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It’s not. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 10:58 AM
3

Ah yeah, a poll stuck on a bulletin board at burning man. How scientific.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 02:27 AM
2

What does your app do?
/r/MensRights03/02/16 12:44 PM
1

I think vxd was commenting on the living with parents/riding a skateboard/being a science teacher thing explained here
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:27 PM
1

She's a human being dude. It's just a way of saying, "yeah, we're on" but also acknowledging that things may come up between now and then. What do you want her to do, sign her name in blood committing to a certain time and place...
/r/seduction11/08/14 01:07 PM
1

Just because people commit murder, it doesn't make it right.
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:39 PM
1

She says she's in a relationship ... okay great I'll walk with you for the next 20 feet till we have to part ways" and I grab her hand Then he mentions that he left "feeling good" after she was visibly uncomfortable with his actions
/r/seduction05/08/14 01:23 PM
1

Trying to hold hands with a girl who has stated she is in a relationship is not indicative of trying to better yourself
/r/seduction05/08/14 01:20 PM
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It's not so much that it's awkward, but as someone who likes music at the gym, it is annoying because it breaks my focus and determination when I have to take out my headphones and interrupt my session.
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:58 PM
5

He actually invited her out with "hey A it's E, seein if you wanted to grab coffee and walk around downtown. Hmu if you're down"
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:32 PM
1

Stay in shape. God damn if I had followed this rule. It just takes 1 hour a day at the gym (or even less). I gained close to 50 lbs in college. Having to get back in shape after I graduated was a bitch, and it would have made talking to girls so much easier if I had stayed in shape during my time there.
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:02 PM
6

I would just introduce the girl and say "Hey <roommate>, this is <girl>". After they shake hands or whatever then walk her out and down the street/whatever. Don't just walk her downstairs and dump her out the front door. The walk off your porch/down the first street can be the worst part. I would say walk her down the street and give her a kiss/hug/whatever after you make it to the next corner or something
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:41 PM
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If it is a girl you want to keep hanging out with, I would suggest introducing her to the roommates at a time when it is not "hey we just banged last night" because then she might feel like she is just another girl in a string of one night stands.
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:05 PM
1

Do you go out to the bars/clubs on Sunday night?
/r/seduction11/07/14 02:35 PM
1

No follow up? Did you set up or at least mention another date?
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:24 PM
1

Dude, it's not like it's some thing you can catch. Just read plenty of the material regarding it
/r/seduction10/07/14 01:43 PM
2

Does 5-1-1 make more sense? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N11_code ninja-edit: not questioning your statement, honestly just curious
/r/seduction10/07/14 12:31 PM
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I am 24 currently talking to a 30 year old. It doesn't matter and she is going to be more turned off by the fact that you dodged the question the first time around.
/r/seduction01/07/14 02:10 PM
1

Chiodos. Nice.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:32 PM
1

If the only 'background' between the two of you is getting her number on the last day of school, you aren't going to be losing your virginity to her on a date to Panera unless she is some reserved nympho who just acts really shy. You should probably take a step back and realize that it's not just about losing your virginity on the first date
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:57 PM
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If it's not true for girls giving their number to guys, it's not necessarily true for guys giving the number to girls. You're referring to girls giving their number when a guy asks for it, but this scenario would be more like a girl just saying "here, take my number" without being asked, which changes the scenario a bit
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:52 PM
2

If they flake for no reason (or some BS reason), then hell yes. Now, if her grandma dies or something legit, you might cut her some slack once (don't be a heartless bastard).
/r/seduction18/06/14 12:56 PM
2

From a guy's perspective, is that protectiveness coming more from a "that's ___'s girl" or is it more of a communal, territorial thing (like roosters protecting their hens)? Is either of those preferable for my situation? It depends on the scenario. In your situation I think that the latter is preferable because it means that they don't see you as _____'s girl. I can't comment on which is the reason for their behavior, though
/r/seduction12/06/14 02:54 PM
2

Would you mind helping me better understand why he would have said the " my without feather" comment, and why they were so protective of me talking with anyone but my ex in the past? I just assumed I have been marked for life as property of my ex by them--which I thought was exemplified through these actions, but I have been wrong before. I don't know what was going through their heads when that stuff was going on, or what would cause guys to do/say those things. I'm sure this all quite boring t…
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:28 PM
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If you managed to type all of that out and by the end, not thing "this dude is into me", then I am not sure what you are doing. IMO he is clearly into you, and it seems like you are into him. I mean he directly stated that he doesn't like not being able to date certain people due to the group dynamics (implying that he wants to date you). Has this whole "don't date anyone's ex" thing been actually stated, or are you just assuming this as a rule. Have you asked your ex about dating this dudeface …
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:31 PM
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Unless you give some specific examples, we have no way of figuring out if you were actually flirting or if you just think you were
/r/seduction11/06/14 12:17 PM
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In my opinion it does. Him under the covers seems like it's a scenario where he wants you to be there with him. Above the covers might just seem to me like he needed a place to sit/lay and you already had the couch. Just my $0.02
/r/seduction11/06/14 11:58 AM
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Just a question, in what context are you on the couch and they are laying in their bed under the covers. Seems a bit odd to me. I could see if you are sitting on the couch and they are sitting on their bed or something whilst talking, but it seems odd that they would be under the covers
/r/seduction10/06/14 12:49 PM
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I'm not being annoying, I really just don't think this is smooth at all.
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:27 PM
2

smooth this thing is a straight sex mobile Is... Is this smooth?
/r/seduction02/05/14 11:58 AM
1

Honestly, for a first text, that one just screams desperation. Texts should be short and to the point. Multiple lines conveys that you spent way too much time thinking about it. I would have just sent something like Hey, it's <insert name>, let's grab drinks this Wednesday Or some other day that you are free on. If she accepts (or proposes a different day because she is busy that day) you're in.
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:28 PM
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Yeah, it probably was possible if OP had suggested something a bit less suggestive. I would have gone with offering a nightcap (drink) as a thanks for the escort home. This allows for an innocent reason to join you inside where you can attempt to escalate more
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:25 PM
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She is 23. She is free to make her own decisions. Also, I have to throw out your point of "She might actually have a future with him". I think the story we just read all but proves she doesn't have a future with her current bf
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:21 PM
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Logistics? I would argue that a motorcycle makes logistics tougher actually. The other points are correct though.
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:21 PM
1

