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Pics or it didn't happen. What does 4 inch inserts even look like?
/r/seduction05/09/22 09:34 PM
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It can't be done Jerry
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:33 PM
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You're right about everything which exactly the point of the flirting game. It's supposed to be difficult. If you see those birds in a nature video doing a weird dance, this is our version of that. And you can only figure it out by trying a lot and setting yourself up in situations where you can meet a lot of women.
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:58 AM
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Even that is a bit silly if they are already in your bed. Just have to make a move, scary as it may be
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:38 PM
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Not even then. Maybe if you are already surrounded by women for some reason
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:35 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1epZXnss_I
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:13 AM
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People are in this sub because their instincts are not correct
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:15 AM
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Ah lol men started it. When exactly? It brings up a good point though. All the behaviour is rooted in evolution. It makes no sense to look at men or women as some individual group and point out blame. We evolved together and this is the result. You can influence behaviour a bit and change culture slowly, but blaming half the population won't get you anything but resentment
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:38 PM
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How are the causes often from other men? What causes are you talking about? From where I'm standing, the causes are from wide complex societal issues that involve everyone.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:29 AM
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Do you live in a southern place like Brazil where all the guys are already trying to flirt all the time, or somewhere like Sweden where people are slightly less social?
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:33 PM
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Or for the burger example, you can not like your job but still accept that it is what you have to do right now to improve your life in the future. It's more realistic than pretending you love working at McDonald's
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:57 PM
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What changed?
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:55 AM
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Most people do focus on career instead of charisma though
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:47 AM
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Never caught anything says HappyHerpes lol
/r/seduction31/01/21 12:13 PM
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If she spends 6 hours in a car with you, she wants you to try again. Sometimes she rejects you first, but it's part of her game. Be friendly and fun and don't push for it too much, but you can try a second time. Most girls like it if you don't give up straight away. Note that I'm not saying you forcefully kiss her but just move your head towards hers slowly to kiss and see if she pulls back or proceeds.
/r/seduction01/01/21 03:15 AM
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I think this is it, everyone is trying to date upwards, with the top of the line being just a few people that everyone is super interested in
/r/seduction01/01/21 03:01 AM
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I'm not sure your texting is representative considering how you write this. Did any of the 200 talk about punctuation?
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:38 PM
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I remember all 4 times a girl approached me, and that's over 20 years
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:45 AM
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If you first stare at a girl for ages and then ask her name out of the blue, attractiveness is not the key problem. You can strike up a conversation, and after some chatting ask her name, and then see if she is sort of interested back. All without being creepy even if she doesn't find you attractive
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:53 AM
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I was also a 24 yo virgin at some point and felt the same, turning down any girls that would hit on me just out of some weird sort of embarrassment or fear. One key thing I think is realising that nobody is going to give you permission to go for a girl, nobody is going to push you. You have to make the choice to go for a girl and nobody else, it's not going to happen 'organically' if you have the mental state of fearing them and the interaction.
/r/seduction29/05/20 01:20 PM
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Sounds like she wanted a new fuck buddy but you made it all complicated and confusing and not fun.
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:03 AM
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"you are cute, I want to find out if you are not a bitch".. lol this is the worst. It's super negative
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:01 AM
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"They slept around with losers", what does that make you then?
/r/seduction16/04/19 07:33 AM
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It sounds like you're showing her too much interest in the sense that you're not on the same level as her, but looking up to her. But I hope I'm wrong and you get the girl!
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:01 PM
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Thanks for this post! I really needed to hear this today
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:51 PM
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In any case focusing on all the bad things is a quick path to rejection. People like positive people, even if their ideas might not be very realistic. Wet_walrus definition below is better
/r/seduction06/01/19 09:33 AM
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You need to learn social stuff and you need friends for that. You're parents are just plain wrong about this. If money is the issue, maybe go for a cheap college, or some other education but you definitely should not just stay at home and learn online. Do you want to live your entire life alone?
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:02 PM
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Better that than bang sadly
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:46 PM
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Just randomness of life. Your goal should be to increase the opportunities like this, not to overanalyze this single time. Then again I stay at home too much so I have no idea what I'm talking about
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:11 PM
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And then the next problem, you have a lot of matches but few conversations and a very rare date
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:46 AM
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She spends 5 minutes by his side and you're making a thread on how to destroy him? A normal confident person would just ignore this and be cool instead. Is it not obvious that your own mindset is all that is wrong here?
/r/seduction02/02/18 02:10 AM
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If you don't want to say you're a virgin, you can say you dated a bit but never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction01/02/18 01:13 PM
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If you're young just being a student is already enough. It's only when you're older that women also expect a decent job
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:41 PM
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Make sure you're not trying to keep the conversation short because you feel you might fuck up the chance you have. I notice myself doing that sometimes, when i should just be really relaxed
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:28 PM
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I guess just try to fix what you can fix. For example if it takes 8k to fix your teeth, then spend the 8k (or maybe go on holiday and get it done somewhere cheap, win win). You have to play with the cards you're given but maybe you can still improve your situation. Also if you are balding, then you should go ahead and shave it off completely. That always looks so much more assertive and attractive than someone who is slowly losing his hair
/r/seduction15/01/18 12:54 AM
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Since you're already friends, invite her over to cook together or watch a movie or something like that (just don't say Netflix and chill, you're a gentleman). Get some drinks, sit next to her on the couch. If she is into you, she will at least "accidentally" touch you with her body. Even your legs touching under the table while your eat is an indicator. If she doesn't increase distance she is trying to get more touchy and you know that she will be into kissing. Once you're kissing it will be cle…
/r/seduction14/01/18 08:57 AM
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This is really not good advice. By all means don't brag but if you find an opportunity for common ground you should take it. Try to have an interesting non obvious conversation subject, but dont avoid common ground so you can save it up to later. You will just end up not talking to her again. Maybe this depends on your personality but Im much more likely to not talk to a cute girl than to say something that sounds like bragging
/r/seduction24/11/17 12:57 PM
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What I'm missing here is... Have you tried approaching and dating and what happened?
