about a specific thing to do later instead of getting a number and saying 'I'll call you sometime' The idea being there is something and some time more specific to commit to, even though you can just cancel later. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 04:31 AM |
| 3 | AMA With Neil Strauss at 9PM ET, February 14th!He agrees to do an interview and we should waste his time with this? I have heard many people say he is really good, but never heard anyone say he is bad. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 11:23 AM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMAi luv u | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Tonight gentlemen, I'll test what you've not tested yourself.Go direct on one girl and then hit on her friend. Hey I saw you from X and have to say you look gorgeous, I'm _____. Then lock in and hit on her friend. This worked once for me and needs more experimentation. The first girl gave me a 'you're weird' look and I leaned on the bar, and introduced myself to her friend (who was much prettier). Her friend didn't hear me open. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Second date, find out the girl has zero experience. zero.maybe this maybe that, maybe a lot of stuff. you've been up front and done your part, it sounds like she's dtf and you aren't listening to her. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Using Chat/Text teasing to start a rapport. When do I (or do I) “stop joking around”?I didn't read this, but my experience is to not stop joking around and roleplaying, just throw logistics in there when you have to. If you can mix jokes in with logistics then that's great too. Ever had a gay guy try to meet up with you? Pure, cold, down to business logistics, and even creepier than it sounds. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 10:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Apocalypse Opener.no I was agreeing that he offered to take a girl home and when she said yes he left. False expectations. Also he turns his back when she shows interest? Weird stuff, I think that is what you were also saying wasn't cool right? | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 03:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The Apocalypse Opener.all that honesty wasn't that honest | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 11:41 AM |
| 1 | "Why haven't we f**ked yet?"There was a line from someone named Jack Bauer that was basically the same concept but it doesn't have to be so blunt. You can say 'as soon as I get you alone naughty things are going to happen' or come up with some variation. That is saying it without being crude. You guys end up alone, you both know whats going to happen | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Forget the book the game, and forget negs. Tease, roleplay, push pull, and cold read Othrr than that have normal conversation and talk about stories where you win. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What the f*** just happened?You hate it but look where you are | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 06:18 AM |
| 0 | What the f*** just happened?having girls here sounds great in theory, but it always ends up being some sort of horrible misinterpretation. No one advocates being pushy, no one advocates doing something another person doesnt want. Relax. | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have.say ANYTHING if someone is literally following you around all you have to do is say something. if you see her again say 'hey I saw you here last time, we must be on the same schedule' something, anything, look her in the eye | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 10:03 AM |
| 2 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.look at you, you're so good at making excuses! | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Mini-FR questionNo reason to be a dick, you can just say so when you cant hear someone | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 11:17 AM |
| 1 | You've gotten the F-close. Now what? (Relationships)those are two different things | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 04:43 PM |
| 2 | RSD: Massive action and field experience (Great video for newbies and people that aren't going out)post a real FR | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of my game?seems pretty awesome, just saying hi with a nickname thrown in, transitioning into being direct and then talking about sex. You will have to go somewhere with it, but if she reacts positively it sounds great to me. Sounds like you a fishing for a compliment when you know you did well. Pretend you've got this part down and start escalating (numbers, day 2's, sitting down at the girls's table going somewhere else with her, who knows) | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Teenage Mutant Ninja Fuckupthere have been stories of guys with one arm or guys in wheelchairs becoming brilliant and pulling off crazy situations. You will just have to get out there believe it isn't a big deal enough to get some positive feedback, which help put you in a cycle of feeling more confident. | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 08:15 AM |
| 3 | For physically attractive men, how is the game different?Lets have a douche off and find out for sure | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.moar story pls | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 12:53 PM |
| 8 | Four years ago I quit drinking alcohol, and I havent had sex since then. advice on meeting and hooking up with girls sober?People are telling you that it is ok to not drink and to focus on day game, but that is probably not the root of why you havent gotten in to a sexual relationship. If you are going out and meeting people your problem is mote likely to be escalation and intent. You have to make all the moves, and making a move that a girl doesnt immediatly take to doesnt set you back. Slow but constant escalation is your friend. Eye contact and a smile, then proximity, then a touch on the elbow and you are offand… | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How can I make my dates more fun?so what do you expect to happen then ? If you can't get layed at home, you hope she has a place and takes you there? You have to get out of the house first and foremost, be an independant man and start your life. Second, cooking. Cooking + kino, movie+kino while eating, things progress. If you can watch a movie somewhere where the only place to sit is your bed, you have just made a major leap, because without knowing it, you have both crossed a barrier to sex: being alone on your bed