I know someone already answered, but if you ever have a question relating to acronyms, there is a glossary of terms in the sidebar
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:26 PM
1

Got v. friendly with one girl, she was kinoing me and I back. Got v friendly with another I have never seen someone use v instead of very. Why would you do this?
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:20 PM
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Yeah, I didn't mean to make it sound like you fucked up or anything. Just pointing out a possible alternative for next time. You did far better than most people do, and with less experience. I really liked how you befriended the bouncers. It shows a lot of foresight and it's planting the seeds early. You scored a number, some makeouts, and it sounds like the potential for this to develop even further.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:54 PM
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I would have presented it to her first, when you had her isolated. This way, when it came up in front of her friends, you wouldn't have had to do anything, because she is going to have an easier time calming her friend's nerves than you are
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:33 PM
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You really didn't do much wrong besides not having your wings informed as to what your plans were. Along those lines, not really sure why you phrased it as some sort of 'afterparty'. If the girl was interested in you like it seemed she was, you could have just seen if she wanted to come back to your place and still told her friends you would get her back safe
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:24 PM
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a) you can turn it off b) many chat services have this (gchat, facebook)
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:39 PM
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Neither did I. For the sake of your reference, this would be like you (given you are talking about gaming) saying "We pulled out my copy of Super Smash Bros and laughed at the style of Masahiro Sakurai"
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:12 PM
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I pulled out a copy of Ulysses, and we insulted James Joyce. Laughing at how ridiculous his style is This
/r/seduction10/04/14 02:15 PM
1

Yes I know, the dmg stuck out more, being a long time OSX user.
/r/seduction09/04/14 12:23 PM
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Your use of different file extensions was the best part of the story. Even threw a disk image in there
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:29 PM
1

Not a bad FR once I got past the first few paragraphs. If it was me I would have escalated more after the night at the market. Seems like it would be a perfect opportunity to get a drink or walk the beach or something like that. You were building up attraction in your time at the market and then sort of let it just die off until the next morning.
/r/seduction03/04/14 12:44 PM
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dude, the link you posted is http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/220cuv/ive_been_a_good_girl_a_slut_and_everything_in/ read that /r/seduction
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:22 PM
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Posting your supposed salary on reddit just screams class
/r/seduction31/03/14 01:05 PM
2

Well in all fairness he didn't necessarily say to her he was doing that. She asked for his number, so he probably just said "Here, let me dial you so you have mine".
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:38 AM
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If you make it seem to each girl that you are exclusive, you are leading people on, and you shouldn't be doing that. If you are just honest with each person then there is no harm in anything could be presented on your facebook wall/timeline/whatever the fuck they call it now.
/r/seduction26/03/14 02:17 PM
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RedPens wasn't making fun of your friends, he was making fun of you for assigning those names.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:04 PM
2

Nah, in OP's post he said "when i saw those" so it means he is observing them on the girl. No biggie.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:01 PM
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I am assuming you do this with someone you have at least had a short conversation with, otherwise they wouldn't yet be asking you for something. Is this correct?
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:31 PM
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I think it refers to how bambi the deer has large eyes, similar to most anime characters. When a girl is interested in you she tends to have wider eyes, similar to someone who has just witnessed something surprising and they open their eyes wider. It is obviously not this emphasized, because it is a more sustained emotion than sudden surprise. As you are interacting with a girl you can start to notice if she is more interested because she will naturally start to gaze at you with "wider eyes"
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:29 PM
3

Why wouldn't your male friends help you get laid. I have assisted my female friends at the bar just by talking to fellow dudes that the girl might be interested in.
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:11 PM
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In places like Spain where they close at 5/6 am the club doesn't even get crowded till 2-3 am like OP said You basically have to shift your internal clock when partying/vacationing there
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:12 PM
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Screwed up here IMO: "Me: I'll be pretty good once you come and visit. So when's it gonna be?" If you knew you were both going to be in Orlando, why not just make plans to meet up there?
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:55 PM
2

I am confused, where do you go to school that your university has a bar?
/r/seduction03/03/14 01:33 PM
2

Unless her and her friends all sleep in the same bed, you're golden! Clearly you have a different idea than I do...
/r/seduction25/02/14 05:57 PM
1

I'm confused, how did you find out you are a horrendous kisser. Did I miss something?
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:42 PM
1

I think he is referring to "Yeah, I am. That's why, if you aren't a doctor, lawyer, or programmer I don't have much time for you." I really don't think there is any way to phrase that, especially to people you just met, which doesn't come across as a douche. Basically you just said to them "I am really smart and if you aren't as smart as I am, your time isn't worth shit to me", so why would they continue to give you their time.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:22 PM
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I am not sure that it is the girls he is interacting with that are speaking ill of him. To me it seems like it may just be random bystanders, that also happen to know the girl he mentioned in the story. While I agree he should always be trying to build rapport with the girls he interacts with, I don't think it will help with this problem, as it may not be those girls talking about him. As for OPs problem, it may just be one that he has to deal with, given that he chooses to go to these same bars…
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:07 PM
7

Because tinder is 99% based on physical attraction (looks). This means that it is going to draw more to people who are fine with being judged solely upon appearance (hot people)
/r/seduction03/02/14 08:45 PM
0

No, this would be like if you sat through all of that, and when they brought you the food... you left.
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:13 PM
0

It seems like you are approaching this from a negative viewpoint when I read it. Seems like you are penalizing this girl for crashing her car. I mean yes, she should be a better driver but I guess I would be sympathetic to someone who just wrecked their brand new car.
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:28 PM
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Yeah, but if you are approaching it from the It was a bar hookup, a one night stand, it shouldn't have be this hard. mindset, it seems like you had already sealed the deal if you had just stayed
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:57 PM
0

