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3

Maybe type this into Google.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 04:26 PM
8

It’s a tip of iceberg situation most times. You truly can’t tell how much of what he’s watching. And at this stage he may not be willing to share honestly what and how much he’s watching/reading. Basically if he’s willing to consume any redpill media witbout being able to see how it harms society and people in real life, it’s already too late.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/26 09:06 PM
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Again, you’re gonna have to do this work yourself to actually get out of red pill. I don’t know what college courses you took, or what feminist theories you have read. Asking bad faith questions like these won’t help you. If you just googled the will to change you could see what it’s about.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/26 12:37 AM
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It’s hard to believe because this doesn’t happen and is a narrative that’s been sold to you. You pay in clicks and attention. For every minute you spend watching and reading red pill content you fill the pockets of the other men who film and write it.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 11:57 PM
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The fact you’re asking how feminist theory is going to help should be a sign itself. You’re gonna have to do a lot of inner work to actually step outside of redpill, and that includes being curious about the world and experiences of people outside of those who’ve benefited from patriarchy (red pill).
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 11:50 PM
17

First step is to stop visiting those sites. Block them, unsubscribe, treat it like the addiction that it is. Mark “uninterested” when your algorithm serves you a video that is bashing women or feminism. You’ll need to put in actual work to change your algorithms. Second step would be to start reading feminist theory. Start with something geared towards men like “the will to change” by bell hooks.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 11:45 PM
1

Absolutely not. Redpill doesn’t only apply to women who have done you wrong, it doesn’t apply at all.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 08:18 PM
1

Oof you’re still deep in red pill my guy.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 08:01 PM
3

This would be better in one of the relationship subreddits tbh
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:39 PM
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What does any of this have to do with leaving redpill logic?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:37 PM
4

What you call truth is actually spin.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 05:44 PM
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It’s not her comparing you to other men who may or may not have been in her past, it’s you. You’re comparing yourself to them. Maybe try acknowledging that and challenge where these thoughts truly come from.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 05:07 PM
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Leave him.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:01 AM
26

They can start by treating women as the individuals they actually meet and interact with instead of treating us all like a monolithic hive mind they have to either dominate or manipulate.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 05:50 PM
1

Start subscribing to content produced by women for women. I love r/askwomenover30 because that sub is filled with so many women who are ready to be real and and honest with you and your perception of the world. They don’t sugar coat, but they’re very supportive. Immediately block all redpill media including anything “trad wife” or “feminine divine” bs. It’s all repackaged gender roles disguised as spirituality.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 05:28 PM
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You’re going to need to see them as human before seeing them as women.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 07:03 PM
3

Someone is still stuck in red pill.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/26 04:07 PM
3

Please look up the term “social construct”. Because that’s what it is.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/26 10:34 PM
12

Red pill forces a “hierarchy” of men in order to be relevant. In order for red pill to exist it HAS to put down a good chunk of men as inherently less “valuable”. Which is why red pill isn’t actually for the benefit of men or women. It’s just another version of white supremacy and misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 08:54 PM
1

Because I don’t center my life around the approval of men.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 04:18 PM
9

Maybe learn to stop thinking the downfall of these events is “women who farm followers”. You can start there and get a lot further.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 11:38 PM
2

That’s purity culture. You’re still entrenched in the idea that someone’s worth is based on how many people they’ve slept with.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 05:05 PM
2

It’s because your viewpoint is based in purity culture.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 02:02 AM
1

At the end of the day men were designed to have more power than women and any other non-cis gendered men. It’s a siding scale sure, but women and children were always placed at its bottom.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 02:25 AM
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Because the entire system was made for men. It works for them so they assume it works for all.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 12:24 AM
7

It’s in the exact comment you just replied to.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 11:00 PM
5

Yes, I do. Red pill anything is devoid of it.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 04:04 PM
6

They’re laughable because a good chunk are from before 2000 and don’t take into account religious influence, errors and inconsistencies in self reported data and all of these papers are all measuring self reported PREFERNECES and not “is caring about the amount of people someone has slept with logical”. Someone can have a preference for logical fallacies, it doesn’t magically make that fallacy legitimate.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:34 PM
6