together. S… | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been called out on your game?I don't know if that is even really being called out. I have heard of people using something canned, from The Game, in LA, and having the girl immediately ask 'have you read the game?' I think they still hung out with her and her friends and got her number. What you described seems like a girl wanting to feel special and testing you to see if you relent on what you said, which I have come to love, because I know they are paying attention and invested. Paying attention. Emotionally invested. From… | /r/seduction | 24/11/11 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Movie recommendations for transitioning to sex?It just has to be something that seems fun to watch but isn't really incredibly engrossing. Animated movies are good, and movies that have a decent but not amazing rating on rotten tomatoes that are still out in theatres are great. The novelty of seeing something still in the theatre is cool, the movie might not be fantastic, and you are off to the races. | /r/seduction | 24/11/11 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Bars & Clubs - Flaky Numbers Mean Go for the Lay or Bust?not sure why this is being downvoted, it obviously plays a big part | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 03:14 PM |
| 10 | What's your best first date greeting/intro?please tell me you've done this a couple of times and there are good stories to go with it. When you swing for the fences it goes any which way but boring | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 02:28 PM |
| 7 | What's your best first date greeting/intro?once I teased the girl because she was late and said I already left when she had just gotten there then I found her touched her on the back of the elbow, got in a little bit closer than normal and said hey then I lead her to where we were going to sit. meeting somewhere that isn't where you are actually sitting is good, you can lead immediately and she will of course follow, which sets a good dynamic up | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 02:20 PM |
| 0 | I'm uninteresting and lack ambition, but besides that I'm a pretty good catch. How do I get a long term girlfriend?You don't seem to want to better yourself for any reason other than you think you won't be able to skate by later. You equate the girls you get with to skanks. You equate being good with women to manipulation. Educate yourself or fuck off, you sound like a horrible person. | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Dinner date at your place - what's your go-to recipe to win her over?oh yeah, if you can go to the grocery store together even better, it is so domesticated it will feel like you guys already have a comfortable vibe about each other. You will be going to get things and be coming back to each other. It will feel like you are a team, and because it is a different location it will feel like more time has passed. What to actually cook? Not nearly as important, just make sure it is around 3 dishes. | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Dinner date at your place - what's your go-to recipe to win her over?logistics first, find out if she is a vegetarian, etc after that make sure you cook something with her, not for her, give her jobs to do, and have her be part of the interaction. there are so many opportunities for touching in the kitchen too. The big thing is that you aren't across from each other, you aren't doing something for her, and you are leading. Powerful stuff. Eat on the couch if you can, then you again are next to her and not sitting across. Watching a movie is a great distraction, a… | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 01:01 PM |
| 2 | What to say when girls complain about their boobs being small?I would just grab her elbows and go your boobs seem normal, these are boobs right? I don't go out alot | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 12:52 PM |
| 1 | On Assuming Attraction by Brad Branson from the RSD NewsletterIf I have a girl alone I will just plow through it, even if it is just a peck, even if it is in the middle on conversation, I just go and keep talking | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First direct openerBrad P. put out a book (I am not sure when) called the perfect date which was a pretty good book in general. I have heard the lovesystems text book is good (from their own instructors of course) but it certainly can't hurt. I would think that many dates would lead to a lot more lays. In my own meager experience, the most important things (not in any order) are: having fun, joking around, being light hearted, and smiling etc, putting in some spontaneous adventure even if it is small escalating sm… | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 10:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First direct openerI don't think he was saying he stalked her for 20 seconds because he thought it would help. | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 10:33 AM |
| 2 | how do i get my ex-girlfriend to go on the pill?I think that is implied, if he could make her do it, why would he need help getting her to do it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked because she's too poor.Cook | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone know how to do this trick?Oh hey sweet i really give a shit about all that but dont tell me how the trick actually works by any means | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Fascinating 40-minute interview with a guy who spent like a decade and a half just railing one Japanese chick after another (resulting in something like 7 abortions).Pretty much everything you just said yeah. I heard this guy on Howard Stern, and he basically said he never used condoms because girls would be ashamed and just go get abortions. Great job, what a horribly exploitive guy. | /r/seduction | 30/05/11 02:06 PM |
