waterofwind Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	How to stop having resentment towards happy couples/ happy people in general? Comparison is weird because you never know someone's full life story or what is going to happen to them in the future Because for example, you may envy their house. But their dad died. If you became them, you would get the house....but you most certainty don't want your dad to die. Or for example, they may have a loving spouse. But they got into a car accident 5 years ago. If you became them, you would get the loving spouse....but you might not enjoy reliving that car accident.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/25 12:38 PM
6	What is the deal with men warning against marrying career women? Are you hearing men offline saying this? Or social media influencers? Because you are going to find most college educated men end up marrying college educated women.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/25 01:15 AM
32	I was never redpill, but the red pill women subreddit confuses me I agree with the term "Self Abandonment". "Stockholm syndrome" is another term to describe what is happening to these women. "Fawning" the CPTSD response is another term to describe what is happening to these women. "Codependency" is another term to describe what is happening to these women. I feel like most of these Redpill people are not very familiar with Psychology, Mental Health, Self Love, Therapy, Emotional Regulation, Trauma Healing, Shadow Work etc. I think it's unresolved childhood tra…	/r/ExRedPill	23/12/24 08:52 AM
13	I was never redpill, but the red pill women subreddit confuses me I noticed the same thing. Many conservative/redpill/tradwife/pickme women are externally feminine but have a strong Masculine presence. Their aura and vibe is Masculine. There is a post I read on Youtube that explains this dynamic using metaphysical language. It's from the Youtuber u/NewEnergyMusic (My Life Coach Maria) "If you have disowned the feminine, and make no mistake, women can also disown their own feminine. (It’s called internalized misogyny)…So if you have disowned the feminine within…	/r/ExRedPill	23/12/24 08:30 AM
2	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? People who spend a lot of time on Social Media are less happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:44 AM
9	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? "Hitting the Wall" is not a real thing. Because all married women, young or not, eventually turn 30. Even if a man marries a 23 year old woman, she will eventually turn 30 too. All young brides eventually become 30 year old married women. Every woman either turns 30 or she dies. You can't stop the clock unless you die. And as you get older, and when you are an 85 year old married woman....you won't be looking at 30 year old single women as "hitting the wall" or thinking "Aren't I luckier than he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:32 AM
2	My friend has fallen into red pill community and I think I’ve lost him for good It's on his girlfriend to call out his behavior. At the end of the day, she is the person who gets directly hurt by his beliefs. You can always step away and chill out by the beach. Not your circus, not your monkeys. But his girlfriend is the one who has to deal with him constantly. She needs to call out his behavior and set boundaries. So it doesn't hurt their future children. (if they have or want any) Children often become very angry adults and cut off their parents, for things like this. Thi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/24 11:57 AM
1	Ruined my life There are students who come from upper middle class homes but still end up graduating with $250,000 in college debt and are struggling. If you don't have a ton of student loans, you have nothing to worry about. In fact, the more poor you are, the better financial aid you should be able to get. It's the students from middle class families, who end up screwed in their 30's and 40's, drowning in student loans. Because they often get denied financial aid since their parents make too much money. Thei…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/24 11:48 AM
1	How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people? I would highly recommend spending more time with happily married couples (even family members, like married siblings or cousins) You don't have enough married friends. Or spend time with happy singles who are living the monk life.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/24 11:39 AM
2	My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with that You don't need to be popular with a ton of people. You just need to meet 1 girl who is compatible with you. 1 girl out of 8 billion people.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/24 11:36 AM
1	I feel like I threw away a chance with a great girl because of Red Pill For conservative women, 10 is enough to send them running. For liberal women, 10 is not a lot.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/24 12:45 AM
1	Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men are "I feel like women never have to worry about being sexually desirable. " This makes no sense. It is simply not how reality works.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/24 12:37 AM