So you wanted to sleep with her, she wanted to sleep with you, she went through a traumatic event, and you just dropped her off and said "peace bitch" (figuratively)?
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:53 PM
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I don't think Haptic_Affinity read your other comment about her not wanting to remove her shirt/pants after you attempted to. If she gives you the hand block, ease off for that night. Just enjoy that session and try again next time.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:22 PM
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Most importantly, don't let the failures/drama/etc of your past relationship affect your perception of this possible one. Nothing sucks more than when someone gets a predetermination of how something is going to turn out before they even dive in
/r/seduction16/01/14 02:05 PM
3

Breaking the unofficial Bro Ediquette, we are talking at the urinals The way I always heard it was that you can talk, as long as you are all on the same level e.g. both at the urinal. If one is in the stall (taking a shit) you can't talk to him while you are at the urinal taking a piss). So you're good bro. Also, great FR. Were you driving, or did you just not want to have everyone in that large of a group be drunk?
/r/seduction03/01/14 08:34 PM
2

That is... correct
/r/seduction03/01/14 08:20 PM
3

Well like the post said, assuming this is correct she (let's assume we are talking about a girl) will look at the person she is attracted to. So if you make people laugh and she looks towards someone else, you may be able to discern that she is attracted to that person
/r/seduction17/12/13 02:37 PM
1

Three endless, whirling, magical, circular sonnets of vainity I don't think vainity is a word
/r/seduction17/12/13 02:33 PM
3

Sounds like she was into it. Good job man
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:44 PM
1

Yeah, I would probably be trying to GTFO as quick as possible, and would have expected the girl to do the same. The fact that she stuck around and engaged with you after that stuff went down, means she probably was into you
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:44 PM
1

Ah, gotcha. Good luck next time man
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:17 PM
1

Damn dude, she gave you a few opportunities to hit her up for the number. All you needed to say was, "I can't stall for much longer, because I have to get him home, but what's your number so we can meet up again". I get not wanting to ditch your buddy, but you could have accomplished both goals. But you were an epic wingman...
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:14 PM
1

I think you should have declined the movie. You didn't want to go. Also, the first time you left it drove her to call you. Who knows what would have happened if you declined the movie and left again.
/r/seduction16/12/13 03:29 PM
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Not a pro here by any stretch of the imagination. I have found that the best way to figure out whether a girl is enjoying a kiss/makeout is body language. If she is pulling herself closer to your body, she is into it. If she is prolonging the kiss herself, she is into it. If she is placing her hand on your body to pull herself closer, she is into it. Pay attention to what her body/hands/head is doing to figure out if she is into/enjoying the kiss.
/r/seduction16/12/13 03:26 PM
1

Yes, but if the girl asks you for a spot and then strikes up a conversation, you wouldn't necessarily leave right after. The "asking for a spot" opener gets her in the door
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:20 PM
2

I don't see how it is remotely a weird situation. If it was your friend's sister, then maybe. But your friend's girlfriend's twin... No big deal
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:18 PM
1

I can't make your decisions for you, but I would probably not contact her again. Your first time hanging out and it was full blown crazy. Should be a simple sign to get out of there.
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:30 PM
1

Works for me around that area
/r/seduction25/11/13 06:10 PM
3

It sounds like the plans to have her come over and watch a tv show is a bad idea. Watching something on tv allows for next to zero conversation. You basically plopped a girl who hasn't spoken to you in person on your couch and thought that somehow progress would be made. IMO you should plan a better first interaction next time
/r/seduction18/11/13 08:38 PM
1

I ususally go with "what is one secerect that you're willing to admit to a stranger?" Do you purposely slip "erect" in there or was that freudian?
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:16 PM
1

Can we get any details on how this 6/7 "picked you up"?
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:14 PM
2

That applies to real life interactions, however via text there is really only one way to say it...
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:15 PM
2

pretty sure it was a joke, about 98% sure
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:04 PM
9

Yeah IMO this line blew it. I would have just left this out and let her have the last word.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:07 PM
1

Don't ask her if she knows who it is when you call her (if you do). IMO that will come across creepy right off the bat. I would text her, stating who it is and ask her out for drinks or coffee.
/r/seduction01/10/13 01:22 PM
2

Not questioning your story, but what kind of 42 year old professor hangs out at the dorms with students. I can imagine the higher-ups at the school would be that excited about such a thing
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:40 PM
1

Sadly I was forced to walk from the stop to her house Why is this bad, it's not like you walked alone... Good time for conversation and kino
/r/seduction26/09/13 02:59 PM
3

This line got to me As Sinatra says, "A lady doesn't wander all over the room, and blow on some other guys dice" It seems like you are using that line to say that you needed to correct that behavior when in actuality it would mean that according to Sinatra, your girl is not a lady
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:29 AM
1

Tinder is 100% all looks.
/r/seduction08/09/13 06:23 AM
1

Yeah, some schools require that you pay for parties. Actually most schools do. I found that Michigan was one of the few schools where parties were free. I think it was under the premise that if we throw free parties we can also go to everyone else's free parties. it made it a lot easier to party hop for a night, because you didn't end up spending $5 bucks at 5/6 different places each.
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:25 PM
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I was in a fraternity at Michigan, and yeah, anyone from the university can go. It may not be the same at all universities however. Yes, there are some brother-only parties or private parties between a fraternity and a sorority, but most large fraternity parties are public parties. If they weren't how would they get girls into them...
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:04 PM
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Most fraternity parties are open to the public. There is usually a line, but anyone can go. Most of the times though you need a student ID from that school to get in.
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:49 PM
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Step 1: Don't refer to women as bitches
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:46 AM
16

Yeah there is no way to script an interaction like this 1: Dance 2: Some sort of wave arm thing 3: ??? 4: She grabs dick 5: Haz sex
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:46 AM
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I don't give two fucks about any scale, I am just telling you that when you post in a subreddit with a sidebar item defining commonly used terms, you should expect that they be used the way they are defined
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:29 PM
2

From the sidebar HB- Hot Babe. This basically refers to any girl. Typically seen in front of a number (1-10). The HB “scale” doesn’t just refer to how beautiful a woman is- it also refers to how highly she’s valued by other people...
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:22 PM
1