The methodologies of these studies are laughable and don’t have enough data to conclusively say that, in other words it’s an opinion. And in your case an obsession.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 09:43 PM
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I did read them, they’re not saying what you think they’re saying, and self reported data is filled with inconsistencies and unreported influences. You clearly cherry picked abstracts you think proves your point lol.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 02:02 PM
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“Expert consensus” lmfao
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 06:38 AM
6

You’re pretending these studies say something they don’t. Caring about body count is illogical because the only way to know a person’s character is to know them over time, not how many people they’ve slept with.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 06:10 AM
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Correlation is not causation. And your studies are all over the place and don’t conclude that “body count” is a predictor if a human is a good partner. This is exredpill my guy, you’re clearly holding onto illogical red pill beliefs. Gross
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 05:53 AM
5

You’re still going to get the same answers dude
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 03:05 AM
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The beauty standards your chasing were established by men who are attracted to underage girls. Remind yourself of that every time you feel the need to be perceived as “young”. You’re not meant to be compared to teenagers, you’re a woman and women are inherently shaped differently than children.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 03:03 AM
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I know.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 02:54 AM
2

You don’t need my permission to say what you want just like I don’t need permission to call out the fact you’re projecting your shame onto people who have sex outside of a committed relationship.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 02:50 AM
2

So you’re projecting your shame onto other people, that’s not the gotcha you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 02:35 AM
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Then your preference is based in your own shame and insecurities that aren’t logical.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:27 PM
9

So, you’re saying that instead of worrying about how many people a person has been with, you should instead get to know them as a whole entire human? Perfect, glad we can all agree that body count doesn’t matter and is not an indicator of someone’s values and character.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:21 PM
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I know someone who isn’t married and has a very healthy sex life with casual partners and they’re a well adjusted adult, now what?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:15 PM
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Having a high body count doesn’t mean someone automatically has an STD, the same way only sleeping with one person your whole life doesn’t mean you won’t ever contract one. The only way you can determine if someone has an STD is through testing. There are plenty of peopel who have casual responsible sex and even those who have contracted an STD in their life and have it treated and even cured. You have to build a fantasy in your head shaming a made up person for you to place your disgust as a 30…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:14 PM
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Caring about body count isn’t logical.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:14 PM
2

I mean, being self pitying is how you got here dude. That’s what red pill preys on.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 05:42 PM
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It comes to a point you need to stop yourself from giving any sort of “is this red pill belief truuuuueeee” any credibility in your mind. Because that’s what you’re doing and constantly getting told by hundreds (at this point) of men and women that red pill beliefs are dumb and not based in reality.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 05:36 PM
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My brother in reality you’re posting almost every day about your very red pill beliefs. I think it’s time to put the internet down and stop interacting with red pill anything.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 08:31 AM
2

Yeah that’s feminism, a better system that provides a peaceful model that focuses on the wellbeing of all humans regardless of gender.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:11 PM
2

What problem? Redpill being gone forever? Oh no
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 05:46 PM
2

L O L
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 04:23 PM
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So we’re just making shit up now huh?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:20 AM
5

Op has threatened suicide as an attempt to manipulate me to idk pity him?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:16 AM
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Your eyes are biased. It’s called confirmation bias, and you’re feeding into it because it soothes your ego faster than putting in the actual work of introspection to dismantle and challenge those beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:58 AM
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It’s called marketing. I would know, I’m a woman in marketing, I’m telling you from preference and plenty of lived experience and by this time in my life, dozens of friends who are women; the vast majority of healthy and well adjusted women don’t like redpill men.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:54 AM
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I absolutely and emphatically can and do deny every redpill statement.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:32 AM
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So you need to realize, yes it’s entirely possible you will never have a significant other. Just like it’s entirely possible you will have a significant other in the near or distant future. Which of those possibilities you want to water and build your life around is up to you. But acting like either you get a girlfriend or you punish everyone around you by spouting redpill bullshit are the only two options is incredibly lame and frankly childish. That’s what redpill is, childish narcissistic woe…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:29 AM
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But you haven’t. You’re still implying you not having a girlfriend means it’s the end of the world.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:19 AM
3

So you really think because of the way you look you need to believe red pill bullshit? Why can’t you just put work into your looks, personality and befriend people? You’re more likely to actually attract a person by showing up as a whole and compete person.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:06 AM
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In today’s economy most women work and bring in an income, yes.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 08:38 PM
11

