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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How to respond to allegations of harassment?		watdotrp	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 09:33 PM

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1	Advice about my LTR It's not about what other guys really care about. It's about what you care about. This is your life, in the end, you are the one making the decisions.	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 01:44 AM
1	How to respond to allegations of harassment? I agree. I'm not responding. I would also normally see it as a shit test/IOI, but the inclusion of "Not cool." makes me think it's not that.	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 01:36 AM
2	How to respond to allegations of harassment? Agreed. I will not be responding	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 01:34 AM
1	How to respond to allegations of harassment? I wasn't attempting to pick her up. She came back from the weekend, and I was catching up with her	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 01:32 AM
1	How to escalate quicker? Sure, you can try and get her to come over. Don't text her "Sexy". Women you are just starting with are like animals... you have to coax them, not spook them. Find the line and ride it. I would just text: "Come over tonight, we're doing (xyz). Bring a bottle of your favorite liquor/wine/pack of beer". I will share a helpful hint with you. Kino is much easier to achieve when you are doing some kind of activity that involves movement. It can be playing Mario Kart on the N64, drawing in a coloring …	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 10:08 PM
1	How to respond to allegations of harassment? I'm not sure that she wants to bang me, and I don't think it's a flirtation. Could be wrong tho. I'm really only taking this seriously because of all the recent brouhaha about sexual harassment on college campuses. I'm graduating top of my class next spring and don't want to have to deal with ramifications of any kind.	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 10:03 PM
2	How to respond to allegations of harassment? I agree. However, I don't think your suggestion is the right way. It is totally possible that I did in fact grab her ass. I don't remember doing it, and it's nothing something I would usually do - but, I don't think she would flat out lie. I'm really looking for a way to apologize while maintaining plausible deniability, I suppose.	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 09:59 PM
3	Advice about my LTR It's a tough spot. I'm only 22, so please take my advice with a grain of salt. You have a decade of extra life experience beyond me. I understand feeling bored with some women. However, in my limited experience, wild/crazy women don't make the best long term partners. Maybe you can try and work on getting her to develop some interests and hobbies. It sounds like a lot of her "boring"/mirroring behavior is due to the fact that you are likely several points above her in SMV, and she knows it (the …	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 09:51 PM
4	Advice about my LTR Honestly man, this is something you're going to have to work through yourself. This is a pretty specific scenario, and it is unlikely that many people (especially with such a small readership in asktrp) will have had firsthand experience with a woman in this situation. I suggest that you take some time and think about what you want out of a relationship. Have you had any LTRs before? If you aren't enjoying your relationship, then end it. You should not feel obligated to stay with this woman - yo…	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 09:38 PM