From the sidebar HB- Hot Babe. This basically refers to any girl. Typically seen in front of a number (1-10). The HB “scale” doesn’t just refer to how beautiful a woman is- it also refers to how highly she’s valued by other people...
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:21 PM
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You're not going to get many responses, because the HB scale is meant to encapsulate more than just looks, so it is too subjective to just have people post pics. That being said, Natalie Portman
/r/seduction21/08/13 09:12 PM
1

Any pointer to this desktop application? Just for reference.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:36 PM
5

Honestly, until the end I was confident that this was an advance for you. Up until the line Well, it’s nice to know that I have… options It just seems like all it was is a boost to her ego, because she really had control of the situation most of the time, and now she just knows she has you in her back pocket. I could be reading it wrong, but you might need to play her a little colder so that she doesn't think she can just snag something whenever she wants. Good luck man
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:45 PM
1

Well you could always spot girls in line that may be alone, or with a small group. If you are there with some friends you could start talking to a group of girls and ride the rides with them. Girls being afraid of heights on a roller coaster or something like that could offer good opportunities for kino (hand holding, etc)
/r/seduction19/08/13 01:42 PM
1

What is a WBAFC (I checked the acronym guide)
/r/seduction19/08/13 01:20 PM
1

So you weren't really cockblocked per se... just didn't have the right logistics. Gotta plan ahead
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:26 PM
2

She says I can't go to her place, because her boyfriend and his girlfriend are sleeping there Typo there?
/r/seduction19/08/13 03:01 AM
1

But OP is stating that in the situations it seems like the girl is conveying interest in a new person, so they must find them subjectively attractive
/r/seduction14/08/13 01:00 PM
2

If you are going to use the phrase "could have" so often you might want to correctly use "have" instead of "of". But in actuality you should just remove that phrase from your repertoire. It seems like you keep saying "I could have" done X or Y. Why not just do it. Like with the friend of a friend. If you already had an in (knowing her through mutual friends) why wait to approach instead of just talking to her at that time. In almost every one of the situations you presented you bailed stating yo…
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:14 PM
1

Yeah, you definitely escalated too quickly with the Brasilian. And by escalated I mean you just tried to kiss her. There was no building of any rapport. At that point the comfort level she had with you was basically the same as some random guy off the street. You needed to put a bit more time into it
/r/seduction08/08/13 01:42 PM
1

I am confused No electronics Technology to use ?
/r/seduction06/08/13 07:34 PM
8

You can't let them come to you... You have to pick girls to be matched with. Unless you mean saying "yes" to all of the girls so that anyone who says yes to you is a match. Seems like a strategy that will just lead to being matched with girls you would never want to get with
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:25 PM
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Honestly in one day you won't have tons of results because it relies on you matching with the same people that match with you, so it takes some time before you cross paths with the same people crossing paths with your profile, if you know what I mean
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:22 PM
2

And all is right with the world
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:45 PM
1

You should have just had her walk to your car with you and your friends. Nothing desperate about that, and it's not like she had anywhere else to be at that time
/r/seduction26/07/13 12:38 PM
1

Just so you are aware, people in this /r/ are going to want more details about this FR. This would be what you said to them, how you used body language, etc. Also, by pressing return twice between paragraphs you can break up your story into better segments (seems like you did this with your last line)
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:33 PM
8

Seems like if she was at all interested in a date she would have said something like "I can't at XXXX time but how about YYYYYY"
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:32 PM
7

reminds me of this
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:26 PM
2

If you are worried about the environment you can just get glow in the dark golf balls. They sell them all over the place. Granted it takes away from the frugal part of this date idea, but maybe your conscience would be clean
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:48 PM
2

If you are framing this as a ONS, wouldn't texting after the fact invalidate that?
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:36 PM
2

Are you suggesting OP lie about his occupation?
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:08 PM
1

In the case of # 2 you should have gone back to her and when she sensed that something was off you could have just told her you thought she was cute and you were into her but you heard that she had a boyfriend and you don't play that way. There are two outs of it She doesn't actually have a boyfriend and then you are good to go She does have a boyfriend and you are in the same position you were when you found out from her friend.
/r/seduction03/07/13 01:25 PM
1

she came over and said goodbye, asking me if I'm going anytime soon I may be wrong but I took this to be an invitation to leave and go somewhere with her. You could have said "well I was thinking about it, want to grab a bite to eat or a drink" But you may have played it cool by declining her possible "invitation". Good luck tomorrow
/r/seduction17/06/13 10:15 PM
1

Looking for advice or anything? I think you did mostly everything right but there isn't a ton of detail so I don't think anyone is going to critique. Just try and play it cool on the date. Park sounds like fun, but that's because I am a big water person
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:59 PM
7

When we reach her car she asks me what time I have class tomorrow, I say two.. she says the same This line to me sounded like she maybe was looking to hang out longer, maybe back at your place. By saying you both don't have class until 2 was an indication that you don't have to be up early so she might be up for staying awake later
/r/seduction22/05/13 03:48 PM
1

I think it's more of the way you phrase it I tell her to come on a night romp through the woods with me. "Meet me at the library at 8." Sounds very threatening. If it was me I would have maybe started with "Hey, have you ever gone for a walk in the woods, it's really peaceful. Want to join me for one later?"
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:04 PM
3

It doesn't really sound like she "flaked". When I think of someone "flaking" it is more of a repeated action (if she repeatedly bails on your plans). Some of the people on here will get rid of a girl after the first time she bails, but I at least like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:27 PM
2

Hey man, if it works, it works. However, at the end of the conversation you were really no further along than you were when you started, and in actuality you brought back up the "her and your roommate" which I think may be you shooting yourself in the foot
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:12 PM
2

Just my opinion, but damn that texting went on for wayyyyyy too long. And for someone who says they hate texting you are certainly willing to do it a lot. I thought the joking around with the name part was funny, but after the "You are a dick line" I would have gone with something like: "Mark wants to know if you would like to grab a drink some time" which links to the joke and sets up a possible date. The rest of the conversation was pointless IMO
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:04 PM
1