Got it, in that case, why are you using those red pill terms to describe men? You’re normalizing red pill rhetoric by doing that. Breaking away from red pill logic is going to take introspection. It’s going to take you noticing your word choices, why you’re choosing to still use those terms, and why you believe them even if it’s just a little. Who put those words there? When did you start to choose those words to describe others? Why do you feel comfortable with them?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:01 AM
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Why do you use red pill labels when talking about yourself? This is you choosing to give into red pill.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/26 10:09 PM
4

Nah, I wasn’t looking for an open relationship with my partner. When first I met my boyfriend I was casually seeing other people at the time because I was single. But once he said he wanted to be exclusive and monogamous, it was super easy to turn down the other guys I was talking to. That’s what dating is, finding out what you want and what you don’t want. I found I wanted monogamy, and that means our boundary is cheating. The truth is you can’t control anyone, even your partner. It’s true that…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:50 PM
3

Tempted? No absolutely not, it’s just not worth the hassle. My boyfriend of 6 years and I have established a boundary that any cheating means the relationship is automatically over. Do I still find myself attracted to other men? Sure, eye candy is eye candy, but I’ve never found the urge to approach the men I find attractive. Especially if I can tell they’re younger. I just kind of mentally say “nice” and move on with my day/life.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:04 PM
3

As a woman in her early 30s with tons of other women friends also in their 30s and 40s, I can tell you I would rather saw off my right foot than date a 21-25 year old. And the same goes for the majority of my friends. The ones who would be open to seeing a young guy would most likely be doing it as a hook up. There’s just too much of a maturity difference.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 06:25 PM
1

Lol you can think you speak for all women but you don’t. You’re one woman who decides to treat people like crap. You’re not anything special, there are plenty of bad people just like you who are also male and enby. Boring, and predictably unpleasant to interact with. The beautiful thing about people is they heal, they move on. And the thing about narcissistic people like yourself is so do they, they move on to the next victim, but they leave eventually. Because the person they mentally abuse eve…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 06:53 PM
4

Okay and? The men you date have autonomy to realize they happened to have dated a narcissist, and that one person is not the spokesperson for an entire gender 🙄. From one woman to another, here’s the attention you ordered.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 06:14 PM
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Exactly, this wasn’t red pill or some other douche canoe on YouTube, this was all OP deciding he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend, but only changed his mind at the last second when he realized the consequences of his actions would be the end of his relationship.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 04:16 PM
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You’re equating making a first move to being a “leader” which is weird because a relationship is about partnership and not leadership. Making the first move is being the first to cast a bid for communication and a relationship of some kind, not to become someone’s leader.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 11:21 PM
6

Wow women enjoy when the person they are dating demonstrates their ability to initiate a date night and pays attention to their partner’s sexual preferences is not evidence of women wanted men to “lead” or whatever the fuck that means. It’s evidence that we like being treated as a person who is loved and desired by their partner.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 09:49 PM
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I have a higher body count than my boyfriend of 5 years and it has never once been an issue because I am such a stickler for safe sex. Slut shaming women is a sure sign of insecurity, and I have my own insecurities I battle privately. I don’t need another man’s forced onto me. Remember that slut shaming began as a tool to control and guilt women into submission. That is exactly what red pillars want, because in their mind if they can control her, she won’t leave. That is abuse straight up.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 04:41 PM
2

Why are you blaming feminists for the fact that your parents chose to have your circumcised? There are indeed many groups calling for the end of infant circumcision. Many feminists including myself believe that body modifications should be decided by the person themselves, not society.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 05:13 PM
3

Has a woman ever actually refused to sleep with you because of your circumcised penis? I am a woman myself and have never had an issue with a man if he was cut or uncut. Neither have any of my heterosexual girl friends.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 05:05 PM
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My point being potential partners can sense that you are after more than just a partner. You’re setting yourself up for a difficult time if you base your sense of worth on if you “can” attract a partner. You are worthy of love where you are right here right now, and not just when you are able to come off as “good looking” or “extroverted.” You’ll attract people when you embrace who you are because people will pick up on your authenticity.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 04:08 PM
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I think the question you need to ask yourself is “Are you seeking a life partner/companion or are you seeking validation?”
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 10:19 PM
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