| 2 | RFC: REALLY Frustrated Chump seeks help from you all!First of all girls are girls. No, first is that you are improving yourself and putting effort towards your goal, that doesn't make you a chump, that makes you AWESOME. PERIOD. So you have gotten into conversations, and HAVE gotten facebook invites. That's not bad, if you have some solid attraction, you are in a good spot. First, make your facebook presence, awesome, travel if you can, do fun things, post solid gold on there. Doing things with girls is also good (doesn't have to be or even should… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Staying over at a girls house, how to make something happen...oh yeah, they will never explicitly say that you can sleep in their bed, that's insane. It may happen sometimes, with some girls, but it isn't the norm. What you are getting here is girl talk for FUCK ME AT THIS TIME AND PLACE. You will become more sensitive to signals as you go along. There is a lot of talk about how to get a girl interested, but a big part of an AFC that is already a cool guy in some ways is just that he doesn't pick up on signals, and doubts the ones he sees. I think you are … | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Staying over at a girls house, how to make something happen...Basically just like other people are saying, she wants to sleep with you, it's obvious to me, it was obvious before I read your whole post. Escalate smoothly, be patient, it will happen at some point, probably this night, maybe not, no big deal. Be playful, COOK SOMETHING, nudge her, side hug, etc. and when things quiet down and you guys are talking, get a bit closer to her face and see if she does too (she will, obviously). Usually I am not good at instigating a kiss, and I get close, give a pe… | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 02:29 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend isn't physically attracted to me. Any advice?This relationship is dead, in fact it doesn't sounds like much of a relationship at all. The next one you will do things better and probably find someone who is just better to spend time with. Move on, in the short term it will be good to stand up for yourself and things can flow from there. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Girls nervous around guys they find attractiveI'll put in something from Mehow's book, which I think is really underrated since I don't see it mentioned anywhere. When you need to ground yourself, tell your life story. It can/should still be full of value, but it helps to ground you as a person and builds comfort that you are a person just like them, not superman, just refined. Great stuff, I haven't used it enough but the times when I have it has gone well. | /r/seduction | 14/05/11 03:04 AM |
| 4 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.I have no idea what any of that is, but your aggressive defence of something meaningless and talk of making fun of interns at your company kind of makes you sound like a douche. Do you really make fun of people that are just trying to work hard and learn something for very little pay? | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 03:05 PM |
| 5 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.ha, what a bunch of subjective bullshit. | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 01:33 PM |
| 1 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.Gap 1969 jeans are pretty nice too, but what do you have against square toed shoes? | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 06:19 AM |
| -1 | [FR] Weird night. Got kicked out of a wine lounge. Told offensive jokeslook at mr. high road over here | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Blind date text game: yes/no?I feel like the best thing you could do would be to message establish some sort of conversation, but without calling it a date, and without calling her your date. I have never been on a date in my life. Why establish that ridiculous social pressure? It's all about escalating smoothly, and girls are very intuitive about it. Just say something like 'hey I hear you are coming to the party with us, do you know ***' or 'hey I hear you are coing to the party, how do you know these guys ...' and use he… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Having some OKC success - My thoughtsThe numbers tell a different story my friend. You have a choice, you can continue to rationalize your lack of success or you can realize the truth, which is that you can start to try different things so you can get different results. No one is saying it is easy, but everyone is saying is possible. You just have to keep stepping outside your comfort zone somehow, because right now your comfort zone is your keyboard. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Having some OKC success - My thoughtsThat is a very big deal, but what are your percentages of replies? They should be in the 70% range. Logistics are everything for anyone with enough balls to get out there, if you want to get serious you may have to travel to a big city nearby or move. One more thing - a recon profile. Create a profile using a girl's profile from a different city. See how awful most guys are at this. From what I understand it is copy and paste messages, novels, and marriage proposals that fill girl's in-boxes. Se… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Having some OKC success - My thoughtsWhat a bunch of defeatist bs. it sounds like you know why things didnt work but you didnt invest nearly enough into it. Also if you are over weight, cut out all dairy, all sugar, and stop eating in between meals. Swimming burns tons of calories and cold celery takes more calories to burn then it gives you so if you want to eat in between meals you can eat that and not have it contribute to your daily intake. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Having some OKC success - My thoughtsThis is great internet game advice. I learned some great stuff from dave m giving a talk for d'dangelo ( who i think sucks on his own and is kind of a charlatan, producer at best ). anyway i had by far the most success with opening with some variation of hey i have a question for you when you get this. There seems to be so little you can do with an opening message that doesnt seem try hard. It seems to be all about tease and qualify, tease and qualify. There really was no comfort from what i fou… | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when she says "But I am too old for you"?Basically you fell on the wrong side of logic and started talking numbers. i tease and touch whenever i can. When it comes to age sometimes i will say i am a 100 year old vampire. Dont talk reality, thats dry, instead be ridiculous because numbers only matter for logistics. If she pressed it i would make her guess. If she said something like that i would say something like 'oh yeah? how many kids do you have? 6? 9? 11? She would probably be trying to correct the guesses and i would just keep mak… | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss on Howard Sternwhat did he do? | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Man is worth $6 billion, ex-wife wants $5 - $15 billion in divorce settlementShe has never had a job One of the biggest red flags there is. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/11 02:42 PM |
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