I don't really see why a doctor would be any different than someone else in terms of setting up dates. I may understand that they could flake more often if some type of emergency comes up out of nowhere, but she should still be able to respond to your texts/calls.
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:27 PM
1

Just a quick question, but how come you didn't go for the #-close on the really hot girl (HB10)?
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:04 PM
4

Why the hell would her needing hand sanitizer be a no-go. Seems logical that she would want to use some. I actually keep a small bottle in my car.
/r/seduction07/05/13 02:26 PM
2

What he wants is a girl he can take out and will look good on his arm. He also wants to be seen as a guy who has women that are into him. While you probably are already, it can be nice as a guy to go out and have other girls seeing that this one girl is wanting you. We like to be sought after just like girls do. I would suggest that you bring up the idea of a nice dinner to him. Get all dolled up and go out. Be fancy, compliment the things that he does, and be very interested in what he is sayin…
/r/seduction26/04/13 02:09 PM
2

It's possible that OP's SO is talking about more than being sexually seduced. He might want her to get dressed up nicely for a dinner or something and flirt and what not. But I could also be way off base
/r/seduction26/04/13 12:44 PM
1

You might try breaking up your FR into paragraphs to make it easier to read.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:29 PM
3

Yeah, I kind of skipped over that because I just figured his 'girlfriend' understood because it seems like he is pretty set with what he wants, but this is the first time he has told this new girl where he stands and he started off with a lie
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:56 PM
4

I found that odd too. If there is a girl you consider yourself "dating" and you call your "girlfriend", I feel like not telling the new girl is definitely hiding something.
/r/seduction11/04/13 04:23 PM
5

Ehhh, I do a lot of things with my parents. Yeah probably wouldn't invite some random chick (no offense) to dinner with them though. So you probably have a point.
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:02 PM
5

I'm not going to encourage ONS oneitis. Just because a guy leaves his number, does not mean he has oneitis. Maybe he just enjoyed fucking you
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:54 PM
1

clearly will take a lot of work to get in bed. Because of these things, she probably isn't girlfriend material, at most would be a casual sex partner. This line confuses me. If she seems like she won't kiss until you are her bf, how do you think you are going to get her as a casual sex partner?
/r/seduction04/04/13 01:57 PM
2

You probably did fine, but if I were you I would invite her to some activity that facilitates escalation a bit more. You mentioned she loved the bowling, so why not try something kind of fun easy 'sport' like mini-golf or something. Maybe with a bit of competitiveness so that it amps up the feelings between you two.
/r/seduction02/04/13 12:24 PM
1

So if it was maybe a "hold on", did you wait? Where did it go from there?
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:50 PM
1

It sounds like you guys already defined cheating. Don't do anything that was defined as cheating. This sounds simple enough
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:09 PM
1

I literally said don't apologize From my post ...I wouldn't apologize for it...
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:32 PM
1

I would say no. Granted I only know what you have stated. But if you apologize it will most likely come across as weak, and it may even appear as though you regret the interaction, which I don't think you did. If she thinks you regret it she may also think that you believe she is beneath you...
/r/seduction25/03/13 03:49 PM
3

If you want to fuck her, hit her up There is a difference between apologizing and texting her to invite her out again. I wouldn't apologize for it. You both wanted it enough, I mean she invited you back to her place. Just text her and see if she wants to go out some time. A party, coffee date, anything really
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:37 PM
1

I'm from Highland/White Lake but I work in Auburn Hills. I am not trying to poke fun or anything, I just tend to see girls using that stuff, and they come off as a bit 'playful' if you will. Playful is ok if you are trying to be seen as fun, but I don't think it translates to that in this scenario.
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:23 PM
1

Any details on the talk you had with her? How did you initiate it and what was said. If you don't feel like sharing I understand
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:11 PM
3

Royal Oak, Michigan? Nice. Second, as TokyoPickup said, you text way too much. And also, I think the high usage of emoji is probably a turnoff. I tend to think that girls use emoji more than guys, so it probably comes off as a bit feminine
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:37 PM
2

you might want to try using 'utmost' though
/r/seduction21/03/13 03:07 PM
2

OP is assuming this has already happened and he wants to throw out a text after they have separated, just to stay on her mind
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:00 PM
1

texty text
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:39 PM
2

I think he is referring to how someone else's actions are DHVing for you. If you have someone else introducing you to a group that can show that you are a cool/legit/whatever person. It's like when you get introduced to a group of girls by a common friend (helps if the common friend is female). The new girls already see you as higher value because this person whom they trust conveys that they see you as high value
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:05 PM
1

Just for my own curiosity, why does that seem like a DLV
/r/seduction06/03/13 04:51 PM
1

use two returns (enters) to separate into different lines
/r/seduction06/03/13 04:34 PM
3

By entering in a relationship with someone you don't truly want to be with, you are hurting them more in the long run than if you just say "I don't want to be with you"
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:10 PM
1

I practiced the night before in your bum! (Do use this)
/r/seduction15/02/13 04:29 PM
1

Wow, someone likes to pick fights
/r/seduction15/02/13 04:28 PM
2

What seems to be the problem with it?
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:35 PM
1

To be honest it seems like you should know that making out with not one, but both of a girls roommates in front of her would get you in a bad scenario, but you did it anyway. Someone will come on here and say that if you are a good PUA you can work your way out of this, but I don't really see it as necessary for a HB7 whom it seems like you don't have much of a connection with (besides the fact that you like asians).
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:52 PM
3

I see the "nice" being separate from the drugs/sex reference because he explicitly states "like that" afterwards. He wants them to be nice, and like he described, which means that those two things are not being linked
/r/seduction05/02/13 04:30 PM
3

All he did was state that he wants someone who is at a similar experience level. Don't be a dick
/r/seduction05/02/13 03:52 PM
2

i usually write "hey (name)", then "are you there?" if she doesn't answer me fast enough "pls respond"
/r/seduction05/02/13 03:04 PM
1

