wattandmusic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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26	Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮 I've always thought this whenever someone states that "they have needs". Maybe they're so coddled that they actually experience their desires as needs, who knows. But to be honest, I think this whole concept is macro scale gaslighting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 05:46 AM
14	Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮 Yeah, that's a weird one. The body does that whether you want it to or not. I'm guessing whomever made the illustration is constipated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 05:43 AM
27	Man admitting that women don't like sleeping with him and never orgasm from it 🙊 It's not his fault it's nature's design ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 01:06 PM
12	Imagining an independent me Arranged marriage is violating a lot of boundaries, even if it doesn't get further than the initial stages. People who have no business involve themselves in the deeply emotional and intimate relationship that you're trying to build with another person. For not to mention the transactional nature of the concept, which reduces both parties to buyer and product. When the violation of your boundaries is normalized, you might have to begin with getting to know yourself. Get to know your body, how it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 09:05 PM
15	Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all. Completely agree. Mandatory therapy for males would solve a lot of problems.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 06:43 PM
6	Scrotes be like "You're not attracted to me!?" Omg, I never thought about it that way. I'm gonna embroider this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 06:23 PM
10	Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all. Yay! You're welcome. :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 05:31 PM
7	SMELL MY COLOGNE BABY GIRL!.... And she dares call herself a feminist? It's default for gaslighted women to not be bothered by 'uncomfortable'	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 03:50 PM
4	Needing Advice. It's not your idea. You're an antenna and you're replaying the message "I want to be with a HVM" in your head, because it's been sent to you over and over again by the external world. Recognize this and you'll make room for your own ideas. When the urge arises and you remember that it's not yours, then you can avoid the following spiral and use the free mental space to focus on your own.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 03:28 PM
198	Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all. This is really good advice. I've done the opposite a few times and looking back it was codependent behavior. I had some kind of idea in my head that I couldn't be intimate with someone unless they knew about my trauma. Another thing is that if you don't talk about it, then they don't know/think about it. You can remove the trauma from your identity this way. It's a neat little lifehack.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 02:53 PM
3	How often do you Queens get approached? Never	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 11:36 PM
67	A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸 I was thinking the same thing. I imagine them on their date, and she's all phone out, documenting. What's even more disturbing is that the dude probably doesn't mind and might expect it. I have a younger sister who's of that generation, and she's all polished in SoMe and a wreck in person. To her the only point in applying basic hygiene is if someone is going to see it. It's a "if a tree falls in the forest, but nobody is there to hear the crash, did it even make a sound?"-kind of situation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 02:12 PM
82	I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have. prgamatic - ready to give up any standard for him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 03:08 PM
17	Do they really like women? They teach this in history class in uni also tho	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 05:06 PM
3	Wise words Link?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 09:33 AM
18	The trash took itself out. He has a pic with his wife on their WEDDING DAY on his profile. 🤮 Because men are statistically better off as married?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 03:11 PM
19	Successful YouTuber gets beaten up by husband for not thanking him in award speech, forgives him, retracts police report and returns her award. Unbelievable. Her face in the second picture says it all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 03:06 PM
4	Our Power Write a kitchy selfhelp book about FDS, and get it published with massive marketing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 02:30 AM
9	What about when your dad is a LVM? My mom isn't dead, but my dad consistently reacts the same way when i confront him with his behavior. He says i don't like him because my mom calls him by his name instead of just 'Daddy' (they've been separated for 10+ years.). If someone criticises him it must be because of some kind of conspiracy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 12:52 AM
20	You should never "NEED" a romantic partner, or allow yourself to be "NEEDED" by a romantic partner. "WANT" should be enough! Haha, I have similar experiences. They don't define love and admiration the same way as us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 10:12 PM