/r/seduction05/05/17 01:25 PM
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I have exactly the same.. i think I've watched porn for too long as a teenager before I ever had sex. Now I use Viagra to fix it but it's still retarded that I need that in the first place. Not jerking off for a few days helps a lot too
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:03 AM
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Facebook? Do you message random girls on facebook?
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:57 AM
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I've noticed this working too. I do finally ask but initially I just start talking without any agenda of meeting up. It's much easier to have fun bullshit conversations when you are not thinking "maybe I can get her on a date tomorrow or the day after".. But the flake rate is still annoying, especially the girls that already have boyfriends and don't tell you until you ask.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:54 PM
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Shit, this is why i always fall for annoying erratic women
/r/seduction12/02/16 01:56 PM
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But don't you miss out on good opportunities then? I guess it depends how old the girls are too..
/r/seduction29/01/16 10:34 PM
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I think the majority of guys never hook up directly from meeting in a bar. This subreddit is part of the exception. So maybe it's not in your interest to find it fake when most just want to get your phone nr.
/r/seduction20/12/15 07:39 AM
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If you just start dating you can't assume exclusivity, we can't assume that from girls either. Or you can just be open about it but that's also hard for some people
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:18 PM
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You must have crazy good pictures. Still good advice though, I'm going to try the dtf approach:p
/r/seduction07/12/15 06:11 PM
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But according to your videos you live in LA.. I feel that might be a little bubble of sluttiness where different rules apply.
/r/seduction20/11/15 11:23 AM
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I'm amazed that you pushed yourself to do this. When i was 20 i was just telling myself to wait longer and postpone getting experience with girls.
/r/seduction30/10/15 02:14 PM
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I agree with you... but tinder you can do by yourself. Going to bars without friends requires a whole lot more self motivation
/r/seduction27/09/15 07:07 PM
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Exactly. I'm sure just growing works fine for the majority, but my life would have definitely been better if I had start to learn this shit earlier. Some simple things like a person telling you that taking risk is attractive and that you shouldn't ask out a girl over email.
/r/seduction30/07/15 03:06 PM
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I am very good looking but have a shit personality. And i fail at getting girls so it's definitely not just rule 1 and 2.
/r/seduction15/05/15 07:51 PM
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Ahh, I did not read well.. Anyway, maybe they need more reference. Have them meet up with your friends so they can see you in a social context? Just guessing here
/r/seduction04/05/15 04:56 PM
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You really just have to learn korean is my guess. I'm having the same problem in China
/r/seduction04/05/15 04:03 PM
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If you're a bit older and go for 19 year olds you have a bigger chance of finding gold diggers who just want someone to pay for their shit, at least in my limited experience
/r/seduction21/03/15 10:55 AM
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More likely no problem yeah, but even if less then 1%, that is enough reason to protect yourself against some nasty uncurable std. There are some gonnorea (forgot how to spell it) strains out there that are antibiotic resistant, so its not just HIV and herpes
/r/seduction21/03/15 10:40 AM
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Clearly you have made plenty of progress without seddit, so it's logical to arrive at this conclusion. If you are, like many (and me once), a virgin twentysomething without any clues or confidence of what to do, then a bunch of rules and theories is actually extremely useful. Even if it doesn't work, the theory gives you a little bit more confidence that you might be doing something right. The "stop making excuses and just do it" part is the hardest for many.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:24 PM
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Agree with the validation argument. It's also why there's a lot of girls with boyfriends on there. I have >100 matches now, but my problem is just weeding out the girls who want to meet from those who just want validation. It's really hard to read them from just some pictures in any case. I maybe meet up with 1/10 girls I have chatted with, and it takes way too much time and energy..
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:22 PM
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I once said I would give my life a 4/10 and people looked at me weird for months. Honesty is only nice when you feel good.
/r/seduction07/02/14 09:20 PM
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I have a feeling you are quite a minority though..
/r/seduction15/09/13 12:20 PM
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Its a completely different situation when you're 16. You're forgetting the 10 years of building up stress about it.
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:09 AM
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Usually this example of risk aversion is presented with a much lower number than 500$, where economics tells you to take the bet but most people still choose the risk averse option. Now the that the math tells you to do otherwise the whole point is lost.
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:06 AM
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Not quite. And there are also fish taco's, but you don't want those..
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:50 PM
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Even if that would happen, you're only going to know if that's true if you try it. If you're anything like me, you are trying to predict lots of things that you simply don't know so you can avoid taking the risk. Source: I first kissed a girl when I was 24, and used to do exactly that.
/r/seduction13/08/13 09:28 PM
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In my experience, people dont really talk a lot at yoga though, its not one of those things were you have a beer afterwards.
/r/seduction11/08/13 01:07 PM
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