I'm a bit confused. You say she's said she's not sure, but then you also say she's 95% into it. I had a recent experience (girl had gotten out of a 3 year relationship a few months before we started hanging out). Hung out with an awesome girl, had sex, got along amazingly well, yet at the beginning she expressed not wanting to get into something like a formal relationship. I was looking for a relationship so I kind of tried to "play through that statement". I will say it ended poorly. I thought …
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:19 PM
2

Well it's also in Hall Pass. I looked it up before posting in case someone called me out ;)
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:30 PM
1

I believe the movie is Hall Pass
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:36 PM
2

In the posted link there is a link to an image of it being done
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:34 PM
4

Personally, there are about 10% of the people at the bars on the week nights vs the weekend. If it is a numbers game (which some people say it is) then the weekdays are bad for that
/r/seduction29/01/13 03:12 PM
1

The only person that changed the game is this kid
/r/seduction18/01/13 05:05 PM
0

But then the original point of the thread is somewhat missed, because OP asked about potential IOIs, so if we list things and their opposites, that basically tells her that every male action is an IOI
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:14 PM
-2

This: Starts talking louder whenever you're near (to make you hear his witty and hilarious quips) Gets all quiet whenever you're near (for fear of saying something stupid) and Smiles or laughs at your jokes Doesn't smile or laugh at your jokes, but teases you about them instead
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:16 PM
2

Is it Barrett-Jackson?
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:04 PM
3

What the hell is going on in this story. The girl with Boyfriend is making out with your drunk friend and then when her boyfriend comes back she asks you to tell him that she is with you?
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:54 PM
3

But games are an obstruction when you chose to play them as an alternative to physically spending time around people Most important line right there
/r/seduction28/12/12 04:51 PM
1

Some of us simply don't find smoking weed that interesting. On the same level when I meet frequent smokes I just assume they are stereotypical hippie stoners.
/r/seduction28/12/12 04:25 PM
1

Wait, I'm confused on one part. It seems like you are the one who has a thing for Victoria, not the other way around. So why would Kailey have a problem doing stuff with you
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:34 PM
1

If you are about to have sex with someone but don't like anything about them, you might want to look at your actions... Just tell them something you like about them.
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:09 PM
8

But this doesn't make sense, because it is a girl shaking a girl
/r/MensRights20/12/12 04:16 AM
1

So far I have 22 responses, and the data is as follows bar chart It shows that most people prefer text, regardless of age range. There were only three responding that preferred calls, all from the age range 20-24 edit: if I get more responses, I will update
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:57 PM
2

May be an IoI from her, given that she is pretty shy as you said. If you were interested in her you might try starting up a conversation if she is online some time, but it doesn't sound like you are that interested in her, so you might just let it go until she texts you
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:42 PM
1

The idea came about in this seddit thread. See it for context
/r/seduction09/12/12 12:06 AM
1

I am less that excited to report that I did not get very many responses. I am going to try and post it as a standalone in the subreddit. As of now there are 7 responses 6 were 20-24 year olds and 5 said text and one said call 1 was a 25-29 year old and said text I will post it as a standalone and see how it goes
/r/seduction09/12/12 12:04 AM
2

No offense intended, but if you text girls the same way you composed this sentence, you might be portraying yourself poorly. I would avoid so many uses of 'like' and phrases similar to 'you know'.
/r/seduction07/12/12 10:22 PM
1

this is a link to a survey I made regarding this, collecting age and preferred method https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dEVhUDZ4YkRHRVFNcS1QZnVoMDdsNkE6MQ#gid=0
/r/seduction07/12/12 08:19 PM
1

I have created a google form to collect responses for this. It is just for fun. I included age, and preferred method of communication. Please take 3 seconds and do it if you feel so inclined https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dEVhUDZ4YkRHRVFNcS1QZnVoMDdsNkE6MQ#gid=0
/r/seduction07/12/12 08:18 PM
1

There are ways to show intent without touching someone. There are also appropriate and inappropriate places to be touching a girl, and I feel like while she is at work is a bad idea, because if her boss sees it, she could end up in trouble/fired (I am purposefully taking that to the worst possible scenario but I think you see my point)
/r/seduction03/12/12 07:26 PM
1

At some point acronyms lose their purpose. This is one of those times
/r/seduction03/12/12 06:35 PM
2

This might just be my opinion but it seems like there is a much too intense focus on kino here. I get the importance of it but it seems like under every FP people just post: TL;DR needz moar kino
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:25 PM
1

Yeah, no problem. I understand that line of thinking is not following the popular opinion on this subreddit, but given how OP wants to approach women, it seems like a good idea. I like that a lot of the stuff here is transferable to many situations
/r/seduction20/11/12 03:33 PM
9

What I'm saying is that you don't have to sleep with a ton of girls. You could go out over a period of time, meeting let's say 5-7 women. Then through casual dates weed that down to 1 or 2 who you might be interested in dating. You could then select one to make it serious with. I agree that sexual compatibility is key and I would not want to have a LTR with a girl who I had bad sexual chemistry with
/r/seduction20/11/12 03:18 PM
17

That said, you don't have to sleep with them to test it out. You can still apply the tactics here to meet and converse with women to "test them out"
/r/seduction20/11/12 02:20 PM
3

Did you find that it was nice having the excuse of "I'm travelling" if someone asked why you were alone, made it more comfortable, or did it never really come up?
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:24 AM
3

How do you group text without them seeing that it is a group text. Wouldn't they get the replies of the other girls...
/r/seduction01/11/12 12:39 PM
2

comes from the movie Hitch if I am not mistaken
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:12 PM
3

Dude, you sound like a major perv. These things are ok to say after you have met the girl and built some sort of rapport but this early...
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:26 PM
12

Sounds like it was a solid overall date besides the botched kissing. You didn't really ask for any advice but it seems like you escalated well and she was overall very receptive of it. The only part I seemed put off by was asking to touch her earrings, but I guess it worked out alright.
/r/seduction16/10/12 11:52 AM
1

Tonic Water with Lime - It looks like a drink to most people
/r/seduction15/10/12 02:22 PM
1

Right, but go over to GW and see how the tabs at the top of the page are organized
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:29 PM
3

I told her she doesn't want anything to do with me 'cause I'm a fucking weirdo and inexperienced fucking loser New day game strategy acquired
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:43 PM
6

OP is talking about adding tabs to go right to all [FR] posts or other posts designated by tags
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:35 PM
2

I think the problem is you keep hanging out with her in huge groups. Invite her out on an actual date instead of just going to the clubs with friends
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:10 PM
1

You forgot ... and I'm pretty good looking
/r/seduction20/09/12 01:27 PM
2

Does improvement of your physical appearance really make THAT much of a change in your confidence and personality? As a guy who went from 225 and slightly overweight to 180 and in good shape. Fuck Yes
/r/seduction20/09/12 01:26 PM
1

12) ANSWERING QUESTIONS TOO QUICKLY/EARLY = too much interest in the conversation who gets to tell me how interested I am in a conversation? I think the bigger thing is that if you answer too quickly you are more concerned with getting out your own thoughts than fully comprehending what the other person just said/asked
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:14 PM
2

Do people not realize the difference between quiet and quite?
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:07 PM
4

I think instead of getting up to get a beer alone, ask her if she wants to come to the bar with you. It's a good chance to isolate her from those 'bodyguards'
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:56 PM
1

aight man, understandable. props
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:44 AM
1

No. But you up your chances of sex if you do it that way. from op: Definitely not worried about fucking her. She's an 8 and I can wait I never said tons from you earlier: Feed her alcohol afterwards usually when someone uses the phrase "feed her alcohol" they don't mean a glass of wine
/r/seduction04/09/12 06:34 PM
1

So it is impossible to physically escalate unless she is a) drunk and b) at your place? I didn't say anything about physical escalation, I asked why you were recommending throwing down tons of booze and moving it back to his/her place
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:00 PM
1

He's 18, so drinking (legally) might be out of the question if he is from the states (he mentioned a football game, so it sounds likely). Also if he is not worried about fucking her why are you recommending feeding booze and going back to either of their respective places.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:26 PM
7

I would caution against the high alcohol content part. If you do this, the girls are going to drink their normal amount and then be too wasted to even have an enjoyable sexual experience. If you really want to involve booze, get chocolate sauce, peppermint schnapps, and whipped cream. You can make really solid body shots with those. Put a line of chocolate sauce and some whipped cream on her or yourself and have the opposite sex lick the chocolate sauce, take a shot of peppermint schnapps, and t…
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:15 PM
1

I think some subtle stuff is some badass coffee table books. One of my favorites are the Dream Home book series. You can get one for the state you live in. Example here (Michigan)
/r/seduction31/08/12 01:57 PM
2

Did you by chance mean Labor Day? Or is she trying to make plans for next May
/r/seduction31/08/12 01:53 PM
2

That's what this entire subreddit is. Just read the sidebar and browse most of the posts in here
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:53 PM
1

22 As for the second question, it depends. Like squarehouse said here you have to make sure that you put work into developing yourself. When I was in college I was overweight and so had very little success with women besides some a couple years younger from back in my hometown. Now I am back in good shape, bought a house on a lake (which at 22 is pretty badass if I do say so myself) and have a legit job. I think it is because I took time in the earlier years (college) to work hard and get a good…
/r/seduction30/08/12 05:32 PM
2

Rules? If you want to be known as a gentleman then you are going to let the girl crash over and you want to be an accommodating host. If you want to be known as an asshat, kick her out afterwards
/r/seduction08/08/12 12:28 PM
1

I have found that Carnival caters more to the younger crowd (so your age range) while Royal Caribbean is more for the adult crowd. There should be plenty of people your age. One thing to keep in mind though, is because you are all on the same ship, hooking up with multiple chicks becomes slightly more risky because you WILL see them again.
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:18 PM
1

Yeah, it's funny how small the male section is compared to the whole store.
/r/seduction01/08/12 11:40 AM
3

Go to an actual store you would want to shop at, so you can try on the clothes. Like MolsonIce said, Ralph Lauren is nice. I also like J-Crew, Express, and similar places. You need to go to the actual store to try things on but once you know your size, just go to their respective websites to order. Also, the Ralph Lauren outlet (if there is one near you) is clutch. You can even get on their texting list to get sent discounts up to 20% off the outlet prices, which are already much cheaper than no…
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:15 PM
3

With the way you use the term "making the female laugh" I felt like I was watching a nature documentary "down at the river mouth, the bears catch only the tastiest and most tender salmon"
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:56 PM
1

I have gone on Royal Caribbean twice. Once it was cozumel, grand cayman, and one other island. Another time it was similar places, but i believe Haiti was one of the islands. Both 7 days. There were plenty of chicks
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:34 PM
1

I think it was good not buying that girl the shot. This would have just come across as weak. You took the high road and it made her even more attracted to you. Nice!
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:18 PM
8

To me it seems like Anna didn't like the fact that you smoke. Pretty easy take-away from that story
/r/seduction19/07/12 07:56 PM
6

he must have used this technique
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:33 PM
2

5 lies game?
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:32 PM
1

I'm pretty sure every person in the history of forever has played this game
/r/seduction12/07/12 03:41 PM
1

My one question. Why is she in her mid-30s and living at home with her parents?
/r/seduction19/04/12 01:01 PM
5

Yeah that was my first thought. Given that you were out at a bar. Anyway, good work man. Sounds like you had an awesome night
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:56 PM
1

What do you have lined up for food?
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:53 PM
10

Just a question. How did you handle the denied kiss. If anything were to be a mood breaker for me that would be it. It seems weird that she denied the kiss then right after finishing the drink she accepts an invitation to your place. Good work I guess
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:52 PM
4

to add a quote just put a '>' character before the line of text and then two returns after it (without the single quotes)
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:59 PM
1

You didn't kiss her when the time was right. Seems to be a simple to pick that up after reading the report. Everything was going good, you didn't kiss her, then it turned to shit. If you were talking about kissing then she stared you down that's basically an invitation
/r/seduction09/04/12 01:59 PM
2

Isn't that all of seddit?
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:06 PM
1

I am a bit confused as to how it ended because in the story you say We go into class and I'm glad it's over! but then later you say Ended on a high note! Have you heard from the girl since. Also her texts seem short and a bit friendly. Anything to add to them?
/r/seduction04/04/12 06:36 PM
2

I have also created one here so feel free to follow. I followed yours and borrowed your first post. I will come up with something tomorrow
/r/seduction29/03/12 06:24 PM
29

TIL Yellowcard is still making music
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:55 PM
1

I have definitely found that younger chicks are into the beard, maybe because most guys their age can't grow a good one. It depends on the kind of chicks you are looking for. I personally don't like one because I can't grow a good one. If you have the face for it and YOU want it then go for it.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:49 PM
3

Something Corporate, nice!
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:41 PM
2

Oh I think he definitely could have but I personally would focus on word choice a bit
/r/seduction16/03/12 05:37 PM
1

I am not sure this is great because then it makes you seem like a slob who doesn't give a shit about their place. As a guy who just bought a house I know I am going to not want to have a mess after doing tons of work to make it look nice
/r/seduction16/03/12 01:00 PM
6

If the answer is nickelback, walk away
/r/seduction16/03/12 12:56 PM
1

If she waits for you to take the subway together ask her if she would like to grab a coffee or a drink after work. Perfect if you both get off work around the same time
/r/seduction16/03/12 12:53 PM
0

Right, but this person stated that anyone walking by could see them. Props for getting it with an audience, I just find it really slutty on the part of the girl.
/r/seduction09/03/12 10:13 PM
9

Reformatted for ease of reading ME: meet me at the bar Her: im tired and im doing a crossword Me: crossword smossword come here her: psht i just finished 100% of the crossword thank you very much me: i just got 100% of this girls number here. You better quit bullshitting her: damn attitude much? me: you're missing the opportunity of a lifetime her:hmmm me:(after 15 minutes) if you're not going to be fun then its over between us. Sorry her: well i was going to come actually(thats what she said) b…
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:54 PM
7

She was giving you a blowjob at a restaurant?
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:45 PM
1

True. I really like the concise ones that just talk about what they did and how it went. Some of it is definitely bragging and I try to avoid that.
/r/seduction07/03/12 03:14 PM
1

Good info. Thanks. I'm sure it will be fun and she seems to be pretty excited for it.
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:53 PM
1

That definitely makes sense but when I read the posts people put on here I can't help but visualize some douchey guy who thinks he is the shit going out and trying to get with every girl he sees who is at least a "HB8"
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:52 PM
1

Damn, I just got told. Makes sense though. I will work on accepting the stuff brought up on this subr, but I think most people will admit that some of the personal aspect is drawn out when people use the seddit terms too much to describe everything they do
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:31 PM
1

I guess my main problem is that seduction turns things that should be natural actions into these pre-planned "moves" that are no longer personal but manufactured. That is what I am not into
/r/seduction07/03/12 01:59 PM
1

Great idea. Definitely will do this
/r/seduction06/03/12 04:18 PM
1

Yeah they are quality. Printed by the company I work for so the best part is I have tons of them for free. It is time to unleash them I guess
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:54 PM
1

Nice. Unfortunately it is my work card, so it does have my cell and my work number along with my email. Not much more though. Has it worked well for you?
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:25 PM
3

My only disagreement with what you say is that for some people holding hands on a first date is just abnormal. What if she is interested, but she just doesn't want to hold hands. I don't want to ruin a possibility by ending the date. I know the norm here on this subr would be to say that if she doesn't want to hold hands she's not interested but that simply isn't always the case
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:14 PM
1

This seems pretty simple. You are hosting the party so you already have an in. When they arrive greet them, shaking their hands and repeating your name in a "Hey I'm <insert name>, how's it going, welcome to the party, want me to show you where the bar/drinks is/are, etc."
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:08 PM
1

Give them your number, and have them text you theirs Question about that. I am 22, and I like to think I am doing pretty well for myself professionally. For this reason I carry around a few of my business cards because you never know who you might meet. Do you think it would ever be appropriate to give an impromptu one to a girl when I want to give her my number. Part of me thinks this would come off as a bit douchey, like "hey look at me I'm professional" but it also could be perceived as "hey …
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:50 PM
1

It's not the rejection, it's how to act after. Say I go to hold hands and she rejects it. No big deal she just isn't that interested. But the date still needs to go on. Do you just brush it off and continue on with the date?
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:42 PM
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You say she looks damn good. I have some tips for her but I would prefer to call her. What is her number?
/r/seduction29/02/12 08:48 PM
3

In your first paragraph you typed ex-gf but I think you meant ex-bf which is my main source of confusion for the story
/r/seduction29/02/12 08:21 PM
3

Story is a bit confusing at the start. Overall seems like an interesting but clearly valid setup for the girl you f-closed but it sounds like you were being a bit confrontational the fail night. Even from the way you retell it, I get this negative vibe about the whole night
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:02 PM
1

Ok, gotcha. As a guy who is moving out into a house near where my parents live, I will also probably be having a weekly dinner with the parents.
/r/seduction28/02/12 05:15 PM
2

Just gathering information from your texts... Do you live at home? I ask because you are making dinner with the family. If so that might make it hard to F-close
/r/seduction28/02/12 02:13 PM
1

Ugh! Get your mind out of the gutter! Why do girls always do this to me!? The main thing with shit-tests is, keep calm and carry on You just said two very different things. The first reaction there is not only acknowledging it but also giving her the bad impression that she is just next in a list of girls. The only acknowledgement it needs is "ok"
/r/seduction23/02/12 06:18 PM
2

just reading the title you posted I can tell you're an idiot FTFY
/r/seduction20/02/12 04:15 PM
1

Where did you read this?
/r/MensRights08/12/11 06:34 PM
6

Valid point. It doesn't say but I would assume 'rape of men' would include both. In this world though, you never know
/r/MensRights08/12/11 05:01 PM
9

From the article: The new definition approved by the advisory board, which met in Albuquerque on Tuesday, includes the rape of men
/r/MensRights08/12/11 04:49 PM
6

Being a part of your child's life should be worth dealing with a little bit of your ex
/r/MensRights30/11/11 08:28 PM
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